How to START a RELATIONSHIP the Right Way: Jay Shetty and Wife Radhi Devlukia Share Their ADVICE 😍❤️

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    🎁 www.amazon.com... In this video, Jay Shetty and his wife Radhi Devlukia talk about the key to starting a relationship off well. They discuss how dating environments can create a pressure to be someone you're not, and how getting to know someone in a natural setting can lead to a better understanding of who they really are. They also share their personal experience of starting their relationship when Jay had nothing, and how their families were supportive of their choices. Whether you're starting a new relationship or looking to strengthen an existing one, this video offers valuable insights and practical tips.
    #relationshipadvice #datingtips #startingarelationship #jayshetty #radhidevlukia

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  • @monacaltabiano936
    @monacaltabiano936 Рік тому +4

    They are so respectful of each other; when one speaks, the other fully listens, and vica versa.
    There's just such a natural, authentic flow between them.

  • @MissCupcakeslover
    @MissCupcakeslover Рік тому +19

    I am taken aback by her immense beauty!! Wow, by far one of the most beautiful women I have ever seen!!

  • @2ndChanceAtLife
    @2ndChanceAtLife Рік тому +6

    This is the BEST idea EVER!
    Real people becoming acquainted the old fashioned way.

  • @jvdh1887
    @jvdh1887 Рік тому +8

    Its the quality of the thought that counts👌

  • @Arlene-p7g
    @Arlene-p7g 7 місяців тому

    ❤thank you to Jay Shetty and your beautiful wife, mrs Devlukia Shetty for you are sharing facts, im learning. because facts help me to see, what is it...i hv reference how to face important matters in my life here under the sun❤
    i love ms DevLukia, her natural being little fun🤓

  • @amjadsiddique
    @amjadsiddique Рік тому +1

    Thank you!

  • @Maria.SweetRose
    @Maria.SweetRose Рік тому +1

    lol I can relate 4:35 😂 but she has a beautiful heart ❤️ you can tell 💗💗

  • @AnnaONova
    @AnnaONova Рік тому +3

    I love your love. 🌺🕊️

  • @ArAbramov
    @ArAbramov Рік тому +4

    He loves is base on touch and she is not …that is funny 9:19

  • @debnandinimukherjee
    @debnandinimukherjee Рік тому +2

    Why is an interview so bad? You would interview a person for a job..but not a person who will have access to you and your mind and body? The whole point of an interview is to be able debunk lies and fake charm. If ur scared of an interview style date, you clearly have stuff to hide. They are saying things that sound sweet and smart, but is just ill thought out and toxic.

  • @trainermike2987
    @trainermike2987 Рік тому +7

    JAY talks way too much.

  • @kkaterina12
    @kkaterina12 Рік тому +223

    She is listening in the most beautiful way...

    • @Anonymous-gt1eq
      @Anonymous-gt1eq Рік тому +3

      Him towards her as well

    • @hannarose313
      @hannarose313 Рік тому +1

      This whole video is beautiful …sharing the happiness and how they achieved this together.

  • @jibarabicha4853
    @jibarabicha4853 Рік тому +99

    From a gender role perspective, I love that while his wife took a chance on him when he had nothing and saw his potential; he had the heart and drive to actually grow and deliver on that so they could have a life balanced relationship together. So many times a woman takes a risk and jumps into these kinds of relationships for the potential and then they are left carrying the financial burdens once the partner blindsides them with their conformity.

    • @thesoulfulexpat
      @thesoulfulexpat Рік тому +4

      Love the clarification!! (in total agreement)

  • @Yllah
    @Yllah Рік тому +24

    I thought they’d say “oh we chose each other cause we got the same eye color” 🤭🤣❤️

  • @Tyrianp3
    @Tyrianp3 Рік тому +11

    They look like siblings.

  • @philipcallado5693
    @philipcallado5693 Рік тому +52

    This is why I haven’t been on dating apps. It is like a job interview; their profile is like their résumé, and they can make it look good. I’d rather meet someone while I’m just out living my life. I met someone great recently, and it was just when I was hanging out with my family; she’s a friend of my sisters’, and I got to see right away how she interacted in a casual setting.

    • @RAMIC-tv1ye
      @RAMIC-tv1ye Рік тому +2

      Lucky you

    • @philipcallado5693
      @philipcallado5693 Рік тому +2

      @@RAMIC-tv1ye I was lucky. To be honest when I met her she was looking pretty glamorous, and I assumed she’d be snobby, but she’s actually pretty down to earth. We’re taking things slow for now because we both just got out of some dating drama, but so far it’s been cool getting to know her better.

  • @bvu1887
    @bvu1887 Рік тому +112

    two wonderful people, raised by good people. Thank you to both set of parents to give us these two!

  • @marcianascimento5645
    @marcianascimento5645 Рік тому +70

    I love the idea to knowing each other in other environments and not thinking about dates.

  • @hannahisrael7577
    @hannahisrael7577 Рік тому +11

    Y’all look like siblings

  • @sandrav.7598
    @sandrav.7598 Рік тому +80

    Absolutely love this conversation! I'm in quite a "fresh" relationship and we still figure things out everyday and I think sometimes it is really hard if you don't have the mindest that both of you have when it comes to understand and value each other!
    So thanks for sharing❤️

  • @MakedaMix
    @MakedaMix Рік тому +45

    We hear so much about what is wrong. It's so wonderful to see something that's right. Love is good. Shalom

  • @asalane20
    @asalane20 Рік тому +10

    They look like siblings. It’s always interesting when people are attracted to those that physically resemble them.

  • @jesussavesyeshedoes
    @jesussavesyeshedoes Рік тому +60

    Jay please stay mindful and do not allow social media to change your ego. Your genuineness is what sets you apart.

  • @Arlene_witha_y
    @Arlene_witha_y Рік тому +25

    Those of us who had “dads” who abandoned us are screwed. I don’t think I’ll ever find “my person”… somehow it always gets messed up.

    • @ArtByDianaToma
      @ArtByDianaToma Рік тому +6

      No, don’t tell yourself such story. The things that you struggled with are also the things that will make you clearer on what you want to create and give you access to a truly great relationship. Think about it, for example an alcoholic gets to change his life because of a sponsor who was also an alcoholic at some point, and not by someone with easy life and no problems.

  • @jumpinjacqui
    @jumpinjacqui Рік тому +7

    Radhi is so perfectly pretty...

  • @deepikar5862
    @deepikar5862 Рік тому +20

    It's extremely hard to find someone who discuss things and value conversation we just all hide ! That's the problem

  • @Kavin-zk2ov
    @Kavin-zk2ov Рік тому +51

    Bro i literally love the positivity in your words, how do you really get the hope to stay positive and motivate people all the time? Sheesh

  • @argh6666
    @argh6666 Рік тому +5

    These two look like brother and sister, too much look alike 😢

  • @Anonymous-gt1eq
    @Anonymous-gt1eq Рік тому +3

    They both have such beautiful eyes...lighter colour

  • @MP-fk9em
    @MP-fk9em Рік тому +52

    What a beautiful couple!! I appreciate the respect that they show each other by truly listening and allowing each other to speak without interrupting 🙏❤️

  • @soonsims
    @soonsims Рік тому +3

    wow that's the first time I see his wife. They look like siblings 😱

  • @sonalijootun1712
    @sonalijootun1712 Рік тому +6

    All the abused family dysfunctional houses with traumas looking like👀

  • @shineyourlightlove
    @shineyourlightlove Рік тому +23

    Such a beautiful couple. The love and honor just oozes from them ❤

  • @OlgaSuner-dx7fq
    @OlgaSuner-dx7fq Рік тому +39

    There is nothing wrong with no PDA in our country it is sign of modesty. It bothers me when people from western countries automatically assume “ is everything is alright”. And start diagnosing and making assumptions based on their experience. Instead of assuming what will help learning about other cultures and how females act in public instead of putting labels based on projections.

  • @Yolandi222
    @Yolandi222 Рік тому +25

    It’s not the only way though- you can meet in any way, if it is compatible and the right time then it works out. I met the love of my life on a dating app. We lived more than 10 years in the same city and our paths would never have naturally crossed any yet it is a miraculous relationship and we both are so full of gratitude every day for having met

  • @tammy6452
    @tammy6452 Рік тому +7

    It sounds like they really admire the character of each other. This is so good to see.

  • @tiasha6098
    @tiasha6098 Рік тому +5

    What a genuine couple. And wow, she's gorgeous😮

  • @සිංහයෝ-ස2ර
    @සිංහයෝ-ස2ර Рік тому +13

    Mr jay still nervous around her 😂

  • @Lisette76
    @Lisette76 Рік тому +7

    Whaou they look like brother and sisters soooo similar 😮

  • @creatureofstyle
    @creatureofstyle Рік тому +11

    So funny, when I had my business I totally would have hired you if I saw "monk" listed on your resume 😁

  • @TheSunshinefee
    @TheSunshinefee Рік тому +12

    isn't this how relationships often starts? you get to know somebody through work, study, events, family, friends. only lately has online been diverting from this.

  • @arshitahir4258
    @arshitahir4258 Рік тому +12

    How come you both look so similar?

  • @PlushPenguinPal
    @PlushPenguinPal Рік тому +5

    She is so beautiful. Really good looking and sweet couple. I'm happy for both of you.

  • @Moiselle555
    @Moiselle555 Рік тому +7

    Hey, that's what my mom would always tell me to eat five almonds a day for good memory

  • @serenaroseauthentics1391
    @serenaroseauthentics1391 Рік тому +6

    Why does she keep switching to “he”, speaking about him like he’s not in the room?

  • @dhanrajmohan701
    @dhanrajmohan701 Рік тому +8

    Public comment. God bless both of you. I am happy and proud of both of you. Appreciate l life. Great message to humanity.

  • @chinnaboyinalokeswari8824
    @chinnaboyinalokeswari8824 Рік тому +4

    You are made for each other, respecting each other is amazing,be happy ❤

  • @vivavidadela
    @vivavidadela Рік тому +6

    I will not go to dinner dates in a Restaurant in the beginning. I’m not going to interviews. I refuse!

  • @aanandee3306
    @aanandee3306 Рік тому +5

    U asked her question and u r only answering most of it..😅

  • @mariamtamba5002
    @mariamtamba5002 Рік тому +16

    Wow am mesmerised😊❤what an understanding an wonderful couple u both are❤

  • @siyandarethabilesikhosana2511
    @siyandarethabilesikhosana2511 Рік тому +2

    So they both have green eyes 💚💚

  • @willco5431
    @willco5431 Рік тому +2

    Why can’t I find people like this lol

  • @kaiavera2800
    @kaiavera2800 Рік тому +8

    This is so heartfelt, a conversation I needed to hear in a long time. Helps me resonate with what I would like in my life too :)

  • @misskc946
    @misskc946 Рік тому +7

    Yall are both beautiful ❤

  • @conversationswithboluwatife
    @conversationswithboluwatife Рік тому +22

    The respect you two have for each other is just amazing, and I just love listening to the both of you talk thank you so much for sharing with us ♥️♥️♥️♥️ God bless you ♾️

  • @jvdh1887
    @jvdh1887 Рік тому +6

    So beautiful! Powerful and easy conversation and lifetime gems!
    Thank u

  • @sumidas4069
    @sumidas4069 Рік тому +5

    It's amazing how just a normal conversation between you two can put a smile on our face☺️

  • @lostmonkky950
    @lostmonkky950 Рік тому +4

    Wow, you both have such beautiful eyes! 😍

  • @thedealer799
    @thedealer799 Рік тому +2

    Is she lying or is she really like that. Dude I had no idea there were women like that out there. I've never felt unconditional love from a Woman other then my mother or grandmother.

  • @jennifertudda2801
    @jennifertudda2801 Рік тому +3

    Love you guys and great video! 🥰However, be careful about the "seeing how they treat other people" my ex husband in the beginning treated others so well and was very charismatic at first. It was until we were finally officially together that I saw another side of him as he was a narcissist and therefore was not treating others well. So I agree its important to see how they treat others but if they change pay attention to all the red flags that a narcissist may have (especially if you have never experienced dating one!). From here on out I will pay attention to all signs that may point to narcissistic traits when dating again. For now I'm in what I call "recovery" from the narcissistic abuse I encountered unfortunately. I may even write a book about it to help others.🙃

  • @VienaGalo
    @VienaGalo Рік тому +4

    No relationships. Do rotational Dating until you find the right Partner to marry

  • @mentalishumantoo1719
    @mentalishumantoo1719 Рік тому +2

    Wow...they are both very good looking people 😊.❤❤❤

  • @Klover_pearl
    @Klover_pearl Рік тому +4

    You are really a good communicator thinking that you were once a monk. That was like a God give gift.

  • @barbaraschultz1442
    @barbaraschultz1442 Рік тому +3

    When young love starts out, one takes a career lead to bring in income and start the building and accumulating stage. The other usually ends up with a lesser job and more domestic duties at home. Then kids come…. Division of labor??

  • @GlassellPark
    @GlassellPark Рік тому +1

    15 pounds an hour or something

  • @lolaontherox2663
    @lolaontherox2663 Рік тому +3

    Unfortunately that didn’t work in my last relationship. I liked them better around other people than solo

  • @sarahs4408
    @sarahs4408 Рік тому +3

    I cannot agree with the first comment. I have met somebody in a social context and while they where totally lovable and likable around other people they behaved extremely poorly towards me

  • @BeccaL2016
    @BeccaL2016 Рік тому +3

    I think you guys should start having children. I sense your wife Radhi is not truly happy …it’s hard to be a wife like such, I don’t think personally myself can handle it, cause I need tons of attentions from the guy I love 😅 ❤

  • @pierro91bis
    @pierro91bis Рік тому +3

    Their eyes tho 😳😳

  • @darlenesaldana6665
    @darlenesaldana6665 Рік тому +17

    I love the individual priorities dialogue while still remaining connected. 🙏🙏 And I appreciate the discussion about quality time.

  • @kinndah2519
    @kinndah2519 Рік тому +3

    Her face is so perfectly half beauty half cutie pie! His her hair is pretty too🎀😍

  • @Matluba0625
    @Matluba0625 Рік тому +1

    You to look like each other 😊❤

  • @Pinpilinlique
    @Pinpilinlique Рік тому +2

    You really inspire me ❤️ you’re good people and beautiful souls. Thank you.

  • @conversationswithboluwatife
    @conversationswithboluwatife Рік тому +6

    I don't need it to be your priority, I just need you to understand it to be my priority... arghhhhhhhh can someone tell me why I'm crying 🥺🤍🤍🤍♾️

  • @axentelivia
    @axentelivia Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤ two beautiful people… inside and out (I really think she is one of the most beautiful women I’ve ever seen!… just my opinion.)

  • @jynong
    @jynong Рік тому +4

    Thanks for sharing. You are meant to be one. It’s abundantly obvious. ❤

  • @QualquerCoisa387
    @QualquerCoisa387 Рік тому +3

    On point! I also really hate blind dates. I feel myself in the same position of being interviewed. I always say to my friends that I am not my best seller at blind dates. LOL....❤

  • @sarahbain8196
    @sarahbain8196 Рік тому +1

    Tutoring for £15 ph isn't nothing! P/time or full time...
    That's an above average wage in some peoples lives!

  • @Ribbitplease
    @Ribbitplease Рік тому +1

    Hello everyone

  • @auroramothergoddess
    @auroramothergoddess Рік тому +2

    How exactly is that possible ?the only people we see everyday are people we work with

  • @indiangirl.uk.8420
    @indiangirl.uk.8420 Рік тому +3

    You guys are so cute inside and out!!! You guys are gorgeous 😍😍

  • @vinushan24
    @vinushan24 Рік тому +1

    I can feel the peace while watching this conversation. Thank you both.

  • @lotushealing3799
    @lotushealing3799 Рік тому +4

    How old were the BOTH of you when you both started dating ?

    • @spacebar9733
      @spacebar9733 Рік тому

      I’m pretty sure they have the same birthday if i remember correctly

  • @YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he
    @YuliaGrushevskaya-bi6he Рік тому

    I don't feel Good in my family I prefer to stay away from them😊. I feel better on my own. I believe also be yourself😊 we love people not for their possessions or money

  • @sa2742
    @sa2742 Рік тому +1

    Thank you Jay!

  • @sushmachouhan7723
    @sushmachouhan7723 Рік тому +2

    Plz , plz invite BK Shivani didi from Rajyoga centre , India. You will enjoy listening to her deep knowledge about spirituality, Dharma, universe . Shivani Didi ‘s voice is so sweet and soothing. Make you understand everything in a simple manner.

  • @ninahadia1219
    @ninahadia1219 Рік тому +3

    I love this ❤you guys are clearly for each other . I wish you nothing but happiness and joy …ps big fan of your show 😊

  • @darina2885
    @darina2885 Рік тому +1

  • @marilyn6712
    @marilyn6712 Рік тому +5

    You two are so cute ❤

  • @deloresgrey2260
    @deloresgrey2260 Рік тому +3

    I truly respect and admire the man I care for Ministry. He also has a strong desire to make a meaningful impact on humanity and he has. I can't wait to see what else he will do either together or from afar. He's truly inspiring when we text.

  • @nainau6204
    @nainau6204 Рік тому +1

    Love is destiny and fate rest of logic is for tragic analysis. Did you do something special to get love ? What was your contribution to be born ?

  • @im.m
    @im.m Рік тому +2

    loved watching this, so insightful!

  • @Darlene-xv8wo
    @Darlene-xv8wo 10 місяців тому

    They are such a beautiful and genuine couple

  • @trevsedgwick3324
    @trevsedgwick3324 Рік тому +5

    None of this will work with a Borderline 😂😂😂😂

  • @sarahk2622
    @sarahk2622 Рік тому +1

    JAY PLEASEEEE READ THIS……No idea why there is two hate comments! There must be ZEROOOOOOO hate or negative comments! Jay you have absolutely changed a lot in me by listening to your podcast and reading your book…and helped me grow the best way possible in my relationships (including ones that are romantic, friendship , even family and work) and breakups. I have even used the lessons from your book during my pharmacy interview because I needed to show who I am as a person and your book helped me unravel these questions about myself. Sooooo much loveeee to you and Radhi ❤️❤️❤️she’s gorgeous and love listening to her as well and her hair tips lol❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @ashutoshgupta8059
    @ashutoshgupta8059 Рік тому +1

    Hehehe yeah that's right, fear was where I fall rest wanna know more. 😁😃

  • @rameesachancho693
    @rameesachancho693 Рік тому +1

    I was your fan since few years
    But now iam your wife's fan😄
    Sorry😀🥰

  • @annal4096
    @annal4096 Рік тому +2

    True, I assumed she was speaking of someone different lol

  • @rainbow9987
    @rainbow9987 Рік тому +2

    Yeah but it’s hard when you’re doing online dating. That’s what you do in online dating, go to the movies, restaurants, go out and text, phone calls. A person who dates someone from work or school is different.

  • @Hjaaaaaaay
    @Hjaaaaaaay Рік тому +2

    Love this video !! Such a beautiful couple 🫶🏻