How to get a girl to take you seriously
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Your first objective can not be to make a girl like you. Be your best self, and you will attract attention
Quit looking at the outside appearance and start looking at the inside of the girl. Her character. Her personality. Her work ethic. How she treats others. And her family. Is she close to GOD
Exactly! I keep hearing men complain about being rejected by women they meet at coffee shops or the gym. But besides looks, what do they know about that person that would warrant a possible connection? This doesn't mean a person couldn't create a bond with someone they met at a cafe or the gym, but it helps to discover a few things about the other person first before asking them out simply because you think they're good-looking.
True.but it takes two to tango. We live in a superficial society.
I never knew Rabbi Jacobsen was into giving dating advice until now.
Best marry family friends.
Take............It OUT !
Every message is on time these past few messages. We must be careful. There ARE some people that prefer toxic relationships. My best guy friend feels completely safe but prefers toxic women..
If a man starts singing Le Mis to me, my heart may explode because that is simultaneously sweet and derpy at the same time. If a man starts talking nerdy about all his conquests in Magic the Gathering, then I listen with interest because he's passionate about something. If a man tells me how much he loves his cats and shows me the pictures of his babies. That really warms my heart. It's not that hard. Being genuine is a great start to human interaction.
I suggest, Rabbi, take a deeper look at modern dating culture and feminism. When you say would have been great advice 25 years ago. And I'm not saying it's wrong, and I'm not saying is not still good advice, but it's only half the deal today.
There are loads of great guys that are being put in the friend zone today. They would not have been there in years gone by. Maybe in the days when you were dating. It's a different world today. There is a toxicity about modern women. The way modern western women think would be like me deciding to only date supermodels and they "won't settle!". Something along those lines.
I presume you have been married for many years. It's hard for someone in your position to understand this because you are not living it out, a single person in today's dating culture. Many married pastors would say this sort of thing but they are in good marriages and just live in a different world.
I ended up in a relationship with a Filipino lady after years of frustration. I did everything, did a whole lifestyle makeover, all the things you suggest here. It helped but it was not enough. They wanted "more elite" kinds of men. Today I am happy and I know there is nothing wrong with me.
Be yourself and don’t be afraid to say hello. Women don’t bite-unless you’re in the Western Hemisphere, where a friendly nibble might be as common as a kugel at a Shabbat dinner!
Referring youtube videos from AL Fadi , Jay Smith ( born in India) and David Wood. They explain in detail about Islam and why it is dangerous. Also explains how it was created. P S : Christianity is Jewish.
The answer I would say, is telepathy, always has been. Humans are oscillators, sympathetic magic and related phenomena are the unseen architect, the hidden mover, the substrate which scripts reality. A lot of what happens depends on the organization of the unconscious mind and inner landscape. Other people often just play out what you expect from them, it's really very strange in a way. A lot of the time someone says this or that, or does this or that, and I want to tell them "you do know you didn't choose anything right? I chose for you, you followed the script." That kind of responsibility will begin to drive you to despair, they won't and can't do anything on their own. But that this narrow "band" of states can exist tells you something about what's going on. Any other advice or explanation is an indirection of this base reality, ie trying to cram it through a narrow lens of materialism. Mind you, even with "telepathy" (used deliberately to trigger the reader, again, they don't choose what they feel or do, I do) you can certainly invoke materialism here. Maybe it's due to the field created by your beating heart, circulatory system, autonomic nervous system, and respiration. Which is entraining someone else. Maybe it's ELF transduction due to the EEG. Maybe it's infrasound, pulsed UV from capillary action and microorganisms living on the skin surface, maybe it's chemical signalling, something like pheromones. It really doesn't matter, the state of your mind drives events. People wanting to put it all up to apophenia, pareidolia, confirmation bias, perceptual filtering, subtle body language or a bias in small choices that accumulates to different outcomes, and so on, are also ironically pretty deep into irrational magical thinking themselves. That's handwaving the whole thing away and chalking it up to a borderline magic black box association engine known as the unconscious mind, which is then of course considered to be located strictly in the brain, when it clearly is not.
All you gotta do is ask yourself, what separates the wallflower everyone ignores, the wallflower everyone avoids, and the wallflower that tries to be invisible but is inevitably pulled into the group no matter what their conscious says it wants. They all look pretty much the same, yet the result differs. You can "feel" it, there's an invisible mediator, an unconscious interface, and this drives outcomes and moves things together or apart.
Makes life kind of disappointing in a way, I think that's why people avoid it. They really like games, the metagame of it, the story that unfolds and theu atuobiographical conception of themselves within it, the challenge of approaching fear and desire through the material world. In reality the material is closer to a shadow. Our lives are run on hardwired biological scripts, when our soul is put inside a prism and dropped into the chmaber of guf or whatever goes on.
That's my personal take. Take it for what you will.
Lowly hookups and trapping is a thing of the past. It's irresponsible, selfish, and cruel to bring children into the world to only suffer, rot, and die a miserable death. The new, evolved human is single, free, and independent.
Independence is not love. Codependence is not love.
Interdependence is love.
You shouldn't *need* someone.
You should be fine without someone.
You should *want* them, and want to work with them to build a future together that encompasses both of your dreams and hopes.
@@beaujackson445 Doesn't work that way. If you're trapped with someone, your full and complete life will always be compromised.
You are always dependent upon others. Independence is choosing who you are dependent upon. Love is needing to be dependent upon another. Love is needed. So the true manifestation of independence is to love another for who they are.
@@Isaac14548 I count on no one. This is the new super human.
I do everything myself or it doesn't get done ... I just manage without it. I would never have a toxic, poisonous person in my life.