The biggest disrespect is when you tell a woman about something private or personal, and she later brings it up during an argument or conversation. Never do that.
The low quality ones do this. Never trust them if you choose to deal with them after. Giving them information is like signing a blank check for your destruction. Be cautious.
I saw that same statement somewhere and it stuck. A man will sacrifice his happiness for his family, a woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness.”
Can’t tell you how many women purposefully ruined relationships with good men because they were considered “boring” but the opposite of boring is toxic and drama filled. Like idk man it’s weird
I know and you're absolutely correct. On the flip side, the women who are not like this and will appreciate a good and wonderful man can't catch a break because some men want the look of that toxic woman and expect her to be traditional in values.
One man (or woman's) trash is another treasure. You stop valuing the person you got, somebody else will scoop them up...or campaign for their attention.
@timothyrobinson3938 True, I have agency over myself but not others... when i say we are in this mess... is because i have to live with other ppl in this world by proxy... that might be weaker at overcoming their circumstance... if the previous generation created a bunch of drug addicts, just because i personally don't do drugs dont mean i don't have to worry about crackheads breaking into my car
That is true. You don't take anyone for granted. As the saying goes. You won't miss the well until the water runs dry. She is right. When someone is done with you they are done and there is nothing you can do about it.
She is right. Also this once you get a good man or woman and you don't treat them right. Nine times out of ten you won't get another one like him or her. Be careful how you entertain people because that person could be an angel unaware.
That is because they'll listen to sprinkle sprinkle, Cheesecake Factory girl, shake shack girl, the Kardashians, Nikki Minaj. Cardi B, Eboni Williams, Diamond the body....you get the gist
Speak Auntie Speak! I'm been a GOOD MAN for over 60+ years and widower! And now I'm a Retired Passport Bros. and able to ZOOM Worldwide and able to court women of ALL AGE! Amen-ASE!
Remember the Dave Chappelle Show sketch when he told a woman who dissed him back in the day to meet him at the airport and just leave and forget all about her husband and kids/family? That's women a lot of the times, and that's what the guy meant when he said "women will sacrifice their family for their happiness". Yes good men and good women are hard to find and you shouldn't mess them over because they deserve better just by them being good people in this bad world. ✌🏽
Sista, preaching that truth! "I can promise you; If you ever lose his heart, you in trouble; because you will never get back in his heart again! Huh?" No truer words have been spoken, especially concerning a mature man walking in his purpose. Great presentation!
I do agree that women value happiness and will walk away swiftly if she’s not happy. At the same time, I believe men stay or tolerate more to avoid the family court system.
That’s incorrect.. we don’t stay and tolerate more to avoid the court system.. we stay and tolerate more because we understand the purpose and value of our families and the family structure. We understand and recognize that our children’s well being is way more important than our emotions and being in our ‘feelings’, and we don’t run from our responsibilities.
I will never date a single mom and not everyone a keyboard warrior , as a man who is fit and 6 feet why would I date a single mom no matter how she looks the kid is a deal breaker!
What ppl say online its pretty much the exact reflection of real life especially what men say... i highly doubt a man will be opposed to dating a single mom online on a serious note and then be really considering one offline...
Each their Own ..every one has a finger print on their own relationship.. everyone SHOULD have their own understanding and order in their home...And to tell someone what to do and what not to do...isn't yours to teach until you get a understanding of someone else's relationship with a certain type of individual.,I no longer get in anyone's business in their home .. and behind the privacy of their home.. unless they personally came to me...🙏🏿🌹 God's Best
Wow Uncle this is a really really good show you had today and it's something that needs to be heard. You're right A lot of these guys been lying you know they're saying one thing and doing another but man I really like the show particularly man I'm I think I'm going to go ahead and get a membership with the African diaspora I don't agree with everything you say but that's okay because the thing is you say a lot of great things not appreciate that.
Uh yeah. Not only did he say that but Ray Charles, Roland Kirk and Stevie Wonder can all see 👀 that. Men are raised knowing this women are the ones who are raised thinking their 💩 don't stink so it doesn't apply to them this is also why 80% of women never apologize to a man even when they know they're dead wrong. 🤷🏽♂️
He just did a video yesterday talking about how men are approaching single mothers but not marrying them. Now he's using the same talking point, which contradicts what he said yesterday. Make up your mind, bro.
He talking in circles for clicks. The video he showed is for women to show gratitude. He then side talks away from the topic. Pretending like he is trying to help the divide between men and women. I’m cool with people saying hey we need to fix this. As well as people who say forget it. Let it all burn. Just pick a side.
@@2MuchMoneyOutHere I think he's trying to balance his message but doesn't know enough about the disparities between black men and women to speak on it. So his rhetoric comes off as either red pill or blue pill.
Yes. He was her man...until he wasn't. Especially if he's a good man who wasn't being appreciated and respected. She took him for granted. That's the point of the man leaving her.
Good video but I want to add this. I am old enough to receive AARP. But my freshman year in college the female to male ratio was 13 to 1. As an older mature black man. Black women and all women in America and in most countries outnumbered the men. Men have more women to choose from. Women do not have more men to choose from. And before people get their panties up in a bunch. I used to work for the United States Census Bureau. Which means my numbers are accurate.😮
Say that again auntie because there are some good women and men out here looking for that good person. I'm looking lol.😅😅😅 I just want to know whether they're at where are all the good people at that's looking for real love and looking for real relationships..
1. Why are these videos getting so popular? 2. Is it really necessary when females treat relationships like a business. If it fails you can get another on the same level or better.
The biggest disrespect is when you tell a woman about something private or personal, and she later brings it up during an argument or conversation. Never do that.
Agree
Yes has happened to me many times I have to stop opening up that way
There’s not one woman who understands that
should be self-explanatory
The low quality ones do this. Never trust them if you choose to deal with them after. Giving them information is like signing a blank check for your destruction. Be cautious.
I saw that same statement somewhere and it stuck. A man will sacrifice his happiness for his family, a woman will sacrifice her family for her happiness.”
Yes. This is true
Tia Mowry is the perfect example. She got run through on these streets, and now she's doing the reachback.
Really?
notice what she said "Man" no boy but a "Man" a boy might crawl back but a Man "is all the way done with you" listen to your aunties ppl
👍🏾💪🏾💯
Trouble is easy to get in, but hard to get out!!! Only evil is in the streets...
Patrice O’Neal once said he don’t want his woman abusing that fact that he’s a good man
My happiness is paramount
😏💯👍 correct. A man is only going to give his heart one time. This Auntie is on point
That sounds about right, because when a man is fed up,it's over 🤷🤷🤷🤷 he don't want to come back, for what? the same Ole BS !!!
It Takes A LOT To Get A Man To Being Fed Up.
Facts. We got the patience of a Tibetan monk. If that peace/masculinity is jeopardized, there is no turning back. This doesn't apply to simps.
Can’t tell you how many women purposefully ruined relationships with good men because they were considered “boring” but the opposite of boring is toxic and drama filled. Like idk man it’s weird
I know and you're absolutely correct. On the flip side, the women who are not like this and will appreciate a good and wonderful man can't catch a break because some men want the look of that toxic woman and expect her to be traditional in values.
other women won’t “take” him he will voluntarily leave on his own and another woman will “accept” him and “take” him in!
Women love the longest, but men love the strongest. I always said that.
"Auntie" is speaking nothing, but the truth, but will these MAW listen. Given recent history, they won't.
Right!
she telling the truth
Auntie told no lies especially with the analogy.
Once we are gone, that's it!!
She’s speaking facts but the chics who need to hear this will only call her a pick me.
Don’t it always seem to go that you don’t know what you’ve got til it’s gone…
It's funny how they can tell when ur cheating, but not when ur unhappy.
"🎶..... they paved paradise, and put up a paaaarrrrkiiiing lot!! Oooohh, bop, bop, bop!! 🎶" ( Sorry, I just couldn't resist! ) 😆 🤣
I love the Janet Jackson version of that song
She spoke straight facts. I've had ex girls try crawling back and I just kept it pushing.
Clever
One man (or woman's) trash is another treasure. You stop valuing the person you got, somebody else will scoop them up...or campaign for their attention.
This is why I respect the older generation than this sorry generation….
The older generation is the reason we in this mess, those mf are patient zero 🚫... who you think raised dem kids
@timothyrobinson3938 True, I have agency over myself but not others... when i say we are in this mess... is because i have to live with other ppl in this world by proxy... that might be weaker at overcoming their circumstance... if the previous generation created a bunch of drug addicts, just because i personally don't do drugs dont mean i don't have to worry about crackheads breaking into my car
That is true. You don't take anyone for granted. As the saying goes. You won't miss the well until the water runs dry. She is right. When someone is done with you they are done and there is nothing you can do about it.
Its amazing how many songs we know of a man losing a good woman but how how few songs there are of a woman losing a good man.
I always say this is if u have a good mate and take it for granted u may never find it again I mean never again open y'all eyessssss
That's right
She is right. Also this once you get a good man or woman and you don't treat them right. Nine times out of ten you won't get another one like him or her. Be careful how you entertain people because that person could be an angel unaware.
You think the new generation of females Gon listen to Grandma I don't think so 😂
That is because they'll listen to sprinkle sprinkle, Cheesecake Factory girl, shake shack girl, the Kardashians, Nikki Minaj. Cardi B, Eboni Williams, Diamond the body....you get the gist
Probably not but being the it girl only last so long😊
They will ask "where her man at" ? Nowhere
Hell nah😂😂
@@MotivationWeightLoss The red pill is some bullshhh 2....Them guys talk that talk, & half of them are losers by DEFAULT
She said a “Good man” not a “man” fellas…take note. GOOD MEN ONLY!
You are definitely the type of woman she’s talking about. Good luck out there👍🏾
The problem is most of you don't respect stand up men
She also said don't take him for granted take notes ladies
Ladies, when a good man is fed up, then you're in trouble.
Auntie Sharazad Ali has spoken about this in the 1980s behind the teacher Malcolm X🖤💃🦾
Indifference Makes All Of The Difference. 💯
Familiarity breeds comtempt. Watch yourself.
Wow that is an intelligent comment. Deep!
FACTS...💯
Preach Auntie,let em' know
He going to pull up & be step daddy line had me rolling 😂🤣🤦🏽♂️
Speak Auntie Speak! I'm been a GOOD MAN for over 60+ years and widower! And now I'm a Retired Passport Bros. and able to ZOOM Worldwide and able to court women of ALL AGE! Amen-ASE!
Remember the Dave Chappelle Show sketch when he told a woman who dissed him back in the day to meet him at the airport and just leave and forget all about her husband and kids/family? That's women a lot of the times, and that's what the guy meant when he said "women will sacrifice their family for their happiness". Yes good men and good women are hard to find and you shouldn't mess them over because they deserve better just by them being good people in this bad world. ✌🏽
Men love darkness(evil) rather than light(good) same goes for a woman
As a white man I enjoy listening to black aunties for advice because they speaks 💯facts !!!
❤
2:56 I'll make this statement short "there's more evil than good out there". 😎💯💪🏿👍🏿
Glad Someone Can See, The World Isn’t Rose Tinted.
They not going to listen to her until it’s too late
Got a sister-in-law this dress would fit her perfectly, and she doesn’t even know it, to arrogant to admit it, until it’s too late
Sista, preaching that truth! "I can promise you; If you ever lose his heart, you in trouble; because you will never get back in his heart again! Huh?" No truer words have been spoken, especially concerning a mature man walking in his purpose. Great presentation!
Madame with All due respect MODERN WOMEN Always does take Good Men for Granted that's Why they Leaving for Foreign women in Abroad
NO PAPERWORK GENTLEMAN!!! Dont sign your life away like that. There are men who have lived and are currently living with the regret of that decision.
Take a man for granted many women don't, like it when the shoes is on the other foot.
I do agree that women value happiness and will walk away swiftly if she’s not happy. At the same time, I believe men stay or tolerate more to avoid the family court system.
That’s incorrect.. we don’t stay and tolerate more to avoid the court system.. we stay and tolerate more because we understand the purpose and value of our families and the family structure. We understand and recognize that our children’s well being is way more important than our emotions and being in our ‘feelings’, and we don’t run from our responsibilities.
Well said auntie.
She's speaking as She's lived that life and lost her lover because she was that type of woman.
Yep most likely 😅
Yep, I said the same thing. She's speaking from experience, just like an ex-fiancé' I was with 20+ years ago.
Clean Up WomenMen) Are Still Out Here. Remember She(He) Didn’t Steal Him(Her); You Gave Him(Her) Away.
Great video coverage Philip in the words of the Cornelius brothers and sister Rose don't ever be lonely A Poor Little Fool like me
I will never date a single mom and not everyone a keyboard warrior , as a man who is fit and 6 feet why would I date a single mom no matter how she looks the kid is a deal breaker!
💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
What ppl say online its pretty much the exact reflection of real life especially what men say... i highly doubt a man will be opposed to dating a single mom online on a serious note and then be really considering one offline...
He would have to give me an example of a man thats future online and russell wilson offline
It's a thankless job.
Facts, just because a woman looks good that don't mean them kids are worth it 🤷🤷🤷
Love this channel,so truthful.
Facts, these crazy women are going to understand
You tell em Auntie!! 🎶They just making it easy for the clean up woman 🎵
So true
Phil, you and Auntie made great points! Another great video!!👏🏿👏🏿👏🏿👍🏿👍🏿👍🏿✊🏿✊🏿✊🏿
She is right ✅️ 👏🏾 🙌🏾
I remember a lady at the church said this all the time " I had a good husband he was good to me".
Yup True
🫡🫡🫡salute to Aunte you are appreciated for this message!🫡🫡🫡
Each their Own ..every one has a finger print on their own relationship.. everyone SHOULD have their own understanding and order in their home...And to tell someone what to do and what not to do...isn't yours to teach until you get a understanding of someone else's relationship with a certain type of individual.,I no longer get in anyone's business in their home .. and behind the privacy of their home.. unless they personally came to me...🙏🏿🌹 God's Best
Betty Wright sung about the Clean Up Woman. Nowadays, the Clean Up Woman comes from all over the world!
Thats s message for young women. Aint none of these 35+ women actinga fool. They protecting their's from the 25 yo women
Sound like she speaking from experience
Like the song says by the stylistics. Stop trickin stop buying everything. Can't Sugar-coat Trickin. Paper or Plastic or Digital
Brutha Phil Definitely! Appreciate your PODCAST! always informative! God Bless 💯💚♥️🖤👍🏽
Facts.
She speaking facts.
GREAT TALKING POINTS SIR AND MA'AM IN THE VIDEO .... SALUTE 🫡
Wow Uncle this is a really really good show you had today and it's something that needs to be heard. You're right A lot of these guys been lying you know they're saying one thing and doing another but man I really like the show particularly man I'm I think I'm going to go ahead and get a membership with the African diaspora I don't agree with everything you say but that's okay because the thing is you say a lot of great things not appreciate that.
Amen Sir !!!
Nothin but FACTS 💯💯💯💯
This goes both ways!
He said that
Uh yeah. Not only did he say that but Ray Charles, Roland Kirk and Stevie Wonder can all see 👀 that. Men are raised knowing this women are the ones who are raised thinking their 💩 don't stink so it doesn't apply to them this is also why 80% of women never apologize to a man even when they know they're dead wrong. 🤷🏽♂️
@darnellhopkins8587 yes, I heard that part of the video after I made this comment.
@@kaybrown7733 yeah people always comment before watching soo typical
@@Angel05433 correction, I commented while watching. If you're going to try to insult me, at least get your facts straight. 🤣🤣🤣
Just out here carrying on! Yes auntie♥️
Donovan Sharpe
N friends will mess with you relationships
This is a demon world
Clean Up Woman
This has been going on for a long time and many have made the choice and many continue to keep repeating the same thing men/women
Great words of wisdom Phil!
Let Auntie , a Sista 😮tell it ..
If a woman loses a man's heart then she lost it n his respect for her. He might still freak on her but he wont ever respect her again
Very factual commentary
Auntie speaking the truth. Great video Phil.
Thanks Phillip scott for all you do much appreciated great job 👍 👏!
Don't fret, a man can have multiple women, but it's the woman's ego that gets in the way of her having a good life.
I SUPPORT AND APPROVE THIS MESSAGES
I enjoyed her commentary❤
He just did a video yesterday talking about how men are approaching single mothers but not marrying them. Now he's using the same talking point, which contradicts what he said yesterday. Make up your mind, bro.
There's a grey area in all this as people in general are complex. So it's possible there are some who are actually marrying single mums
@tari2073 That's implied. We're talking about the majority, not the minority. It's unfortunate that most of you don't get that.
He talking in circles for clicks. The video he showed is for women to show gratitude. He then side talks away from the topic. Pretending like he is trying to help the divide between men and women. I’m cool with people saying hey we need to fix this. As well as people who say forget it. Let it all burn. Just pick a side.
@@2MuchMoneyOutHere I think he's trying to balance his message but doesn't know enough about the disparities between black men and women to speak on it. So his rhetoric comes off as either red pill or blue pill.
...never, ever ...take them back.
True
The same can be said of a man who takes a good woman for granted. Once she's gone, she's gone.
Tell 'em Aunty.
I mean… if someone else can take him, was he ever yours?
Yes. He was her man...until he wasn't. Especially if he's a good man who wasn't being appreciated and respected. She took him for granted. That's the point of the man leaving her.
Great advice
Hence overseas women are humble and will appreciate decent guys.
Good video but I want to add this. I am old enough to receive AARP. But my freshman year in college the female to male ratio was 13 to 1. As an older mature black man. Black women and all women in America and in most countries outnumbered the men. Men have more women to choose from. Women do not have more men to choose from. And before people get their panties up in a bunch. I used to work for the United States Census Bureau. Which means my numbers are accurate.😮
Damn this sounds like my life right now
Say that again auntie because there are some good women and men out here looking for that good person. I'm looking lol.😅😅😅 I just want to know whether they're at where are all the good people at that's looking for real love and looking for real relationships..
Speaking Truth
1. Why are these videos getting so popular? 2. Is it really necessary when females treat relationships like a business. If it fails you can get another on the same level or better.
Yea but a woman’s valve goes down after 30, and a man’s goes up after 30😊
She smart 😂😂😂 I bet my life that she was fine in her day now only man who looks at her is her grand kids
Facts