How to Instantly Make Anyone Respect You

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  • How to Instantly Make Anyone Respect You
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    In this video on Social Psychology Masters we're going to share with you 12 simple things that will help you make anyone respect you instantly. Whether it's your boss, your colleagues, or even strangers on the street, these 12 things will help you come across as a more powerful and respected individual.
    So if you're looking to improve your relationships and gain more respect in life, watch this video now!
    There are certain things you can do to make people respect you instantly. In this video, I'm going to share three of them with you. These tips will help you command respect in any situation and get what you want from life.
    How to make people respect you? How to earn respect from anyone? How to become a respected person? How to make anyone respect you? In this video, we will answer all of these questions and you will learn the top 12 things on how to instantly make anyone respect you.
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  • @explorerendeavour3009
    @explorerendeavour3009 Рік тому +783

    00:45 12. Respect yourself first.
    01:28 11. Don't be nice all the time.
    02:15 10. Set clear boundaries
    03:05 9. Speak up when you disagree.
    03:54 8. Don't over apologise
    04:46 7. Display confident body language.
    05:43 6. Act respectfully.
    06:21 5. Keep your promise.
    06:54 4. Add real value.
    07:32 3. Be open minded
    08:09 2. Control your Emotions.
    08:45 1. Listen more than you speak.
    Be who you are as a person.

  • @mariettatoth599
    @mariettatoth599 Рік тому +565

    12. Respect yourself first
    11. Do not be nice all the time
    10. Set clear boundaries
    9. Speak up when you disagree
    8. Do not over apologize
    7. Display confident body langauge
    6. Act respectfully
    5. Keep your promises
    4. Add real value
    3. Be open minded
    2. Control your emotion
    1. Listen more than you speak
    Thank you this video.

  • @inaya928
    @inaya928 Рік тому +63

    Don't always make yourself free for others... Bcuz, in this world, people are very selfish

  • @JamesRDavenport
    @JamesRDavenport Рік тому +358

    I rarely give my word, that way when I do, it means something more. Always be extremely careful about who you give your word to. It also doesn't matter if the other person keep theirs, you still should honor yours.

  • @ritagonzalez4302
    @ritagonzalez4302 Рік тому +316

    When you value others, and respect others, and help others. most of all Love God, spreading his Gospel his truth. you become his light in this dark world filled with so much evil and selfishness, respect your self and Respect our God and his work everything else doesn't matter!!! God bless you all!!

    • @davidos3825
      @davidos3825 Рік тому +3

      First three yes

    • @szvqorwnpstahskypfwmp9821
      @szvqorwnpstahskypfwmp9821 Рік тому +18

      I agree with you on everything except the religious part.
      Many religious people I've met are some of the worst
      people. Having faith and being respectful and being
      decent to others has nothing to do with someone's religious faith. Sorry for being
      harsh but I really believe this.

    • @njuinebrenda3850
      @njuinebrenda3850 Рік тому +1

      I love this ❣️ thanks 🙏

    • @rep.thinklater
      @rep.thinklater Рік тому +3

      @@szvqorwnpstahskypfwmp9821 agreed

    • @gabrielakerekes5844
      @gabrielakerekes5844 Рік тому +6

      Dear Rita,till you get to God the wolf will eat you alive! 😉 I’m a Christian but I always said people that put God first ,they have very limited education,vision,mind,box…what ever you want to call… we are living in the world that are so many other priorities and guides to exist. To make your self respectable has nothing to do with God…but a lot to do with your self. If you do bad 6 days a week and Sunday spend all day at the church ,you won’t get my respect ever…do you see \ understand the difference?🤨

  • @d.s.m.channel
    @d.s.m.channel Рік тому +29

    Don't be nice all the times. Set clear boundaries. Perfect words 👌🏻

  • @CircleB-ig9mk
    @CircleB-ig9mk Рік тому +21

    Sage advice! Thank you. I raised my children telling them "The caliber of person you are, is who they are when no one is watching." It's all about integrity.

  • @saronaiker4581
    @saronaiker4581 Рік тому +19

    Don't be dependent. You get respect by earning a living & paying debts. Be self sufficient

  • @Author791
    @Author791 Рік тому +52

    Respect is for those who deserves it... Not those who're demanding for it.

    • @mykldean
      @mykldean Рік тому +2

      Hmmm, where I live if you don't demand it you won't get it. This town is full of people who treat others subhuman if you are for instance in the servant role. Standard practice for many. As if they are mindlessly just playing out thier narrative of abusing the help. Out of habit and because most of the help wouldn't dare talk back.
      I'm the help who said "I stopped because you are getting out of the car, now". If I hadn't already intellectually filleted them I'm sure they figured it out. Btw I drove with 5 out of 5 star rating the last couple years I drove, after learning allot the first couple.

    • @ericfuller6922
      @ericfuller6922 Рік тому +1

      |mythological creatures Respect is for every thing every time. takecare,gooddays

  • @joseguzman2156
    @joseguzman2156 Рік тому +21

    Being nice is not a weakness its being humble thats how you earn respect n separate the real n the fake.

    • @foodiesworldUSA
      @foodiesworldUSA Рік тому +3

      Yes but if you are always helping others who can do their own work infact need to be responsible for their own work then they start abusing your goodness and take advantage.

    • @mihaeladog7187
      @mihaeladog7187 Рік тому +1

      I am never nice nor mean. Only neutral. I don’t know why ppl smile all the time maybe they’re on something … but is not normal .

    • @joseguzman2156
      @joseguzman2156 Рік тому

      Yes agree some people are not responsible its a shame.

  • @dimpledimple5545
    @dimpledimple5545 Рік тому +15

    Have clear boundaries and yes, don't over apologize. Control your emotions. I find a lot of people very reactive and expresses their opinions without thinking over their choice of words and manner of crossing them. Manners and politeness are never out of value. People should learn it more.

  • @nanou9984
    @nanou9984 Рік тому +29

    Nowadays when you speak up and disagree even respectfully, they turn to hate you for that. What a complexe WORLD we live in now . People prefer when ur fake or a doormat they can oppress at will.

    • @lovemusicnatureartsfoods...
      @lovemusicnatureartsfoods... Рік тому

      So true I speak up to a neighbor madman for being rude to me he hate me that way but it's okey the important now he knows if how to respect the others even it's his close friend/friend or stranger and yeah coz of this I realize that being too nice it's a damn thing specially when you gave it to people that who don't know if how to appreciate it...

    • @baltayoshi
      @baltayoshi Рік тому

      Couldn't agree more with you.

    • @shorty3alyna
      @shorty3alyna Рік тому

      I agree in some circumstances : try at you job to have a different opinion, when you know you're right,or when you get offended, it doesn't bring you more respect because at a job are people obsessed by control, narcissist, selfish.... they will never accept another opinion, even they don't give your right to freedom of speech! With all that, there are moment when I'm quiet and angry,and some moments when I break up and speak up my point of view,but keep my anger inside,trying a reasonable way ! But in other circumstances of if a neighbor offended me , I don't give a rats ass , I express my opinion, you don't get it...fuck off , that person doesn't respect people! I set my boundaries even at work, with my friends and family but not express them in a brutal way , just nice , ferm and very surt and streactily about it! I like to help people, I love to be there were it's need it for others but I know also when some people try to take advantage from this ,so I have some limits (I have learned that from my mistakes,from my past )

  • @xyzabc6898
    @xyzabc6898 Рік тому +13

    Be GRATEFUL of What you have in Life.....
    We Should Practice GRATITUDE ...

  • @autodogdact3313
    @autodogdact3313 Рік тому +18

    Everyone always says how important body language and eye contact are. As a person with Asperger's I am not good at either of those things, but I am kind, loyal and strong in my beliefs and friendships. I am blessed to have a group of good friends. We respect and care about each other.

    • @nicoleyap6070
      @nicoleyap6070 Рік тому +1

      You sound like a wonderful person. Don't ever change. God bless you always!

    • @autodogdact3313
      @autodogdact3313 Рік тому +1

      @@nicoleyap6070 Thank you so much. You must be a kind person to bother to comment that. I wish the best for you!

    • @nicoleyap6070
      @nicoleyap6070 Рік тому

      @@autodogdact3313 Awww thank you! I wish you the best!

  • @martinbraden7110
    @martinbraden7110 Рік тому +11

    Nobody should be 'made' to respect another. You will be respected by not telling others what to do. Stay out of others' business by minding your own business builds mutual respect.

  • @CrowSpirit1977
    @CrowSpirit1977 Рік тому +11

    Respect is earned.. No shortcuts

  • @juki3451
    @juki3451 Рік тому +4

    I realize the best respect starts with yourself & who cares what other ppl thinks. Clear communication, but some ppl will never get it. Don't waste your time with those who want to get under your skin & wants to drag you down. There are too many petty ppl just don't waste of time with them. Always keep a smile on your face & walk away when someone disrespects you or call them out even if it's your boss. Being nice & kind goes a long way, but don't waste your time with pettiness. Put your needs first without taking advantage of others. Being self-sufficient & don't blame others for your shortcomings. Just move on if your not happy.

  • @debbiesmith8523
    @debbiesmith8523 2 роки тому +17

    I love this video , I love that you must always speak up otherwise people will assume you agree with what they are saying when you don't, that's a good one I need to be doing more often ❤

  • @jane010876
    @jane010876 Рік тому +9

    I respect people because of their kindness

  • @billwilliamdexter2300
    @billwilliamdexter2300 Рік тому +4

    People will respect you if you conduct yourself wherever you are in a respectful way.Meaning,your character plays major role in defining yourself in whichever sphere you exist.You will earn the respect of others by having a virtous character hands down.

  • @Eddy.user-pq5fg2bf7s
    @Eddy.user-pq5fg2bf7s Рік тому +12

    The wiser you become the less you speak.Thank you for the video i learned so much from it

  • @dualwan
    @dualwan Рік тому +40

    12. Respect yourself first
    11. Do not be nice all the time
    2. Control your emotion
    1. Listen more than you speak
    Here are the points that i agree.

    • @soulstripper
      @soulstripper Рік тому +4

      2. to a point. Some people just need a punch in the mouth. Specialy over the last 3 years!

  • @tahesha8644
    @tahesha8644 Рік тому +12

    What's my thoughts?Everything in this video is true, but here are my thoughts on Not to be too Nice all the time. I believe you should be who you really are and be nice at all times if you can. Why? Because depression is on the rise, and we are living in tough times. Your kindness can restore someone's hope. Also, when you are consistently nice it helps the business and you gain people trust that way. In return money. What I had to learn is to stop being too nice to those who show signs of red flags. I had to learn this the hard way and I'm still learning this. Depending on the situation, still be respectful, but once someone once shows you their toxic ways redirect that extra nice energy to those who will appreciate it and not use it to walk over you. I disagree with Not to be too nice all the time because you should be all the time if you can, especially if that's who you are. Just set boundaries.

    • @baltayoshi
      @baltayoshi Рік тому

      So with others words....don't be nice all the time..?

  • @minnieme7096
    @minnieme7096 Рік тому +9

    i treat people like how they treat me. If they treat me nicely then that's how i treat them too. If they treat me bad then i'm too but, with respect.

  • @allenrodandrade5277
    @allenrodandrade5277 Рік тому +40

    I agree ☝️ don’t be nice all the time 👍

  • @tgifriday3563
    @tgifriday3563 Рік тому +5

    I agree that you must treat people with courtesy and politeness but I also believe that we should not tolerate disrespect after giving that. We must choose where we will give our mental and physical exertion.

    • @baltayoshi
      @baltayoshi Рік тому

      Greatly expressed! I made a quote out of your comment.

  • @n.m6249
    @n.m6249 Рік тому +13

    Excellent video, I need to apply this even in personal relationships and social scenes. My favorites that I really need to apply in my life is being open minded, controlling emotions and not agreeing on everything.

  • @arunsd6577
    @arunsd6577 Рік тому +7

    Gone are the times when people usually respected well dressed people GOOD looking people educated people TODAY THIS SCENARIO HAS CHANGED PEOPLE ARE NOT READY TO BE IMPRESSED WITH THESE ATTRIBUTES THEY CAN LOOK INTO THE PERSON BUT COMMUNICATION SKILLS ARE THE INDISPENSABLE FACTOR APART FROM THE OTHER PERSON KNOWING THAT YOU ARE FINANCIALLY VERY SOUND RESPECT WILL AUTOMATICALLY BE SHOWN TO YOU OFCOURSE THAT GOLDEN RULE GIVE RESPECT AND TAKE RESPECT IS THE BASIS

  • @santhoshnetto2584
    @santhoshnetto2584 Рік тому +4

    Have subscribed. Respect attracts because of the aura you spread. You are very clear about your surroundings.

  • @psihopedia
    @psihopedia 2 роки тому +95

    The key to respect is about who you are as a person. Yes. But that's only half of the truth. Because the key to respect is also about who is the person that you're expecting respect from. Expecting respect from absolutely everyone is a realistic thing only if you live in a perfect world.
    Maybe if you do everything it's said here you will be respected most of the time. But I doubt you'll be able to get respect in every situation, regardless of the variables brought at play by the other people.
    Also, fake respect is not real respect and oftentimes getting respect doesn't come with butterflies and rainbows, on the contrary. Setting boundaries may involve wars and losing relationships...

    • @SocialPsychologyMasters
      @SocialPsychologyMasters  2 роки тому +6

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us 🌟

    • @safirawaziri7695
      @safirawaziri7695 Рік тому +3

      Absolute truth

    • @hypocritespuninanna9601
      @hypocritespuninanna9601 Рік тому +7

      So true. How can you expect to be respected when there's people out here that don't respect themselves 💯

    • @deejayjay348
      @deejayjay348 Рік тому +8

      Sometimes even you show them respect, they still show you their high noses 😁

    • @meridaangelina7777
      @meridaangelina7777 Рік тому +2

      Definitely makes sense.
      I live by by grandma words: since I’m a child she told me just because you don’t like someone doesn’t mean you have to be disrespectful! Respect is universal!
      If they are difficult to deal with and or relate to… I energetically remove myself. If work related I keep it civil!
      People will be people and there’s an array of different reasons why people act they way they do… to defend myself means there’s a chance you can prove me wrong! If the basics have been met and one is impossible I can relate however keep it very curt! Many times when this happens the person that’s a boundary smasher, a conversation denominator etc… they see themselves!
      Kindness always goes a long way!
      Believe me I’ve dealt with some of the most contentious people and have lost my poise… Practice definitely produces progress!!! We are all in this together!
      Thank you for posting this video! A kind reminder to all of us!

  • @GypsyCellist
    @GypsyCellist Рік тому +2

    So happy I found your channel on my journey to self development. Just subscribed and looking forward to catching up on your videos!!

  • @vinhkhatran
    @vinhkhatran Рік тому +3

    ayo these tips are actually useful, you earned my sub chad

  • @amyj.4992
    @amyj.4992 Рік тому +58

    There is a huge difference between being polite, and people pleasing. Some of us aren't raised with manners. And people with manners, are seen as fake when they do get assertive. People think that's being too nice, but you just tryna keep the peace and respect another's safe space in themselves. Until they swerve in your lane, then that nice shit is out the window when you decide to become "problematic" and you apologize if what you did really does impact another negatively and you know it was your fault. You want the person to trust you still, without them feeling like they won't be gaslighted. Sometimes people just won't respect you, because they are jealous of you. I love that society rejects me, I don't have to try hard to fit in. They have to try hard to fit in uniform, showing me how broken and fragmented it really is. I can be whoever tf I want to be for myself unapologetically. Their rejection is a whole ass gift for me. Thank you, may I have another. #bookwormbellethebeauty #bookwormbellethebeauty #rejectionfeelsgreat

    • @jumpsuitsandjeans
      @jumpsuitsandjeans Рік тому +5

      Your comment is so me

    • @henrymarkins6925
      @henrymarkins6925 Рік тому +2

      Very well said friend.

    • @chamali7379
      @chamali7379 Рік тому +1

      You are accepted by the world don’t think you are not ..you own ur world

    • @carlamorris8040
      @carlamorris8040 Рік тому

      @Rebecca this is a wonderful site.

    • @Iman-ve3il
      @Iman-ve3il Рік тому

      Well said…. This is so me. I smile and am happy all the time but would always run across people who takes u out of character and u do have to jump out of it to show them this is not what they want. Nice people try very hard to keep the peace, but we will always have that one that can make us lose it for a split second lbvs

  • @mariafemieposadas4970
    @mariafemieposadas4970 Рік тому +1

    I love this video.thank you for sharing. We can apply it in our everyday lives

  • @yerrobah4496
    @yerrobah4496 Рік тому +8

    This video inspired me, but there are some people in life know matter how u try they will not respect u. And that's the fact is not possible to be respected by everybody..

    • @inezy6329
      @inezy6329 Рік тому

      But they will end up not having many friends..even their close relatives or children will leave them..

  • @shinebright0795
    @shinebright0795 Рік тому +3

    SETTING LIMITS, BOUNDARIES Is SELF RESPECT….LOVING ONESELF 💖🍃

  • @lovenessmwewa7732
    @lovenessmwewa7732 Рік тому +5

    So true and beautiful. Thanks 🙏

  • @geethashetty5786
    @geethashetty5786 Рік тому +2

    Thanx for POSITIVE VIBES to deal with uncertainty n stand you for ourselves. 🙏😊

  • @tomthomas136
    @tomthomas136 Рік тому +1

    Very well done. Get into the depths of decent, noble & honoured human interactions.

  • @katharinaz.2703
    @katharinaz.2703 Рік тому +7

    I don't understand, why nobody respect me. I try my very best to be smart, to be confident, to be nice, but nobody respect me at all. Thank you for very good advice.

    • @SocialPsychologyMasters
      @SocialPsychologyMasters  Рік тому +2

      You should change your self-image and work on your self-respect. When you value and respect yourself everyone will respect you.

    • @peaceandquiet1983
      @peaceandquiet1983 Рік тому +6

      Quit trying. Stop caring about others opinion. Do what is truly right, on your own way, but do not care about it on their end. Many people do not care and thst is their power over you! They see thst you do and will play you, even if it's subtle or undermining in the most petty of ways. But you can't worry yourself about it, that is giving awy your power. That is how they are an energy vampire. They will never be on your side like a supportive team player should be in a healthy workplace environment. I know all about it. Trust me, they want to see you care so they can mock you, mimic you, ostracize you, etc. Avoid, ignore, call them out one on one but know they will raise the stakes, or quit. Psychopaths are everywhere.

    • @barryh.4220
      @barryh.4220 Рік тому +2

      Well for what its worth , i WOULD definitely respect you .... I like the things you are saying there, and I like nice people.

    • @kaylaNingxi
      @kaylaNingxi Рік тому +3

      @@peaceandquiet1983 thank you for the great words, I am a victim too.

    • @paulacol2142
      @paulacol2142 Рік тому

      Be kind to yourself live every day with peace in your heart , Don't ever worry what people think ,I promise everything eles will fall into place ☮️✨✨✨👌♥️ It's as simple as that ,take care always

  • @feverishchic
    @feverishchic 2 роки тому +3

    Thanks for the information! keep in touch❤️

  • @robynmoore7847
    @robynmoore7847 Рік тому +1

    Speak up when you don't agree with something. Don't always try to be nice.. Respect yourself and others will respect you. Always set clear boundaries. Good advice but having the wisdom to know when to use this advice is important too👍🏽

  • @ryanfrizzell736
    @ryanfrizzell736 Рік тому

    Great. Now I know more about the science of how to have people respect me. Thanks!

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    @SocialPsychologyMasters  2 роки тому +72

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    • @tomrhodes1629
      @tomrhodes1629 Рік тому

      If you need to make anyone respect you, it's only because you don't respect yourself. And if people don't respect you, it's only because they don't respect themselves. If you don't respect yourself it's only because you don't know who you are, which is precisely the same thing as everyone else. And we don't know who we are, because we are experiencing a virtual-reality simulation of LIMITATION; a total illusion. YOU HAVE NO LIMITATIONS, in absolute Reality. I have all the answers, and only because I was willing to listen to the correct Voice. Absolute Truth is the ultimate psychotherapy, and I have it. Click and ye shall find...

    • @jamesfraser4357
      @jamesfraser4357 Рік тому +6

      I needed this

    • @jacobkalala5746
      @jacobkalala5746 Рік тому +1

      I subscribed

    • @kimyoung3484
      @kimyoung3484 Рік тому

      I subscribed 😍👍💪♥️🌹💙

    • @sajithnair1450
      @sajithnair1450 Рік тому

      👍

  • @cliveedwards2958
    @cliveedwards2958 Рік тому +4

    The one point 'respect yourself first' I'm sorry to say I have known a few people who come over as arrogant and self loving with this one..so I would advise caution when practicing this. I find a much better way is to be pleasant and confident within limits or you will just come over as a jerk and people will enjoy trying to burst your bubble.

  • @sgttim8617
    @sgttim8617 Рік тому

    Thank You...
    Some of these, I knew Already, but this really helps having them listed numerically.
    I noticed 3-small weak points in my own personna.

  • @earthlycreature8772
    @earthlycreature8772 Рік тому +2

    Excellent points to ponder but there are situations when one must let go and let live. Worry/stress of any sort must be flushed out of your system at all times and that's where controlling your emotions kicks in. Meditation (along with light exercises) on a daily basis can truly change one's perceptions towards a healthier and calmer self whilst keeping all the above points in check.

  • @blessedamooti1371
    @blessedamooti1371 Рік тому +6

    10th /1 /2023.
    I must be respected
    Thanks for the message
    I feel blessed 🌟🍃🙏💕

  • @kocengineering769
    @kocengineering769 Рік тому +4

    Yes
    Sir i am always nice to all so everyone throws me like trash

  • @marifeinbohol6186
    @marifeinbohol6186 Рік тому +1

    I'm glad I found your channel. Great video very helpful. Thank you so much! God bless take care

  • @juliodefreitas157
    @juliodefreitas157 Рік тому

    Awesome video and thank you for sharing your tips💙👍👍

  • @crownjewel7259
    @crownjewel7259 Рік тому +8

    The number one (1)thing should've been:
    Be independent

  • @kevinhanley6462
    @kevinhanley6462 2 роки тому +3

    A very positive video.

  • @mohammedsheck5383
    @mohammedsheck5383 2 роки тому +2

    I have subscribed. Thanks 😊 it was helpful ❤️

  • @emen862
    @emen862 Рік тому +2

    I like it
    &
    Thank you so much for your sharing

  • @arniaamshaegar2194
    @arniaamshaegar2194 Рік тому +5

    One only needs what doesn't have. A real man needs only one person's respect, himself. A man who have self respect doesn't need to be respected by anyone else. This is a matter of weak and fools.

  • @daniel.sandberg.5298
    @daniel.sandberg.5298 2 роки тому +19

    If I dont start to respect people who oppose me, nobody will respect or even notice me. No mind can overpower me because I find people with strong willpower funny. With that in mind, I can do whatever I want without being caught.

    • @DWPersianExcursion
      @DWPersianExcursion 2 роки тому +4

      *and,with that thought, I'll never get caught*

    • @saarza9991
      @saarza9991 2 роки тому +3

      The blind cat sips the milk, thinking it will never be caught. Until one day........

  • @One-vk8gr
    @One-vk8gr Рік тому

    Thanks for your great video 👍🏽 love it! 💜

  • @monroeamore1288
    @monroeamore1288 Рік тому

    Hi I just subscribed, this is very helpful and so thankful for sharing this .

  • @denisewilliams5655
    @denisewilliams5655 Рік тому +9

    I don’t believe you can make people respect you when it’s a disrespectful stranger/ person or more than one. Disrespect is ingrained in their character. If it was not, they would not disrespect others. You can only protect yourself from creeps like that. That is your power and your choice.

    • @QueenofLifeNuggets
      @QueenofLifeNuggets Рік тому +1

      Great oversight this one.... You literally have to protect yourself from cruel and disrespectful people.....Not every person respect other people... Others choose to disrespect you even when you show them respect....

  • @zoram671
    @zoram671 Рік тому +4

    Yes, don't be nice all the time i was taken advantage off.

  • @MainaGakere
    @MainaGakere Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing. It was helpful.

  • @angeltaurus1277
    @angeltaurus1277 2 роки тому

    Really helpful... thanku so much for this video

  • @karronfisher4188
    @karronfisher4188 2 роки тому +11

    Good information, how ever empathy and compassion can be a strong motivation to help people,it is to bad that people want to lable those natural feelings " people pleaser". However I will not argue the fact some people choose to take advantage so definitely reasonable boundaries is a wise course! I do respect a person who has self-respect however hesitant towards those who have possible narcissistic traits! I always appreciate a individual who will disagree when is appropriate as long as it is done with respect! Their is a time and place for everything,so certainly their is a time to stand firm!🤔

    • @SocialPsychologyMasters
      @SocialPsychologyMasters  2 роки тому +1

      Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us 🌟

    • @karronfisher4188
      @karronfisher4188 2 роки тому

      @Karl with a K Interesting,did you know their is a whole book written about a man who got the respect and attention of both men and women over 1000 years ago and to this day many are drawn to his teachings.Durring his lifetime he was not highly educated,snubbed by those whom were. Not known for his wealth nor looks,however his teachings have influenced people around the world and plenty have given their lives because he could reach people hearts! Wealth ,looks are a false security at the end of the day what makes the difference is how did that person make you feel! Their are some studies on apes, how they veiw the alpha Ape the one on top , let's just say in time it doesn't go so well ! At the end of the day the one that gets the respect is the one that respect others!

    • @karronfisher4188
      @karronfisher4188 2 роки тому

      @Karl with a K I'm just trying to be helpful ! The book is the Bible, about a man named Jesus! He was a man that influenced many of his time,how? I would encourage you to find out! Was it manipulation? What did he gain? He died poor! He didn't hold people hostage! He took no money when he cured people.when the Jews wanted to make him a political leader , a political king he disappeared from the crowd,he showed he didn't want that admiration, He criticized the reasoning of the influential and by doing so he certainly was not on the top of the list of invites ! The women loved him,why? he valued their opinions, he honored their worthiness inspite of the twisted religious teachings that a woman cover herself with a veil in public and she was not allowed to speak to men in public,Dignity he taught! Not everyone agreed,but many hearts were touched,that a book was written about him! A manipulator deceives in a way to take from someone,Jesus took nothing! Whats the lesson? The combination of courage to stand for something and showing genuine respect and kindness is more meaningful and memorable than the handsome man and beautiful woman,by the way can you remember the name of the latest miss America beauty? Is that still around? Anyway you have a right to your opinion, take care,""You be you"!

    • @Iman-ve3il
      @Iman-ve3il Рік тому

      I’m a narcissist magnet!

    • @karronfisher4188
      @karronfisher4188 Рік тому

      @@Iman-ve3il I'm sorry to hear that,it is important to understand why.what helped me was to study the Bible.understand justice ,mercy,love! I'm not saying miracles will happen but understanding our thoughts,behaviors,help us to identify actions that bring honor towards ourselves and others.our good intentions can be misused .

  • @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933
    @lecarlosljrobinsonjr4933 Рік тому +9

    I love being respected

  • @dawitejigu
    @dawitejigu Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much for the invaluable content!

  • @chapletgymworkout
    @chapletgymworkout Рік тому

    Thanks for sharing this amazing tips because that’s what i need ❤

  • @mackyer3690
    @mackyer3690 Рік тому +6

    People have the meaning of respect all twisted out here. People will respect you out here based on what you have. Should see what kind of respect the less fortunate get out here. And you should see what kind of respect the wealthy gives out here to the rest. I guess money does makes you feel invisible

    • @arunsd6577
      @arunsd6577 Рік тому

      @Rebecca in that case vhat happened to him pls clarify is he still in the earth but genuine justification and authenticity required for your claim

  • @jennanadebaum2210
    @jennanadebaum2210 Рік тому +6

    The 1 step that I don't agree with you on, is the 1 that you said respecting others first. I always respect others 1st, buy more times than not I get treated with disrespect for no reason at all, and then those same people that have disrespected me will be totally respectful towards others. Alot of times, I've had people just come up to me and be disrespectful without me saying a single word to them, or doing anything to them or even just looking at them. So giving respect first doesn't work all the time

    • @tejaswinizumbre
      @tejaswinizumbre Рік тому +3

      Watch your body language.. You need to develop body language showing more self-confidence..
      I read your post .. saying people often disrespect you for no reason while the same people show respect to others.. even when you respect them.
      I m writing from my personal experience, it's not official or may not be all correct.
      In my opinion, the way we show respect and approach others - the non-verbal communication - is very important..
      Studies show that people respond to not just our outer manners but our inner thoughts (regarding the interactions with them).. as well.. You may wonder how can they know my thoughts or feelings about them . ..but it's sixth sense.. we, humans have sixth sense.. If you are feeling inferior to others, they will sense it.. if you r feeling superior, they can sense that too.. and when you feel neither inferior nor superior, they will know that too.. But best scenario is the last one... Be comfortable with who and what you are and it will show in your body language and people can sense it.. and they will automatically respect you because you respect yourself.
      On the other hand, if you are feeling inferior to those around you for some reason, it will show up in your body language, tone of your voice, the way you smile, or in number of subtle ways.. that we don't always have control over.. and some people tend to show disrespect in a sub-concious response to your overall body language and approach to them.. They don't always do this consciously..
      So, I think the KEY is NOT to feel inferior to others, not being intimidated by anyone. I know, it's easier said than done if you always felt inferior as a habit or as your nature. . But we must work on it.. To do that you need to:
      ○ FIRST ACCEPT YOURSELF THE WAY YOU ARE...
      ○ HAVE SELF RESPECT AND HIGH SELF ESTEEM
      ○ TRUST YOUR OWN WORDS AND ACTIONS AND DEFEND THEM NICELY..
      ○ Don't be overly apologetic. .
      ○ And Express your thoughts freely without fearing non-acceptance from others....
      ● Most importantly, work on your body language..
      And LOVE yourself
      Hope this helps..
      Regards.. 🌺🌸🌺🌸

    • @jennanadebaum2210
      @jennanadebaum2210 Рік тому +1

      @@tejaswinizumbre Hunnie, u r dead wrong! I can tell you stories that r 100 % true about how people have disrespected me for no reason at all, but I'm not going to get into them on youtube, as I don't believe in long messages being written on youtube. Bit honestly, u r wrong when it comes to me. Have a lovely day 🙂

    • @chandrashekharml2545
      @chandrashekharml2545 Рік тому

      Please refer to rule no. 10. Set clear boundaries. That is what you have to do with such people and show them their places.

  • @newgeneration7228
    @newgeneration7228 Рік тому

    Really appreciate these videos of your, learned a lot

  • @shuayeebO_O
    @shuayeebO_O 2 роки тому +1

    I subscribed❤️........and thanks for the
    Video.....I learned a lot ☺️☺️

  • @george40nelson4
    @george40nelson4 Рік тому +3

    If you want respect start with that person in the mirror.

  • @davida1606
    @davida1606 Рік тому +2

    There were times when I was really nice and having a nice day, and some people felt it was okay to disrespect me and then immediately regretted it.

  • @geneziogenezio3299
    @geneziogenezio3299 Рік тому

    Thank You Very Much! Good To Know For Sure That I am In The Absolutely Correct Path!

  • @joannadiaz6856
    @joannadiaz6856 Рік тому +1

    Very helpful video, thank you very much!❤️

  • @sonnyca
    @sonnyca Рік тому +3

    Britney Spears is nice and that’s why others take advantage of her.

    • @frenchvanilla7109
      @frenchvanilla7109 Рік тому

      Britney Spears has been through a lot of trauma which has caused her to be vulnerable. Predators can see this and that's why they take advantage. Now that she has become aware and has a support system you see her standing up for herself.

  • @nuez23747
    @nuez23747 Рік тому +7

    Well, I disagree I am balanced don't react meditate and am responsible but I get insulted, yelled at and my rights cut off regularly every month. It's not all about us being mirrored, some people are just too toxic by birth

    • @adbernhardt1700
      @adbernhardt1700 Рік тому +2

      You are so right dear Arbol. You are probably a empath too. Let them work on theirselves. No need for changing our behaviour anymore Life is hard enough. Have a lovely summer. 👍✌✌🌼🍀🌷🌼🤍

    • @paulacol2142
      @paulacol2142 Рік тому

      ☮️❤

  • @rachelg.2158
    @rachelg.2158 Рік тому

    Totally new year, and indeed I agree all of it

  • @gayaniperera9825
    @gayaniperera9825 Рік тому

    I subscribed . Very helpful .
    Thank you.!❤️

  • @versatileduplicity9313
    @versatileduplicity9313 Рік тому +3

    The only way to do that is to be extremely violent. Not everyone had respect !!! People need to feel pain to develop what respect is.

    • @autodogdact3313
      @autodogdact3313 Рік тому

      That is not true respect, that is fear.

    • @versatileduplicity9313
      @versatileduplicity9313 Рік тому

      @@autodogdact3313 man stfu. Fear can be respected when there’s an understanding to it. If a man is violent for a reason, women can kinda fear that, but respect that knowing that their man would never touch them. For other guys, slight fear and respect could go together because guys who know you won’t try some bs on you. It’s true believe it or not.

    • @paula622
      @paula622 Рік тому

      Violence shows your inner insecurities, self loathing and fears, as soon as you lose self control, you hand over your inner personal power to your "perceived opponent" lashing out shows weakness, low self esteem and lack of self respect

  • @maryamarif4763
    @maryamarif4763 2 роки тому +4

    I subscribed...I just want to know what he is going to reply?

  • @sriyanjani
    @sriyanjani Рік тому

    I' have been too nice and kind, it's time to give it a change. Thanks for the lovely video.

  • @BibinpsTheNewBeginning
    @BibinpsTheNewBeginning Рік тому +1

    Attitude is everything 💕

  • @susanhayley9248
    @susanhayley9248 Рік тому +1

    yeah, especially men right xd. all men on the entire world, that would be fun, less anxities, less problems, less fighting and more sex xdd. that's how it would work, wouldn't it? also, to have the best expereince i tried those spanish fly which are for both genders and i must say "great!!"

  • @Star.star12224
    @Star.star12224 2 роки тому +4

    Simple thing just be a rich person with latest BMW and Lexus’s etc and everyone is under ur feet

  • @enterkey199
    @enterkey199 Рік тому +1

    U r the best... This is real what u said.. n i has do it before u upload this video.. for other, just follow this step... This is real.. thanks for all...believe The One it is your God..

  • @biopositiva5988
    @biopositiva5988 Рік тому

    Indeed, that's true, thanks for the useful tips 🌹

  • @lesterfan3294
    @lesterfan3294 Рік тому

    I will be subscribed to it this is helpful for anyone who must respect me and else !! I love it : ) thank you

  • @DivBelle
    @DivBelle Рік тому +1

    I am loving this channel

  • @glendabalmesmixvlog5017
    @glendabalmesmixvlog5017 Рік тому +1

    nice info. ty

  • @susantompkins4254
    @susantompkins4254 Рік тому +1

    Thank you, very helpful 😊

  • @chizomaofoegbu8740
    @chizomaofoegbu8740 Рік тому

    Just SUBSCRIBED. Watching and listening from Nigeria. Thanks for sharing your ideas with us

  • @31-December
    @31-December Рік тому +1

    Well put together. Thank you

  • @kalalukamwangala4698
    @kalalukamwangala4698 Рік тому

    This article has helped me much in how to improve even my personal traits.

  • @berlinaabalos1374
    @berlinaabalos1374 Рік тому

    Nice video love it!!!
    Thanks, more power and GOD BLESS

  • @dererishi
    @dererishi Рік тому +1

    I have Subscribed . Excellent video 😊👌

  • @mafeeshism
    @mafeeshism Рік тому

    I subscribed, Thank you!!

  • @yvonne_evie
    @yvonne_evie Рік тому +1

    03:05 speak up when you disagree(where my introverts at)
    all the others were great, bravo, stellar advice

  • @ejidelyndarx9427
    @ejidelyndarx9427 Рік тому

    I subscribed.
    I love this channel. I'm happy I subscribed.