WOW! If ever a comment wins the "Hits-The-Nail-Right-On-The-Head" Award Of The Month, I'm fairly certain this one qualifies for the month of December, if not January of 2023.😐
I tell you my husband was 45 years old. He died 11 months ago. We were married over 25 years I never had that experience he was everything to me, my best friend if I had a problem he was the best counsel I could go to he would never advise me to do something that was detrimental the respect and love I have for my husband goes far beyond words. I hope people find that for themselves. I will never be actively looking to be with someone again I just want the Lord Jesus to come so I can go to heaven and see Jameson again.
My condolences Mrs. Payne! Thank you for sharing. Nat King Cole wife, Otis Redding wife have the same beautiful perspective as yourself regarding their husbands. That is absolutely true love. Unimaginable to most people, absolutely profound. You truly honor him.
That’s because most men are a disappointment in the end. At least in my own experience. I have had a variety of men who I’ve had relationships with and they all turn out the same. Seriously! There’s been a jock, a teacher, a chef, a cop, a doctor, construction worker, a nerd and a gangster lol, a few bad boys and a few good boys. But in the end they are ALL THE SAME! It’s like I date the same guy over and over again! I realize it’s most likely my fault and somehow I attract them. I don’t know how to stop it though lol
@@alejandrovargas7592 i dated a girl for years who did the "i dont know what i want crap all the time" we had a nasty break up because she was cheating and i swore i would never tolerate that from a woman again. Shortly after we split i started dating a model, ( which i married and had 4 kids with and are still together today) but my ex saw us together at the mall one day and she saw me then looked at my wife ( who is stunning) and you could see the color drain right out of her body like she saw a ghost, that was all the payback i needed. Lol
Average to good looking women simply have too many options. Most of them aren't good but that doesn't matter men boost their ego and make them unsufferable. We have created a world where women are just far to comfortable. Women used to have to select men for very practical long-term reasons. Now they have so much sausage being thrown at them they have to screen even more. Often times for only when they're used up past their prime do they look to you the nice guy
@@edwardbremer6322 well my old lady came home after being dropped off a block away with her shirt on inside out and backwards wasted . Lmfao but denied any wrong doing 🤣 That was the straw that broke the camel's back. I suspected for awhile she wasn't faithful and I caught her . It was closure to me . I wasn't upset but more relieved as I told we are done . and since then no woman will ever get me jealous. Just give me the cold shoulder and I'm gone . Anyway been with same woman for 25 years . I have 4 kids and 3 grandkids since that disaster of a relationship though so there is hope
@@sethspence5552 men are also hypergamous, I do not think it is unique to women because I have seen it in plenty of trans people. It is the result of sexual stimulation without its deeper aspects of connection. It's the result of women looking at their man in a manner very similarly and very disturbingly how close it is to a drug addiction.
Maturity is a body thing. Based on aging and tons of information, research studies and theories of child development, maturation is a physical not mental state. The brain maturation is when it is complete in growth but the ability to adapt and change does not. It is just harder. The brain is only capable of what you allow it. Maturity is milestones. Understanding, not this. This is confusion but she is mature in her processing feelings and understanding mistakes. Also another idea is maturity is not that you have a house and are stable. But able to work through issues with ease. Saying you’re wrong when you are and standing up for your peace.
@@sethspence5552that is not ideal. Men create the problem by doing this. We were all young and dealt with this already. Many of us have been through a ton from older men. Micah miller. Dating young is manipulative “I want someone who I can mold like their father”.
I went through 3 women like this before I found my wife. When they start talking like they can do better, it’s time to set them free and invite them to go do better. All 3 of those girls talked about how great a man I was but still voiced reservations and wanted to keep their options open. I didn’t hesitate to let them explore their options as soon as it came up by stepping aside…for good. Two of them showed up and tried to hook back up when they found out I was engaged. Thank goodness I had no problem resisting any temptation.
@@porterdavis1612 guys like this will never accept it that their current gf "the one" will ever cheat on them. And to be fair most will never catch them.
@@bwink23 oh contrare sad person. The point is, there’s no reason to spend a day with a person who wants someone else. Giving then their freedom also grants you yours.
She doesn’t even give the man she’s leaving a second thought, he will be devastated, she doesn’t care! All she cares about is herself & that she thinks she can do better!
@@ErikLeed They are parasites 🦠 Moving from one host to the next, extracting all they can. After sucking the life & $$$ out of him, they then find the next unsuspecting victim to extract from in order to sustain their ferocious appetites. 🤣😂🤣
My first wife...she's still chasing the unobtainable. Wants me back, but that will never happen. Update: both ex-wives, apparently have seen the errors in their ways. All I see are the bullets that I dodged!
You can't say this one has nothing to offer. For one thing she's beautiful. That's something. But I know her type. A girl that good looking will rip you to shreds, particularly when they have that sort of attitude. I'm sure no one will ever be good enough for her.
She's drop dead gorgeous, yeah you can slam her and all but in reality there's an army of guys who will be dumstruck by her beauty before they ever found out there's anything wrong with her and even then they won't mind and will try to turn her arounr cuz she's so beautiful
My wife's friend left her husband for that reason. Found someone who told her how beautiful she was. I guess her husband wasn't the romantic type. Now that Casanova has gotten his fill, he's moved on. And the woman's ex moved on, too. She actually thought her ex would take her back.
That's what every guy who got heartbroken says 😂😂 as a way to cope and tell themselves that women can never be loyal 😂😂😂 level up be a real man and you can even have 4 wives 😂 stop crying
Ladies if you are reading this stop having sex with men unless you are in a committed relationship or you charging for sex. Men Just want sex, stop giving it to them for free
So she basically said that she chased the bad boy who gave her the tingles. Destroyed her solid relationship which would have lasted her a lifetime. Now she's alone in single and being ran through. That's her own fault for letting her value go down the drain.
On 1 hand yes no 1 wants a hoe, however on the other hand there aren't many high quality men out there, being a nice guy isn't effective, you can't provide fun, you don't provide thrills and you can't provide protection so why do you deserve a good woman who's also beautiful?
Your right - at her young age she's better off married to some scrub who will probably eventually leave her (or can't hardly get it up any more) strapped with two kids to finish raising.
@@ronthibault1853 OK Mr. Simp. You do realize 70 to 80% of marriages and because the woman leaves. Because she thinks she can do better and find out that the best she can do is her baby daddy. Why do you think 72% of generation Z has been raised by single mothers. It isn't men leaving the relationship it's women. Because they can sleep with the top 20% of men but those top 20% of men are using them as a warm wet hole. It's pretty funny that you wanted to grade your own gender. But who built this world who maintains this world. Your name fits perfectly for you Mr. Simp. Also don't forget this. Women have lost everything that men value. fit feminine friendly loyal low body counts purity. Not one of them traditional. But they all want traditional masculine men. Why would men commit to a thought. The average woman nowadays has 10 for a body count or higher output or higher I would put more towards higher like like triple digit. On top of it all no man wants to raise an old man's children. On top of that no man wants to commit 2 a 304. You can not turn a 304 into a housewife we already know this it's been proven through society from generations upon generations. We have a whole generation of women who are gonna grow up gonna grow up alone with a cat hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. And us men we don't care at all whatsoever.
Nah. Has nothing to do with bad boys, which btw are not attractive at all. Her old BF inflated her self esteem and now she thinks she can chase higher status men. But its bitten her in the butt. Lol.
When I was much younger, 28, 70 now, my first fiancé did this to me. I was working & going to school. I was raising her first kid like she was mine. Came home from work one night to be told she wanted to go out with other guys. That was the end of that. Three years later her Mom called me to ask if I would consider her again, when asked why, she said you're the only guy that treated her with any respect. Since she had two more kids with two more guys, I told her Mom, sorry, she should have realised earlier what she had.
Thats crazy man! Her mom called you because she knew her daughter messed up. The crazy part is that her mom should have never called you asking you that. Seems like moms intentions were to get her daughter and grandkids taken care of financially to remove the burden from her. Good thing you didnt fall for that.
Actually it is you that is missing from your life you’ve turned your life if you’re ridiculous showcase in order to attract something that you don’t know is it good or bad for you you’re an actual yourself and tell your life will definitely not be what you want to do because it’s missing that one ingredient, YOU!!
I had a friend who was model gorgeous. We had a conversation about relationships and it came out that she was divorced. She said "I married my high school sweetheart. He loved me and we were happy and compatible but I was convinced that I needed someone who matched my looks." She looked at me with the sadist of eyes and said "I hurt him and it was the biggest mistake of my life." She was beautiful, smart, accomplished and alone.
This attitude is why so many men are swearing off of marriage and even relationships now. You get married, she gets bored, isn’t satisfied or doesn’t feel like she gets enough “attention” and the next thing you know she’s looking elsewhere and you’re in court losing half your assets, retirement, house and paying alimony and child support.
I feel for young men today as a GenXer I escaped the madness of women who's minds are poisoned with toxic feminism. GenX women are more traditional like.
Maybe both partners should work on themselves and be better together instead of blaming men/women for all their problems? Oh but what do I know. I’ve been with my husband and raised his nephew after my SIL died, before we got married I was there by his side to help. But I’m just a stupid woman whose DNA is working against me to make men’s lives hard! And the woke want all men to die/suffer! “Feminist power!” Perhaps the truth is eluding you all bc you blind yourselves to it. It’s easier to blame everyone else than look in a mirror.
But that just goes to show that all that "strong independent woman" bs is just that: bullshit. If a guy is all nice and simping and all that, he's not good enough for her. I've heard multiple women say bullshit like "I'm pretty extreme, I need a guy that's able to handle me." Handle, as in handling a wild animal? Taming it? Or handling a toy? They need men to help them keep their sanity and give them a sense of direction in life. Simply said, they need men who will lead them. It's just that recently that bar has gone ridiculously high, and they still try to deny it, and everyone that speaks like me is a misogynistic patriarchal pig. So, when women subconsciously describe that they're looking for exactly what I said just now, it's all fine, and they're totally clueless about what they're saying, but If someone like Andrew Tate actually describes it in more detail, plain and simple, he's a monster and a misogynist. Why? Because social media doesn't want young men to think for themselves, but instead mindlessly subscribe to OF and porn and hope that one day they get the attention of a godess that they so much desire.
And having the false sense of access to these “high quality” men through social media makes them miserable because they think they could do better when in reality they can’t
Yes let's bash the woman who wants the best and doesn't wanna settle,,,, why don't you go marry a whale, they'll stay at home, they'll cook all the time and she won't cheat on you but apparently thats not good enough for you, everyone has needs that need to be met, some people want quality, some people want quantity and most of you guys are just whining about not being chosen by the hot chick but you aren't making moves on the ugly ones either
Another aspect of this is hookup culture negatively affecting a woman's view of herself. She might be 6, but the one night that she manages to sleep with Chad (despite getting ghosted the next day) will convince her that she is a 9.
@@buzzcutbiene2211I mean the statistics are the statistics, and while it's not ONLY women, it is 80% of women filing for divorce, and 90% in marriages involving college educated women. And it is only women who refuse to date down social hierarchies, while men exclusively date down. So yeah, pretty much all data ever taken on the subject, and hundreds of years of psychological studies, all show that it is women the vast vast majority of the time. I mean western children, and thus future generations, have basically been destroyed because of women breaking homes, a problem that didn't exist before women could leave a marriage for any reason whatsoever. You should probably look at the statistics on children from single mother homes, and how pretty much all of societies problems stem from them. Drug abuse, poverty, violent crime, sinking educational standards, overcrowded prisons, etc, etc.
She is extremely beautiful and those are the ones that are the most trouble. If you find an average looking girl that has a good heart and is a wonderful person you're far better off
I disagree. All that average girl needs to do is get a promotion or get a better job and once she making more than you she will do the exact same thing. She will always think she can do better. It's not about their beauty. It's not about the hardware. It's all about software. Women are biologically programed to be that way. They can't help it. It's part of evolution.
@@danwelterweight4137 100% or sleep with a dude that's above her but wants nothing to do with her yet that's what she thinks is her level it's a cold world if you don't know how to move out there.
And it doesn't end. You could be married to her for 20+ years and she could still eventually come out with that "something missing in my life." My sister was like this chick in the video, except she was married to her husband for 22 years. She had "this feeling" and started going crazy; going back to her teenage years partying, chasing dudes, cheating.... She left and now I never hear the end of how much she regrets leaving him because she hasn't found anyone better yet.
She doesn't regret leaving him... Even right now if Mr. Perfect walked up to her and she had a choice between Perfect and her ex husband she would choose ex husband... Simply because she has failed to secure anything better than him
Dogs gotta bark...snake will always bite...women do what they gotta do cuz it's in their DNA, that's why in non western countries..men tell them what's good for them...cuz they don't know what's good for them.
A woman's idea of commitment is until her emotions run dry a man's Idea is until his bones crack open and his heart stops..2 completely different mentalities. Men are basically the default special forces of commitment and love while women are like reserves or privates.
I'm going to tell a joke on this topic, it's a little long but for me it's perfect! One day a man was walking alone along the beach very early in the morning. After a storm the sand was full of trash washed up by the tide. He was diverting the waste and ended up spotting a very beautiful bottle. He took the bottle, opened it and boom, a purple smoke came out, the classic genie. Before being able to recover, the entity spoke: - Unlike legend, you can only make one request, so think carefully! The man thought and thought and then finally said: - I've always wanted to go to Europe, but I'm terrified of planes and ships, so I want a bridge that goes from Boston to London! The genie shook his head and said: - That's not possible, we geniuses are here granting requests for centuries and you don't see elevators to the Moon and other absurd things, ask for a reasonable thing! The man thought some more and finally said: - Okay, so I want to understand women! In reply the very disturbed genie said: - How many lanes do you want this bridge with? Greetings from Brazil.
I've dated women just like her. Even after I am loyal, loving, affectionate, everything they claim to want, they get bored of me and move on. Then they hit me up years later after they have hooked up with other men, thinking I will take them back.
That’s sad :/ once I found a good man I wanted to lock that shit down. He was worried if change my mind after I turned 25 but I was like NAHH. We went though hell and back together, got married. I’m SO grateful for him everyday. All I ever wanted was to marry someone who is my best friend and we can grow old together. And we agree our sex life is an “exceeds expectations” for married life. There’s never a boring day 😂 not when your SIL dies and you’re raising your teenage nephew together ha. Best thing to do is improve yourself, so you’re the best you that you can be in each moment and to attract a good fit who is doing the same. I can be loyal to a fault when it comes to friendships and I’ve definitely let people manipulate me… I’ve left female and male friends… people like this aren’t friends at all. I hope they learn.
@@schuylergeery-zink1923 “We went through hell and back together”. That doesn’t sound like a fairy tale, but a real love story. Not many are willing to drive that road, but is the key of a strong, mature relationship. Good for you two!
They don’t know what they want. It’s up to us to tell them what’s best; lead and teach them. Only listen to like 5% of what she says. We men suppose to go within to get a what we need.
She is chasing a dopamine hit that she thinks is love. She is addicted to a feeling, the feeling of being in love. Look this woman /girls speak. I want him to be like that and like that... But these girls NEVER speak what they want to do for them.
This makes sense as a single woman. Would always wonder why men talked about this when first meeting them, this was always super important for them to bring up . The women they meet probably eat it up, real women do not care about this.
I had an ex like that. She was always looking for the better mate. One with more money , better car, house ,job. Blah blah. I'm glad we're no longer together she was a nightmare
The thing missing from her life is common sense, modesty, morality, respect for herself and others, responsibility, accountability, self discipline, the ability to think critically. After all girls just want to have fun.
You'll notice that in the Simpsons one of the things the Crazy Cat Lady throws at people is her framed Harvard law diploma. The Simpsons knew what was coming...
Why do men act like we are so much different? Many of us(me including) treat good women like trash, then comes a girl that treat us like trash... and then we start to appreciate the good women! I believe its the same with this girl, she is young and unexperienced...
The reason I walked away from marriage and relationships was because I learned that 80% of divorces are initiated by women. This fact is much more important statistic for men to understand than hypergamy is
@@miket6094 I was dumb enough to get married twice! I regret ever getting married ! Both of them fucked me and both pulled the same shit ! It took me 54 years to understand a woman's nature and they are always looking for better no matter how long you're married for or even going out ? They will monkey branch your ass with no regrets! I'm red pill 100 percent and that's not even having kids,? You have kids your wife and the state will own your ass for 18 years if not longer it's just not worth it anymore to get involved ! Men need to focus on themselves to improve their lives !
Hypergamy is not just about feelings. Women have brains too, they can think. She doesn't just feel that she can do better, she also THINKS that she can do better. When it serves their purpose, women will use feelings as an excuse to avoid responsibility for what they knowingly set out to do.
My three sisters have held on to their husbands for dear life. They never traded up because they knew where they were in the marketplace. They are smart.
A result of some good nurturing through growing up perhaps. Hats off you all and your parents. ( let me guess,. you had two parents?, one of "each" gender?)
Oh my sweet summer child… this is impossible. Haven’t you heard -auntie george- rollo? Doesn’t matter if your sisters were raised right. They still get flown to Saudi every 2 weeks to entertain princes and their camels while your brothers-in-law look the other way. It’s science, it’s biology, it’s hard-wired deterministic stuff. I’m sorry bro, your sisters are getting 🚂 on the daily. cqfd,▫️
As a man will never be truly happy if you actually think that all women act like this. before anyone comments please tell me how many women you ACTUALLY spent time talking to and approaching within the past month because I regularly talk to women that I see on the street at the mall at the grocery store and I don't see this at all. right now I'm dating a girl that some would argue is more attractive than me and also makes more money than me. Stop using this as an excuse to not work on yourself and actually find the love you know deep down inside you actually want but the red pill convinces you to be angry about.
To be fair, all data and statistics are against what you are saying. Oh and statistically a women making more than a man is the number one indicator of a divorce. Every phycological study shows that women date up and over social hierarchies while men date over and down. Basically an "equal" is the height of settling for the vast majority of human kind. Women prefer someone waaaay better than themselves, but worst case scenario, she will settle for someone on her level. But she will never date and be satisfied with someone lower than her. Meanwhile, a king usually has no problems marrying a peasant women. Oh and you "talking" to women really means nothing. Studies show that the vast majority of women lie about what they are attracted to better fit into what is socially acceptable, which is why most women make blatantly false claims like "I want a sensitive man in touch with his emotions" meanwhile, when actually measuring their level of arousal, those kind of men turn them off, and high testosterone masculine men physically arouse them. This is the case for even the most feminist of feminist women, not even they are actually attracted to sensitive men, they just get to feel all nice and sweet for saying it. Which also contributes to the horrible state of relationships in the western world, because a significant number of men actually believe the stupid stuff they say they like. All the while the chads that go to the gym and make good money are hoarding all the puss.
Yeah, she cheated on him with me and he told me about some other guy. -Sincerely, the other guy. She won't talk to me directly years later, but I hope she agrees to go on a trip tour with me as my friend dropped out.
My ex said as she was leaving me that she felt she could do better. 5 years later she is still single and I replaced her faster than yiu can say Change The Locks. 😂
When you are THAT Attractive.. you live in an alternative reality. Doors magically open for you.. coats go down over the mud for you.. bartenders give you the best booze.. with an even number of ice cubes.. You Rarely ever hear the word "no", or have to flex the muscle of compromise - and eventually, through no fault of your own, that muscle begins to atrophy. Then, one day.. someone breaks out of that mold of pure fantasy.. and you are utterly blindsided. It doesn't mean you are mean, or evil, or stupid.. just conditioned to a different reality. One that the rest of us do not live in. And the result can be a bit of a shocker.
When she tells you “ I love you” but “I am not in love with you” your relationship is done. Don’t beg, don’t ask why, just let her go.. she is shit testing you to see if you will beg. She is already preparing to monkey branch or has monkey branched. She is just confirming regardless of how good she might be have it with you if you are the best she can get in that very moment of her emotions. She is NOT looking at the long term effect of what this does to the man or her kids. It’s only about herself!
@@MichaelSmith-ku7ki The 2nd wife's was the best. 1 month after we divorced the guy she was cheating with fell over, hit his head and died from a hemorrhage to the brain. Ironically I never knew at the time and we were arguing on phone after the incident and I said I hope the old fart dies, not knowing he had. Boy did I gloat
@@PIERCED6966 She's talking about your ex probably didn't get any money because the guy she was cheating with spent all his money paying for her services.
I read an article where archaeologists and other scientists found a village from the caveman days. Not sure how they figured this stuff out but they found strong evidence of domestic violence from that era. The men beat the piss out of their female partners. Not condoning abuse or violence of any kind but I find it funny that even back then, men had it with females.
Nice guys finish last. 🫡 Maybe it’s something a guy should look at, first thing every day. Just a reminder of how to prepare for the day. Am I giving too much? Am I being too nice? Am I putting myself past? Am I too caring? Am I hoping this person will Love me back? Am I giving allot expecting something in return? Am I trying to help someone and getting nothing in return? Am I my priority or is someone else? Am I that persons priority? I have a neat trick someone showed me years ago. How could of this woman better helped or supported your needs and desires? Once you have the answer See it in your mind Attach an imagine line to it Now find a spot on your body where you can receive it And attach the other side of the line to where you can receive it. Learn to sort of give yourself everything you want and need from a woman in this way… Until you learn to detach.. The more detached you become The more attractive you become to woman Because you no longer want or need them in your life You no longer come across as needy or desperate or insecure and chasing them around to feel whole or complete etc. You will no longer have a void within yourself and you will less dependent and more independent They make even feel compelled to start giving to you because you don’t want anything from them Because you can leave them without consequence Because you don’t care about them They can feel that energy Woman are sensitive to anyone pushing or putting pressure on them Do conform to the wants and needs of others But You will see woman give and throw away their entries lives on guys thag don’t even care about them at all. You don’t even need to give much to a woman to receive her total love attention care and revolution If your not getting it It’s because your giving it And wanting it in return. Giving to recieve Really screws men The desire for reciprocation Then whining and complaining Poor me nobody loved me I try so hard No more trying Do something instead No chasing No trying They don’t deserve all of your love and attention so just stop giving it to them And focus on yourself Let them come to you For real For every man you see out there That’s failing I bet he’s desperately trying really hard to cling to some woman that’s running from him to be with someone else And it’s because he’s so needy And because he doesn’t care or take good care of his self Have self esteem Or put his self first When you make yourself the priority That’s how you let woman know That they need to make you the profit and if they don’t do that Good You don’t need them That’s how you get a woman’s attention I don’t need you That lets them know that their not shit And they will seek your approval instead Even jump through hoops at times to satisfy or please you So you don’t leave them
What she does not talk about is all her friends encouraging her to pursue this feeling and dump the other dude. Women know women and they hate each other - seem many women destroy great relationships of their friends out of jealousy.
If that's true, that's disgusting. Both that a woman's so-called lady "Friends" would do that, and that she'd listen to them... Brothers, have any of you been able to confirm this happened to you? I believe this may be what happened to my marriage, though I am not certain.
@@JustALowClassWarrior Yes this happens a lot, but mind you it happens with men as well. If their friends don’t like you, they’ll always encourage her to leave you as soon as she gets a chance, instead of having your back. This is why I think you should to get their friends to like you
@@Johnnysmithy24 I appreciate your response, but I disagree. At that point, if she is so unhappy that what I bring to the table isn't enough for her, that she is still swayed by them to leave me, she should just leave. I don't need a female partner in my life who keeps a bunch of thirsty betas waiting on the side. If she wants them, she can have them. I make a solid effort to get to know, befriend, and care for people in my life, including friends of hers, but I don't need that kind of crap.
@@Johnnysmithy24Nah. Not even. Sorry. I know at least I've never had any of my buddies try to convince me to leave a girl. Though i have experienced first hand on more than one occaision her female friends trying to split us up. One time it was successful. It's a female thing. Sometimes that female "friend", just wanted to date you instead of her. Pretty pathetic.
This is a common problem with people, it’s a feeling of never feeling content with what you have. People want it all, but you just can’t because in the end you just wind up with nothing.
@Poop take your red pills daily bruddah- eventually the philosophy will just flow through you, on auto- nothing new, no new stories from the stragg, and the phrases, verses, and lines on tap for every situation.
They call it a carousel for a reason. They get on, get off, repeat for no reason or aim. Then they cry when they waited too long to have children. Watch out though: some beautiful women are smart enough to figure this out and avoid the problems. While some average women act like as if they look good when they don't. They do the same silly games so don't think you are safe if you "settle for less."
The way to combat that is to show that you are desirable to others without being a narcissist. Once she sees that others find you desirable her limbic system will make her realise "others find him desirable, so now I don't want anyone else to have him" - obviously there are a ton of variables.
You can't "combat" people driving against traffic on a highway by signaling you're driving the right way,if the spark of "oh my god,what the hell am i doing" is missing then there will never be enough self awareness to navigate life using brain over impulse
@@questionsfrog1918 I'm not saying it's fool proof...however I've had enough personal experiences which accurately reflect my aforementioned statements so 🤷♂️ as I said, there's always variables
My best friend dated a good guy for about 4 years. As far as I knew, he always seemed genuine and humble, kind and respectful from a good family too etc. And she even admitted to me since we're bff's and all that she wouldn't mind marrying him despite not really being truly in love with him. 🤷♀️🤦♀️Well, near the end of their relationship she basically said the same bs this girl in this video says, so she got on a dating app and started talking to and seeing other guys she met on there which as her friend I tried to talk some sense into her and asking her what the hell is wrong with her because that's pretty much cheating. But whatever, anyway, she started talking to this guy she met on the dating up and broke her boyfriend's heart when she left him for the well-off business owner who lives uptown and has a big fancy house with a swimming pool who turned out to be an alcoholic drunk, abusive, narcissistic a-hole who knocked her up less than 2 months of dating and now she's trapped and now I'm always her shoulder to cry on even after I warned her constantly he was no good from the start. 😒
My core principle of evaluating women. Remove pushy from her. What do you have in common? What principles, hobbies and interests? What does she bring to enrich your life? Add in semen retention and you basically discard almost all women.
Men just want to feel loved. During my relationship, I didn’t put sex on the pedestal. I only liked sex because afterwards she would be more feminine and loving.
It's the same "feeling" Eve had when she wanted to experience the "apple" she knew she wasn't supposed to have anything to do with. ....reverberating down through time.
@@AlchemicalForge91 You know for a fact interdimensionality doesn't exist? Even scientists are admitting that it's pretty much a foregone conclusion at this point that they see effects of other dimensions existing that we are incapable of breaching ourselves. If that is true in itself, then we have no idea what else exists out there. Try not being so closed-minded. We're not meant to be able to quantify and confirm everything about our existence, some things CAN be beyond us and more powerful. Theoretically, would self-conscious video game characters ever be able to prove who made them with their scientific methods that we designed? It's foolish to think science, theoretically and philosophically, would be able to prove things that are BEYOND us and our methods for a fucking reason.
@@HOLLASOUNDS And everything about that behavior is temporary. It’s self gratification and pursuing dopamine is what sleeping around is. Get real, and go to the gym if you have that fuckboy mindset. 🫵 Then maybe you’ll realize how important emotional connection is with a loyal person. After a while, the gratification gets old, and when that happens, it’s too late, and your addiction has destroyed your love life, and has done NOTHING to benefit your life.
@@___solar___ I dont sleep around actually and often dont even bother with getting to deep into women because they mess Me about so much and I basically dont have time for it. Most of My girlfriends have been just as good looking as the women in the video and prehaps that's part of the problem.
Yet another example that if you treat a woman like a princes she will get bored and treat you as a door mat. If you treat her poorly she will call you a narcissist (very trendy name calling nowadays). So, bottom line is they don't know what they want.....
They do know what they want but it's unrealistic. Are u the type of guy she would be willing 2 tolerate, or maybe even begin 2 love? Most of us don't fit the dream guy.
Even prince's, rich famous film stars and athletes can't keep their woman happy. You can't please them as they won't even acknowledge the issue is predominantly within them. But we all know accountibilty is kryptonite 😂
@@stevesteiner7220it depends how you look at it.. not sure it's better if there are no families. It's just different world with lots of kids without a father.
4 years ago I went single and celibate and it's been the best 4 years of my life. Financially and spiritually, grown closer to the Lord Christ and my bank account has significantly gone through the roof. I highly recommend it today gentleman, especially with this modern-day trash
To be fair, some Men do that or something similar - conquer more. Remember the 70s singer-rapper(?) Curtis Blow(?)'s song - "These are the Breaks"? "... Hotel, Motel, Holiday Inn - If your Girl starts acting up, then you date her Friends..." 😊 Lack of commitment after pairing off. I'm sure everyone experiences that to some degree - more to the youngest, with lousy Partners, and those hitting the late 30s; but once Children come along, commitments are commitments...
@@BreadAndGatorade I use to chill with this chick who looked really good. The "one who got away" for her is some guy who had a load of money and took her on vacations/holidays. The thing is he never even touched her. He just chilled with her and took pics in 5 star hotels ect. She later realised he was gay as they come but he had to keep his straight player image going. Basically if you're a guy, make as much money as possible and have high status. It's like how we like big butts, boobs, small waist ect .. They like our money 💰!
10years later: She is scrolling through that guy's happy family feed while this video pops up and her cats poop down the litterbox but she's too heavy on wine to move. A shitty ending, literally :)
BEAUTY IS A CURSE,first to get raped,first to get pregnant,first to get dumped,first to BE PLAYED,fall out of love with your beautiful faces,break all mirrors,live life with a good man,choose one,stay focused,stay HAPPY
A lot of the time women think they're trading up, however there is often a predator tricking them into an abusive situation . He's mastered the art of appearing to be an upward move when in reality he's a narcissist who plays head games. What's more is these same woman will often have a child with this creep. And the innocent child becomes the real victim.
yeah I have noticed and see it as poetic justice that often the guy they move onto is worse and treats them worse. You can't help but laugh at it a bit.
Or, they themselves are the narcissist, and they push the next victim into reactive abuse. Neither gender has a monopoly on narcissism, though the behavior described as hypergamy is an extremely common behavior saving narcissists. Actually, many of the negative stereotypes of women in relationships are narcissistic (and usually don't hold true in emotionally healthy women). For example: silent treatment, expectation of mind-reading, deflecting criticism by bringing up the long buried past, projection, all are traits of a narcissist, regardless of gender.
Its not just hypergamy its the fact that shes been with so many guys before him that she cannot pair bond, and at any low point in the relationships she will compare her current partners faults to every other guy shes been with that doesn't have those faults.
How do you know that she has been with many guys? Your woman hating is showing. Don't worry about her or any other woman. The type of men that gets girls do not have the same attitude that you have.
The flip side of hypergamy is she gets older and older so when she leaves because she's hit her wall -- you get to get a younger one guilt free. Dazed and confused "I get older but they stay the same age." She's never your's. It's just your turn.
My neighbor cheated on her husband and she abandoned the house and moved with her new dude. Then she was dumped by the other guy and now she's fat, lonely and miserable. If women don't try to suppress their hypergamy they'll die alone with 9 cats 🐈
@@Mrscheesecake1 Stereotypes are there for a reason. No husband, no kids, no family, just cats. You'll notice that in the Simpsons one of the things the Crazy Cat Lady throws at people is her Harvard diploma.
In 2008 I was MADLY in love with a beautiful but emotionally high maintenance Australian girl. I was in the army, deployed to Afghanistan. Came back and a month later the relationship was effectively over. She traded me in for a “more exciting” Irish backpacker and lied to me about it.
This is why you stay single fellas. It's tougher when you're younger, but once you get into your 30s it all becomes so so clear. You realize that you dodged some serious bullet.
Yep. I'm 40 and have been single since 35 after my last shit show of a relationship. I'm finally at peace and I don't miss any of that crap. If I find someone on my level I'll consider being in a relationship but no one is up to my standards so far. Not going to waste my time. I spend my time and energy on much more positive and healthy and creative and joyful things now
No dude you just find a good woman, get her knocked up, be the best man you can be, raise your family, and live your life with a purpose. If she eventually fucks off or fucks you over then cross that bridge when you come to it. Don't live your life in fear of what people on the internet told you a hypothetical woman might do to you.
@@everydayvacaytaj totally resonate with your comment and on the same boat! I'll never waste my energy engaging in toxic and negative relationships with negative ppl anymore! Had to learn the hard way tho
She didn’t even need to finish the story, and I knew it … Her: “… Treated me like a Princess, and woulda been a the best husband …” Me: Lemme guess. You left him anyway. 😒 Yeah. F- girls like this.
Why is it that the good guys only get talked about when they talk about marriage? Makes it seem like they settle for the good guy over the guy they want
Modern women ruin their lives by chasing feminist beliefs. Never happy, Chaotic, and will thankfully end up alone. Men know the difference between feminine real women and Modern Feminist.
Most women are not hypergamous.. hypergamy is fake, especially considering there are poorer countries that have more traditional values and families that stay together, not predicated on who’s the richest.. but in the US the divorce rate is the highest, but there’s wealth here.. Hypergamy is easy to debunk.. and you dudes are only screwing yourselves convincing women that they’re hypergamous by nature.
Learn from my experience... After two divorces, my anecdotal experience should be a cautionary tale. There's no making a woman happy from anything external you could do for her. My second wife left me when I was making much more than when she first met me. If she's broken, you will not fix her... Dismiss this at your own financial peril...
@Michael Perrigo if I hadn't found out, how would I possibly know? 🤔 However I have no particular reason to think she did cheat on me, so I'd be very foolish to poison myself with suspicion as long as there is no specific reason to do so.
There's a lot of sad men out there trying to make themselves feel better about their failed relationships. This red pill bs is about that not about women There's both men and women that are good and bad partners
@@islandparadise1576 There is something to be said about most modern marriages being ended predominantly by women. Among my wife's girlfriends, every one of them has left their husbands. We often joke we are the last of the Mohicans remaining. Or actually - *she* is the last of the Mohicans remaining, having stayed with her husband while all others have left theirs! 😅 I've been pretty lucky compared to a lot of guys out there..
This is directly on point. Hypergamy is a women's curse. Its consequences spills over into all areas of her life with a sense of unsettled discontentment. If women could only understand this as an instinctual discomfort, they could self-check and avoid emotionally damaging decisions for themselves and the wake of destruction for all those in close relationship to her.
Wanna control hypergamy in women? Make sure that after she likes you and decides to go out with you… keep yourself mysterious to her, never tell her your feelings, don’t treat her like a queen, less contact and less emotion all the time and she won’t look for someone else.
When l dated in my 20s l always gave just enough, and they would always stick around. I also let them know l was in the market for my librarian during the day and my stripper at night. If they couldn’t supply both….. there’s goes the door.
@@TheNEXXFAZE that was good… too bad not many men are reading your comments here because friend, yes… that’s how a woman wants to be treated, they don’t mind being ignored at times and they like a man who can tell them: No and means it. Good story for sure, thank you for sharing.
inb4 literally every hole says "THAT'S NOT REAL IT'S PSOODOSOYENCE REEEEEEEE" and totally ignores every warning they get before they hit the wall and Mach Jesus.
One of the best formulas for keeping a woman that I heard in the RP community was: - Stay on purpose and being your best version. Work on your money, your mind, your muscles (Don't decline once you got a woman) - Pick a woman whose SMV is lower than yours. If you're a 9, then pick a 7. If you're 6, pick a 4. - So that when she wakes up next to you she'll feel she's already doing the best she can.
Wow! My kid sister is 50 as well. Never married and never had kids. She thinks Romeo is still out there. What she fails to realize is that she also needs to bring something to the table. Especially at 50.
@@Freedom_for_Palestina It not about her. It's about men who fall into these traps. We are warning men with the behaviour and the mentality of these women.
i know women like that, strangely enough they are all alone and cry all the time about how bad men are and how they will never find a good one... all of them had a good partner before but threw them away because they thought they could find a better one. just one of them regrets it and has understood, that you often only appreciate what you had when it is gone...
In the past, women were able to contain this feeling. They compared themselves to their peers or their family, like their sister. but with social media it made that empty feeling 10 times worse
Yeah I agree. When my ex wanted to end the relationship, I’m pretty sure she was already talking to someone for at least two months. How do I know? The day she was taking me to post office to drop most of my stuff, she didn’t even hesitate to stare at a rich 40 year old good looking guy. It was a lustful and desire look, not giving 3 fucks that I was next to her. You fall down, you get up and you move on. There ain’t nothing else to do.
I'm sorry that happened to you. If I had someone special in my life, I would never let him go because if a guy treats me right, I'm not anywhere. You'll find someone who loves you for you. The one you're no longer with is not worth your tears.
If she wants you, you won't have to do anything. If she doesn't want you, there is nothing you can do.
True
WOW! If ever a comment wins the "Hits-The-Nail-Right-On-The-Head" Award Of The Month, I'm fairly certain this one qualifies for the month of December, if not January of 2023.😐
I take it you don't "Beat around the bush" too much?😶🤣
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cute Disney story there. But they’re a lot more complicated and slithering then that.
I tell you my husband was 45 years old. He died 11 months ago. We were married over 25 years I never had that experience he was everything to me, my best friend if I had a problem he was the best counsel I could go to he would never advise me to do something that was detrimental the respect and love I have for my husband goes far beyond words. I hope people find that for themselves. I will never be actively looking to be with someone again I just want the Lord Jesus to come so I can go to heaven and see Jameson again.
Hey adrienne...im so sorry for your loss... i hope in time your pain lessens and youre just left with good memories... sorry for your loss... Dave
God bless you Adrienne. Jameson is always there with you.
Sweet. God bless you all
My condolences Mrs. Payne! Thank you for sharing. Nat King Cole wife, Otis Redding wife have the same beautiful perspective as yourself regarding their husbands. That is absolutely true love. Unimaginable to most people, absolutely profound. You truly honor him.
You didn't have social media distorting reality.
Women with that voice are 100% going to ruin your life.
What???
that kind of no care kind of tone. ive heard that many times. that attitude usually comes with that.
@@thatsaveryrealthing5183 yes actually they started this feminist BS
My first thought.
@@litpen8056 It's that voice that says "My delusion has never been checked."
The secret to happiness is being grateful, & content with what you have… not constantly looking for MORE.
Happiness is fleeting, subjective and meaningless, contentment is all that matters
Yes, gratitude leads to contentment. Needs to be said more often.
Agree. Happiness is not having what you want…it is wanting what you have.
As Sheryl Crow said "is not having what you want, is wanting what you've got"
That’s because most men are a disappointment in the end. At least in my own experience. I have had a variety of men who I’ve had relationships with and they all turn out the same. Seriously! There’s been a jock, a teacher, a chef, a cop, a doctor, construction worker, a nerd and a gangster lol, a few bad boys and a few good boys. But in the end they are ALL THE SAME! It’s like I date the same guy over and over again! I realize it’s most likely my fault and somehow I attract them. I don’t know how to stop it though lol
When a woman tells you " i dont know what i want" your relationship is doomed, that is code for im shopping for a better deal.
Yep!! Nailed that you did. Also: "It's Not You, it's Me". When a woman tells you that, it's automatically a lie.
@@alejandrovargas7592 i dated a girl for years who did the "i dont know what i want crap all the time" we had a nasty break up because she was cheating and i swore i would never tolerate that from a woman again. Shortly after we split i started dating a model, ( which i married and had 4 kids with and are still together today) but my ex saw us together at the mall one day and she saw me then looked at my wife ( who is stunning) and you could see the color drain right out of her body like she saw a ghost, that was all the payback i needed. Lol
That's when "I'm gone" and usually that same girl would blow up my phone wanting to talk with in days
Average to good looking women simply have too many options. Most of them aren't good but that doesn't matter men boost their ego and make them unsufferable. We have created a world where women are just far to comfortable. Women used to have to select men for very practical long-term reasons. Now they have so much sausage being thrown at them they have to screen even more. Often times for only when they're used up past their prime do they look to you the nice guy
@@edwardbremer6322 well my old lady came home after being dropped off a block away with her shirt on inside out and backwards wasted . Lmfao but denied any wrong doing 🤣 That was the straw that broke the camel's back. I suspected for awhile she wasn't faithful and I caught her . It was closure to me . I wasn't upset but more relieved as I told we are done . and since then no woman will ever get me jealous. Just give me the cold shoulder and I'm gone . Anyway been with same woman for 25 years . I have 4 kids and 3 grandkids since that disaster of a relationship though so there is hope
The thing missing from your life is maturity.
That's how they age out of the market place because men aren't hypergamous they will just date younger.
@@sethspence5552 men are also hypergamous, I do not think it is unique to women because I have seen it in plenty of trans people.
It is the result of sexual stimulation without its deeper aspects of connection.
It's the result of women looking at their man in a manner very similarly and very disturbingly how close it is to a drug addiction.
Maturity is a body thing. Based on aging and tons of information, research studies and theories of child development, maturation is a physical not mental state. The brain maturation is when it is complete in growth but the ability to adapt and change does not. It is just harder. The brain is only capable of what you allow it. Maturity is milestones. Understanding, not this. This is confusion but she is mature in her processing feelings and understanding mistakes.
Also another idea is maturity is not that you have a house and are stable. But able to work through issues with ease. Saying you’re wrong when you are and standing up for your peace.
@@sethspence5552that is not ideal. Men create the problem by doing this. We were all young and dealt with this already. Many of us have been through a ton from older men. Micah miller. Dating young is manipulative “I want someone who I can mold like their father”.
@@ClementineShmementine Bot
I went through 3 women like this before I found my wife. When they start talking like they can do better, it’s time to set them free and invite them to go do better. All 3 of those girls talked about how great a man I was but still voiced reservations and wanted to keep their options open. I didn’t hesitate to let them explore their options as soon as it came up by stepping aside…for good. Two of them showed up and tried to hook back up when they found out I was engaged. Thank goodness I had no problem resisting any temptation.
Thanks for your story.... although pretty pointless
Until yo current girl does the same ol shit
@@porterdavis1612 guys like this will never accept it that their current gf "the one" will ever cheat on them. And to be fair most will never catch them.
@@bwink23 oh contrare sad person. The point is, there’s no reason to spend a day with a person who wants someone else. Giving then their freedom also grants you yours.
Just make sure your new wife don't try and trade up
She doesn’t even give the man she’s leaving a second thought, he will be devastated, she doesn’t care!
All she cares about is herself & that she thinks she can do better!
that is why a man who takes back an ex should be put in prison.
Women are survivalists. They are resource extractors. They are pragmatists.
@@ErikLeed
They are parasites 🦠
Moving from one host to the next, extracting all they can. After sucking the life & $$$ out of him, they then find the next unsuspecting victim to extract from in order to sustain their ferocious appetites.
🤣😂🤣
Women sacrifice family for happiness every time
I was suicidal for 6 months..27 yrs..crushed by rich old man with sweet words and no boundaries...of course she ran to him...they all do..DNA.
My first wife...she's still chasing the unobtainable. Wants me back, but that will never happen. Update: both ex-wives, apparently have seen the errors in their ways. All I see are the bullets that I dodged!
Stick to your guns
You're the man.
Stay STRONG 💪 better is coming your way🙏
Same...my wife left me for that feeling.
Of course she does! Why wouldn't she?!
Sad part is they literally have nothing to offer them selves, yet they want the world.
You can't say this one has nothing to offer. For one thing she's beautiful. That's something. But I know her type. A girl that good looking will rip you to shreds, particularly when they have that sort of attitude. I'm sure no one will ever be good enough for her.
@@kevinmeserole7345 being beautiful is not something to offer 🤣
@@TehZNCify gee thanks for pointing that out
@@TehZNCify it’s something but it doesn’t last. Eventually you have to talk lol
She's drop dead gorgeous, yeah you can slam her and all but in reality there's an army of guys who will be dumstruck by her beauty before they ever found out there's anything wrong with her and even then they won't mind and will try to turn her arounr cuz she's so beautiful
My wife's friend left her husband for that reason. Found someone who told her how beautiful she was. I guess her husband wasn't the romantic type. Now that Casanova has gotten his fill, he's moved on. And the woman's ex moved on, too. She actually thought her ex would take her back.
Good for him
How come she thought her ex will take her back even though she dumped him. Does not make sense to me :)
I love a story with a happy ending.
That's the GREATEST STORY EVER TOLD 😃😃😃💪💪💪💪💪
@@mehmetozguraydin8987 because she thought he was weak and works tolerate her behavior.
Remember boys she’s not yours it’s just your turn
That's what every guy who got heartbroken says 😂😂 as a way to cope and tell themselves that women can never be loyal 😂😂😂 level up be a real man and you can even have 4 wives 😂 stop crying
@@pitfiend-d7j If only the ones with the broken hearts learned and listened from the men with full hearts lol but they found out the hard way
Ladies if you are reading this stop having sex with men unless you are in a committed relationship or you charging for sex. Men Just want sex, stop giving it to them for free
@HasanIslam-xj4kl yea, you will be paying for her but in america it will backfire
Look at the stats
@@leonelmartinez4135 Sounds like you need a god fearing Muslim woman. Godless women are not loyal to God so no way they will be loyal to a man lol
So she basically said that she chased the bad boy who gave her the tingles. Destroyed her solid relationship which would have lasted her a lifetime. Now she's alone in single and being ran through. That's her own fault for letting her value go down the drain.
Her and several million other wimmin
On 1 hand yes no 1 wants a hoe, however on the other hand there aren't many high quality men out there, being a nice guy isn't effective, you can't provide fun, you don't provide thrills and you can't provide protection so why do you deserve a good woman who's also beautiful?
Your right - at her young age she's better off married to some scrub who will probably eventually leave her (or can't hardly get it up any more) strapped with two kids to finish raising.
@@ronthibault1853 OK Mr. Simp. You do realize 70 to 80% of marriages and because the woman leaves. Because she thinks she can do better and find out that the best she can do is her baby daddy. Why do you think 72% of generation Z has been raised by single mothers. It isn't men leaving the relationship it's women. Because they can sleep with the top 20% of men but those top 20% of men are using them as a warm wet hole. It's pretty funny that you wanted to grade your own gender. But who built this world who maintains this world. Your name fits perfectly for you Mr. Simp. Also don't forget this. Women have lost everything that men value. fit feminine friendly loyal low body counts purity. Not one of them traditional. But they all want traditional masculine men. Why would men commit to a thought. The average woman nowadays has 10 for a body count or higher output or higher I would put more towards higher like like triple digit. On top of it all no man wants to raise an old man's children. On top of that no man wants to commit 2 a 304. You can not turn a 304 into a housewife we already know this it's been proven through society from generations upon generations. We have a whole generation of women who are gonna grow up gonna grow up alone with a cat hundreds of thousands of dollars in debt. And us men we don't care at all whatsoever.
Nah. Has nothing to do with bad boys, which btw are not attractive at all. Her old BF inflated her self esteem and now she thinks she can chase higher status men. But its bitten her in the butt. Lol.
When I was much younger, 28, 70 now, my first fiancé did this to me. I was working & going to school. I was raising her first kid like she was mine. Came home from work one night to be told she wanted to go out with other guys. That was the end of that. Three years later her Mom called me to ask if I would consider her again, when asked why, she said you're the only guy that treated her with any respect. Since she had two more kids with two more guys, I told her Mom, sorry, she should have realised earlier what she had.
Thats crazy man! Her mom called you because she knew her daughter messed up. The crazy part is that her mom should have never called you asking you that. Seems like moms intentions were to get her daughter and grandkids taken care of financially to remove the burden from her. Good thing you didnt fall for that.
They had phones back then?
@@tedgayer336 Yeah, they were called land lines.
@@josephvance8900 Some lessons are learned the hard way, that was one of them.
I hope you laughed in the moms face
She did him a favor.
Nope she wasted his time
@squeezerdsqueezerd2427 that's true. At least he got out of it, though.
Actually it is you that is missing from your life you’ve turned your life if you’re ridiculous showcase in order to attract something that you don’t know is it good or bad for you you’re an actual yourself and tell your life will definitely not be what you want to do because it’s missing that one ingredient, YOU!!
Cope
@@squeezerdsqueezerd2427at least he knows now rather than wasting most of his life
I had a friend who was model gorgeous. We had a conversation about relationships and it came out that she was divorced. She said "I married my high school sweetheart. He loved me and we were happy and compatible but I was convinced that I needed someone who matched my looks." She looked at me with the sadist of eyes and said "I hurt him and it was the biggest mistake of my life." She was beautiful, smart, accomplished and alone.
She earned her loneliness …
@@Clyde-2055 She would have told you that. She was aware of the damage she had done.
Women are their own worst enemy, hence why 80% of divorce initiated by women
@@JR-bj3ufI would be careful with that one. She could do it again. She’s not rational enough to partner with.
She knew what she had lost.
"She belongs to the streets"
-Abraham Lincoln,
Lead singer of Metallica.
Bruno Mars also said it :D
Pretty sure it was originally Joan Jett could be wrong maybe it was Janis Joplin lol
@@ezilla30 way before my time :D
@@alyshaleppla6263 promise you your missing out
I didn't know Abraham Lincoln was in Metallica.
This attitude is why so many men are swearing off of marriage and even relationships now.
You get married, she gets bored, isn’t satisfied or doesn’t feel like she gets enough “attention” and the next thing you know she’s looking elsewhere and you’re in court losing half your assets, retirement, house and paying alimony and child support.
Truth
And she will try to have you fired and beat up and smear campaign you
I feel for young men today
as a GenXer I escaped the madness of women who's minds are poisoned with toxic feminism. GenX women are more traditional like.
Maybe both partners should work on themselves and be better together instead of blaming men/women for all their problems? Oh but what do I know. I’ve been with my husband and raised his nephew after my SIL died, before we got married I was there by his side to help.
But I’m just a stupid woman whose DNA is working against me to make men’s lives hard! And the woke want all men to die/suffer! “Feminist power!”
Perhaps the truth is eluding you all bc you blind yourselves to it. It’s easier to blame everyone else than look in a mirror.
Men sacrifice emotions for relationships while women sacrifice relationships for emotions
Women have to learn how to turn this off. That takes character. There’s a shortage of that today.
Absolutely. Knowledge is Power! They also need to improve their character development like we men do.
I don’t think turning it off is going to work it needs to be tempered just like male sex drive
@@off6848 That's a more precise way of putting it. Both sexes have their unique base drives that they need to control and sublimate.
@@chetp8423 I agree 100 percent it would make things better
18+ years of marriage to hubby through good times and bad. There are still good women out there.
The streets was calling and she answered 😂😂😂
We have to teach our sons to stop simping for women. If you treat them like a celebrity, they’ll treat you like a fan
Excellent quote
But that just goes to show that all that "strong independent woman" bs is just that: bullshit.
If a guy is all nice and simping and all that, he's not good enough for her. I've heard multiple women say bullshit like "I'm pretty extreme, I need a guy that's able to handle me." Handle, as in handling a wild animal? Taming it? Or handling a toy? They need men to help them keep their sanity and give them a sense of direction in life. Simply said, they need men who will lead them. It's just that recently that bar has gone ridiculously high, and they still try to deny it, and everyone that speaks like me is a misogynistic patriarchal pig. So, when women subconsciously describe that they're looking for exactly what I said just now, it's all fine, and they're totally clueless about what they're saying, but If someone like Andrew Tate actually describes it in more detail, plain and simple, he's a monster and a misogynist. Why? Because social media doesn't want young men to think for themselves, but instead mindlessly subscribe to OF and porn and hope that one day they get the attention of a godess that they so much desire.
Current culture is taking away masculinity from boys and femininity from girls
Treat em like shit and like you don't need em.
Stop following the bullshit in Hollywood its designed to profit from discord
And having the false sense of access to these “high quality” men through social media makes them miserable because they think they could do better when in reality they can’t
Yep once again great post rite here!
Yes let's bash the woman who wants the best and doesn't wanna settle,,,, why don't you go marry a whale, they'll stay at home, they'll cook all the time and she won't cheat on you but apparently thats not good enough for you, everyone has needs that need to be met, some people want quality, some people want quantity and most of you guys are just whining about not being chosen by the hot chick but you aren't making moves on the ugly ones either
Another aspect of this is hookup culture negatively affecting a woman's view of herself. She might be 6, but the one night that she manages to sleep with Chad (despite getting ghosted the next day) will convince her that she is a 9.
@@dubble2107 sad part is the land whale will cheat on you nowadays. With social media, 2's think they are 10's now
@@zacharygreene1979 sounds like your making assumptions, it's not like guys are super loyal either, there's pieces of 💩 on both sides
Best way I have ever seen this explained: Women want Superman, but won't even look at Clark Kent.
I'm so stealing this! Perfect explanation! Thx
Or they want Bruce wayne but can’t handle the Bat..🥷🏼🦇
Provided for by Banner, choked by the Hulk?
Wow, great
@@phantomdrac 💀
And it’s also the reason Mandatory DNA tests for all newborns should be law.
sure because ONLY women do it LOL
Which is even more reason to make DNA tests mandatory. Thanks for solidifying my point.
@@buzzcutbiene2211I mean the statistics are the statistics, and while it's not ONLY women, it is 80% of women filing for divorce, and 90% in marriages involving college educated women. And it is only women who refuse to date down social hierarchies, while men exclusively date down. So yeah, pretty much all data ever taken on the subject, and hundreds of years of psychological studies, all show that it is women the vast vast majority of the time. I mean western children, and thus future generations, have basically been destroyed because of women breaking homes, a problem that didn't exist before women could leave a marriage for any reason whatsoever. You should probably look at the statistics on children from single mother homes, and how pretty much all of societies problems stem from them. Drug abuse, poverty, violent crime, sinking educational standards, overcrowded prisons, etc, etc.
She is extremely beautiful and those are the ones that are the most trouble. If you find an average looking girl that has a good heart and is a wonderful person you're far better off
An average girl with a kind heart makes her more beautiful
@@khanhcao3123true
I disagree. All that average girl needs to do is get a promotion or get a better job and once she making more than you she will do the exact same thing.
She will always think she can do better.
It's not about their beauty. It's not about the hardware. It's all about software. Women are biologically programed to be that way. They can't help it.
It's part of evolution.
@@danwelterweight4137 100% or sleep with a dude that's above her but wants nothing to do with her yet that's what she thinks is her level it's a cold world if you don't know how to move out there.
@@danwelterweight4137 they are also programed to complain even when everything is going perfect and will remember everything you do wrong
And it doesn't end. You could be married to her for 20+ years and she could still eventually come out with that "something missing in my life." My sister was like this chick in the video, except she was married to her husband for 22 years. She had "this feeling" and started going crazy; going back to her teenage years partying, chasing dudes, cheating.... She left and now I never hear the end of how much she regrets leaving him because she hasn't found anyone better yet.
Yep, they have a helluva partner and then... yeah, they ruin it for cheap thrills.
She is unlikely to find anyone better now at her age. Women need to understand that as they get older their leverage also decreases.
The bitch deserves it, and they call out men for cheating
@@Heatwave9000I understand.
She doesn't regret leaving him... Even right now if Mr. Perfect walked up to her and she had a choice between Perfect and her ex husband she would choose ex husband... Simply because she has failed to secure anything better than him
What’s missing is common sense
Dogs gotta bark...snake will always bite...women do what they gotta do cuz it's in their DNA, that's why in non western countries..men tell them what's good for them...cuz they don't know what's good for them.
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What do you mean
@@rasheemthebestfirstone3274 stop playing you know exactly what he means
Couldn't have said it better😂
Can we get rid of the saying and thinking that guys are afraid of commitment when really it’s women who aren’t committed at all.
A woman's idea of commitment is until her emotions run dry a man's Idea is until his bones crack open and his heart stops..2 completely different mentalities. Men are basically the default special forces of commitment and love while women are like reserves or privates.
I'm going to tell a joke on this topic, it's a little long but for me it's perfect!
One day a man was walking alone along the beach very early in the morning. After a storm the sand was full of trash washed up by the tide. He was diverting the waste and ended up spotting a very beautiful bottle. He took the bottle, opened it and boom, a purple smoke came out, the classic genie. Before being able to recover, the entity spoke:
- Unlike legend, you can only make one request, so think carefully!
The man thought and thought and then finally said:
- I've always wanted to go to Europe, but I'm terrified of planes and ships, so I want a bridge that goes from Boston to London!
The genie shook his head and said:
- That's not possible, we geniuses are here granting requests for centuries and you don't see elevators to the Moon and other absurd things, ask for a reasonable thing!
The man thought some more and finally said:
- Okay, so I want to understand women!
In reply the very disturbed genie said:
- How many lanes do you want this bridge with?
Greetings from Brazil.
Excellent 👍🏻
Yes, truth whether it's Brazil, the States, or East Asia.
Daaaayuuummmm 🤣
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🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣😂😂
I've dated women just like her. Even after I am loyal, loving, affectionate, everything they claim to want, they get bored of me and move on. Then they hit me up years later after they have hooked up with other men, thinking I will take them back.
That’s sad :/ once I found a good man I wanted to lock that shit down. He was worried if change my mind after I turned 25 but I was like NAHH. We went though hell and back together, got married. I’m SO grateful for him everyday. All I ever wanted was to marry someone who is my best friend and we can grow old together. And we agree our sex life is an “exceeds expectations” for married life. There’s never a boring day 😂 not when your SIL dies and you’re raising your teenage nephew together ha.
Best thing to do is improve yourself, so you’re the best you that you can be in each moment and to attract a good fit who is doing the same. I can be loyal to a fault when it comes to friendships and I’ve definitely let people manipulate me… I’ve left female and male friends… people like this aren’t friends at all. I hope they learn.
@@schuylergeery-zink1923 “We went through hell and back together”. That doesn’t sound like a fairy tale, but a real love story. Not many are willing to drive that road, but is the key of a strong, mature relationship. Good for you two!
I see your problem - Your definition of "Everything they want" is wrong. Read "The Rational Male" by Rollo Tomassi.
Never do that...
They don’t know what they want. It’s up to us to tell them what’s best; lead and teach them. Only listen to like 5% of what she says. We men suppose to go within to get a what we need.
When a woman says “I’m chasing this feeling”
Just walk away and leave her on the streets. 👍😂😂😂😂😂😂
Well damn, If she says "i'm chasing this feeling", tell her "keep chasing and hope you find it" then walk away lmfao.
She is chasing a dopamine hit that she thinks is love. She is addicted to a feeling, the feeling of being in love. Look this woman /girls speak. I want him to be like that and like that... But these girls NEVER speak what they want to do for them.
😂😎
I at least take her home and wish her luck.
You're absolutely right.
#1 trait of a woman who has hypergamy ....she loves to travel!!!
I thought that was just a trait all women had
This makes sense as a single woman. Would always wonder why men talked about this when first meeting them, this was always super important for them to bring up . The women they meet probably eat it up, real women do not care about this.
What are the rest?
What are the rest of traits? Can you indicate where to find more about this subject?
@@rasaanshakur9491 not true an u must be a muslim
I had an ex like that. She was always looking for the better mate. One with more money , better car, house ,job. Blah blah.
I'm glad we're no longer together she was a nightmare
..been there..!!
Man, you are literally telling my story
Dodged a bullet my friend me too
I thought I was alone. Sorry bro
My life story....
"Started chasing this feeling"
Yep, sounds like a woman
Yes cuz no man ever did this.
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@@sharpatite4684 some women have raped men before. Doesn’t make it common.
Just like Eve I suppose in the garden of Eden 😂😂😂
YYYUP!
The thing missing from her life is common sense, modesty, morality, respect for herself and others, responsibility, accountability, self discipline, the ability to think critically. After all girls just want to have fun.
Correct ! 👍
Nailed it
You'll notice that in the Simpsons one of the things the Crazy Cat Lady throws at people is her framed Harvard law diploma. The Simpsons knew what was coming...
Hilarious
They are always years ahead of us
@@JoeBidensLastFart You're right!
Why do men act like we are so much different? Many of us(me including) treat good women like trash, then comes a girl that treat us like trash... and then we start to appreciate the good women! I believe its the same with this girl, she is young and unexperienced...
Simpsons predict the future again 😄 🤣
That's why so many men are walking away from relationships and marriage thank god !
Simps still outnumber smart guys by a 10-1 margin tho, lol
@@natoslayer2907 exactly......
The reason I walked away from marriage and relationships was because I learned that 80% of divorces are initiated by women. This fact is much more important statistic for men to understand than hypergamy is
@@miket6094 I was dumb enough to get married twice! I regret ever getting married ! Both of them fucked me and both pulled the same shit ! It took me 54 years to understand a woman's nature and they are always looking for better no matter how long you're married for or even going out ? They will monkey branch your ass with no regrets! I'm red pill 100 percent and that's not even having kids,? You have kids your wife and the state will own your ass for 18 years if not longer it's just not worth it anymore to get involved ! Men need to focus on themselves to improve their lives !
@@miket6094 yes sir, exactly, basically the deck is stacked In favor of women, you have to be a fool to not realize that.....
Hypergamy is not just about feelings. Women have brains too, they can think. She doesn't just feel that she can do better, she also THINKS that she can do better. When it serves their purpose, women will use feelings as an excuse to avoid responsibility for what they knowingly set out to do.
You have said it perfectly!! True that.
Lol women have brains??? 😂😂😂😂😂😂
its easier on your feelings.
Women work purely on emotion!
A child thinks too. So does a dog.
There only only 2 types of guy for girls like this: The guys that want her and the guys that she wants, and they are not the same guy.
The thing about being human is that we can consciously override biological urges if we choose to.
Rarely vomen, but u can try if it helps u sleep better.
I was waiting for someone to say that, well said!
Yes we have to control our urges and hormones as men but there is no such shame placed upon women in the modern age!
right, but you have to be very disciplined for very long to acomplish that
In theory, women can. But will they? Not in western 2024. Why would they?
I had a girlfriend who freely told me that she was always looking for something better. I appreciated her honesty and wished her good luck.
there is something killing intent , we have to control it or we would become serial killer
Thanka God, some women have the red flag written on their forehead
Did these words actually come from her lips or did you just hear them in your head?
@@BMedvid
I mean... he said freely 🤷🏾♂️
@@ivoryas1696 Well, their head is up their butt, so they likely missed that part.
My three sisters have held on to their husbands for dear life. They never traded up because they knew where they were in the marketplace. They are smart.
A result of some good nurturing through growing up perhaps. Hats off you all and your parents. ( let me guess,. you had two parents?, one of "each" gender?)
Oh my sweet summer child… this is impossible. Haven’t you heard -auntie george- rollo? Doesn’t matter if your sisters were raised right. They still get flown to Saudi every 2 weeks to entertain princes and their camels while your brothers-in-law look the other way. It’s science, it’s biology, it’s hard-wired deterministic stuff. I’m sorry bro, your sisters are getting 🚂 on the daily. cqfd,▫️
Lmao you basically said your sisters were unremarkable and I really respect that honesty
Our ancestors knew that women had to be seen and not exalted to far up in order for relationships to work.
As a man will never be truly happy if you actually think that all women act like this. before anyone comments please tell me how many women you ACTUALLY spent time talking to and approaching within the past month because I regularly talk to women that I see on the street at the mall at the grocery store and I don't see this at all. right now I'm dating a girl that some would argue is more attractive than me and also makes more money than me. Stop using this as an excuse to not work on yourself and actually find the love you know deep down inside you actually want but the red pill convinces you to be angry about.
To be fair, all data and statistics are against what you are saying. Oh and statistically a women making more than a man is the number one indicator of a divorce. Every phycological study shows that women date up and over social hierarchies while men date over and down. Basically an "equal" is the height of settling for the vast majority of human kind. Women prefer someone waaaay better than themselves, but worst case scenario, she will settle for someone on her level. But she will never date and be satisfied with someone lower than her. Meanwhile, a king usually has no problems marrying a peasant women. Oh and you "talking" to women really means nothing. Studies show that the vast majority of women lie about what they are attracted to better fit into what is socially acceptable, which is why most women make blatantly false claims like "I want a sensitive man in touch with his emotions" meanwhile, when actually measuring their level of arousal, those kind of men turn them off, and high testosterone masculine men physically arouse them. This is the case for even the most feminist of feminist women, not even they are actually attracted to sensitive men, they just get to feel all nice and sweet for saying it. Which also contributes to the horrible state of relationships in the western world, because a significant number of men actually believe the stupid stuff they say they like. All the while the chads that go to the gym and make good money are hoarding all the puss.
Thank you 🙏 I’m old school so I am not going to financially pay for a man on my teaching salary. I am ok being alone.
You are coping
@@carrieannefaithfull2044 Women don't pay for men Men have to pay for women you .
@@SansaStarkw thank you
When she’s 40 and still single and can’t get a date she will realize how bad she screwed up 20 years before…
I'm almost 40 and can't get a date, mainly because nobody wants to date me. It's not always your own decision
My ex wife lol. Light bulb still hasn't come on.
@@SamuelBlack84 the point is she should lock the guy down now in her 20’s and not try at 40 expecting to attract guys as early
@@SamuelBlack84 There's a lid for every pot.
@@MichaelSmith-ku7ki How presumptuous
A moment of silence for all the men who were ditched for someone supposedly "better".
Yeah they weren't better. Fell for the trap. Never again.
"Ask not what I can do for you but what you can do for me", I say to myself when dating
Christ, a moment?! Ha! It may take a lifetime or 2!
Yeah, she cheated on him with me and he told me about some other guy.
-Sincerely, the other guy. She won't talk to me directly years later, but I hope she agrees to go on a trip tour with me as my friend dropped out.
I think it’s happened to nearly all of us
My ex said as she was leaving me that she felt she could do better. 5 years later she is still single and I replaced her faster than yiu can say Change The Locks. 😂
When you are THAT Attractive.. you live in an alternative reality. Doors magically open for you.. coats go down over the mud for you.. bartenders give you the best booze.. with an even number of ice cubes.. You Rarely ever hear the word "no", or have to flex the muscle of compromise - and eventually, through no fault of your own, that muscle begins to atrophy. Then, one day.. someone breaks out of that mold of pure fantasy.. and you are utterly blindsided. It doesn't mean you are mean, or evil, or stupid.. just conditioned to a different reality. One that the rest of us do not live in. And the result can be a bit of a shocker.
It’s called white woman, privilege and blondes. Have it the worst
The Halo Effect.
She's a 10 (with the paint job)
Really well explained. Thank you
@@cheesyfeymuss yep; also, -10 personality.
When she tells you “ I love you” but “I am not in love with you” your relationship is done. Don’t beg, don’t ask why, just let her go.. she is shit testing you to see if you will beg. She is already preparing to monkey branch or has monkey branched. She is just confirming regardless of how good she might be have it with you if you are the best she can get in that very moment of her emotions. She is NOT looking at the long term effect of what this does to the man or her kids. It’s only about herself!
Both my exes traded up for older men, more money in bank.
Both men died living them zilch🤣
That's hilarious!
@@MichaelSmith-ku7ki The 2nd wife's was the best. 1 month after we divorced the guy she was cheating with fell over, hit his head and died from a hemorrhage to the brain.
Ironically I never knew at the time and we were arguing on phone after the incident and I said I hope the old fart dies, not knowing he had. Boy did I gloat
Probably spent it keeping her happy.
@@nncocoYou mean you're so shallow that's all it takes for you?
@@PIERCED6966 She's talking about your ex probably didn't get any money because the guy she was cheating with spent all his money paying for her services.
"He treated me like a princess." ...that'll do it every time.
I read an article where archaeologists and other scientists found a village from the caveman days. Not sure how they figured this stuff out but they found strong evidence of domestic violence from that era. The men beat the piss out of their female partners. Not condoning abuse or violence of any kind but I find it funny that even back then, men had it with females.
Oops!
Nice guys finish last. 🫡
Maybe it’s something a guy should look at, first thing every day. Just a reminder of how to prepare for the day.
Am I giving too much?
Am I being too nice?
Am I putting myself past?
Am I too caring?
Am I hoping this person will Love me back?
Am I giving allot expecting something in return?
Am I trying to help someone and getting nothing in return?
Am I my priority or is someone else?
Am I that persons priority?
I have a neat trick someone showed me years ago.
How could of this woman better helped or supported your needs and desires?
Once you have the answer
See it in your mind
Attach an imagine line to it
Now find a spot on your body where you can receive it
And attach the other side of the line to where you can receive it.
Learn to sort of give yourself everything you want and need from a woman in this way…
Until you learn to detach..
The more detached you become
The more attractive you become to woman
Because you no longer want or need them in your life
You no longer come across as needy or desperate or insecure and chasing them around to feel whole or complete etc.
You will no longer have a void within yourself and you will less dependent and more independent
They make even feel compelled to start giving to you because you don’t want anything from them
Because you can leave them without consequence
Because you don’t care about them
They can feel that energy
Woman are sensitive to anyone pushing or putting pressure on them
Do conform to the wants and needs of others
But
You will see woman give and throw away their entries lives on guys thag don’t even care about them at all.
You don’t even need to give much to a woman to receive her total love attention care and revolution
If your not getting it
It’s because your giving it
And wanting it in return.
Giving to recieve
Really screws men
The desire for reciprocation
Then whining and complaining
Poor me nobody loved me
I try so hard
No more trying
Do something instead
No chasing
No trying
They don’t deserve all of your love and attention so just stop giving it to them
And focus on yourself
Let them come to you
For real
For every man you see out there
That’s failing
I bet he’s desperately trying really hard to cling to some woman that’s running from him to be with someone else
And it’s because he’s so needy
And because he doesn’t care or take good care of his self
Have self esteem
Or put his self first
When you make yourself the priority
That’s how you let woman know
That they need to make you the profit and if they don’t do that
Good
You don’t need them
That’s how you get a woman’s attention
I don’t need you
That lets them know that their not shit
And they will seek your approval instead
Even jump through hoops at times to satisfy or please you
So you don’t leave them
If she wants to be treated like a princess … negotiate an arranged marriage that will strengthen your alliance with Spain
@@weswolever7477🤣🤣🤣 👏👏👏
Like my grandfather always said "Hoes without instruction always head for self destruction "🤣🤣🤣🤡🤡
Sounds like something Denzel from Brickleberry would say
@@coreywallace8726 Grandfather passed away 20 years ago. Told me this since I was 12. I'm 54 now and he's been proven correct til this day.
@@Rbhawk3rd
Facts, that's why a man has to lead as the head of the house, and be the one in charge and have the final say.
Grandad was the pimpin'.
@@Rbhawk3rd your grandad was a G 🔥
The “feeling “ she was chasing were other men. She was treated as a princess so she treated him as one of her subjects.
What she does not talk about is all her friends encouraging her to pursue this feeling and dump the other dude. Women know women and they hate each other - seem many women destroy great relationships of their friends out of jealousy.
If that's true, that's disgusting. Both that a woman's so-called lady "Friends" would do that, and that she'd listen to them...
Brothers, have any of you been able to confirm this happened to you? I believe this may be what happened to my marriage, though I am not certain.
@@JustALowClassWarrior Yes this happens a lot, but mind you it happens with men as well. If their friends don’t like you, they’ll always encourage her to leave you as soon as she gets a chance, instead of having your back. This is why I think you should to get their friends to like you
@@Johnnysmithy24 I appreciate your response, but I disagree. At that point, if she is so unhappy that what I bring to the table isn't enough for her, that she is still swayed by them to leave me, she should just leave. I don't need a female partner in my life who keeps a bunch of thirsty betas waiting on the side. If she wants them, she can have them. I make a solid effort to get to know, befriend, and care for people in my life, including friends of hers, but I don't need that kind of crap.
@@Johnnysmithy24Nah. Not even. Sorry. I know at least I've never had any of my buddies try to convince me to leave a girl. Though i have experienced first hand on more than one occaision her female friends trying to split us up. One time it was successful. It's a female thing. Sometimes that female "friend", just wanted to date you instead of her. Pretty pathetic.
You say Hypergamy. I say Hyper Gammy .
Treat her like Dirt and you wont get hurt. Treat her like a Queen and you will be left unseen.
- FUTURE
Sensational.
Incel.
@@burntgod7165 Says a VVH0!₹€!!🤣
Ask yr mama. Her l00se pu&&y will tell you what kind of mayhem i am capable of doing.
@@burntgod7165 lol FUTURE? He's a proud misogynist/chauvinist but "incel"?
Man's gotta be pushing Wilt Chamberlain/Mick Jagger numbers by now.
@@MichaelJP Such pride stems from insecurity. Such boasts tend to cover embarrassment.
This is a common problem with people, it’s a feeling of never feeling content with what you have. People want it all, but you just can’t because in the end you just wind up with nothing.
8’s, 9’s, and 10’s are community property.
She’s not yours, it’s just your turn.
@Poop take your red pills daily bruddah- eventually the philosophy will just flow through you, on auto- nothing new, no new stories from the stragg, and the phrases, verses, and lines on tap for every situation.
Why you gotta make me depressed like that
They call it a carousel for a reason. They get on, get off, repeat for no reason or aim. Then they cry when they waited too long to have children.
Watch out though: some beautiful women are smart enough to figure this out and avoid the problems. While some average women act like as if they look good when they don't. They do the same silly games so don't think you are safe if you "settle for less."
PREACH!
8-10s are not community property lmao. These are super hot IG models that sleep with millionaires. This girl in the video is dead average
Destructive behavior 101.
The way to combat that is to show that you are desirable to others without being a narcissist. Once she sees that others find you desirable her limbic system will make her realise "others find him desirable, so now I don't want anyone else to have him" - obviously there are a ton of variables.
You can't "combat" people driving against traffic on a highway by signaling you're driving the right way,if the spark of "oh my god,what the hell am i doing" is missing then there will never be enough self awareness to navigate life using brain over impulse
@@questionsfrog1918 I'm not saying it's fool proof...however I've had enough personal experiences which accurately reflect my aforementioned statements so 🤷♂️ as I said, there's always variables
@@LAZURAYOFFICIAL its worth a try eh,still a rigged game
There is some truth to this.
It's similar to how more people seem to want you as soon as you're "taken"
To have that air about you while not dating someone is very effective.
My best friend dated a good guy for about 4 years. As far as I knew, he always seemed genuine and humble, kind and respectful from a good family too etc. And she even admitted to me since we're bff's and all that she wouldn't mind marrying him despite not really being truly in love with him. 🤷♀️🤦♀️Well, near the end of their relationship she basically said the same bs this girl in this video says, so she got on a dating app and started talking to and seeing other guys she met on there which as her friend I tried to talk some sense into her and asking her what the hell is wrong with her because that's pretty much cheating. But whatever, anyway, she started talking to this guy she met on the dating up and broke her boyfriend's heart when she left him for the well-off business owner who lives uptown and has a big fancy house with a swimming pool who turned out to be an alcoholic drunk, abusive, narcissistic a-hole who knocked her up less than 2 months of dating and now she's trapped and now I'm always her shoulder to cry on even after I warned her constantly he was no good from the start. 😒
Remove sex from a relationship, and the modern woman offers nothing for a man today.
My core principle of evaluating women. Remove pushy from her. What do you have in common? What principles, hobbies and interests?
What does she bring to enrich your life?
Add in semen retention and you basically discard almost all women.
Men just want to feel loved. During my relationship, I didn’t put sex on the pedestal. I only liked sex because afterwards she would be more feminine and loving.
@@faulfeza5243some women can F w no emotion attached
Cap
Lmao yall are so sad. So many mommy issues that aren't resolved.
It's the same "feeling" Eve had when she wanted to experience the "apple" she knew she wasn't supposed to have anything to do with. ....reverberating down through time.
Spot on!
@@AlchemicalForge91 Not until I experienced the "realty of it" first hand..... be careful with your soul...it's the only one that you've got.
@@AlchemicalForge91 You know for a fact interdimensionality doesn't exist? Even scientists are admitting that it's pretty much a foregone conclusion at this point that they see effects of other dimensions existing that we are incapable of breaching ourselves. If that is true in itself, then we have no idea what else exists out there.
Try not being so closed-minded. We're not meant to be able to quantify and confirm everything about our existence, some things CAN be beyond us and more powerful. Theoretically, would self-conscious video game characters ever be able to prove who made them with their scientific methods that we designed? It's foolish to think science, theoretically and philosophically, would be able to prove things that are BEYOND us and our methods for a fucking reason.
Don't be a cringe new athiest. All of you've done by breaking down religion is spur on western degenerate decline.
@@dominicabiyahu Hey man I am actually a believer too and I am curious what your first hand experience was?
"Iam too pretty to be with one guy"
Everything is tempery, enjoy the moment and never grasp to tight to anyone.
I'd say 'I'm too pretty to not be with a guy that's not a billionaire'
@@cassiodomingues5403 Your a man and not supposed to be pretty.
@@HOLLASOUNDS And everything about that behavior is temporary. It’s self gratification and pursuing dopamine is what sleeping around is. Get real, and go to the gym if you have that fuckboy mindset. 🫵
Then maybe you’ll realize how important emotional connection is with a loyal person. After a while, the gratification gets old, and when that happens, it’s too late, and your addiction has destroyed your love life, and has done NOTHING to benefit your life.
@@___solar___ I dont sleep around actually and often dont even bother with getting to deep into women because they mess Me about so much and I basically dont have time for it. Most of My girlfriends have been just as good looking as the women in the video and prehaps that's part of the problem.
Never simp to your gfs. Don’t go say “I love you” over and over. Make them work for the love and CRAVE it.
Yet another example that if you treat a woman like a princes she will get bored and treat you as a door mat. If you treat her poorly she will call you a narcissist (very trendy name calling nowadays). So, bottom line is they don't know what they want.....
They do know what they want but it's unrealistic. Are u the type of guy she would be willing 2 tolerate, or maybe even begin 2 love? Most of us don't fit the dream guy.
Even prince's, rich famous film stars and athletes can't keep their woman happy. You can't please them as they won't even acknowledge the issue is predominantly within them. But we all know accountibilty is kryptonite 😂
That’s called adultery
That's the fruit of feminism. Look how many happy families are out there in comparison to a couple of decades ago
@@truthteller3024 Definitely more.
No, it's not. Look it up.
@@stevesteiner7220it depends how you look at it.. not sure it's better if there are no families. It's just different world with lots of kids without a father.
@@limoncr5205 Kids without fathers is a much worse world.
"I thought I had it all.. and there was something missing in my life."
I am confusion.
😂😂
Female logic.
The moment she thought she had it all was when the doom started. That's why you must say no to your wife whenever possible.
4 years ago I went single and celibate and it's been the best 4 years of my life. Financially and spiritually, grown closer to the Lord Christ and my bank account has significantly gone through the roof. I highly recommend it today gentleman, especially with this modern-day trash
Well said bro.
Greed, Lust, lack of Self Control...
To be fair, some Men do that or something similar - conquer more.
Remember the 70s singer-rapper(?) Curtis Blow(?)'s song - "These are the Breaks"?
"... Hotel, Motel, Holiday Inn - If your Girl starts acting up, then you date her Friends..." 😊
Lack of commitment after pairing off. I'm sure everyone experiences that to some degree - more to the youngest, with lousy Partners, and those hitting the late 30s; but once Children come along, commitments are commitments...
I've got 2 out of 3. Lust left me in my 50s. LOL
The moment this is evident to any man, walk away-never look back!
It’s never worth it!
Nah she just never really liked the guy that "treated her like a princess." she only like the things he did for her.
True, she never spoke about the guy, just his actions.
Exactly, she doesn’t miss him, she miss his money $$$
@@BreadAndGatorade I use to chill with this chick who looked really good. The "one who got away" for her is some guy who had a load of money and took her on vacations/holidays.
The thing is he never even touched her. He just chilled with her and took pics in 5 star hotels ect. She later realised he was gay as they come but he had to keep his straight player image going.
Basically if you're a guy, make as much money as possible and have high status. It's like how we like big butts, boobs, small waist ect .. They like our money 💰!
10years later: She is scrolling through that guy's happy family feed while this video pops up and her cats poop down the litterbox but she's too heavy on wine to move. A shitty ending, literally :)
👍👍👍😆😂🤣
😂😂😂😂😂 bravo.
Like as not...
A neighbor has a box full of kittens. A cat lady starter kit!
Funny
BEAUTY IS A CURSE,first to get raped,first to get pregnant,first to get dumped,first to BE PLAYED,fall out of love with your beautiful faces,break all mirrors,live life with a good man,choose one,stay focused,stay HAPPY
A lot of the time women think they're trading up, however there is often a predator tricking them into an abusive situation . He's mastered the art of appearing to be an upward move when in reality he's a narcissist who plays head games. What's more is these same woman will often have a child with this creep. And the innocent child becomes the real victim.
yeah I have noticed and see it as poetic justice that often the guy they move onto is worse and treats them worse. You can't help but laugh at it a bit.
Or, they themselves are the narcissist, and they push the next victim into reactive abuse. Neither gender has a monopoly on narcissism, though the behavior described as hypergamy is an extremely common behavior saving narcissists. Actually, many of the negative stereotypes of women in relationships are narcissistic (and usually don't hold true in emotionally healthy women). For example: silent treatment, expectation of mind-reading, deflecting criticism by bringing up the long buried past, projection, all are traits of a narcissist, regardless of gender.
clearly you feel women are not your equal and not smart enough. do better. cannabis is a girl.
Its not just hypergamy its the fact that shes been with so many guys before him that she cannot pair bond, and at any low point in the relationships she will compare her current partners faults to every other guy shes been with that doesn't have those faults.
How do you know that she has been with many guys? Your woman hating is showing. Don't worry about her or any other woman. The type of men that gets girls do not have the same attitude that you have.
That's another reason why being a virgin is non-negotiable.
@@truthteller3024yes
Exactly
Humans don't pair bond, we aren't birds
you have to have some integrity, and integrity is doing the right thing when know one is looking
The flip side of hypergamy is she gets older and older so when she leaves because she's hit her wall -- you get to get a younger one guilt free. Dazed and confused "I get older but they stay the same age."
She's never your's. It's just your turn.
This is why you must make women prove themselves to you everyday.
Yep looks don't matter 100% of the time they should work to please you and make you happy, also never be predictable to them
Facts
That’s a weird mentality but okay
@@youwilllaugh3136work to please you is one of the craziest shit I’ve heard
This is true, but if she feels like she cant meet your standard, or you standard is too stressful, she will just give up and cheat.
Women are not only looking to trade up but also to keep a guy or two on the back burner in the "friend zone" in case things don't work out.
those are her orbiters. Just waiting to slide in and take your place.
Do not lump all women together. That's complete bullshit.
Sounds like a lot of men to me.
My neighbor cheated on her husband and she abandoned the house and moved with her new dude. Then she was dumped by the other guy and now she's fat, lonely and miserable. If women don't try to suppress their hypergamy they'll die alone with 9 cats 🐈
Just 9 cats? Doesn’t sound too bad 💖
@@kalimistakidou9103 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Women suppressing their nature? Never going to happen
Why do I keep reading that women are going to die alone with nine cats feasting of their face? Is that supposed encourage or something
@@Mrscheesecake1 Stereotypes are there for a reason. No husband, no kids, no family, just cats. You'll notice that in the Simpsons one of the things the Crazy Cat Lady throws at people is her Harvard diploma.
In 2008 I was MADLY in love with a beautiful but emotionally high maintenance Australian girl. I was in the army, deployed to Afghanistan. Came back and a month later the relationship was effectively over. She traded me in for a “more exciting” Irish backpacker and lied to me about it.
This is why you stay single fellas. It's tougher when you're younger, but once you get into your 30s it all becomes so so clear. You realize that you dodged some serious bullet.
Yep. I'm 40 and have been single since 35 after my last shit show of a relationship. I'm finally at peace and I don't miss any of that crap. If I find someone on my level I'll consider being in a relationship but no one is up to my standards so far. Not going to waste my time. I spend my time and energy on much more positive and healthy and creative and joyful things now
No dude you just find a good woman, get her knocked up, be the best man you can be, raise your family, and live your life with a purpose. If she eventually fucks off or fucks you over then cross that bridge when you come to it. Don't live your life in fear of what people on the internet told you a hypothetical woman might do to you.
@@everydayvacaytaj totally resonate with your comment and on the same boat! I'll never waste my energy engaging in toxic and negative relationships with negative ppl anymore! Had to learn the hard way tho
Man you never lied I have seen to much from women. Single life for me I been turning them down.
I’ve been out of my marriage for 12 years and my last girlfriend was 4 years ago. I’m 41 now and I totally agree. I’ll never try a relationship again.
She didn’t even need to finish the story, and I knew it …
Her:
“… Treated me like a Princess, and woulda been a the best husband …”
Me:
Lemme guess. You left him anyway. 😒
Yeah.
F- girls like this.
*if he wanted to hold on to her he should have beat her. He'd never get rid of her. She'd be clawing to keep him.*
That's all women
I don't even want to have female friends like her!!!
I get people say “well not all women”. But go to google and search up. 80%, that is EIGHTY PERCENT of women go for the top 20% of men. 80%!
@@thetruthchannel349 That might only work if ur good looking, otherwise it's abuse & ur going 2 jail xD
"I had it all but I feel like there was something missing". Never good enough for these girls these days
Why is it that the good guys only get talked about when they talk about marriage? Makes it seem like they settle for the good guy over the guy they want
That deer in the headlights look.
Poor girl is always out of shampoo.
She read the bottle and it said "Lather, rinse, repeat."
That’s funny. Lol
Hypergamy is monkey branching right?
Not necessarily. Monkey branching is more like a symptom of hypergamy.
It's very ancient, it's for the protection of the children. Now days it's for luxurious life. But the children needed a strong father
Modern women ruin their lives by chasing feminist beliefs. Never happy, Chaotic, and will thankfully end up alone.
Men know the difference between feminine real women and Modern Feminist.
No it not monkey branch cuz the means she would have had other options than her boyfriend….hypergmy for a woman is dating up
Most women are not hypergamous.. hypergamy is fake, especially considering there are poorer countries that have more traditional values and families that stay together, not predicated on who’s the richest.. but in the US the divorce rate is the highest, but there’s wealth here..
Hypergamy is easy to debunk.. and you dudes are only screwing yourselves convincing women that they’re hypergamous by nature.
And that's where they'll always be alone in the end
Nobody knows the meaning of that word more than I do
The cats will keep them company.
Learn from my experience...
After two divorces, my anecdotal experience should be a cautionary tale. There's no making a woman happy from anything external you could do for her. My second wife left me when I was making much more than when she first met me. If she's broken, you will not fix her...
Dismiss this at your own financial peril...
" i though i had it all.....and there was something missing from my life" sincerely, the only brain cell trying not to drown on air....
😂
My wife and I have been together for over 25 years.. I come and read these comments just as a reminder how damned lucky I've been 🤓
wait a bit longer...
She ever cheat on you or have you just not found her out?
@Michael Perrigo if I hadn't found out, how would I possibly know? 🤔 However I have no particular reason to think she did cheat on me, so I'd be very foolish to poison myself with suspicion as long as there is no specific reason to do so.
There's a lot of sad men out there trying to make themselves feel better about their failed relationships. This red pill bs is about that not about women
There's both men and women that are good and bad partners
@@islandparadise1576 There is something to be said about most modern marriages being ended predominantly by women. Among my wife's girlfriends, every one of them has left their husbands. We often joke we are the last of the Mohicans remaining. Or actually - *she* is the last of the Mohicans remaining, having stayed with her husband while all others have left theirs! 😅
I've been pretty lucky compared to a lot of guys out there..
I'm 55 if I had that knowledge in my teens my hole life would have been better.
The only knowledge I want are the secrets to the universe, not this poultry little planet
ISWYDT
I would not have changed anything because I have 2 great kids. Couldn't mess with that. If I had no kids I would have changed a lot of things
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Remember the movie Last American Virgin. Saw it when I was 17 in 1982. It said it all about women.
This is directly on point. Hypergamy is a women's curse. Its consequences spills over into all areas of her life with a sense of unsettled discontentment. If women could only understand this as an instinctual discomfort, they could self-check and avoid emotionally damaging decisions for themselves and the wake of destruction for all those in close relationship to her.
Wanna control hypergamy in women? Make sure that after she likes you and decides to go out with you… keep yourself mysterious to her, never tell her your feelings, don’t treat her like a queen, less contact and less emotion all the time and she won’t look for someone else.
When l dated in my 20s l always gave just enough, and they would always stick around. I also let them know l was in the market for my librarian during the day and my stripper at night. If they couldn’t supply both….. there’s goes the door.
@@TheNEXXFAZE that was good… too bad not many men are reading your comments here because friend, yes… that’s how a woman wants to be treated, they don’t mind being ignored at times and they like a man who can tell them: No and means it. Good story for sure, thank you for sharing.
@@treeaddict true that …! They get the horniest with that!
Solid but you forgot one mayor crucial point, always and I mean always date down in status/ age so she feels she can't do better.
@@calumbest5570 good one !
She wasn't chasing a feeling, she was getting back on the 🐓🎠.
Exactly
She was getting back on a chicken horse? Chicken Merry Go ‘Round?
@@stanettiels7367 💯
Ow yeah.
Rooster horse? What does that mean?
That’s why pair bonding is so important
Why don’t you just call it love, you absolute mystery method obsessed weirdo 🙄
inb4 literally every hole says "THAT'S NOT REAL IT'S PSOODOSOYENCE REEEEEEEE" and totally ignores every warning they get before they hit the wall and Mach Jesus.
One of the best formulas for keeping a woman that I heard in the RP community was:
- Stay on purpose and being your best version. Work on your money, your mind, your muscles (Don't decline once you got a woman)
- Pick a woman whose SMV is lower than yours. If you're a 9, then pick a 7. If you're 6, pick a 4.
- So that when she wakes up next to you she'll feel she's already doing the best she can.
"Now I'm sitting in my mom's car waiting for her to get off work so we can go home all because of this "Feeling"
Gal told me I found a better match?? 14 years later, she is single still. She is around 50 now, hope the best for her.
Wow! My kid sister is 50 as well. Never married and never had kids. She thinks Romeo is still out there. What she fails to realize is that she also needs to bring something to the table. Especially at 50.
@@-Ordinary-Average-Guy how do you know what's in her heart and what she is capable of ?
@@Freedom_for_Palestina no one will know and no one will care enough to know
@@prasadpatil1160 if they do not care then do not talk about her
@@Freedom_for_Palestina It not about her. It's about men who fall into these traps. We are warning men with the behaviour and the mentality of these women.
i know women like that, strangely enough they are all alone and cry all the time about how bad men are and how they will never find a good one... all of them had a good partner before but threw them away because they thought they could find a better one. just one of them regrets it and has understood, that you often only appreciate what you had when it is gone...
Because women want a fool they can manipulate for their capricious whims
In the past, women were able to contain this feeling. They compared themselves to their peers or their family, like their sister. but with social media it made that empty feeling 10 times worse
Yeah I agree. When my ex wanted to end the relationship, I’m pretty sure she was already talking to someone for at least two months. How do I know? The day she was taking me to post office to drop most of my stuff, she didn’t even hesitate to stare at a rich 40 year old good looking guy. It was a lustful and desire look, not giving 3 fucks that I was next to her. You fall down, you get up and you move on. There ain’t nothing else to do.
Ooohh but, there IS something else to do.
If you're mentally able & willing
@@JacobRomans-t1fExactly!!!
I'm sorry that happened to you. If I had someone special in my life, I would never let him go because if a guy treats me right, I'm not anywhere. You'll find someone who loves you for you. The one you're no longer with is not worth your tears.
She wasn’t yours, it was just your turn.