Mistake, you always know the cheater will say that. Mistakes only happen when you don't mean to do something. Like getting the wrong color paint. Cheating is a choice.
@@samolofsson2401 A mistake is an active choice, it's a choice that you admit was wrong or misguided...saying something is a mistake is more akin to saying you regret it than it is to saying it wasn't intentional. Saying something was a mistake is like saying "damn I wasn't thinking right when I made my decision." The reason saying it was a mistake when trying to earn forgiveness is stupid for the same reason doing anything other than apologizing and admitting you were wrong is stupid, they only serve two purposes, to garner sympathy in hopes to receive some amount of forgiveness without earning it or it's a coping mechanism that you use on yourself to not feel as bad about your actions as you know you should.
@@mark971-e8gyou can fix mistakes. What she did was not a mistake. It was betrayal that's something that only truly evil people can do. There is no forgiveness there is no repentance. Because they have no remorse for their actions. And They only feel pain for themselves if they face consequences for their actions. If they truly wanted repentance they would accept all responsibility, and do whatever their partner decided. If they want everything including their children and never want to see you again. They would agree without hesitation. But that never happens. Because they only care about themselves.
This is why i can't stand them.... The amount of lies and gaslighting is unbearable! If you as a man have standards or honor you simply either have to bend over and break them or avoid women because putting up with them means accepting and tolerating their NEVER ending lies! They can't even go out without lying in a form of applying make up to fake their appearance!
It would kill them to admit their faults. I’m thinking now “more” guys atleast admit their screw up. Never heard of a woman apologizing in my life and they cheat the same rate or more.
@Popcu1tYt I only do if I can insure her, take her to a foreign country, and she "disappears". Damn those wild predators we encountered on the African safari, oh well her screams didn't last that long when they were eating her... luckily all that insurance money will allow me to get over her with a younger, prettier, and temporary replacements all over the world.
If a cheater says they'd do anything to win you back, all you need to ask is, "Would you remain faithful to me?" Of course, they will promise yes. Then you respond, "That's what you promised the first time." Maybe they never said those words out loud, but when you get married or enter a monogamous relationship, it is implied.
In this particular story, op and his ex did promise. They were married. It's safe to assume infidelity was mentioned in some way in vows. Op could have used that I suppose.
Personally, I wouldn't do that. I'd ask them: "You've already lied to me and proven untrustworthy, why should I believe you when you say you'll do anything to be redeemed?"
Sorry to say, ex WAS stalking thats too close to be a coincidence. I'm glad OP took his power back, and polished his spine to boot. The last story I read similar to this the idiot took the ex back, and now is miserable thinking its marital bliss. I wish original OP all the best and continued Good Luck in the future!
When your cheating spouse comes running to you crying and pleading to fix the relationship, do not ever meet them alone or touch them in any way. If they ever really cared about you, they would have stayed loyal to you. They are gross, disgusting, contaminated. They did that to themselves. They are suffering the consequences of their actions and are most likely only seeking you out because the life they thought they would get from screwing you over, imploded in their face.
Homie is weak af. His partner cheats on him and even after divorcing he's nervous in front of him instead of antagonizing her ass with facts. Bro's too sympathetic or just dumbed down
@@Papa_Straight the sheer level of social awkwardness in that situation must be unfathomable though. I would definitely WANT to be all cool and prepared with blunt responses and hard boundaries, but this did catch OP off guard.
@@Papa_Straight That's the difference between boys being 'Men', and ACTUAL Men. ACTUAL Men DO have emotions, and sometimes admit to having a good cry here and there. Boys dressing as 'Men' are typically also called 'Toxic Men' or as a group labeled 'Toxic Masculinity'. They're the ones that spout scientifically inaccurate BS like "ReAl MeN dOn'T cRy", or as you put it, "Antagonizing her ass with facts." This is the internet for fuck's sake, for all anyone knows I could be a woman spouting this shit I typed above. Almost no one knows what YOU have personally been through, but you do sound like a discord moderator, with your collection of Femboys (Sorry to any potential femboys, I mean no offense, please don't pipebomb my mailbox.) and 'kittens'. The way you typed that out, so ignorantly, and so full of yourself just screams "I DON'T HAVE ANY ACTUAL EXPERIENCE! BUT I WILL CONTRIBUTE ANYWAY!"
Cheating is never a mistake or a accident, it's a premeditated crime. As long as the person isn't caught, they will never let the cheated partner know and won't ever feel guilty about it, they will even treat the victim badly and feel somewhat superior, a little smug for doing that and getting away with it.
I can say the same for any kind of wrong doing, you'll never feel guilt for when you never get caught, the time you're caught by then you'll feel denial
@@Vismotrix-m Right, people who has a conscience and regrets their crimes or mistakes confess and seek to make amends and gain forgiveness, if you only regret it after getting caught, you aren't regretting the crime, you are just regretting getting caught.
@@paulofaquin The witch in this video is not regretful (only regrets getting caught) But there are very occasional examples of people regretting their cheating and confess. Although it is rare. Because when a woman cheats, she doesn't respect the man that she is with anymore, so she doesn't think he is worthy of guilt. When a man cheats, he doesn't want to ruin a good thing (2 or more women at once? why would I confess?) Some people do it once and immediately confess and regret it. My former sister in law cheated once (my brother was being an absolute prick) she regretted it and told him the day after. He didn't want to be with her anymore. Turns out my brother's future wife set the whole thing up hoping that she cheats and they break up. She was then with him for years and cheated on him countless times, abused him (physically and emotionally) and had her brothers beat him up to keep him from leaving. When he finally left just last year, he admitted that he should have stayed with the first one and has since forgiven her and said that he treated her like crap and drove her to do it. He's now with a 3rd person and they have a child on the way. My first nephew is about to be born.
Whenever as a betrayed man you think of forgiving the Jezebel, remember that she would beg him to put it back in when it slipped out. Remember she would moan when he did. Remember she availed her body in every intimate way.
I don't like this story. I was on board until ex tracked OP down. "I hugged her", "I'd be open to giving her another chance in a few years" Fuck off! I hate stories that end like this. I wish that the last thing OP said to her was to stay the hell out of his life.
Having been put in that position, trust me you want to but can't. The sad truth is that it doesn't matter who did what to whom, the moment a man looks apathetic to an emotional woman, he is presumed the ahole. Done in a place he frequents, it's like poison to a watering hole. Therefore, the purpose of the fondness was not to rekindle emotions, but to keep her outbursts to a minimum, keeping control of the scenario and lingering outcomes.
As we say here, the wolf may lose its fur, but never its vice. Cheater once, cheater forever. If it happened once, it's only a matter of time before it happens again.
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I disagree. While I do believe that most cheaters would cheat again, its only because they haven't attempted to change, which makes sense, cahnge is difficult. I believe anyone is able to change, we are biologically made to do so. I encourage you to have an open mind, maybe not about cheating but atleast other things.
If it was me in this man's shoes and the ex found me, I would have just told her "No, I do not want to talk with you at all, or see you at all since a pile of shit is worth to me more than you ever will be". When I leave anyone behind me and move on, it literally means moving on. I give absolutely no attention to them and say only the things I need to, nothing else. Some people I will never give any sort of attention again, not even as little as hey.
The story being narrated is actually from "Literoctica" in Cheating wives stories! I actually read the story in early 2023 and the guy did move on with a younger, more beautiful Lady and cut his ex-wife permanently from his life. It was a great story with a perfect ending for the guy and his new wife! Kevin. Australia
Why do cheaters always say "it was a mistake", thats like the stupidest answer to give to SO. They should just say that it was their decision to chose not a mistake. A mistake is something that can be corrected and never do again because now you know what not to do and prevent a problem from happening in the future. A decision to cheat is something you can't come back from, it will always be their no matter how much you try to forget about it. Cheaters need to start learning themselves in choice of words. I'm happy OP is finally happy and he should have just told ex to stay the hell away the very moment he saw her. That should have been the end to that train wreck. Let's just say what we all think men have more options than women. OP has the company of women left and right while the ex is experiencing depressing, angry emotions and that's her fault, not OPS. Good luck OP and live a happy successful life without the toxic drama.
The first thing cheaters what to do is shift blame if it was a mistake then it's no one's fault not theirs. And ya I like OP's will he didn't back down from her manipulation about starting a new
Women's math always makes me scratch my head. She says: "You broke my heart, but i guess I broke yours too" Heart being broken by a cheater is Equal to cheaters heart being broken when partner leaves?!?!? We are even, lets get back together!
The real question he should have asked was "If the OP had turned out to be a great guy, and someone who was single and had a lot going for him, would we be here discussing you wanting me back today?"
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Exactly, you can always tell which stories are fake because of all the flowery words and unnecessary details. This story sounds like it was written by a middle school English teacher, not some guy who got cheated on by his wife.
Eh. Had a friend who got cheated on. Bro was an avid reader and overanalyzed his life way too much. at one point despite all the listening constructive and not so constructive criticism he wouldn't shut up about it. 😑 Like bro what will help ease your pain? She wasn't worth all this. Bro got hit on all the time.
This relationship had so many red flags 🚩 getting married so soon, getting sexual right away there is no way he did not see this coming She came back to make herself feel better and she could not find anyone else to do what op did for her
Actually, fast marriages can last longer. Theres something kinda toxic and unhealthy about long extended engagement. Plus its almost guarenteed to fail for a long time.couple to finally get hitched. Maybe it has soemthing to do with two non comittal prople finallu getting cornered then freaking out.
It's not something we can generally state that could affect the relationship long-term. A more important aspect is the way couples work together, talk, and resolve problems that directly affect longevity.
@@jebes909090 I don't think that's true. Especially given fast marriage data contains arranged marriages under threat of religion too. Ending a marriage could easily be excommunication from your entire family support structure wherein you're brought up to believe its one of the most required things of a human being.
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Wrong. Married my wife after 9 months, proposed in three. Fifteen happy years and counting. Her Brother in law married her sister in 3 months,...30 year anniversary this year. Key to both marriages, let God come first and let Him pick by His standards and stop picking after your own. We both did that for over forty years before we realized that we are not good at seeing the future but there is someone above us who can. Be blessed.
@@patbrown-scripturevsscript2022Amen. I married my wife this past Feb. 29th, 2024. We met February 26th, 2023. It’s a blessing to be led by The Lord in this life. Especially when you’re with the woman whom you love.
@@patbrown-scripturevsscript2022 the plural of anecdote isn't evidence. You got lucky. The vast majority of marriages that take place this quickly fail.
@@lolocaust4967the majority of marriages in general fail, especially in the US, regardless of how long dating and engagement took place. I know plenty of Christian couples that only dated briefly and have happy marriages. Absolutely depends on if both husband and wife were brought up with good, traditional morals.
She’s gaslighting she knew she was hurting him and in fact relished hurting him. Denying bedroom time while getting it off with Chad who fiancée in a cheap hotel.
People aren't perfect, that's why you hear so much about people cheating, and many don't consider the consequences. I'm sure there are plenty of cheaters that truly regretted their actions, but unfortunately the doubt will almost always linger. It would take alot for a cheater to earn back the kind of trust they broke, and it's a gamble for whoever they cheated on to ever even begin to trust them. At this point, it's all about if you think it's worth it to believe a cheater once more.
'I broke her heart' she got what she deserved and if anyone thinks cheating is just a pushover and a cheater should get second chance is a big no and it's always us men who get short end of the stick
the mistake is a consequence of a choice. Does it matter if it's a mistake or a bad choice? the question is whether it is forgivable or not. if this is a true story, and he feels something, the attempt, the tenacity, the pain and the patience that the woman brought during this period are perhaps worth an attempt at reconciliation, is it a mistake? I don't know, what if it wasn't?
After the ghosting she didn't deserve any of the closure he gave to her, not a single ounce. He should have left her suffering alone with the self loathing hatred eating away at her until she turned to dust.
Dude expects the wife to be a keeper and starts the story by saying immediately after he met her the clothes flew off. The chick was easy but he expected her to hold up the fort.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
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You'll get over it. It was a 5 year relationship. It was 3 months since you posted this, 5 months now. The average time to get over a relationship is 3 months to 3 years, depending on the relationship and the person. You will get over it, though, as long as you allow yourself. If you keep chasing her, you won't. Focus on yourself. You'll be fine.
@jaypritchett3414 My dude. Wtf. You really got broken up with and said to yourself, "Hmmm, ya know what would be a great idea to get my ex back? Some BLACK FUCKING MAGIC!" If that shit did work, then you're literally with someone who has no desire to be with you, they're just under a spell. I'm a pretty massive piece of shit, but even I wouldn't try and put someone I claim to love and care for under a magic spell for them to be with me. Talk about a pathetic fkn loser.
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One of my all time favorite stories. Another fav is the one where the business guy is stuck in Asia mostly Japan because of covid and ghosts his childhood friend/fiancé who wanted an open relationship.
The thing is you never really trust the person the same. I stay once. It could be something small and boom... the question come out. I left and later got with my husband. He loves me so much. So as I love and try my best to make him happy. He does more to me. Like buying me a beautiful coffee cup set😍 but the most loving thing is carrying me
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Good to hear… I’m also divorced with 6 kids I am taking care of. Now she wanted to reconcile but it’s already 6 years. I have move on, meeting other women and having fun with my children and life. Not going to go back to that life anymore
A friend married young but divorced 2 years later cos she cheated on her husband. But she remarried him 4 years later. She didn't pursue any relationships or slept with anyone just subtly trying to win her ex back. Her ex got into a relationship but it ended. She changed a lot. Although i dislike her old personality and what she did i respected her perseverance(4 years is damn long) and willingness to change. Her new self was a much better person by a long shot, total 180. However her world revolves around her husband. Its kinda creepy but i guess that's one form of loyalty right there. And trust me, in this day & age, you'd want loyalty rather than love. They've been remarried for 7 years now.
hopefully he keeps her on a tight leash. i know a guy who took back a cheater too. she knows better not to question him on anything. but he never married her told her point blank he never will
I just don't think it was a good match. People high up the corporate ladder are elites. As he describes her - smart, articulate, good looking and 'almost' out of her league. She may have been initially charmed by the OP, but charm wears off. And then she starts having an affair with her own kind (someone more powerful than her in her office).
If this ever happens to me I'll never leave a note and the house etc. I'd sell everything in the house and the ring 100%. If there's a joined account that isn't that big id just donate the money to charity.
Women will always play victim. It's never her fault. That's why I never talk to any ex that comes back just tell them to get lost. A simp is a simp tho.
I have been there. It feels like you will never love again and that your life is over. IT IS NOT! You will forget before long and will be better off for it. Just make sure you learn from it and always respect yourself
I wanna say that this is exactly what I would do if I get cheated on, but the number of my friends who told me that I'm that woman in Gone Girl if I get cheated on tells me that I'm wrong.
Ah, the "Mountain Man" story. Why do these morons not take pictures when they see evidence of their wives/girlfriends/fiancés cheating? …and please don't come back with _"They were in so much shock."_ Nah, this is a sign of the same weakness that made these 304's confident enough to pull this kind of crap on them in the first place. In this particular case, it turned out great for him, but it's a pretty good idea to be ready to get the drop on these 304's. In some cases, it could help you get favorable terms from her before a divorce (blackmail?), get the story out before she can paint you as the bad guy, and protect your reputation if it's important to your profession.
They do if they think they can get away with it. That's literally the only thing stopping them. They have to have a very selfish reason for them NOT to cheat again for them to stop, such as wanting to stay in a house that they like, or often for financial reasons. Trust me, once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater. People don't change.
I do not believe in a ‘path to redemption’. Bridges get burned utterly
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The Ex stalking and knowing his whereabouts, dude has a rat in his midst. If he told any friends or family one of them must of spilled, that or she went out of her way to trail him after work or something.
As a 25 yr old man I’m more understanding the importance of sex. It’s literally the most important act to women. If you can make her organism she will never leave
Ray sounds like a great man Edit: I was cheated on once and when I looked back and hearing her say “it meant nothing” hurt more than the cheating. That means she cared less about me than the person she stepped out with.
Mistake, you always know the cheater will say that. Mistakes only happen when you don't mean to do something. Like getting the wrong color paint. Cheating is a choice.
That's an accident, not that it being a mistake is a good enough excuse for anything...especially not cheating.
What you never tripped fell and landed on a dick. Pfft it happens ok….
It's written in hoe bag handbook chapter 3
A misstake is miss remember what type of coffe someone likes and buying the wrong brand, cheating as you said is a active choice.
@@samolofsson2401 A mistake is an active choice, it's a choice that you admit was wrong or misguided...saying something is a mistake is more akin to saying you regret it than it is to saying it wasn't intentional. Saying something was a mistake is like saying "damn I wasn't thinking right when I made my decision." The reason saying it was a mistake when trying to earn forgiveness is stupid for the same reason doing anything other than apologizing and admitting you were wrong is stupid, they only serve two purposes, to garner sympathy in hopes to receive some amount of forgiveness without earning it or it's a coping mechanism that you use on yourself to not feel as bad about your actions as you know you should.
The only reason she tried to ‘win you back’ is because the other guy told her to F off.
I agree. She would be married to him instead if he was interested.
Not always many times they come back because they realize no one would actually love them without their body
can you say that because you know her?, she would have had no problem finding someone else. could it ever happen that repentance is real?
@@mark971-e8gyou can fix mistakes. What she did was not a mistake. It was betrayal that's something that only truly evil people can do. There is no forgiveness there is no repentance.
Because they have no remorse for their actions. And They only feel pain for themselves if they face consequences for their actions.
If they truly wanted repentance they would accept all responsibility, and do whatever their partner decided. If they want everything including their children and never want to see you again. They would agree without hesitation. But that never happens. Because they only care about themselves.
@@kankit230 You really need to teach us to be as smart as you.
I'm 45. I've dealt with TOO MANY WOMEN who simply CAN'T Apologize or admit when they're wrong. It's probably the WORST thing a woman can be about.
This is why i can't stand them.... The amount of lies and gaslighting is unbearable! If you as a man have standards or honor you simply either have to bend over and break them or avoid women because putting up with them means accepting and tolerating their NEVER ending lies! They can't even go out without lying in a form of applying make up to fake their appearance!
It would kill them to admit their faults. I’m thinking now “more” guys atleast admit their screw up. Never heard of a woman apologizing in my life and they cheat the same rate or more.
I apologize on behalf of my gender for any pain you were caused. Not everyone is the same. Women included.
Women never apologize. It's their nature.
@@dierdrecole8027 Lol no need to apologize. It is what it is
She'll always love him and will do anything to get him back except stay faithful.
it wasn't even "just" the cheating, it's how she treated him in that time.
@professorparanoia436absolutely true man, Even if you give her a second chance, she will definitely beg for a third chance
@Popcu1tYt I only do if I can insure her, take her to a foreign country, and she "disappears". Damn those wild predators we encountered on the African safari, oh well her screams didn't last that long when they were eating her... luckily all that insurance money will allow me to get over her with a younger, prettier, and temporary replacements all over the world.
Its bulshit she spitting now
The only reason she even wants him back because her life is now a dumpster fire
facts
If a cheater says they'd do anything to win you back, all you need to ask is, "Would you remain faithful to me?"
Of course, they will promise yes. Then you respond, "That's what you promised the first time."
Maybe they never said those words out loud, but when you get married or enter a monogamous relationship, it is implied.
In this particular story, op and his ex did promise. They were married. It's safe to assume infidelity was mentioned in some way in vows.
Op could have used that I suppose.
Personally, I wouldn't do that. I'd ask them: "You've already lied to me and proven untrustworthy, why should I believe you when you say you'll do anything to be redeemed?"
words have absolutely no value anyways. cheap, meaningless, worthless. all that matters is actions.
Monogamy is not implied in marriage, it *is*.
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Sorry to say, ex WAS stalking thats too close to be a coincidence. I'm glad OP took his power back, and polished his spine to boot. The last story I read similar to this the idiot took the ex back, and now is miserable thinking its marital bliss. I wish original OP all the best and continued Good Luck in the future!
what?? can you please give us the title of that?
I need info.
@@plsguidemethroughtheabyssmonathey’re speculating also it’s stated in the video she showed up in his town!
Taking a cheating Ex back is sign of lack of principles.
When your cheating spouse comes running to you crying and pleading to fix the relationship, do not ever meet them alone or touch them in any way. If they ever really cared about you, they would have stayed loyal to you. They are gross, disgusting, contaminated. They did that to themselves. They are suffering the consequences of their actions and are most likely only seeking you out because the life they thought they would get from screwing you over, imploded in their face.
exactly
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'Maybe even a binding agreement'... What... Like marriage? Come on
Right? My jaw drops at that. I just can't with that
A "binding agreement" didn't stop her the first time
He wasn't the one who got away. He was the one she threw away. What a joke by Kathy 😂😂😂
Homie took the Dwarf Pill and found peace in the mountains. Hell yeah, OP. Cut drama from your life!
Rock and stoner brother
Homie is weak af. His partner cheats on him and even after divorcing he's nervous in front of him instead of antagonizing her ass with facts. Bro's too sympathetic or just dumbed down
@@Papa_Straight the sheer level of social awkwardness in that situation must be unfathomable though. I would definitely WANT to be all cool and prepared with blunt responses and hard boundaries, but this did catch OP off guard.
@@Papa_Straight It's not that simple. Look, if he took her back, then he'd be weak, but for him to be a little emotional? Come on mate.......
@@Papa_Straight That's the difference between boys being 'Men', and ACTUAL Men.
ACTUAL Men DO have emotions, and sometimes admit to having a good cry here and there.
Boys dressing as 'Men' are typically also called 'Toxic Men' or as a group labeled 'Toxic Masculinity'.
They're the ones that spout scientifically inaccurate BS like "ReAl MeN dOn'T cRy", or as you put it, "Antagonizing her ass with facts."
This is the internet for fuck's sake, for all anyone knows I could be a woman spouting this shit I typed above. Almost no one knows what YOU have personally been through, but you do sound like a discord moderator, with your collection of Femboys (Sorry to any potential femboys, I mean no offense, please don't pipebomb my mailbox.) and 'kittens'.
The way you typed that out, so ignorantly, and so full of yourself just screams "I DON'T HAVE ANY ACTUAL EXPERIENCE! BUT I WILL CONTRIBUTE ANYWAY!"
Cheating is never a mistake or a accident, it's a premeditated crime.
As long as the person isn't caught, they will never let the cheated partner know and won't ever feel guilty about it, they will even treat the victim badly and feel somewhat superior, a little smug for doing that and getting away with it.
I can say the same for any kind of wrong doing, you'll never feel guilt for when you never get caught, the time you're caught by then you'll feel denial
@@Vismotrix-m Right, people who has a conscience and regrets their crimes or mistakes confess and seek to make amends and gain forgiveness, if you only regret it after getting caught, you aren't regretting the crime, you are just regretting getting caught.
@@paulofaquin The witch in this video is not regretful (only regrets getting caught) But there are very occasional examples of people regretting their cheating and confess. Although it is rare. Because when a woman cheats, she doesn't respect the man that she is with anymore, so she doesn't think he is worthy of guilt. When a man cheats, he doesn't want to ruin a good thing (2 or more women at once? why would I confess?) Some people do it once and immediately confess and regret it. My former sister in law cheated once (my brother was being an absolute prick) she regretted it and told him the day after. He didn't want to be with her anymore. Turns out my brother's future wife set the whole thing up hoping that she cheats and they break up. She was then with him for years and cheated on him countless times, abused him (physically and emotionally) and had her brothers beat him up to keep him from leaving. When he finally left just last year, he admitted that he should have stayed with the first one and has since forgiven her and said that he treated her like crap and drove her to do it. He's now with a 3rd person and they have a child on the way. My first nephew is about to be born.
Whenever as a betrayed man you think of forgiving the Jezebel, remember that she would beg him to put it back in when it slipped out.
Remember she would moan when he did.
Remember she availed her body in every intimate way.
Damn, I printed this man.
That’s some poetry right there brother!
bro is spittin’
Based. Leave Jezebel for the dogs.
@@StarboyXL9Biblically Accurate 💯👌
I don't like this story. I was on board until ex tracked OP down.
"I hugged her", "I'd be open to giving her another chance in a few years"
Fuck off! I hate stories that end like this. I wish that the last thing OP said to her was to stay the hell out of his life.
Having been put in that position, trust me you want to but can't. The sad truth is that it doesn't matter who did what to whom, the moment a man looks apathetic to an emotional woman, he is presumed the ahole. Done in a place he frequents, it's like poison to a watering hole.
Therefore, the purpose of the fondness was not to rekindle emotions, but to keep her outbursts to a minimum, keeping control of the scenario and lingering outcomes.
Doormats will doormat
@@Maninawigthe solution is simple. It’s called having self respect
Yeah but this way he gave her false hope to twist the knife a little bit.
you missed the part where he still decided to cut off contact with her anyway, and continued to see the other woman that calls him "mountain man"
As we say here, the wolf may lose its fur, but never its vice. Cheater once, cheater forever. If it happened once, it's only a matter of time before it happens again.
Wisdom. 💯
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I disagree. While I do believe that most cheaters would cheat again, its only because they haven't attempted to change, which makes sense, cahnge is difficult. I believe anyone is able to change, we are biologically made to do so. I encourage you to have an open mind, maybe not about cheating but atleast other things.
@@infectiousfungi3188i agree
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If it was me in this man's shoes and the ex found me, I would have just told her "No, I do not want to talk with you at all, or see you at all since a pile of shit is worth to me more than you ever will be". When I leave anyone behind me and move on, it literally means moving on. I give absolutely no attention to them and say only the things I need to, nothing else. Some people I will never give any sort of attention again, not even as little as hey.
This is the way.
The story being narrated is actually from "Literoctica" in Cheating wives stories! I actually read the story in early 2023 and the guy did move on with a younger, more beautiful Lady and cut his ex-wife permanently from his life. It was a great story with a perfect ending for the guy and his new wife!
Kevin.
Australia
Why do cheaters always say "it was a mistake", thats like the stupidest answer to give to SO. They should just say that it was their decision to chose not a mistake. A mistake is something that can be corrected and never do again because now you know what not to do and prevent a problem from happening in the future. A decision to cheat is something you can't come back from, it will always be their no matter how much you try to forget about it. Cheaters need to start learning themselves in choice of words.
I'm happy OP is finally happy and he should have just told ex to stay the hell away the very moment he saw her. That should have been the end to that train wreck. Let's just say what we all think men have more options than women. OP has the company of women left and right while the ex is experiencing depressing, angry emotions and that's her fault, not OPS. Good luck OP and live a happy successful life without the toxic drama.
The first thing cheaters what to do is shift blame if it was a mistake then it's no one's fault not theirs. And ya I like OP's will he didn't back down from her manipulation about starting a new
Or they always say it didn't mean, anything bud they stil do it 🤣
"IT WAS AN ACCIDENT!" Cheating is a choice, you chose to cheat.
You cannot undo an infidelity. You cannot uncrack a mirror.
Never get back with a cheater they'll hide it better next time and there will be a next time
For me there'll never be a 2nd chance bitten once & never again will be
@@christianbenn316 yep, no 2nd chance.
This and Shinobi ghosted will always be my two favourite stories
Women's math always makes me scratch my head. She says: "You broke my heart, but i guess I broke yours too" Heart being broken by a cheater is Equal to cheaters heart being broken when partner leaves?!?!? We are even, lets get back together!
Too late to reconcile now after so many red flags
The real question he should have asked was "If the OP had turned out to be a great guy, and someone who was single and had a lot going for him, would we be here discussing you wanting me back today?"
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I would never take a cheater back... I would never be able to trust her ever again.
The same goes for me to no 2nd chance
I don't know a single man that would document this scenario in so much detail, much less post it somewhere in such a so-well written way
Exactly, you can always tell which stories are fake because of all the flowery words and unnecessary details. This story sounds like it was written by a middle school English teacher, not some guy who got cheated on by his wife.
Eh. Had a friend who got cheated on. Bro was an avid reader and overanalyzed his life way too much. at one point despite all the listening constructive and not so constructive criticism he wouldn't shut up about it. 😑
Like bro what will help ease your pain? She wasn't worth all this. Bro got hit on all the time.
@@gusanderson1380you never know but i agree most of these stories seem like a creative writing project.
I do. Maybe you should keep better read company.
@@Kageryushin I have perfectly fine company. I'm a man, and men don't share their entire lives like this. This is made up BS.
This relationship had so many red flags 🚩 getting married so soon, getting sexual right away
there is no way he did not see this coming
She came back to make herself feel better and she could not find anyone else to do what op did for her
Actually, fast marriages can last longer. Theres something kinda toxic and unhealthy about long extended engagement. Plus its almost guarenteed to fail for a long time.couple to finally get hitched. Maybe it has soemthing to do with two non comittal prople finallu getting cornered then freaking out.
It's not something we can generally state that could affect the relationship long-term. A more important aspect is the way couples work together, talk, and resolve problems that directly affect longevity.
m42 have been married for 12, 1 kid. married 1.5 years after meeting had sex on the first date.
advice: avoid feminists and boss babes
@@jebes909090 I don't think that's true. Especially given fast marriage data contains arranged marriages under threat of religion too. Ending a marriage could easily be excommunication from your entire family support structure wherein you're brought up to believe its one of the most required things of a human being.
I'd be sorry for her for raising so many red flags
So she will do anything for him now, it's a shame she couldn't before she cheated
only 1 minute and 10 seconds in, and I knew it would go wrong. Getting married after only 8 months?? thats insanity.
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Wrong. Married my wife after 9 months, proposed in three. Fifteen happy years and counting. Her Brother in law married her sister in 3 months,...30 year anniversary this year. Key to both marriages, let God come first and let Him pick by His standards and stop picking after your own. We both did that for over forty years before we realized that we are not good at seeing the future but there is someone above us who can. Be blessed.
@@patbrown-scripturevsscript2022Amen. I married my wife this past Feb. 29th, 2024. We met February 26th, 2023. It’s a blessing to be led by The Lord in this life. Especially when you’re with the woman whom you love.
@@patbrown-scripturevsscript2022 the plural of anecdote isn't evidence. You got lucky. The vast majority of marriages that take place this quickly fail.
@@lolocaust4967the majority of marriages in general fail, especially in the US, regardless of how long dating and engagement took place. I know plenty of Christian couples that only dated briefly and have happy marriages. Absolutely depends on if both husband and wife were brought up with good, traditional morals.
the Ray energy at the end in Paul's words is so awesome i literally started chuckling alone
I would feel disgusted touching a cheating partner.
She’s gaslighting she knew she was hurting him and in fact relished hurting him. Denying bedroom time while getting it off with Chad who fiancée in a cheap hotel.
People aren't perfect, that's why you hear so much about people cheating, and many don't consider the consequences. I'm sure there are plenty of cheaters that truly regretted their actions, but unfortunately the doubt will almost always linger. It would take alot for a cheater to earn back the kind of trust they broke, and it's a gamble for whoever they cheated on to ever even begin to trust them. At this point, it's all about if you think it's worth it to believe a cheater once more.
'I broke her heart' she got what she deserved and if anyone thinks cheating is just a pushover and a cheater should get second chance is a big no and it's always us men who get short end of the stick
I wish all the best for this man. I'm genuinely sad and happy for him.
It's a fake story from reddit. 🤨
Cheating was never a mistake, it's a choice.
& it's a red flag raiser
the mistake is a consequence of a choice. Does it matter if it's a mistake or a bad choice? the question is whether it is forgivable or not. if this is a true story, and he feels something, the attempt, the tenacity, the pain and the patience that the woman brought during this period are perhaps worth an attempt at reconciliation, is it a mistake? I don't know, what if it wasn't?
It started after she picked minor fights, he might could have prevented it, by laying down the law.
She was a snake. Nothing of worth was lost.
A total snake
After the ghosting she didn't deserve any of the closure he gave to her, not a single ounce. He should have left her suffering alone with the self loathing hatred eating away at her until she turned to dust.
Dude expects the wife to be a keeper and starts the story by saying immediately after he met her the clothes flew off. The chick was easy but he expected her to hold up the fort.
A very fascinating video, this brings back painful memories which i have been enduring. My relationship of 5 years ended 3 months ago. The love of my life decided to leave me, I really love her so much I can’t stop thinking about her, I’ve tried my very best to get her back in my life, but to no avail, I’m frustrated, I don’t see my life with anyone else. I’ve done my best to get rid of the thoughts of her, but I can’t, I don’t know why I’m saying this here, I really miss her and just can’t stop thinking about her
Amazing, how did you get a spiritual counselor, and how do i reach her?
Thank you for this valuable information, i just looked her up now online. impressive
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You'll get over it. It was a 5 year relationship. It was 3 months since you posted this, 5 months now. The average time to get over a relationship is 3 months to 3 years, depending on the relationship and the person. You will get over it, though, as long as you allow yourself. If you keep chasing her, you won't. Focus on yourself. You'll be fine.
@jaypritchett3414 My dude. Wtf. You really got broken up with and said to yourself, "Hmmm, ya know what would be a great idea to get my ex back? Some BLACK FUCKING MAGIC!" If that shit did work, then you're literally with someone who has no desire to be with you, they're just under a spell. I'm a pretty massive piece of shit, but even I wouldn't try and put someone I claim to love and care for under a magic spell for them to be with me. Talk about a pathetic fkn loser.
She didn’t regret the cheating. She regrets getting caught.
these fake stories are hilarious
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The "I'm the one that got away" made it too obvious, that or the "cute as hell a few years younger girl on the trail".
Once a cheater, always a cheater.
Entertaining nevertheless
Had a feeling when dude said "we tied the knot after dating for 8 months" 8 MONTHS???
She thought the grass was greener until she her destination was a dry land and now she wants him back what a joke😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
I love it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
of course she’s moving to different state - that sociopath just want a clean title to lure another sucker in to cheat on…
Dude shouldn't have let her talk to him when she tracked him down. Don't reward cheaters with attention.
Married only after 8 months?! Tell me you are an idiot without telling me you are an idiot. 🙄
none of this actually happened.
@@Zack29810shhhh
It's not the time frame, its that they got sexual right away. Sex before marriage blinds you to the real person.
There are people who got married the day they met but lasted for decades and happily too. It isn't the time. It's the person.
@@StarboyXL9 both, but good luck trying to keep a girl to stay interested all the way till marriage without giving her some dick
One of my all time favorite stories. Another fav is the one where the business guy is stuck in Asia mostly Japan because of covid and ghosts his childhood friend/fiancé who wanted an open relationship.
This should be a movie, can't be this damn detailed 😂
This smells like your typical revenge manga
Even the intro sounds like a manga title lmao
Remember don't let your guard down.Shw will never respect you.
Remember: cheating isn’t a mistake. It’s a thousand consecutive “mistakes”
i love the email address and declining phone number “because she would blow it up with calls and texts “
I love it. Just walk away from 304s they are not worth the effort.
The thing is you never really trust the person the same. I stay once. It could be something small and boom... the question come out.
I left and later got with my husband. He loves me so much. So as I love and try my best to make him happy. He does more to me. Like buying me a beautiful coffee cup set😍 but the most loving thing is carrying me
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The BALLS on Paul with the note. Got damn man!! Hope you’re doing amazing.
Good to hear… I’m also divorced with 6 kids I am taking care of. Now she wanted to reconcile but it’s already 6 years. I have move on, meeting other women and having fun with my children and life. Not going to go back to that life anymore
She wants to come back and make your happiness your hell. She is a demon.
Red flag when they start to argue over stupid shit.
A friend married young but divorced 2 years later cos she cheated on her husband. But she remarried him 4 years later. She didn't pursue any relationships or slept with anyone just subtly trying to win her ex back.
Her ex got into a relationship but it ended. She changed a lot. Although i dislike her old personality and what she did i respected her perseverance(4 years is damn long) and willingness to change.
Her new self was a much better person by a long shot, total 180. However her world revolves around her husband. Its kinda creepy but i guess that's one form of loyalty right there. And trust me, in this day & age, you'd want loyalty rather than love. They've been remarried for 7 years now.
hopefully he keeps her on a tight leash. i know a guy who took back a cheater too. she knows better not to question him on anything. but he never married her told her point blank he never will
it will not last. she will eventually tire of obeying him and do the same thing.
I just don't think it was a good match. People high up the corporate ladder are elites.
As he describes her - smart, articulate, good looking and 'almost' out of her league. She may have been initially charmed by the OP, but charm wears off. And then she starts having an affair with her own kind (someone more powerful than her in her office).
If this ever happens to me I'll never leave a note and the house etc. I'd sell everything in the house and the ring 100%. If there's a joined account that isn't that big id just donate the money to charity.
1:06 8 months only ?? SSMAACKK! 🙆🏻♂️
I can say with confidence she would. Taking a cheater back in their eyes is like giving them permission to do it again.
RUN!!!! It's not just the cheating it's also the lies. She's a complete mess and will only bring pain.
This won't work irl. You'd be sued for abandonment. It's better to get divorce. He should've taken photos as evidence for affair.
“It was time to tell her to go FIND herself” 😂😂💀💀
Women will always play victim. It's never her fault. That's why I never talk to any ex that comes back just tell them to get lost. A simp is a simp tho.
I'm sorry, I feel like you misspelled narcissists
There's no narcissist in my reply. I just said the guy was a simp for doing it all then talking to her like nothing happened
Me, an overthinker
Listening to reddit stories about infidelity to prepare for the worst
damn bro, im so sorry !!! weve all been there, thanks for sharing ❤
Amen for my brother, Not SIMPING for a cheater
reason she hit you up isn’t because she give a f about you, its because nobody gives a f about her
Best response to cheaters, that feels damn good to hear
They cheat without accountability
when he asked her is she hired an detective and she laughed - that’s the point you know you’re dealing with sociopath.
I have been there. It feels like you will never love again and that your life is over. IT IS NOT! You will forget before long and will be better off for it. Just make sure you learn from it and always respect yourself
This is an amazingly awesome story. I'm only 11 minutes in and I've subscribed!
I wanna say that this is exactly what I would do if I get cheated on, but the number of my friends who told me that I'm that woman in Gone Girl if I get cheated on tells me that I'm wrong.
“thank you for sharing your journey, and may your future be filled with joy and fullness. But it seems unlikely.” kinda caught me off guard lol
Ah, the "Mountain Man" story.
Why do these morons not take pictures when they see evidence of their wives/girlfriends/fiancés cheating? …and please don't come back with _"They were in so much shock."_ Nah, this is a sign of the same weakness that made these 304's confident enough to pull this kind of crap on them in the first place.
In this particular case, it turned out great for him, but it's a pretty good idea to be ready to get the drop on these 304's. In some cases, it could help you get favorable terms from her before a divorce (blackmail?), get the story out before she can paint you as the bad guy, and protect your reputation if it's important to your profession.
Once cheater, always a cheater..
Trash comes in all shapes and forms just remember to throw it out
He never should have agreed to speak to her when she tracked him down. Why was he at the airport when she was? Redditors are so weird
This is why you don't get married after only EIGHT MONTHS. That's insane.
Stacy would be excomunicado after snitching on location to my ex wife.
Y was everyone in the bar divorced lol
Forgiveness does not mean things will be the same. You can forgive someone and choose to never deal with them again.
Cheaters don’t always cheat twice. Though it’s harder to fix a broken relationship after cheating has occurred.
They do if they think they can get away with it.
That's literally the only thing stopping them.
They have to have a very selfish reason for them NOT to cheat again for them to stop, such as wanting to stay in a house that they like, or often for financial reasons.
Trust me, once a cheater, ALWAYS a cheater.
People don't change.
The sad reality is that most women don't respect a man until he leaves her.
If she loved you, why would she cheat? No forgiveness
I remeber reading a similar story from the other side, where the husband left the ring in a cup with a note and left.
Lol with the way the story was going on, for a minute i thought the guy that was offering you an out wanted.....a bit more than that 😂
I do not believe in a ‘path to redemption’. Bridges get burned utterly
The Ex stalking and knowing his whereabouts, dude has a rat in his midst.
If he told any friends or family one of them must of spilled, that or she went out of her way to trail him after work or something.
As a 25 yr old man I’m more understanding the importance of sex. It’s literally the most important act to women. If you can make her organism she will never leave
Keep running she only wants to be granted an opportunity to get revenge.
Dear Penthouse; I never believed these stories until it happened to me . . .
There is no redemption for cheaters. You lose your personhood in my eyes at that point.
Besides not taking photos/videos OP responded very well!
Ray sounds like a great man
Edit: I was cheated on once and when I looked back and hearing her say “it meant nothing” hurt more than the cheating. That means she cared less about me than the person she stepped out with.
Ray is the real G of this story
If my ex appirated out of nowhere and said "ive been looking for you!" The next words out of my mouth would be "I am calling the police."
excellent anecdote, sir. a lot of men need to hear stories like these
Shoutout Ray. True GOAT
Ray is the ray of sunshine in the gutwrecking world.
We all should be Ray.
I hate when these dudes fall for the tears and embrace the cheaters. Disgusting.
Ikr🤦♂️ can't stand these people I swear.