Koj Xaiv Qhov Yooj Yim Koj Tau Qhov Phem. 6/22/23
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I dont understand why she married someone she doesn't like than blame it on her parents. Shame on her for marrying him bc she thinks he has money. I'm glad you got remarried and let karma takes its place brother. RIP sister for not loving and respecting yourself before and after your marriages.
It's not entirely your fault that u guys got married. She agreed to marry you even though she wasn't 100% sure about u. One can say u shouldn't have married her when she didn't love u. But one could also argue that she shouldn't have married u if she didn't love u either. No one is right in this story.
Agree
Agree. She should have made it clear that she doesn’t like him. She played with him so it’s also her fault.
True! It could also be that her parents wanted her to marry him and being a good daughter, she did what they say.
cas yuav raug kuv ua luaj li os, tu siab thiab mob siab tshaj tsis muaj yam paub tau li nawb
Why u remain with a person who doesn’t love and want to be with you…??? It’s your own fault for marrying her in the first place…😩!
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Thaub laus, Tim koj ntag! Tus hluas nkauj twb g nyiam koj ua ntej es.
Ua tsaug hnov kj zaj neej neeg Lm os tus kwv tij hmoob as me ka raws Li peb sv ds hnov mloog tej dab neeg no mas g yog yuav tag 2 tus Leej twg tau ua muaj Lm raug Leej twg xwb raws Li hnov ntau zaj ces cov poj niam zoo 2 nkj Li kj tus poj no ces yog tib co siab phem Liam xyiam tshaj pLaws Li nawb niaj hnub no yeej tseem muaj cov Li kj zaj no los tseem muaj thiab os
That is true about marrying someone who doesn't love you, but the grass is not that green on the other side. So be happy for what you have right under your nose.
Your children should not hold it against you for not wanting to do their mother’s funeral. She choose her path and when it didn’t go as she planned, she should live with the consequences. Once you’re divorced, your obligation ends.
Sorry for the children’s loss of their mother.
He's not married to her anymore so he's not obligated.
I would've got rid of her after she told me I'm poor n not the one she wants in the beginning or after she named yur first child after the old boyfriend
Grass is not greener on the other side. It is greener where you water it.
All great comments re this story. Yes. Once divorced, it is not the other spouse's obligation to do the other's funeral. They left you already. Plus you've remarried already.
Awb lawv yus tus txij nkawm nyiam yus tsis nto 100 tsuas yog 20 30 paws xees xeb tu siab tshaj plaws
Lawd aw txhob tos tus koj hlub os vim tsis yog txoj hmoo es thiaj li tsis sib tau mas hlub tus nyob ntawm koj ib sab thiaj yog tus hlub tseeb mas lawd aw tsam xav txog lig ces mam paub lig os xa rau cov tsis sib hlub
You're 100% right brother, I trust you and always be your side, may God bless you and your father inlaw too, it's truful story brother
Wow…I have been there and done that…today is darkness, but tomorrow will be sunshine and shine forever!…
This lady, is she rich? What a horrible mindset and blames her parents for marry him when she left with him. These ladies, I don’t love you but 5 kids later, whatever. She made the decision and she’s miserable in it. Stop living in the past. I’d never stay with anyone who wants to live in the past.
You and her parents force that marriage! It’s a one-sides love affair which will never ever work. Stop these forced marriage already.
If I were you, I would divorce her after the first child name after her ex. I wouldn't let it go that far until 5 children.
raug kuv 100%
Great story! Finally not maum cab/niam mos ab stories! Need more this kinda stories. Because all maum cab stories are the same endings!
The wife.... the grass is always greener on the other side.
Very good lesson for us to learn .
It’s funny how you turned the table around acting like the victim after you kidnapped her.
To be fair, she did say at the beginning that she only likes him a little, whereas he likes her a lot. So it was a risk he was willing to take, so of course there’s no guarantee that the marriage will last. It was a gamble. You just have to accept it as it is and move on.
He should married his father-in-law.
And yet she made the decision all on her own. Own it!
Let her go. She never wanted you. It's miserable to live with someone whom you don't love! Tau tus pojniam los yog tus txiv tsis raw siab xav mas thiaj txawj tu siab mus tag ib sim neej.
Cas nej cov txiv txhua tus uas poj niam khiav mus mam tus poj niam tuag tas li xwb. Dag dhau lawm
If you felt that she didn't truly love you from the beginning, you shouldn't have married her and let her go...What you did was right about not being in charge of her funeral...She left, so it's not your obligation anymore. Your children should understand that she wasn't always there for them or you!
Cas vim li cas neeg pheej Tsi learn txoj kev no li ne peb hmoob always taug txoj kev no xwb …
Tus poj niam siab phem li ko tso mus yuav dua lwm tus poj niam siab zoo tseem tshuav tos koj os tus me nus lawv yeej tsis yuav nws kom kawg lawv ntxias kom nws lub neej puas ny qab choj kiag xwb ruam li nws tso ntxov npaum cas ces kj lub neej tshav ntuj npaum ntawd xwb
Seriously, dude u dug ur own grave. U knew from the beginning she never loved u, but u wanted her for her looks. Koj tsis muaj siab muaj ntsws los ua cas yuav ntshaw lub niag nceb liam ntawd ua luaj li.
Txhob tu siab os koj yeej paub nws tsis hlub koj thaum pib koj tseem yuav thiab ces koj twb tau qhov zoo tas lawm zam txim os nawb..
Phem thiab zoo los ntshe yuav swb tus zoo nraug lawm tiag.
Cov neeg tsis sawm zoo. Sometimes that is life. 😢
Nws ntshaw2 ces cia nws tau yam nws ua zoo lawm os koj yeej meem hlub neb cov me nyuam thiab hlub koj tus niam Tsev uas hlub koj xwb tau lawm
She deserves all that came to her
He is next. He put her through all that bs.
She didn't have a choice when she was younger but when she made a choice, she made a stupid choice. True, she should've stayed with her marriage but people will only learn when they can choose for themselves.
@@ooinkssies1142another 3rd grader opinion.😮
ib tug pojniam phem npaum no ces tsis tsim nyog koj yuav nco yuav khuvxim li lawm od yawg, muab laim hlob nrog dab ntxaug mus lawm dab teb es txhob khuvxim li od mog, zaum no ces nws yuav mus ua qab kev luag los mas.
I feel sorry for your ex wife. You and her parents forced her to married you. You knew she didn't love you, you shouldn't let her parents do that to her if you truly love her. Very sad how things turned out.
The woman you loved backstabbing your heart never think about her again. You search for the one you love and she also loves you. She should think twice before making error problems arrive unable to get results. Now it’s not like when you still young and he saw your life much better then your. He just want to turn your life down hill and you are going to have no place to live nobody cares about you even your own child.
I don’t understand… she didn’t like the guy but she kept coming back not just once not just twice but serval more times!
If you didn’t like the guy just go your separate ways.
You cannot force love on someone.. Since you didn’t want to bury their mom, don’t expect her children to bury your new wife..
I don't think he's trying to force her to love him. He thinks that if he married her and loved her enough, she would change and love him back. But she didn't. She wanted to follow her own path. He loved her enough to let her go. That's all her can do. He owes her nothing. His duty as her husband is done the moment she left him, not sure why her kids don't understand and see his pains when she left him.
Yog koj 2 tug ntxhais tu tu siab rau koj no ces kom nkauwv saib nkawv niam ua kev kawm txhob ua li leej niam tsam lwm hnub nkawv taug nkawv niam txoj kev ntag....yog tsis saib leej niam ua kev kawm vauv muaj ib cuab kwv tij loj loj luag yuav hla tsis dhau cuab kwv tij ces yuav raug ua nplas...
It's not just women, but also men who says the same thing, "forgive me hun, I made a mistake, please take me back". If their lives are well, they will never look back, it's always when it doesnt t work out like expected that they turn back to their old spouse. There's alot of dab neeg that are relatively the same like this one.
Pretty much Fantasy vs Reality 😅😅😅
Sorry you married the town hoooo
You shouldn’t force someone to be with you because you love them. Your wife had the right to choose who she wants to be with, whether it’s right for her or not.
He didn't force her. She's forced herself to married him...Listening carefully 😅😅
@@tzlove6281 He didn't force her to marry him but her parents did. He was encouraged and went along with it knowing she didn't like him. As a traditional Hmong girl, she obeyed her parents, hence her unhappy life.
She belong to the streets!
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Thank GOD we still got 3rd grader listening.
Koj npam lawm pob tus poj niam, yog koj tsis xav yuav, koj tsis txhob nco2 yog koj tau mas koj yuav tau tus leb 7xya txhua2 zaum neb sib ceg ua hniav poob tag thaum ntawd ces lig2 rau koj nawb ces koj yuav tau txais txoj kev npam xwb.
Niam qhuav ntxim xwb lawv twb tsis nyiam yus es leej twg kom yus ntshaw luag ces kawg zoo li no xwb tiag koj muab xav tias yog koj niam koj txiv nyiam xwb koj tsis nyiam koj twb tsis xav yuav xav hlub thiab koj tsuas lam thiab xwb ne
Kev nco txhua tus yeej nco tab sis kev nco muaj caij dua nws zoo dua cia nws nyob es ua mob rau koj mus tas ib sim os tus phooj ywg
Don’t worry too much. It didn’t work out so moved on. Don’t let him mistreat you.
I guess this dude didn't get it. Love can't be forced and its a lost on all sides. I don't think anyone actually benefited from this union. Lesson to be learned, PLEASE STOP FORCING SOMEONE TO BE WITH IF THEY DON'T WANT!!
Tus neeg zoo li ko lawm tsis tuag yeej tsis tso tseg tso rau niag qub hluas nraug lwm hnub nws quaj ces yus khaws luag xwb ma qub nkauj nraug mas haj yam muaj kev sib tib muaj lus sib ceg tso nws phov nws tsis txog twg li os
Hahaha hom maum dev zoo li tus no ces cia ua dej cawm siav rau peb ib tsoom nraug nrab sim phom lau 😅😅😮😮
I blamed her parents first .let your daughter choosed her spouse .poor guys your got hard life with the person didn't choosed you to be her soul mate
How many times are you going to get married and divorced with the same person? 😂🤦🏻♀️
Niag poj Niam Liam ko es NWS puas paub tias NWS Tus hluas nraug puas yuav NWS lawm naw, CAS koj yuav Siab zoo ua luaj yog kuv zoo li ko CES ntshe kuv Tus txiv tsis yuav kuv lawm os 😭😭
There was already some red flags in the beginning, warning him that the marriage wasn't gonna last, and he still try to make it work. I'm appalled that he even put up with this lady for so long because of love. I'm sorry but you can't buy or force someone else to love you. It's the same mentality like the Hmong culture of 'zij poj niam', only a handful full of relation will last, but who else will know truthfully that the women truly loves the husband whole heartily for the rest of her life. She wasn't dragged it the relationship physically but with words, that's why she wasn't happy. So in conclusion, both parties are at fault. He's telling the world that majority of the mistakes are on her, but he has to realize that he's also at fault for loving a women that don't even love him, he should have let her go a long time ago to avoid all the pain and heartaches for both parties. I'm not saying I'm perfect, it's a learning curve for me to, that's why it's a good thing that they have all of these neej neeg on UA-cam for me to listen and learn not to make these same mistakes. Glad for him that he found true love in the end.
Cov me nyuam ruam ruam ces yuav tu siab rau koj tab sis yog cov ntse ces tsis tu siab li os....lawv niam nws xaiv nws kev taug....
Should have told her to keep going and not look back. Good for you that you moved on and did not take her back. What i don’t understand is, why you still call her “koj niam”? If I were the 2nd wife, I would be mad.
You did this to yourself the moment she said your poor you should of not married her
Wow, your wife did not love you at all. What a sad life.
Your fault! Why marry someone who had no relationship with you at the beginning.
At the end of the day, it’s the kids that suffer but that’s how life is. 80% of these same story end up the same. It’s just a f$&k session until it’s over. He should get child support and get the kids to hate her..
Brother kuv to taub koj txoj kev mob siab thaum uas koj tus poj niam txiav txim siab tawm ntawm koj lub neej mus vim koj yog tus hlub thiab nyiam nws. Cia kuv nug koj, koj tus poj niam yuav koj vim nws ua li nws niam thiab nws txiv xaiv koj xwb. Koj puas xav txog tias nws mob siab vim nws twb tsis tau tus nws hlub thiab nyiam no?
Poj niam xob txhiaj
Aub ua cas yuav muaj tej tus pojniam liam npaum li no thiab ntag
Nqa hammer mus xyuas nws xwb.
Glad you moved on after what your ex wife did to you.
Cov mi nyuam no tsis tau tUb. Lawv tsis paub tias tsis yog lawv txiv qhov obligation lawm na. Stupid children. Cas tseem muaj lub chim rau leej txiv thiab. Lawv niam yuav mus nrhiav tus tshiab los tsis ua cas. Tab sis nco tsoov tias mus lawm ces tus qub lub neej qub tag lawm na. Koj xaiv txoj kev tshiab taug ces thaum kev tws txhob los bother tus neeg koj tso cia lawm. Tsis yog nws txoj hauj lwm los thaj tsho koj lawm. It's not his obligation.
Koj ruam los koj ntse, tsis txhob ruam2 ua neej xeem nws xwb.
Yog vim li cas koj thiaj tseem nco thiab khuv xim tus neeg ib txwm tsis kam hlub koj? Puag yog koj raug npam los yog koj tsis zoo nraug es tsam koj nrhiav tsis tau ib tug zoo nkauj li nws xwb? Los sis puas koj treat koj tus kheej yam ruam ruam dua ntais cov txiv neej nyob hauv world no lawm ces koj thiaj feel desperate rau txoj kev nrhiav poj niam yuav?
Koj yawmtxiv nyiam koj xwb. Tim koj thiab koj yawm txiv from the beginning. She had her own boyfriend. Tim koj xwb, nws lub neej thiaj tws tag.
Truth hurts but saying of “Life is a bitch” is true, and she received it. Tsis hais pojniam LOSIS txiv neej: Txojkev cia siab rau tej qub kia roj ces luag yeej tsis yuav, luag tsuas xav siv xwb.😂😂
Pojniam tsis muaj hlwb... tus tsis tau ces nws xavtias yuav zoo tshaj tabsis yog tau tus nws nyiam los nws yeej xav tias yus zoo tshaj thiab xwb.. cov pojniam zoo liko, yeej nyuaj tsis muaj neej zoo vim nws tsis muaj kev txiav txim siab.. nws nyiam ua lub neej nrog kev npau suav.. nyiam muab thooj kub Pauv thooj txhuas.. txhua tus nws tau yuav yog zoo xwb tsis zoo ces nws yuav seev yees rau tus nraud xwb.. zoo lino, tso nws mus zoo dua koj thiaj muaj neej nrog luag ua mog. Txhob hlub thiab khuv xim tus neeg tsis hlub yus.. koj txawm thov los tsis zoo dabtsi mog
Tsi hai poj niam los yog txiv neej tu coj tu cwj pwm li no nw tsi xav tag mam ua ho nw ua tag mam xav thaum kawg ce tsuj tib tug hneev taw xwb
Tsis hais poj niam los txiv neej li os selfish ces ua raws li nws lub siab nyiam thaum txom nyem thiaj muaj mob ces ho rov los thawj yus kom yus tu nws thiab faus nws xwb mas.😡😡😡