“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” -Maya Angelou
who cares, its important that you feel good and you will transfer the vibes to those who are "worthy". It hardly comes from caring oh what will they feel and not being original. And your original you must be happy, youthful, even at hard times, enlightened being all the other goodies will come naturally.
i made people rage quit in games, sometimes we forget how powerful feelings are and their influence on our decision making. I hope he never comes back because he was actually pretty good
Keep putting yourself out there: volunteer, attend events, do some dance lessons, etc. Even if you don't find a gal, you'll still be able to meet people and form some sense of community.
@@TheHamburgler123 nah, i kinda gave up on life, every time i go outside some person looking for trouble finds me, or i get dizzy or whatever, im screwed allready
It’s not trying to kill you. It’s trying to give you a taste of death so you’ll be more tempted by life. Maybe you were too proud to use a dating app or join a Meetup group or start a workout class last month, but this month it feels preferable to death. Loneliness is a bitch, but it actually has good intentions. Listen to it.
We attract what we are. Being alone is an amazing experience, I mean being alone and being happy. Now to be able to be happy you need to dig deeper into yourself and try to understand why are you feeling this way you are feeling now. Other people can't make us happy if we are not happy with ourselves. You will be alright
Before phones no ones dopamine systems were messed up. Everything felt real and even the smallest things in day to day life bought genuine enjoyment. This video encapsulates what life used to feel like...and more importantly, still can if anyone wants it to
Yeah, i feel the same. 4 years. The most vivid 4 years in my whole 32-years life. And now we're strangers again. She said it was a mistake. Best years in my life - was a mistake. What a strange, strange world...
Sounds somehow similar with mine. I didn't know everything we went through were just simple things for him. The best years of my life, only to be labeled as "this doesn't make me happy anymore" when he left. Indeed, what a strange strange world.
Jessa Grace Manayan now, after a half of a year full of new communications (it was hard), i think i start to recover. I had been taking testosterone pills to cut the depth of my sorrow. Sounds stupid, but works. But i'll never be the same again. No one should live up to expectations and nothing lasts forever. And we need to live happily despite of that. Thats the challenge.
@@artokarsus It would be not right if I say that I know how hard it is for you, but I do know it's hard for me. I really don't know if I could make it. But I'm glad to know you're starting to recover. It's a ray of hope that in the future, I might see the same thing as you do now. Have a good day. :)
Idk about that. Some of us havent even really gotten to experience this once, and thats bs. Its so damn unfair. Where is this for me? I've been alive too long to have gone without this! It's fcking ridiculous.
A strong trend towards 90s emotional house and lo-fi video right now, taking us back to a time before mobile phones and Instagram, UA-cam, and the omni-presence of recording and information.
@@Secretlyanothername it isnt black.and white. Some romanticize it some look at it from a less biased perspective and there is always the counter counter opinion guy like you. Who goes the other extreme..just to be different. Many papers ..publications ..studies and essays show that people are getting detached and becoming more isolated and mentally ill and much.more. the internet ..the digital world is too much for most to be able to handle. Anyway..im out
It’s such a heavy feeling when, after a failed relationship, you come to realize just how important and valuable the previous one was-when that person truly cared about you, and yet you chose to let them go. And now, seven years later, it all comes flooding back. Nostalgia can truly break you, and even after so many years, it’s hard to forget, and the pain of regret still lingers. Yet, despite it all, you’re genuinely happy that life worked out for them. And even though you’re now strangers to each other, you sincerely wish them all the best. love is something... if you find it, don’t let it go
I imagine your concerts full of people aiming their right to feel sad in a healthy way, feeling lonely but all together, without the hypocrisy of the media. In my mind is beautiful. Kisses from Spain
"aiming their right to feel sad in a healthy way, feeling lonely but all together" I think I will never forget these words, so true and meaningful. Thank you, you made my day better just with these words. Love from France
I know this might get lost in the comment section, but this video and song really have many meanings for me. The first time I saw this video was actually the night my GF (now Ex) and I started to date. At the time, I saw this video as a guide of sorts. A way that I should be for her, that I should do my best and give her my all. That no matter how I was feeling I should make her feel happy. Skip forward almost half a year later. We shared a lot about life. Countless laughs, late night dinners at diners, long car rides just enjoying each other. It felt like life was good, because we had each other. But I still remember that one night when I got home from one of our dates, and she texted me that she can’t do this anymore, telling me that we had nothing. Of course now we are total strangers to each other, I doubt she would ever give me the time, and just tell me to move on. But I wouldn’t trade any of the moments we shared together, I look back on the photos and videos we took together and smile, cherishing the time spent. I know she will never read this, but thank you for everything Kayla. 1 year later: I’m not sure how many people still read this ,but if you are, Thank you. Life’s has got much more complicated. Still missing her but I hope she’s happy in her life now. Just always keep your head up. Everything will be okay, and if it’s not. Then it isn’t over yet. I love you all.
You did your best mate. In the end nothing lasts forever, you should find yourself a meaning from this breakup and move on. Hope you find peace, take care ✋🏼
Bro, you are handling this in the best way, thanks for sharing. Wish you all the best for the future ❤️ Hopefully I'll experience the same one day (with a better ending) and you too!
Hey king, hope you’re doing better. Take it from someone who was in your position: it took me about 3-4 years to really begin to move on, but it WILL happen. Just take each day in stride and never give up. I’m here for you
Not sure about exes, shit man... these were the people we were supposed to marry, break the cycle with. Life is a lesson, and it’s a mother fucking shame that we lose the true people in our lives because we didn’t know any better. I wish, I really wish something taught me how to love right, so there wouldn’t be loss-but we are our own teachers and these are the things we must teach our children, to at least lessen their suffering in this world. Thanks for reading, if you are
I'm going thru a breakup, and I feel so low rn, your music and videos makes me kind of sad, but also makes me realize that the moments we had, were pure gold. Thank you.
sergs l damn feels bro. Going through the same thing. About to give in and go back to my ex man. Miss her. Miss the moments we shared. I feel like our journey wasn’t over yet.
@@DontStopRemula I would like to do the same, but, in my case I don't think it'll happen... But,think about what's the best for each other, if you feel that the relationship can work again without massive problems, go ahead, chase the girl, don't let go and make that journey a beautiful one. Best of luck mate.🤙🏻
I had something like this a long time ago, we would spent hours watching movies, talking about music, going to concerts, restaurants, even parties where neither of us wanted to go, but we had a blast just us, there were even many times that we were in silence doing absolutely nothing, but we had each other, and that was enough. She was very special, she always cared about me, she always asked me how I was, how I felt, among many things, we had such similar tastes, she had great personality, and the best clothing taste, she was funny and sweet, although she would disagree with me on that. I miss her, that infectious laugh, that beautiful smile, those deep talks about life, telling secrets, dreams, even arguing. I would give everything for 5 minutes with her, it does not matter if we do not speak, just to see her smile, it is enough for me, just to know that she is happy, really happy. Is enough. I love her more than anything else, and I really mean that. I miss her, like hell. Hopefully one day, we will meet again, at the right time, and maybe, just maybe, things will work out this time. With you, I Had it All - JD
This is exactly what I’m thinking bro I miss the good morning and good night calls I miss the time we would spend watching movies and tv but it’s all over now... man I miss it
this song perfectly describes 2019 for me, a time where "I had it all" in the beginning of 2019 and the time "I lost it all" in the end of 2019. close people that i once thought were friends but now strangers.
This really hit me. While seeing the way they looked each other and how explored little things together I couldn't stop recognizing the feeling that brought me when I was with someone I still love. When I realized that everything were memories and the silhouette of the poor man appeared it was like seeing me in a mirror. Really hope no one goes through anything like that.
Taking her on a breakfast meet up, walking around the area to explore shops, and visiting a retro arcade and game bar are key to planning great adventures together. Thanks.
Man, its gonna be okay, everything in this world happens for a reason. Trust me. Chin up and find things that make you happy, start new hobbies etc. Also you're not the only one bro. :)
That’s how it always is. Haven’t spoken to my first love in half a decade now, and I’ve since fallen in love with someone else. She’s amazing, I want to spend my life with her, but there’s always that still-burning ember of the one who got away. It’ll never burn out and all we can do is learn to live with that burning pain.
Jomzi01 I've noticed that men are usually the ones hit hardest by loss. I don't know why women get the reputation of being the more sensitive sex. In all of my life experience men feel the pain of losing loved ones much more strongly than women, or at least for a longer period of time.
The look on his face at the end of the video says everything. No words spoken, but so much is said in those few seconds. I don't know if these were actors or if this was a real relationship/scenario, but it really brings out the emotions of this video, and I feel for this guy.
Here I am, with my 27th birthday just weeks away, reminiscing the times I spent with her. Been 13 years since I first fell in love with her. We used to be so happy, and were in so much love. Now it's all gone. She probably doesn't even remember I ever existed. And here I am, thinking about the love I experienced as divine expression.
Jesus Christ is the answer you are looking for "The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." - John 10:10
Even if your world revolves around them in the moment, you never know how much someone's mere presence means to you, until you only have fading memories of them.
Hey man, I don’t know if you’ll see or take the time to read this but hey here’s a shot. I’m 22 since December, and I’m in my third year of medecine in France in a city called Dijon. You might know it through the Dijon mustard (or not, in that case that wasn’t very useful aha) I’ve been listening to your songs for as long as I can remember right now, they’ve been with me during long nights of studying pre-exams, rough times just like tonight’s. I felt like it would be real cool to know that the guy that makes the music I listen to nearly every day, is going to check his phone/computer and read something I wrote. I’ve been struggling with anxiety since my early teen’s, and still do now. It comes and goes but it’s gotten worse this last month. I just wanted to let you know that moments when I truly feel at peace and I forget about everything that’s stressing me is when I lie down on my bed after a long day, pop in my headphones and listen to you. You’re one of the few artists that make me feel this way (another one are The Blaze you might know them) The melancholy of your vibes somehow feel like a hug. Anyway, listening to you as I’m writing this. Thanks for making a French dude’s life a bit easier. I coped your vinyle and can’t wait for it to arrive. Merci mon ami edit : 3 years later still dj poolboying strong. Final exam in 45 days to figure out my specialty and city to spend my residency. thank you for all the kind messages. you are beautiful peoples and every comment means a lot.
Hey man - I'm sure you aren't the only one. In fact I know you aren't because I sent him a similar message over instagram - and he sent a really nice reply :) Maybe drop him a message on there (@djpoolboi). I'm sure he'd appreciate what you have to say. I agree with you regarding the blaze as well - they have a similar effect. Hope your life keeps getting easier. Bon chance! :)
was good to know you , was good to love you , and even if nothing last forever , i got our memories living inside my heart, and they're going to live there until i die
Fr bro makes u feel weird af thinking about all those cool moments with ur ex-loved one.. I don’t understand why people don’t let go off their ego’s. Guess we’ll have to live on with that until the next cool thing happens ;)
I'm 23, tomorrow in the morning I will be moving from my dad's house where I felt depressed all the time, with no more emotions than sadness and without being able to express myself, imagining no future for me if I stay. My dad used to tell me I will not be able to finish high school and start a career, and things like I will be ending selling drugs or something. Now I'm moving to my sister's house where I can express what I feel, I already finished school with high grades. In one year from now I will be finishing my career and I'm already receiving offers from good jobs when I finish. Now I'm drinking a cup of wine while I'm listening to these awesome beats who makes my life better, DON'T GIVE UP!!
This music video is phenomenal, the ending where you see nothing but the man staring into the dark screen is just, I can’t put it into words what emotions it gives off.
I rewatch this video all the time and just remember so many good times.. I feel like it’s a weird glimpse into my past. Remembering more or less similar moments I’ve shared with that are similar to this. To the ones I love, thank you. To the ones I’ve loved and lost, I wish you well. Your memories mean everything to me.
1:04 - Unstoppable euphoria 2:08 - Enveloped in emptiness 2:24 - Seeking her spectral presence 2:40 - A smile's gentle return 3:12 - Gratitude for her essence 3:44 - The realization: "I had it all" at least that's how I feel it.
I remember these times and days like this and even though they were just normal days I knew they were special. The air, the type of light from the sun, I could feel it and took it in. These days you could never have enough of so appreciate what you had. There's no going home that space in time is gone. Mi barrio ya no existe.
Brothers, I want you to have everything just as you wish! May God bless you! Don’t lose hope; we are men, and we must fight to the last drop of life for what will bring us happiness. I love you, and may God be your protector!
This takes me back to the days where my best friend and I would embark on meaningless adventures. The streets were our jungle and we could take form of whatever creature we desired. We would talk about every single thing and talk to anyone we deemed our brief time. And then we grew a little bit older and then there was no more time for each other. As time went on we grew more and more distant physically and our thoughts about the world changed. But one thing is for certain and that is we both knew these moments would be etched into our very souls and would be remembered as some of the most beautiful moments of our lives. We are happy but a bit sad today.
Brickwallhood1 Your story has been heard. I'm so happy you were able to experience such things. I hope you and that friend are never completely absent.
FruityUnicorn17 I feel you on that one. I’ve been in different groups of friends but never really connected closely to heart. It gives you a different perspective on things though.
Hi.I don't know if anyone will read this message and I apologize in advance for possible mistakes but it is not my native language.I have always seen and considered love as how much beauty there can be in the world, like what you see in movies but reality is harder. My life has been subject to numerous romantic disappointments that have made me gloomy, sad and thrown into a sea of despair. Fortunately, I can be satisfied with my health and academic success. This video made me remember what I thought would be indelible moments in my life and anything but terrible. But in the end they turned out to be so, taking away that smile I always had since i was a child. What I would like to say is not to dedicate your entire life, energies, to the boy/girl you've fallen in love with, much less when you're still in the initial stages of getting to know each other. And for those who find themselves in this situation well... I understand you very well. Dedicate your energies to study, to work, to your passions and always consider having a girl or boy by your side as a "plus" and not as a need. And...I know what you're thinking about. It's too easy thinking like that. I understand you and I wouldn't have believed it either if they had told me months ago but it's a powerful solution fr. I also understand very well that love for a person is a fundamental component for the life of all of us but we must go there with extreme caution. "I had it all" ...yeah.... before suffering for love. Maybe one day I will find the person who will make me feel special. Maybe. One day. I hope so for all of you too! p.s. the song is amazing and I keep it saved in my playlist -a stranger
I watch this and I cry. Partially because I'm sad and partially because I'm happy to see those people happy. It makes me sad I don't experience what they have, but I'm also happy for them
@@angelicoctahedron3646The fallacy of not missing what you have never had is a psychological band-aid, a temporary amelioration of a wound that grows and festers daily... In your thought of thoughts you feel something missing, youve only caught glimpses and reverbrations in your day to day existence. Denial is bliss up until a point. Seek Happiness friend, and let us know how it tastes to the hopeless 🧎
Reading the comments, I think you're doing incredible art. The combination of these videos and the music makes things alive in people. Respect from Germany :)
5 years of laughs, grocery shopping, traveling, and reminding each other how much we loved each other. Then she cheated. She tried to monkey branch but plan A didn't work out so I was a backup plan. Broke up with her on the spot. I don't regret it one bit. Crazy how quickly life is uprooted and changed. I moved out and about 2 weeks later, she calls me - she's pregnant. I refuse to get back together with her. 9 months later and I'm a father of a son (paternity test confirmed). 20 years of child support to someone I despise. One day I will love again, I swear.
Even when someone hurt you dearly, good things also happen, like your kid. Maybe she's a c*nt but you have a child now, the most amazing thing in the world. You dont have to forgive her, you have to forgive yourself.
I loved this song but couldn't listen to it for three years after I lost my girlfriend to cancer. Today I listened to it for the first time in three years. Thank you poolboy!
@@pyro7060 I don't feel like I'm being stronger. I'm just being left with all these questions, confusions and dilemmas. Often, I find myself searching for the way of life.
Happened to me 15 years ago. Never thought I'd be able to let go until she had a kid a year ago and now I no longer have dreams about her nor think about her anymore. Life is crazy man ..
No matter what you think, love will find you again. Because love is the reason this life exist. But you have to understand, love is not always fun. But without love nothing would exist. Love is the mystic code in universe.
The last time i heard this song, I was really sad thinking how my crush didn't like me back, I'm finally over her. I don't think about her, and the memory of us doesn't hurt anymore. I'm the happiest I've been in a long time. Thank you for this masterpiece!
@@akykyt_.t Hey man, I was in the same situation for like 2 years.. You need to tell her , just do it or otherwise you will get depressed really soon. I waited 2 years for the perfect moment just for her to say we should be friends.. Try to tell her as soon as possible, ik it's really hard, but once you did it you will feel so relieved, even if she says no. You need to make your intentions clear or otherwise you could be endlessly in love with her never knowing if she loved you or not, and that's just really sad.. Keep it up man, you got this!
@@akykyt_.t I don't know man. Similar to Andreas but different outcome. There is that one girl that I can't get out of my head. Saw her the first time around 5 years ago. 2 years later I asked if she wanted to grab a drink and she rather wanted to remain friends. We're in the same friend's group so I see her every once in a while. She told me to "not keep waiting for something that's never going to happen". But she's just everything I love in a person bundled together as the most beautiful woman. I've tried avoiding her at parties and prevent myself from texting her. Distracting myself, learning to live alone, trying to enjoy life, went through therapy. But still, 5 years later and just the sight of her eyes return all those memories, no matter how hard I tried. Imagining the moments we could share together. The life we could live. To finally find a purpose in this meaningless journey. The moments I'm missing out with every single day. Damn, if she could've just given me chance. I don't know what I wanted to tell you with that. Maybe that if she tells you no, your wounds might not heal to scars. That maybe time doesn't make you forget about her, no matter how hard you try. But what if she says yes. And the things you only dreamed about become reality. Is it worth the risk? I don't know, I guess it is, I just wish it would have been for me. The fear of losing her vs. having her forever in your life... It's tough but to have happiness in arm's reach, I guess you should take that shot. Maybe I should message her...
Sorry to hear that man. Wish it would have worked out another way. But unfortunately that's happening just too much. I hope for you that it won't go down the same way it has for me. I hope you can learn to forget, let go and move on. I guess the hard part is learning to go forward and hoping that some day you'll find someone where the same feeling is mutual. Best of luck internet stranger
This is a masterpiece, its not an inherently sad song but it manages to transport us to a completely different headspace and uniquely resonate with every listener. Thanks poolboi
It’s funny. I was mindlessly scrolling through recommended videos until I saw the thumbnail for this and it gave me a vibe like I was peeking into some other world but very similar to this one. Like imagine if in some other distant galaxy on the other side of the universe about 5 billion years ago held a planet with life on it exactly the same as earth with humans and shit like that. And they created hoodies and buildings and shit like that. It sounds ridiculous but idk why this thumbnail gave me that impression. I couldn’t resist.
Man, I had this recently. Things just weren't working out, different life goals, sense of humor, just not on the same page, but the spark was something like I'd never felt before. I wish I could have changed myself for her. Now all I have are photos and memories burned into my mind.
me too man. i met a perfect girl last year in may, approached her in a coffee shop. we spent that sunny day exploring the city and bookshops. i felt nothing like it before. she was the most beautiful person i'd ever laid my eyes on. she sacrificed so much time for me with very little in return. after a month or so she let me move into her apartment when I had nowhere else to go. she cooked for me. held me at night. calmed me down during numerous panic attacks. she was the sweetest person i ever met. and you know the worst part? I took her for granted. barely lifted a finger to clean the apartment or find a job to help with rent. I let my trauma and poor mental health get in the way. i cheated on her, in her own bed for gods sake. walked her to the bus stop oneday, kissed her goodbye. i went home, cheated on her. it was the worst thing I ever did. i'm so so stupid for only realising i had everything once its gone. she deserves so much more. she hates me now and rightfully so, i will never see her ever again. im filled with thoughts like, ''what if i just tried harder?, what if i just expressed my feelings more?' i'm sorry S. i love you
@@SouldyedBythougths Go to therapy or see a psychiatrist and work on fixing your problems. If you are lucky enough to find someone like that again, remind yourself every single day what your life would be like without her.
she said "life is like a bus, people get on and off, I get off now" ....after seven years. not sure if I will ever recover, no matter what happens , I will remain sitting on the bus and think of all the beautiful moments when she joined me, sitting next to me.
The ones who hurt you always hit you with those metaphors that make them seem like what they’re doing is justified. They know they’re tearing you apart, it’s heart breaking.
Was sad for very long time that I lost love of my life..but now I am happy that for one period of time I had that feeling when we were together. Most people spend their lives without it. I was a happy and loved man for a short time 😊
Feel exactly the same !!! that short time lasted 3 years for me, what about yours ? thanks for your message mate, wish you the best bro ! (I'm still sad, only 6 months since it happened ;9)
@@Maestralius it was 4 years. You are long way ahead but it will be times you'll feel great and other times it will be hard. But you can do it. Stay strong!
Bro, my heart submerges itself deep into a pool of water, only falling deeper and feeling an immense pressure making it difficult to breathe due to how beautifully executed this masterpiece is.
some people will spend years and years thinking about amazing past relationships and whether they can be rekindled. I'd kindly suggest these relationships and moments cannot be remade with the same person, and thinking about them too much is not healthy to do. Past relationships should only serve as evidence that future ones are possible - seek them out.
I'm 1:58 into this song waiting for the lyrics to start and then I'm suddenly realising that there will be no lyrics and I've just been completly feeling that melody. Nice one.
Ya han transcurrido 3 años desde que conocí está canción y no puedo dejar de maravillarme con el efecto que hereda, es rico y estimulante libera ese sentimiento de nostalgia, algo hermoso recorre todo mi ser....
Bruh.. why did this bring tears to my eyes so quickly and make me reminisce on so many memories I literally forgot about.. within less then 4 minutes. Got me thinking about space and time in a whole different way. I messed up please take me back to those days .. I just wanna go back 😌😔
Been looking for my old comment here 4 years ago now, I was heartbroken, I knew it will go away, it was hard and here we are I’m now here free, psychologicaly free with love with my self and nature, so to all other heartbroken people with time yes it will go away, just keep working and go for your big goals in life
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its that guy again
Who's the girl?
hey this was shot in Austin !!!!
@@djkfrmDubuque Gianna cala Smith, her name
Wow!! Hermano tienes un estilo retro que da nostalgia
“I’ve learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel.” -Maya Angelou
:c
who cares, its important that you feel good and you will transfer the vibes to those who are "worthy". It hardly comes from caring oh what will they feel and not being original. And your original you must be happy, youthful, even at hard times, enlightened being all the other goodies will come naturally.
@@NotHumant8727 You gone too far. You think too much brother.
i made people rage quit in games, sometimes we forget how powerful feelings are and their influence on our decision making. I hope he never comes back because he was actually pretty good
noone asked for your stupid quotes, keep them to yourself
I cant describe the lonelyness that i feel, this shit is gonna kill me
I know the feeling bro. I hope we both find someone soon. In the meantime try and enjoy a hobby. Maybe you'll meet someone through that.
Keep putting yourself out there: volunteer, attend events, do some dance lessons, etc. Even if you don't find a gal, you'll still be able to meet people and form some sense of community.
@@TheHamburgler123 nah, i kinda gave up on life, every time i go outside some person looking for trouble finds me, or i get dizzy or whatever, im screwed allready
It’s not trying to kill you. It’s trying to give you a taste of death so you’ll be more tempted by life. Maybe you were too proud to use a dating app or join a Meetup group or start a workout class last month, but this month it feels preferable to death.
Loneliness is a bitch, but it actually has good intentions. Listen to it.
We attract what we are. Being alone is an amazing experience, I mean being alone and being happy. Now to be able to be happy you need to dig deeper into yourself and try to understand why are you feeling this way you are feeling now. Other people can't make us happy if we are not happy with ourselves. You will be alright
We are strangers again
But this time, with memories...
Oof. Damn...
I was going to write
#im14andthisisdeep
But nah. Got me right in the feels 😢
Goddamn
Oof, right in the feels
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I like filmmaking like this. No fancy lighting or camera, no dramatic acting. Everything feels real.
The direction they made it is in the style of a homemade video it seems
@@XxCORERUPTORxX yes it was yoda lol
100%
Before phones no ones dopamine systems were messed up. Everything felt real and even the smallest things in day to day life bought genuine enjoyment. This video encapsulates what life used to feel like...and more importantly, still can if anyone wants it to
Yeah I actually got my inspiration from this guy
the worst feeling is knowing you had it all
best feeling is knowing having has little to do with happiness
No, the worst feeling is knowing that you thought you had it all, when in reality there was nothing there in the first place.
@@azelisaname oops, lost kitten syndrome
i watch it every day :(
@@azelisaname GOD DAMN IT *kick*
haha....
imma kms now
if someone loves you, please dont take it for granted, you will regret it
💔
yeah.
Too late....
I regret it every day of my life
I do not regret it bro she can go fuck herself lol
Yeah, i feel the same. 4 years. The most vivid 4 years in my whole 32-years life. And now we're strangers again. She said it was a mistake. Best years in my life - was a mistake. What a strange, strange world...
it be like that - mgtow
Dont lose the hope, enjoy yourself, of u did the best you could, and she didnt appreciate isnt your bad.
Sounds somehow similar with mine. I didn't know everything we went through were just simple things for him. The best years of my life, only to be labeled as "this doesn't make me happy anymore" when he left. Indeed, what a strange strange world.
Jessa Grace Manayan now, after a half of a year full of new communications (it was hard), i think i start to recover. I had been taking testosterone pills to cut the depth of my sorrow. Sounds stupid, but works. But i'll never be the same again. No one should live up to expectations and nothing lasts forever. And we need to live happily despite of that. Thats the challenge.
@@artokarsus It would be not right if I say that I know how hard it is for you, but I do know it's hard for me. I really don't know if I could make it. But I'm glad to know you're starting to recover. It's a ray of hope that in the future, I might see the same thing as you do now. Have a good day. :)
Every man goes through this at least once in their life, stay strong brothers!
And better sooner than later. The sooner your heard gets broken the better for the rest of your life. No matter what gender you are
Idk about that. Some of us havent even really gotten to experience this once, and thats bs. Its so damn unfair. Where is this for me? I've been alive too long to have gone without this! It's fcking ridiculous.
Not if you be avoiding them hoes
@@Knight_Of_Eleum_Loycetoo ugly?
@@Knight_Of_Eleum_Loyce Im in the same situation, bro
A strong trend towards 90s emotional house and lo-fi video right now, taking us back to a time before mobile phones and Instagram, UA-cam, and the omni-presence of recording and information.
@anarhy09 You must not have been alive in the 1990s.
Strange thing is, a lot of the poeple that are into it were too young to have ever lived that life. Feel sorry for them tbh.
@@LeroybrownLR3mk02 it's stupid romanticism, like people thinking that any other era was better than today.
@@Secretlyanothername It was though, wasn't it? Hahaha. Was for me anyway.
@@Secretlyanothername it isnt black.and white. Some romanticize it some look at it from a less biased perspective and there is always the counter counter opinion guy like you. Who goes the other extreme..just to be different.
Many papers ..publications ..studies and essays show that people are getting detached and becoming more isolated and mentally ill and much.more. the internet ..the digital world is too much for most to be able to handle.
Anyway..im out
not the sort of thing i usually listen to, but i felt this
same
but its beautiful, lofi house what we really need sometimes
Damnn shoutouts
It means a lot to me to see the bootleg boy showing love to dj poolboi
we love you bootleg boy,im glad that i exist in the same era as you
Makes you nostalgic for a life you never had
that one hits home...
This ^
It's never too late to go live that life
hahahaha
Makes you nostalgic for a life you never had
;
do you that these people's exact lives that we think we had, but neverhad?
It’s such a heavy feeling when, after a failed relationship, you come to realize just how important and valuable the previous one was-when that person truly cared about you, and yet you chose to let them go. And now, seven years later, it all comes flooding back. Nostalgia can truly break you, and even after so many years, it’s hard to forget, and the pain of regret still lingers. Yet, despite it all, you’re genuinely happy that life worked out for them. And even though you’re now strangers to each other, you sincerely wish them all the best.
love is something...
if you find it, don’t let it go
I imagine your concerts full of people aiming their right to feel sad in a healthy way, feeling lonely but all together, without the hypocrisy of the media. In my mind is beautiful. Kisses from Spain
Joy tears !
"aiming their right to feel sad in a healthy way, feeling lonely but all together" I think I will never forget these words, so true and meaningful. Thank you, you made my day better just with these words. Love from France
Wow
That depicts perfectly how I, and I think a lot of us feel, thank you for putting it into words !
I'm from spain too, can we just do a meeting and feel lonely all together?
crazy how a song with no lyrics can make you feel so many deep emotions
cus it's called music, not necessarily a song
its the clip as well i guess
it's because you associate the music video with it and the theme
listening to jus the song wont do any good its jus the video
Its the video
It's okay to build memories to just keep them.
Michael Taylor 😕
Thisssss
wow idk why but this means a lot to me atm, thank you
i was looking for something. and it was this. thank you.
This my freind ,is deep
I know this might get lost in the comment section, but this video and song really have many meanings for me. The first time I saw this video was actually the night my GF (now Ex) and I started to date. At the time, I saw this video as a guide of sorts. A way that I should be for her, that I should do my best and give her my all. That no matter how I was feeling I should make her feel happy. Skip forward almost half a year later. We shared a lot about life. Countless laughs, late night dinners at diners, long car rides just enjoying each other. It felt like life was good, because we had each other. But I still remember that one night when I got home from one of our dates, and she texted me that she can’t do this anymore, telling me that we had nothing. Of course now we are total strangers to each other, I doubt she would ever give me the time, and just tell me to move on. But I wouldn’t trade any of the moments we shared together, I look back on the photos and videos we took together and smile, cherishing the time spent. I know she will never read this, but thank you for everything Kayla.
1 year later: I’m not sure how many people still read this ,but if you are, Thank you. Life’s has got much more complicated. Still missing her but I hope she’s happy in her life now. Just always keep your head up. Everything will be okay, and if it’s not. Then it isn’t over yet. I love you all.
You did your best mate. In the end nothing lasts forever, you should find yourself a meaning from this breakup and move on. Hope you find peace, take care ✋🏼
Bro, you are handling this in the best way, thanks for sharing. Wish you all the best for the future ❤️ Hopefully I'll experience the same one day (with a better ending) and you too!
The fact that you're able to recognize and acknowledge this feeling is powerful. It was just her turn, stay up brother
Hey king, hope you’re doing better. Take it from someone who was in your position: it took me about 3-4 years to really begin to move on, but it WILL happen. Just take each day in stride and never give up. I’m here for you
keep ur head up!!
DJ poolboi making us all miss our exes
Fucking hell
I know man
Not sure about exes, shit man... these were the people we were supposed to marry, break the cycle with. Life is a lesson, and it’s a mother fucking shame that we lose the true people in our lives because we didn’t know any better. I wish, I really wish something taught me how to love right, so there wouldn’t be loss-but we are our own teachers and these are the things we must teach our children, to at least lessen their suffering in this world. Thanks for reading, if you are
@@Datheavyispootis Fck bro....that hit me hard. You're so right.
i dont miss mine one lil bit! i hope shes dead in a ditch :)
I'm going thru a breakup, and I feel so low rn, your music and videos makes me kind of sad, but also makes me realize that the moments we had, were pure gold. Thank you.
sergs l damn feels bro. Going through the same thing. About to give in and go back to my ex man. Miss her. Miss the moments we shared. I feel like our journey wasn’t over yet.
@@DontStopRemula I would like to do the same, but, in my case I don't think it'll happen... But,think about what's the best for each other, if you feel that the relationship can work again without massive problems, go ahead, chase the girl, don't let go and make that journey a beautiful one. Best of luck mate.🤙🏻
@@sergsl4179 You my friend are a legend! Thanks for the wise words brother!
sergs l I feel you man ! Going thru the same thing but you gotta keep your head up high and look forward. Pain is only temporary
@@illusions611 Thank you mate, I hope it'll be temporary.
This song hits you harder and different at night, then at daytime
This is true. Very true.
Idk fam. 5pm and this shit just bopped on my recommended while taking break at work. Put me down rq.
ye looking out of the window smoking a cigarette at 3 am. how silent everything is just the street lights shining around for no one.
Song + video hits the same, regardless of time when you are depressed 24x7
night thoughts are dangerous
I used to listen to this song during the covid pandemic because it reminded me of the beautiful moments I shared with a girl I loved.
I had something like this a long time ago, we would spent hours watching movies, talking about music, going to concerts, restaurants, even parties where neither of us wanted to go, but we had a blast just us, there were even many times that we were in silence doing absolutely nothing, but we had each other, and that was enough.
She was very special, she always cared about me, she always asked me how I was, how I felt, among many things, we had such similar tastes, she had great personality, and the best clothing taste, she was funny and sweet, although she would disagree with me on that.
I miss her, that infectious laugh, that beautiful smile, those deep talks about life, telling secrets, dreams, even arguing.
I would give everything for 5 minutes with her, it does not matter if we do not speak, just to see her smile, it is enough for me, just to know that she is happy, really happy. Is enough.
I love her more than anything else, and I really mean that. I miss her, like hell.
Hopefully one day, we will meet again, at the right time, and maybe, just maybe, things will work out this time.
With you, I Had it All
- JD
damn dawg u have me crying
This is exactly what I’m thinking bro I miss the good morning and good night calls I miss the time we would spend watching movies and tv but it’s all over now... man I miss it
@@blasphemet same here I just lost her last week and it's just like something is missing
@@slurp5925 Sending you hearts!! Won't be easy but there will be more beautiful and new moments ♥️💜💛💚💙🧡
@@go_all_the_way truth be told G💯💪🏼
Relationships are scary... Eventually someone grows disinterested and the other person ends up hurt. I don’t want to be either person in that case :(
😟
:(
Yes, but usually the hurt one also learns and grows from the breakup afterwards
Tarrea Tolbert We don’t get promised a beautiful ending. But we get to create and enjoy beauty along the way
@@neihanadew514 Exactly. Cause even if we got hurt or unintentionally hurt someone at least we know we tried. We cannot shelter ourselves from love.
this song perfectly describes 2019 for me, a time where "I had it all" in the beginning of 2019 and the time "I lost it all" in the end of 2019. close people that i once thought were friends but now strangers.
I had the same experience but it was during 2018
Bro... Fr... Same thing here
I just realized 2019 is 5 years ago DAMN
i threw up to this comment.
yup, just right before COVID. Crazy to think about.
2020-2022 was really a 3 year long fever dream.
your maths be wildin with this one
@@thesocialmediagame Bro cannot count lol. 2020, 2021, 2022. How many years do you see in this comment?
worth living just to meet you again sometime
What a great comment
Alexandros
Worth living to meet a future you've built yourself.*
U fucked me up with this comment
@@jaysven6153 How so?
666 likes
I hope someday I feel this kind of connection with someone.
octa same
same
Careful
So you wanna be actor ?
Why?
This really hit me. While seeing the way they looked each other and how explored little things together I couldn't stop recognizing the feeling that brought me when I was with someone I still love. When I realized that everything were memories and the silhouette of the poor man appeared it was like seeing me in a mirror. Really hope no one goes through anything like that.
how long it was after you brake up?
My friend build up a house inside your heart otherwise you will always be homeless just the way I am.
@@alessandroponte682 bro.. :(
It is acting
Taking her on a breakfast meet up, walking around the area to explore shops, and visiting a retro arcade and game bar are key to planning great adventures together. Thanks.
your music and the videos you use are beautiful
I love your taste in music ♡
❤️❤️❤️
The Worst Taste so are urs
you arounddd❤️
I sub to you first 😀 your musical taste is dope.
Having something and then losing it feels ten times more sad than not having it at all. I love you.
Cursed
Yes, but If you haven't, then you haven't truly lived
The nostalgia of being able to see peoples smiles in public.
Miss it so much man
🥺🥺
Corona was the best thing ever happened to the earth.
For real
Get the mask off and smile.
Don’t be sad that you lost it, be grateful that you had it
It feels weird to still love someone when we haven't been together for 7 years, and she's moved on.
Man, its gonna be okay, everything in this world happens for a reason. Trust me. Chin up and find things that make you happy, start new hobbies etc. Also you're not the only one bro. :)
I feel the same way about someone. It feels like something inside of me is broken
Keep your head up King. We're all in this together ✊
@@Jerrboyy Yeah, I'm in the same boat. It will be 3 years exactly this valentine's day...you would think 3 years is enough time, but I guess not
That’s how it always is. Haven’t spoken to my first love in half a decade now, and I’ve since fallen in love with someone else. She’s amazing, I want to spend my life with her, but there’s always that still-burning ember of the one who got away. It’ll never burn out and all we can do is learn to live with that burning pain.
It's been 5 years, I still think about you every day
Jomzi01
I've noticed that men are usually the ones hit hardest by loss. I don't know why women get the reputation of being the more sensitive sex. In all of my life experience men feel the pain of losing loved ones much more strongly than women, or at least for a longer period of time.
Enthios usually guys are better at hiding their feelings that’s why
@@_Cato_ even when man is the one who left..?
Same here. I broke down after reading that comment.
fuck man/girl i know it hurts but we need to meet new people and forget the ex life is better with new beginnings.
The look on his face at the end of the video says everything. No words spoken, but so much is said in those few seconds. I don't know if these were actors or if this was a real relationship/scenario, but it really brings out the emotions of this video, and I feel for this guy.
Here I am, with my 27th birthday just weeks away, reminiscing the times I spent with her. Been 13 years since I first fell in love with her. We used to be so happy, and were in so much love. Now it's all gone. She probably doesn't even remember I ever existed. And here I am, thinking about the love I experienced as divine expression.
You have a lot to offer. Learn to love yourself before you star loving someone else again. You will be fine.
Here I am, almost 40.
Life...sucks for most of us.
1 year, all i want is to go back in times, make things right. im dead on the inside, i wish i would have the strength to end it all
@@vanwarbux4354 be brave, move forward, you already know what pain is now work on yourself and push on.
@@vanwarbux4354 looks like you are a noob at grieving, you are still on denial hahahaha
If you're going through a breakup GET AWAY FROM POOLBOIS CHANNEL.THE FEELS ARE TOOO MUCH
It's comforting reading through the comments of people who have gone through the same things. Gives me a little bit of hope.
I'm really sitting here looking around with headphones just thinking, "Wow, this is life huh"
Dude same here
same for me man
Something soo unfamiliar for me, i'm here sitting on my bed, thinking of how miserable my existence is...
Jesus Christ is the answer you are looking for
"The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full." - John 10:10
It hits hard.
Even if your world revolves around them in the moment, you never know how much someone's mere presence means to you, until you only have fading memories of them.
Hey man,
I don’t know if you’ll see or take the time to read this but hey here’s a shot.
I’m 22 since December, and I’m in my third year of medecine in France in a city called Dijon. You might know it through the Dijon mustard (or not, in that case that wasn’t very useful aha)
I’ve been listening to your songs for as long as I can remember right now, they’ve been with me during long nights of studying pre-exams, rough times just like tonight’s. I felt like it would be real cool to know that the guy that makes the music I listen to nearly every day, is going to check his phone/computer and read something I wrote.
I’ve been struggling with anxiety since my early teen’s, and still do now. It comes and goes but it’s gotten worse this last month.
I just wanted to let you know that moments when I truly feel at peace and I forget about everything that’s stressing me is when I lie down on my bed after a long day, pop in my headphones and listen to you. You’re one of the few artists that make me feel this way (another one are The Blaze you might know them)
The melancholy of your vibes somehow feel like a hug.
Anyway, listening to you as I’m writing this.
Thanks for making a French dude’s life a bit easier.
I coped your vinyle and can’t wait for it to arrive.
Merci mon ami
edit : 3 years later still dj poolboying strong. Final exam in 45 days to figure out my specialty and city to spend my residency. thank you for all the kind messages. you are beautiful peoples and every comment means a lot.
Mathis Milloux ayyyy un autre dijonnais lol
258DelTa
I didn't read anything but I hope he will respond to you
Hey man - I'm sure you aren't the only one. In fact I know you aren't because I sent him a similar message over instagram - and he sent a really nice reply :) Maybe drop him a message on there (@djpoolboi). I'm sure he'd appreciate what you have to say. I agree with you regarding the blaze as well - they have a similar effect.
Hope your life keeps getting easier. Bon chance! :)
Best wishes on your medical journey! Anxiety is a bitch. Makes no sense but you constantly feel on edge. Hope things get better for you.
Courage pour tes études, ne baisse pas les bras. Et l'anxiété on finit par l'apprivoiser ;)
Cheers en provenance de Dijon également
was good to know you , was good to love you , and even if nothing last forever , i got our memories living inside my heart, and they're going to live there until i die
Bravo!
Exactement !
That feeling will always stay
this makes me sad 😢
Big love in our hearts
Amazing to see majestic casual here. This is timeless music. With timeless emotions and thoughts.
Fr bro makes u feel weird af thinking about all those cool moments with ur ex-loved one.. I don’t understand why people don’t let go off their ego’s. Guess we’ll have to live on with that until the next cool thing happens ;)
Majestic Casual your channel fam ❤️
Majestic :o
I'm 23, tomorrow in the morning I will be moving from my dad's house where I felt depressed all the time, with no more emotions than sadness and without being able to express myself, imagining no future for me if I stay. My dad used to tell me I will not be able to finish high school and start a career, and things like I will be ending selling drugs or something.
Now I'm moving to my sister's house where I can express what I feel, I already finished school with high grades. In one year from now I will be finishing my career and I'm already receiving offers from good jobs when I finish.
Now I'm drinking a cup of wine while I'm listening to these awesome beats who makes my life better, DON'T GIVE UP!!
This music video is phenomenal, the ending where you see nothing but the man staring into the dark screen is just, I can’t put it into words what emotions it gives off.
I rewatch this video all the time and just remember so many good times.. I feel like it’s a weird glimpse into my past. Remembering more or less similar moments I’ve shared with that are similar to this. To the ones I love, thank you. To the ones I’ve loved and lost, I wish you well. Your memories mean everything to me.
I can relate.
It's funny how not even after years you can't get someone out of your head. At one point or another your mind still drags you there.
this song is how the most beautiful night ends but also how the most beautiful morning starts
Everyone wants a soulmate, but everyone has too high expectations...
True
So true!
I think that those high expectations are going to kill me..
True
My expectation have been that legs should stay together, but that is already too much expectations😆😆
1:04 - Unstoppable euphoria
2:08 - Enveloped in emptiness
2:24 - Seeking her spectral presence
2:40 - A smile's gentle return
3:12 - Gratitude for her essence
3:44 - The realization: "I had it all"
at least that's how I feel it.
Y aquí estamos... recordando todo lo que tuvimos.
Gracias.
Me gusto tu comentario 🤯🤯, todo se resume en tus palabras 😍💌💖 !!!!
I remember these times and days like this and even though they were just normal days I knew they were special. The air, the type of light from the sun, I could feel it and took it in. These days you could never have enough of so appreciate what you had. There's no going home that space in time is gone. Mi barrio ya no existe.
Brothers, I want you to have everything just as you wish! May God bless you! Don’t lose hope; we are men, and we must fight to the last drop of life for what will bring us happiness. I love you, and may God be your protector!
this evokes a strangely profound sense of nostalgia and melancholy of good times long past
This takes me back to the days where my best friend and I would embark on meaningless adventures. The streets were our jungle and we could take form of whatever creature we desired. We would talk about every single thing and talk to anyone we deemed our brief time. And then we grew a little bit older and then there was no more time for each other. As time went on we grew more and more distant physically and our thoughts about the world changed. But one thing is for certain and that is we both knew these moments would be etched into our very souls and would be remembered as some of the most beautiful moments of our lives. We are happy but a bit sad today.
Brickwallhood1
Your story has been heard. I'm so happy you were able to experience such things. I hope you and that friend are never completely absent.
I never experienced anything like this because I never really had a close friend like that but your comment almost made me cry 😢
Brickwallhood1 true story❤️
FruityUnicorn17 I feel you on that one. I’ve been in different groups of friends but never really connected closely to heart. It gives you a different perspective on things though.
This comment makes me cry
3 a.m.
waking in unfamiliar dark
I sought your warmth, and
breathing in time with you
found my way back.
Hi.I don't know if anyone will read this message and I apologize in advance for possible mistakes but it is not my native language.I have always seen and considered love as how much beauty there can be in the world, like what you see in movies but reality is harder. My life has been subject to numerous romantic disappointments that have made me gloomy, sad and thrown into a sea of despair. Fortunately, I can be satisfied with my health and academic success. This video made me remember what I thought would be indelible moments in my life and anything but terrible. But in the end they turned out to be so, taking away that smile I always had since i was a child. What I would like to say is not to dedicate your entire life, energies, to the boy/girl you've fallen in love with, much less when you're still in the initial stages of getting to know each other. And for those who find themselves in this situation well... I understand you very well. Dedicate your energies to study, to work, to your passions and always consider having a girl or boy by your side as a "plus" and not as a need. And...I know what you're thinking about. It's too easy thinking like that. I understand you and I wouldn't have believed it either if they had told me months ago but it's a powerful solution fr. I also understand very well that love for a person is a fundamental component for the life of all of us but we must go there with extreme caution. "I had it all" ...yeah.... before suffering for love.
Maybe one day I will find the person who will make me feel special.
Maybe.
One day.
I hope so for all of you too!
p.s. the song is amazing and I keep it saved in my playlist
-a stranger
how is it possible to be happy and melancholic at the same time
The emotions of man are that of an enigma.
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I watch this and I cry. Partially because I'm sad and partially because I'm happy to see those people happy. It makes me sad I don't experience what they have, but I'm also happy for them
I still dream about you... the terrifying thing is when I wake up I know you’ll never look me in the eyes again.
At least you had it and I think that’s the beautiful and adventurous part about love, and about life in general. You have to risk to be able to feel.
nostalgia for times I never lived
My heart hurts too much. I can't watch for more than 10 sec. I had it all.
As someone that's been single and alone since 2011 - This video hurts.
I've been single my whole life, a quarter century. Probably one of my best decisions, cuz i have no things to regret for.
@@angelicoctahedron3646The fallacy of not missing what you have never had is a psychological band-aid, a temporary amelioration of a wound that grows and festers daily... In your thought of thoughts you feel something missing, youve only caught glimpses and reverbrations in your day to day existence. Denial is bliss up until a point. Seek Happiness friend, and let us know how it tastes to the hopeless 🧎
Same brother same..
Reading the comments, I think you're doing incredible art. The combination of these videos and the music makes things alive in people. Respect from Germany :)
5 years of laughs, grocery shopping, traveling, and reminding each other how much we loved each other.
Then she cheated. She tried to monkey branch but plan A didn't work out so I was a backup plan. Broke up with her on the spot. I don't regret it one bit. Crazy how quickly life is uprooted and changed.
I moved out and about 2 weeks later, she calls me - she's pregnant. I refuse to get back together with her. 9 months later and I'm a father of a son (paternity test confirmed). 20 years of child support to someone I despise.
One day I will love again, I swear.
Even when someone hurt you dearly, good things also happen, like your kid. Maybe she's a c*nt but you have a child now, the most amazing thing in the world. You dont have to forgive her, you have to forgive yourself.
This makes me think about all the life i lived and late nights i had with friends and love i lost
man all i did was click on the video and let it run in the background. some reason I'm crying...
I loved this song but couldn't listen to it for three years after I lost my girlfriend to cancer. Today I listened to it for the first time in three years. Thank you poolboy!
Been 3 years since I came back to this song.
It was a beautiful time for sure
stay strong king
damn bro
I dont laugh and I dont cry
I dont think about you all the time
but I think of all the stories that we could have told.
Coming back to this after two years, still hits the fucking spot, damn.
this is sad af. I don't want to feel these feelings
To late, it's already raining
I am no one you can trust, but believe me when I say this. These feelings make you stronger
This is life.
Take note of the progression of the track. Listen to how it ends compared to how it started :) Its all a journey my friend.
@@pyro7060 I don't feel like I'm being stronger. I'm just being left with all these questions, confusions and dilemmas. Often, I find myself searching for the way of life.
1:19 that piano, that beat!!! What a beautiful song
Happened to me 15 years ago. Never thought I'd be able to let go until she had a kid a year ago and now I no longer have dreams about her nor think about her anymore. Life is crazy man ..
It’s cool how a song with no words has more meaning then music with lyrics.
No matter what you think, love will find you again. Because love is the reason this life exist. But you have to understand, love is not always fun. But without love nothing would exist. Love is the mystic code in universe.
The last time i heard this song, I was really sad thinking how my crush didn't like me back, I'm finally over her. I don't think about her, and the memory of us doesn't hurt anymore. I'm the happiest I've been in a long time. Thank you for this masterpiece!
@@akykyt_.t Hey man, I was in the same situation for like 2 years.. You need to tell her , just do it or otherwise you will get depressed really soon. I waited 2 years for the perfect moment just for her to say we should be friends.. Try to tell her as soon as possible, ik it's really hard, but once you did it you will feel so relieved, even if she says no. You need to make your intentions clear or otherwise you could be endlessly in love with her never knowing if she loved you or not, and that's just really sad.. Keep it up man, you got this!
@@akykyt_.t I don't know man. Similar to Andreas but different outcome. There is that one girl that I can't get out of my head. Saw her the first time around 5 years ago. 2 years later I asked if she wanted to grab a drink and she rather wanted to remain friends. We're in the same friend's group so I see her every once in a while. She told me to "not keep waiting for something that's never going to happen". But she's just everything I love in a person bundled together as the most beautiful woman. I've tried avoiding her at parties and prevent myself from texting her. Distracting myself, learning to live alone, trying to enjoy life, went through therapy. But still, 5 years later and just the sight of her eyes return all those memories, no matter how hard I tried. Imagining the moments we could share together. The life we could live. To finally find a purpose in this meaningless journey. The moments I'm missing out with every single day. Damn, if she could've just given me chance.
I don't know what I wanted to tell you with that. Maybe that if she tells you no, your wounds might not heal to scars. That maybe time doesn't make you forget about her, no matter how hard you try. But what if she says yes. And the things you only dreamed about become reality. Is it worth the risk? I don't know, I guess it is, I just wish it would have been for me. The fear of losing her vs. having her forever in your life... It's tough but to have happiness in arm's reach, I guess you should take that shot.
Maybe I should message her...
Sorry to hear that man. Wish it would have worked out another way. But unfortunately that's happening just too much.
I hope for you that it won't go down the same way it has for me. I hope you can learn to forget, let go and move on.
I guess the hard part is learning to go forward and hoping that some day you'll find someone where the same feeling is mutual.
Best of luck internet stranger
@@JustAPassengerX bches come and go, but you know we stay.
Got in the top 4% of dj pool listeners for the year on UA-cam . Thank you for another good year 🎉
crazy how missing someone u love n every moment with em make u feel the exact opposite..love, melancholy, and depression..ahh human emotion lol
We’re a strange bunch of species
pov: when you're third wheeling
Hardcore
Lmao
XDD
yeah i stoped watching the vid after a while and just listen to the song
This is a masterpiece, its not an inherently sad song but it manages to transport us to a completely different headspace and uniquely resonate with every listener.
Thanks poolboi
You're God damn right 😊
Fcuk.you are genius/
It’s funny. I was mindlessly scrolling through recommended videos until I saw the thumbnail for this and it gave me a vibe like I was peeking into some other world but very similar to this one. Like imagine if in some other distant galaxy on the other side of the universe about 5 billion years ago held a planet with life on it exactly the same as earth with humans and shit like that. And they created hoodies and buildings and shit like that. It sounds ridiculous but idk why this thumbnail gave me that impression. I couldn’t resist.
Complete ly
Man, I had this recently. Things just weren't working out, different life goals, sense of humor, just not on the same page, but the spark was something like I'd never felt before. I wish I could have changed myself for her. Now all I have are photos and memories burned into my mind.
me too man.
i met a perfect girl last year in may, approached her in a coffee shop. we spent that sunny day exploring the city and bookshops. i felt nothing like it before.
she was the most beautiful person i'd ever laid my eyes on.
she sacrificed so much time for me with very little in return.
after a month or so she let me move into her apartment when I had nowhere else to go.
she cooked for me.
held me at night.
calmed me down during numerous panic attacks.
she was the sweetest person i ever met.
and you know the worst part?
I took her for granted.
barely lifted a finger to clean the apartment or find a job to help with rent.
I let my trauma and poor mental health get in the way.
i cheated on her, in her own bed for gods sake.
walked her to the bus stop oneday, kissed her goodbye.
i went home, cheated on her.
it was the worst thing I ever did.
i'm so so stupid for only realising i had everything once its gone.
she deserves so much more.
she hates me now and rightfully so, i will never see her ever again.
im filled with thoughts like,
''what if i just tried harder?, what if i just expressed my feelings more?'
i'm sorry S. i love you
@@SouldyedBythougths Go to therapy or see a psychiatrist and work on fixing your problems. If you are lucky enough to find someone like that again, remind yourself every single day what your life would be like without her.
no video has ever made me cry as much as this one.
yet i love it all the same
Almost 2 years listening to this song, still in love of it, how many memories come to my mind.
Same bro
she said "life is like a bus, people get on and off, I get off now" ....after seven years. not sure if I will ever recover, no matter what happens , I will remain sitting on the bus and think of all the beautiful moments when she joined me, sitting next to me.
she told u that because she wants to leave you. but in another way
The ones who hurt you always hit you with those metaphors that make them seem like what they’re doing is justified. They know they’re tearing you apart, it’s heart breaking.
Read the 3% man book.
dont forget to thank the bus driver
Was sad for very long time that I lost love of my life..but now I am happy that for one period of time I had that feeling when we were together. Most people spend their lives without it. I was a happy and loved man for a short time 😊
Feel exactly the same !!! that short time lasted 3 years for me, what about yours ? thanks for your message mate, wish you the best bro ! (I'm still sad, only 6 months since it happened ;9)
@@Maestralius it was 4 years. You are long way ahead but it will be times you'll feel great and other times it will be hard. But you can do it. Stay strong!
Good ol Austin, TX. I regularly run at that lake they’re on around 0:19. Good stuff
Can you tell me the name of that lake? I’d love to visit there.
@@Knight_Of_Eleum_Loyce Lady Bird Lake. It’s right in the middle of the city next to DT.
Bro, my heart submerges itself deep into a pool of water, only falling deeper and feeling an immense pressure making it difficult to breathe due to how beautifully executed this masterpiece is.
some people will spend years and years thinking about amazing past relationships and whether they can be rekindled. I'd kindly suggest these relationships and moments cannot be remade with the same person, and thinking about them too much is not healthy to do. Past relationships should only serve as evidence that future ones are possible - seek them out.
Simple, no lyrics.. yet so powerful.
A good video can enhance a song hundredfolds.
That's why I judge music by the music and ignore the video. If the video is enhancing the song for you then the song may not be good to begin with
I'm 1:58 into this song waiting for the lyrics to start and then I'm suddenly realising that there will be no lyrics and I've just been completly feeling that melody. Nice one.
Lmao same here
I wish everyone who watched this video to have a relationship like these two in the video
You just see what’s on the video, not everything else...
@@joshuamills7633 yeah thats true
They always end.
For me it's been so long I actually forgot what this feels like. Realizing this makes you feel dead inside.
We never know when best part of our lives is happening., so we would enjoy it fullest.
We live with hope for the future and regrets for the past
I love coming across hidden gems like this, this was dope. Relatable.
Ya han transcurrido 3 años desde que conocí está canción y no puedo dejar de maravillarme con el efecto que hereda, es rico y estimulante libera ese sentimiento de nostalgia, algo hermoso recorre todo mi ser....
Bruh.. why did this bring tears to my eyes so quickly and make me reminisce on so many memories I literally forgot about.. within less then 4 minutes. Got me thinking about space and time in a whole different way. I messed up please take me back to those days .. I just wanna go back 😌😔
Been looking for my old comment here 4 years ago now, I was heartbroken, I knew it will go away, it was hard and here we are I’m now here free, psychologicaly free with love with my self and nature, so to all other heartbroken people with time yes it will go away, just keep working and go for your big goals in life