you really don't even know anything about himyou just made yourself look completely stupidyou don't know that he's useless all you see is what you see while he's on cameraget a clue
@@Bearme73 At first, I think it was pity. She knew as a larger woman that it's hard to find someone who loves you for you. She was also probably not in the best place either. He probably acted a LOT different before, taking care of himself at least a little more, being nice to her, things like that. He didn't stop doing that stuff until after he married the poor girl. By his crying in the car, you could tell he emotionally abuses her way more often than on camera, so he probably also manipulated her. It happened to my momma too. My father's in the process of moving out, and she's a lot happier!!
I HATE hearing people start a food order this way! Me: “Hey, how are you? (Actually wait for reply and respond to it appropriately). Okay, well may I please order…” and that is how it should be! If you want to skip the kindness beforehand, at least start with “May I please order” or similar and always end with a “thank you.” It’s sad how these words are the exception, not the rule. Decency folks! My kids starting doing this at like 4! They are 21 and 26 and still do it! If kids can do it, everyone can!
when women say they wanna break up, they'e already spent months trying to make it work and telling them is the final declaration. the men who are told she wants to break up thinks this is the first time she's thought about breaking up. once she has told you you're going seperate ways, there aint no changing her mind. - because shes been weighing things up for months if not years. heed this warning men.
Love how she says "I'm miserable" and he says, "So it's all about money." No sir. It's all about money for you because now your fat ass has to get a job.
@@blingqueen2235Well. . . yes and no. I think it depends. My BF and I have an understanding: I don't ask him a question unless I want the truth. So for instance, if I'm loving a particular dress, if I feel good in it, and if I want to wear it, I'm NOT going to ask him, "Do I look fat in this?" I'm just going to enjoy wearing it. And usually, if it DOES look good, he'll say something like, "Cool dress!" or "You look awesome in that!" If, however, I'm trying on something brand-new, and I genuinely want to know if I look good in it, I ask him, "Does this look as good as [another dress which I already know he likes]?" I've always thought it's unfair to ask someone's opinion and then to expect them to lie. 😲 I'm not overweight anymore, but not everything looks good on everyone. However, I'm on the autism spectrum, so I like logic and I HATE lies. I know a coworker who WANTS to be lied to whenever she asks, "Do I look fat in this?" But she knows I'm autistic and hate lying, so she never anymore asks me. 😂
Ikr! 😲😡🤬 As someone with chronic pain, that REALLY pissed me off. Unlike obesity, pain can't be seen by other people, but it can be _terrible_ even so.
Had she acted that way.....he would be completely devastated. He had a fit because the gravel road was bumpy. I live miles down dirt roads. When I had gallbladder surgery, I HURT coming home. I didn't blame my husband or vehicle. I'm smart enough to know gravel roads are bumpy
About 3 years ago i was with my ex when i got extremely bloated and constipated, to the point i was screaming in pain in warm water and going from toiled to the tub trying to get some relief. I was crying and begged him to go get me some laxatives or ask the pharmacist for something to help. He refused because he had to make his coffee and have coffee with his cigarettes in the next room.
I KNOW what being in PAIN is like and my Hubby…Before he died…😢😢😢Would of got that for me VERY FIRST after leaving the hospital ❤I did the same for him MANNNNY TIMESSSSS❤❤❤When u love someone you think of thier Comfort ❤
All of the reasons he was upset about the divorce is because it would be harder for him without someone to take care of him. He doesn’t care about her at all.
Lmao yeah and he barely said a thing about the kid, I feel bad for the wife and that child, hoping she's doing well raising him and hopefully she found someone who actually cares about her and her child
This. The show wanted to frame things as being happy, but Nissa finalized the divorce and she got full custody cuz he never lifted a finger to help care for their son.
Exactly. He was crying over losing his insurance, in house cook, laundry maid, and that house was hers so he knew he had to move and had no money to do it. He didn’t give a damn about her or little Nathan. I was seething when he said Nissa wasn’t thinking about Nathan… DUDE, Nissa was finally thinking about Nathan when she unloaded your rear end! I guarantee you, this is how he treated his first wife, too.
I remember seeing this and I forgot just how manipulative Chuck was, once his wife got the surgery. She did the majority of the work and once she realized she was a single married mother, she recognized that being a single mother would be better for her, emotionally, physically, spiritually.
My abusive ex was like that. He was like on the floor sobbing and I was like "you got another girl pregnant and tried to strangle me and then punched a hole in the wall.... Why would I stay with that?!?!"
@@mayav927 My abuser was the same. He even came to where I was staying and tried to play music like he was in some goddamn romcom 🤦🏼♀️ They'll do anything to maintain control, except be a better person.
Don’t ever think that dating someone who is “below” you in the looks department means they won’t treat you badly. They will eventually have you convinced you’re the unattractive one.
The second his energy and tone of voice shifted as he was telling her to leave the hospital, that baby immediately put his hand on his arm, looked down at him and said " mama" (no idea what he was saying before or after the word mama). He knew EXACTLY what that guy was getting ready to act like. Babies and children are miles more intelligent than we think!!! It made me tear up. He was defending her. 😢❤ Thankfully he didn't have to deal with that his whole life (I hope). He was likely MUCH worse, like extreme behind closed doors which is why she was so immediate about leaving. The stuff on camera was his "best behavior"
This man really made a fried chicken pit stop, on his way to pick up his wife’s much needed pain medicine. 🤦🏽♀️ Kinda makes me think that was the only reason he agreed to go in the first place. Bless his heart. 🤣
When he said, to his WIFE RECOVERING FROM SURGERY AND IN PAIN, "You want me to make a SPECIAL trip just to go to the pharmacy?!?" I wanted to punch him in his fat face so bad. I'm not even a violent person. I just had that much anger for how he treated the woman who did EVERYTHING for him.
Right, how considerate of him. I wouldn't like to be either of them and watch their episode. I hope all of them are doing well today and are in a much better place mentally and physically.
As someone with chronic pain, AND who used to be an obese woman addicted to junk food, I got so angry with him for that! I mean, I do understand cravings -- because I had some voracious cravings when I was obese, but if a family member needed pain medicine I'd bring them that FIRST.
He was truly awful to his wife. His selfish indifference towards her, especially when she just got out of surgery was unforgivable. I could never trust someone again after that. I wish she had left permanently.
Yes!!! He so clearly made changes just because he was panicking because his wife was leaving and he'd be alone. I didn't feel like he cared much about anyone but himself. So glad to hear that she has moved on. @@vaska1999
I almost fell over when he was being cruel and he told her "you close your mouth, you just sit there" because she tried to stand up to his attack". Mr Nice Guy is abusing his wife.
So that baby ultimately most likely ended up being brought up in a single parent household.... Imagine you were the Mother of that child & you thought you were doing the right thing giving up your child bcz you think they deserve a two parent family 😔
When I saw that Nissa served him divorce papers, I yelled, "Hell yeah!" I really like Nissa and was proud to see her give an ultimatum. She deserves so much better than what Charles offers.
Chuck was another of my least favorite patients because he was a big baby and I think verbally abusive toward his wife. I am glad she finally had enough and left him.
there’s a part of me that feels bad for him, because his wife was murdered and there’s definitely trauma and anger there still. but that doesn’t excuse how he’s treating his current wife… I felt so bad for her considering she was always trying to patient and kind with him.
“I don’t wanna get divorced cause I’m going to lose…MY INSURANCE”?! WTF. Of all the things you could lose during a divorce your biggest concern is health insurance?! Wow. How about losing your wife or your family?
@@lifeisreal11 Are you kidding me?! That’s beyond f**ked up. I can’t even comprehend how a father could do that. I’m sorry for both you and your son. That’s just not right
He makes me soooooo mad with the way he treats his wife! After everything she does ( and I mean she does EVERYTHING ) for him and that precious little boy and he treats her like an inconvenience 😢 I dont blame her for filing for divorce 😐
His wife learned the hard way not to reward losers with the spoils of what belongs to the winners, and rightly so. She settled because she empathized with him over her weight, instead of her getting herself together and making sure that she found someone who was also by default health concerned. Chuck is a massive man baby who needs a therapist, not a wife, not a child, not a girl friend, not any female companionship. I feel badly for the things that he went through in his past, but my empathy stops when he was being neglectful and abusive towards his wife and kid. I'm glad that she left!
I feel sorry for her. I was her once, I thought I was undesirable and so I put up with men who treated me badly. Her self esteem was shot because of how other people treated her, it takes time to build up your own self esteem. I got there eventually, I'm glad she did too.
@@WobblesandBeanYes, well said! Btw, I love your duck! I rescue/rehab animals, and although I've only ever had one duck, she was fun! Ducks are so curious and playful, and our duck loved to run around the yard chasing our chicken, and then reversing the game and letting the chicken chase her. 😄 Then when they got tired, they'd cuddle up together.
Your quote of 'not to reward losers with the spoils of what belongs to the winners' that is a powerful one and one I'll be using in the future. Thank you for that.
Such a selfish behavior, this guy is useless, saying "I love you with all my heart" but doing absolutely nothing to show it (not even rushing to get her spouse her pain medecine!!), she'll be better without him. At least she'll have to care about only one baby.
Honestly she was the breadwinner of the relationship too. He was living off benefits and disabilities. And honestly I believe she waited for him to start the program and for the cameras. To actually show how she's been living with a lazy big man for a whopping three hollowing years.
It think the adopted son was a relative of Nissa's. He looks just like her. They "had the opportunity" to adopt Nathan. They didn't seek it out. Family placements have laxer rules.
Yes, that's what I thought too. Otherwise there's no way they'd qualify to adopt that baby. Healthy babies -- especially boys -- are in HUGE demand by couples who are healthier than these two are.
Unfortunately into Chuck's second appearance on the show, that's when I had found out that Nissa has left him for good also finally divorced him and took their adopted son Nathan with her and never came back to him. And that's why he had became so hurt about it!
I'm betting he made promises to lose weight and didn't follow through multiple times. She was hopeful and believed him, then just got frustrated. Ya,she could lead by example and lose some weight herself, but he's a real donkey's butt.
In his “where are they now” segment, you learn she finalized the divorce. Looks like his improvement was temporary to reel her back in. Glad she got out.
"An Easter egg hunt you're not prepared for" omg... Sean you should do stand up and go on tour. You are hysterical, and I'm also very proud of your hard work and personal success.
I'd pay good money to see Sean do his thing live on stage 😂 literally just what he does here, but live and without the editing. Give him a laser pointer and everything like he's giving us a presentation lmfaoo
I am laughing so hard at the censorship when he is in the shower. Normally it’s a very large blur, even for the women. For chuck it was a small black oval.
@@Seanofsteel Nah man that ain't right. I love when guys show emotion, and it makes me upset when people (mostly other dudes but not always) mock men for being emotional. In Chuck's case though, he's just awful.
Bless you, Sean!! What you said about 'taking a backseat' when children come along. You're exactly right, but what many men don't understand is yes, they take a backseat but it's only temporary. You're one helluva man for understanding this before marriage and kids. I got a feeling you're going to make some woman a fine husband! 👍 'Bribe someone with Jiffy Lube!' 🤣🤣🤣
@@decyattysyachpchyolsad thing is you get the guys who say what about me. Your needs are needs of course. But I would give my last to make a child happy over myself.
I’ve been in relationships where I couldn’t leave because they acted the way Chuck did when she gave him the divorce papers. If she stays with you after something like that, just know it’s not because she wants to be, it’s because you made her feel trapped. Please for the love of god never beg someone to stay with you, it hurts both of you more than you know.
He is also a perfect example of the "male loneliness epidemic". Completely and utterly useless, contributes nothing, is exclusively a drain financially and emotionally. Expects his partner to live in a "permanent, tolerable level of unhappiness", while ofc: NEVER tolerating such discomfort themselves. And then are utterly SHOCKED after being told 82 times in a row that "Shape up, OR I'M LEAVING!" and cry about how they are UTTERLY BLINDSIDED by it.
@@guyincognito9698 Though, BIG props for him actually getting off his butt and changing. I do think the lack of a mommy/daddy to run back to, was a huge factor. So, the shock to the system actually worked.
@@Seanofsteelwhen's your bday? I know you said you're a Pisces, before you even said that, I thought you were! Most of my good friends are Pisces. I'm Feb 23, but I hate my birthday lol 😂😂
Yeah it was a wild one. But I’ll give you the gist didn’t bring water 2 hours before dark. Dad says blue trail goes to the parking lot. Turns out it didn’t and I was lost. When they found me and him said I was in a totally different county.
@@SeanofsteelI bet you could totally make that story into one hilarious video 😊 your dad and my dad sound the same dad took us tubing and was supposed to be 2 hour trip 8 hours later sunset we still in water seeing eyes looking at us , we LIVED IN LOUISIANA, when we started hearing things jumping in the water we was freaking out bro and I climbed in parents inflated raft is started sinking and we never went tubing again 😂🤣😂😝
@@Seanofsteelman! You need to do a video telling some of your stories. You drop little nuggets, and move on like it was nothing. Yeah, lost on a mountain, found in a different country… just that could make a great video!
Chuck: *is asshole who doesn’t help or appreciate wife* Wife: *files divorce* Chuck: *cries about the consequences of his own actions as if she hadn’t made clear how unhappy and miserable she was constantly taking care of everyone w/o help* who could’ve seen this coming?!?
Chuck was a real piece of crap. Nissa deserved so much better. When he complained about getting her pain medication after her surgery I was so mad. Then him crying like a tool in the car lol. What a tool. Sean, another great video!
I hate/like watching Chuck's episode because he reminds me of my husband. I like watching it because it shows me that that behavior is abnormal and not, "just how men are." But I hate watching him because it's sooooo frustrating.
First thing you need. to learn - if it's your kid, your house - you're not HELPING, you're actually doing YOUR chores that are YOUR responsibility. When you go to a friend's house and clean their house - that's when you're helping clean the house. Imagine if a mother said "I'm hellping my husband take care of our kid".
Wait wait wait.... "I got lost on a mountain and was using a flip phone for light. A rescue helicopter ".... hold on Sean, back up, I need to hear the rest of this story. So many questions.
I remember chuck soo well!!! Especially the way he treated his partners. He moved on so quickly because he can’t be alone. His third wife also divorced him. The way he treated her after she was in the hospital with a baby all day (not easy in a hospital setting) was absolutely disgusting 🤢
I just finished binge watching all of your other 600 lb life videos 30 minutes ago and had no idea what to watch while I work out! Perfect timing Mr. Of Steel, I'm 300 lbs now and losing more every day.
Shoot, I felt like a single mom when I was with my exhusband and he wasnt disabled in the least. He was just lazy and entitled. Its easier to be a true single mom then to have a partner who could help (in this mans case he choses food over ability) but choses not to. That hurts. It really, deeply hurts. Having a partner seeing you struggle and not care enough to help..hurts. I feel for that lady.
Totally understand. My ex was the same way. Now, Im in a committed relationship where we equally share household responsibilities. Our home will never look immaculate but it does look like a happily lived in home with several crazy cats while still being inviting to unexpected visitors. It's so liberating. I discovered when, our sharing responsibilities brings us closer; improves communication to better understand our differences in a positive way. Our relationship may seem boring when compared to other couples but we feel it's fulfilling & rewarding. We've been together 1 year and have never felt or seen any of those red flags that I had ignored when married which resulted in frustrated resentment and divorce.
Yes! I think it's only in Texas (?) and I remember their seafood was AWESOME! And I'm mostly Polynesian, so I've had seafood in every state I've ever been in, and theirs was deliciously fresh and well prepared.
“I love that baby,,”….the one I rarely care for or speak to, and the one I insulted my wife over taking home to sleep while I wanted both her AND the very competent nurse to wait upon me in the hospital.
When she serves him papers he only cares about himself not the baby not how much he's put his wife through nothing. Its alllll about him. He doesnt want to take care of himself like an adult
He can't even take care of himself how can he take care of his marriage n his own child?? Two options: change your ways n become selfless or Play victim so u can continue to be selfish so u don't gotta change n only care bout yo damn self.
It’s kind of incredible to realize how much his eating addiction has shielded him from taking any responsibility or regulating his emotions. He’s a fully grown adult acting like a teen who won’t take out the trash. His wife leaving him was a real wake up call. At age 43, he’s finally learning to take care of himself for the very first time.
Some men arent loved unconditional because they dont deserve it. Women, children, and pets arent unconditionally loved...they are pretty much the ones who are victims to the most crimes....so where is all that unconditional love? Men say that to be victims of society because they tend to be the ones causing the terror.
Hi Sean!! Just sitting down with midmorning coffee...ready to spend some time with you!! Hope you're doing well...and thanks for another video. We appreciate all your effort, comments...and laughs!😅! Love from Ontario Canada my friend!!❤🇨🇦😊🐾😻
Maybe the child of a family member or something? I don't know this for sure but it seems like criteria for adoptions because of family stuff are more lax than going through an agency.
So, the genius SAYS they had an argument then says he doesn't want to talk about it. His way of being a victim... "Im MISERABLE " SO, its about money huh? She hurts, when he had his surgery, he talked to her horrible....when she hurts, he makes it all about HIM....never asks how SHE is....
I've been with my husband for 27 years. I feel stuck, as I cannot afford to live on my own. He is just like chuck. My husband knows I deal with chronic pain (I fell on my back on a concrete floor at work and have had two neck surgeries). He has told me twice that he doesn't care about my pain. I absolutely believe him. I recently found out I have to have my right shoulder replaced. I most likely need my left shoulder replaced as well. My husband just stands there and looks at me while I lift heavy stuff. My lower back is shot. I am in constant pain. My husband claims to be in pain, but he won't go to the doctor. I have a hard time feeling sorry for him, yet I try to be a good wife, despite being in constant pain. Life isn't always fair, but you just keep plugging along.
Narcissism, my dear, he'll always be first and you will trail a very distant 2nd. My prayers are for you, May God provide you relief with loving blessings.
Where do you live? I have a spare bedroom. If you can get over here, I will let you stay. I can't promise it can be a long term thing, but if it will get you out of there, I'm happy to help.
Bless you, I really hope some way you can get out and away from him! I don’t know what problems he has , but what ever it is he should nt be taking it out on you. Also, to just stand and watch while you re trying your best and in pain sorry to say it but what an a- hole!! Have you any family or a friend you could stay with? Maybe if you explain and leave he ll appreciate you and realise all that you do! Really hope you can sort something though - love and light ✨
If you can drive theres shelters and income based housing that can and will help you. Please dont give up and stay with an abuser. Theres lots of help out there please file for it. I had to get away from an EX as well and im so much happier for it.
Nobody is loved unconditionally. That easy love (infatuation) that women receive in the beginning quickly fades if she doesn't meet her man's conditions. And most of the time it's not love, it's lust. Men can "love" you when they don't even know you.
Yeah. You seem like a good guy. I just meant it isn't as easy for women as it might seem. It's easy to find someone temporary but lasting love is still difficult. I hope you get the family you deserve. Thanks for inspiring others!
For anyone interested, Chuck's first wife was murdered by her daughter, who was arrested and charged just under two months after the crime. There's speculation that potential life insurance and car accident payout was the motivation. Chuck and Nissa eventually divorced after this episode, and he married a woman named Erica some time later, though it's believed they've divorced as well. Chuck has managed to keep his weight within healthy parameters and his business is going well.
So many men like Chuck are okay with their wives being unhappy, because they know their wives will still work despite that. It isn't until their wives leave that they start trying, because her absence will be an inconvenience to them. Its so insulting that they make all these promises like "okay I'll get a job! I'll start cleaning up more! I'll start looking after our children! I'll get the car fixed!" because it proves that they could actually do it this whole time. They just didn't want to.
I was dying when you said "junk yard hefty". This dude was so mean to his wife. Especially when she ends up getting the surgery too. She asked him to go get her pain meds and he wouldn't get his ass off the couch.
33:25 He reminded me of Roger Rabbit lol "Pbbbwweeeese!" dont do me this way!!!" AFTER HER SURGERY, SHE ONLY BEGGED YOU TO HELP HER!!! Even though YOU were MEAN TO HER AFTER YOURS!!!
I have never been happier to see a hard-working woman leave a useless man. 🎉🎉🎉
I hope she's living her best life 💜
you really don't even know anything about himyou just made yourself look completely stupidyou don't know that he's useless all you see is what you see while he's on cameraget a clue
Why did she even got with him in the first place???
@@Bearme73 At first, I think it was pity. She knew as a larger woman that it's hard to find someone who loves you for you. She was also probably not in the best place either. He probably acted a LOT different before, taking care of himself at least a little more, being nice to her, things like that. He didn't stop doing that stuff until after he married the poor girl. By his crying in the car, you could tell he emotionally abuses her way more often than on camera, so he probably also manipulated her. It happened to my momma too. My father's in the process of moving out, and she's a lot happier!!
I think it made her less self conscious about her own weight issues.’
I have noticed that people who start food orders with, "Give me," are generally not the kindest people.
Having worked in food service you're right. If my own son act of the way this man's acting I wound beg his wife to abandon him
Very annoying. He didn't even say 'Thank you' either when she handed him the food.
I noticed that. I am English and we wouldn't speak to anyone like that. It's probably a cultural thing
No, it's not a cultural thing. We think he's rude too. 🙄@@shereenmorrison9660
I HATE hearing people start a food order this way! Me: “Hey, how are you? (Actually wait for reply and respond to it appropriately). Okay, well may I please order…” and that is how it should be! If you want to skip the kindness beforehand, at least start with “May I please order” or similar and always end with a “thank you.” It’s sad how these words are the exception, not the rule. Decency folks! My kids starting doing this at like 4! They are 21 and 26 and still do it! If kids can do it, everyone can!
when women say they wanna break up, they'e already spent months trying to make it work and telling them is the final declaration.
the men who are told she wants to break up thinks this is the first time she's thought about breaking up. once she has told you you're going seperate ways, there aint no changing her mind. - because shes been weighing things up for months if not years.
heed this warning men.
And the men always think it ‘came out of nowhere’! 🤦♀️
@@guyincognito9698 exactly!!! Lol
Love how she says "I'm miserable" and he says, "So it's all about money."
No sir. It's all about money for you because now your fat ass has to get a job.
And when women ask a “serious” question, they already know the answer, they just want to see if you lie about it.
@@blingqueen2235Well. . . yes and no. I think it depends.
My BF and I have an understanding: I don't ask him a question unless I want the truth. So for instance, if I'm loving a particular dress, if I feel good in it, and if I want to wear it, I'm NOT going to ask him, "Do I look fat in this?"
I'm just going to enjoy wearing it. And usually, if it DOES look good, he'll say something like, "Cool dress!" or "You look awesome in that!"
If, however, I'm trying on something brand-new, and I genuinely want to know if I look good in it, I ask him, "Does this look as good as [another dress which I already know he likes]?"
I've always thought it's unfair to ask someone's opinion and then to expect them to lie. 😲 I'm not overweight anymore, but not everything looks good on everyone. However, I'm on the autism spectrum, so I like logic and I HATE lies.
I know a coworker who WANTS to be lied to whenever she asks, "Do I look fat in this?"
But she knows I'm autistic and hate lying, so she never anymore asks me. 😂
What?! “You want me to make a special trip just for the pain medicine?!” So selfish and dumb.
Ikr! 😲😡🤬
As someone with chronic pain, that REALLY pissed me off.
Unlike obesity, pain can't be seen by other people, but it can be _terrible_ even so.
For a hamburger he do drive 24/7 whole over the world !!🥺🥴🤢ice and hurrican cant stop him !!
Had she acted that way.....he would be completely devastated. He had a fit because the gravel road was bumpy.
I live miles down dirt roads. When I had gallbladder surgery, I HURT coming home. I didn't blame my husband or vehicle. I'm smart enough to know gravel roads are bumpy
About 3 years ago i was with my ex when i got extremely bloated and constipated, to the point i was screaming in pain in warm water and going from toiled to the tub trying to get some relief. I was crying and begged him to go get me some laxatives or ask the pharmacist for something to help. He refused because he had to make his coffee and have coffee with his cigarettes in the next room.
I KNOW what being in PAIN is like and my Hubby…Before he died…😢😢😢Would of got that for me VERY FIRST after leaving the hospital ❤I did the same for him MANNNNY TIMESSSSS❤❤❤When u love someone you think of thier Comfort ❤
All of the reasons he was upset about the divorce is because it would be harder for him without someone to take care of him. He doesn’t care about her at all.
Yup, he's extremely lazy and selfish
Lmao yeah and he barely said a thing about the kid, I feel bad for the wife and that child, hoping she's doing well raising him and hopefully she found someone who actually cares about her and her child
And was worried about not getting his Skin Removal Surgery 😂😂😂❤
He's crying because he doesn't want to lose his servant 😅
This. The show wanted to frame things as being happy, but Nissa finalized the divorce and she got full custody cuz he never lifted a finger to help care for their son.
And insurance, maid, child raiser, cook, laundry gal etc.....he's a vile human being and I hope she finds someone good
He would only want to remain married until he gets all his surgery and therapy...then he'll think he's too good for her....
Exactly. He was crying over losing his insurance, in house cook, laundry maid, and that house was hers so he knew he had to move and had no money to do it. He didn’t give a damn about her or little Nathan. I was seething when he said Nissa wasn’t thinking about Nathan… DUDE, Nissa was finally thinking about Nathan when she unloaded your rear end! I guarantee you, this is how he treated his first wife, too.
I remember seeing this and I forgot just how manipulative Chuck was, once his wife got the surgery. She did the majority of the work and once she realized she was a single married mother, she recognized that being a single mother would be better for her, emotionally, physically, spiritually.
Yup. She didn't sign adoption papers twice, she shouldn't have to care for a 700 pound infant.
@WobblesandBean he should really look in the mirror and ask himself what he sees. Dr. Now did it to steven assanti. Reality check
Yep. And like she said from the beginning. It's not husband and wife. It's caretaker and patient.
Chuck: doesn't support wife, verbally abuses wife, uses wife to take care of him
Wife: leaves
Chuck: "BUT WHYYYYY?!?!?! 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭"
🤦🏼♀️
My abusive ex was like that. He was like on the floor sobbing and I was like "you got another girl pregnant and tried to strangle me and then punched a hole in the wall.... Why would I stay with that?!?!"
@@mayav927 My abuser was the same. He even came to where I was staying and tried to play music like he was in some goddamn romcom 🤦🏼♀️ They'll do anything to maintain control, except be a better person.
Sorry you both had to deal with that, but glad you got out. ❤
Yeah really! He's a selfish piece of work, she deserves better
On a "Where Are They Now" he became an Evangelical Christian and says God brought him and his new wife together.
Don’t ever think that dating someone who is “below” you in the looks department means they won’t treat you badly. They will eventually have you convinced you’re the unattractive one.
EXACTLY!!!
Every time!!!
AMEN! I always try to get this into young(and not so young) women’s heads. It’s a set-up and will not turn out the way you’re imagining.
I would go a step further and pose that ugly people are on average MUCH more likely to treat partners poorly.
Big edd
The second his energy and tone of voice shifted as he was telling her to leave the hospital, that baby immediately put his hand on his arm, looked down at him and said " mama" (no idea what he was saying before or after the word mama). He knew EXACTLY what that guy was getting ready to act like. Babies and children are miles more intelligent than we think!!! It made me tear up. He was defending her. 😢❤
Thankfully he didn't have to deal with that his whole life (I hope). He was likely MUCH worse, like extreme behind closed doors which is why she was so immediate about leaving. The stuff on camera was his "best behavior"
I too caught those emotions that Beautiful little boy was doing…He was Sooooo Precious ❤❤❤❤
Baby was beautiful ❤️
If this is what happens on camera, I'm concerned what happens off camera, especially with the baby around.
"She left him outside to play 600lb survivor."
Im dead haha 😂💀
"I need to talk to his mistress, little debbie..."
This line got me 😂 I laughed so suddenly my cat and dog woke up to see what was going on
🤣🤣🤣🤣
That comment made me laugh so much.😂🤣
In every video Sean always says a funny comment or tells a funny story about himself...😂
lol I don’t think he’d win survivor or make it overnight.
This man really made a fried chicken pit stop, on his way to pick up his wife’s much needed pain medicine. 🤦🏽♀️ Kinda makes me think that was the only reason he agreed to go in the first place. Bless his heart. 🤣
When he said, to his WIFE RECOVERING FROM SURGERY AND IN PAIN, "You want me to make a SPECIAL trip just to go to the pharmacy?!?" I wanted to punch him in his fat face so bad. I'm not even a violent person. I just had that much anger for how he treated the woman who did EVERYTHING for him.
Right, how considerate of him. I wouldn't like to be either of them and watch their episode. I hope all of them are doing well today and are in a much better place mentally and physically.
As someone with chronic pain, AND who used to be an obese woman addicted to junk food, I got so angry with him for that! I mean, I do understand cravings -- because I had some voracious cravings when I was obese, but if a family member needed pain medicine I'd bring them that FIRST.
He got her medicine & his!😂
Exactly, if he wanted to get some, he could've at least got her medicine first, dropped it off and then went to go get his chicken.
The way Sean just drops random lore about his life like you were rescued from a mountain by a helicopter????!!!! HELLO???
I know, randomly excellent 😂
I need the full story!
I needs to know more!
I Shouldn't Be Alive 600 lb spin-off?
I want Sean to make a storytime video about this! 🙏🏽
He was truly awful to his wife. His selfish indifference towards her, especially when she just got out of surgery was unforgivable. I could never trust someone again after that. I wish she had left permanently.
If he became the perfect weight and in perfect health and she became disabled I'd bet my life he'd bounce!
She has. She finalized the divorce and got full custody, too.
Yes!!! He so clearly made changes just because he was panicking because his wife was leaving and he'd be alone. I didn't feel like he cared much about anyone but himself. So glad to hear that she has moved on. @@vaska1999
@@vaska1999Hope she's living her best!
@@vaska1999Thank God! She deserves so much better than that selfish nasty guy.
I almost fell over when he was being cruel and he told her "you close your mouth, you just sit there" because she tried to stand up to his attack".
Mr Nice Guy is abusing his wife.
His wife's in pain, and he's taking his time getting food. No care at all for her.
He's doing it on purpose IMO. A sadist
ALR coded
Ikr, what a nasty, sadistic person.
Exactly, he could've at least dropped her medicine off first and then go get the food.
The divorce wasn't what destroyed that family. He was.
Good grief. If someone called me with those waterworks I'd change my number!
He was SO manipulative and selfish. I hope his ex wife is living her best life.
@@ThatLadyInDallas2024haha I’m dying
He hadn’t dealt with his first wife’s murder when he and Nissa got married.
I know Chuck.
He’s a good guy.
Why has he not got a pick up stick then he can pick his own phone up
Quick update: Nissa ultimately divorced him, and he married a third time. Wife #3 divorced him for the same reasons.
Thank you for this
Not surprised
Oh wow 😂😂😂😂
I figured. I could barely handle that horrible whining, let alone the attitude
So that baby ultimately most likely ended up being brought up in a single parent household....
Imagine you were the Mother of that child & you thought you were doing the right thing giving up your child bcz you think they deserve a two parent family 😔
If my husband ever said going to the store to get my pain Meds (after surgery) was an unnecessary chore, I'd divorce him too.
I'd be done instantly
Then stops to eat !! He’s the worst
I remember this fool! She had to beg him to get her meds. I would’ve left too!!!
He’s trash
No you wouldn't
When I saw that Nissa served him divorce papers, I yelled, "Hell yeah!" I really like Nissa and was proud to see her give an ultimatum. She deserves so much better than what Charles offers.
Chuck was another of my least favorite patients because he was a big baby and I think verbally abusive toward his wife. I am glad she finally had enough and left him.
It's not just you thinking it, he WAS abusive to her.
I feel terrible, I never saw how abusive he was until now.
there’s a part of me that feels bad for him, because his wife was murdered and there’s definitely trauma and anger there still. but that doesn’t excuse how he’s treating his current wife… I felt so bad for her considering she was always trying to patient and kind with him.
@@rizumu-8937I think he did it. Caused his wife's death
@@asteriasheria2053And me either
27:07
Chuck: "Who sent you flowers?"
Sean: "It was me, buddy." 😈
I see you, Sean of Steal-your-Girl 😘. Thank you for another amazing episode!
Love the nickname.
He's so fucking funny and charming and quick witted, I truly believe he could steal ANYONE'S woman 😂 "Sean of Steal-your-girl" is damn right lmfaooo
NICE XD❤
Yeah!😂😂
lol she doesn’t even have a social media. She has said at some point she would come on here.
20:00 "Sweet Jesus, there's a Dunkin Donuts cup"
The exasperated sigh omg
Chuck loves his wife’s insurance more than anything
“I don’t wanna get divorced cause I’m going to lose…MY INSURANCE”?! WTF. Of all the things you could lose during a divorce your biggest concern is health insurance?! Wow. How about losing your wife or your family?
THAT REALLY HIT ME!!! All he was worried about 😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢😢❤
It shows me the individual is selfish 😢
That says all you need to know about him! He didn't want to lose his insurance and his caretaker... not his wife and son.
My ex husband changed insurance to go with his new wife knowing our son with Leukemia would lose his insurance.
@@lifeisreal11 Are you kidding me?! That’s beyond f**ked up. I can’t even comprehend how a father could do that. I’m sorry for both you and your son. That’s just not right
He makes me soooooo mad with the way he treats his wife! After everything she does ( and I mean she does EVERYTHING ) for him and that precious little boy and he treats her like an inconvenience 😢 I dont blame her for filing for divorce 😐
His wife learned the hard way not to reward losers with the spoils of what belongs to the winners, and rightly so. She settled because she empathized with him over her weight, instead of her getting herself together and making sure that she found someone who was also by default health concerned. Chuck is a massive man baby who needs a therapist, not a wife, not a child, not a girl friend, not any female companionship. I feel badly for the things that he went through in his past, but my empathy stops when he was being neglectful and abusive towards his wife and kid. I'm glad that she left!
I feel sorry for her. I was her once, I thought I was undesirable and so I put up with men who treated me badly. Her self esteem was shot because of how other people treated her, it takes time to build up your own self esteem. I got there eventually, I'm glad she did too.
Date an ugly man because you think he’ll treat you well, and soon he’ll have you convinced you’re the ugly one.
@@WobblesandBeanYes, well said!
Btw, I love your duck! I rescue/rehab animals, and although I've only ever had one duck, she was fun! Ducks are so curious and playful, and our duck loved to run around the yard chasing our chicken, and then reversing the game and letting the chicken chase her. 😄 Then when they got tired, they'd cuddle up together.
Your quote of 'not to reward losers with the spoils of what belongs to the winners' that is a powerful one and one I'll be using in the future. Thank you for that.
I'm assuming that beautiful walk-in shower was hers before Chuck, but idk for sure.
The way Chuck treats Nissa reminds me sooo much of my dad and the way he treated my mom, good for Nissa!! She deserves so much better
My dad to, my mom has gone through hell..
Reminds me of my ex husband…even the sweetest of us has our breaking point. He pushed Nissa way too far.
His wife is so beautiful.. He's treating her pretty bad.. oh wow, he better straighten up!!!
Nissa had TWO babies to take care of, a little one and a (really) big one.
Such a selfish behavior, this guy is useless, saying "I love you with all my heart" but doing absolutely nothing to show it (not even rushing to get her spouse her pain medecine!!), she'll be better without him. At least she'll have to care about only one baby.
Hearing him talk to her was triggering for me. His words were that of the typical abuser.
Insane he thinks she’s leaving bc of money!! He’s treated her like crap this whole episode and he thinks it’s about money!!
Honestly she was the breadwinner of the relationship too. He was living off benefits and disabilities. And honestly I believe she waited for him to start the program and for the cameras. To actually show how she's been living with a lazy big man for a whopping three hollowing years.
When he said "I have to make a special trip for the medicine!?" Like dude...are you for real!?!? Also 600lb survivor had me 😂
Yeah that pissed me off. She sacrificed so much for him. He couldn’t go out of his way to make her comfortable.
It think the adopted son was a relative of Nissa's. He looks just like her. They "had the opportunity" to adopt Nathan. They didn't seek it out. Family placements have laxer rules.
Yes, that's what I thought too. Otherwise there's no way they'd qualify to adopt that baby. Healthy babies -- especially boys -- are in HUGE demand by couples who are healthier than these two are.
I was confused by that, then I figured it must be a relatives baby.
Ah that would also explain why she got full custody of the child in the divorce.
@@zxyatiywariii8 do people hate girl children or...?
His wailing on the phone sounds like an evangelist begging for money 😂😂😅😅
He reminds me of Jimmy Swaggert when he got caught with the hooker
I thought he was Mocking her at first until the Drama went on and on😂😂😂😂❤and the last Teardrop fell💧💧💧💧💧💧💧💧💧💧💧💧💧
My ex husband did that shit. Just turned me off thr idea of trying to make it work more
Unfortunately into Chuck's second appearance on the show, that's when I had found out that Nissa has left him for good also finally divorced him and took their adopted son Nathan with her and never came back to him. And that's why he had became so hurt about it!
I'm betting he made promises to lose weight and didn't follow through multiple times. She was hopeful and believed him, then just got frustrated. Ya,she could lead by example and lose some weight herself, but he's a real donkey's butt.
Chuck’s ugly cry. The story about the raccoon. This episode had a lot of gems! 😂
lol I would go in there with a trash can lid as a shield. Play gladiator with the raccoon 😅.
In his “where are they now” segment, you learn she finalized the divorce. Looks like his improvement was temporary to reel her back in. Glad she got out.
"An Easter egg hunt you're not prepared for" omg... Sean you should do stand up and go on tour. You are hysterical, and I'm also very proud of your hard work and personal success.
I'd pay good money to see Sean do his thing live on stage 😂 literally just what he does here, but live and without the editing. Give him a laser pointer and everything like he's giving us a presentation lmfaoo
Me too, Sean is a natural comedian!
Who knows maybe I’ll try stand up comedy one day 😊
When dude started spazzing out in the car I expected him to drive into a wall or off a cliff or something.
277! Sean that’s amazing! So happy for you and proud of you!
the fact he didnt even do anything for his baby! she held him, washed him, read to him, put him to bed and his dad couldnt even sit nearby???
Exactly, like he could at least take over in between shifts of watching the baby to benefit it.
18:03
Women aren't loved unconditionally, believe me I know, you're just a good guy and honestly that gives me a little faith
I just am a hopeless romantic
Sadly, women are loved on the condition that they aren't able to be replaced
Once a guy can do better, that ish becomes conditional real quick
Men love women, women love what a man can do for her.
He is such a meanie! He's worried about what is not going to be done for him. While he did nothing for her except be mean and condescending.
I am laughing so hard at the censorship when he is in the shower.
Normally it’s a very large blur, even for the women. For chuck it was a small black oval.
We can always trust TLC editors to be savage hahah
😂😂😂😂ruthless
That was his underwear. You see him adjust them when he stands up.
lol don’t size shame 😂
@@Seanofsteel well he is a giant dick to his wife.
The sound of his crying makes me self conscious about how I sound to others when crying 😢😅
lol it’s a ugly cry for sure. Everyone cry’s though just guys get brutalized for it.
@@Seanofsteel Nah man that ain't right. I love when guys show emotion, and it makes me upset when people (mostly other dudes but not always) mock men for being emotional.
In Chuck's case though, he's just awful.
I had to watch that scene a few times, your reaction was fantastic 😂
Most people aren't that fugly when they cry. Maybe ugly crying goes along with his ugly personality?
When Chuck was like 2 feet from the phone looking around for help and you said “oh sweet god it belongs to the floor” that’s when I lost it 🤣🤣🤣
That’s what I use to say when I dropped things 😂
Yeah when you say it it cracks me up every time
His wife is a Saint .She’s pretty loving and caring.Chuck needs to realize what he’s been given(blessed with).
Bless you, Sean!! What you said about 'taking a backseat' when children come along. You're exactly right, but what many men don't understand is yes, they take a backseat but it's only temporary.
You're one helluva man for understanding this before marriage and kids.
I got a feeling you're going to make some woman a fine husband! 👍
'Bribe someone with Jiffy Lube!' 🤣🤣🤣
and you take less of a backseat if you share the labor of everything
Is really not difficult to recognize adults take the backseat to kids, only basic maturity. If that is exceptional, then the bar is on the floor.
@@decyattysyachpchyolsad thing is you get the guys who say what about me. Your needs are needs of course. But I would give my last to make a child happy over myself.
Chuck eventually achieved amazing weight loss. One of the show’s success stories.
I know I was pleasantly surprised
Well that's good hopefully that means his attitude improved
Is he still an ass though?
All that weight loss isn't gonna fix his personality.
Wifey had 2 do what she had 2 do, but I'm glad 2 learn that about Chuck. I hope he's living a happy life, and doing right by that baby
I’ve been in relationships where I couldn’t leave because they acted the way Chuck did when she gave him the divorce papers. If she stays with you after something like that, just know it’s not because she wants to be, it’s because you made her feel trapped. Please for the love of god never beg someone to stay with you, it hurts both of you more than you know.
You're so right. I love your pfp and your username, I totally read your comment in Dr. Now's voice lol.
Thankfully she finalized the divorce and got full custody.
@@user-is7xs1mr9y isn’t it the most wholesome pic of him you’ve ever seen 🥹❤️ a national treasure
Exactly, and when people feel trapped, they end up resenting the person who trapped them even more than they already did.
No one can make you stay, or make you feel some way. Adults need to deal with their own emotions if they’re unhealthy.
My husband has been extremely supportive and helpful during my healing process of my weight loss surgery. Thank God he’s not like Chuck.
That's awesome!!❤❤❤
And that's a good man that you have in your life
He is also a perfect example of the "male loneliness epidemic".
Completely and utterly useless, contributes nothing, is exclusively a drain financially and emotionally.
Expects his partner to live in a "permanent, tolerable level of unhappiness", while ofc: NEVER tolerating such discomfort themselves.
And then are utterly SHOCKED after being told 82 times in a row that "Shape up, OR I'M LEAVING!" and cry about how they are UTTERLY BLINDSIDED by it.
Spot on!
@@guyincognito9698 Though, BIG props for him actually getting off his butt and changing. I do think the lack of a mommy/daddy to run back to, was a huge factor. So, the shock to the system actually worked.
You nailed it PERFECTLY!!🫶🏾❤️🫶🏾
Cool! What do we call women who behave like this?
@@Jordan-ux3ps there he is, the butthurt random male.
There's a new my 600-lb life season coming next month in march
I think it starts on my birthday
@@SeanofsteelPlease think about streaming as it's playing!!
@@Seanofsteelwhen's your bday? I know you said you're a Pisces, before you even said that, I thought you were! Most of my good friends are Pisces. I'm Feb 23, but I hate my birthday lol 😂😂
I only watch it with SOS. Never seen it without lol.
@@SeanofsteelI’m a Pisces ♓️ too! March 4!
😂😂we need that story sean!! You got stuck on a mountain and had to be rescued??? 😊😊😊 we need storytime 😊😂❤
Yeah I can't believe how he just dropped that on us and moved on 😅
Yeah it was a wild one. But I’ll give you the gist didn’t bring water 2 hours before dark. Dad says blue trail goes to the parking lot. Turns out it didn’t and I was lost. When they found me and him said I was in a totally different county.
@@Seanofsteelyour dad was just tryna trick you into walking around in the dark all night to lose some chub😂😂
@@SeanofsteelI bet you could totally make that story into one hilarious video 😊 your dad and my dad sound the same dad took us tubing and was supposed to be 2 hour trip 8 hours later sunset we still in water seeing eyes looking at us , we LIVED IN LOUISIANA, when we started hearing things jumping in the water we was freaking out bro and I climbed in parents inflated raft is started sinking and we never went tubing again 😂🤣😂😝
@@Seanofsteelman! You need to do a video telling some of your stories. You drop little nuggets, and move on like it was nothing. Yeah, lost on a mountain, found in a different country… just that could make a great video!
Chuck: *is asshole who doesn’t help or appreciate wife*
Wife: *files divorce*
Chuck: *cries about the consequences of his own actions as if she hadn’t made clear how unhappy and miserable she was constantly taking care of everyone w/o help*
who could’ve seen this coming?!?
Chuck was a real piece of crap. Nissa deserved so much better. When he complained about getting her pain medication after her surgery I was so mad. Then him crying like a tool in the car lol. What a tool. Sean, another great video!
I hate/like watching Chuck's episode because he reminds me of my husband. I like watching it because it shows me that that behavior is abnormal and not, "just how men are." But I hate watching him because it's sooooo frustrating.
First thing you need. to learn - if it's your kid, your house - you're not HELPING, you're actually doing YOUR chores that are YOUR responsibility. When you go to a friend's house and clean their house - that's when you're helping clean the house.
Imagine if a mother said "I'm hellping my husband take care of our kid".
I hate when men say that. Hey we are all adults you are not “helping” you are doing basic life skills
Hell, yeah! Every time I’ve heard a man say, “I’m babysitting my kids”, I’ve lectured him within an inch of his sorry life! 😂
Wait wait wait.... "I got lost on a mountain and was using a flip phone for light. A rescue helicopter ".... hold on Sean, back up, I need to hear the rest of this story. So many questions.
If a whoopee cushion could cry thats what itd sound like.
Nearly 700lbs and he got approved for surgery after only losing 30lbs? I've shat more than that.
🤣💩🤣
He is so abusive and that too KNOWING that there are cameras around ! Imagine how he is when no one is around
She still should divorce him. He's abusive
Up there somebody has said she opted for divorce and has gone..
He was the biggest drama queen, you’re right!
I remember chuck soo well!!! Especially the way he treated his partners. He moved on so quickly because he can’t be alone. His third wife also divorced him. The way he treated her after she was in the hospital with a baby all day (not easy in a hospital setting) was absolutely disgusting 🤢
“I had a girl crush me when I was 19 or so when I was still kinda ain’t shit, right, I’m just a little less ain’t shit now…” I’m dead 😂😂😂 me too Sean
lol it be like that 😂
His true colors showed when she was sick
He was making her lift the baby the same day she came home from the hospital 😢 this dude is awful
OMG???! You can't just casually say you had to get a rescue helicopter without giving us a lot more information!!
❤❤❤yes we need this story!!
Right?? I was thinking, "Okay, I've got to hear this one!"
Seriously...we need the story!
he shared it in another comment lol
I just finished binge watching all of your other 600 lb life videos 30 minutes ago and had no idea what to watch while I work out! Perfect timing Mr. Of Steel, I'm 300 lbs now and losing more every day.
Congrats I’m so happy for you 😊
After binging all the episodes, I feel like Sean is my buddy.
🎶 Another one bites the dust. And another one gone... 🎶 🎵 That was my theme song while losing weight. Keep going! You got this!
“Playing 600 lb survivor “ 😂😂😂
When she said, "It's like talking to a 10-yr-old" - yes, exactly.
"I'm a little less ain't shit now" Felt that lolll
Shoot, I felt like a single mom when I was with my exhusband and he wasnt disabled in the least. He was just lazy and entitled. Its easier to be a true single mom then to have a partner who could help (in this mans case he choses food over ability) but choses not to. That hurts. It really, deeply hurts. Having a partner seeing you struggle and not care enough to help..hurts. I feel for that lady.
Ikr, she deserves so much better! 😢
Totally understand. My ex was the same way. Now, Im in a committed relationship where we equally share household responsibilities. Our home will never look immaculate but it does look like a happily lived in home with several crazy cats while still being inviting to unexpected visitors. It's so liberating. I discovered when, our sharing responsibilities brings us closer; improves communication to better understand our differences in a positive way. Our relationship may seem boring when compared to other couples but we feel it's fulfilling & rewarding. We've been together 1 year and have never felt or seen any of those red flags that I had ignored when married which resulted in frustrated resentment and divorce.
*IT'S *MAN'S
That's a great restaurant they're eating at, the Stingaree, good seafood. I can't believe he made it up those stairs! They're steep & narrow.
Yes!
I think it's only in Texas (?) and I remember their seafood was AWESOME! And I'm mostly Polynesian, so I've had seafood in every state I've ever been in, and theirs was deliciously fresh and well prepared.
“I love that baby,,”….the one I rarely care for or speak to, and the one I insulted my wife over taking home to sleep while I wanted both her AND the very competent nurse to wait upon me in the hospital.
I don't blame her no tolerance for verbal abuse
He seriously got mad because his wife needed to go home and take care of their toddler. Who would get mad about that?!
When she serves him papers he only cares about himself not the baby not how much he's put his wife through nothing. Its alllll about him. He doesnt want to take care of himself like an adult
He can't even take care of himself how can he take care of his marriage n his own child?? Two options: change your ways n become selfless or
Play victim so u can continue to be selfish so u don't gotta change n only care bout yo damn self.
“Bribe someone with Jiffy Lube” 😂😂😂
He didn't even check the phone after she picked it up off the floor😂
It’s kind of incredible to realize how much his eating addiction has shielded him from taking any responsibility or regulating his emotions. He’s a fully grown adult acting like a teen who won’t take out the trash. His wife leaving him was a real wake up call. At age 43, he’s finally learning to take care of himself for the very first time.
Some men arent loved unconditional because they dont deserve it.
Women, children, and pets arent unconditionally loved...they are pretty much the ones who are victims to the most crimes....so where is all that unconditional love?
Men say that to be victims of society because they tend to be the ones causing the terror.
Bingo!!!
Mistress little Debbie... that's so funny because my husband jokes little Debbie is his mistress.
Hi Sean!! Just sitting down with midmorning coffee...ready to spend some time with you!!
Hope you're doing well...and thanks for another video. We appreciate all your effort, comments...and laughs!😅! Love from Ontario Canada my friend!!❤🇨🇦😊🐾😻
Maybe the child of a family member or something? I don't know this for sure but it seems like criteria for adoptions because of family stuff are more lax than going through an agency.
Yep, there's no way any half decent agency would have allowed those two to go on their waiting list.
They wouldn't fit even the most basic criteria.
Yeah “opportunity to adopt” sounds like a relative or friend needed their child to be cared for
So, the genius SAYS they had an argument then says he doesn't want to talk about it.
His way of being a victim...
"Im MISERABLE "
SO, its about money huh?
She hurts, when he had his surgery, he talked to her horrible....when she hurts, he makes it all about HIM....never asks how SHE is....
😂😂😂😂😂"damn, she left him outside to play 600lb survivor"
It would be cool if you reached out to someone from the show and did a video interviewing/chatting with them. 🤷🏻♀️
I know Oompaville did that with Casey! That one was cool as all goes.
I've been with my husband for 27 years. I feel stuck, as I cannot afford to live on my own.
He is just like chuck. My husband knows I deal with chronic pain (I fell on my back on a concrete floor at work and have had two neck surgeries). He has told me twice that he doesn't care about my pain. I absolutely believe him.
I recently found out I have to have my right shoulder replaced. I most likely need my left shoulder replaced as well.
My husband just stands there and looks at me while I lift heavy stuff. My lower back is shot. I am in constant pain.
My husband claims to be in pain, but he won't go to the doctor. I have a hard time feeling sorry for him, yet I try to be a good wife, despite being in constant pain.
Life isn't always fair, but you just keep plugging along.
Narcissism, my dear, he'll always be first and you will trail a very distant 2nd. My prayers are for you, May God provide you relief with loving blessings.
Where do you live? I have a spare bedroom. If you can get over here, I will let you stay. I can't promise it can be a long term thing, but if it will get you out of there, I'm happy to help.
Ugh I hope you win a large sum of money so you can just leave while he’s at work. I hope you find happiness.
Bless you, I really hope some way you can get out and away from him! I don’t know what problems he has , but what ever it is he should nt be taking it out on you. Also, to just stand and watch while you re trying your best and in pain sorry to say it but what an a- hole!! Have you any family or a friend you could stay with? Maybe if you explain and leave he ll appreciate you and realise all that you do! Really hope you can sort something though - love and light ✨
If you can drive theres shelters and income based housing that can and will help you. Please dont give up and stay with an abuser. Theres lots of help out there please file for it. I had to get away from an EX as well and im so much happier for it.
Nobody is loved unconditionally. That easy love (infatuation) that women receive in the beginning quickly fades if she doesn't meet her man's conditions. And most of the time it's not love, it's lust. Men can "love" you when they don't even know you.
I love wholeheartedly though. That said I can love you and let you go. If things get too toxic. I’m a hopeless romantic at times though.
Yeah. You seem like a good guy. I just meant it isn't as easy for women as it might seem. It's easy to find someone temporary but lasting love is still difficult.
I hope you get the family you deserve. Thanks for inspiring others!
That high pich squeal don't leave me is the sound of a narcissist loosing control
For anyone interested, Chuck's first wife was murdered by her daughter, who was arrested and charged just under two months after the crime. There's speculation that potential life insurance and car accident payout was the motivation. Chuck and Nissa eventually divorced after this episode, and he married a woman named Erica some time later, though it's believed they've divorced as well. Chuck has managed to keep his weight within healthy parameters and his business is going well.
So many men like Chuck are okay with their wives being unhappy, because they know their wives will still work despite that. It isn't until their wives leave that they start trying, because her absence will be an inconvenience to them. Its so insulting that they make all these promises like "okay I'll get a job! I'll start cleaning up more! I'll start looking after our children! I'll get the car fixed!" because it proves that they could actually do it this whole time. They just didn't want to.
I was dying when you said "junk yard hefty". This dude was so mean to his wife. Especially when she ends up getting the surgery too. She asked him to go get her pain meds and he wouldn't get his ass off the couch.
I’m so glad I caught this. My fiancés grandfather passed last night and you always seem to make me laugh with every video you upload. 💕
33:25 He reminded me of Roger Rabbit lol "Pbbbwweeeese!" dont do me this way!!!"
AFTER HER SURGERY, SHE ONLY BEGGED YOU TO HELP HER!!! Even though YOU were MEAN TO HER AFTER YOURS!!!
He was probably mean to his first wife too.