Quitting the Rat Race | Does self-sufficiency really pay for itself?

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  • Опубліковано 21 лис 2024

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  • @missglenellen
    @missglenellen 2 місяці тому +480

    Not to forget: you can stop between your homesteading chores almost at any time, and if it’s just for 10 minutes to cuddle of play with your loved ones, to explain the world to your child, to just see her growing up. Worth more than money. Thank you for another beautiful episode!

    • @thegeniusofthecrowd354
      @thegeniusofthecrowd354 2 місяці тому +20

      Or to fiddle with your parts in the haystack if you're single like me!

    • @hannikulju9990
      @hannikulju9990 2 місяці тому +9

      And you would have to have daycare to your child while you are working. That costs money too...and there is no better place for a little child than home. They are healthier at home. I work as a kindergarten teacher and no matter how hard we try... bacteria likes to spread all over. There are usually an epidemic flu and stomach issues every winter at least once going on. Saving your child from that is priceless. 😊

    • @lolwtnick4362
      @lolwtnick4362 2 місяці тому +1

      lol you cant just stop homesteading. there are natural cycles you have to prep for everyday. weather changes, water levels, soil pH, constant predators, diseases, infestation, laws, regulations, economics, location etc

    • @lolwtnick4362
      @lolwtnick4362 2 місяці тому

      @hannikulju9990 lmao most of the time.
      also statistically you're more likely to be abused or assaulted by a family member than an employee

    • @colly7963
      @colly7963 Місяць тому +5

      Way better than a soul-crushing office job.

  • @mikeandcheryl
    @mikeandcheryl 2 місяці тому +344

    I went to a school renunion 18 months ago when I was 55 and straight afterwards decided to retire eaerly and take my chance in life. The people at the reunion were either physically worn out, ill or just plain miserable. My wife and I have a very small pension (below one person's minimum wage) and some savings. My wife said if we run out of money we can get some more but if we run out of time we've had it. What a fantastic decision. Everyday I do what the hell I like, when I like and enjoy life.

    • @OMT988
      @OMT988 2 місяці тому +23

      absolutely I'm 44, I plan to retire at 50 and live this type of life.
      too many dont make it passed 50 and in my opinion 65 is way to late to retire.

    • @mikeandcheryl
      @mikeandcheryl 2 місяці тому +13

      @OMT988 agreed. I do get what he is saying about time and reward though. I have spent 10 years growing veg and having a beautiful flower garden, and this year I just let it all go. Yeh I kept it tidy, but no bedding plants, hanging baskets etc. I spent the time out cycling, walking and exploring. It was quite liberating and freed up a lot of time. Now there are only 2 of us at home it's hardly worth growing any veg, as the small amount we need is easily and cheaply obtainable from the market. Good luck with your retirement plans. 👍

    • @OMT988
      @OMT988 2 місяці тому +7

      ​@@mikeandcheryl
      I live abroad (for work now) so haven't had chance to really live this type of lifestyle.
      Its really why being financially free is so important, if it turns out its not for me, then I can flex and adjust as needed.
      Thanks very much and good luck to you sir.

    • @TheWoodlandOrchard
      @TheWoodlandOrchard 2 місяці тому +15

      'If we run out of money we can get more. If we run out of time we've had it.' I'm using that quote! Hits the nail on the head.

    • @mikeandcheryl
      @mikeandcheryl 2 місяці тому +13

      @@TheWoodlandOrchard The other one we lived by was, 'if you think you're 80% financially ready to retire, then retire now, because you'll make the other 20% work. You'll never be 100%'

  • @Catsrule7
    @Catsrule7 2 місяці тому +157

    I believe that there are some things which cannot be assessed in monetary terms. I spent many years commuting to the big city, and although I loved my job, I hated the winter months when it was dark when I left home in the morning and dark when I travelled home at night. I dreaded the icy mornings of ice scraping, and slippery roads. Then there were the weekends, trying to catch up on jobs at home and hoping for good weather to do outside jobs. As soon as I was financially able I gave up the rat race and bought an old house with an acre of ground. As an old lady now in her late seventies, I do not regret one moment of the move to the countryside - growing my own vegetables and fruit and with chickens for eggs. Nothing compares to the joy of watching a squirrel searching my walnut trees for nuts, listening to the birds as the seasons change, or eating a fresh plum or fig straight from the tree with a beloved dog by my side. Winter now is for quiet reflection, for reading and hobbies,and for planning next year’s garden. I could not put a price on any of this.

    • @AlexandraAndStuff
      @AlexandraAndStuff Місяць тому +9

      I'm 30 yo and this is the life I wish for myself one day. I'm lucky to work remotely, but I don't care about that job, I'm just working to be able to create my own piece of heaven in nature, learn to grow food, take care of animals and enjoy being outside as much as possible.

    • @masato-lee
      @masato-lee Місяць тому +3

      I'm 29. I spent my early and mid 20s in the city working an un-fulfiling, dead end job until I moved to a very remote island. I will never go back to the city. There is almost nothing of value there for me.
      I still work as I'm not financially independent yet but now have much more time to tend to my garden, pursue my hobbies, read, and contemplate. I had a sudden realization earlier this year while feeding the chickens that this is how I want to live my life and it's what I was longing for ever since I was in my teens after reading "Walden" and "Into The Wild."
      I'm constantly pressured by my family to get a college degree, a better job (I'm a housekeeper), get married, go out to the city to meet people, etc... I do want to work but not for someone or something. I don't need a title, status, or that much money to be content. I sometimes feel that people make life so complicated when it is simple because they chase things they don't actually need.

    • @mikeash7428
      @mikeash7428 29 днів тому +1

      Today canning stewing tomatoes for winter soups and meals. Yes, there was all the work of soil prep, weeding, water system, pest control, harvesting canning prep, jars canning equipment, time... all that is lots of time. I suspect I could buy canned tomatoes cheaper. I wanted a life I didnt want to take a vacation from. You have to love this lifestyle and maybe it's called play for us who do.

    • @bandit2048
      @bandit2048 27 днів тому +1

      I did a similar thing and bought a place in France with a couple of hectares - we have donkeys that keep down the growth and provide clean and wholesome compost for the garden - there is a large vegetable garden as well as flowers etc for the pollinators and simply for pleasure - it's been the happiest 20 years of my life- I too commuted to the city all my working life so can empathize with what you say. We are not wealthy in money terms - but we have enough - what price happiness, in spite of the hard work. And yes, I too love winter which is a time for reflection and planning - oh the pleasure of each years' seed catalogues. They say that old gardeners never die - they are too busy planning for next year.

    • @Catsrule7
      @Catsrule7 27 днів тому

      @@bandit2048 thank you for your reply. Your comment about old gardeners never die made me laugh, because earlier this year a neighbour (younger than me). told me that they had planned and paid for their funeral and even bought their burial plot.. I told them that while they were planning where THEY wanted to be planted, I was planning what I would plant in my vegetable garden. I have no intention of giving up!

  • @lonelyrider606
    @lonelyrider606 2 місяці тому +312

    Many of us Finns, have done this over decades. It a part of life and not seen as work... we follow/live by the seasons... so you are doing the right way! Wish you strength and perseverance! You got SISU! 👍

    • @stupedcraig
      @stupedcraig Місяць тому +2

      Thats awesome! I live in Florida so unfortunately there are no really noticeable difference in the seasons.. The palm trees are always green and it's always hot.

    • @caprifolia1
      @caprifolia1 Місяць тому

      You lead a wonderful life! I wish you and your young family all the best!

    • @finowa
      @finowa 21 день тому

      Weeell, 70% of Finns live in cities, in addition to the Finns who live in smaller towns in hubs which don't include land or property, so this isn't commonplace for the average Finn nor has it been for decades... I mean for the people living in the so called "countryside", sure! There are still many of us out in the sticks, even if the number is relatively small 😊

  • @HolyPineCone
    @HolyPineCone 2 місяці тому +193

    You know this video helped me in the most random of ways. You mentioned being 42. I live a similar life to you but my wife cheated and left a year ago. I'm turning 34 next month and wake up in the nights feeling that it's all over for me. No family and I will die alone. But seeing you here, happily hopping about in your garden at 42 with a new family, really calms my nerves. I hope you read this and take it to heart. Thank you.

    • @andanssas
      @andanssas 2 місяці тому

      Please watch _The Bridgeman_ (Kyle) interviews in this channel, he lives a life like Daniel. Having a family doesn't mean happiness at all, for many it's the opposite.
      Truly a blessing you found out early about her.
      Try to seek contentment instead of what society imposes as happiness, i.e. being grateful for the new opportunity that presents to you, feeling free to steer the wheel of your life with your own hands alone. When you find it, you'll see more clearly who's worth to share a life with you. All the best.

    • @bergannon6585
      @bergannon6585 2 місяці тому +26

      My granaunt is 104, young at heart and beautiful of mind. At 34 you are only beginning, life is for living an adventure. All of it, the highs and lows. Blessings from an Irish Nana.

    • @andanssas
      @andanssas 2 місяці тому +7

      @@HolyPineCone Agree with Nana above and please watch _The Bridgeman_ (Kyle) interviews in Mossy Bottom, he now lives a similar life to Daniel and perhaps yourself.

    • @Jalleur14325
      @Jalleur14325 2 місяці тому +8

      No, it's not over for you. Times get hard but then they get easier with small steps. Keep hope and watching the light.

    • @mikethebloodthirsty
      @mikethebloodthirsty Місяць тому +25

      If she cheated and left then be thankful she is gone, and out of your life. Someone like that is not worth having heartache over, it may hurt for a while, but some people go through their whole lives throwing time away on people that do not deserve it. It's a blessing that she's gone.

  • @skyartsmanagement
    @skyartsmanagement 2 місяці тому +116

    Two quotes for you from two important men in my life as I also followed my passion and worked way too hard: from my dad "Yes, but think how much you are saving on a gym membership and sleeping pills", and from my father-in-law, "Yes, but everyday you are in good health is a day you are a millionaire".

  • @sewjackyo795
    @sewjackyo795 2 місяці тому +127

    I have a large allotment from which we enjoy a great harvest (most years!!). If I take into account the cost of seed, rent tools etc I am probably at a loss. But I can’t put a value on the enjoyment I get from the manual labour (I’m 69) the friendship from my fellow allotment holders, listening to the birds and the joy of our harvest. Dear Daniel the tiredness you will experience from your labour is so much healthier than the tiredness that comes from the stresses of the rat race and that’s just what it is. ❤❤❤

  • @kevingirard7844
    @kevingirard7844 2 місяці тому +76

    Mental health and happiness is priceless. I worked an office job that I hated and made me physically and mentally ill for well over 35 years. Those years were a mindless grind where I was incredibly miserable. I retired at 55 and look back at those years and can’t fathom how I survived without going completely insane. A large portion of mainstream jobs are a toxic mind numbing treadmill.

    • @ximono
      @ximono Місяць тому +2

      Very true, priceless is the right word. I was "lucky" enough to burn out relatively quickly. I'd rather be unemployed and healthy than employed and wealthy.

    • @TheN1H1LL
      @TheN1H1LL Місяць тому +2

      Nice! How did u escape?

  • @Fiona-H-
    @Fiona-H- Місяць тому +65

    It’s really not surprising Angela is feeing exhausted! Looking after a baby, medical studies and homesteading, it’s basically 3 *more than full time* jobs all at once! Do everything you can to support her in this very intensive time. Take advantage of every offer of help, child care, whatever you can to help her get through, even if you have to take shortcuts on the homesteading side of things for now, taking time out for family is critical for her wellbeing.

    • @celiacresswell6909
      @celiacresswell6909 Місяць тому +19

      Good advice. As an older guy, I would add - read between the lines when your wife asks you whether your life style is worth it!

    • @ximono
      @ximono Місяць тому +10

      All good advice above. I'll just add that the first few years of establishing a smallholding are the hardest. Having a baby and studying medicine on top of that is nothing short of impressive! I'd be wary of taking on too much. Maybe spread the plan out a bit over several seasons? A slow start can be a good thing, all things considered.

    • @TheEmbrio
      @TheEmbrio Місяць тому +6

      Yes it’s a lot, probably too much to sustain long term. Slowing down is important. Steady wins the race.

    • @Sara-xc9xo
      @Sara-xc9xo Місяць тому +6

      This is a good point. Life in the early years, with the baby constantly attached can be hard for a mum. Without a very close network, sure the husband is doing stuff by sorting the other stuff but sometimes the mums with a young baby needs a littlw bit of freedom and alone/not attached to baby time

    • @rhythmandblues_alibi
      @rhythmandblues_alibi Місяць тому +2

      Yeah I'd be interested to hear her perspective on this topic. Sounds like a slog for her and I wonder whether that patience might wear thin.

  • @billywhizz7928
    @billywhizz7928 2 місяці тому +72

    Money can't buy the quality of life you have, that's priceless. Bravo!

  • @DeeLish2000
    @DeeLish2000 2 місяці тому +93

    I’m 63 and finally have my dream of a small farm and selling pesticide free produce to people who contact me through Facebook. I work very hard to bring seedlings -plants - harvest . The joy I get out of selling my produce for a small return is completely fantastic . I get to call myself a farmer and that makes me feel so accomplished! Happy in Ireland!

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou Місяць тому +2

      That’s a true accomplishment there.

    • @ioanalee5248
      @ioanalee5248 Місяць тому

      Now they are in Finland 😊

  • @KatrinaTapio
    @KatrinaTapio 2 місяці тому +115

    Having your child in Finland was a really good move, tbh. You get so many great benefits, like free dental care for kids, great schools, and so on. I remember the school lunches being some of the most delicious meals I've ever had (and they're free, healthy, nutritious...). I can really see you building an excellent life for yourself and your family over there. How nice to follow along for the journey!

    • @KatrinaTapio
      @KatrinaTapio 2 місяці тому +13

      Oh by the way, it's delicious to sautee fresh chantarelles in a thick cream and butter sauce (similar to bechamel sauce but with cream) and having that on newly baked bread with a little bit of lingon jam.

    • @skurinski
      @skurinski 2 місяці тому +12

      its not free you pay taxes for those services

    • @Deva-no3dn
      @Deva-no3dn Місяць тому

      @@skurinski Thank you. I was just going to say that.

    • @ximono
      @ximono Місяць тому +3

      @@skurinski We pay about the same taxes in Norway and our benefits aren't as good. So compared to us, he picked the right country 🙂

  • @christybailey7401
    @christybailey7401 2 місяці тому +157

    There is also a cost to working a main stream job - commuting, clothing and if you both work childcare. That would reduce your work income. Also not everyone wants a mainstream job. Love what you do.

    • @burgesscr
      @burgesscr 2 місяці тому +21

      When calculating the hourly rate for working a mainstream job, perhaps we should also subtract from it the time required to decompress in the evenings and weekends just to feel human again. Love what do you, indeed!

    • @VidarVildstige
      @VidarVildstige 2 місяці тому +8

      One more cost of a mainstream job is that you often have to live close larger cities. This drives up your rent and mortgage.

    • @angelat4639
      @angelat4639 2 місяці тому +8

      and you usually need time to go to the Job and get back...so its surely more than 40 hours to take into account

    • @houndofculann1793
      @houndofculann1793 Місяць тому

      @@angelat4639 for me working at a rather low income job in Finland, earning about half of the median wage mentioned in the video:
      - 8 hour workdays but an unpaid 30min break in the middle and changing to and from work clothes has to be off the clock, so around 8,75 hours per day spent on the workplace.
      - 45-50 minute commute per day depending on the season
      - Waking up at least half an hour before needing to go out the door because I don't want to drive having just woke up.
      - Everything combined I'm actually spending a bit over 50 hours per week on things just having a job.
      If you did the same calculations as in the video but with my net wage of 9,9€/hr when counting with a 50-hour work week, the self-sustaining life really would be quite a clear positive in finances.

    • @clairejohnson7809
      @clairejohnson7809 19 днів тому

      This is a fantastic point! ​@@burgesscr

  • @Nanai-hf6ns
    @Nanai-hf6ns 2 місяці тому +52

    What a wonderful communicator! Let's not forget the creative job of producing these storied videos.

  • @kimizimi
    @kimizimi 2 місяці тому +75

    I know what you mean by staring the log pile. The feeling of having organized big pile of firewood thats hand made is great! :)

    • @celiacresswell6909
      @celiacresswell6909 Місяць тому +1

      I like that low rumble when you screw it up and the pile collapses 😂

  • @D180sx
    @D180sx Місяць тому +3

    We miss you in Ireland. It's a poorer place without you. We need more people your mindset. Spent many hours enjoying watching Mossy and yourself doing your thing.

  • @Otherside2020
    @Otherside2020 Місяць тому +11

    At 65 years, I am blown away by your insights and crystal clear understanding of who you are. And at such a young age. Thanks for sharing your life. It’s inspiring.

  • @donavancaton2042
    @donavancaton2042 Місяць тому +5

    My friend, you have comprehension beyond the majority of human existence. You made me smile 😊

  • @veedebee
    @veedebee 2 місяці тому +21

    I think this highlights exactly what small farmers have been saying for years, how undervalued food and food producers are and why the market has driven food production into large scale, industrial style businesses that pay poorly and turn out low quality produce wrapped in the ‘perfect’ shape or colour. I don’t consider it ‘work’ either - but I do think maybe we shouldn’t undervalue ourselves and what we do so much, because it is work and it is valuable. When my children were young I had the luxury (in my opinion) of staying at home and looking after them and our home - also hugely undervalued, but I didn’t want to work 5 days a week to pay someone else for that privilege so I could have two exhausted days a week with them. On paper we my look like fools, but in life we are winning ❤

  • @Merbella
    @Merbella 2 місяці тому +31

    Thank you for sharing the story of your Dad. Now, all of your lifestyle choices make even more sense. I'm sorry you lost him so young. ❤

  • @Mookiethedog
    @Mookiethedog 2 місяці тому +31

    Yo Daniel. I've always admired your energy over the years. I imagine the early years in Finland will be more work as you fix up the house etc. The "cost" of being happy is priceless and you're hitting it out of the park. I know your point isn't pure economics but for many people everything is about money. You have a rich life and family and you are self aware. Well done Daniel....great review on the topic.

  • @a.constantin
    @a.constantin 2 місяці тому +48

    you're so well spoken, it's always a pleasure to watch your videos

  • @gdreading9088
    @gdreading9088 2 місяці тому +21

    You have to take into account that the deer fence will be a job that you won't have to do for many years, the same for the house windows and the roof and many other jobs that once done will last for years. Its always harder at the start.

  • @AlK-t4x
    @AlK-t4x 2 місяці тому +20

    re spuds, you´d have to account for the saved shopping time, and also the cardio vascular benefit of the work which saves on the gym, plus as the Finns say it´s an enjoyable hobby. good luck and thanks for the vids

    • @CPerry-bu1ni
      @CPerry-bu1ni Місяць тому +1

      Plus the “cost of working” - travel time and cost, buying lunch and coffees, work clothes and the inevitable creep of work into your home life (eg worrying about work, work social ‘commitments’, answering emails in the evening and staying late etc)

  • @ritacoffey2576
    @ritacoffey2576 2 місяці тому +12

    I hit 70 this year and can’t do what I used to so try to prepare even at your young age. I’ve changed my systems and prepared for this from the age of 60 so I can keep going. Love my acre of garden. Love your channel ❤

    • @ximono
      @ximono Місяць тому

      I've started preparing for old age at 40. A medical professional told me that after age 35, it's up to you to maintain your body. I'm especially looking after my knees and my back.

  • @klazyy641
    @klazyy641 2 місяці тому +24

    From a "hermit" in the US of A, kudos to your line of reasoning! I have been retired from elementary school teaching for, oh, 23 years. Those last 23 have been the most relaxed and worthwhile to my sense of justification for all of those 33 years of teaching. Kids are amazing, no doubt, but worrying about 'are my lesson plans up to date if I get sick on Monday' was a real pain in the posterior. Even at the ripe old age of 80, I still wake up in the morning thinking about my danged fool lesson plans! Equating self sufficiency vs. well being just doesn't work out positively in my sense of balance. Your happiness and pride just shines from your eyes and smile: problem solved.

  • @valerieslater-t1v
    @valerieslater-t1v 2 місяці тому +48

    I remember when I was 16 and working in a small independent grocery store. I really enjoyed challenging myself to bag an exact 1 pound of mixed biscuits, cutting exactly 1/4 lb from a large round cheese, counting up someones bill in my head because we didnt have one that did it for us, so mental arithmetic was crucial. I loved having camaraderie with the owners and customers that I dealt with every day. All kinds of little challenges that I gave myself just for the satisfaction of getting it perfectly right, and then getting my little yellow pay packet on Fridays from my boss. Life back in the sixties was simple, it was good, and I wouldnt have changed it for anything. I have done the same type of things all my life, challenging myself just for the satisfaction, and I still do it in my sewing room every day at the age of 75. Life is definitely what we make it, and money isnt really an issue so long as you can provide for yourself and your family. I do realise that for most people these days it is a really BIG challenge, but I hope people can do whatever is possible to enjoy their lives, because life is too short to be miserable....thanks for your video, always great to watch !!

    • @dottiebaker6623
      @dottiebaker6623 Місяць тому +1

      From another 75 year old, well said!

    • @ximono
      @ximono Місяць тому

      You're lucky to have lived at a time when things were simpler and people were healthier (both physically and mentally). I think it is primarily that which people are seeking when taking on a lifestyle like this. Society doesn't provide it anymore, so we have to recreate it for ourselves.

  • @Qotus
    @Qotus 2 місяці тому +16

    I work as a full time teacher but my freetime is spent in the garden, foraging, preserving food, getting firewood and caring for our kids. The 2 month summer vacation makes up for the mediocre pay, that is when my soul rests and I get back my energy when I put my fingers into the soil. Both me and my hubby are dreaming of being able to work less hours so we can spend more time homesteading.

  • @kevingirard7844
    @kevingirard7844 2 місяці тому +8

    There is also value in the much broader skill set you have acquired from learning everything required to be self sufficient.

  • @jvalfin3359
    @jvalfin3359 2 місяці тому +30

    Your videos have been very inspiring to me for years. I was delighted when you moved to Finland, because I've contemplated quitting the rat race eventually and doing the exact same thing as you. But to be able to quit, you have to earn the right. Time is money, and eventually I will have the time. As a Finnish person, it's inspiring and motivating to see someone do the same thing in the same country.

  • @morrigans_cottage
    @morrigans_cottage 2 місяці тому +41

    Never clicked so fast on a video! Another great watch, what you’re doing for your life and family is amazing! You constantly inspire me on my own journey of renovating and old cottage on a few acres in the west of Ireland! Thank you for sharing it with us ❤

    • @dianeirvine1384
      @dianeirvine1384 2 місяці тому +3

      I was the same clicked on without hesitation. One thing I was surprised about your age. I thought you were younger. So I think you are well preserved ha ha. Must be all the hard work out in the fresh air. I gave up rat race and even some days it’s hard work but sooooo rewarding.

    • @laurabehenna7950
      @laurabehenna7950 2 місяці тому +1

      Daniel doesn't even look 32 let alone 42. Freedom, fresh food, physical activity and working among those he loves most... that kind of good health can't be bought.

  • @jeremyyork3538
    @jeremyyork3538 2 місяці тому +15

    That was fantastic Daniel. I just loved the story of your dad building the boat and then actually sailing it and achieving his dream. It is all about following your dreams whether economical or not. You're doing what makes you happy and that's great! Well done.

  • @thetwelfth9987
    @thetwelfth9987 Місяць тому +3

    I stumbled upon one of the first videos he made six years ago, crazy how far he’s come. Respect 👊.

  • @ciaobella8963
    @ciaobella8963 2 місяці тому +14

    Wonderful video. And so true. For me, the quality of my food and lifestyle is paramount. And I have been this way since my 20's; I'm 76 now, a "mature woman" you might say, although I am healthy and my mind is better than it ever was. The only stumbling block I had and still have in creating the homestead of my dreams, is that I never found a male partner who has the same dream. Oh well, destiny has its way of having its way haha. And although my mind and spirit may never age, my body sure does. 😉God bless you and your precious family, always. Hugs from Italy.

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou Місяць тому

      Such men are rare indeed.

  • @Here_kitty_kitty1-wg9xd
    @Here_kitty_kitty1-wg9xd 2 місяці тому +13

    This video was brilliant. Thank you for putting all your figures in columns for us. In my own long experience on the land this is exactly how it feels. Well done! Let’s make this go viral. I wish your life was in book form and in every school library - it provides a truthful blueprint of a well lived and connected to the earth life.

  • @bonniewoodard2771
    @bonniewoodard2771 2 місяці тому +9

    Bravo !! Well stated :). I'm now 75. At 70 I took courses to be a care giver and am enjoying every day with purpose. I am blessed to not 'have' to work but feel so fulfilled to be doing what I am :). Thank you!!

  • @doylequinn
    @doylequinn 2 місяці тому +18

    Fantastic attitude to life, the big picture is something we all overlook. I admire your way of life

  • @annsmith-rudnick-ss9gh
    @annsmith-rudnick-ss9gh 2 місяці тому +13

    Daniel, I can tell you I hate using tech. I just wrote you a nice comment and it’s lost. I am medically retired now and I did love my day job. I’m a retired family physician and to me it wasn’t a job. It was a calling it was my Christian ministry. I miss it very much, however, watching your shows have helped me get back in touch with the part of me that feels the way you do. Looking forward to a tour of what you’ve done with the house and what needs to be done. And very much looking forward to seeing the root cellar being built, I really enjoy your videos and congratulations on living a life that you love

  • @sarahcrooks6780
    @sarahcrooks6780 2 місяці тому +8

    We live a very similar life, in Ireland. For us, it's the freedom that this life gives us. We aren't dancing to someone else's tune, and can rearrange planned jobs and tasks to suit ourselves, the weather, etc. The sense of satisfaction you get when your meal is comprised of food you've produced yourself is immense.

  • @kuroasa
    @kuroasa Місяць тому +6

    I have been watching your videos for a long time and my favourite day dream at my factory job had been how I'd set up my grandparent's cottage as a homestead, because it is already very good for it. Oddly enough this video made me realize I do not dream of starting a homestead actually, I just enjoy planning. What I'm really passionate about is sewing from second hand materials. I think my dream life might be a puzzle of these pieces. House with a garden, factory job in the winter, sewing in the spring.

  • @svb1806
    @svb1806 2 місяці тому +15

    I never comment but I must say, your authentic and earnest videos are the best I've seen, a salve for the modern wounds of online influencers and marketing strategies. Been a long time follower and look forward to any updates from you, because I believe in the quality of thought you put into anything you create (online or offline). Thank you and so glad to see you're thriving as always!

  • @lizstokes9091
    @lizstokes9091 2 місяці тому +30

    I love how some of the commenters seem to believe homesteading/farming is a new age fad 😂
    Don't worry folks, lots of us grew up this way and we not only survived, we don't think we missed out on anything the city folks "can't live without".
    Sure we had to help out, but the freedom we received in return, was far greater than any of my friends that lived in town had.

    • @YoutubeDictatorship2024
      @YoutubeDictatorship2024 Місяць тому +2

      Its a lost art to most people because we grew up in a system that didn’t teach people how to be self sufficient. You can’t make money off of healthy and independent people.

    • @masato-lee
      @masato-lee Місяць тому

      @@UA-camDictatorship2024 That last sentence is so true. The healthcare industry and most industries are so exploitative.

  • @MaryEllenBlack-l5n
    @MaryEllenBlack-l5n 2 місяці тому +6

    I am completely on your page. Feeding the soul is probably the most important thing we can do for ourselves.

  • @FrankDohrin
    @FrankDohrin 2 місяці тому +6

    As always after watching your videos I am moved by it. What I appreciate a lot is you never tend to become propagandistic telling your way is 'the only true' one. You have a happy life - you say - because it's YOU being in charge of it. Thank you very, very much for years of inspiration, ideas and brilliant entertaining !!

  • @honeybadgerisme
    @honeybadgerisme 2 місяці тому +26

    Cost of childcare, full-time: 100+ per week
    cost of the extra wear and tear on the vehicle dropping off and picking up the child(ren): usually you can add an extra 10% over annual maintenance
    cost of time lost to drive time/traffic/weather: untold
    cost of lack of sleep due to schedule constraints: lower mental accuity, lack of energy, sometimes health problems can be triggered
    cost of not having someone at home with the time to cook real-unprocessed-food for meals: the entire family's health and budget and even relationship strains due to lack of time to relax and enjoy one another
    The cost of perhaps a negative experience is had by your child at the hand of a paid helper or another child-this happens too much + germs from other kids😬
    the cost? It is very, very high a cost to not stay at home with your kid-every member of the family pays for that!

  • @robinsouth8555
    @robinsouth8555 2 місяці тому +16

    I have enjoyed every single one of your videos over the yrs. Keep on doing what you enjoy!

  • @Deranged_Farmer
    @Deranged_Farmer Місяць тому +3

    That's a nice story you shared about your father. I'm glad he was able to find something he enjoyed, and apparently inspired you to find something that you enjoy.

  • @maureennewman627
    @maureennewman627 2 місяці тому +7

    Yes it is a lot of work, but it is work that you love....I know the feeling. I'm 71 now and still going strong, I go a little slower, but I'm in a place where I have built up the soil and the garden beds, etc over decades, so I can slow down a bit. I keep telling myself I should reduce the size of the gardens, but I keep expanding them, lol. Just a word of caution, you can get so caught up in doing the things that you love, you can get into a situation where your priorities become the most important. That doesn't work in a relationship, and as patient as Angela is now, that patience can wear thin if she lacks time and attention and appreciation from you. Ask me how I know. Best wishes for a wonderful life together.

  • @kathrynletchford5114
    @kathrynletchford5114 2 місяці тому +5

    Oh. I can't wait to see the root cellar build. That would be amazing.
    They say, that if you love your work, you will never work, a day in your life.
    That applies to you.
    I get you. I feel the same..
    I don't live your exact life, but I do my best in the subtropics of Queensland, Australia.
    I actually hate this climate, and am hoping to move to a cooler climate soon, to grow more things to ear.
    Thanks for a great video.😊

  • @upnorthandpersonal
    @upnorthandpersonal 2 місяці тому +16

    But it shouldn't be one or the other. That's why we aim for a proper work/life balance, summer cottages, etc. You can be partly self sufficient and still work a mainstream job combining best of both worlds. This is the core of sisu for myself: I'm off-grid here in Finland, provide my own power, water, firewood, etc. , I dehydrate mushrooms I forage and apples I grow, I catch fish - but I don't have monthly utility bills, but I also have a paid job I enjoy so I don't have to grow everything I need if I decide I don't want to and I can focus on a day job I actually enjoy.

    • @Starlight22215
      @Starlight22215 Місяць тому +3

      I’m with you on that. I did the same using two allotments and then when I got tired I moved to just growing in my garden. Mostly herbs and salad and that’s enough. I don’t want my life to be nothing but gardening. I need a social life, friends, mental stimulation, etc. No balance is not good for you. I’ve watched my daughter in law who has an Etsy shop just become a slave to earning with no life outside and her mental health has definitely suffered. We should learn to not put so many restrictions on life. I forage for fun, I also buy some fruits when they are cheaper and dehydrate, or freeze. So many people assume that an outside job is awful and some are, but not all and the social side of outside work should not be underestimated. My husband is 70 and still works because he loves it and it keeps him healthy, mind, body and soul.

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou Місяць тому

      @@Starlight22215Etsy takes too much of a cut. Then subtract taxes. I just sell in person and it’s better.

  • @IRSA1
    @IRSA1 2 місяці тому +9

    You make a lot of sense and have found the key to what keeps your mind at peace and your life fulfilled . Just remember that your little family needs your company and support and not just food and shelter.

  • @stephengreen6338
    @stephengreen6338 2 місяці тому +7

    Cost of being happy, invaluable, and you Daniel always seem to be, good health to you, and your family

  • @thizizliz
    @thizizliz 2 місяці тому +13

    You nailed some really important points - working at what you love is healthier mentally as well as physically. We're all different of course but you obviously love the outdoors, the activity and the results. I call that a win. Your property is lovely and the house looks like a LOT of work has been done. Once it's sorted, you should be able to focus more on the outdoors but there will also be a lot of things in need of attention. Even though it means that you're gone from our screens more, it's so lovely to know that you've found such a great partner and are happy about creating a new life together. Even better that she's understanding about your dedication to healthy, organic living.

    • @oliviaglass3843
      @oliviaglass3843 2 місяці тому +1

      Amazing that you are basically starting over at another country after you have already created a new life for yourself in Ireland. After the first couple of years and getting the house all updated life will be much easier. My hats off to you young man 😊

  • @theresaweissinger9796
    @theresaweissinger9796 2 місяці тому +4

    My husband worked as a cabinet maker, which he loved, and I was a teacher in a private school, which I loved. We didn’t make that much, but we were happy doing what we loved. We had a son who we were able to raise without worry of money. Makes for a good life.

  • @2learn4ever
    @2learn4ever 2 місяці тому +8

    Lovely video as usual Daniel. I'm sure every one of your viewers would agree that indeed it is very hard work, and anyone considering this kind of life should watch this video if they should think otherwise, but we also factor in your habit of researching everything so diligently. It is an invaluable tool to work everything out to the nth degree. I've watched so many other homesteading videos on YT, and recently a young couple starting out, they say they have little money and no skills, I hope it works out for them, I really do. All the best for the harvest, see you next time.

  • @smiller6925
    @smiller6925 Місяць тому +2

    It's very important for a provider and protector to love their work- though not everyone can. My husband thankfully really loves his work- in an office. But when our adult daughter suddenly died, he discovered time in the garden as a way of coping and healing. I'm glad you found a way to do what you love- while still taking care of your family.
    .

  • @infernocandycompanyhutson4905
    @infernocandycompanyhutson4905 Місяць тому +3

    When the SHTF you will be glad that you are doing what you are doing now!! I love watching your videos we are homesteading in Florida

  • @scottbecker3485
    @scottbecker3485 2 місяці тому +8

    If scripted, that is one heck of a wonderful script! And if spontaneous, well, then: hats off to you even more!!! Thoroughly enjoyed this factual and also soulful look at the question in question. Adding to the discussion, I‘d offer up a couple of other metrics to consider: less dependency on supermarkets and other businesses, less dependency on a potential central bank digital currency, less vulnerability to supermarkets closing down or imposing mask mandates or whatever, peace of mind (a huge thing!!!), more and better nutrients from the presumably much more vital soil, the ability to trade and share in a non-monetary way with others doing something similar (who might have different crops to offer, or even be in need due to crop failure), family cohesion due to frequent presence, team spirit among couples, etc. On the downside, one might also mention that a lot of small, private farms are currently being closed down by governments in the U.S. and elsewhere, for whatever nefarious reasons supposedly due to „climate change“. And there does appear to be a kind of sinister plan in place to push small farms off the map in favor of huge corporations making synthetic „vegan“ food that can be sold for huge profits, and make people dependent on government hand-outs. All in all, everything involves risk, but if small farms can stay „under the radar“, as they say, then it does seem like the way to go for personal fulfillment, health and freedom. And perhaps it‘s also worth tossing out there that it‘s possible to lead a hybrid existence, e.g. being largely self-sufficient while also having some kind of digital nomad (or similar) job with which to pay for occasional „extras“. And if labor gets to be a bit much, using Workaway to host interesting helpers is also an option.

  • @sjaron23
    @sjaron23 2 місяці тому +4

    Another dose of inspiring, well-thought-out philosophy.

  • @SettleinSpain
    @SettleinSpain 2 місяці тому +4

    Couldn't agree more, time is the most precious resource we have and how we spend that time with those we love doing the things that make us sing is so important. Thanks and the root cellar sounds exciting

  • @mamarrachopunpun
    @mamarrachopunpun Місяць тому +2

    Here 52, already bought the house with the big plot of land. Gathering guts to leave my remote computer job and follow your way. I hate hating Mondays.
    This video is one of the best explained and most down to earth I've seen.
    Cheers from Northern Spain.

  • @ndcoxhead
    @ndcoxhead Місяць тому +2

    It might be a lot of work and I think that too occasionally but it it so much worth it. If you think going into the supermarket and getting bad quality and bad tasting of food. And for me it’s like meditating being in the garden, seeing everything growing, weeding and watching the wildlife. For myself I can say I love it

  • @loribell6453
    @loribell6453 Місяць тому +2

    I so identify with Painting the Canvas as You See It! I have eight acres of my own land now and I am looking forward to developing it for many of the same reasons. I would offer that one benefit you did not add to your balance sheet was HEALTH! All that hard work along with eating a variety of nutrient dense foods will add years to your life, and more than likely Good years rather than suffering from debilitating diseases as you age. How much does health/disease care/prescriptions cost in Finland?

  • @TreeOfWisdom2
    @TreeOfWisdom2 Місяць тому +8

    Health is so much more important than paper money.

  • @aishlingmullerify
    @aishlingmullerify Місяць тому +3

    good to see you are all settling in and enjoying the fruits and veg of you labour. Ireland misses you, although it's been so so wet this year, especially out North West, been battling the midges myself this last year and the veg patch is reclaimed ready and waiting for next year. Your content is such a great place to dip in and out of for inspiration, motivation and learning. Thanks for sharing

  • @heytheregeorgeygirl
    @heytheregeorgeygirl Місяць тому +2

    An extremely interesting and honest discussion on being self sufficient.

  • @BernardDauphinais
    @BernardDauphinais 2 місяці тому +11

    Very inspirational, Daniel. Thank you. All the best.

  • @BrianProsser
    @BrianProsser 2 місяці тому +9

    Keeping your grumpy pre-teeners busy in the garden = invaluable. 😉 (Plus, saving $399 per hour x 4 on family therapy each month!)

  • @saxon-mt5by
    @saxon-mt5by 2 місяці тому +4

    Remember that some of your present work-load is the restoration of your property; it's just like the extra work needed when starting up a new business - the first five years are the hardest,

  • @nellitheretrogamer8666
    @nellitheretrogamer8666 Місяць тому +1

    I remember when I was a kid and my mother tried to grow carrots... We got mostly nothing because some rodents had eaten them from below and there were only stubs left. We got maybe 2-3 carrots that were about 5-7cm long :D My mother didn't bother to try again next year. Maybe that's one reason I've never been interested in a self-sufficient lifestyle, because there is always the chance that weather, animals or plant diseases destroy all the hard work.
    I like knitting and crocheting myself, though, and sometimes sewing, and I know that the money comparisons there are irrelevant. A lot of stores sell T-shirts for about 10 euros whereas fabric in a fabric store usually costs at least 15 euros per meter. Knitting a sweater takes me about 200-300 hours. From a money point of view, making clothes myself doesn't make sense. But then, that's not the reason why I make them. I know what you mean, that you do it because you enjoy it.

  • @K4ttyK4t
    @K4ttyK4t Місяць тому +2

    I love this video, thank you 🙏🏻 I heartily agree that it’s far too much work and I know it makes no economic sense but I wouldn’t change it either

  • @janetnash
    @janetnash 2 місяці тому +4

    Thank you for your wise words, what a great harvest of crops you gathered.

  • @philcarson6731
    @philcarson6731 2 місяці тому +23

    The cost of working a mainstream job on your spirit just cant be underestimated

    • @DuBstep115
      @DuBstep115 Місяць тому

      Working 8-4 minimum wage job just to broke end of the month with 5 bucks in savings for 20 years straight will kill your soul
      Reality for a lot of people

  • @christineviking1578
    @christineviking1578 2 місяці тому +4

    I enjoy all of your vlogs but absolutely loved this one! The reason is that your attitude to work and your father's story brought back fond memories of my late father. His day job was working as a carpenter, which he excelled at, but he was happier at home growing food, chopping wood, and maintaining the family home using his carpentry skills. He was always busy and very much an introvert.

  • @carolined3058
    @carolined3058 Місяць тому +3

    You live a fulfilling live in a nice environment, healthy food and a beautifull family. No money can replace that.

  • @jvp714
    @jvp714 2 місяці тому +10

    I'm an attorney and love my 9-5 job. I feel using my brain provides a net benefit. I work from home so I am constantly thinking about buying a few acres to start a farm. I really think I could have it all.

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 2 місяці тому +1

      You could. Go for it ❤😊

    • @killjoyredux8361
      @killjoyredux8361 2 місяці тому

      Attorney.. Isn't it more like 7-10

  • @suesparks4301
    @suesparks4301 2 місяці тому +7

    Well said Daniel and with such honesty... can't wait for the root cellar upload as I have always wanted one too. Nice work and enjoy the fruits of your labour 😊

  • @matthunt2128
    @matthunt2128 Місяць тому +3

    I live off grid and whilst I'm not money rich, I'm time rich.
    I choose the rhythm of my life not a boss, which to me, is priceless.

  • @annevogle
    @annevogle 2 місяці тому +39

    I am 60 ,all I’ve ever wanted to do is be self sufficient. It’s been my dream. Maybe there’s still time?? ❤

    • @patriciaisibor9623
      @patriciaisibor9623 2 місяці тому +8

      Ah me too, I'm just 70..you go for it

    • @Merbella
      @Merbella 2 місяці тому +8

      Sure there is. It's the perfect time. Just go for it! ❤🎉

    • @snowstrobe
      @snowstrobe 2 місяці тому +2

      Snap. Wish I had the necessary funds!

    • @woodworks371
      @woodworks371 2 місяці тому +2

      I’m 60 too. You are NOT too old to go for your dreams. All the best good luck to you!

    • @LilyGazou
      @LilyGazou Місяць тому +1

      People could pool resources to buy a place to share. Set up some tiny homes on it.

  • @sentteri
    @sentteri 2 місяці тому +3

    Remember that you can go foraging for mushrooms until the first snows come! Suppilovahvero (Craterellus tubaeformis, don't know the English name) starts it's season in September and stretches to November in warmer areas. It is a very popular mushroom. At least among my social circle it's the second most popular to pick after chantarelles.

  • @poodlegirl55
    @poodlegirl55 2 місяці тому +16

    There is also a middle ground and that is what I have found in my 60's. We moved when we retired and remodeled our house, concentrating on getting that done and not starting any gardens the first two years. Maybe it's because you are younger but you seem like you want to do everything at once to a very high standard. Your child will only be young once and your wife wife will only be in school once.

    • @jsmith7240
      @jsmith7240 2 місяці тому +11

      I agree, if anyone in your family is struggling atm then that needs the attention today, to pull together and consider how much time you put into being a family group.
      There are middle grounds, you can possibly buy ethically produced potatoes for a year and sell your expensive mushrooms for another year, saving a few for yourselves.
      It might seem like you have to do it all but looking at the longer view not putting yourselves under too much pressure so you and your family still enjoy life now is more important that ticking every box on your want to do list.
      Not only will this help your bodies and minds to stay healthy, but you'll have places to use and go to from experience to support you if your ever need them.
      It's good being self sufficient, really excellent, but a balance is important.
      In 15 years time when you might want to slow down physically, your daughter might be away to study and you've more time in your hands, you might wonder why you put yourself under pressure right now to do it all and focus so much on your satisfaction of doing the work your enjoy at the expense potentially of your family time and their needs. You've enough to do with the house without working hours on potatos in my book! All good wishes, love your channel! ❤

  • @paulwilson7234
    @paulwilson7234 2 місяці тому +7

    You're absolutely right about the week end and Monday morning.

  • @MultiDatura
    @MultiDatura Місяць тому +4

    The yellow chantarell taste much better if you boil them and freeze them, they taste bitter if you dry them. The autumm chantarell ”trattkantareller ” in swedish is better to dry.

  • @eksw_i_bouli_twn_prodotwn
    @eksw_i_bouli_twn_prodotwn Місяць тому +6

    If you think about it purely economically then it isn't worth it. But the extra added benefits make it worthwhile. You secure healthy food for yourself and your family which you could argue it saves you from medical bills, your mental and physical health is much better, in a time of crisis and when governments go completely crazy and authoritarian it will be an invaluable asset.

  • @barbvoth4704
    @barbvoth4704 2 місяці тому +9

    I can’t wait for the root cellar build! Love what you create!

  • @aprilriordan8202
    @aprilriordan8202 Місяць тому +1

    I have a small allotment plot and grow a small amount of all the vegetables we eat , there’s no bigger pleasure than serving up a dinner plate knowing you grew everything you are eating ( bar the meat ) I spend hours there tinkering away and the joy it brings is unmeasurable, work isn’t hard in that sense when you love what you are doing , yes you ache all over but it’s a good ache , you feel alive and miss it as soon as you shut the gate to go home lol love your vlogs as always , can’t wait to see your root cellar when you get it completed 😊

  • @susanjordan2130
    @susanjordan2130 Місяць тому +1

    Yes I agree. Our little home and garden are what make me happy. Thank you for your videos♥️

  • @HoboGardenerBen
    @HoboGardenerBen 2 дні тому

    Glad your dad got his sailing trip. He got years of pleasure working towards the boat being real and taking the trip and it happened. I agree with the notion of focusing on time over money and it is lovely to see someone walking their talk. I am dedicated to following a similar path now, to take my hobo gardener flow to the next level.
    I love hard labor. Most of my issues are mental and emotional and I find peace in productive physical labor. No labor more satisfying than growing food and other needs. The idea of avoiding that effort doesn't compute for me, I need it. When that labor ends with a tray full of blueberries, what could be finer?! Thanks for living a fine life and sharing it with others so they get ideas :)

  • @ArtWytch
    @ArtWytch Місяць тому +1

    So interesting seeing you break it all down. Adding in all that extra exercise and family time, breathing fresh air... things money can't buy. You are doing great!

  • @joeeigo9820
    @joeeigo9820 Місяць тому +2

    Wow! Your words in the final scene were incredible. Absolute on point!
    Words I always wanted to find, to explain people how that life feels. Thanks!

  • @srantoniomatos
    @srantoniomatos Місяць тому +1

    As someone living the same lifestyle, also small kid, living "enough"...this relates 100%. Tanks.

  • @tassie2348
    @tassie2348 2 місяці тому +5

    Here in Tasmania, we say that your status in the community is measured by the size of your log pile (😂😂😂)...........love a decent, organised pile of logs.

  • @thenodiggardener
    @thenodiggardener 2 місяці тому +4

    You've had a lot of ground work to do this first year. It's work that won't need doing next year. Dreams always come with their own challenges too, and if we don't accept that, it's this that makes them a disappointment.The bigger the dream, the bigger its challenges. A 9-5 job is concrete and astro-terf to my mental health. I've been there, done that, and been totally miserable. Now, whilst I'd love the health to hold any job that would pay my bills right now, that's mostly because I'd just love all the independence, and choices back the health would afford me. I'm lucky enough to still be able to grow some of my own food, and preserve it. The satisfaction of taking just five jars of organic roasted cherry tomato sauce out of the canner is beyond anything I can get off a supermarket shelf. I know exactly what's in it, from the variety of tomatoes, to the fact that it is just pure tomatoes.

  • @TheFishbearpig
    @TheFishbearpig 2 місяці тому +4

    I am in my 30s, working in IT, and I am earning well above average for my country. This year I started planting in a 5x5m green house. I experimented with what I planted to see what I could grow in the soil, and lucky for me, I managed to produce quite a bit. If we are talking about economics, I have lost a lot of money, but eating my own delicious produce and my wife canning it has brought such satisfaction that I can't possibly put a price tag on it.

  • @martesolluna
    @martesolluna Місяць тому +3

    You've got such a good philosophy❤

  • @jarrodborg8429
    @jarrodborg8429 Місяць тому +2

    Well said mate good on ya for going your own way all the best to you and your young family
    From Melbourne Australia

  • @MarifromKuopio
    @MarifromKuopio 15 днів тому

    I can't wait to hear what's been going on lately, and how the autumn season is going!

  • @patriciaphillips6925
    @patriciaphillips6925 28 днів тому

    Yes, is a lot of work. I do it part-time during the growing season here. I just love being the garden with the plants and nature and it doesn't feel like work when I do. There is the satisfaction and joy of seeing the magic and abundance of nature.

  • @gergelymarko
    @gergelymarko Місяць тому +2

    I follow you since years, and you are such an inspiration! Thanks for sharing your life with us.

  • @seanbrennan4447
    @seanbrennan4447 2 місяці тому +2

    I found that growing my own vegetables gives me peace and removes most of my stress when working on my allotment which these days is priceless .