Dealing with a Married Man?...Renowned Relationship Expert Dr. D Ivan Young on CBS Part 2

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  • Опубліковано 23 сер 2024
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    See what happens when Host Deborah Duncan of CBS Television's Great Day Houston interviews Dr. D Ivan Young and a caller confesses she's involved with a married man and ask what should a woman do when she discovers she's involved with a married man.

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  • @BethRichLife
    @BethRichLife 9 років тому +89

    I don't think you answered the first lady's question. I feel like you blamed her for taking too long to find out. Regardless if she saw clues that he was married or not this does happen. If it's been 3 weeks, 3 months, or 3 years once the woman finds out how does she disconnect her feelings? That is a very hard situation. You're torn between still loving this man and hating him for doing this to you. Most women don't want to be the other woman.

    • @shomemo37
      @shomemo37 9 років тому +10

      I agree I was turned almost away back to isolation because of how harsh he was

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 6 років тому +1

      Cynthia Dickerson REAL talk ... discerning the TRUTH

    • @lifetobelived9102
      @lifetobelived9102 5 років тому +3

      I''ve heard from multiple women that they were dating a man who was married and didn't know but luckily only one date or for a month. I think it is possible to hide it very well. I met several women who divorced their husbands because they cheated with women while they traveled for work. One was living with another woman for 5 years and neither woman knew that he was with the other. I do think he was harsh but as soon as she knew she should have broke it up. The shame should be on the liar not the person who wasn't like a private investigator and tracked down all of his information.

    • @myspanisheyes7
      @myspanisheyes7 2 роки тому +4

      Exactly. And he says that he does not want to insult her, but he does!

    • @christalfrancis5267
      @christalfrancis5267 Рік тому

      Yes I agree he insulted her and I am sure he is no better than the woman

  • @TheQueenOfGreatness
    @TheQueenOfGreatness 6 років тому +28

    The same thing happened to me. He would stay at my house for almost a week at times. Met his child and grandchild even his dog AT his house. Did not know he was married and living with his wife!
    A cheater is a liar and have not place in a decent person's life.
    He had to go!
    "Tanya, you don't understand".
    I understand that you're married and you need to give 100% to your wife instead of trying to divide your time with EVERYONE else.
    Trust me, if it you, there's others!!!!

    • @a.muchemi4360
      @a.muchemi4360 4 роки тому

      so why u changed that may be he loved you both .... He is a polygomous man ....and u self centred and all in life isnt about how we feel is logic too

  • @JustMe-gf1ko
    @JustMe-gf1ko 6 років тому +16

    The black counselor dude is a jerk ...1st caller didnt know, clearly. I'm glad the host 'broke it for down for him' ... how about assisting her to gain her momentum/heart back?! COUNSELOR DUDE NEEDS TO GO BACK TO SCHOOL, lol!!

  • @jjbabeusa
    @jjbabeusa 5 років тому +4

    This guy is talking about self-love. " When you know better you do better " NO EXCUSE,...ENOUGH SAID!!!

  • @mizcand4436
    @mizcand4436 8 років тому +34

    what is this guy on about it's not her self esteem she's saying how does she get out!!!

    • @shannonbrown560
      @shannonbrown560 2 роки тому

      yes I agree. He was rude to her feelings and harsh. I feel bad that she was neglected. She is hurt and wants to know how to move forward and get over it. That is her question.

  • @jesse-5318
    @jesse-5318 6 років тому +22

    This guy answered the first lady's problem horribly. He didnt even address her issue and acknowledge what she was saying. He went to place the blame. Very BAD Counseling advise.

  • @kwesi-annbrown4276
    @kwesi-annbrown4276 5 років тому +13

    I really dont like the way he is responding to the first woman. Just another case of blame everything on the woman.

    • @iknowwhatsup2880
      @iknowwhatsup2880 4 роки тому +2

      You have to be ready for the hard truth before you can change your situation. I get having chemistry and feeling attraction for people, but don't take harmful actions against yourself.

  • @tarapipia6582
    @tarapipia6582 6 років тому +39

    This guy commenting has no heart he's not even listening to the girl what a jerk I would never want him as my counselor

    • @chichichiugo8532
      @chichichiugo8532 6 років тому +1

      Cynthia Dickerson omg righhttt! It sucks but sis what else more do you need

    • @christalfrancis5267
      @christalfrancis5267 Рік тому

      The counselor is also a cheater

  • @Akira_Azumie1988
    @Akira_Azumie1988 5 років тому +9

    the Same thing happened to me too I dated a guy for almost 4 months and he said he is divorced .but I found out he is still married..until now I'm still broken hearted but I want to get rid of this heart break..I forgive him for being a liar and same time a liar..he told me he loves me and he give him chance to do the papers si he is totally free but every time I see his Facebook saw them going outside and dating.eating dinner with friends and that makes me more sad so I don't want to listen to him no more I'm already tired and emotionally exhausted. so I decided to let him go .

    • @mineshukri3444
      @mineshukri3444 5 років тому

      Darling same here i had the same they are all liars

  • @dollyjohnson5848
    @dollyjohnson5848 4 роки тому +4

    Dr. you totally insult her.. You never answered her question, Geeesh she didn’t know he was married and she much in love .. You can’t turn off love like turning off water.. Sometimes a person don’t know and men do lie very well

  • @nadlat8880
    @nadlat8880 2 роки тому +1

    The audience is acting like they're never heard of that b4 and the 2 guest are very judgmental about the first caller,,,they're no help to anyone

  • @tcharleston81
    @tcharleston81 4 роки тому +1

    They didn’t answer her question at all. Telling her to get over it isn’t helpful.

  • @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique
    @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique 3 роки тому +1

    Lady with the short hair has such a funny personality I’m feeling her💕💕😂

  • @QponHoney
    @QponHoney 6 років тому +6

    Man he didn't answer the first ladies question. He came off so judgmental. Obviously he didn't listen to her. The host should of answered it.

  • @shelly20001
    @shelly20001 5 років тому +3

    She asked how to move on from this relationship!! Leave him the f### alone, cut all ties and move on. Ask yourself what you deserve and run or Stay. It is up to you and only you. No excuses!!

  • @starr6850
    @starr6850 7 років тому +11

    Good gracious the woman just found out!!!! Of course when u k ow better u do better.. U just now knowing...and besides three years is alot of years to invest your heart and loyalty with someone.. My husband is with another women as we type...she will soon find out later...not from me,but from his character...and when she does find out and chose to stay!!! That whoe

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      @jessicamary-kayali3542 7 років тому

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  • @t.johnson2966
    @t.johnson2966 4 роки тому +5

    The minute a woman meets a guy she’s interested in, you can bet she went on social media and checked out his whole life! These women know!

  • @mysticjen379
    @mysticjen379 Рік тому

    It surprises me just how capable people are of lying. This guy is naive at best if he thinks she saw signs. They can hide it very well.

  • @ilsewenzel7227
    @ilsewenzel7227 6 років тому +1

    In my situation I met him as a referred handyman. After 5 years, yes, I have feelings.We have not been intimate but he craves to see me and manages to either call or come by once a week. He is married I know but I also have feelings and it was one of those instant things. Believe me I feel ashamed and guilty. I have tried breaking it off a number of times but we always end up seeing each other again whether he has work to do for me or just visiting. I know it would be difficult for me to tell him I don't need your handyman services (he does excellent work) and say I don't want to see you anymore. I will be 72 in about a month and I do enjoy his company so much

    • @BrendaBaBoom
      @BrendaBaBoom 6 років тому +3

      Dear Ilse Wenzel Don't ever settle.

  • @chrisc3162
    @chrisc3162 9 років тому +9

    Let me get this straight.
    You date someone for THREE YEARS and you never meet any of his family? Never met any of his friends? Or you did and they ALL LIED to you believably?
    I do NOT BELIEVE you can date someone for three years and not meet someone else in the person's life that didn't give their marital status away in one way or the other.
    This woman is willfully BLIND.

  • @SarcasticSean
    @SarcasticSean 5 років тому +3

    yeah I don't have a boyfriend, but I am not going to be cheated on, so ok for all I care. I want to be single and isolated from humanity physically.

  • @rashiemoedward360
    @rashiemoedward360 2 роки тому

    I don't think he answers the question and on a real she doesn't have to know.

  • @lovesme24
    @lovesme24 Рік тому

    He ain't answer her question she said how to get over a married man !

  • @miriama.percell572
    @miriama.percell572 6 років тому +15

    Perhaps this male therapist is in over drive because he is on TV. He i s coming off very harsh and judgemental.

  • @tyemnanyichristopher475
    @tyemnanyichristopher475 5 років тому

    I have this challenge also but lm starting a new chapter again. He is married but I found myself loving him.

  • @dragonfish888
    @dragonfish888 2 роки тому

    Jesus. The man on the sofa needs to STFU. He blamed the woman who called for advice on how to move on as she has feelings for a married man. She didn’t deserve the loaded guilt trip. The man is married. The woman is single. Woman always get blamed for the BS of men. Shame on missing an opportunity for woman to learn.

  • @indym375
    @indym375 6 років тому +3

    I would want to know if I was the wife

  • @vivalospepes1402
    @vivalospepes1402 6 років тому +4

    Mankind you don't have sex outside of marriage it's not part of God's plan. Either choose heaven or you're choosing hell

  • @indym375
    @indym375 5 років тому +3

    Smh I feel bad for the wife 💔 it just seem like the wife is always be the one who gets screwed 😧

    • @mineshukri3444
      @mineshukri3444 5 років тому +4

      Darling i been on the both on the stick women gets screwed no metter wich end your on men are terrible humans

  • @iknowwhatsup2880
    @iknowwhatsup2880 4 роки тому +1

    Walk away... nothing but pain if you don't. If you heard her at end before he answered, she said she's been a relationship for 3 yrs and just found out 3 mos ago. What a crappy foundation. Maybe the guy was a closet Muslim???

  • @aishacoco8902
    @aishacoco8902 5 років тому

    What show is this... I'm in New York city????

  • @lochan8180
    @lochan8180 2 роки тому +1

    "And I saw the dead, small and great, standing before God, and books were opened. And another book was opened, which is the Book of Life.
    And the dead were judged according to their works, by the things which were written in the books.
    The sea gave up the dead who were in it, and Death and Hades delivered up the dead who were in them. And they were judged, each one according to his works.
    Then Death and Hades were cast into the lake of fire. This is the second death. And anyone not found written in the Book of Life was cast into the lake of fire." (REVELATION 20:12-15)
    Today, while you are still alive and able, may you repent from your sins, believe in your heart and confess with your mouth that JESUS CHRIST is your Lord and Savior, so that through Him, your name will be written in the Book of Life.
    "For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever BELIEVES in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
    For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved." (JOHN 3:16-17)
    By God's GRACE, the gift of Salvation and Eternal Life is available to all. You can RECEIVE it. You can REJECT it. May you choose wisely. ✝️

  • @aa-dj9br
    @aa-dj9br 4 роки тому +1

    Too many nice cute rich single guys to be taken .. get them.

  • @cubbiesmith4505
    @cubbiesmith4505 6 років тому

    when is the wedding or ring of marriage.

  • @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique
    @Realtalknewyorkwithjanique 3 роки тому

    Wow he said the worst of the best and the best of the worst!

  • @NM0047
    @NM0047 4 роки тому

    Why can't the women share the man and have polygamous relationship? Polygyny to be specific. I mean some communities in the USA practice this and so do some people globally.

  • @ameliapariag1681
    @ameliapariag1681 8 років тому +1

    lovely ..........

    • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
      @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 роки тому

      👄👄💋💋🙋🙋💗💗❤❤💝💝💞💞💕💕😙😙😘😘😍😍💑💑👫👫👪👪💏💏🎄🎄🎁🎁🌹🌹🌷🌷🌷 i love you forever i like u u really

  • @shannonbrown560
    @shannonbrown560 2 роки тому

    I'm not a fan of this so called dr. man. He looks arrogant and he is very unkind to her. I think he is rude and insensitive. Poor lady!!

  • @mineshukri3444
    @mineshukri3444 5 років тому

    I disagree with the Male dr these men are so good i been in this situation he was such good liar i fell and i fell hard for him but i went cold Turkey to remove myself from him

  • @melwilliams1252
    @melwilliams1252 6 років тому

    Dr. Emily is fine!!!!

  • @MuhammadImran-ln4fz
    @MuhammadImran-ln4fz 4 роки тому

    I am single martiad looking right person one i am alone ❤💑😍

  • @janekamau7169
    @janekamau7169 3 роки тому

    And what about he marry yu as a SC wife 🤔

  • @elisheva.9554
    @elisheva.9554 8 років тому +1

    I think you kno it but your in denial!!!!!as women we kno!!!1

  • @chlariepeace6058
    @chlariepeace6058 6 років тому

    She looks a mass in the boots she is too far for them

  • @a.muchemi4360
    @a.muchemi4360 4 роки тому

    African we are advanced and polymous is acceptable. Some people are able to have two families and sustain two families without hidding. You western people u talk too much sometimes things are not all black or white. All about is egoistric, self centred etc. Long life our African culture ..........

    • @lovelove7103
      @lovelove7103 4 роки тому +1

      Yes and you must be Muslim too. Egoism and selfishness is you who wants to bake your cake and eat it. In the mean time your wives are behind closed doors voodooing each other to get your attention. Your children fighting for your wealth before your death. The fact that you can sustain a family has nothing to do with love. Buy boo.

    • @veeco4766
      @veeco4766 4 роки тому +2

      Can a African woman have more than one husband. African men want be self centered or their ego want come into play correct. Just like you expect women egos not to come into their husband having multiple wives