As someone who lived through an abusive relationship this is exactly what it feels like. One day they give you their whole world, they are perfect, and everything you could ever want. They give you all their attention. One day it changes. Suddenly they get super possessive, they start making it seem like everyone around you is a monster. Suddenly everything you do is wrong. Everything is up to them, you wouldn’t want to hurt him would you? I’ll do everything you want me too I could never hurt you. Even when you started to hit me, made me do all those shitty things to others, said all those things to me. How could you do that to me. You broke me, physically, emotionally. But why do I still want you? I miss you, because there were times where you showed me you still cared. Right? You still loved me right? I would take it all again if you just said you cared. How can I hate you? I needed you. No one else could ever want me again. You told me that yourself. You wanted me. That makes me happy. Just dont leave. Ill be all alone agian.
This feels like... when you had a crush on someone for over years, all you could think was them, finding their presence everywhere and every time. The time you confessed, was your breaking point, you expected a whole different reaction. instead you fell into the dept of rejection and neglect since that specific day. The times you endured seeing them together with someone else, hearing them talk about the same name over and over, you could do nothing but to support them, since you love them so... much. To the point it's unhealthy. You confronted them about the sudden... neglect. You stated to do anything just for them to accept you back, letting them hurt you so much again purposely just for them to acknowledge your presence. You want that healthy friendship to grow back, you missed it so much, you're desperate to do anything for it all to be back, back to how happy it was. You're willing to be wounded severely than to be left alone.
@@Unfriedmelanie Yo, I didn't expect people to actually see this comment. I feel like such a goober because almost everyone else in this comment section has some sort of sad story, and I'm just, like, a toxic shipper, lol
after the breakup, I felt how this song related to me. I was ready to endure everything from that person, as long as he didn’t leave and treated me as if he loved me. Now, trying to see myself in this song, I can’t. I no longer depend on that person and I'm glad I won't let him hurt me again.
I don't smoke Я не курю I don't smoke Я не курю, Except for when I'm missing you Только если не скучаю по тебе, To remember your mouth, how it И пытаюсь напомнить губам Tasted true Твой истинный вкус And I don't smoke И я не курю, Except for after I've held you, baby Только после того, как я обниму тебя, милый Being with you Рядом с тобой Makes the flame burn good Пламя зажигалки горит лучше So if you need to be mean Так что, если тебе нужно быть грубым, Be mean to me То будь груб со мной I can take it and put it inside of me Я могу принять и заложить это внутрь себя If your hands need to break Если твоей руке нужно сломать More than trinkets in your room Что-то большее, чем безделушки в твоей комнате, You can lean on my arm Можешь опереться на мою руку, As you break my heart Ведь так ты разобьешь мое сердце I'm what's left of when we Я - то, что осталось, после того, Swam under the moon Как мы плавали под луной Now the rest of my days are just Теперь остаток моих дней просто Waiting for when Дожидается момента, когда You come down and tell me Ты спустишься и скажешь мне, I was meant for you, baby Что я была предназначена для тебя, милый Being with you Рядом с тобой Makes the flame burn good Пламя зажигалки горит лучше If you need to be mean Так что, если тебе нужно быть грубым, Be mean to me То будь груб со мной I can take it and put it inside of me Я могу принять и заложить это внутрь себя If your hands need to break Если твоей руке нужно сломать More than trinkets in your room Что-то большее, чем безделушки в твоей комнате, You can lean on my arm Можешь опереться на мою руку, As you break my heart Ведь так ты разобьешь мое сердце Just don't leave me alone Просто не оставляй меня одну. Wondering where you are Интересно, где же ты? I am stronger than you give me Я сильнее, чем ты Credit for Думаешь. If your hands need to break Если твоей руке нужно сломать More than trinkets in your room Что-то большее, чем безделушки в твоей комнате, You can lean on my arm Можешь опереться на мою руку, As you break my heart Ведь так ты разобьешь мое сердце
My mum also takes her anger on me. She throws things at me and hits, slaps and pulls my hair even screams at me and im 13 she always says sorry but i think she hates me she calls me bad words too
@@MadelineMcAteer-vk7woI’m also 13 and I went through almost the same thing. My mom mentally tortured me ever since I turned 9 and had been physically violent since I was as little as I can remember. I had a variation of mental illnesses like depression and anxiety and my mom never believed me and pushed me down the stairs when I was having a panic attack. My dad didn’t engage in any of this but he was too scared to stand up to her but he got me therapy and I got tested and it was confirmed that I had depression, anxiety, adhd, and insomnia. Needless to say, I’ll never forgive her for the trauma she put me through and we barely look at each other anymore. I’m so sorry ml I hope it gets better for you sorry from trauma dumping 😭😭❤️
i dont think this song can be about just a breakup. i think this song represents the victim staying with the abuser because of their attachment issues. they still stay with the abuser because they don’t wanna be alone again.
i dont think this song can be about just a breakup. i think this song represents the victim staying with the abuser because of their attachment issues. they still stay with the abuser because they don’t wanna be alone again.
This song definitely gives abandonment issues to the point that you will let people hurt you just so they don’t leave
Ouch 💔
didnt have to call out like that damn
:(- erika
This shouldn’t hit home
lol mood 🙃
This definitely has the vibes of someone desperate for affection from the one they love, no matter the cost or toxicity involved
literally
It's me, hi, i'm the problem it's me
@@ralucasrm at tea time~
fr (love the ivan pfp)
@TLT0ast_ ty, I still haven't recovered from round 5 and I don't think I ever will :')
"If you need to be mean then be mean to me. I can take it and put it inside of me." is so relatable
Real I let my ex treat me how he wants as long as we never stop talking 🤦♀️
I wish I could give Mitski a hug
real
Honesty :/
Reminds me of the father of my children … “if you need to be mean be mean to me” I have never felt something more in my whole life
this breaks my heart for some reason. no matter if youre an infant, a mother or dead, you will still be propped up on a stage and made to perform.
"you can lean on my arm
as you break my heart"
"Just don't leave me alone, wondering where you are" and "If you need to be mean be mean to me" is genuinely hitting my mind too hard.
"I AM STRONGER THAN YOU GIVE ME CREDIT FOR"
Thank you for making Mitski lyrics videos😊💕💕
As someone who lived through an abusive relationship this is exactly what it feels like. One day they give you their whole world, they are perfect, and everything you could ever want. They give you all their attention. One day it changes. Suddenly they get super possessive, they start making it seem like everyone around you is a monster. Suddenly everything you do is wrong. Everything is up to them, you wouldn’t want to hurt him would you? I’ll do everything you want me too I could never hurt you. Even when you started to hit me, made me do all those shitty things to others, said all those things to me. How could you do that to me. You broke me, physically, emotionally. But why do I still want you? I miss you, because there were times where you showed me you still cared. Right? You still loved me right? I would take it all again if you just said you cared. How can I hate you? I needed you. No one else could ever want me again. You told me that yourself. You wanted me. That makes me happy. Just dont leave. Ill be all alone agian.
ill speak for myself but i'd say more gradual than "suddenly"
@@arminowo3885 it’s defiantly that way for most, in my experience it really was sudden :,
ofc mitski made this absolute banger
This feels like... when you had a crush on someone for over years, all you could think was them, finding their presence everywhere and every time.
The time you confessed, was your breaking point, you expected a whole different reaction. instead you fell into the dept of rejection and neglect since that specific day.
The times you endured seeing them together with someone else, hearing them talk about the same name over and over, you could do nothing but to support them, since you love them so... much.
To the point it's unhealthy.
You confronted them about the sudden... neglect. You stated to do anything just for them to accept you back, letting them hurt you so much again purposely just for them to acknowledge your presence.
You want that healthy friendship to grow back, you missed it so much, you're desperate to do anything for it all to be back, back to how happy it was.
You're willing to be wounded severely than to be left alone.
this song is like when you're still in love with your ex
it gives a “desperate for your love” vibe, like i need your love and attention so hurt me if you want i don’t care. just love me
being in a toxic relationship too aaa
Interesting username
💀💀
yeah..
It’s kinda giving in love with someone you can’t be with.
real.
I came here because I read an angsty radiostatic fanfiction inspired by this song, but I'm staying because it's an absolute banger
LMAO
@@Unfriedmelanie Yo, I didn't expect people to actually see this comment. I feel like such a goober because almost everyone else in this comment section has some sort of sad story, and I'm just, like, a toxic shipper, lol
@@SomedudeonUA-camB LMAOOO
@@Unfriedmelanie I love your profile picture, by the way. I'm absolutely in love with Vox
@@SomedudeonUA-camB FELTTT
mitski is a genuis.
1:52 - IF YOU NEED TO BE MEAN, BE MEAN TO MEE ‼️‼️
I CAN TAKE IT PUT INSIDE ME
2:17 - I CAN TAKE IT N PUT IT INSIDE OF ME 💔
@@love..edxitszzIF UR HANDS NEED TO BREAK MORE THAN TRINKETS IN UR ROOM U CAN LEAN ON MY ARM AS U BREAK MY HEART 💔🗣️
This song is the definition of a domestic violence or toxic relationship. Where your so scared to be without them
thank you for the lyrics!! ❤❤
Ty for the lyrics :)
i LOVE THIS SO MUCH LMS
This song definitely give me ‘ i jus wanna know the real you the lover boy baby’ type shi thoughts
“if you need to be mean be mean to me” i can relate to it as an older sister with bad parents
after the breakup, I felt how this song related to me. I was ready to endure everything from that person, as long as he didn’t leave and treated me as if he loved me.
Now, trying to see myself in this song, I can’t. I no longer depend on that person and I'm glad I won't let him hurt me again.
4rys later its still a good song
I love you mitski
literally
i like someone older by 3 years age gap... its so hard to get his attention:( this is his fav song all i can keep
I like someone older by a 4 years age gap, I get you
Iv listened to this song 7 times today its 9:30 in the morning-
“You can lean on my arm while you break my heart”
this is what it's like being hopelessly in love with someone forever that will never love you back again
i remember saying to the man i thought was my soulmate, before this song ever came out "you could beat me to a pulp and i'd still welcome you back"
I don't smoke
Я не курю
I don't smoke
Я не курю,
Except for when I'm missing you
Только если не скучаю по тебе,
To remember your mouth, how it
И пытаюсь напомнить губам
Tasted true
Твой истинный вкус
And I don't smoke
И я не курю,
Except for after I've held you, baby
Только после того, как я обниму тебя, милый
Being with you
Рядом с тобой
Makes the flame burn good
Пламя зажигалки горит лучше
So if you need to be mean
Так что, если тебе нужно быть грубым,
Be mean to me
То будь груб со мной
I can take it and put it inside of me
Я могу принять и заложить это внутрь себя
If your hands need to break
Если твоей руке нужно сломать
More than trinkets in your room
Что-то большее, чем безделушки в твоей комнате,
You can lean on my arm
Можешь опереться на мою руку,
As you break my heart
Ведь так ты разобьешь мое сердце
I'm what's left of when we
Я - то, что осталось, после того,
Swam under the moon
Как мы плавали под луной
Now the rest of my days are just
Теперь остаток моих дней просто
Waiting for when
Дожидается момента, когда
You come down and tell me
Ты спустишься и скажешь мне,
I was meant for you, baby
Что я была предназначена для тебя, милый
Being with you
Рядом с тобой
Makes the flame burn good
Пламя зажигалки горит лучше
If you need to be mean
Так что, если тебе нужно быть грубым,
Be mean to me
То будь груб со мной
I can take it and put it inside of me
Я могу принять и заложить это внутрь себя
If your hands need to break
Если твоей руке нужно сломать
More than trinkets in your room
Что-то большее, чем безделушки в твоей комнате,
You can lean on my arm
Можешь опереться на мою руку,
As you break my heart
Ведь так ты разобьешь мое сердце
Just don't leave me alone
Просто не оставляй меня одну.
Wondering where you are
Интересно, где же ты?
I am stronger than you give me
Я сильнее, чем ты
Credit for
Думаешь.
If your hands need to break
Если твоей руке нужно сломать
More than trinkets in your room
Что-то большее, чем безделушки в твоей комнате,
You can lean on my arm
Можешь опереться на мою руку,
As you break my heart
Ведь так ты разобьешь мое сердце
POV: Its such a banger you don't even think of the meaning.
This is how it feels to be with someone how doesn’t love you.(in my experience)
WHO*
smoking listening to this. realised if i know this shit y am i still like this.....i bet on losing dogs.
"If you need to be mean be mean to me "
1:25
Smoking while listening to this😓
1:32 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬 𝐩𝐚𝐫𝐭 𝐡𝐢𝐭𝐬 𝐬𝐨 𝐡𝐚𝐫𝐝
Just don't leave me alone wondering where you are 😔😔😔😔😔
I listened to this exact video 2 years ago with an image in my head now 2 years later I listened again with the same image in my head
I am mesmerized by this song!! What is it about it?!🤔
Sad to say I rather him hurt and be mean then leave
Your not alone I let him do unspeakable things to me
I AM STRONGER THAN YOU🗣️🗣️🔥🔥🔥
This hits different when your mentally abused and your mom takes out her anger on you 😀
1:52
My mum also takes her anger on me. She throws things at me and hits, slaps and pulls my hair even screams at me and im 13 she always says sorry but i think she hates me she calls me bad words too
@@MadelineMcAteer-vk7woI’m also 13 and I went through almost the same thing. My mom mentally tortured me ever since I turned 9 and had been physically violent since I was as little as I can remember. I had a variation of mental illnesses like depression and anxiety and my mom never believed me and pushed me down the stairs when I was having a panic attack. My dad didn’t engage in any of this but he was too scared to stand up to her but he got me therapy and I got tested and it was confirmed that I had depression, anxiety, adhd, and insomnia. Needless to say, I’ll never forgive her for the trauma she put me through and we barely look at each other anymore. I’m so sorry ml I hope it gets better for you sorry from trauma dumping 😭😭❤️
This song is like when u mom is mean to siblings so u stand up😪
If you need to be mean
be meant to me
Dont leave me alone 🌼
i dont think this song can be about just a breakup. i think this song represents the victim staying with the abuser because of their attachment issues. they still stay with the abuser because they don’t wanna be alone again.
Im such a terrible human being
Abusive relationships be like
Meow😣😣😣💗💗💗
This song gives me Blitzø and Stolas vibes
oh.
same my friend 😢
This song is so Charlotte Davis and Riley West core. (I know thats not his real name)
how it feels in ap chem
why is the guitar so loud? i can barely hear her singing
I think you need to get some better headphones bud
I AM STRONGER THAN YU GIVE ME CREDIT FOR.
Are the music and lyrics at different tempos?? They do not line up together at all
This is Izzy's song
💀💀
mood
Based fyodor pfp
mitski minha mae mae de todas as gays
I hate him
the guitar is so awful i literally cant..
“You can lean on my arm while you break my heart”
i dont think this song can be about just a breakup. i think this song represents the victim staying with the abuser because of their attachment issues. they still stay with the abuser because they don’t wanna be alone again.