I learned why my family ESCAPED Louisiana

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  • Опубліковано 27 вер 2024
  • #familyhistory #ancestry #findingyourroots #dna #louisiana #creole #nativeamerican #whitepassing #genealogy #passingforwhitedocumentary native ancestry dna test #1619 #1619project
    Episode 3 of "Finding Lola"
    Why was Lola passing for white in NY? Why was she so afraid to be a person of color in Louisiana? We went back to Louisiana to meet cousins for the first time, learn family history and find out just what Louisiana was like for people of color, and speak to NY family members about their birth certificate and DNA surprises.
    This is Episode 3 of "Finding Lola"
    Here is the four series playlist: • MY family story of "Wh...
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  • @nytn
    @nytn  Рік тому +39

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    • @Az-dc4nu
      @Az-dc4nu Рік тому +2

      How can I contact you offline?

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      @@Az-dc4nu you can find my e-mail on this page: www.youtube.com/@nytn/about

    • @anonymouslee8287
      @anonymouslee8287 Рік тому

      The first family... Disgraceful she screaming she's blk and he lost it...huh!!!..

    • @pierrerochon7271
      @pierrerochon7271 Рік тому +1

      KIWAN- interesting name - it is male or female? My point is we are an interesting AND UNIQUE culture - Are we a TOLERANT CULTURE? I WOULD WELCOME A Debate

    • @idcook
      @idcook 11 місяців тому +3

      @@anonymouslee8287 I believe that when he said he 'lost it' he meant that he broke into a fit of laughter! He didn’t feel shame that she’d yelled it out loud.

  • @kimberlylangston4595
    @kimberlylangston4595 Рік тому +482

    Y’all need to find the Creole black side of the family. They will tell you exactly what happened.

    • @nancybreaux9684
      @nancybreaux9684 Рік тому +38

      I hear that.

    • @thelmathomas9399
      @thelmathomas9399 Рік тому +160

      You can tell they still don't want completely face that part, they talking about being native Americans but Creole people are mostly black

    • @lanniebridges8743
      @lanniebridges8743 Рік тому +58

      I agree! Just talking to a local creole will tell you so much. LA is a melting pot. So much history there.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +49

      @@thelmathomas9399 This was only the first episode! I am still learning. Check out this video I just did on my african slave ancestors--it meant a lot to me. ua-cam.com/video/uAxyz0q0A4s/v-deo.html

    • @paisleyprincess7996
      @paisleyprincess7996 Рік тому +39

      The folks in LA are embracing their black heritage more than Lola’s family are

  • @darkwingduck8383
    @darkwingduck8383 Рік тому +155

    It’s so amazing how black these people look to me as a black woman im brown skinned but my mother and grandmother are whiter skinned than these white passing folks, my great-grandmother was definitely able to pass for white but she refused to. I’m so grateful for her pride, they would mark her baby’s birth certificate white and she would have them change it to colored. A definite act of courage in the early 1900’s

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +14

      Wow that is amazing to me. Im shocked every time someone of color can see the heritage in my family. I just had no idea

    • @theresacolton644
      @theresacolton644 Рік тому +34

      See I told you in a comment above. Lol! Black folks know their people no matter how racially ambiguous you present. 😂 Welcome to the fam!

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +8

      @@theresacolton644 I love it!!

    • @SassyViolette
      @SassyViolette Рік тому

      My family as well

    • @tmc1373
      @tmc1373 Рік тому +8

      @@nytn Watch the movie "Imitation of Life".

  • @mollycakes7080
    @mollycakes7080 Рік тому +326

    It almost sounds like a horror movie. This made me feel sad 😔. To be hunted down and punished for your race is disgraceful and horrifying.

    • @heatheryearwood9199
      @heatheryearwood9199 Рік тому +3

      No wonder aliens fly by...coz we are green 😀 😎

    • @chebochebo3058
      @chebochebo3058 Рік тому +9

      It is a horror

    • @klai655
      @klai655 Рік тому +3

      Right. Very sad.

    • @traeucity6087
      @traeucity6087 Рік тому +49

      That 'horror movie' was real life to millions of my People, who could not hide behind the camouflage of light skin and wavy hair. I hope you also feel sadness for those who could not blend in with the 'hunters'; and not just those who were able to pass for White, while other Black people were humiliated, terrorized and brutalized.

    • @Mochaahantass
      @Mochaahantass Рік тому

      What makes this story horrible?

  • @TheMekaboo1
    @TheMekaboo1 Рік тому +171

    I’ve watched the past two episodes and the family keeps saying Lola was Native American not mentioning the other half of African. It seems it’s also hard for the family to attach to😢. I could not imagine the pain and fear she felt in those times.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +75

      It is really complicated- my family only just found out about the African. I’m going to do a video about my African ancestors- I found the slave records.

    • @deuntegalloway2025
      @deuntegalloway2025 Рік тому +2

      If she was so called native American, she was American Indian. What we call black people. Native Americans are white people. Any foreigner that's born in America is native to these lands.

    • @LM-ki5ll
      @LM-ki5ll Рік тому +48

      Many old Creole families are like that. The truth is, these folks is Cane River Creoles who were mulattos that long ago intermarried with Lipan Apache called Canneci and later there were intermarriages between the Clifton Choctaw who themselves were already mixed race. The goal of many mixed race communities is to become a tribe with state or federal recognition.
      The reality is the Houma, Chitimacha, Choctaw-Apache, Tunica Biloxi and even the Clifton Band of Choctaw all descend from mixed race black-native (griffe savauge) white-native (metis), white-black (milat) and black-white-native (coyote) peoples. They all pretty much ignore the african because they all know that after the civil war that was the lowest position one could be socially.

    • @mikeaskme3530
      @mikeaskme3530 Рік тому +15

      @The Mekaboo1 its called the Cherokee Princess syndrome, its the same thing with a lot of African Americans, willing to admit everything anything but to admit that you "white" European DNA is a fate closer to death than anything and please dont let anyone tell you different. Its just in reverse, " I got my dark skin from my Cherokee grandmother and so on and so on.

    • @mikeaskme3530
      @mikeaskme3530 Рік тому +5

      @@LM-ki5ll if that explination gets you through the day and night you go with it, I call it the Cherokee Princess syndrome, nothing more and its okay African Americans do it as well, admit to everything but the truth, they have African DNA in them and recent DNA added to the genes.

  • @candacepearson4356
    @candacepearson4356 Рік тому +135

    I'm from Natchitoches Louisiana. Glad they are talking about the realities of the south and how things were back then during those times. My family went through these things as well.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +14

      Candace, I love that you are from there. I hope you will stay around because I really love hearing from family who is still there and can share what they heard or saw.

    • @kaisha915
      @kaisha915 Рік тому +19

      We struggled in Natchitoches, Monroe, Alexandria, and Winnfield even now. I've only been to visit those places, we're from Lafayette, LA. My husband's family r made up of Mulatto and Octroon Creoles. My MIL could "pass". Historically, there was a lot of "mixing" with Quadroon balls and such. The "Cajuns" in Lafayette r very olive toned which is a strong indication there has been African, Native American, or Spanish ancestry. All of these people look like POC to me. I know our people when I see them. They could hide their ancestry in place where fair skinned Creoles aren't prevalent.

    • @lindamaemullins5151
      @lindamaemullins5151 Рік тому +1

    • @quinnbat
      @quinnbat Рік тому +1

      God Bless You!!

    • @fabiolabrillhart5592
      @fabiolabrillhart5592 Рік тому +3

      Melrose!

  • @christinegardner8829
    @christinegardner8829 Рік тому +64

    My heart goes out to Frank. His emotions and pain for simply being who he was born to be is heartfelt. 🕊️

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +8

      It was an honor to meet him and learn more about my family who stayed.

    • @eatcreolesoul
      @eatcreolesoul Рік тому +4

      I agree, I want to give him a great big hug and say it's ok. We love ya!

  • @careysmith6781
    @careysmith6781 Рік тому +149

    I'm on the edge of my seat the whole time I watch this. You're doing so much to heal so many of us who cannot make the trip home to uncover our family stories and secrets. Thank you for such a beautiful offering.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +21

      This is one of the most incredible things anyone has said to me on this journey. THANK YOU a million times over for reaching out to tell me. Im so thankful to have you with me on the journey. I hope you will stay for the last episode:)

    • @sweettreatsoverload4296
      @sweettreatsoverload4296 Рік тому +10

      I'm Creole from my dad side. But we own our ancestry as black

    • @Nickie870
      @Nickie870 Рік тому +6

      @@nytn this definitely is healing so many of black families this is part of their story how we have gotten separated .

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +7

      @@Nickie870 oh my gosh this gave me goosebumps. I want that healing for all of us so badly. We have been separated and many of us not even knowing it...

    • @kimlegaux3555
      @kimlegaux3555 Рік тому +2

      I'm born, raised and still live in New Orleans, La. I find out something new about my family everyday. I'm on ancestry dna and 23 and me plus all social media. You or anyone else ever needs help finding info from down here, feel free to reach out.

  • @happygrandma4ruthP
    @happygrandma4ruthP Рік тому +60

    This reminds me of the 1st time I saw my Dad's mom. I was 6 yrs old but it's something I've never forgotten. We went to Georgia for me to see his family. To my surprise out of the house came white looking people. I asked him how do you have a white mother but you're colored. My grandmother said I'm not white baby I'm Cherokee and Irish 👀👀👀
    My Dad had a white sister, a red sister and a dark brown sister. I had never seen the so many mixed colored people in one family until I got much older.🙏🏿

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +10

      I love this story- “to my surprise”! Pretty much sums it all up

    • @sammiegalati1990
      @sammiegalati1990 Рік тому +1

      Che bello!

    • @lindabrown0
      @lindabrown0 11 місяців тому +2

      You should see some of our Jamaican families. All the colours of the rainbow. Different eye shapes, hair textures etc. "Out of many, one people". Jamaicans.

    • @eggshell99
      @eggshell99 11 місяців тому +2

      Same with my family in Georgia. My mom remembers going to “white” relatives homes and “white” relatives visiting her grandmother who could have passed for a “white “ woman. Race in America is something else!

    • @louisianacookingwithkay
      @louisianacookingwithkay 2 місяці тому

      ​@@lindabrown0
      Yep!! Those DAMN colonizers made their way round there too on their damn boats. 😡

  • @robinmccoy6149
    @robinmccoy6149 Рік тому +61

    They were doing something called "passing". Some of my family did it too. They moved away to separate from us until they were eventually found out.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +4

      exactly!! did you see episode 1 yet? and where was your family from originally? ua-cam.com/video/SQp7jeNp_yg/v-deo.html

    • @JanSHarrison
      @JanSHarrison Рік тому +1

      Passé blanc

    • @pierrerochon7271
      @pierrerochon7271 Рік тому

      Found out? Are u upset at what they did?

    • @robinmccoy6149
      @robinmccoy6149 Рік тому +8

      @@pierrerochon7271 No, I am not upset they did. I am sorry, however, that we did not have the opportunity to know them growing up. They are great people, and it's a shame that they had to mislead both communities just to have an opportunity to earn a decent living.

    • @louisianacookingwithkay
      @louisianacookingwithkay 2 місяці тому

      That's sad 🙄

  • @troysparks3772
    @troysparks3772 Рік тому +76

    The people that need to see this,probably will never hear this. I think the music,the pictures,and the production on this video is perfection. Whoever made this is very talented,and did an awesome job. This needs to be made into a movie,so that more people might see it. I know it would win awards for all kinds of categories. It’s pretty much a movie, but the big screen needs this because love is disappearing. God is love,and we need to love each other like family. After seeing this,I realized we’re really all one big family. We really are,and if you watch this you’ll know it. I can’t wait for love to return. I miss Him. Peace out

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +13

      We are all Gods children. Thank you for your kind words. This was a project I have wanted to do for years. A true labor of love for my heart- and I’m just starting my journey!! I hope you will stay around:)

    • @BeachCityBaby
      @BeachCityBaby Рік тому +11

      This definitely should be a movie!!!! I want to show the world! My great grandmother was the same way. I found out digging to put a family tree together. Saw the old census reports etc. At 104 she still says she is a white women. Though DNA says other wise. I feel so hurt that they had to go through that.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +5

      @@BeachCityBaby Wow, amazing that we can share that story. Please stay for awhile! Im ready to do some deep dives on finding our lost ancestry and how to even start that...

    • @sweetumsDenise
      @sweetumsDenise Рік тому +1

      @@BeachCityBaby I wonder how she would respond watching this

  • @kenmcdaniel6913
    @kenmcdaniel6913 Рік тому +25

    I am 66 years old and was born in AR. My original birth certificate which I kept a copy of has for race "colored". I made sure my children saw it. So yes it was a thing!!!!! This country!!!!

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +2

      Ken- thank you for sharing that!! I’m amazed and shocked by what was happening and not long ago…. Glad you are here:)

    • @sherryjennings9542
      @sherryjennings9542 Рік тому

      I was born in1962 mines say colored

  • @mostofus99
    @mostofus99 Рік тому +83

    This is a VERY common story in Louisiana. Lots of branches of families were lost to passing.

    • @CopperJedi
      @CopperJedi Рік тому +7

      Is actually common throughout the states in general

  • @theogstasimay
    @theogstasimay Рік тому +42

    I am Creole. My grandparents and many generations were native to Louisiana. Many of my relatives passed to have a better chance at living a “good” life. In the end, hiding and lying wore many relatives into a hell that had no escape. Always afraid of what the kid might look like, running into someone from the past. It wasn’t so good, after all. Not to mention, it keeps the family in emotional turmoil and prejudice against your own people.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +4

      Yes, 100%! I didnt realize the generational issues this caused in my family because of it, we couldnt pinpoint it. Now I understand the origin story for lots of things.

    • @pierrerochon7271
      @pierrerochon7271 Рік тому

      I am creole - sorry u feel that way- I have blond hair- I DO NOT CARE WHAT PEOPLE THINK -Notice all those black men with white women - hell the entire NBA has mixed race players. I also have blue eyes and six feet three inches tall. I speak French, Italian, and Spanish- I travel internationally - depending on where the money is- I am whatever. I have been deleted on UA-cam before for expressing this- so let's see if they do it again. - haha. No one wants to admit it- when sistas go for the dollas- and leave a good man. Say theyI won't settle.
      Haters do not bother me - I have spent all of my life since grade school fighting with guest who? So I took karate to defend myself - haha. I am not attracted to white women per se- but if they can help with my finances become friends - assist get me a JOB with a career- I am -NOT TAKING MONEY OUT OF MY LIFESTYLE - FOR SOMEONE I DO NOT KNOW - To FEEL COMFORTABLE and still caca on me.
      MARRIED MY FIRST LOVE- A DARK SKINNED SISTA- FAMILY NEVER ACCEPTED ME- ALTHOUGH I TREATED HER LIKE A QUEEEN-- At 21- in law school- full Academic ride- killing it-
      help her get her master's - activist in a southern city- risking my life - she left me for a darker brother because - SHE DID WANT TO make the temporary sacrifices- He had more money- and tried to make me the problem- that. I was too driven at 23 years old. Her immediate family did not come to the wedding. Only her cousins from out of state and country.
      I shared with that our marriage was just COLLATERAL DAMAGE- over the years - I have contributed my time and money in the black community for various causes- I have been incareted
      like my dad and brothers in Ala. Miss and Georgia for restoring voting rights and a long list of other legal grievances. On both of my parents' sides of the family - We have a long history dating back many years- my father and uncle marched on Washington. I am currently associated with two organizations - Feeding America and Innocence Project .

    • @pierrerochon7271
      @pierrerochon7271 Рік тому

      You tube lined out my comment regarding my physical presence and describing the NBA players and celebs with so many white women and creoles- check it out. What about sisters with long extensions? Telling me u think u are white because u have good hair. I think it is a contradiction when so many black men want white women and creole women and HATE ON ME- HEHE. IN HIGH SCHOOL GUYS JUMPED ME AND THEN TRIED TO VIST MY SISTERS AT HOME- I BLOCKED THEM HE-HE. THEY JUMPED ME THE NEXT DAY- I SAID IF YOU MARRY MY SISTER- YOUR KIDS WILL LOOK MORE LIKE ME- THEN WHAT? Fry other fish- we have many other battles. Is trump behind this- haha
      How u going to treat your son when he bonds with his uncle???- HAHA Point is- Let us get pass this BS- this discussion is instigated by UA-cam for controversy- they go low - I go high. I GET mine- and I GIVE BACK. There are NO Koreans, Iranians, Armenians in the job lines. Caribbeans- LOAN MONEY TO EACH OTHER- AFRICANS living here don't get it.

    • @AmandaCC88
      @AmandaCC88 5 місяців тому

      I just watched Devil in a Blue Dress and it’s this exact story. I’m so intrigued as a Black British-Jamaican woman living in the states.

  • @OreliaLatrice
    @OreliaLatrice Рік тому +29

    Wow. This happens a lot in history, including my own. I’m intrigued… I had to go ahead & subscribe. 😊 I am African-American & Blackfoot Indian. The historians in my family went all the way back to the early 1800s. A lot of my family looks very white to very dark and tall. A lot of the family that are fair skinned have very red hair & blue eyes. A lot of people confuse me with being Dominican or something like it. Myself & my family just call ourselves black, when people ask about our ancestry. I don’t mention my true identity roots often because when I’ve mentioned it before, people would get offended & try to get me to answer their questions…doubting me or trying to get me to doubt myself. Like there is no way that I can look like this AND be Indian too. 😂 I totally understand Lola. She had to do what she had to do to survive. Much love to you & your family. ❤

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +6

      Oh my gosh, Orelia, your story! I am so glad you shared this. People need to read things like this--no one should be afraid to tell who they are because someone else is not educated enough to realized people can be MANY things at once. I am hoping to do some deep dives into the genealogy side as well--how can we even start finding out ancestors when they didnt want to be found? Its not easy but it can usually still be done. Thank you for sharing that.

    • @OreliaLatrice
      @OreliaLatrice Рік тому +2

      @@nytn You’re welcome. It really is a lot. Yes, they did not want to be found but it definitely can be done. There are so many resources out there. I’m excited to see what else you find out. No matter what, it’s always great to learn & know the truth. Very liberating & freeing. 🙂

    • @OreliaLatrice
      @OreliaLatrice Рік тому +3

      @@tamarastone141 Yes, I totally understand the confusion. Yes, there were and still are Blackfoot Indians. 🙂My grandmother was from Mississippi as well & later migrated to Ohio for work & better opportunities. That is the uniqueness of Indians… we are everywhere because of the darkness of history & our need to survive. So yes, I believe your family is correct. In history records, a lot of times instead of listing someone as Indian they would list them as mulatto or negro depending on the skin tone.. sad but true… hence erasing some true history, causing the confusion. I totally get it. ❤️

    • @OreliaLatrice
      @OreliaLatrice Рік тому +1

      @@tamarastone141 Yes, for sure. You’re welcome. It’s important to know. Also, Ancestry offers their history experts to assist in the search of your family history, if you get stuck… it’s a little pricey but well worth it. How exciting!

    • @yellag3096
      @yellag3096 Рік тому +3

      Same here my great great made sure we never forget we are blackfoot from Montana. And she lived in Louisiana

  • @vinny160
    @vinny160 Рік тому +44

    My mother was half cajun/ half Sicilian from South Louisiana. My dad's job took us abroad for decades. Folks always asked her if she was Syrian...her dark eyes, dark hair, and dark skin. She loved to tan....and damn she got dark. My grandfather always said that both he and my grandmother "had dark folks in their past." Ironically, both families arrived in New York around the same time...moved to New Orleans...before settling in Morgan City. I celebrate the multiculturalism of my DNA!!!

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +3

      Beautiful heritage! My dads side is Italian/Sicilian

    • @marielaveau5321
      @marielaveau5321 Рік тому +2

      I spent time in Morgan City back in the early/mid 90's with the Murr family. Some great people in that area, I have a LOT of family still in south LA. My heritage is a lot of French and Sardinian. ✌️

  • @ahem....bullsheet3720
    @ahem....bullsheet3720 Рік тому +22

    I recently got my DNA test results and found out that someone must have passed as well because I have English, Scandinavian, native American, Asian, Papuan, Scottish , and African that goes from greatest to least. However when I go back and look at census records everyone is marked as white but I knew better because my papaw doesn't look white and neither does some of my uncle's and aunts. Then I look back to my great great great grandma and great grandma on my paternal papaw's side and she didn't look white much at all but was married to a white man so I believe they were the ones who were passing.

  • @s.holmes613
    @s.holmes613 Рік тому +16

    This is one of the main reasons why I don’t get to much into claiming certain things of the past. You never know who is in your blood line and who isn’t.

    • @eggshell99
      @eggshell99 11 місяців тому

      And who are you🙄

  • @cbliss
    @cbliss Рік тому +28

    My heart goes out to Lola's family that had to deal with the discrimination. I remember in the 60s when kids were bussed but I never really understood til I was in high school. As my family members married into Tribal communities I learned first hand of the hardships they endured. This is in Oregon.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +6

      So much pain in so many communities. I hope to honor the things our family and many family's experienced now that we have the freedom to do that

    • @mymia731
      @mymia731 Рік тому

      Hi Cathy, do you know that the original state constitution of Oregon prohibited Black Americans from living in the state?
      All states throughout the USA have racist histories. Every European nation has a racist history. Asia is racist and the beat goes on.
      No one is without fault in this us vs. them idea of race and supremacy.

  • @PrestonMyer
    @PrestonMyer Рік тому +53

    This is such a uniquely beautiful and emotional documentary. I feel so connected to this story because my family has similar stories in it. It almost feels like I'm hearing from the perspective of relatives that I've never met before. You've really inspired me to keep exploring my own family's history and the shared history of Louisiana. Thank you for telling your story 💙❤

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +9

      Preston- thank you so so much for connecting with me on here. There is something really special about finding other people with mixed Louisiana roots and talking together about it. Something you know our families never did. Yes, keep digging into all the big stories in your family, And please hang around!

    • @sammiegalati1990
      @sammiegalati1990 Рік тому +2

      Same. I have always identified as white. I am sitting here staring at an old photo of my maternal Grandmother who was Creole and Siksika Blackfoot Indian. She also did her best to hide her colorful ancestry. I loved her so much and miss her very much. She was an incredible woman.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +4

      @@sammiegalati1990 wow. This is so beautiful. I hope you stay around, Im ready to start having these conversations about reconnecting and reclaiming

    • @sammiegalati1990
      @sammiegalati1990 Рік тому +1

      @@nytn I just subscribed. Hearts that beat to the tune of kindness can change the rythym of the world. -Peterson♥

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      @@sammiegalati1990 A kindred for sure!

  • @Shng275
    @Shng275 Рік тому +22

    That sun comment was said quite often to us growing up. We're from Shreveport, by the way. Now granted, I was chocolate brown but my late twin sister was light bright practically White. She's what we called a redbone or high yellow. Now we weren't Biracial mixed, but both of our grandmothers were. Funny thing about that too was, one grandmother was chocolate brown like myself but she had blue eyes and long curly hair. Our other grandmother, however, was very fair skinned. She was very racially ambiguous in her younger years, but she lived her life as a Black woman. Proud one at that. Sadly, both of my late grandmothers shared a similar history. A dark family secret was their conception wasn't consensual. My mother's mother, the one that's dark w/ blue eyes, her "father" r@ped her mother when she was only 14. Sadly, they never got justice seeing as how it was the 1920s Louisiana.😔 He died from an OD before my grandmother was born, so there's that. I don't know the full story about my other grandmother's conception but I remember them having a similar story. May they all rest in paradise.🙏🏿

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +3

      That sun comment just haunts me. And so many secrets in the past. I hope you are finding healing for your. family and I am so glad you are here!

    • @anonymouslee8287
      @anonymouslee8287 Рік тому

      So he was white if she came with blue eyes!?..

    • @Shng275
      @Shng275 Рік тому +3

      @@anonymouslee8287 Yes, he was a YT man. Thought that was obvious. Louisiana in the 1920s was very, very r@cist against Black ppl.

  • @lorebay2593
    @lorebay2593 Рік тому +24

    It was fearful, no one wanted the secret out, my parents being born in Mississippi knew about this, my mother had 1st cousins who were passin, they called it. When any family visited, they had to go to the side door like the help. It was so dangerous the relatives knew how serious this was and complied.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +2

      Oh my goodness this is heartbreaking

    • @Mochaahantass
      @Mochaahantass Рік тому +6

      I have heard of things like this. Could you imagine what many black families have gone through??

    • @sweetumsDenise
      @sweetumsDenise Рік тому +4

      If you haven’t, you should watch the recently released movie, The Jazzman’s Blues. It surrounds a woman passing and the intricacies of her relationship with her mother (desperately holding onto passing) and her black, dark skinned community members.
      Tyler Perry said it was one of the first stories he wrote. I really liked the movie and I’m not really a big fan of his Madea stuff, this is nothing like those.

    • @MayMay-el4wg
      @MayMay-el4wg Рік тому

      @@sweetumsDenise Tyler Perry comes from the 7th Ward in New Orleans. It was historically the home parish for Creoles.

    • @anonymouslee8287
      @anonymouslee8287 Рік тому

      @@sweetumsDenise Yeah and the passing slap the bw, and good she slap her back into her place!...Great movie!!!...

  • @karlbarnes162
    @karlbarnes162 Рік тому +5

    Wow, this is like telling my mother 's life story. She and her family were ran out of New Orleans when she was 7 yrs old by the KKK, and relocated in Philadelphia. I fly to New Orleans tomorrow with hopes of discovering family...the whole story... something. Your series has been very inspiring. Stay on the Path. Be well! 🙏🏾🗝️

  • @jp-uno
    @jp-uno Рік тому +13

    It's the story of my ancestry as a Black America. Yes this type of stuff happened here in our great land. It should be mandatory for it to be taught just as much as the good things

  • @OloRishaCreole504
    @OloRishaCreole504 Рік тому +14

    Yes I can feel the pain, my family are and still in Natchitoches and Cane River, We were documented since late 1700s.Im like the fam historian in a way because I try and keep up with everything.I use to hear stories about those days of my Great and 2x Greats. Some family changed letters in surname or disowned because you decided to marry outside your culture.I even grew up around the family and going out to the country not realizing..it was Native land..not federal but state recognized as a tribe
    .CLIFTON CHOCTAW but noone talks about the heritage and lost traditions

  • @bigdawg2310
    @bigdawg2310 Рік тому +11

    I live in new Orleans and at one time if you wasn't lighter than a brown paper bag you couldn't go in certain areas or clubs. Posse Blanc is what we called them

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      I only learned about it this summer- and for sure if didn’t use sunscreen in the summer I wouldn’t be allowed in. That is really messing me up to think about as a obviously white person. 😳

  • @docdoctme
    @docdoctme Рік тому +14

    I would love to hear what will be the legacy you will tell your children. Looking at the past, you see there has been trauma inflicted that still carries to 2022. Thank you for these episodes.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +8

      I’m so glad you are here and watching. I’m going to make a video on that. I have three little kids and so far I’ve told them everything I’ve learned. It’s really time to break the cycle

  • @ajalicea1091
    @ajalicea1091 Рік тому +7

    My paternal family was Swedish and Cherokee. When the Trail of Tears happened the 3 Swedish brothers separated.
    1. Took his Cherokee wife to the Washington Oregon area and claimed her as a Spanish woman.
    2. Went with his wife's family on the Trail of Tears to Oklahoma.
    3. The last one and his wife and her clan were a part of the group that hid in the hills.
    For the longest time we did not know that there was a third brother due to the fact the other two brothers were very angry that he took his wife out west to the Washington Oregon area.
    Back before we had internet like we do now my brother sent out invitations for a nationwide family reunion.
    It was held at a State Park in Illinois as a central location and we had family members from all over the states. It was so neat to learn that we had another line to our family. And some of the stories that they told were wonderful.
    So the story telling tradition of the Cherokees and the Swedes was passed down.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      This story is amazing!! I love that you have this information. The family reunion is something I would love to do.

    • @ajalicea1091
      @ajalicea1091 Рік тому +1

      @@nytn it took ALOT of postage stamps and letter writing. RSVP of course.
      It took my brother and family a year to coordinate. I live on the east coast. They live in central part of the country.
      They decided on a long weekend to make it easier for those who would travel. Then reserved the kitchen/dining room at the state park. From there my brother gathered all of the addresses across the country.
      It was a very enjoyable time. With everyone exchanging their stories and leaving family tree information.

  • @anndeecosita3586
    @anndeecosita3586 Рік тому +13

    So you know being “Creole” doesn’t necessarily mean someone is of any particular race or multi racial. When the French and Spanish came over they called anyone born in Colonial Louisiana as Creole. I know people in Louisiana who are completely European and are Creoles. That’s why you’ll hear the term Creoles of Color. The word is criollo in Spanish.

  • @jaiyabyrd4177
    @jaiyabyrd4177 Рік тому +10

    This is an absolutely phenomenal video documentary.
    This is also heart wrenching, especially the story of Ozan.
    Thank you.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +3

      I am so honored to have you on the journey with me. Thank you so very much for watching and leaving a message. The Ozan story was hard-- especially once I put the pieces together about when my family must have left their hometown based on the census records.

  • @incognitocreek1633
    @incognitocreek1633 Рік тому +7

    What a beautiful piece of work you've presented with your family journey! Creole is special and Lola engendered an amazing family. God bless you all.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      Thank you so much!

    • @nancybreaux9684
      @nancybreaux9684 Рік тому

      What's special about it?

    • @incognitocreek1633
      @incognitocreek1633 Рік тому +1

      @@nancybreaux9684 the Creole people of Louisiana are a unique blend of the several original cultures who settled Louisiana. They were yes, French, yes Spanish, yes, Indian, and some African or a combination of these. These were the original colonists of Catholics in the Louisiana territory who lived graciously with their faith and close family unity. They lived among the European settlers but separately as their own unique people. They had their own blended culture. There was an established heirarchy of which ethnic background held a higher place. Obviously the French did and the European. It was the primary language and much of the French customs were practiced. One such was for women to shun too much exposure to the sun. It was a beauty thing to protect the skin and common among French women. The Creole of Louisiana were good and decent yet kept to themselves while living among ?mostly French,Spanish,Indians and Africans. In this they were special. All groups èxperienced some kind of persecution at different periods. Some greater than others . The Europeans even vied among themselves for superior status. Many mingled eventually by international marriages. The true French and the Cajun French were two different groups sharing a national heritage, it was argued among them who were superior in culture and education.
      So the Creole of that period in Louisiana survived by their isolation and keeping to themselves. Land was always a desirable prize. Most of Louisiana was originally gained by land grant from the government in power. Creole are unique!

  • @geinikan1kan
    @geinikan1kan Рік тому +3

    I just want to say this is an exceptional video essay. You mother’s story, your whole family’s story is so touching. Thank you for sharing on UA-cam.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +2

      I appreciate this so much. I think this is my favorite episode-- I spent a lot of time with it, and I hope it continues to speak on behalf of our ancestors. Thank you for being here :)

  • @gwendolynestrada3017
    @gwendolynestrada3017 Рік тому +16

    When you find who Lola's parents were, you will have all of the answers. One of Lola,'s parents was black. One of her male relatives said he did DNA and he said there results showed he was 10% black. Lola kept it quiet of her parents ethnicity.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +9

      Exactly right. I did end up finding them! Her dad was mostly black (with slave roots that I was able to somewhat trace) and her moms family were Indians that came through the Spanish missions. My moms cousins test was 10% black give or take so that would make Lola his grandma about half

    • @bettythompson7177
      @bettythompson7177 Рік тому +8

      @@nytn celebrate all that’s in you! Embrace your beautiful heritage’s! Be proud of who you are, and make a point of getting to know all of your family! God Bless

  • @tonimonteith8125
    @tonimonteith8125 Рік тому +5

    What a great story, let it be told loud and clear. Be proud of your heritage, you are who you are. God Bless you all.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      Thank you so much!

  • @speerrituall1
    @speerrituall1 Рік тому +6

    My father was a dark skinned black man from Louisiana, creole. He always told me that there was nothing for a dark skinned black man in Louisiana.

    • @lonniekilling
      @lonniekilling Рік тому +2

      Not true! At once upon a time, Blacks owned 2/3 of the swamp land in Louisiana,, Not only that, Black men cultivate the Land and develop most of roadways people drive on to this day.

    • @thelastpityparty4425
      @thelastpityparty4425 5 місяців тому

      Sounds like he created his destiny

  • @estelleroebuck5842
    @estelleroebuck5842 Рік тому +7

    I do ancestry research. My ancestors are Cherokee and my husband's ancestors are Choctaw. My husband's ancestors owned a plantation with slaves. With Native ancestry the census will state Native. Any time an African American had Native ancestors it was usually never recognized by the tribe. My husband's family had children with their slaves who became property. Not family. My husband is related to the Beams. Researching that family and how they sold their free siblings into slavery for being half black is eye opening. My father in-law is a quarter Native and disowned my family for having a black grandchild. Not much has changed to this day.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +2

      Estelle that’s so interesting! I had difficulty with the native on the census records. I don’t even think some of that side WAS censused because they weren’t living in a US “state”. My friend helped me locate Lola’s grandmother and she seemed to be in New Mexico territory I remember. We did find missions records though for baptisms.
      That story you shared was devastating. I wouldn’t believe it if I hadn’t started finding similar ones. I’m so glad you’re here with expertise!

    • @raamyasharahla535
      @raamyasharahla535 Рік тому +1

      Sick!!! Hell awaits them. They don’t have to worry about the Sun!

  • @aliciacarter2443
    @aliciacarter2443 Рік тому +6

    My GG grandparents were m#rdered in a similar fashion, because they would not sell their land. my ancestors story sounds so much like yours. Thank you for documenting your journey you give me the strength to continue mines

  • @usedtobeblue2
    @usedtobeblue2 Рік тому +6

    So interesting. Genealogy can be a fascinating journey. I wish you well. Stay encouraged.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      Appreciate this kindness so much!

  • @KnockOutCutie
    @KnockOutCutie Рік тому +5

    This is quite the interesting family tale. I’ve enjoyed watching your journey. Overall I must say as an African American and proud, I’m glad I don’t have such issues that mixed ppl deal with. I could never imagine having to choose. Never had the option to choose an perceived easier life, but good for you for uncovering YOUR truth. As well as valuing it because you definitely phenotypically carry all your lineage from black, Italian, French, native, etc. You know I wonder what toll it took on them mentally… did they cry at night to themselves knowing they were living a “lie” … leaving all they ever knew behind just to survive .. whew Lord bless their souls

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      I agree, thinking about how hard it must have been is hard. I dont think people choose that on a whim. I think part of it for Lola was being in NY as a widow with 8 mixed kids. Sometimes it doesnt seem like it's really my family story, it's so different than what we were told. I really appreciated your comment.

  • @vfry7896
    @vfry7896 Рік тому +5

    One thing about most American Creoles are that they are able to pass. Some of us are not, I came from a family of that mixture. Needless to say, I can see how complicated it could have been. My grandparents spoke of relatives who decided to disassociate completely years ago due to their skin advantage versus their other relatives. Interesting history, but true facts. I love my family but this is a part of it. I commend you for paying homage to our heritage ✌️❤️❤️🥰# Creole southern love

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for sharing this-- I am so proud of the heritage that we almost lost and I am determined to reconnect to this. Hope you stick around!

  • @alisaaustin8431
    @alisaaustin8431 Рік тому +26

    This is great that you are doing this. I have a similar family story, but mine is in the 19th century. I discovered my Mary Jane in southern Missouri and on the census as listed as mulatto and being born in Kentucky. Her children were also mulatto. My mother's DNA tests showed a lot of Spanish and roots in Benin/Togo area. Also Moroccan. I figured Mary Jane's mother went from Missouri to Kentucky during the New Madrid quake. Mary Jane named a daughter, Louisiana, and a son, Hatteras. I discovered that there was an Indian tribe on the east coast by that name. Was she leaving hints for descendants? The Hatteras tribe joined into the Croatoan that later became Lumbee. I am thinking she had Melungeon roots (similar to Creole, but Spanish not French). I was teased and bullied as a kid for being too white so I felt like I might have had a kindred spirit with Mary Jane. Unfortunately, I don't have her maiden name. She took my great-great grandfather's surname even though they were not married because of the Missouri laws. I did come across her in a small history book saying she was negro, but her death certificate showed her as white. I hope you find closure with this.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +3

      Alisa thank you so much for sharing!! I hope you stay for future videos- there’s so much more to talk about.

    • @bnboerne
      @bnboerne Рік тому

      I have a Mary Jane on my mom's side. There is not a list name listed. But it says "Aunt Teen"
      Do you think that's her?

    • @alisaaustin8431
      @alisaaustin8431 Рік тому +1

      @@bnboerne Sorry, I have no idea. Mary Jane was a common name in the 19th century.

  • @dterrycarter
    @dterrycarter Рік тому +1

    Hey 👋🏿 I'm staying in Pennsylvania, but I'm from Monroe, Louisiana. Glad to see you visit my little town. 💪🏿🖤

  • @margueritehebert5389
    @margueritehebert5389 Рік тому +3

    I’m from south Louisiana . I remember in the mid 70’s going to the old old movie theater in town . I was maybe 8 , I guess . Innocence of childhood when I seen the upstairs balcony seats I thought it would be fun to watch the movie from there. No one was there and thought it odd. All of a sudden people kept telling me to get down from there. That it was for black people and white people didn’t sit up there. I felt like I did something so wrong and I did not understand this at all. This shame stayed with me . Then at the age of 8 with no real understanding of what people of color truly went through my heart broke and I wondered if they felt that same shame and hurt cause they could not sit with us. True story.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +2

      What a difficult story, thank you for sharing. Children arent born with hate in their heart like this, it is taught to them in many ways. That shame is heartbreaking-😭

  • @amberdavidson6827
    @amberdavidson6827 Рік тому +3

    You may know or may have no idea how IMPORTANT this work you are doing here today is!
    I have shared it, and your channel with many! Being labeled "Mexican American" myself with black hair and blue eyes always made me ask twice. I'm Portugese and Scottish / Irish after in-depth ancestry that lead me to Southern Spain, Northern "AFRICA" Morrocco and Scotland / Ireland. My Fathers last name "Clan Davidson" explained most of it.
    Keep up the work SISTER! I hear yah!! Berbers, Donbask, North Africans, Mediterranean people WERE a Culture... They deserve recognition.
    Sicilians were 100% treated as slaves in the past millennia. Their Rape and Torture and exploitation in New Orleans Shipping Ports is without question. Were we "African" of course we were! Did we look the way Media wants "Africans" too look?Of Course we don't... Racial Marxism is a constructed BEAST...

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      Thank you!:)

    • @gijane02
      @gijane02 Рік тому +1

      I like that, racial Marxism is a constructed beast... spot on description!

    • @amberdavidson6827
      @amberdavidson6827 Рік тому

      @@gijane02 Marxism is just another word for "Critical Race Theory". As if ANYONE on Earth is not going to have ad-mixture of cultures. It is so childish and ignorant actually. Just like racism. Do not buy into the scam of Marxist "Divide & Conquer". Society Degradation that is not redeemable to a point of powers to control. I'm not a Gun person, but the Second Amendment exists for this reason. The First Amendment being upheld will eliminate the need for the 2nd Amendment.

  • @KamalasNotLikeUs
    @KamalasNotLikeUs Рік тому +68

    Stories like this one make me further proud of my maverick grandmothers, both of whom could have easily “passed” but chose to live as Black. They were recorded as “mulatto” (although they were both Native American); they married Black men and loved their brown babies. Many fights were started by people who dared to ask why my dad and his four brothers had a “White” mother. Both grandmothers refused to discuss race; they would only speak about their indigenous heritage.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +12

      What a blessing to know your heritage! I don’t blame my great gram or think she did the wrong thing- if it’s between my children starving (and my Grammy and her siblings nearly did - episode 2) or “admitting” to a mixed background- I choose protecting my kids every time! This didn’t feel like a choice to me, now that I know the full story. Sad either way for sure. 💔💔 thank you for your comment and sharing your story!

    • @Darksister0922
      @Darksister0922 Рік тому +10

      I’m with you. My Grandma’s family was recorded as mulatto as well. They owned a small farm in Iberville Parrish. I’m not here to judge anybody. You do what you need to to survive. I’m proud of my grandma and her family because they too chose to live as black and married black. There is that sense of strength and pride that they passed onto us to never be ashamed or afraid of who you are and to keep fighting for your right to exist in this world.

    • @BearingMySeoul
      @BearingMySeoul Рік тому

      ​@@Darksister0922 I think the hardest part for modern people to understand is the fear. The white mobs were on some Taliban-level intensity. Especially in Louisiana and Mississippi, people who didn't tow the racial lines were risking their lives. If history were taught properly, we'd all be shocked at how many people were openly r*ped or killed and nothing was done about it. Anne Moody's book, "Coming of Age in Mississippi," is one of the few first-hand accounts of what it was like to grow up black in that part of the south (30-mins from LA) and the callousness of assault and murder is quite shocking.

    • @kuka75Katering
      @kuka75Katering Рік тому +2

      Bless your grandmother's stories and for educational way of teaching their families to be proud of their heritage.

    • @pierrerochon7271
      @pierrerochon7271 Рік тому

      @@nytn Think u for pointing this out- my parents passed because in Cali - they obtained jobs especially in construction where they entered into business with the Canadians.

  • @cynthiadickerson5403
    @cynthiadickerson5403 Рік тому +5

    We go to school and learn about all kinds of histories until we graduate high school, and we don't even know our family history! How can this be?
    The people who decided that human beings are nothing unless their skin is white are of such low value themselves. They continue to teach this shameless sin generation after generation as if they are the creators of life. So many families had to run and hide in order not to be under the crushing, deadly, and evil system of racism, and suffer consequences daily.
    One thing l can say is, we are strong and resilient because our families survived the destruction, lynchings and hangings, cross burnings, bombings, beatings, dog attacks, red linings, projects, abandoned cities, ghettos, lack of employment, unfair wages, under performing schools, etc. Many of the things that were done to us should have killed us, but we are still here! I thank God for the strength and courage our ancestors had passing through the hands of such darkness from evil people.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      Cynthia, this comment was just so incredible to me. I almost cried reading the first line. What youre saying is absolutely correct--we need to start learning our own history. It might be difficult, but this is something that will benefit EVERYONE. Thank you for watching and your thoughtful reply. I would love to have you here for future videos. I am just starting this journey!

  • @johncox9260
    @johncox9260 Рік тому +1

    My brother sent me your video along with his comments, very interesting. My last visit to Campti was about 2 yrs ago when my wife and I went to visit the dead relatives. My earliest recollections are from the mid-50’s riding around town with my grandfather. The town was in a downward spiral then and only continued to get worse. I went to collage in Natchitoches in the mid to late 60’s and would often make the short trip to Campti. However, it needs to be said that in my 75 years of being in and around that area, I never experienced any discrimination or racial tension. I’m sure there were pockets of it, just as in any other area of the country, I wasn’t exposed to it.
    The Perot’s (Perrault) did immigrate from France to Quebec, then as part of the Acadian (Cajun) migration through the port of New Orleans. My paternal Great Great Grandfather is buried in Campti with a French tombstone My grandmother‘a mother (Maricelli) was Italian as was her grandmother who, along with her husband and 2 small children, migrated from Switzerland through France then to New Orleans. I can attribute the olive skinned complexion of my aunts and uncles through their Italian heritage.
    While I don’t know Franks situation, all of our dark completed relatives graduated from Campti High School in the thirties and forties.
    Unlike other areas of the Deep South, central and south Louisiana is a huge heritage and ethnic melting pot of humanity. At that time, the only real access to the south was through New Orleans. Instead of moving East and west most of these people stayed within easy traveling distance of New Orleans.

  • @embraceme_beauty1868
    @embraceme_beauty1868 Рік тому +4

    This is Beautiful! My father is french and indian. ! Im doing some heritage searching as well down south.. Dont stop.. This would make an amazing book. Or a movie 🎬..

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      Thank you for being here and watching all the episodes. I have so much more to share, hope you will stay for it:)

  • @KayKay_72
    @KayKay_72 Рік тому +11

    My G'ma's sister left home when she 16 y.o. (this was around 1930) to pass as white. They were indeed Creole though. The family joke is, if she later married and had kids, that was the luck of the draw b/c we all know DNA can be a bitch and if her kids came out brown, she'd have some explaining to do!🤣🤣🤣

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +4

      LOL! One of my kids is dark. Darker than me. He gets soo many compliments on his skin tone. I’m so glad that we still carry our heritage with us even when we don’t know about it

    • @saharaloveland
      @saharaloveland Рік тому

      My great grandfather did also but only for a little while

    • @sharonthebaron88
      @sharonthebaron88 Рік тому

      Did your grandma's sister stay in touch with the family?

    • @KayKay_72
      @KayKay_72 Рік тому +1

      @@sharonthebaron88 Nope. No one ever heard from her again. My G'ma left home shortly after her
      sister left and never returned, not to pass, they just didn't have a good home life. My G'ma died in 2012, age 96 and her last few words were, "I can't wait to see what this bitch has to say." 🤣🤣 She was a firecracker!

    • @sharonthebaron88
      @sharonthebaron88 Рік тому +2

      @@KayKay_72 Thank you for your response. That to me is the saddest thing about passing, what those people leave behind. They may gain some privilege's, financial or social, but they lose their whole family and culture.

  • @suechan6414
    @suechan6414 Рік тому +3

    Thanks for sharing this story. It makes me want to cry that people in this country were mistreated so badly. It's sad that it still happens.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      Sue, I am so glad you watched this and commented. Means so much to me. I hope you will stay around for the rest of the story!

    • @suechan6414
      @suechan6414 Рік тому

      @@nytn Will this be a series? I will be sure to watch it!

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      @@suechan6414 Right now there are 4 episodes in Finding Lola--this was episode 3! Im planning to start a similar series next.

  • @charlenef7138
    @charlenef7138 Рік тому +2

    Thank you immensely for sharing your discovery thank you to the relatives who have made peace with fear or lies and just are going on with life. Stay blessed.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +2

      Charlene-- thank you for your kind words on here. Making peace is really the goal--we can't change how we got here :)

  • @tiffanyi5645
    @tiffanyi5645 Рік тому +3

    How heartbreaking and infuriating that they were terrorized and the trauma from that lead them to hiding their Native heritage 💔

  • @7jandi7
    @7jandi7 11 місяців тому +1

    I watched this again and it was such a great experience to hear these individual testimonies. The saddest one is the murder that took place to steal the land.. i hope you contact “where is my land” they help families re-capture stolen land

  • @michaelram2634
    @michaelram2634 Рік тому +8

    Stellar ! thank you for sharing your story!

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +3

      Thank YOU guys for coming along with me. Hopefully I’ll get to share a video soon about the article you shared with me!

  • @ravenfanguy
    @ravenfanguy Рік тому +2

    From Houma Louisiana ! here love watching this 💕

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      Im so glad you are here!! I think I found ties to the Houma nation through Lola's great grandma. I have never been that far south in Louisiana though.

  • @TheresaRodriguez-ve8hg
    @TheresaRodriguez-ve8hg Рік тому

    Hi my surname is Lebrun. Your video hits home. We were always told we are french. I didn't learn about my father's side of the family until many years later. And I also learned why we were told we were french. Forced relocation, removing native american children from their families and Jim Crow. I am a member of the Natchitoches tribe, joined in 2016 along with my son. I understand why my father never said anything about our native heritage, fear. I am also a cousin to the Perot family and met many for first time in 2016. Thank you for sharing. Take care stay safe.

  • @tmc1373
    @tmc1373 Рік тому +1

    So common in the South and Lousiana. I'm glad the Creoles who remained in Louisiana are doing their best to preserve the culture, language and food and pass that heritage on to the next generation.

  • @TheOriginalRasheedat
    @TheOriginalRasheedat Рік тому +3

    I’m black. My 2x great grandfather was biracial from rape. When he was born he looked like the white man’s son who was born at the same time. The wife kicked him and his mom, my 3x great grandma off the land. She disappears from history. But he went on to live as a black man. He looked soooooooo white. Like he had not a drop of black blood in him. I appreciate him for that. And I also understand the people who passed. Survival.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      Yes, survival is not always a pretty thing. Thank you for sharing your story, Florabelle.

  • @nathandermond5137
    @nathandermond5137 Рік тому +1

    My great grandparents were Louisiana Creole. I was super super close with my great grandfather. My great grandfather had to cut dead lynched bodies off of trees. He saw his friends and neighbors get lynched. He got tired of all that shit and he was afraid of getting lynched. That's why he left Louisiana and moved to KC.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      This is so messed up. 😭

  • @xennialsavants8226
    @xennialsavants8226 Рік тому

    This is very well put together, thank you for sharing!

  • @heyokaempath5802
    @heyokaempath5802 Рік тому +12

    My dad was born in Southern KY and in summer, he was very dark. Black hair, very pale blue eyes. He told my mom that he was part Native American. In truth, he was Appalachian Melungeon, a mixture of white, black and Native Am. He was a good man and passed away in 1992. God bless him.
    Edit: My mom was olive/dark complected by her paternal grandmother's family coming here from Sicily. With the Moors invading Sicily hundreds of years ago, there was an African admixture in place. And my dad and mom adopted me, blonde haired, blue-green Scandinavian ancestried baby. People did look. Let 'em look. :)

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      beautifully said! let ‘em look. Also my dads side is similar to your moms! ♥️

  • @Jaylove777
    @Jaylove777 Рік тому +1

    I am 100% African, 1st and 2nd gen family and DNA tested, and we match many Louisiana Creoles, in addition to families now where an ancestor passed as white, and now are white.

  • @stroop3666
    @stroop3666 Рік тому +3

    Say it Loud, Say it Loud, I am Black and I am Proud!!!! Lol Be PROUD of who ever you are, be YOU black, white, Latino, Asian, African, Indian or whatever. God made us ALL!!!! I AM GOING STRUT AROUND IN MY BLACKNESS WITH PRIDE.

  • @kayabe856
    @kayabe856 Рік тому

    This was very interesting. Thank you for sharing.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      Thank you for watching:)

  • @DJarry394
    @DJarry394 Рік тому +3

    I have Native American ancestry. My mother found out the hidden secret when a cousin said something about her great great grandmother, Mary McKinstry. We don't know what tribe. She was essentially erased. My grandfather's family were bigoted snobs and ashamed of their
    heritage. My mother wasn't supposed to know

  • @godsgirl7201
    @godsgirl7201 Рік тому +1

    Oh wow what a good interview!!♥️

  • @josequello6748
    @josequello6748 Рік тому +1

    I'm Belizean Creole, you guys need too do a documentary on the Spanish Creoles of belize

  • @kaleahcollins4567
    @kaleahcollins4567 Рік тому +6

    My two times great grandmother Georganne lucas was Choctaw Cherokee so fair skinned she could pass for white especially with her grey eyes. She married a John funches(a dark skinned creole) in May search to find where the last name originates I instead found a huge population of Funches lived and was from Louisiana. Like they said Indio was the lowest caste I guess for That's maybe the reason she chose to raise her children my great grandmother and her siblings as negro/ colored. Because at least they wasn't taken to the residential schools they would have slightly more opportunity as that but why live as a mulatto negro instead of White because at least she could still visit her family with no problems she couldn't do that passing as white but as mulatto She had slight advantage but it was much more work to go all in and totally pass for white to do that was to always be on guard always in fear .

  • @fawnjenkins7266
    @fawnjenkins7266 Рік тому +1

    This is heartbreaking. I am so sad about the discrimination and fear.

  • @ShawnPlusOne
    @ShawnPlusOne 5 місяців тому +1

    I had a neighbor who was creole from Louisiana she could pass for white she had green eyes white skin long curly hair but would get so mad if anyone complemented her she always said I’m not special she was irritated when it was clearly a compliment she despised having white ancestors because she was old enough to remember how her family divided over racism and the light vs dark she wanted you to know clearly she was black she would never pass and being mixed didn’t make her pretty - I’ve known her over 45 years and she never changed her stance.
    Everyone has to choose for themselves what path they want to go on and that’s ok by me there’s no judgement over here.

  • @cnc4243
    @cnc4243 Місяць тому

    This reminds me so much of my grandmother. She told everyone she was Italian and French

  • @NailBae_Bri
    @NailBae_Bri 5 місяців тому +1

    My grandparents were “passing”.. I noticed in some census it went from mulatto, to white when they moved out of Lafayette, then negro, then colored and all I could think was oh no! Somebody found out… they stopped speaking French…. It was that serious back then

  • @mariacrouch7109
    @mariacrouch7109 Рік тому +7

    This is awful that people were and still are racist God made us all in his own image it says that in the Bible so he made us all beautiful but it's what we do with the beauty he gave us we can be beautiful inside and out or a piosend mind can make a person ugly on the inside out

  • @BillDelahoussaye
    @BillDelahoussaye Рік тому

    Very Interesting and helps answer allot of questions concerning my family history. I was born and raised in California , just outside of Los Angeles in 1964. Please hear me , no disrespect to any race or culture. I grew up a typical white kid in the 70"s and 80"s here in Southern California. My dad was the oldest child of his family and carried on his dads name. (Raymond Francis Delahoussaye). i know is not a big deal now days but was back then. He went into the U.S. Air-force and served our country during the Korean war, He sent his mom and dad money faithfully every month back in the states because they were very poor while still raising 5 kids ( my brothers and sister) as well as my mom on a soldiers salary. Family has always been huge with my dad as it is with me and i wish i could go back in time and ask all the questions that i have now. That is why i appreciate this topic. I remember we would all get together in Hemet California at my grandparents house , aunts and uncles, cousins grand parents , gg grandparents would all have a good time singing , playing , guitar, piano, mandolin , stand up base etc. They were all self taught. Man they all got loud when they spoke. My grandfather would always make a chicken gumbo and made sure not to put Okra in it for me. lol , I started looking into genealogy about 10 years ago and found all my grandpas family that moved to Los Angeles (great grandparents Gustave and Emily ) were listed as Mulatto in the 1940"s census and same for his dad in New Iberia (Gustave and Philomene Delahoussaye and kids) I never got the chance to get answers concerning family history because i was so young and my dad got sick (bipolar) and to be honest nothing else mattered except to get my dad help. Even though very young I distinctly remember hearing conversation /words like St. Martinsville, New Iberia , file gumbo, Lake Charles , Como seva , and always wandered why my great grandmother only spoke french. But nobody spoke of these things when we(siblings and I) did have a question or two. It was always a mystery to me and siblings and my mom had no idea what to think ( she was from California). What made things worse is my Great Grandpa Gustave dis-owned my grandpa because he left the catholic faith and became a born again christian. I did find out that my gg grandmother (paternal) was a Decuir (lived in New Iberia) and traced her line back to Point Coupee. and my great grandmother was a Girouard , she only spoke french and everyone called her Va . (her name was Rosa and lived to be 100 years old. Now looking at old photos i see very distinctive creole features of all my dads side of family. some great uncles darker then others, my grandfather more olive skinned . I can say this as a husband/dad , Things would have to be pretty bad for me to pick up and leave my home and all that i knew to start over somewhere else especially dirt poor.
    I have 1 bucket list item before i get too old and that is to visit Louisiana.

  • @melregissings
    @melregissings Рік тому +4

    Sad a lot of people in America want to erase stories like this from history books.

  • @mcdonoghrahloh459
    @mcdonoghrahloh459 23 дні тому +1

    Sybil Morial passed yesterday. She was the wife of the first Black/Creole mayor of New Orleans,Ernest "Dutch" Morial,mother of Marc Morial , President of the Urban League and a former Mayor of New Orleans, greatest Mayor in NO history,in my opinion.She had 4 children including Marc.🙏🏿RIP🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿 Sybil Haydel Morial. Never be ashamed to be Creole or Black

  • @intodaysepisode...
    @intodaysepisode... 9 місяців тому +1

    All of these individuals are so beautiful and being from Baton Rouge,LA, this is so common

  • @untheist5533
    @untheist5533 Рік тому +4

    “WE’RE BLACK‼️”😆😂🤣 There are a lot of white people, especially in the south, that will be surprised to find out that they have black in their mix.

  • @Rembo318
    @Rembo318 6 місяців тому +1

    Wow its small world!! Ive been watching your videos for a while now because we seem to have alot of parallels with our family histories but im actually from Monroe, LA. Still live here and i know Chris Smith thats in this video. Me and his son Jordan went to high school together. My grandma told me we were kin to them on down the line somehow when he told her who his family was, so it wouldnt surprise me if me and you were kin somewhere down the line also lol. Thanks for making all these videos tho! Its made me really want to start digging into my geneology!

    • @nytn
      @nytn  6 місяців тому +1

      That’s amazing! I just texted him what you said

    • @Rembo318
      @Rembo318 6 місяців тому

      @nytn hell he probably won’t even remember me its been 20 years since ive talked to him probably lol. It was 04’ or 05’ that me and Jordan went to school together. Ive seen Chris once or twice, in passing, since i moved back home last year. I recognized him but couldnt recall where from until i saw his name on your video lol. Dont rememeber how i found the first video of you i came across but i subscribed because you had mentioned family from Louisiana + im a history buff anyway, but never thought you’d be making videos about Monroe with folks i know though lol.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  6 місяців тому

      I have another friend from Monroe getting interviewed this week!

    • @Rembo318
      @Rembo318 6 місяців тому

      @@nytn sweet! I’ll have to keep an eye out for it 👌🏻

  • @reginachenevey8766
    @reginachenevey8766 Рік тому +9

    Lola was a beautiful smart woman. Like all women from the beginning of time we do what we need to do to get by and make a good life for our children.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +3

      I look up to her so much. She had choices she felt she had to make, but I can see now that it was out of love. As a mother, I can understand it a little better. thank you so much for watching and commenting :)

  • @flutterfli007og
    @flutterfli007og Рік тому +2

    I'm Creole and very proud of my multicultural heritage. my family history is also the history of America.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      Beautifully said. I feel the same

  • @cruzinpc
    @cruzinpc Рік тому +2

    Read Cane River, by Lalita Tademy. It gives a good historical background for "Passing" & the creoles of LA.

  • @worldcheerleader
    @worldcheerleader Рік тому

    this is a wonderful story - excited to see the rest of the parts

  • @revjaybird2
    @revjaybird2 Рік тому +4

    Again with the sun. I thought my grandmother's side of the family had some sort of mental problem with their aversion to the sun.
    Please keep going. There's more of us out there. Our history kept secret for so long. I mean, we didn't grow up on reservations..... and we lost a whole part of our history. We're not really wanted by the "reservation" side of the families, either. ... and we're not white, though we mostly pass for it. The actual white side of the family was always.... kept sort of their distance from us.
    Wow! There's so many of us out there.
    I'm sure this came up because I just finished watching Hebrews to Negros because I wanted to know what the whole controversy of Kylie Irving was all about. He's in trouble for tweeting a movie about potentially the hidden secrets of his ancestors. How could a bunch of people be mad at the guy for wanting to know where he came from? Most people, unless they are adopted, know a long lineage of their family. But, mine, and apparently yours... was hidden for so long.
    (((((HUGS))))) There's more of us out here!!!!!!

    • @Nickie870
      @Nickie870 Рік тому +2

      You have said a mouthful!!!

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +2

      Jay- this comment was so wonderful to come across. It feels so good to know so many of us are ready to dig in and find the truth about our heritage. I hope you will stay for what’s right come! I have a lot of ideas to keep us all talking

  • @Breauxmann
    @Breauxmann Рік тому +1

    I'm Lenape, Algonquin , Black. My maternal grandmother reportedly passed as a white woman to get work in Patterson NJ back in the day. I can relate to many aspects of this work, especially people in denial of their true heritage for who knows what reasons. Still today, many deny their native heritage

  • @melanatedone4894
    @melanatedone4894 Рік тому +1

    America History is a Dark Painful one but must be told so it will never be repeated

  • @gwenjones667
    @gwenjones667 Рік тому +3

    Being native American (Chitimita) was hidden in my family, passing was and probably and still being practiced...that's why this current racial divide is reduclious

  • @tainyaross2842
    @tainyaross2842 Рік тому +1

    Amazing My Grandmother use to tell me about people passing for white.. My Family is from Louisiana both sides.. I just found out about My Great-Great-Great grandfather was a Frenchman!

  • @Iama1asupernova
    @Iama1asupernova Рік тому +3

    In this specific video in the first two minutes and 35 seconds, there is part of the conversation between Lolas daughter and granddaughter about being “mixed”, but using the term, “mulatto”. I’m sure you already know that “mulatto” is derogatory and that’s like calling someone the N-word. I am of mixed ethnicity: Comanche nation, west African, Swedish & Norwegian. I take high offense to anyone using the “M” word. I think it was being used to say that’s the word they used back then. We don’t use that word now, but since I have moved down south 8 yrs ago from being from Michigan, I’ve noticed quite a few people using the “M” word. It’s extremely offensive and anyone watching this video, this is for you to to get educated on history and what is offensive and what’s not in our culture. Because there’s offensiveness in every culture. BTW, your journey to find out who your family is and was etc., is so intriguing. It’s one of 1 million of the same stories and it’s sad because as we know, our black and native cultures were taken from us. I am so glad to hear so many people in your family who were proud to be native and to be African and black. I am extremely proud of my native in my black DNA and culture. TFS w/us❤️

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +2

      Thank you for your comment! The census records often listed her family as Mulatto- in the beginning of the journey we were just using the documentation we had found up until that point. But the documents also kept changing. The family was also listed as Mexican(Latino) and Black. Using the census terms was all we had to go off at the time.

  • @daphneallen6210
    @daphneallen6210 11 місяців тому

    I’m from Louisiana. It’s easy to spot creole people. When you have family members, friends, and have been raised around creole people… you notice features that are common. Sometimes it’s the tone of their voice. Lol.
    I can only imagine how scary it was back then to want to be free and knowing you can easily pass if you like. My great grandmother’s brother passed for white and left to go up north. He only snuck back to Louisiana to visit my great grandmother at night because he was afraid to be spotted. At that time slavery was over but he was still afraid.

  • @runwalkroll
    @runwalkroll Рік тому +1

    Oh wow they said Campti. I spent my summers in Campti with family. Just went back some years back. Something to know alot of people moved to Chicago, Oakland, and Detroit from Monroe. Shreveport was more LA, Chicago, and Cleveland.

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +1

      Wow that’s crazy!

  • @troysparks3772
    @troysparks3772 Рік тому +3

    Wow. Joy was a beautiful woman. I’m about a minute into this video,and I can’t wait to see the rest. But I just had to proclaim how beautiful Joy looked in that first picture. I never miss an opportunity to express the beauty I see in a woman,it’s just one of my favorite habits. Damn,she was a queen. Peace out

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому

      She is so beautiful! She is my moms cousin:)

  • @chakagomez8129
    @chakagomez8129 Рік тому +1

    i remember when my sister did her dna and called me up screaming "we're black!!!". we're subterranean pygmy". i was cracking up laughing.

  • @primategaberocco
    @primategaberocco 7 місяців тому

    Great episode. 🥃

  • @catherinecrow5662
    @catherinecrow5662 Рік тому

    This is a beautiful Video. Thank you

  • @yasmin8851
    @yasmin8851 Рік тому +2

    Creole is a "misnomer.". Creole literally meant native born French speaking Catholic, so black, white, German were considered Creole if you fit those 3 categories. Over time it gained a "racial" conotation.

  • @vapidculture
    @vapidculture Рік тому +4

    Good work on your videos. The concept of whiteness causes so much dysfunction. Most African Americans have about 10-20% + european ancestory. It's however less likely to have been consensual. It's sad how the racial hierarchy culture has led to so many disordered colorism behaviors in many POC communities.

  • @lolacampbell8451
    @lolacampbell8451 Рік тому +1

    Hey nothing wrong with being Creole or native American I'm a proud Cherokee and other and I understand this my dad's parents were proud beautiful native Americans but in the 40/50s they said they were olive skinned anglos just to have a job or a life and we're in Tx so I get it..and your great granny Lola was beautiful and she looks like some of my kin..be happy with the beauty the good Lord gave you and don't knock it rock it and be proud of your beautiful rich culture

  • @lilpaulettenthegang7869
    @lilpaulettenthegang7869 Рік тому +7

    We're black!! So funny!

    • @nytn
      @nytn  Рік тому +2

      Literally my favorite scene. :) :) :)

  • @tessamarialove6274
    @tessamarialove6274 4 місяці тому

    My family was part creole and from the looks of it they all fled to Arkansas from Alexandria Louisiana, just started my ancestry journey

    • @nytn
      @nytn  4 місяці тому +1

      this is awesome, let me know what you find out! and if i can help at all

    • @tessamarialove6274
      @tessamarialove6274 4 місяці тому

      @@nytn thanks i most definitely will !