I disagree with the phrase "We Attract Who We Are" I think we should rather say "We Entertain Who We Are." We can't always help who we "Attract" but rather we should be careful who entertain
I agree some men like a challenge often times for some strange reason bad boys are attracted to nice respectable women they think they can be the one to wear them down don't entertain men a good man can be found but in this day and age because of women who dress proactively and give themselves away easily men these days are attracted to them king David is an example of that bath she a was where David could see her bathing nude.
Can I throw a couple of cents into the mix here? Too many people meet someone who gives them that buzz. The person is all shiny and bright and they're "perfect." So they mistake that buzz for love. It doesn't work like that. Folks need to slow down and if/when they meet someone, give it more than 6 weeks before you decide you're meant to marry them. Even if all the signs seem to show that God brought you this person. Most societies today are different from Biblical times. These days men and women both go out looking for a mate. We don't have a clear standard of how to go about relationships. I personally don't believe in casual dating. (I'm from Georgia. I'm old fashioned as they come.) But a lot of folks go out with anybody and everybody, trying others on like a pair of shoes. People need to be more careful when they start relationships. They bring too much of the world into them instead of God's standards of holiness. Don't have sex before marriage. Don't even entertain it. Despite how sure you might be that you can handle it, fooling around DOES lead to sex. Don't even kiss. Yes, we all love affection but you still need to be careful. Don't tempt it. Keep God first. Always. Don't date someone unless you're 100% sure they're a devoted Christian. Someone who's living the life of a disciple of Christ. And be patient. You don't have to be married by the time you reach 20 years old. Or 25. Or 30. Stay at the feet of Christ, let your desires be made known to God, trust in His faithfulness, and wait if you have too. God's timetable might be different from ours. Yeah, we get lonely sometimes. Everyone does. But most of us have friends and/or family. Enjoy time with them. Sure, it might take some self-control and discipline. Hormones might be flying around like a swarm of bees. But God can help you through those times. Divorce isn't an option if we suddenly realize we've married the wrong person. God's Word doesn't change because society does. Follow Christ and let God's Word be your standard....always.
SuperFreeamerican "don't even kiss"...I feel that is very extreme. I was with someone for almost for years....we kissed alot and we never had sex. Not having sex before marriage is about having self control....not refraining from kissing....
So perfect!! I needed to hear that. I believe God wanted me to hear this. Too often I find myself seeking validation in all the wrong places! It's time to change that. Thank you!!!
I have to share something about this topic, I've read a while ago. I read a story of one priest who shared his thoughts on why girls should keep high standards in terms of getting into a Christ centered relationship. He says that girls/guys who share their body with other person are like a tester perfume who everyone wants to try , but not to buy. Everyone buys an unpacked/ unused bottle. I liked that comparison, so I wanted to write it here. Hope it helps someone to realise that he/she is a precious creature and that God loves you no matter what, just the way you are, and you should love Him just the way He says He is, and also love youself because He created you. Never forget that, always always keep that in mind! God bless you!
It is a selly idea.. Like when muslims sayes women like a sweet. If it is uncover.. All flyes come over it. So u need to wear hejab to protect women Which is an unjust idea Ansld we r not objects Jelena We r human been like men Men need to stop treating us like objects
Seek God/Lord first instead of seeking a husband first and in due time God/Lord will bless you with a God fearing husband if you are supposed to be married. Also if the man does not have a relationship with God/Lord he will not know how to have a relationship with you. The relationship will be immoral, impure and of greed. The power of the Bible is life-changing 🙏
We all need to realize, we all are beautiful when we are our true selves. Which is god's spirit, sense, we are made in God's image. We should trust God then. Or we can't trust ourselves.
I feel Like even if you feel that you are not like the people you attract .., there is something in you that is like them... I’m educated, goal Settter, And I have a great job and I kept attracting these men who were not like the guys I wanted or felt I had nothing in common with... sometimes desperate to be in a relationship will attract the wrong one, maybe you have insecurities like them, or maybe they are feeding off a vibe that you give off.. your not attracting the same kind of guy or woman for no reason.. I had to look at myself and when I did I found it..
Indeed I can relate to it I need to be careful what energy I give out on a daily and I have a mental illness and need to be extra careful with my energy.
Awesome...I needed to hear this. Going thru a season of heartbreak. Your wisdom is inspiring and spot on. Thank you for what you do to spread the WORD OF GOD.
Amen! I try to tell my sisters this ALL THE TIME! But there is something else! The spiritual "marking of territory"! Some who have been sinned against, i.e. rape, molestation, etc will also unwittingly draw both unwanted attention from the wrong men, and perhaps constantly feel rejected or passed up by godly men! It's like the spirit in the ones who sin against you mark their territory, also like dogs, attracting others to come do the same. Some of these things work like retroviruses, only awakening to blur your purpose, or sadly... seeking to hinder and outright rob the joy of marital intimacy! Walk through these issues, and rebuke the spirit of guilt, the spirit of burden, the false spirit if shame! Wash yourselves with the word constantly! One prayer I found helpful was borrowing from David, "Hide me from the intrigues of men!" The one God has for you will STILL see you; Christ in him will identity who you are! Don't waste your time with counterfeits! Just because he's pursuing doesn't mean he's right! Just because he looks good on paper and others seem to respect him, AND he claims you're the one doesn't mean he's right! Because Christ in YOU will ALSO recognize him! Do not listen to your heart, either!!! It is deceitful above all things! Know the spirit, know your value, and be watchful! Watch your own motives when dealing with a man... Did you flirt? Even subtly? Stop it! You do not have to chase or provoke the right man's attention! He WILL see you! If anything, ask God give the one he chooses to bless you with godly courage to pursue rightly. And when he does... don't play games! As a fan of courtship over dating, I firmly believe marriage should be on the table from the outset, allowing for an intentional relationship! And during that time, continue prioritizing your relationship with God... and do not be isolated with him! Know his family, his friends, see that his character matches! (Test the spirits!!! Including his!)
Wow, what a great read. Initially, I skimmed through it, but it was so good that I had to go back to the beginning and read it from the start. This was a really good message. Glory to God for letting you share this. Thank you for posting. You should really consider making this a video. It needs more exposure. God bless you.
You are so right Allison!! I was thinking the other about all the criteria I have on my "perfect guy." The guy I know it's all gonna be worth it for, and I realized that even thought the things I want in a guy are purely good things you could find in a nice faithful guy, I realized that I wasn't really in that place myself. I kept thinking how can I look for these amazing things when I myself am missing some of them? So I started working on myself and I gotta be honest it's not easy but I know this is what God wants me to be. He wants me to become a strong and faithfully-beautiful woman and I know he will bless me❤️
Very well said. She hit all points without a miss and if people are still debating what she said then they are not ready to work and develops themselves. I agree a hundred percent cause there was a point in my life where I attracted men who came strictly for the cookies and I always wondered why, but now after a long years of intense personal development I can spot a time waster/loser a mile a away and truth is they don’t come near me cause they know I am not their victim. I also dress elegantly and find it uncomfortable dressing too revealing cause I find my body too precious to put on a show for free. When we develop ourselves we don’t only attract the right persons we also attract the finer things in life, business opportunities, friends, environment etc. So yes I agree. We Attract Who We Are. As the saying goes “Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are”
@ 2:01 I see so many young adults who in the church are no different that people in the world caught up in the image game. I honestly can't tell the difference between them and people I met who are not saved, they usually speak the same motivational language and have that " dress for success" image the world has ( not saying don't dress nice ) My ex fiancé was really good at the act of being a " Christian " and later thankfully before we married I found out she was into Wicca not just interested but really into it. She hid it well. Don't be like the world and Allyson you are doing a good work.
I think it's important to be yourself, be a gentleman and the right woman who is attracted to him and enjoys a good conversation, loyalty, honesty, humble and funny. Never settle for an arguing, controlling person. YOUR video was great, you reason on this subject like me, great video girl, keep up the good work Princess. God keeps a relationship strong
Amen... Thank you. I was wondering why I kept attracting the wrong guys. Thing is I'm not going to clubs. I stay home and care for my daughter. I had a friend try to help me by setting me up with a friend of his. First time talking on the phone he was professing his love to me. I told him needed to slow down. He came to my apartment to hang out one night to "talk"..instead he gets handsie. I dismissed him. Told him I can't be doing this. Needless to say he's still try to say he loves me and my daughter. I feel he is needy, possessive. I don't mind being helpful or caring to people, but this is ridiculous. He whines of an ex-fiance who died, an ex-girlfriend who won't leave him alone, a wife he hasn't divorced since being separated in 1988. I'm wanting to run the opposite direction, but I still feel bad for him. I know it's not my job to fix his mess but why do I constantly feel like trying to help guys in these situations?
Because you can. If your walking in the body of Christ and believing in your anointing Promises and gifts. All things are possible through are lord and savior Jesus Christ amen. God bless you shepherdess. Praying for him in the holy spirit and interesting for him or anyone that you feel needs help. This simple work of faith is very powerful. Jesus will act on your behalf because that shows your love and faith in him and his love for you and all of us that seek a close personal relation ship with him.
ally firstly u r so beautiful my goodness:) then I just wanna say thank u for ur videos. I really feel God brought u to me especially cos ur giving quite a bit of advice on relationships and I'm going thru something so I'm really encouraged by your words. it would be such a treat to even meet u one day. thanks again
Yes it makes sense "you attract what you are ". If you are selfish, lazy, and greedy you'll find another selfish, lazy, and greedy person. But then it becomes a game. Both of you will try and act like you are the opposite but your true traits will come out sooner or later.
that's not always true you attract who you are. I am a college educated woman but I attract guys who are highschool drop outs married twice and kids with various women. I don't have self esteem issues and have standards.
that's a good point. I think what Allyson really meant to say was you attract who you are AND (typically/naturally) end up with someone like yourself. If you know your worth, you naturally wouldn't find someone from a "lower playingfield" attractive (excuse the sterotypes). I think the being equally yoked also comes into play a little here
I am those right things you mentioned but the enemy still crept in cleverly and tried to destroy and if it wasn't for the prayers of the Saints he would have taken me down. But God pulled me out the grips of evil
I just stumbled upon your videos and I immediately subscribed to your channel. You never fail to enlighten me with your messages. Thank you so much for the wisdom and guidance. May you encourage and inspire more people and may God bless you always. 😊❤
Very true you attract the lifestyle you live and many wonder why they can't find a good man or woman. I don't party and drink or do what society says is fun. I work do things with my sons and I'm praying and waiting patiently for that woman God has chosen for us.
Excellent .:: and the dogs barking at end of message like, yep! Lol. I love how the Lord works through you. Your very bold and I respect that so much. God Bless~~ your beautiful too. When the inside is beautiful it makes the outside so much more because the inside is shining through the outside. Your a shining light in Christ Jesus our Lord!
I came of age in the 90s and at that time the evangelical churches were only focused on married couples, and good singles ministries were very hard to find. I had a lot of personal problems in my life that made dating /courting impossible. I was walking with God but I was not able to be a husband. I wasn't able to be a boyfriend. I finally found my wife in my 40s. Now I have a family, but it has been hard work. But yes it was God's timing. I don't regret it for a moment. But sometimes I have to say no to some ministry or work of the Lord because I must meet needs of my family!
Just found your channel! I've been hearing this word the whole week from God. and coming across this video is a validation to me that yes God is speaking to me♡ thank you. You truly are a message from God
Woman of. God ya right. I must be what i want. Agreement i can do that.it will take. God this time i will wait , i can wait, I've been waiting no hurry's. Working on me. I love my singleness.💝
Hi Allyson i really appreciate you becuase you are very wise and honest .well anyway I just like say that you are right and we should wait on god for a mate or we will end up with wrong person.We will look for love in all the wrong places.but it is hard to be patient so we need to pray for more grace.then with gods help we will be able to wait for mrs or mr right and be happily married.I love you.God bless you.
Amen!!! Great video Allyson and I really needed to hear this message!!! So very true Allyson!!! Thank you for this amazing message!!! God is Love and faithful!!! Much Love to you always Allyson!!! Keep me in your prayers!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏💟😇😇😇😇😇❤️❤️❤️
I know all about the night life. I was a bad Catholic for awhile and used to drink and party a lot. Then I got a harsh penance from a priest after that night. I remember being so desperate for a girlfriend that I would go for loose women. Allyson I dont know all that well but I love your videos.
Amazing advice. Thankyou. I am a whole on my own with my own goals/ambitions. I feel proud of myself at 31 I havent settled for love not meant to be. I believe in divine timing and am prepared to wait whats for me. Everywhere that I am in my life is because God wants me there and I know whatever god has planned for me is for the best. Always have faith in everything.
There are many different reasons why we attract the people we do. Sometimes like attracts like. Then other times opposites attract. Then there are predatory people who search for kind hearted people, or children to prey upon. And although I understand your point about men looking at women who wear revealing clothes, men (and some women) will look at your body, especially if it's in shape and beautiful, no matter what you're wearing. But to generalize and say we attract what we are at all times is false. What about children who are abused? They didn't attract that. They're victimized by predators. I cringe when I hear this law of attraction stuff because there's no critical thinking involved, and it's a tempting spirit that's whispering deceit into your ears.
Dore Love not to take away from what you’re saying, bc I understand what you’re saying. It’s far fetch to claim that she’s referring to that. She’s only referring to the standard laws of attraction between a man and a woman as created in the eyes of God. Anything outside of that, such as predatory, animal, objects etc is of the devil who seeks to kill, steal and destroy. He is the master of confusion and the father of all lies. Unfortunately people hurt other people, who are innocent and at it can be in the worst way possible.The Bible says that we are not wrestling against flesh, but against dark spirits and principalities. As someone who suffered at the hands of broken people I can tell you that darkness doesn’t drive out darkness, only Light can. I only hope for healing on all those victims. I found my healing when I got closer to Jesus who is the Lamp to my feet and a Light to my path via reading and prayer. I turned my life over to Him. Prior to that, I was being consumed by the darkness of this world and what others had done to me, the ones who like to prey. He has given me strength to move forward, His abundant love and I abided in His faithfulness. He is always close to the broken-hearted, sometimes all we have to do is look up instead of down.
I agree Dore. My brother married a manipulator (predatory) woman who took advantage of his kindness and gentleness. She basically has created a massive wedge of division in the family.. but somehow my brother allowed himself into her web despite my warnings and those of other Spirit filled believers who all discerned this was off. (prior to them getting married) So case in point that we do not always attract what we are. But I believe there is a spiritual root of brokenness and codependency (ie an unhealthy need to be needed that they both share). So in that sense there is something similar in both of them.. but their personalities couldn't be more different.
Dore.... You took that to a whole 'nother level. I get what you're saying, but you're taking it out of context. She is talking about dating, dating.... not predatory people who are influenced by the devil to just destroy. And regardless of what some people may think or disagree with what she says, there is a lot of truth there. I'm not saying its "gospel" truth, but there is a lot of truth. Many times we get offended when we hear something that basically says to us, "yeah, there is a problem and it starts with you. " This generation or age has a huge problem with taking responsibility or "owning up". Yes, you need to sit down with GOD, and ask yourself why are you attracting this type of person. " sometimes the truth hurts, but I would rather have a truth that hurts, than a lie that thrills and then kills. I did this self reflection and therapy session with FATHER GOD a several months ago, because I was seeing a pattern. Afterward, I had to admit...I'm bringing this on myself (responsibility) and need to "check myself, before I wreck myself".
You are who you attract, I dunno there are too many other variables to determine who you attract. I’ve had ugly and beautiful try to talk to me but I never tried asking either because of always being low income
I am an artist, singer, handy man. November I saw an angel, and a demon. Still test the unclean spirits on the demon I saw could not face God is Light. God is light is stronger than the enemy. Genesis 24:40, Genesis 24:40
Respect yourself!! 💯. ...If you don't respect yourself… No one else will!! 🙋🏻🙌🏻✨😉✨
This is only half correct. Because there's so much evil in the world, negative and evil also comes to good people.
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How many would like sister Allyson to write a book of wisdom for singles?
I disagree with the phrase "We Attract Who We Are" I think we should rather say "We Entertain Who We Are." We can't always help who we "Attract" but rather we should be careful who entertain
Yes. I totally agree with that.
Well said
I agree some men like a challenge often times for some strange reason bad boys are attracted to nice respectable women they think they can be the one to wear them down don't entertain men a good man can be found but in this day and age because of women who dress proactively and give themselves away easily men these days are attracted to them king David is an example of that bath she a was where David could see her bathing nude.
That may be semantics. I think shes pretty we on target.
Can I throw a couple of cents into the mix here? Too many people meet someone who gives them that buzz. The person is all shiny and bright and they're "perfect." So they mistake that buzz for love. It doesn't work like that. Folks need to slow down and if/when they meet someone, give it more than 6 weeks before you decide you're meant to marry them. Even if all the signs seem to show that God brought you this person.
Most societies today are different from Biblical times. These days men and women both go out looking for a mate. We don't have a clear standard of how to go about relationships. I personally don't believe in casual dating. (I'm from Georgia. I'm old fashioned as they come.) But a lot of folks go out with anybody and everybody, trying others on like a pair of shoes.
People need to be more careful when they start relationships. They bring too much of the world into them instead of God's standards of holiness. Don't have sex before marriage. Don't even entertain it. Despite how sure you might be that you can handle it, fooling around DOES lead to sex. Don't even kiss. Yes, we all love affection but you still need to be careful. Don't tempt it.
Keep God first. Always. Don't date someone unless you're 100% sure they're a devoted Christian. Someone who's living the life of a disciple of Christ.
And be patient. You don't have to be married by the time you reach 20 years old. Or 25. Or 30. Stay at the feet of Christ, let your desires be made known to God, trust in His faithfulness, and wait if you have too. God's timetable might be different from ours. Yeah, we get lonely sometimes. Everyone does. But most of us have friends and/or family. Enjoy time with them. Sure, it might take some self-control and discipline. Hormones might be flying around like a swarm of bees. But God can help you through those times. Divorce isn't an option if we suddenly realize we've married the wrong person. God's Word doesn't change because society does.
Follow Christ and let God's Word be your standard....always.
Amen
SuperFreeamerican "don't even kiss"...I feel that is very extreme. I was with someone for almost for years....we kissed alot and we never had sex. Not having sex before marriage is about having self control....not refraining from kissing....
SuperFreeamerican wow amen !
SuperFreeamerican amen 🙏🏾
SuperFreeamerican love this
So perfect!! I needed to hear that. I believe God wanted me to hear this. Too often I find myself seeking validation in all the wrong places! It's time to change that. Thank you!!!
Yes chAnge that and break free from it ! I’m actually posting a video about that tonight if you want some encouragement :)💜
I have to share something about this topic, I've read a while ago. I read a story of one priest who shared his thoughts on why girls should keep high standards in terms of getting into a Christ centered relationship. He says that girls/guys who share their body with other person are like a tester perfume who everyone wants to try , but not to buy. Everyone buys an unpacked/ unused bottle. I liked that comparison, so I wanted to write it here. Hope it helps someone to realise that he/she is a precious creature and that God loves you no matter what, just the way you are, and you should love Him just the way He says He is, and also love youself because He created you. Never forget that, always always keep that in mind! God bless you!
Jelena Ilić deep !
It is a selly idea.. Like when muslims sayes women like a sweet. If it is uncover.. All flyes come over it. So u need to wear hejab to protect women
Which is an unjust idea
Ansld we r not objects Jelena
We r human been like men
Men need to stop treating us like objects
Your right on this like someone trying to test out a product but won't pay is neve a good dill Lol !
It also leads to soul ties.
There is a reason why God said not to fornicate (sex outside of marriage/ union of 2 flesh).
That is nice. Thanks for sharing.
SHES A BEAUTIFUL SISTER WITH A BEAUTIFUL HEART. VERY KIND. TRUE.
Seek God/Lord first instead of seeking a husband first and in due time God/Lord will bless you with a God fearing husband if you are supposed to be married. Also if the man does not have a relationship with God/Lord he will not know how to have a relationship with you. The relationship will be immoral, impure and of greed. The power of the Bible is life-changing 🙏
Amen!!
YOUR HEART AND SOUL ARE SO MUCH MORE BEAUTIFUL THAN YOUR PHYSICAL BEAUTY. THAT IS UNCOMMON. YOU ARE WORTHY OF TRUE PRAISE.
We all need to realize, we all are beautiful when we are our true selves. Which is god's spirit, sense, we are made in God's image. We should trust God then. Or we can't trust ourselves.
That is just what I needed to hear right now. Bless you, and thank you.
I feel
Like even if you feel that you are not like the people you attract .., there is something in you that is like them... I’m educated, goal
Settter, And I have a great job and I kept attracting these men who were not like the guys I wanted or felt I had nothing in common with... sometimes desperate to be in a relationship will attract the wrong one, maybe you have insecurities like them, or maybe they are feeding off a vibe that you give off.. your not attracting the same kind of guy or woman for no reason.. I had to look at myself and when I did I found it..
Indeed I can relate to it I need to be careful what energy I give out on a daily and I have a mental illness and need to be extra careful with my energy.
Awesome...I needed to hear this. Going thru a season of heartbreak.
Your wisdom is inspiring and spot on.
Thank you for what you do to spread the WORD OF GOD.
The truth is so simple yet so amazing 🕊❤️🕊
Amen! I try to tell my sisters this ALL THE TIME!
But there is something else! The spiritual "marking of territory"! Some who have been sinned against, i.e. rape, molestation, etc will also unwittingly draw both unwanted attention from the wrong men, and perhaps constantly feel rejected or passed up by godly men! It's like the spirit in the ones who sin against you mark their territory, also like dogs, attracting others to come do the same. Some of these things work like retroviruses, only awakening to blur your purpose, or sadly... seeking to hinder and outright rob the joy of marital intimacy! Walk through these issues, and rebuke the spirit of guilt, the spirit of burden, the false spirit if shame! Wash yourselves with the word constantly! One prayer I found helpful was borrowing from David, "Hide me from the intrigues of men!" The one God has for you will STILL see you; Christ in him will identity who you are! Don't waste your time with counterfeits! Just because he's pursuing doesn't mean he's right! Just because he looks good on paper and others seem to respect him, AND he claims you're the one doesn't mean he's right! Because Christ in YOU will ALSO recognize him! Do not listen to your heart, either!!! It is deceitful above all things! Know the spirit, know your value, and be watchful! Watch your own motives when dealing with a man... Did you flirt? Even subtly? Stop it! You do not have to chase or provoke the right man's attention! He WILL see you! If anything, ask God give the one he chooses to bless you with godly courage to pursue rightly. And when he does... don't play games! As a fan of courtship over dating, I firmly believe marriage should be on the table from the outset, allowing for an intentional relationship! And during that time, continue prioritizing your relationship with God... and do not be isolated with him! Know his family, his friends, see that his character matches! (Test the spirits!!! Including his!)
Wow, what a great read. Initially, I skimmed through it, but it was so good that I had to go back to the beginning and read it from the start. This was a really good message. Glory to God for letting you share this. Thank you for posting. You should really consider making this a video. It needs more exposure. God bless you.
Agree with you on that! Truthfully you’re right !
I love your comment it's true !
I love your videos!!! So encouraging!!
Thank you for the advice Allyson. I am waiting and trusting God for a good relationship too.
You are so right Allison!! I was thinking the other about all the criteria I have on my "perfect guy." The guy I know it's all gonna be worth it for, and I realized that even thought the things I want in a guy are purely good things you could find in a nice faithful guy, I realized that I wasn't really in that place myself. I kept thinking how can I look for these amazing things when I myself am missing some of them? So I started working on myself and I gotta be honest it's not easy but I know this is what God wants me to be. He wants me to become a strong and faithfully-beautiful woman and I know he will bless me❤️
GOD Bless you sister keep shining your Light 😇
you are a reallife Sara keep your standerds high Allyson
Very well said. She hit all points without a miss and if people are still debating what she said then they are not ready to work and develops themselves. I agree a hundred percent cause there was a point in my life where I attracted men who came strictly for the cookies and I always wondered why, but now after a long years of intense personal development I can spot a time waster/loser a mile a away and truth is they don’t come near me cause they know I am not their victim. I also dress elegantly and find it uncomfortable dressing too revealing cause I find my body too precious to put on a show for free. When we develop ourselves we don’t only attract the right persons we also attract the finer things in life, business opportunities, friends, environment etc. So yes I agree. We Attract Who We Are. As the saying goes “Show me your friends and I will tell you who you are”
Agreed 💯 we do attract who we are consciously and subconsciously undeniably
@ 2:01 I see so many young adults who in the church are no different that people in the world caught up in the image game.
I honestly can't tell the difference between them and people I met who are not saved, they usually speak the same motivational language and have that " dress for success" image the world has ( not saying don't dress nice ) My ex fiancé was really good at the act of being a " Christian " and later thankfully before we married I found out she was into Wicca not just interested but really into it. She hid it well. Don't be like the world and Allyson you are doing a good work.
I think it's important to be yourself, be a gentleman and the right woman who is attracted to him and enjoys a good conversation, loyalty, honesty, humble and funny. Never settle for an arguing, controlling person. YOUR video was great, you reason on this subject like me, great video girl, keep up the good work Princess. God keeps a relationship strong
Amen... Thank you. I was wondering why I kept attracting the wrong guys. Thing is I'm not going to clubs. I stay home and care for my daughter. I had a friend try to help me by setting me up with a friend of his. First time talking on the phone he was professing his love to me. I told him needed to slow down. He came to my apartment to hang out one night to "talk"..instead he gets handsie. I dismissed him. Told him I can't be doing this. Needless to say he's still try to say he loves me and my daughter. I feel he is needy, possessive. I don't mind being helpful or caring to people, but this is ridiculous. He whines of an ex-fiance who died, an ex-girlfriend who won't leave him alone, a wife he hasn't divorced since being separated in 1988. I'm wanting to run the opposite direction, but I still feel bad for him. I know it's not my job to fix his mess but why do I constantly feel like trying to help guys in these situations?
Because you can. If your walking in the body of Christ and believing in your anointing Promises and gifts. All things are possible through are lord and savior Jesus Christ amen. God bless you shepherdess. Praying for him in the holy spirit and interesting for him or anyone that you feel needs help. This simple work of faith is very powerful. Jesus will act on your behalf because that shows your love and faith in him and his love for you and all of us that seek a close personal relation ship with him.
ally firstly u r so beautiful my goodness:) then I just wanna say thank u for ur videos. I really feel God brought u to me especially cos ur giving quite a bit of advice on relationships and I'm going thru something so I'm really encouraged by your words. it would be such a treat to even meet u one day. thanks again
Yes it makes sense "you attract what you are ". If you are selfish, lazy, and greedy you'll find another selfish, lazy, and greedy person. But then it becomes a game. Both of you will try and act like you are the opposite but your true traits will come out sooner or later.
Agreed 💯 percent
that's not always true you attract who you are. I am a college educated woman but I attract guys who are highschool drop outs married twice and kids with various women. I don't have self esteem issues and have standards.
that's a good point. I think what Allyson really meant to say was you attract who you are AND (typically/naturally) end up with someone like yourself. If you know your worth, you naturally wouldn't find someone from a "lower playingfield" attractive (excuse the sterotypes). I think the being equally yoked also comes into play a little here
+bsongie I understand thank you
You're exactly right! Nice and respect is attractive. You beautiful are as attractive and lovely as they come
I am those right things you mentioned but the enemy still crept in cleverly and tried to destroy and if it wasn't for the prayers of the Saints he would have taken me down. But God pulled me out the grips of evil
I just stumbled upon your videos and I immediately subscribed to your channel. You never fail to enlighten me with your messages. Thank you so much for the wisdom and guidance. May you encourage and inspire more people and may God bless you always. 😊❤
Love the dog treat illustration
Your messages are very encouraging!!! I'm very glad that God led me to your page..💜💜💜😘😘😘😘
Thankyou Alison your message is so true, I got to change, God bless your ministry and you
She's gorgeous .
You speak so much truth and purpose.....Allyson, bless you!
Preach it Sister! Love this.
I totally agree with this message shockingly.
You are so inspirational. Couldn’t have said It any better!
Love your wisdom sister
Very true you attract the lifestyle you live and many wonder why they can't find a good man or woman. I don't party and drink or do what society says is fun. I work do things with my sons and I'm praying and waiting patiently for that woman God has chosen for us.
appreciate you...please fight the good fight.....
Excellent .:: and the dogs barking at end of message like, yep! Lol. I love how the Lord works through you. Your very bold and I respect that so much. God Bless~~ your beautiful too. When the inside is beautiful it makes the outside so much more because the inside is shining through the outside. Your a shining light in Christ Jesus our Lord!
Child of God
Bravo ... More of Heaven into your DNA precious sister ... Download ... God is texting you continually ... Selah ... Blessings!
Thats right you will attract a God fearing person if you Fear God yourself but in all things seek God first n God bless
The dog bark was God’s way to help us remember (better) this great message.
I came of age in the 90s and at that time the evangelical churches were only focused on married couples, and good singles ministries were very hard to find. I had a lot of personal problems in my life that made dating /courting impossible. I was walking with God but I was not able to be a husband. I wasn't able to be a boyfriend. I finally found my wife in my 40s. Now I have a family, but it has been hard work. But yes it was God's timing. I don't regret it for a moment. But sometimes I have to say no to some ministry or work of the Lord because I must meet needs of my family!
nice intro. immediately i got the revelation of your vid
JESUS is LORD
I needed to hear this today. God bless you!
Just found your channel! I've been hearing this word the whole week from God. and coming across this video is a validation to me that yes God is speaking to me♡ thank you. You truly are a message from God
Thank you Allyson. I needed that
Woman of. God ya right. I must be what i want. Agreement i can do that.it will take. God this time i will wait , i can wait, I've been waiting no hurry's. Working on me. I love my singleness.💝
Such a blessing to watch all your videos. I wish one day I could meet you and just chat to you ;-) :-)
Wow I went through a break up and you made me realize a lot of things I never thought about . You open my eyes
Wow Amazing thank you for this message I needed to hear it tonight
I respect this so much.
Great advice! Wait on the Lord!
Thank you for all the videos !!!
That was powerful!
I loveGod and want a wife that also loves God my Mom used to say don't look for Love when the time is right love will find you.amen
God bless you Allyson!
Thanks for your message. God's beauty flows out of you, out of all angle's. Truly an 👼. How wonderful,God's people, are made, to be seen.
Thank you Ms.Allison for sharing us some words of wisdom😁😍😘
Hi Allyson i really appreciate you becuase you are very wise and honest .well anyway I just like say that you are right and we should wait on god for a mate or we will end up with wrong person.We will look for love in all the wrong places.but it is hard to be patient so we need to pray for more grace.then with gods help we will be able to wait for mrs or mr right and be happily married.I love you.God bless you.
You are really beautiful!
maaan, I love your videos, very encouraging, educative and insightful
Also it's how you compose yourself
Amen!!! Great video Allyson and I really needed to hear this message!!! So very true Allyson!!! Thank you for this amazing message!!! God is Love and faithful!!! Much Love to you always Allyson!!! Keep me in your prayers!!! 🙏🙏🙏🙏💟😇😇😇😇😇❤️❤️❤️
You may be right about this!
I know all about the night life. I was a bad Catholic for awhile and used to drink and party a lot. Then I got a harsh penance from a priest after that night. I remember being so desperate for a girlfriend that I would go for loose women. Allyson I dont know all that well but I love your videos.
This is perfection, so intelligent 👌
Thank you again you are so beautiful and kind and You really helped me with what you said ❤
Wowwwwwwwww! This really spoke to me
Amazing advice. Thankyou. I am a whole on my own with my own goals/ambitions. I feel proud of myself at 31 I havent settled for love not meant to be. I believe in divine timing and am prepared to wait whats for me. Everywhere that I am in my life is because God wants me there and I know whatever god has planned for me is for the best. Always have faith in everything.
So good! 😊 great reminder.
Commit your way unto The Lord prayerfully & let Him direct you’re steps!
Nice example Ally ! Your video is always inspirational and always something new to learn..thanks so much Ally..I love you too 😘😘😘
AMEN.AMEN.GOD BLESS YOU MY DEAR GIRL.AMEN.
Wow good words of advice sister amen God bless you😇🙏
Amen ally, i fully agree.
So true my beautiful sister!
There are many different reasons why we attract the people we do. Sometimes like attracts like. Then other times opposites attract. Then there are predatory people who search for kind hearted people, or children to prey upon. And although I understand your point about men looking at women who wear revealing clothes, men (and some women) will look at your body, especially if it's in shape and beautiful, no matter what you're wearing. But to generalize and say we attract what we are at all times is false. What about children who are abused? They didn't attract that. They're victimized by predators. I cringe when I hear this law of attraction stuff because there's no critical thinking involved, and it's a tempting spirit that's whispering deceit into your ears.
Dore Love not to take away from what you’re saying, bc I understand what you’re saying. It’s far fetch to claim that she’s referring to that. She’s only referring to the standard laws of attraction between a man and a woman as created in the eyes of God. Anything outside of that, such as predatory, animal, objects etc is of the devil who seeks to kill, steal and destroy. He is the master of confusion and the father of all lies. Unfortunately people hurt other people, who are innocent and at it can be in the worst way possible.The Bible says that we are not wrestling against flesh, but against dark spirits and principalities. As someone who suffered at the hands of broken people I can tell you that darkness doesn’t drive out darkness, only Light can. I only hope for healing on all those victims. I found my healing when I got closer to Jesus who is the Lamp to my feet and a Light to my path via reading and prayer. I turned my life over to Him. Prior to that, I was being consumed by the darkness of this world and what others had done to me, the ones who like to prey. He has given me strength to move forward, His abundant love and I abided in His faithfulness. He is always close to the broken-hearted, sometimes all we have to do is look up instead of down.
I agree Dore. My brother married a manipulator (predatory) woman who took advantage of his kindness and gentleness. She basically has created a massive wedge of division in the family.. but somehow my brother allowed himself into her web despite my warnings and those of other Spirit filled believers who all discerned this was off. (prior to them getting married) So case in point that we do not always attract what we are. But I believe there is a spiritual root of brokenness and codependency (ie an unhealthy need to be needed that they both share). So in that sense there is something similar in both of them.. but their personalities couldn't be more different.
Dore Love 👍
Dore.... You took that to a whole 'nother level. I get what you're saying, but you're taking it out of context.
She is talking about dating, dating.... not predatory people who are influenced by the devil to just destroy.
And regardless of what some people may think or disagree with what she says, there is a lot of truth there. I'm not saying its "gospel" truth, but there is a lot of truth. Many times we get offended when we hear something that basically says to us, "yeah, there is a problem and it starts with you. " This generation or age has a huge problem with taking responsibility or "owning up". Yes, you need to sit down with GOD, and ask yourself why are you attracting this type of person. " sometimes the truth hurts, but I would rather have a truth that hurts, than a lie that thrills and then kills.
I did this self reflection and therapy session with FATHER GOD a several months ago, because I was seeing a pattern. Afterward, I had to admit...I'm bringing this on myself (responsibility) and need to "check myself, before I wreck myself".
Thea she is more balanced than you and ally..
I keep sharing your videos on my facebook.. God bless you.
I AM attracting who I AM because I AM THE ONE...
Also, I AM Jacqui...and JACQ'S BACK!!!
ms Parker ...... blessings beautiful......
Great word thank you
great Video, great message and you Sooooooooooo beautiful #GodBlessYou
Ok I will try again. For blesss you
Preach sista!!🙌🙌
Thank you for true guidance.
Period
You are who you attract, I dunno there are too many other variables to determine who you attract. I’ve had ugly and beautiful try to talk to me but I never tried asking either because of always being low income
Are you single! You are amazing.
TRUE WISDOM
God has sent me an angel...
God bless you!
Really thats Good because I'm all love baby .
I am an artist, singer, handy man. November I saw an angel, and a demon. Still test the unclean spirits on the demon I saw could not face God is Light. God is light is stronger than the enemy. Genesis 24:40, Genesis 24:40
Wow you are so right..... Im speechless. What am i then?
Good point.