she should have just said clearly no, this so crazy how manipulative it all was. She clearly didn’t want to but she didn’t want to disappoint people. But dang this is wild.
She was with him for a year and a half, I’m sure her mind changed and her feelings grew. You don’t stay with someone that long if you don’t want to. I agree though, the situation was very manipulative and forceful
Looking back at how a good place they're at right now, am glad they did this their way. Most authentic season. Don't force things. Let things take their natural course. I am totally Cassie's personality. I am realistic to a fault. I question everything and it takes time to fully have faith in matters like this. It can be costly. That kind of mentality can cost relationships and opportunities that were there for taking, but it also doesn't mean one is wasting time or being malicious or insensitive to the other person. These 2 are complete opposites and no wonder they attract. Colton is the type to jump right in and figure it out things as he goes, and Cassie is the type that burns slow, skeptical, cautious, doubtful until the situation proves itself worthy. She may come off unsure and guarded and that's exactly what she is. But thank God Colton knew he had to allow her time and not give up, because in actual sense she does love him, but she's hesitant and doubtful. Which is not the worst. And this situation is not one that is out of the norm. Most relationships are like that, or start off like that. One is ahead of the other. But eventually they do get to the same page and that's all that matters. Always praying for these 2 to never break up. This was very realistic and they will go far
I'll just say it...she doesn't want to be the one to leave or hurt him again. She knows that she doesn't love him. She should just leave asap better now than later.
I understand that the parents are worried but they need to look at the bigger picture. Cassie has a lot of things to question and be unsure of. This was not a normal dating experience to begin with. Colton was dating multiple women and told a lot of them that he loved them. In that kind of atmosphere you would be crazy to not feel unsure about the legitimacy of things. Im addition, some people just don't fall for someone as fast, it's hard to be 100% sure about someone when they are dating multiple people and you have known them for such a short amount of time. Honestly the fact that the goal of the show is for the bachelors to get engaged by the end is crazy. I see nothing wrong with the relationship.
Cassie does not no what she wants cassie is confused i don't think she will never no what she wants i do no the one thing she did want the to other girl's out of the picture and she got it
I would be more concerned if she was sure. She doesn't know that man much better than us watching. Those ppl need more time. Tap the brakes. They found each other and that's great. Take your time.
"dad don't worry!!! I'm choosing to be hurt again so I could be the bachelor for the second time and make out with 30 girls again.He literally is forcing Cassie to be in a relationship...He did not have to take her to meet his parents. I feel bad for Cassie at this time.
Mom & Dad, lightening up, Jesus Cassie is being honest about her reservations, if anybody needs a reality check its Colton... I think Cassie has anxiety & a certain nervousness about her that makes her insecure & thoughtful about her decision making.. As a parent I would prefer Cassie to some ditzy blonde saying "let's do this Colton, I've only known you for a month"...
I’m not quite sure why everyone is so obsessed with them getting married. She wants to date him and get to know him, without all the bells and whistles. Why is that so bad? Isn’t that how a real relationship is formed? He was dating 20+ other women for God’s sake. They barely know each other. Just because they get engaged doesn’t mean they will get married. Every single relationship has a chance to not work out.
Poor Colton. She doesn’t love him, she only cares for him. She knew there was an engagement at the end so if she wasn’t ready she shouldn’t have went on the show. I’m rooting for them and I really hope they get their happy ending, I just wish Cassie wouldn’t have led him on if she wasn’t ready.
I think Cassie and Colton are awesome together tbh, yes she is the quieter type but she’s loud when she’s happy, this whole thing was very awkward and he was telling a bunch of other women he was falling for them a few days before this. Obviously she is wary, and she’s smart not wanting engagement from this bc it’s not stable, she’s young and wasn’t ready to marry someone she’s “dated” for a month, she wants to take it slow and that’s okay! Just look now they’re still together!
And I love Hannah and I can’t wait to see who she ends up with she’s such an amazing person but she deserves more than a man who loves another woman ❤️
It’s great watching this after the fact in April 2021 when he just came out as gay... and seeing him with his parents here and knowing they’re supporting him now in the next phase of his journey... He’s setting such a great and strong example to so many for coming out and the courage to finally do so
And she put restraining order on him and she's going back to her ex-boyfriend of 5 years Caelan Tiongson. No one to blame but Colton himself. 30 girls wanted to marry him and he choose the girl that doesn't want him. Haha
This is so weird, she hardly knows Colton for real, just those few times they met on The Bachelor really.. And now she is on a first date with his whole family jeez.. the pressure lol. But come on, Colton is the most handsome man ever, who wouldn't fall in love with him..
It's very sad that Colton can't see thru Cassie. On the other ✋ Colton made a big mistake by not being with Hannah B. He can't seem to see, or he refuses to see all the bad things that Cassie has done. Hopefully he'll wake👆 before it's too late.
His family is so sweet and cute! His dad is such a good father, you can now tell where he got his sensitive side from
Not even once has she said she is sure she wants to be with him. She's not in this because she loves him she's in it cause he loves her. Dangerous.
I know
she should have just said clearly no, this so crazy how manipulative it all was. She clearly didn’t want to but she didn’t want to disappoint people. But dang this is wild.
Yeah I think this happened on her last relationship too, she is a people pleaser to an extreme. It’s a part of growing up to stop being that way.
She was with him for a year and a half, I’m sure her mind changed and her feelings grew. You don’t stay with someone that long if you don’t want to. I agree though, the situation was very manipulative and forceful
It seems like she's being forced into this....
They should be happy she's honest
There's nothing wrong with what She's doing. The Bachelor wants a microwave Marriage! I don't blame Her!
Sherry Jordan thats right!
Cassie is real I like her way of saying things, her reaction into this should give them a way forward as a whole family.
Yeah she is very careful with her word choice. It’s smart
Oh... I love Colton's Dad.. Parent's instincts are always right. Listen to them you'll never get wrong. Well,Cassies really seems not ready.
Looking back at how a good place they're at right now, am glad they did this their way. Most authentic season. Don't force things. Let things take their natural course. I am totally Cassie's personality. I am realistic to a fault. I question everything and it takes time to fully have faith in matters like this. It can be costly. That kind of mentality can cost relationships and opportunities that were there for taking, but it also doesn't mean one is wasting time or being malicious or insensitive to the other person. These 2 are complete opposites and no wonder they attract. Colton is the type to jump right in and figure it out things as he goes, and Cassie is the type that burns slow, skeptical, cautious, doubtful until the situation proves itself worthy.
She may come off unsure and guarded and that's exactly what she is. But thank God Colton knew he had to allow her time and not give up, because in actual sense she does love him, but she's hesitant and doubtful. Which is not the worst.
And this situation is not one that is out of the norm. Most relationships are like that, or start off like that. One is ahead of the other. But eventually they do get to the same page and that's all that matters.
Always praying for these 2 to never break up. This was very realistic and they will go far
Broken up
Watching this video in May 2020 to read all the red flags from Cassie back in this home town
Red flags from Cassie? Lol from Colton
From Cassie?? It would be a red flag if she lied to his parents about loving him, she was just honest
Well done Colton choosing the only one who is not willing to commit.. How clever is that!!!!!!
Hahaha I hadnt seen it that way. That is so true 🤣🤣
@@marlenemagana555 He is a good guy but attracted to difficult situations and this will cost him I think ...
yup he had tia, tyshia, hannah all willing to give up everything and marry him....but he didnt give in.
Hahahahhaa
I'll just say it...she doesn't want to be the one to leave or hurt him again. She knows that she doesn't love him. She should just leave asap better now than later.
I understand that the parents are worried but they need to look at the bigger picture. Cassie has a lot of things to question and be unsure of. This was not a normal dating experience to begin with. Colton was dating multiple women and told a lot of them that he loved them. In that kind of atmosphere you would be crazy to not feel unsure about the legitimacy of things. Im addition, some people just don't fall for someone as fast, it's hard to be 100% sure about someone when they are dating multiple people and you have known them for such a short amount of time. Honestly the fact that the goal of the show is for the bachelors to get engaged by the end is crazy. I see nothing wrong with the relationship.
Cassie does not no what she wants cassie is confused i don't think she will never no what she wants i do no the one thing she did want the to other girl's out of the picture and she got it
I don't see her on him the way he is on her I am so scared for Colton later
I would be more concerned if she was sure. She doesn't know that man much better than us watching. Those ppl need more time. Tap the brakes. They found each other and that's great. Take your time.
He didn't tell any of them he loved them except for Cassie.
"dad don't worry!!! I'm choosing to be hurt again so I could be the bachelor for the second time and make out with 30 girls again.He literally is forcing Cassie to be in a relationship...He did not have to take her to meet his parents. I feel bad for Cassie at this time.
Love the parents. They really love TeddyBear Colton 😍
Mom & Dad, lightening up, Jesus Cassie is being honest about her reservations, if anybody needs a reality check its Colton... I think Cassie has anxiety & a certain nervousness about her that makes her insecure & thoughtful about her decision making.. As a parent I would prefer Cassie to some ditzy blonde saying "let's do this Colton, I've only known you for a month"...
Then she wouldn't have looked for love on such a show
I’m not quite sure why everyone is so obsessed with them getting married. She wants to date him and get to know him, without all the bells and whistles. Why is that so bad? Isn’t that how a real relationship is formed? He was dating 20+ other women for God’s sake. They barely know each other. Just because they get engaged doesn’t mean they will get married. Every single relationship has a chance to not work out.
Exactly true & may God bless Colton & Cassie protect their Journey guide them as well in Jesus name I pray.
Thank you someone with logic... it’s unrealistic so I’m glad Colton’s slowed down the pace... but can he stop being like a love sick puppy
They’re really happy together
Poor Colton. She doesn’t love him, she only cares for him. She knew there was an engagement at the end so if she wasn’t ready she shouldn’t have went on the show. I’m rooting for them and I really hope they get their happy ending, I just wish Cassie wouldn’t have led him on if she wasn’t ready.
They’re still together!!
Nope!
Not anymore. Restraining orders now 😂
They are very happy together
This comment aged well 😂
Nope. She left him again. Smh.
I think Cassie and Colton are awesome together tbh, yes she is the quieter type but she’s loud when she’s happy, this whole thing was very awkward and he was telling a bunch of other women he was falling for them a few days before this. Obviously she is wary, and she’s smart not wanting engagement from this bc it’s not stable, she’s young and wasn’t ready to marry someone she’s “dated” for a month, she wants to take it slow and that’s okay! Just look now they’re still together!
And I love Hannah and I can’t wait to see who she ends up with she’s such an amazing person but she deserves more than a man who loves another woman ❤️
At least they've talked about buying a house together next year...
how could they afford it? : ) cassie is finishing her master's i saw, and colton is unemployed lol (?)
They are living happy in Malibu
@@whoisayou7498 no. They broke up
Elizabeth Francois nope they got back together
Really? After that restraining order was given to him?
Colton is forcing and he does not deserve such type of love I wish he can take time, to avid a heart broken twice
Great parenting! Cassie can't do this with him...😢
GIRL you don't say that as a first impression
I don't know really why she is still with him ..I'm not sure she love him alot ..maybe he pushed too much
Why would this chick be on the show if she isn’t ready
answer: she could be ready to get married to the right fit for her, and the issue is that she's not sure if colton is the right fit : )
He is going to get hurt
It’s great watching this after the fact in April 2021 when he just came out as gay... and seeing him with his parents here and knowing they’re supporting him now in the next phase of his journey...
He’s setting such a great and strong example to so many for coming out and the courage to finally do so
And she put restraining order on him and she's going back to her ex-boyfriend of 5 years Caelan Tiongson. No one to blame but Colton himself. 30 girls wanted to marry him and he choose the girl that doesn't want him. Haha
This is so weird, she hardly knows Colton for real, just those few times they met on The Bachelor really.. And now she is on a first date with his whole family jeez.. the pressure lol.
But come on, Colton is the most handsome man ever, who wouldn't fall in love with him..
It's very sad that Colton can't see thru Cassie. On the other ✋ Colton made a big mistake by not being with Hannah B. He can't seem to see, or he refuses to see all the bad things that Cassie has done. Hopefully he'll wake👆 before it's too late.
There’s no back up plan?? Well I sure as hell hope the guy that wants to marry
me isn’t keeping someone on the back burner.
Omg his poor parents now that he's stalking Cassie... Ugh.
They are a happy couple living peacefully
@@whoisayou7498 no they aren't, she got a restraining order as he stalked her and her parents house and put a tracker on her car
@@whoisayou7498 Uh what? They're not together.
She just wanted to be the next bachelorette and it backfired on her🙄
Quenishia Roach lmaoooo realest comment
Cassie just wanted the clout. She wants to keep smashing other dudes
Coltons perents are so judgmental..