This video gave me an aha moment on my PTSD. I was thinking what did my narcissistic parents and other narcissistic people do to bring me down and make me feel like I am not good enough. Narcissist's power is the power of amplifying your mistakes and making it appear that is all there is in your inventory. That's how they turned you against yourself. Other Narcs can smell this and are like ahhhh they feel they are not good enough ooooh fresh meat. So we need to stop counting negative inventory and focus on the positive inventory. These positives are our inner strength.
My daughter recently attended your 3-day seminar on mentoring. She loved it and was telling all her family and friends about you. I have now listened to a few of your UA-cam videos - they are great! You are great! Thank You for sharing!
Thank you for this...The topic about how our mind keeps inventory really opened my eyes on how much I dwell on the bad...Gonna start counting my blessings. Bless all of you, too.
Your words left a smile on my face even when iI had a terrible day .In my gratitude list today,I will write that I am greatful for your words. Thank you so much
i was picked on a lot in school, i was somewhat of an easy target because i was quiet and didn't bother retaliating or even responding because i didn't want to give those kids more fuel. it made me have sort of a negative self perception and now as an adult, i just kind of think that people have a negative first impression of me or that people just don't like me. the dating scene also messes up my self esteem and confidence, i'm not really that successful which makes me think that i'm simply not attractive and when going out with friends to clubs or bars or something, it's kind of reinforced when i look at a girl and she looks back with sort of a disgusted "what are you looking at?" type of expression. in short, being picked on growing up and being sort of a failure with dating are the two biggest reasons i don't think that i'm good enough, because people have already let me know that
There is no channel on UA-cam I have tapped the bell to give me notifications. This one I have. This content is BRILLIANT. (I am SO GREATFUL!!! :D ) I'm going to teach my son this stuff, he's very pessimistic in his attitude and I really want to help him to be happy. Blessings
I REALLY REALLY LOVE THE VIDEO....THE WAY KIRK EXPLAINS HE DESERVES GRATITUDE MORE THEN ALL. BUT I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I HAVE THIS NOTION THAT HIS SMILE IS FAKE. MAYBE ITS NOT HIM ITS ME.
I am grateful for many kind act I have done and grateful to my parents who always make and buy delicious food for me and grateful to my hair because I always neglect it and cause it to fall out but nevertheless it looks beautiful and I am grateful to myself when I was a child and my dream was to become a psychiatrist to make everyone happy also I grateful to you and this channel that I found it after such a long time that I was feeling bad about myself... I'll be fine and I'll make it through. This is a promise and I never break my promise💪... Thank you so much
Thank you Kirk, for another amazing video!😁 I'm gonna try to make it to at least a few of your seminars this summer! I really miss the feeling I get when I had gone to them! Also, it was super cool to get a response from you for one of my comments 😁
We'll be thrilled to have you attend! We just posted a live Body Language Show today with a great offer to attend a live event. Hope to see you soon! Here's the link ua-cam.com/video/7xaf5ZlSonM/v-deo.html (the video starts at 20 minutes in)
Excellent as always. I'm helping you build up your watch hours with my addiction to my rise in vibration I feel when I listen and learn from you. Thank you.
thank u sooo much i find this videos of you.. can i hire u in my head?because u help me a lot.. i cant talk to someone because they will just judge me😢
When doing a thorough research , I've found; 99.9 percent of the population spend most of their time thinking about "What other's thinking about " , they all are thinking about the very same issue. So, if we rise above this number, we actually feel better about ourselves. Thus in turn, we are in a better position to be of help to others.
How do empaths and highly sensitive ppl deal with emotional invalidation? Also how do deal with nonstop talkers.. ppl who go on and on without asking you about you. PLEASE HELP! What is the wording I can use. Love your videos
This is the third video I’m watching in less than 30 mins and I just found your channel . ❤️ Thing is I’ve been getting these empathetic signs probably 2017 but I’m finally aligning now in 2020. I always knew in my mind I had a purpose!
Such a common thought - Am I good enough? Thanks for sharing this video, very insightful and thought provoking. After talking with a friend who has been struggling this week, I actually just uploaded a video on believing in yourself on my channel - Check it out if you are interested. Remember that you ARE good enough, and you CAN do this, and you WILL get through this. Cheers.
This man deserves some sort of award
Thank you Gavin. I'm glad you found some value and help here. Thanks for watching and be sure to subscribe, I'm posting new videos each day.
Looking from UK 🇬🇧 he as really help me hes the best
This video gave me an aha moment on my PTSD. I was thinking what did my narcissistic parents and other narcissistic people do to bring me down and make me feel like I am not good enough. Narcissist's power is the power of amplifying your mistakes and making it appear that is all there is in your inventory. That's how they turned you against yourself. Other Narcs can smell this and are like ahhhh they feel they are not good enough ooooh fresh meat. So we need to stop counting negative inventory and focus on the positive inventory. These positives are our inner strength.
Thank you for putting my thoughts into words, I'm grateful for your comment. Hope you are better now and dealing well with your PTSD! ❤️
Amen
The only solution...after 37 years..narcisstic abuse childhood neglect.....thank you so much...much gratitude... humbled...it feels beautiful
My daughter recently attended your 3-day seminar on mentoring. She loved it and was telling all her family and friends about you. I have now listened to a few of your UA-cam videos - they are great! You are great! Thank You for sharing!
Key word. INVENTORY. Better for us to keep a positive inventory, rather than allow our mind to go haywire on only the negative ones'.
Thank you for this...The topic about how our mind keeps inventory really opened my eyes on how much I dwell on the bad...Gonna start counting my blessings. Bless all of you, too.
Glad it was helpful! 😀
Love your channel and your lessons.
Perfect timing! Thank you!
This is golden 💯‼️🙏🏽❤️
this man is great i like he's enthusiasm
Your words left a smile on my face even when iI had a terrible day .In my gratitude list today,I will write that I am greatful for your words.
Thank you so much
Thank you very much
Thanks brother, this video helped tip the scales more towards the positive in my ongoing journey of self compassion
Thanks so Much Kirk!
This would be a very valuable lesson to be learnt as young as possible. Even in primary school.
I am grateful I found your channel.
Thank you, Audree. Welcome!
Thank you for noticing
amazing video. Helped me so much
Thx for the answers I needed.
I’m doing my list right now. Thank You for this video !!! ❤️
Mam one question for you why I want Kirk don't share this more than us people and Kirk sir also to you
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Thank you sooo much 💐
I am so glad I saw these videos. Thanks. I'm also sharing with some one I care about.
i was picked on a lot in school, i was somewhat of an easy target because i was quiet and didn't bother retaliating or even responding because i didn't want to give those kids more fuel. it made me have sort of a negative self perception and now as an adult, i just kind of think that people have a negative first impression of me or that people just don't like me. the dating scene also messes up my self esteem and confidence, i'm not really that successful which makes me think that i'm simply not attractive and when going out with friends to clubs or bars or something, it's kind of reinforced when i look at a girl and she looks back with sort of a disgusted "what are you looking at?" type of expression. in short, being picked on growing up and being sort of a failure with dating are the two biggest reasons i don't think that i'm good enough, because people have already let me know that
There is no channel on UA-cam I have tapped the bell to give me notifications. This one I have. This content is BRILLIANT. (I am SO GREATFUL!!! :D ) I'm going to teach my son this stuff, he's very pessimistic in his attitude and I really want to help him to be happy. Blessings
I need to be told I’m not strange and weird everyday please 😂🙌🏻❤️🥺
you are not strange and weird
I so Agree, Thank you for helping me so practically!
I am feeling so much better already!
I REALLY REALLY LOVE THE VIDEO....THE WAY KIRK EXPLAINS HE DESERVES GRATITUDE MORE THEN ALL.
BUT I DONT UNDERSTAND WHY I HAVE THIS NOTION THAT HIS SMILE IS FAKE. MAYBE ITS NOT HIM ITS ME.
Thanks for this video❤️ I am grateful for it👌 now 99 more to go
Thanks for the video! I needed to hear this.
You are the best I feel like your taking me an nobody else just me tks x
😘 Thank you .. I begin 😘
Thanks… i needed that.
I am grateful for your video :)
I am grateful for many kind act I have done and grateful to my parents who always make and buy delicious food for me and grateful to my hair because I always neglect it and cause it to fall out but nevertheless it looks beautiful and I am grateful to myself when I was a child and my dream was to become a psychiatrist to make everyone happy also I grateful to you and this channel that I found it after such a long time that I was feeling bad about myself... I'll be fine and I'll make it through. This is a promise and I never break my promise💪... Thank you so much
Thankyou man
Thank you. Going to try the list
You’re amazing, I’ll do that ❤ thank you from Israel 🇮🇱 🙏🏾
Thank you Kirk, for another amazing video!😁 I'm gonna try to make it to at least a few of your seminars this summer! I really miss the feeling I get when I had gone to them! Also, it was super cool to get a response from you for one of my comments 😁
We'll be thrilled to have you attend! We just posted a live Body Language Show today with a great offer to attend a live event. Hope to see you soon! Here's the link ua-cam.com/video/7xaf5ZlSonM/v-deo.html (the video starts at 20 minutes in)
Thank you I am feeling this today!
Excellent as always. I'm helping you build up your watch hours with my addiction to my rise in vibration I feel when I listen and learn from you. Thank you.
Hey that was awesome!
I am sooooooooooo glad I clicked on this video
I am grateful for this presentation!❤️❤️❤️
Thank you for this it helped me soooooo much
I LOVE YOU!
This man is a genius
thank u sooo much i find this videos of you.. can i hire u in my head?because u help me a lot.. i cant talk to someone because they will just judge me😢
Go for this
Kirk duncan your awesome !!
It's all about the growth mindset baby!
Education is so important.
It was literally greatttttt...the last tip was literally best❤
VERY GREAT 👍
Thank you!!
Our pleasure Brichelle.
I'm grateful for indoor plumbing, hot showers and this channel I just found!♥️👍
I love this man 🥰
So true
i dont feel loved when i was a child maybe i develop this emotion. i love giving loved to other in return they will loved me back😢
When doing a thorough research , I've found; 99.9 percent of the population spend most of their time thinking about "What other's thinking about " , they all are thinking about the very same issue. So, if we rise above this number, we actually feel better about ourselves. Thus in turn, we are in a better position to be of help to others.
Yes
How do empaths and highly sensitive ppl deal with emotional invalidation? Also how do deal with nonstop talkers.. ppl who go on and on without asking you about you. PLEASE HELP! What is the wording I can use. Love your videos
You accept who they are and dont deal with anyone that makes you feel uncomfortable.
Very interesting video. But how does listing the things one is grateful for change the fact of the many past mistakes which torment me non stop?
I make videos, but I always end up deleting them and I hate myself for it.
I know if I only focus on what I really want, I will be happy and successful. But I can't. The brain is hard wired to focus on what is wrong.
At the beginning I am going out on a limb here. The answer is in comparing ourselves to others.
*problem
Bravo👍👍👍
Can u write these things down on your phone? 📲
This is the third video I’m watching in less than 30 mins and I just found your channel . ❤️ Thing is I’ve been getting these empathetic signs probably 2017 but I’m finally aligning now in 2020.
I always knew in my mind I had a purpose!
I LOVE YOU
IRK , YOU explaned it so well that I will show it to my Neath whoom I love very much I wish all the best….( You did it better han Me : ))))
great as always thank you very much 🙏🏻❤️
Thank you for watching! We are adding more videos each day, to help you add more value and success to your life.
Every day for the past 53 years.
Yes❤👍🌞
Depressed people pull up
How are you smiling so real at the front of a camera and not a person's eyes? Did you practice this, or you are really very cheerful?
I think that it's because that you worry too much
Wish you could be my mentor...
Such a common thought - Am I good enough? Thanks for sharing this video, very insightful and thought provoking. After talking with a friend who has been struggling this week, I actually just uploaded a video on believing in yourself on my channel - Check it out if you are interested. Remember that you ARE good enough, and you CAN do this, and you WILL get through this. Cheers.
Thanks Lauren
100 a week? Or is it 100 a day for a week? I'm scared 🤣
thank you sooo much
Thank you so much!!!!
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