For anyone curious about what healthy/balanced ESTJ's look like IRL, check out Jon Taffer from Bar Rescue: He has incredible control over his anger and knows how to utilize it in the correct way. Assholes who think they know everything? He lets them have it! People who are genuinely struggling and know they need help? He's very kind, understanding and supportive (like a father). Gordon Ramsay is also a good example. Trained chefs who think they know it all? He rips them a new one! Home cooks who aren't trained and trying new things? He's honest but not harsh. Children who are learning to cook? He's very sweet and supportive. Both of these guys have helped me gain so much more appreciation for ESTJ's. They speak their mind with full control over their anger/emotions and are incredibly effective at accomplishing what they want, something that INFP's often feel inside but are afraid to show or struggle to know how to implement. We love you ESTJ's!
Thank you!!! I’ve never felt so appreciated. Two people report to me. I suspect one is an ESTJ. She gets so bossy that sometimes I have to pull rank on her. I also have someone reporting to me whom I suspect is INFP. I try to be kind and gentle in my mentoring of him. He always tells me he never feels threatened by me and only feels supported.
to be fair, if you do a good job they'll b nice to you. unless you seem better than them. I won scrabble once he threw the whole thing off the table and sulked for hours. I apologised and said next time we could play twister rather, he would never play scrabble again.
I'm sorry :/ I thought my dad was an ESTJ too, but he's an ENFJ. Even him didn't believe his test, something's wrong, bcs he's clearly an ESTJ - bossy and sarcastic 😭
LOLOL I just realized that a good friend of mine is an ESTJ, and THIS VIDEO IS SSOOOOOOOO HERRRRR!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 It’s perfect!! I’ve gone on trips with her, and feel so sorry for the hotel front desk. 😂😂 …and then she says, “I’m bossy??!?” and “do people hate me??” ahahahahaha She has a good heart
estj here. fj tries his best, but he rarely ever represent estj accurately. its almost always “work! time! i am a soulless office worker!” which is pretty much a caricature type at this point. get to know real and healthy estjs, you’ll realize we are funny, loving, caring, and awkward! we come in different shapes and sizes and we help everyone around us. and no, just because you parent yells at you to tidy your room doesnt make them an estj… stop typing everyone you hate as estj.
Agreed, we don't all have anger management problems. To be fair I think Frank portrays all the types negatively. I like Dear Kristin's skits better, but they're still going to rely on stereotypes for comedic effect. I do relate to the office worker stereotype, and I get annoyed at little things and care about things being done right, but I'm not mean about it.
@@sarahberkner same here! i only get mean when people repeatedly ignore me after i’ve tried to help/fix. personally i’m a scattered and lazy person, so the heavy reliance on office worker stereotype gets on my nerves especially since it’s irrelevant in most skits! it’s almost as if we don’t exist out of workplaces lol. i need to see skits of estj watching a show, shopping for clothes, a teen doing homework etc. it feels like we’re the side characters after some point, since other types arent constantly depicted in the same roles unlike us ):
My best friend is an ESTJ, he’s fricking AWESOME!! Every time you see him it’s like an adventure, plus I love how honest he is! It’s really hard to find people that say what they mean and not sugar coat it.
As ESTJ every time I watch videos of other types, I think how awesome it is to be my type😂 Although I met some who were really.. . Indefinitely controlling, too harsh and so on. Really hard to deal with. I feel sorry for them. They need to let go because that's how people get heart attacks at the age of 40 - by trying to control too much. Well, we all have our flaws... I'm so happy to have an INFJ husband by my side. Makes me more patient.
@@helplessnarwhal3722 My girlfriend says exactly the same! I am an ESTJ and since i am in her life she had more adventure in those 3years than in the 30 years before that combined she says. And yes, no sugarcoating :P
It’s my friend to a T. SO PERFECT. . Love, love, your sense of humor. Too bad most people don’t want to learn about themselves. You could make a real living as a known Comedian AND give vital information to humanity.
I think I'm an ESTJ but I'm pretty shy and careful about my words, so I don't fit a lot of the stereotypes. And I don't believe that ALL ESTJs are angry people, I think they're usually unemotional but obviously still feel emotion because they're human. And maybe they lash out occasionally but it depends on the morals of the person. I take my work seriously, I'm detail-oriented and organized, I like doing stuff with people and staying busy, and I don't have a particularly warm, caring personality and don't show a lot of emotion or excitement. Well, I used to cry a lot as a kid but I'm glad I don't as much anymore, it was embarrassing.
thanks to my boy, fj, i now refer to anyone who is grossly incompetent as a "timmy". and by grossly incompetent, i mean probably mildly irritating to anyone who's not an estj.
hahahaha - I'm INFP with ESTJ boyfriend. I've witnessed every single one of these scenes. The manager one on valentines day at a restaurant omg it was so cringe and he shouted at me that I never complained and why would I just let people not do their job properly when paying for a service. I wanted to die lol..... went back in on my own after to check waitress wasn't upset. But you're right. So soft inside.
@@amytiffanyhemingway I'm wondering why many estjs ended up with an infp.my brother is an infp and he got married to an estj, I'm an estj myself and have an infp best friend. maybe because infps are so kind that they can tolerate everyone and then estjs go soft because of them? idk
@@mywednesday5487 I wholeheartedly agree with this. I must admit when I first met him he could be pretty mean and I just saw through it to the inner person. He warned me he'd been through many relationships quickly and almost tested me with things. I have a feeling the other types couldn't hang in there. When he has a temper I actually find it quite sexy, so it works. He has gone softer over the years.... he put a heart of shells on the beach and I almost couldn't believe it. I said that's like something I would do!
@@mywednesday5487 the amount of times he's told me to get a grip or sort my life out. But I actually kind of need that! Otherwise I just feel sorry myself and people walk all over me. I'm becoming more successful in my career now. His best friend is INFP, and he just calls him short all the time and this guy will do anything for him at the drop of a hat because he clearly looks up to him. So it's a dynamic that works for best friends too.
Most estjs got mistaken as a mean person but we just don't know other ways,and we often think that sometimes tough love is the best love lol. I often call out my brother or best friends and they take it so well,infps are such a sweetheart! And I love to observe how they handle things and try to implement it in my own life to make my personality less insufferable. I hate to admit it but I even keep a journal about the nice things my friends and family did for me and try to copy them, that's how clueless estjs are in terms of dealing with people's emotions😂
Same. Although sometimes I don't speak up because I know it won't so any good even if I'm right, or because it doesn't matter that much, and sometimes because I'm doubting myself because I've put my foot in my mouth before.
Same here in that in some situations I only think it, but I don’t speak up. But apparently my face gives me away, because in those situations I’m always asked “what’s wrong?” Or “can I help you?” And I end up getting a chance to give my helpful tips and advice!
Sometimes things need to be a little more direct and honest, for that I sometimes release the ESTJ to do it for me. And that's saying something considering I'm an INTJ...
I remember when I was a kid, there was a soap opera that I used to love very much and the protagonist - I'm quite sure she was a ESTJ to the bones, cuz she was so bossy and sarcastic and everyone in the show hated her (except her family and friends) even though she was the protagonist, the "lady" of the show; and her love interest (they had a love/hate relationship) was an ENFP for sure, and literally everyone loved him. Why ESTJs are so bossy and makes everyone hates them?
I really don't think Frank James depicts ESTJ accurately sometimes, his videos are funny but he paints ESTJs as jerks and not all of them are like that (some are I'm sure). I'm partly saying that because I think I'm an ESTJ, and it fits with other things I've read as well as common sense. We might make decisions based on logic and reasoning and be kind of unemotional but we're hopefully still non-robots with a conscience and feelings. Btw I like your profile picture!
@@vectorm1615 Regardless of personality types we all need to compromise one way or another in a relationship (both ways) I think opposites attract it can be of great chemistry or maybe love can grow from hate. My humble opinion is that as human beings being able to appretiate each other's differences and focusing on what's important is key. So I think I might be able to build a steady, loving relationship with an ESTJ if both sides have clear communication. ( Plus I dated an ENFJ once, it didn't work)
@@vectorm1615 hi im estj and my ex boyfriend is infp, i love him so much he’s my favorite person but we broke up because different beliefs. I wish i could find another infp guy
Estj is infj's dual. It is SAID that thry may be the best match. Well, i as an infj may see that this problem solving and never letting it go trait is what i am missing, and i wish someone did those things for me, but maybe just hire an estj assistant?... I think my enfp husband would not approve of such a rival 😂
I'm an actual ESTJ, and I don't have an anger management problem but I'll be the person to tell the restaurant the toilet paper out or, true story, tell the Panera manager there's a rug that people keep slipping on. He removed it.
Any type could be a Karen. It is honestly quite hard to make an adult ESTJ blow up. ESTJs are usually angry for a good reason. (If they are not stupid jerks that then again any type could be).
Karens can be a lot of different types but honestly yes my ESTJ dad does genuinely resemble a Karen. I can’t count how many times my father has tried to get a service worker, manager, whatever because something small and insignificant went awry. One instance I do recall was when, after grocery shopping, my father collected his change and was one penny short. My brother and I then proceeded to wait 15+ for him to get a manager or cashier to figure out the “issue”. He is such an efficient guy when it comes to errands but when stuff like that comes up he becomes inscrutably stubborn.
"Excuse me. Yes. That guy over there ordered his latte with extra foam. No I don't know him but make it for him again please." Dude what LMAO why is this so accurate... Edit: Will they ever add contextual understanding to autocorrect or have the definitions of do and so been swapped?
They're annoying but as an INFP they intrigue me that's why I like them. I suppose my ex was an estj (don't know for sure) and he was very funny in his own ways lol Edit: no, he actually is an ISTP. Almost there lol
Do they say that the opposite types attract? I am an INFP - the full opposite of ESTJ. I watched the sketches of my type and some other types that match my friends and family, and I found them pretty spot-on. I have never had a relationship with ESTJ, and I am wondering what would happen if I met a man of this type. Would I be attracted to him? Very likely, yes. But would I be able to stay with such a character for a long time? that's very unlikely...
@@amytiffanyhemingway So true! I’m very INFP and My ESTJ husband had to go through a lot of training and learn he can’t say things like “that outfit makes you look fat” 😂 And he helped me learn to at least sometimes face my responsibilities. We have helped each other grow so much!
@@sodakhanart I love to hear this. honestly? despite all the times he has really cut me deep, I am so grateful! I needed a kick up the bum. I really hope at some point he feels I've helped him in some way. As INFP we can be like children. We need an alpha male to protect us.
If you've met actual ESTJs (statistically you have, they're 8-10% of the population) you know we're not necessarily like this, this is supposed to be funny and not always accurate.
I actually think I may have been wrong. There’s a Frank James video where the types are voting out other types in a reality show, and ESTJ votes out ISFP (ua-cam.com/video/IaPuKdI5vAk/v-deo.html) - so, as an ISFP, I think it’s me that might be Timmy
@@jeunese That's true, but 1. ISFP is often considered the golden pair to ESTJ, and 2. In the video where the 16 personalities react to 16p memes, ESTJ sends a meme to Timmy with the caption "INFPs be like" to bully him, so I think it's canon that Timmy is INFP.
Welp my boyfriend is an ESTJ cute and funny by character and by that i mean he is man but like this 🤣 I'm an INTP -A by the way dating an ESTJ-A hahah😂😂😂
Again, as a fellow INFJ, I would be bothered, by someone taking my original creative material, and using it on their own channel. Is Frank cool with this? He has playlists, on his channel, for all the types, and you putting these together, while you may be doing this innocently enough, takes views away from his own playlists. You ought to ask for permission, unless you have already, in which case, I am assuming he is fine with it. He can claim copyright infringement against you, doing this, and UA-cam can give you a strike, and force you to remove these from your channel, or ban you entirely. -INFJ
I’ve said many times he can have all of these videos if he wants them. These are compilations of ONLY one personality type at a time so that people can share their personality type with others and look up the personality types of others. The videos are like any other compilations, and they only exist because I couldn’t find my own personality type as a mash-up. Before I knew it, people were requesting a compilation of their personality types too, so I did it. I link to Frank James’ channel and credit him for the original sketches on all my compilations, which is more than many compilations do. I also make zero money doing it. It takes time and effort to sort through and find the funniest sketches that fit into less than 5 minutes for each personality type.
@@sarahberkner SOME ESTJs are exactly as portrayed here. INFP with an ESTJ father who was also a cop. Nightmare. But you are right not all ESTJs are like this.
I’m an INFP with an ESTJ father as well haha. Let’s just say he got the court involved when they had no business being involved and cost my mother and family a lot. Anyways, what’s so interesting is that I’ve dated an ESTJ before and he was quite different from my father. Just as principled, organized, and skilled… but more shy, awkward, easygoing, and kind. So yes ESTJs can be very different from each other. That’s why we shouldn’t generalize
We need a Netflix show about Timmy. He even gets abuse from INTPs.
His mum's an esfj so not all bad
Timmy is an infp 😢😢😢
I read this a spit second before he said "Timmy"....
ah yes, for the timmy lore
For anyone curious about what healthy/balanced ESTJ's look like IRL, check out Jon Taffer from Bar Rescue:
He has incredible control over his anger and knows how to utilize it in the correct way. Assholes who think they know everything? He lets them have it! People who are genuinely struggling and know they need help? He's very kind, understanding and supportive (like a father).
Gordon Ramsay is also a good example. Trained chefs who think they know it all? He rips them a new one! Home cooks who aren't trained and trying new things? He's honest but not harsh. Children who are learning to cook? He's very sweet and supportive.
Both of these guys have helped me gain so much more appreciation for ESTJ's. They speak their mind with full control over their anger/emotions and are incredibly effective at accomplishing what they want, something that INFP's often feel inside but are afraid to show or struggle to know how to implement.
We love you ESTJ's!
Gordon Ramsay is textbook estj 😅
Thank you!!! I’ve never felt so appreciated. Two people report to me. I suspect one is an ESTJ. She gets so bossy that sometimes I have to pull rank on her. I also have someone reporting to me whom I suspect is INFP. I try to be kind and gentle in my mentoring of him. He always tells me he never feels threatened by me and only feels supported.
Oh gracias!! -ESTJ 3w2
The one dislike was Timmy.
Ah yes, the estjs one singular trait:
*bossy mean control freak*
The ESTJ I once had in my life was also very cheerful and caring. He was bossy and practical, too
@@jeunese yeah they are like onions
to be fair, if you do a good job they'll b nice to you. unless you seem better than them. I won scrabble once he threw the whole thing off the table and sulked for hours. I apologised and said next time we could play twister rather, he would never play scrabble again.
@@amytiffanyhemingway Ah yes, they both make people cry and have layers.
That'd be me too.
Omg, ESTJ here.. checking outta hotel 45 minutes early so spot on. 🤣
lol same we dont like to risk it. its embarassing to check out late imo… kinda raggedy lol
ESTJ woman married to an INFP man. Prior to marriage we both had lots of therapy. Raised two successful sons. Both of them are ENTJ.
this is my dad's type. let's have a moment of silence for me, shall we?
yea this is my mum's type
Poor thing, i'm a INTP female and i dealed with an ESTJ for 5 days, it was exhausting, i don't know how you handle it everyday
@@whocares4607 trust me, an estj dealing with an intp is much harder. you ti doms are nothing but headache.
I'm sorry :/ I thought my dad was an ESTJ too, but he's an ENFJ. Even him didn't believe his test, something's wrong, bcs he's clearly an ESTJ - bossy and sarcastic 😭
same lol, and my boyfriend. and I'm Timmy
LOLOL I just realized that a good friend of mine is an ESTJ, and THIS VIDEO IS SSOOOOOOOO HERRRRR!!! 😂😂😂😂😂 It’s perfect!! I’ve gone on trips with her, and feel so sorry for the hotel front desk. 😂😂
…and then she says, “I’m bossy??!?” and “do people hate me??” ahahahahaha She has a good heart
🤣
And he wears pink ballerina slippers while drinking his skinny pumpkin spice latte, after telling the barista how to do his job.
estj here. fj tries his best, but he rarely ever represent estj accurately. its almost always “work! time! i am a soulless office worker!” which is pretty much a caricature type at this point. get to know real and healthy estjs, you’ll realize we are funny, loving, caring, and awkward! we come in different shapes and sizes and we help everyone around us. and no, just because you parent yells at you to tidy your room doesnt make them an estj… stop typing everyone you hate as estj.
Agreed, we don't all have anger management problems. To be fair I think Frank portrays all the types negatively. I like Dear Kristin's skits better, but they're still going to rely on stereotypes for comedic effect. I do relate to the office worker stereotype, and I get annoyed at little things and care about things being done right, but I'm not mean about it.
@@sarahberkner same here! i only get mean when people repeatedly ignore me after i’ve tried to help/fix. personally i’m a scattered and lazy person, so the heavy reliance on office worker stereotype gets on my nerves especially since it’s irrelevant in most skits! it’s almost as if we don’t exist out of workplaces lol. i need to see skits of estj watching a show, shopping for clothes, a teen doing homework etc. it feels like we’re the side characters after some point, since other types arent constantly depicted in the same roles unlike us ):
@@chancellorpuddingheadI deleted my comment because I accidentally said the same thing to you twice.
as an ESTJ, thank you for this. agreed 100%. its almost like you know my personality!
Frank says all the time he bases his skits on stereotypes for comedic porpouses. So he's not exactly trying his best, but that's the point lol
I love that at the end he aggressively says “I am not that aggressive!”
Wow ESTJ is pretty underrated huh? Lol
Seems so
My best friend is an ESTJ, he’s fricking AWESOME!! Every time you see him it’s like an adventure, plus I love how honest he is! It’s really hard to find people that say what they mean and not sugar coat it.
Sad but true
As ESTJ every time I watch videos of other types, I think how awesome it is to be my type😂
Although I met some who were really.. . Indefinitely controlling, too harsh and so on. Really hard to deal with. I feel sorry for them. They need to let go because that's how people get heart attacks at the age of 40 - by trying to control too much.
Well, we all have our flaws...
I'm so happy to have an INFJ husband by my side. Makes me more patient.
@@helplessnarwhal3722 My girlfriend says exactly the same! I am an ESTJ and since i am in her life she had more adventure in those 3years than in the 30 years before that combined she says. And yes, no sugarcoating :P
It’s my friend to a T.
SO PERFECT. . Love, love, your sense of humor.
Too bad most people don’t want to learn about themselves. You could make a real living as a known Comedian AND give vital information to humanity.
ESTJs are very funny! I agree!
I think I'm an ESTJ but I'm pretty shy and careful about my words, so I don't fit a lot of the stereotypes. And I don't believe that ALL ESTJs are angry people, I think they're usually unemotional but obviously still feel emotion because they're human. And maybe they lash out occasionally but it depends on the morals of the person.
I take my work seriously, I'm detail-oriented and organized, I like doing stuff with people and staying busy, and I don't have a particularly warm, caring personality and don't show a lot of emotion or excitement. Well, I used to cry a lot as a kid but I'm glad I don't as much anymore, it was embarrassing.
That's literally me
the last sentence was the most estj thing you couldve said
thanks to my boy, fj, i now refer to anyone who is grossly incompetent as a "timmy". and by grossly incompetent, i mean probably mildly irritating to anyone who's not an estj.
Wow he's got a thing against Timmy 🤣
Timmy must be INFP.ESTJ here,we are soft inside.
hahahaha - I'm INFP with ESTJ boyfriend. I've witnessed every single one of these scenes. The manager one on valentines day at a restaurant omg it was so cringe and he shouted at me that I never complained and why would I just let people not do their job properly when paying for a service. I wanted to die lol..... went back in on my own after to check waitress wasn't upset. But you're right. So soft inside.
@@amytiffanyhemingway I'm wondering why many estjs ended up with an infp.my brother is an infp and he got married to an estj, I'm an estj myself and have an infp best friend. maybe because infps are so kind that they can tolerate everyone and then estjs go soft because of them? idk
@@mywednesday5487 I wholeheartedly agree with this. I must admit when I first met him he could be pretty mean and I just saw through it to the inner person. He warned me he'd been through many relationships quickly and almost tested me with things. I have a feeling the other types couldn't hang in there. When he has a temper I actually find it quite sexy, so it works. He has gone softer over the years.... he put a heart of shells on the beach and I almost couldn't believe it. I said that's like something I would do!
@@mywednesday5487 the amount of times he's told me to get a grip or sort my life out. But I actually kind of need that! Otherwise I just feel sorry myself and people walk all over me. I'm becoming more successful in my career now. His best friend is INFP, and he just calls him short all the time and this guy will do anything for him at the drop of a hat because he clearly looks up to him. So it's a dynamic that works for best friends too.
Most estjs got mistaken as a mean person but we just don't know other ways,and we often think that sometimes tough love is the best love lol. I often call out my brother or best friends and they take it so well,infps are such a sweetheart! And I love to observe how they handle things and try to implement it in my own life to make my personality less insufferable. I hate to admit it but I even keep a journal about the nice things my friends and family did for me and try to copy them, that's how clueless estjs are in terms of dealing with people's emotions😂
Allergic to apologies, that sounds right.
INFP passing through to see what my exact opposite would look like 👀
Poor Timmy, he gets so much crap.
Timmy is an infp for sure
I feel like the ESTJ is like ENFP but more sarcastic and narcissistic.
We do have that in us, but we come short of their sense of order and meticulousness
There is something similar. They both are very 'comfortable in their own skin'.
I'm an ESTJ but my social anxiety prevents me from speaking up, but I do think about it.
Same. Although sometimes I don't speak up because I know it won't so any good even if I'm right, or because it doesn't matter that much, and sometimes because I'm doubting myself because I've put my foot in my mouth before.
Same here in that in some situations I only think it, but I don’t speak up. But apparently my face gives me away, because in those situations I’m always asked “what’s wrong?” Or “can I help you?” And I end up getting a chance to give my helpful tips and advice!
3:05 I can def apologize if I actually did something wrong. ESTJ here.
So, have you ever apologized? lol
@@r12-z1v.. yes!
Saying sorry. Nbd. Saying I was wrong.... like dying by 1000 cuts.
@@dianewilson2330 not sure what you are saying... I can admit I have been wrong
"TIMMY U MISSED THE DEADLINE!!!!!!!!"- estj (from Frank James videos)
I laugh so hard out loud at these
I’m engaged to a ESTJ… the accuracy is painful lol
Sometimes things need to be a little more direct and honest, for that I sometimes release the ESTJ to do it for me.
And that's saying something considering I'm an INTJ...
Felt the resume scene
actually, felt them all.
Superior narciss
Damn Timmy
Is there Timmy lore bc ESTJ can’t let shit go from one person and go on and on about it
All the trauma with my ESTJ father is coming back.
Funny that Frank married an ESTJ
He's married to an ENTJ.
I guess I have to accept I'm just an ESTJ
They seem scary
like me every second of my life
this is my mom
My aunt is ESTJ and she is a nightmare 🤣🤣
I remember when I was a kid, there was a soap opera that I used to love very much and the protagonist - I'm quite sure she was a ESTJ to the bones, cuz she was so bossy and sarcastic and everyone in the show hated her (except her family and friends) even though she was the protagonist, the "lady" of the show; and her love interest (they had a love/hate relationship) was an ENFP for sure, and literally everyone loved him. Why ESTJs are so bossy and makes everyone hates them?
If u laugh😂 is bcz u identify urself😂😂😂
1:00 My dating experience 😂
I'm an INFP and an I.T and I wanted to know about my opposite and yeah
I really don't think Frank James depicts ESTJ accurately sometimes, his videos are funny but he paints ESTJs as jerks and not all of them are like that (some are I'm sure). I'm partly saying that because I think I'm an ESTJ, and it fits with other things I've read as well as common sense. We might make decisions based on logic and reasoning and be kind of unemotional but we're hopefully still non-robots with a conscience and feelings.
Btw I like your profile picture!
@@sarahberkner Thankss! I also thought how can someone be so "robotic" now I'm sure they ain't all that bad.
I'm an INFP too. So, what do you think? Would you be able to build a relationship with someone like this?
@@vectorm1615 Regardless of personality types we all need to compromise one way or another in a relationship (both ways) I think opposites attract it can be of great chemistry or maybe love can grow from hate.
My humble opinion is that as human beings being able to appretiate each other's differences and focusing on what's important is key.
So I think I might be able to build a steady, loving relationship with an ESTJ if both sides have clear communication.
( Plus I dated an ENFJ once, it didn't work)
@@vectorm1615 hi im estj and my ex boyfriend is infp, i love him so much he’s my favorite person but we broke up because different beliefs.
I wish i could find another infp guy
2:45 why is this so accurate
Estj is infj's dual. It is SAID that thry may be the best match. Well, i as an infj may see that this problem solving and never letting it go trait is what i am missing, and i wish someone did those things for me, but maybe just hire an estj assistant?... I think my enfp husband would not approve of such a rival 😂
These people scare me deeply, like deeply, and you totally can’t tell I’m an INFP by the way
Ssssooo all KARENs are ESTJs i guess 😅🤣
Unfortunately, ESFPs and ESFJs can be Karens too. Now I'm wondering if all ES types are prone to be Karens 🤔
@@mongoose9851 NO.
I'm an actual ESTJ, and I don't have an anger management problem but I'll be the person to tell the restaurant the toilet paper out or, true story, tell the Panera manager there's a rug that people keep slipping on. He removed it.
Any type could be a Karen. It is honestly quite hard to make an adult ESTJ blow up. ESTJs are usually angry for a good reason. (If they are not stupid jerks that then again any type could be).
Karens can be a lot of different types but honestly yes my ESTJ dad does genuinely resemble a Karen. I can’t count how many times my father has tried to get a service worker, manager, whatever because something small and insignificant went awry. One instance I do recall was when, after grocery shopping, my father collected his change and was one penny short. My brother and I then proceeded to wait 15+ for him to get a manager or cashier to figure out the “issue”. He is such an efficient guy when it comes to errands but when stuff like that comes up he becomes inscrutably stubborn.
"Excuse me. Yes. That guy over there ordered his latte with extra foam. No I don't know him but make it for him again please."
Dude what LMAO why is this so accurate...
Edit: Will they ever add contextual understanding to autocorrect or have the definitions of do and so been swapped?
We are much more nicer than that.
What is the difference between them and entjs?
They're annoying but as an INFP they intrigue me that's why I like them. I suppose my ex was an estj (don't know for sure) and he was very funny in his own ways lol
Edit: no, he actually is an ISTP. Almost there lol
Thanks I guess? Most of us aren't that mean.
@@sarahberknerikr, but y'all are do bossy. I'm sorry, I just don't like rude ppl, they make me cry 😭
What, is 2:17 what Timmy did? 😂😂😂
Controlling, mean, uptight
You'll get better, just try to loosen up a little :)
Do they say that the opposite types attract? I am an INFP - the full opposite of ESTJ. I watched the sketches of my type and some other types that match my friends and family, and I found them pretty spot-on. I have never had a relationship with ESTJ, and I am wondering what would happen if I met a man of this type. Would I be attracted to him? Very likely, yes. But would I be able to stay with such a character for a long time? that's very unlikely...
you'd love it.... and struggle greatly. I've managed 4 yrs almost as an INFP. I feel like I'm being constantly finely tuned through rigorous training.
@@amytiffanyhemingway So true! I’m very INFP and My ESTJ husband had to go through a lot of training and learn he can’t say things like “that outfit makes you look fat” 😂 And he helped me learn to at least sometimes face my responsibilities. We have helped each other grow so much!
@@sodakhanart I love to hear this. honestly? despite all the times he has really cut me deep, I am so grateful! I needed a kick up the bum. I really hope at some point he feels I've helped him in some way. As INFP we can be like children. We need an alpha male to protect us.
@@amytiffanyhemingway Exactly!!!
If you've met actual ESTJs (statistically you have, they're 8-10% of the population) you know we're not necessarily like this, this is supposed to be funny and not always accurate.
Ok but what type is timmy?
INFP
Makes sense
I actually think I may have been wrong. There’s a Frank James video where the types are voting out other types in a reality show, and ESTJ votes out ISFP (ua-cam.com/video/IaPuKdI5vAk/v-deo.html) - so, as an ISFP, I think it’s me that might be Timmy
@@jeunese That's true, but 1. ISFP is often considered the golden pair to ESTJ, and 2. In the video where the 16 personalities react to 16p memes, ESTJ sends a meme to Timmy with the caption "INFPs be like" to bully him, so I think it's canon that Timmy is INFP.
Toilet paper should be under hahaha.
Is this The Chandler Bing show????
Chandler is an INTP to the core, but yeah, we INTPs are sarcastic like any other thinker type
@@whocares4607omg, he's an INTP like Sherlock too??? :O
Welp my boyfriend is an ESTJ cute and funny by character and by that i mean he is man but like this 🤣 I'm an INTP -A by the way dating an ESTJ-A hahah😂😂😂
Again, as a fellow INFJ, I would be bothered, by someone taking my original creative material, and using it on their own channel. Is Frank cool with this? He has playlists, on his channel, for all the types, and you putting these together, while you may be doing this innocently enough, takes views away from his own playlists. You ought to ask for permission, unless you have already, in which case, I am assuming he is fine with it. He can claim copyright infringement against you, doing this, and UA-cam can give you a strike, and force you to remove these from your channel, or ban you entirely. -INFJ
I’ve said many times he can have all of these videos if he wants them. These are compilations of ONLY one personality type at a time so that people can share their personality type with others and look up the personality types of others. The videos are like any other compilations, and they only exist because I couldn’t find my own personality type as a mash-up. Before I knew it, people were requesting a compilation of their personality types too, so I did it. I link to Frank James’ channel and credit him for the original sketches on all my compilations, which is more than many compilations do. I also make zero money doing it. It takes time and effort to sort through and find the funniest sketches that fit into less than 5 minutes for each personality type.
I don't see the problem, thanks for making them :)
I hate this personality type.
ESTJs are not just like we're portrayed here, this is for comedic purposes, so you're hating a fictional character.
@@sarahberkner SOME ESTJs are exactly as portrayed here. INFP with an ESTJ father who was also a cop. Nightmare. But you are right not all ESTJs are like this.
Don’t hate us. These are extremes. I’m am kind and gentle most of the time, and only speak directly when I need to.
I’m an INFP with an ESTJ father as well haha. Let’s just say he got the court involved when they had no business being involved and cost my mother and family a lot.
Anyways, what’s so interesting is that I’ve dated an ESTJ before and he was quite different from my father. Just as principled, organized, and skilled… but more shy, awkward, easygoing, and kind. So yes ESTJs can be very different from each other. That’s why we shouldn’t generalize