I saw a video. Father go becomes traffic police officer ask the person to stop when want to check him. He didn't stop and knocked the traffic police officer's. His wife was so heart break when get the new from police. They want to make more money 💰 because they needs to support their daughter at Canada university studying. Her mother dare not to tellings they daughter. When the daughter noticed she was collapsed. If she knows she will stay in their own country to staying instead of going overseas. Your's parents stills with you'll, you should cherish the times. Singapore 1 to 2hrs will reach home. If didn't stay together also can often go home see grandparents and parents. You'll knows or not when you'll baby's midnight is who who take care you'll when you'll needs milk 🥛 when you'll sick is who take care you'll at home and go see doctor 💝❣️💝 so when we'll becomes adult also must taking care back Our's grandparents and parents. And those always put sons daughters on top. Can teachings them to caring their grandparents too. Ok. Tq. Jie you 👍😍❤️
Ok. Your's father really is a good father. Really to brings him and his precious wife you'll mother to coffeeshop to having coffee ☕ and tea 🍵 and lunch and dinner ok
@@pokeriabhrnftan7488 Yes, my father are good, he don't mind to sleep at the kitchen, few years later, my brother brought a 4 room flat, and give my parents a room to sleep.
多自由
抛弃家人：自由又自在!
独居自由又方便 👍👍
我已婚但是能再选择我会自己买间两方式组屋自己住。比较容易打理，自己也负担的较起。
独居没人唠叨了😁
都无需担心啦，有公积金在，老的屋子值钱，可以当棺材本，小的可以独自买组屋了，不想独居的只是公积金不够啦，必须找个依靠。 必需担心的是瘟疫，尤其是专找老人的瘟疫，等一下人在天堂，钱在公积金局，那这一生到底是为谁辛苦为谁忙呢?
独居八年的路过
一长大就独居了
我从不独居也没有一个人睡觉。从小到我嫁人不会选择一个人需要有人陪。就算我先生出国我还是会跟孩子睡。可能一直以来身边有人陪和需要一个抱枕。没了的这俩样会睡不着。
李光耀提倡三代同堂，忘了吗？
住在附近最好，因為可以互相，互相關照
考虑过独居老人的感受吗？想过你小时候父母也失去失去私人空间吗？
独居二十多年，如果父母不要失去私人空间就一辈子独居， 不结婚，不生育。
@@768jefiline7原来，是父母错了。
@@mangosalads5847 那是，父母当时不是因为想要性生活，想要生育子女才结婚的吗？自己没有能力养育，要求子女负担合理吗？子女自己选择来到世界的吗？不要亲情绑架了。
@@768jefiline7 希望你的父母有自给自足的能力，不需要依靠你。也希望你能幸福，或许将来会有不同的心态。
@@mangosalads5847 我父母有能力就不会把我们当摇钱树，长大离家独居是我最幸福的事。看着你们长大当父母，又等待他们养老，就是重复父母们的恶性循环。你的儿女们一定不会像你对待父母一样对待你。如果你也等着儿女发薪，你跟你的父母一样失败，吃饱等死。
住在一起，是谁做家务，谁需养家，谁受不了谁了? 虽然是一家人，但问题是很现实的，需要依赖别人的人，是不会说喜欢独居的，受不了家人依赖的人，就会赶快找机会独居。
所以一长大就独居了
@@768jefiline7 还是那个有没能力独居的问题，而不是长大了没，长大后如果还没能力独居，那就必需对人说要伺奉父母，待在父母身边做孝子，不能傻到说要啃老，真正的傻仔无法独立，也不懂得说自己是在啃老的，所以千万不能说"啃老"这二字来证明自己比傻子更低智，必需说是为了陪父母，为了尽孝，要记得哦!
I saw a video. Father go becomes traffic police officer ask the person to stop when want to check him. He didn't stop and knocked the traffic police officer's. His wife was so heart break when get the new from police. They want to make more money 💰 because they needs to support their daughter at Canada university studying. Her mother dare not to tellings they daughter. When the daughter noticed she was collapsed. If she knows she will stay in their own country to staying instead of going overseas. Your's parents stills with you'll, you should cherish the times. Singapore 1 to 2hrs will reach home. If didn't stay together also can often go home see grandparents and parents. You'll knows or not when you'll baby's midnight is who who take care you'll when you'll needs milk 🥛 when you'll sick is who take care you'll at home and go see doctor 💝❣️💝 so when we'll becomes adult also must taking care back Our's grandparents and parents. And those always put sons daughters on top. Can teachings them to caring their grandparents too. Ok. Tq. Jie you 👍😍❤️
Yes right. 👍
Why father sleeping in kitchen. Not living room
@@pokeriabhrnftan7488 because watching t.v. at living room, abit noisy, so he sleep at kitchen.
Ok. Your's father really is a good father. Really to brings him and his precious wife you'll mother to coffeeshop to having coffee ☕ and tea 🍵 and lunch and dinner ok
@@pokeriabhrnftan7488 Yes, my father are good, he don't mind to sleep at the kitchen, few years later, my brother brought a 4 room flat, and give my parents a room to sleep.
应该是多花时间陪伴父母，弟妹，而不是自己帮岀去住，和朋友吃唱玩乐!父母肯定放心不下的!别忘了，"身体发肤，授之父母"!优良传统的華校关闭是真的可惜的!我以華校高中文科毕业而引以为荣!只是南大巳关闭，无以上大學!孩子也大了，余生就多花时间陪父母，虽然我快步入花甲，父母还是当我是小孩，担心我!请记得，有难时，朋友都不见了，只有父母，弟妹会帮忙的，清醒吧!
嗯 吃喝玩乐
新加坡华人实在可悲！
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另外严孟达也提出华人取洋名实在可圈可点，说弃原名取洋名，举手投足都浸染在“洋文化”中而迷惑不醒，身虽为华人而心已非华人，今生既已“选定”，来生的“选择”自然不言而喻了。报道也提出新加坡人首先是无知，不少新加坡华人对华族文化及历史所知有限，因此无法建立起身为华人的自尊和自信。不过，自古已然并不符合事实，华人传统上是“贵华夏，贱蛮夷”，只能说某些时期某些人有媚外心态。
搬出去住和弃养父母是不一样的。就算住在一起，也有不孝的子女成天靠爸靠妈或对父母莫不关心。何必呢？ 父母年老了也想过轻松的乐龄生活。毕竟一辈子为了子女奔波，牺牲了自己。 孩子啊，别以为每个老人都喜欢想儿孙·福。不如自己早点独立，让父母少操点心，提供他们想要的退休生方式。而不是认为他们乐于伺候孩子至死。还有，很多孩子都是因为贪图方便，想把钱花在吃喝玩乐才选择和父母同住的。即使结了婚，生了孩子，只要是父母没开口要生活费，很多人都会以自己要养家当借口不再继续供应父母。直到父母重病才开始计较兄弟姐妹们各自付出多少。人都是很自私的。享受的当下，觉得理所当然。当要付出的时候突然变得斤斤计较。真正孝心是有心与量力而出 其实住哪里都不是问题，也没有错。
你花甲还没搬出去？住爸妈，吃爸妈，啃老？
@@hokkian 中国台湾香港马来西亚印尼泰国的华人比较骄傲？