I got a 2 year old abused rescue that did this, if I left the room without her she would bark none stop until I came back. It took 3 weeks of going in and out of the room multiple times a day for increasing periods and only coming back in when she stopped barking, before she finally stopped. She actually got worse before she got better, the longest I waited before she stopped barking long enough for me to come back in was 1.5 hours. Consistency is the key, and not giving up!
it's not a sweet bond; the dog has anxiety caused by betting addicted by the dopamine rush of being next to the owner. The dog has to learn to be able to settle his mind when his owner is away else the dog will be condemned to a life of mental anxiety and helplessness.
They have a lovely bond,have been through a lot together,I hope things continue to improve with jax seperation anxiety,a lovely young man and a beautiful dog
It seems like they have a great bond, a human a dog bond, it's so primitive but so natural. The purpose of a dog is to accompany his owner and to be his "shadow". It's a pity that in today's society dog can't follow his human everywhere, even to a grocery shop, even on a leash and muzzle
Lovely bond between them and of course Graeme does an amazing job! To really get to the place he wants to be he could also try additional runs, agility training etc… as the saying goes, a tired dog is a good dog 😊
My sheepdog mix was like that, I think sheepdogs are especially prone to separation anxiety, because they were bred to be with their shepherd and their herd... It was really hard, she died a year ago, now I'm free but miss her very much, I would have a new dog in an instant but this suffocating experience holds me back
@squaretriangle9208 I had a beautiful bearded collie Alfie and he was beautiful but he would herd people we used to hike everywhere together mountain and hill walking. But in the house my family couldn't leave my home very intelligent dog he lived to be nearly 15. They are a lovely breed. I still miss Alfie everyday I can understand how I feel.
Bonjour et bien oui , c'est ça un malinois ! J'ai le même à la maison . Ce sont des chiens merveilleux et très intelligents. Faut gérer..... Alors presque le même parcours , toi une leucémie et moi un cancer des intestins. Mon Tino me suit partout. Si je sors , il aboie, il hurle non stop, mais moi, j'ai la chance d'habiter une ferme. Néanmoins les voisins qui habitent loin, l'entendent non stop, jusqu’à que je sois rentré. Mais mon chien , je l'adore. Je suis en train de finaliser la construction d'un chenil quand je ne peux vraiment pas l'emmener. Bon courage
Excellent example of how the training of eliminating separation anxiety starts indoors by teaching the dog that you do not have to follow me around whereever I go. :-)
Such intelligent dogs. Good thing is they can be trained.Often with these dogs they just need a lot of exercise and stimulation hence working dogs.Then they are easier to settle.We tend to overlook this.Such a lovely companion and bond.
I have had and still having the same with my daughters adopted 4 yr old beagle. He follows me everywhere but not the bathroom 😂. I have stopped him from sleeping on my bed now he sleeps on his own bed, I have been crate training him and he’s been left for a few hours. He will only whine if he’s in the crate when we are all home. His separation anxiety is down to the previous owner, dog shelter & the people who fostered him for 8 wks before he came to my family. He has had no boundaries and not been taught to be independent of people. As I write this he’s asleep at the bottom of my bed, but that’s only when I allowed him otherwise he knows he goes to his bed. I swear it’s harder than having kids! 😂😂😂
@@siamsadie i got a GSP German short haired pointer (my nr3 GSP) and he steps on my feet all over the house, following me even into the shower, i can tell him to go relax so really not a big problem but i have to say it every time i get out of the sofa :) but not bothered if i leave the house and an angel in the car when i leave it for the shop :) ,. anyway a Lovely Dog he is
@@squaretriangle9208 All my neighbors got border collie and not just one, well but then i live in Vesterålen outback :=) and dogs stay around the farm off leash just like my GSP , never running away . A lot of space. and i grew up with a Rough collie.. boff boff :)
Nice days ride there. Always enjoy a two up tour as that’s how I tour, including the usual contradictions that come with 35 years of marriage 😂, at 64 she’s not quite so enthusiastic at hanging on the back of my multistrada these days and envys your goldwing, look forward to the next instalment
Fantastic progress. These two are so closely bonded, separation anxiety arose for Jax as soon as Jordan was out of sight for even a minute. With expert help and guidance from Graeme, Jordan has more freedom and hopefully can have outings on his own with his girlfriend, or on his bike, and still be closely bonded with Jax upon his return..
I just stumbled onto this show, and. Well. I’ve always had well behaved, obedient dogs throughout my life. It just WAS. I was the leader. They followed. Period. Many dogs many breeds. I’m 60 now. I was pretty much over having them, but I couldn’t help myself saving a perfect little bit older gentleman, no more puppies, thank you, he just looked so SAD, best guess, cairn mix. I brought him home for a trial. I’m not that naive lol. cat, fine. Little grandKids, fine. Housebroken? Absolutely perfect. He can wait until we get up. Quiet. A dream little doggie! So dang cute, small enough. First terrier, though. Or smaller dog. I never realized just how manipulative they can be😂. I’m seeing in our behavior, that we are starting to give into his begging for food “just make him stop”. And I’ve had setters lol. And acting aggressive at other dogs on walks, avoidance. He walked ok when we got him. It’s progressively been worse. I laughed out loud at the woman who ducked behind cars, and people who time their dog’s walks. Guilty! I’m ashamed to say I can see why he’s doing it now. We’re letting him decide. Completely ridiculous 😂 It’s been a slow insidious slide, but it’s stopping, now. And it really is working quick. Changed up my harness, blocking, little corrections. Always good boy! I would have never ever dreamed in a million years before letting my dogs boss me around. Got complacent I guess. Those little things snowball lol. Terriers are stubborn, whew lol. 😂 This is a fantastic show. He blows Cesear away, imo.
Ok I'm confused. Here in Ontario Canada a support dog is with you 24/7. So he only got this dog because he was lonely and wanted a dog because of SARS? Wrong reason.
I have support dog, but can't dump trash or leave for 15 minutes. Original owners ignored and dumped on the streets. Don't blame her. 2 years on, can get mail or go to trash, however 30 minutes, she goes nutso. Neighbor hates dogs and complains about ANY noise .velcro dog, I wanted a companion, however 15 minutes is all I ask!
As much as he loves him, this breed should never be pets, they are far too intelligent and energetic to be pets. He should be aware of this and try to replicate a full time active job as much as possible and know that this isn't the ideal home for this type of dog.
Also the breed is often used for protection work because of their loyalty and work drive. Some of them are bitey because that's what the breed is trained for.
@lucyb5028 Trust me I know that. Many even here in Ontario Canada got puppies during covid. And guess what? The majority were surrendered in Rescues and Shelters because they went back to work after and had no times for them. This I know.
Exactly! 💯 That's the reason why you inform yourself about what it's like and what's needed to be a dog owner IN THE FIRST PLACE, even BEFORE getting the dog! And especially about the breed and it's needs. Not to inform yourself about your new family member's needs and whereabouts is selfish and 'not smart' (to say it mildly ;)
Interesting, I have a rescued service dog and she has severe separation anxiety, too. For every dog that behaves badIy, behind that dog is a hoarder of nasty peopIe in the "training" centers. A young dog bred for hyperactivity shouId have the opportunity to expend that energy, too. It's Iike teIIing an active toddler to sit in a chair aII day and do nothing.
THAT is why you train your PUPPY to be alone from the very start! Not for long of course, only to leave a room for startes, go upstairs without it following you, and come back in, without stressing. Or you do some soft blanket training. (I'm not a fan of kennel training, I've seen examples of people leaving their poor big dogs in way too tiny cages, locked up alone for HOURS! So no, I'm more for training the dog that it has a safe space in the house to go to for relaxation while nobody is at home.) You do it best when your puppy/or older dog is exhausted from a big walk, running off leash or playing, not thirsty, well fed, still awake, but kind of a tired sleepyhead. That's the perfect moment. You can even let some soft background music or radio play while you're away. This way he or she will luckily have sweet dreams until you'll be home again soon. And you can ease the experience, too by giving the dog something to do while you're away: Get your dog a lovely stocked Kong with something really delicious! Like liversausage or cream cheese, a special treat the dog will only get whenever you'll need to leave the house. This way you're connecting leaving the house with something positive! The dog will be busy and engaged with licking the good stuff out of the toy, it's a rewarding feeling for the animal and the pure physical and mental act will help to calm its nerves, too. And if your dog is one of those who can't stay alone, be a responsible dog owner and give it to a doggy daycare where there will be dog friends and people to be engaged with until it's finally time to go home ;) I'm wondering, what did Jordan do when he had to leave for a doctors appointment for example...? Didn't he informed himself (by books research, internet articles etc) how to train a dog to be at home alone in the first place? Are people really that naive? Here in Germany people bring their dogs to daycare like dropping off their kids at kindergarden before they'll leave for work.
I got a 2 year old abused rescue that did this, if I left the room without her she would bark none stop until I came back. It took 3 weeks of going in and out of the room multiple times a day for increasing periods and only coming back in when she stopped barking, before she finally stopped. She actually got worse before she got better, the longest I waited before she stopped barking long enough for me to come back in was 1.5 hours. Consistency is the key, and not giving up!
Damnnnnnn 1.5 hours! I commend you for not giving in during that time
Ohhhh lovely doggy wants to look after him always.
What a sweet bond between these two❤
it's not a sweet bond; the dog has anxiety caused by betting addicted by the dopamine rush of being next to the owner. The dog has to learn to be able to settle his mind when his owner is away else the dog will be condemned to a life of mental anxiety and helplessness.
@@robin212212you are absolutely correct. There is nothing sweet about unhealthy relationships, whether with humans or canines.
What a beautiful dog stunning The Malinois. Jaxx is gorgeous
They have a lovely bond,have been through a lot together,I hope things continue to improve with jax seperation anxiety,a lovely young man and a beautiful dog
It seems like they have a great bond, a human a dog bond, it's so primitive but so natural. The purpose of a dog is to accompany his owner and to be his "shadow". It's a pity that in today's society dog can't follow his human everywhere, even to a grocery shop, even on a leash and muzzle
When your support needs support, you know you're in trouble 😂 Glad it seems to have improved!
Lovely bond between them and of course Graeme does an amazing job! To really get to the place he wants to be he could also try additional runs, agility training etc… as the saying goes, a tired dog is a good dog 😊
Yes! Malinois are extremely intelligent working dogs, so more stimulation and training would be great.
My sheepdog mix was like that, I think sheepdogs are especially prone to separation anxiety, because they were bred to be with their shepherd and their herd...
It was really hard, she died a year ago, now I'm free but miss her very much, I would have a new dog in an instant but this suffocating experience holds me back
@squaretriangle9208 I had a beautiful bearded collie Alfie and he was beautiful but he would herd people we used to hike everywhere together mountain and hill walking. But in the house my family couldn't leave my home very intelligent dog he lived to be nearly 15. They are a lovely breed. I still miss Alfie everyday I can understand how I feel.
@@jenniferjones188 🤗
Bonjour et bien oui , c'est ça un malinois ! J'ai le même à la maison . Ce sont des chiens merveilleux et très intelligents. Faut gérer..... Alors presque le même parcours , toi une leucémie et moi un cancer des intestins. Mon Tino me suit partout. Si je sors , il aboie, il hurle non stop, mais moi, j'ai la chance d'habiter une ferme. Néanmoins les voisins qui habitent loin, l'entendent non stop, jusqu’à que je sois rentré. Mais mon chien , je l'adore. Je suis en train de finaliser la construction d'un chenil quand je ne peux vraiment pas l'emmener. Bon courage
I wish you a full recovery!
Always a great outcome with a Master of his craft. A really good video. Cheers from Glasgow
Excellent example of how the training of eliminating separation anxiety starts indoors by teaching the dog that you do not have to follow me around whereever I go. :-)
Awwwwwww, such a cute little pair.
Such intelligent dogs. Good thing is they can be trained.Often with these dogs they just need a lot of exercise and stimulation hence working dogs.Then they are easier to settle.We tend to overlook this.Such a lovely companion and bond.
I have had and still having the same with my daughters adopted 4 yr old beagle. He follows me everywhere but not the bathroom 😂. I have stopped him from sleeping on my bed now he sleeps on his own bed, I have been crate training him and he’s been left for a few hours. He will only whine if he’s in the crate when we are all home. His separation anxiety is down to the previous owner, dog shelter & the people who fostered him for 8 wks before he came to my family. He has had no boundaries and not been taught to be independent of people. As I write this he’s asleep at the bottom of my bed, but that’s only when I allowed him otherwise he knows he goes to his bed. I swear it’s harder than having kids! 😂😂😂
What a beautiful dog
I have known so many German Sheppard's with separations anxiety, quite known for it .
Got one now , he’s a nightmare
@@siamsadie i got a GSP German short haired pointer (my nr3 GSP) and he steps on my feet all over the house, following me even into the shower, i can tell him to go relax so really not a big problem but i have to say it every time i get out of the sofa :) but not bothered if i leave the house and an angel in the car when i leave it for the shop :) ,. anyway a Lovely Dog he is
Velcro dogs.
@@kendexterno sheepdog
@@squaretriangle9208 All my neighbors got border collie and not just one, well but then i live in Vesterålen outback :=) and dogs stay around the farm off leash just like my GSP , never running away . A lot of space. and i grew up with a Rough collie.. boff boff :)
i m concerned and hope he is walking jax he needs lots of exercise and games and letting him meet other dogs and friends s
Just love this show,an all the dogs,some good tips on how to train it dog right to.Graham is a great trauner,how does he do it.🐕🐕😃
Nice days ride there. Always enjoy a two up tour as that’s how I tour, including the usual contradictions that come with 35 years of marriage 😂, at 64 she’s not quite so enthusiastic at hanging on the back of my multistrada these days and envys your goldwing, look forward to the next instalment
Fantastic progress. These two are so closely bonded, separation anxiety arose for Jax as soon as Jordan was out of sight for even a minute. With expert help and guidance from Graeme, Jordan has more freedom and hopefully can have outings on his own with his girlfriend, or on his bike, and still be closely bonded with Jax upon his return..
Wonderful story
Gracias Graham por tantas herramientas, me pasa lo mismo y me has dado muchas tareas para empezar a mejorar la ansiedad de mi queridisima!!
Now he stays with Graeme😂
I just stumbled onto this show, and. Well. I’ve always had well behaved, obedient dogs throughout my life. It just WAS. I was the leader. They followed. Period. Many dogs many breeds. I’m 60 now. I was pretty much over having them, but I couldn’t help myself saving a perfect little bit older gentleman, no more puppies, thank you, he just looked so SAD, best guess, cairn mix. I brought him home for a trial. I’m not that naive lol. cat, fine. Little grandKids, fine. Housebroken? Absolutely perfect. He can wait until we get up. Quiet. A dream little doggie! So dang cute, small enough. First terrier, though. Or smaller dog. I never realized just how manipulative they can be😂. I’m seeing in our behavior, that we are starting to give into his begging for food “just make him stop”. And I’ve had setters lol. And acting aggressive at other dogs on walks, avoidance. He walked ok when we got him. It’s progressively been worse. I laughed out loud at the woman who ducked behind cars, and people who time their dog’s walks. Guilty! I’m ashamed to say I can see why he’s doing it now. We’re letting him decide. Completely ridiculous 😂 It’s been a slow insidious slide, but it’s stopping, now. And it really is working quick. Changed up my harness, blocking, little corrections. Always good boy! I would have never ever dreamed in a million years before letting my dogs boss me around. Got complacent I guess. Those little things snowball lol. Terriers are stubborn, whew lol. 😂 This is a fantastic show. He blows Cesear away, imo.
But he’s so cute 🥰
I tried this with my dog all it taught her was to anticipate food on return now she stays but whines for food 😫
This breed of dog need extreme stimulation as a working breed , he’s bored
My dog same
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All great but that dog needs to run every day and should have been before all the “training”. All dog trainers know that exercise is key.
Cute duck 76
Just needs to be no longer than 4 minutes away. What a nightmare 😬
Ok I'm confused. Here in Ontario Canada a support dog is with you 24/7. So he only got this dog because he was lonely and wanted a dog because of SARS? Wrong reason.
I have support dog, but can't dump trash or leave for 15 minutes. Original owners ignored and dumped on the streets. Don't blame her. 2 years on, can get mail or go to trash, however 30 minutes, she goes nutso. Neighbor hates dogs and complains about ANY noise .velcro dog, I wanted a companion, however 15 minutes is all I ask!
As much as he loves him, this breed should never be pets, they are far too intelligent and energetic to be pets. He should be aware of this and try to replicate a full time active job as much as possible and know that this isn't the ideal home for this type of dog.
Also the breed is often used for protection work because of their loyalty and work drive. Some of them are bitey because that's what the breed is trained for.
Ohhh stop. My nephew has 5 with no issues
@@happycanadianfarmer Not seeing issues doesn't mean there not there.
@lucyb5028 Trust me I know that. Many even here in Ontario Canada got puppies during covid. And guess what? The majority were surrendered in Rescues and Shelters because they went back to work after and had no times for them. This I know.
Exactly! 💯
That's the reason why you inform yourself about what it's like and what's needed to be a dog owner IN THE FIRST PLACE, even BEFORE getting the dog!
And especially about the breed and it's needs.
Not to inform yourself about your new family member's needs and whereabouts is selfish and 'not smart' (to say it mildly ;)
Interesting, I have a rescued service dog and she has severe separation anxiety, too. For every dog that behaves badIy, behind that dog is a hoarder of nasty peopIe in the "training" centers. A young dog bred for hyperactivity shouId have the opportunity to expend that energy, too. It's Iike teIIing an active toddler to sit in a chair aII day and do nothing.
I feel sorry for this dog
I don’t see toys he could use a brain toy so he has something to do when he is alone
Needs a yard
You get a dog for a companion, not an exile. Take mine everywhere, if can't have someone there with her. Dumped on streets, gow can you blame them!
Pfffffffft I couldn’t do it 😅
THAT is why you train your PUPPY to be alone from the very start!
Not for long of course, only to leave a room for startes, go upstairs without it following you, and come back in, without stressing.
Or you do some soft blanket training. (I'm not a fan of kennel training, I've seen examples of people leaving their poor big dogs in way too tiny cages, locked up alone for HOURS! So no, I'm more for training the dog that it has a safe space in the house to go to for relaxation while nobody is at home.)
You do it best when your puppy/or older dog is exhausted from a big walk, running off leash or playing, not thirsty, well fed, still awake,
but kind of a tired sleepyhead.
That's the perfect moment.
You can even let some soft background music or radio play while you're away.
This way he or she will luckily have sweet dreams until you'll be home again soon.
And you can ease the experience, too by giving the dog something to do while you're away:
Get your dog a lovely stocked Kong with something really delicious!
Like liversausage or cream cheese, a special treat the dog will only get whenever you'll need to leave the house.
This way you're connecting leaving the house with something positive!
The dog will be busy and engaged with licking the good stuff out of the toy, it's a rewarding feeling for the animal and the pure physical and mental act will help to calm its nerves, too.
And if your dog is one of those who can't stay alone, be a responsible dog owner and give it to a doggy daycare where there will be dog friends and people to be engaged with until it's finally time to go home ;)
I'm wondering, what did Jordan do when he had to leave for a doctors appointment for example...?
Didn't he informed himself (by books research, internet articles etc) how to train a dog to be at home alone in the first place?
Are people really that naive?
Here in Germany people bring their dogs to daycare like dropping off their kids at kindergarden before they'll leave for work.
Clever hunter 30
Why are you going somewhere without your support dog. You must not him
wrong breed for the job
Malinois are used extensively as support dogs because there so intelligent
Fake tv.
I dont like sad dogs
That seems like a pretty normal thing, mate.
The dog appears to be severely constipated and needs a massive poo! 💩💩💩
Trainer has to live with Ceasar Milan for years. He is pathetic. 😊
What is wrong with people
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Cute duck 76