You are amazing woman. Proud of you 👏. Kuv yog ib tus txiv tsev thov qhuas koj thiab nrog koj zoo siab qhov koj tsi yuam kev rov mus rau lub neej qub. 🎉
YES! The best revenge against a cheating ex-spouse is to become happy again in a new marriage and just continue living your new life. Ignore the loser and let him stew in his own misery that was of his own making. Let him live in regrets for the rest of his life for f*cking up his marriage. Typical of a cheater to try to deflect the blame onto you for setting him up---if he were an honorable, loving husband, then he would not have fallen for any setup.
I’m 40 this yr and just learned that “you are their friend but they are not yours” not everyone you meet can be your friends those that speak kindly softly gives you hugs every time are the ones you should be cautious around.
My friend betrayed me with my ex too. They only lasted 2 and half months. He saw me at the club after they were together for 21/2 months and decided to dumped her that same night to chased me again. I never gave him a chance. After 4 yrs, he decided to get married with another hoe but till this day, he still called to ask me to take him back. Doesn't matter how many times I blocked him, he'll go get a new phone number and called me again. A cheater will always cheat. The bad thing is, I can't love another man just yet even after 8 yrs due to trust issues. Today, I might not be with anyone but I'm very happy and have all the freedom I want😊
Proud of you sis. Enjoy being single while you still can. Love doesn't need to be rushed. Take your time. Use this time in getting to know yourself and taking care of yourself.
Ok, I give it to you. You were stupid in the beginning. But you got smarter in the end. It is the progression of growth that made you smart and you deserve your happiness.
Sister, I’m so proud of you for getting rid of this dog for good! You are smart! Your backstabbing friend is a traitor and was never your friend to begin with. Your ex doesn’t deserve you. Let him badmouth you for he knows exactly what he did wrong. I’m happy you have a good husband who loves and treats you well now. Good luck.❤👍 👍
She was never your friend. Not everyone is your friend. Be careful of who you tell your problems to, some people are just waiting for the right time to insert themselves into you life.
Not everyone will be your friend after their benefits is done from you! Never trust never tell anyone your personal problems. I myself as a mother had learn my own listen even family can betray you too.
Lady looks like they both probably got the hots for each other when she first came married into the family. Always remember the meskas has a saying "your best friend is your best enemy". Never trust or share your personal life to anyone.
Nope even if you gave your husbands number for your friend to help you, he has his own fault in not being faithful. Hate men that play victim and and try to throw their wrong on some one else.
So proud of you for not taking your ex back. Remember, once a cheater, always a cheater. Everything happens for a reason. If your ex didn't cheat on you, you won't have the life you have now so consider it a blessing in disguise
You know cheated why do you need his admitting to cheating way. Just divorce him and file for child support . Once you have to chase him then get rid off him. Trust no one!!!! You were too trusting even after your husband cheating on, you were not too smart. That is why women get so easily fool is because they trusting and easily forgive and forget them after they have cheated on and married a second wife.
Right? Something about hmoob poj niam. They know and they know that the dudes dicking out, but they want to catch them dudes, they want to ask them why dudes’ cheating. Wouldn’t it be less headache, heartache, wasting effort, to just ditch them dudes, because at the end, cheating is cheating.
Poj niam coj li koj ces lam muab Liam rau koj tus txiv xwb qhov tseeb tiag tus neeg Liam yog koj . Vim koj tus txiv yuav ua zoo npaum twg Los ntev mus koj yeej yuav deer American koj yog niag pog liam tshaj . Tiam si koj yuav tsi kav laus li koj txoj kev ntshaws os poj hmoob aws.
First mistake was having your bff pretending to be a poj nrauj and talked to your husband. No mater how good of a bff NEVER let another woman get involved with your husband or marital life!
No matter what, your husband ain’t never turning back.. whether it was gonna be with your friend or someone else, he’s still Gonna be a cheating loser.. Good thing you found out both of them ain’t worth it
There is no true best friend in this world. Phooj ywg tuag tsis muaj tabsis phooj noj mas coob heev. Peb tsis toob kaa ib tug phooj ywg qhov twg li os. Tus phooj ywg es yog tus true phooj ywg ces yog yus cov me nyuam xwb nawb
Can’t catch him, that means he’s not cheating but you and your friend play your husband well….what you think lady? One trash is another man treasure so yea he’s gonna go after her until he realizes she’s trash🤪
I knew you're self called friend would betrayed you when she initiated to called your husband, pretending to court him. That was a stupid move , but take it as a lesson and teach other people not to do that.
@@itsmaichee yep. Those kind of friends just want to use that as an excuse to flirt with the husband. And she thought her friend was helping her . She fell for it.
You are right. Hmong people just don't know, but it is a huge burden on the one who lend you money. If you are real cousins do not borrow money from them. That's what banks are for and if the banks deny you, you can only be mad at them. Never borrowed money to your close friends or family or anyone.
Nrog koj zoo siab kij yeej txhua yam lawm nkawd yog ob tug neeg traitor xwb os peb pojniam tsi ua lawd ua ntej lawd muab yus hais phem xwb tsi k os hlub koj tus husband tshuab xwb mog
(Gasp) I can’t believe your friend did that to you! You cannot trust a friend with your spouse: wife’s friend to her husband, or husband’s friend to his wife. You just never know!
Txua yam yog tim tus poj niam xwb tus poj no nws tsis ntseeg nws tus txiv nws thiaj li ua txua yam kom tus txiv yuam kev es nws thiaj tau zoo los xyob lub neej poj niam zoo tus no tus txiv tsev txhob khuv xim man u got to on man never turn back to the same woman it gonna work.
Shouldn't never trust another female friend in life. She will never be your friend. Nws twb xav tham koj tus txiv es nws lam ua txoj xav pab koj xwb. Qhov tseeb tiag nws twb xav tham koj tus txiv os.
Koj txheev rawm zoo siab tias koj tus txiv Meskas yuav hlub koj txog hnub kawg. Koj yuav tau tos txog hnub koj laus nkoos npaj mus nyob tsev laus mas koj mam tham tawm vim thaum no yog lub caij nyoog rau koj tham lawm.
Ur ex was already cheating. If it wasn’t ur friend, then it would’ve been with someone else. Karma is a b*tch. U got the last laugh. Continue to live ur life to the fullest & tune out the noise.
Yog koj tus txiv e koj twb tsis muaj peevxwm control tau nws soj nws qab taug nws lw . koj xav tias koj ua thaj ntse ntse hais kom koj tus niam ntxawm take care koj tus txiv seb koj puas hnov good news or bad news ntawd koj tus txiv tabsis koj lam ntse tus ntawv xwb lub tswvyim ces koj ruam heev Koj yog tus qhia kom koj tus niam ntxawm nrog koj rhuav neb lub neej puas tag xwb as, vim licas e yus ho muab yus tus txiv rau lawv tham nawd. cuab thaj ntse 2 dhau qhov ntse lawm thaum kawg ces tau lub bye.. bye..or good bye my love 😭😭💔
What I learned in life is never have best friends or be friends with other people. My ex did the same shit to me many years ago! For all you ladies out there keep your friends distant
TBR, i say it wasn’t your fault to have your friend test him out, it was your not so good friend fault and your ex-husband. She knew what she was doing because you vented it out to her and she took advantage of the situation and manipulated you. You were just trying to keep your life and fight for your man, but good thing you found your worth and did not waste your time dealing with him and her. Great job sister.
It's pretty sad that your best friend ended up stabbing you in the back, but let's face it, your marriage was already over before she got involved. Never trust anyone.
You are amazing woman. Proud of you 👏. Kuv yog ib tus txiv tsev thov qhuas koj thiab nrog koj zoo siab qhov koj tsi yuam kev rov mus rau lub neej qub. 🎉
Yog li koj hais lawm me viv ncaus nrog koj zoo siab tias koj rov tau lub neej zoo lawm👍👍❤👍👍
YES! The best revenge against a cheating ex-spouse is to become happy again in a new marriage and just continue living your new life. Ignore the loser and let him stew in his own misery that was of his own making. Let him live in regrets for the rest of his life for f*cking up his marriage. Typical of a cheater to try to deflect the blame onto you for setting him up---if he were an honorable, loving husband, then he would not have fallen for any setup.
Typical narcissistic hmong man 🙄
Koj txoj neej neeg raug kuv siab kawg.
At the end I love it.
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When you have money thete is no problem it's quite simple😂😂😂
A true friend will never hurt you no matter what situation you are in.
I’m glad you have a better life now. I wonder what happened to your traitor friend and her husband.
Kudos to you for not taking him back into your life ,sister!!!! A cheater will always be a cheater!!!!!
I am glad things worked out for you. Genuine love is what you wanted and now you have it.
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I’m 40 this yr and just learned that “you are their friend but they are not yours” not everyone you meet can be your friends those that speak kindly softly gives you hugs every time are the ones you should be cautious around.
Such sad story but at the same time inspiring too. :) so happy for this lady.
Maum DEV!!!!! Ntsej muag tuab tiag2 li os!!!!!
My friend betrayed me with my ex too. They only lasted 2 and half months. He saw me at the club after they were together for 21/2 months and decided to dumped her that same night to chased me again. I never gave him a chance. After 4 yrs, he decided to get married with another hoe but till this day, he still called to ask me to take him back. Doesn't matter how many times I blocked him, he'll go get a new phone number and called me again. A cheater will always cheat. The bad thing is, I can't love another man just yet even after 8 yrs due to trust issues. Today, I might not be with anyone but I'm very happy and have all the freedom I want😊
Proud of you sis. Enjoy being single while you still can. Love doesn't need to be rushed. Take your time. Use this time in getting to know yourself and taking care of yourself.
@@chouayang81 Thank you
Yes, I'm just like you. I love being a single with 2 adults daughters and I'm ok 👍
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Pab koj tu siab ua koj siv koj tus friend pab koj tabsis thaum kawg koj lub neej liam sim tag.. nrog koj zoo siab koj rov los muaj lub neej zoo thiab os..
Ok, I give it to you. You were stupid in the beginning. But you got smarter in the end. It is the progression of growth that made you smart and you deserve your happiness.
I can smell another white knight story from a galaxy 🌌 away 😅 you go girl hmong queen 👸 brave and independent sllllaaayyyy 💅
Sister, I’m so proud of you for getting rid of this dog for good! You are smart! Your backstabbing friend is a traitor and was never your friend to begin with. Your ex doesn’t deserve you. Let him badmouth you for he knows exactly what he did wrong. I’m happy you have a good husband who loves and treats you well now. Good luck.❤👍 👍
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Peb hmoob aw cag tug siab ưa luaj
Wow never truth any friends around you😩😩
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She was never your friend. Not everyone is your friend. Be careful of who you tell your problems to, some people are just waiting for the right time to insert themselves into you life.
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Not everyone will be your friend after their benefits is done from you! Never trust never tell anyone your personal problems. I myself as a mother had learn my own listen even family can betray you too.
Desperate people would never work out.
Lady looks like they both probably got the hots for each other when she first came married into the family.
Always remember the meskas has a saying "your best friend is your best enemy". Never trust or share your personal life to anyone.
That's why in crime and murder investigation starts with the people closest to you. Never trust the people closest to you.
Nope even if you gave your husbands number for your friend to help you, he has his own fault in not being faithful. Hate men that play victim and and try to throw their wrong on some one else.
So happy you loved yourself and moved on...we need our hmong women to be strong like you and be firm of your own decisions.
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So proud of you for not taking your ex back. Remember, once a cheater, always a cheater. Everything happens for a reason. If your ex didn't cheat on you, you won't have the life you have now so consider it a blessing in disguise
Never trust anyone as friend
You know cheated why do you need his admitting to cheating way. Just divorce him and file for child support . Once you have to chase him then get rid off him. Trust no one!!!! You were too trusting even after your husband cheating on, you were not too smart. That is why women get so easily fool is because they trusting and easily forgive and forget them after they have cheated on and married a second wife.
Right?
Something about hmoob poj niam. They know and they know that the dudes dicking out, but they want to catch them dudes, they want to ask them why dudes’ cheating.
Wouldn’t it be less headache, heartache, wasting effort, to just ditch them dudes, because at the end, cheating is cheating.
Hais tau zoo kwg! 🍹
Poj niam coj li koj ces lam muab Liam rau koj tus txiv xwb qhov tseeb tiag tus neeg Liam yog koj . Vim koj tus txiv yuav ua zoo npaum twg Los ntev mus koj yeej yuav deer American koj yog niag pog liam tshaj . Tiam si koj yuav tsi kav laus li koj txoj kev ntshaws os poj hmoob aws.
Tus vivncaus, kuv zoo siab koj txoj kev txiav siab thiab tau tus hlub tiag rau koj. Good job and enjoy your life.
Nkauj hmoob zoo nkauj ntxim hlub cas tov hnav dub dua lawm thiab. Koj ma !!!
First mistake was having your bff pretending to be a poj nrauj and talked to your husband. No mater how good of a bff NEVER let another woman get involved with your husband or marital life!
May zaj dag neeg no zoo li kuv zaj tab si kuv tus txiv tau kho lawm
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No matter what, your husband ain’t never turning back.. whether it was gonna be with your friend or someone else, he’s still Gonna be a cheating loser.. Good thing you found out both of them ain’t worth it
nev nev nev txhob ua phooj ywg zoo zoo nawb phooj ywg ces yog yus cov me nyuam thiab yus tus txiv xwb o
There is no true best friend in this world. Phooj ywg tuag tsis muaj tabsis phooj noj mas coob heev. Peb tsis toob kaa ib tug phooj ywg qhov twg li os. Tus phooj ywg es yog tus true phooj ywg ces yog yus cov me nyuam xwb nawb
Sister aw the idea you guys played was bad but is a listen to be learn n taught mog. Life goes on n God does have an eyes mog.
Zoo lawm ntag !! Muab 15-16 lub xyoo rau tus Poj niam xwb yuav mis kas thaum kawg raug hlawv.
Doua I think you're just jealous.
🐍 friend waiting to sneak in
Luag hais tias koj tus phooj ywg ua zoo tshaj yog tus ntxeev siab rau koj nas has. Txhob cia2 siab rau yus tus phooj ywg zoo nawb.
Viv ncaus zoo kawg koj txiav txim siab yog,Thaum txiv neej vwm es xuam lub neej rau yus lawm khaws ceev22 ua ntej nws hloov siab.
Hahaha....raum tshaj os yom koj na
Tej laus hais tseg tias "Tsev nqeeb tsis zoo sim taws. Txiv dev tsis zoo sim siab".
Nej mas siab zoo kawg li twb sib ceg lawm los tseem hais me koj txiv me koj txiv kuv mas sib ceg lawm ces ntsej muag xuaj xwb hos 😂😂😂😂😂😂
is hi juicier 😅yh9o ok Pi
It was your mistake to trust your friend too much. Even it’s a play you would never play with your friends in something like this.
Txoj kev ua sib pauj ces leej twg ntse thiab xub ua ntej ces tus ntawd kawg yeej xwb os
Nrog koj zoo siab koj tau lub neej zoo lawm os
xob chim rau koj tu py niam txiv kiag twb tsi sib hlub tsi tham koj tu py los yeej yuav tham lwm tu
Dude your trash,but NOW Meskas Treasure!!….Amen
Ua li koj Mas yog tshaj plaws li lawm o...tus neeg phem txawm nws yuav leej twg los yeej yuav phem mus li....vim kev Npam tiam no caum cuag ceev heev li....yus yog tus neeg zoo..muaj lub siab siab ..muaj txoj kev hlub nyob nrog nraim yus ...yus txawm yuav leej twg los yeej yuav zoo xwb...txiv hmoob siab phem dhau lawm yuav txiv Mikas los yeej yuav zoo tshaj li lawm thiab o
Thaum pib, yog tim dab vaj dab tsev tso lus lawm. Thiaj yuam kev. Lub tshoob loj, zoo ib qho tshuav ib qho. Hos lub tshoob me, kuj zoo ib tshuav ib tuab yam. Cov niag tsis muaj tshoob noj, qee nkawv neej kuj nyob mus txog av quas thiab. Txhais tias, lub siab lub ntsws yog qhov tseem ceeb dua. Mus 9 tus 10 tug los, yog lub siab tsis ncaj ces ua neej xaus sai2 kawg twb yuav rov pib dua.
Can’t catch him, that means he’s not cheating but you and your friend play your husband well….what you think lady? One trash is another man treasure so yea he’s gonna go after her until he realizes she’s trash🤪
I knew you're self called friend would betrayed you when she initiated to called your husband, pretending to court him. That was a stupid move , but take it as a lesson and teach other people not to do that.
Fr. I feel like friends should never do this.
@@itsmaichee yep. Those kind of friends just want to use that as an excuse to flirt with the husband. And she thought her friend was helping her . She fell for it.
That was one crappy friend you had. I hope bad karma gets her for what she did to you. That was just wrong. So wrong of her.
That lady had always had eyes on your man!!! God damn, that lady is shady as hell!!
Sounds familiar. Ty for the advice.
You are right. Hmong people just don't know, but it is a huge burden on the one who lend you money. If you are real cousins do not borrow money from them. That's what banks are for and if the banks deny you, you can only be mad at them. Never borrowed money to your close friends or family or anyone.
Ngob zoo os
Txob yuav lawm os me Viv ncaw aw
Tu txiv kom tsi zoo yuav lawm os mog
Your so called friend had bad intentions in the beginning lol
This is why hmong people always say friend eat friend die.
Omg another story friend and husband are cheating. Never offer your husband or wife to anyone to play games with.
Viv ncaus Aw ib tug neeg xyob txhiaj li tej niag txiv dev no ces yeej khwv npaum twg Los nyiaj yeej tsis nrog nws Nyob lawm os
Nrog koj zoo siab kij yeej txhua yam lawm nkawd yog ob tug neeg traitor xwb os peb pojniam tsi ua lawd ua ntej lawd muab yus hais phem xwb tsi k os hlub koj tus husband tshuab xwb mog
Txiv tsev liam tseem nco thiab tag lawm lau !! Cov txiv dev liam qhov muab pub kas xwb ho tseem puas rau peb cov zoo thiab.
(Gasp) I can’t believe your friend did that to you! You cannot trust a friend with your spouse: wife’s friend to her husband, or husband’s friend to his wife. You just never know!
Txua yam yog tim tus poj niam xwb tus poj no nws tsis ntseeg nws tus txiv nws thiaj li ua txua yam kom tus txiv yuam kev es nws thiaj tau zoo los xyob lub neej poj niam zoo tus no tus txiv tsev txhob khuv xim man u got to on man never turn back to the same woman it gonna work.
Ppl say the true is face to face but not true she/he can easily lie face to faces
Shouldn't never trust another female friend in life. She will never be your friend. Nws twb xav tham koj tus txiv es nws lam ua txoj xav pab koj xwb. Qhov tseeb tiag nws twb xav tham koj tus txiv os.
❤❤❤❤❤❤ tham ruag Kuv siab kawg li os
Wv.. Nyuam qhuav haum nkaus cov txiv dev nyiam txoj kev plees thiab ua laib na 😂😂😂😂😂 xamthub xwb 🙏🙏🙏
Koj txheev rawm zoo siab tias koj tus txiv Meskas yuav hlub koj txog hnub kawg. Koj yuav tau tos txog hnub koj laus nkoos npaj mus nyob tsev laus mas koj mam tham tawm vim thaum no yog lub caij nyoog rau koj tham lawm.
Stop calling her your friend she ain't your friend.
I'm glad u found someone who loves u. May your new found love, happiness, and husband last forever. U deserve it after what u went thru. 💕
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Ab qhov nov ce yog tim koj xwb leej twg kom koj muab koj tus txiv tus xov tooj thab kom tham koj tus txiv ne los
You’re very brave sister and I’m very happy for you. Thanks for sharing your story.
Koj ces liam tib yam, tsis txawv nyias qhuas nyias qhov zoo... 😅
First off. Never play that game of having your FRIEND call or having your CO-WORKER etc call your spouse. PERIOD!!! NEVERRRRR!!!
Ur ex was already cheating. If it wasn’t ur friend, then it would’ve been with someone else. Karma is a b*tch. U got the last laugh. Continue to live ur life to the fullest & tune out the noise.
Yog koj tus txiv e koj twb tsis muaj peevxwm control tau nws soj nws qab taug nws lw . koj xav tias koj ua thaj ntse ntse hais kom koj tus niam ntxawm take care koj tus txiv seb koj puas hnov good news or bad news ntawd koj tus txiv
tabsis koj lam ntse tus ntawv xwb
lub tswvyim ces koj ruam heev
Koj yog tus qhia kom koj tus niam ntxawm nrog koj rhuav neb lub neej puas tag xwb as, vim licas e yus ho muab yus tus txiv rau lawv tham nawd. cuab thaj ntse 2 dhau qhov ntse lawm thaum kawg
ces tau lub bye.. bye..or good bye my love
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Come straight
good for you sister
What I learned in life is never have best friends or be friends with other people. My ex did the same shit to me many years ago! For all you ladies out there keep your friends distant
Love it. My wish is for all the good Hmong women to be strong like you.
Sister, what happy ending for you? Very happy for you! Best wishes and many years of happiness ahead of you and your new husband.
May, your hair is getting thicker in these photoes. What hair products do you use?
Yes, self-love! Wish you the Best, sister ❤
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TBR, i say it wasn’t your fault to have your friend test him out, it was your not so good friend fault and your ex-husband. She knew what she was doing because you vented it out to her and she took advantage of the situation and manipulated you. You were just trying to keep your life and fight for your man, but good thing you found your worth and did not waste your time dealing with him and her. Great job sister.
Vim koj lub tswv yim ne tsam no koj paub lawm po
U did good job no point to go back to your ex. He is a cheater alway a cheater.
Yus tsuas nros yus muab phooj ywg thawb rau yus tus txiv ne, tim yus xwb mos.
It's pretty sad that your best friend ended up stabbing you in the back, but let's face it, your marriage was already over before she got involved. Never trust anyone.