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The Prophet SAW said... "The best of you are those that are best to their wives" "Your wives are your partners. They have rights over you just as you have rights over them." So to all my brothers in Islam... Do not ever even think of being unjust and harsh to your spouse 😁
@@crestfire8008 the best of you are those that are best in character ~ also a saying. This one's generally applied, but wider in scope than the earlier Hadith, since character is holistic, multi-faceted, multi dimensional.
Don't worry about it. marriage is over rated, especially bearing in mind that there are very few muslim women who are of high calibre. Just because a woman wears hijab, it does not mean she is a high quality woman (or even a nice woman).
@@beachboy_boobybuilder i understand because we don't see into the heart of other's ,but the fact that a person wears hijab is a sign of submission and i take that as a yes and what comes after is in Allah's hands
@@beachboy_boobybuilder only Allah SWT knows what is in everyone's hearts. Everyone has their own journey, whether hijab is applied or not. Every human has highs and lows even in iman, but everyone has their own journey. Whether a person is male or female, we don't have the right to label or judge anyone by a piece of clothing they choose to wear. We leave that with Allah, he's the ultimate judge. We ask Allah to guide us and bless us with the best of spouse and for us to not ever judge anyone or assume how a persons character might be, upon what they wear or how they look.
I'm a Christian, but it was very interesting to learn more about this and watch this. I think it's important to also hear about other cultures. EDIT: i'm changing culture to religion bc islam is a religion. also, there were very insightful comments i had with others. it's nice to be able to learn from other people.
@@hudaa3133 Islam is a religion to me and to you. But Christianity is so much more than a religion to me. In fact, it's not. A religion is dogmatic and unbending. Christianity to me is a dynamic relationship with God who is living. It is a faith, a culture, a lifestyle that is so much more than going to church every Sunday. It's engrained as a part of me. That's what I meant when I said culture. Hope this makes sense.
Islam is about having a direct relation with Allah. Islam is also a religion of reason and logic. Without reasoning a religion is fraud and missleading and anyone praticing that religion will be lost in one way or another. According to islam Christianity used to be the religion of Allah. But not after the unbelieved christains changed those verses in the Bible(I would be more than happy to refer as Holly Bible but not anymore, for what they did to your(our) holly religion). I said our bcs it used to be the religion of God(Allah) and all the religions of Allah are one religion( unless you change them with your hand). The exception why islam is unhaned simply makes it the only true religion. Now, there are allot of reasons why Allah guaranteed to protect islam himself(either directly or indirectly).
@{SKINZ CARTEL} bro the egypt teacher is definitely lost and he wanted to take advantage of u since he is in egypt and u are somehwere in the usa or europe.secondly to be muslim u dont have to speak arabic.i dont know arabic at all bro.and in the quran its not allowed to beat a woman,its writen that u can only hit her with a handkerchief(small nap kin) its not even hitting its like saying”hey give me your attention “.in islam is forbidden to hit a woman and give her a scratch on her body.there is many muslims who are not following the ways of the prophet.If you have snapchat or instagram i could explain to you more and i would enlighten you more about what islam truly is bro 🤙🏽
My brothers and sisters whatever sin you commit knowingly or unknowingly No Matter how bad you think it is. make sure to repent by saying any dua of forgiveness ie dua of Adam or yunus as. ( La illaha illah anta subhanaka inni qunto minaz zalimin) and make sure you never miss your fard Salahs. It's all about asking Allah swt for forgiveness. You will sin Allah swt said so and he the Almighty showed mercy by saying oh Adam tell them to seek my forgiveness and I'll forgive any sin. Remember this brothers and sister's. No Matter if you keep repeating the sin ask for forgiveness no wudu required. This is all from authentic Hadith's. And if you miss Salah JUST don't miss the NEXT ONE. Allah Hu Allam
For those that might be confused or misguided about: "Approach your wife", does NOT disregard consent!!!! Both parties have to agree (wanting and happily) to intercourse. You CANNOT FORCE/RAPE your wife!!!! Men are misusing and manipulating "angel cursing" hadith. Yes a wife should not refuse sex as a punishment or to be spiteful. And if she is, that is between her and Allah at that point, if He feels she is truly sinning. You never have the right to rape no mater what. If it becomes a problem after communication and marriage counseling, then get a divorce. 99.999% of woman will not refuse her husband without a valid reason. It can be health problems, or she feels she isn't respected, taken care of, or being pleased in the bedroom (the man is being selfish in bed). This needs communication between spouses, counceling/therapy, and or doctors visits. Also, there are etiquette to intimacy. You can't just jump at your wife like an animal, foreplay is encouraged and mandatory. She has a right to her needs in the bedroom being met as well. Women's bodies are different and take a bit longer to be in the mood and ready. You will need patience and care. Treat your wife with respect, honor, dignity, and love, not as objects for pleasure.
yeah but she still cant refuse intercourse whenever she feels like it for stupid reasons like an argument or being not in the mood. that is haram whether u like it or not. if you don't have sex with your wife/husband then what's the point ? sex is an important aspect of a relationship. i do think you are right in many ways. but you're leaning a little bit towards sex being the wife's decision which is simply wrong
@@lordofdestruction9351 Not being in the mood is a valid excuse, and if you're both having an argument or angry at each other too. No one wants to have sex if they're not mentally or physically in the mood or angry at each other 🤨 People are humans not robots, no one is a drop of a hat avaliable to others. 🤨 If you have a dumb mentality like that you should not be getting married or having sex, since you have no consideration or care for the other person.
@@lordofdestruction9351 you’re just making such sick points. Anyone can have a right to not have sex if they are in a bad mood. We humans do not own anyone anything, we’re not their property
I hope you would discuss marital r@pe. I think many muslims dismiss this and girls are taught that it is normal, it is their fault for saying no, or that they have no right to be saying no in the 1st place. You've mentioned consult at the end. I think there is so much to educate about this subject. I refuse to believe that islam allows anyone to hurt another let alone allow a spouse to hurt their wife. It's honestly terrifying how so many muslim men/boys believe that one's they are married they own their wife's $exual desires.
Well you should have knowledge because just imagine when it's time for you to get married you won't even have a clue what's happening and then problems will intend to occur in the marriage because the wife is not educated and she no knowledge so it's best for you to gain knowledge so that when it's your time you will know instead of not knowing at all and then being scared
@@laya14sa-sg5wm Ha ha ha... I am married and currently enjoying with 2 of my wives on daily basis... May allah bless me more.... Anyway do you like animations? Tell me
Indeed, how can their be pleasure without mutual consent!! Thank you for this informative presentation, I wish all my brothers and sisters a wonderful married life. 😊
Hi. I noticed your name is In Portuguese. Are you a Portuguese speaking muslim, or just visiting the channel, or not Portuguese speaking but just have a Portuguese account name? Sorry, I'm just interested to see Portuguese speaking muslims, how they became Muslim, etc
@@JVerde853 why yes, it is Portuguese! However, it is a word that I have taken a liking to, and decided to use as an online psudonym. I am from the Maldives, if that is of good info to you!
I'm not muslim (or religious at all) but this was so interesting!! There is 100% a problem with over sexualization affecting lives and marriages. It's impossible to eat certain foods without being looked a certain way, as a girl who wears glasses and used to wear a school uniform it's insane how much that gets twisted into sexual context (also, girls in school are minors so... jail)
Allah promised that we will get a spouse how we ourselves are. If we're pious we'll get a pious spouse and this helps me so much in this world of temptation and sin.
@ how narrow minded are you. You're supposed to worship the Almighty god and not comparing yourself to your creator. I just wanna remind you in 112th chapter of Qur'an Allah SWT says, "there is not any one like unto him" ALLAH SHOULD NOT BE COMPARE TO HIS CREATION.
That is such a liberating talk Sex is the hardest thing to talk about including with your spouse. We sadly live in an age when we in the West have either abandoned faith or change it to make it popular The world has become a very dark place and it is scarry.
This was an amazing video! I knew about both of these forbidden acts, but i wanted more informations and such. And when i heard how it has to be consencial (while a lot of ignorant people here tells me "you do whatever your husband wants, doesn't matter if you hate it" which always rubbed me the wrong way) made me tear up of joy and happiness because consent is everything for me. Thank you so much 🖤
@@absolutelynobody3837 what? spouses should always make sure their is consent and genuine regarding intimacy. You are not allowed to force or emotionally manipulate them into having intimacy with you. How can there be love without consent and reciprocated enthusiasm?? How is this some "western jargon"? this is basic human decency
"Don't approach women from their back" that's the translation in Indonesian language, when my friend (he's male) still kid read this.. therefore my friend never approaches women from their back, he always turns around and approaches women from their front including his mother
So I have a fundamental disagreement with the disclaimer: “this video is not suited for children”. Just because with the exceptions of Arabs who can read and understand what is written in the text, do you think that their parents and Ustaads will tell them: son / daughter you’re not supposed to read these lines before 18 or say before ready for marriage!” And just because other than Arabs natives who can only read but do not understand the direct meaning of the text can off course read & recite the Quran but if the kid he / she would like to read the understanding and the meanings than would be stopped that : “ hey these lines are off limits!” I believe Quran is for everyone to adopt Halal / righteous path- the way of life direct from the words of Allah and with the guidance of Sunnah. May Allah protect us and guide us all, Aameen
It is obvious that he means very small children, not necessarily everyone below the 18 year barrier. More likely he means pre-puberty children and I really don't see why they need to know this information right now. There's a time and a place for relevant information to be disseminated to children
@@TheRisingMaster so for the sake of argument and clarity, brother would you or can you or should you stop your kid reading the Quran and understandings? Is there anywhere in Quran or Hadith mentioned that this particular area is age subjected? Allah is all knowing and he is the creator, Subhan’Allah
@@CarazyDiamond No I would not stop them from reading the Quran. My point is, that the rulings and explanations given by the Sheikh in the video is not needed for a young kid. Atleast not before the age of puberty. Perhaps if they explicitly ask, I might tell them but I would not go out of my way to educate them on these matters when they are kids. There are much, much more relevant issues that children need to be educated on before puberty; like Tawheed, Salah, Fasting, stories of the prophets, Islamic history, etc. Sexual do's and don't are quite low on the list.
@@CarazyDiamond Also, I am not certain if you understand Arabic or not, but the verses in the Quran are not explicit. It is highly unlikely that even an Arab kid reading the Quran will be able to derive the meaning behind the verses quoted. Add to that, many Arabs are actually not able to understand the Quran directly in a complete manner as the Arabic of the Quran is highly advanced. So your statement of "with the exception of Arab children..." does not really apply here to be honest
@@CarazyDiamond moreover a child before puberty would not understand it The first time we had sex education in school was with 10 And later on we had a more detailed education in the age of 12 You can't read this verse to a 6 year old and expect it to understand it They also have no need to learning this stuff at a young age
Hellfire isn't a joke and noone is promised Jannah!!! PLEASE do tahajjad at night time and ask Allah swt to guide jinns and humans to Islam and save us from Hellfire ameen ameen ameen PLEASE
Mansha allah what an important lesson May Allah give you the reward of this video. And May Allah forgive all our sins and every Muslim person who fall sins.
Can you please do a detailed video of what happens in a nikkah like everything from start to finish and also when you’re signing your nikkah papers does everyone read like the stuff you wrote or only the bride and groom can
Thanks for the info! This was very educational and it was respectful. Although I wish the last statement about consent was focused on a bit more. The audio faded and it was mentioned after concluding the subject. I bring the point up because the wording throughout the video is tricky where it sounds like men can do as they wish. The man in the example towards the end was right, that "only missionary is allowed" is a myth, but if his wife feels uncomfortable still, he can't "do whatever he wants" with her.
I'm so lucky to have a Muslim guy in my life actually I'm going to search ldr quote but suddenly I saw This really I'm so blessed to hve u in my life luv u sooo much ❤️❤️
me imagine in my mind when i will have a patner.🙁 its a educational video..we have to learn it. many of our parents don't share with us. specially brown parents.
I watched a scholar once who said that any position other than missionary is completely haram and also you can not do it without sheets. Which is what a lot of people still believe where I come from. This was very informative.
Subhanallah these days young men watch pornography then they expect filthy sexual acts from their spouses wether anal or oral sex..astaqfurallah may Allah guide today's muslims..so.many dont know the basic expectations of muslim...as parents i believe we need to not feel shy to have these conversations with our teen children so they dont fall prey into grave sins..may allah protect and guide us🙏🏼
This verse is actually talking about sexual positions. Remember language discourse. It's not about just approaching her without her consent. It's about permissible positions.
Would have been beneficial to include the principle of consent within a marriage in Islam throughout the video rather than at the end as the audio fades out.
Do you know that Quran says that men could have sex with their wives and with their female slaves? Do you think that slaves in the past could refuse to have sex? Islam doesn't prohibit rape between a married couple and between a man and his slaves. I don't want to be disrespectful, but I can't understand how a woman can be Muslim knowing this. I think most of the muslim forget about the slavery part because slavery doesn't exist anymore, but it was in Quran
@@Aurora-dq4lt Everything mentioned in your comment is either incorrect or reported out of context. The religion definitely has the concept of consent and marital rape, and it condemns such things. Islam also imposes the concept of not speaking on a topic that you’re uneducated on… Take note
@@Aurora-dq4lt Slavery is prohibited in islam. It is a huge sin to own or condemn the act of slavery. Second of all sex before marriage is another huge sin. So im not sure where you even got that information from. Stop spreading false information
@@lisamay9672 I've seen the scholar Mufti Menk saying that "what your right hand possesses" means slaves. And he said that what verse in Quran means that men can only have sex with their wives and slaves. And he is not the only one saying this. How do you explain this if slavery is prohibited?
Do you know that Quran says that men could have sex with their wives and with their female slaves? Do you think that slaves in the past could refuse to have sex? Islam doesn't prohibit rape between a married couple and between a man and his slaves. I don't want to be disrespectful, but I can't understand how a woman can be Muslim knowing this. I think most of the muslim forget about the slavery part because slavery doesn't exist anymore, but it was in Quran
For anyone saying this should be for young people remember Islam is a head of the 18 year western under age or child rule. Muslim young kids are not treated like idiots and things are not covered from them till they get married. In islam you are treated like an adult and must be knowledgeable and wise (of course everyone goes through ups and downs of teenage years) when you hit puberty which is early teen for both boys n girls in which western kids already start having boy friends and girlfriends. Islam is hence age oriented. Before puberty children's innocent way of thinking should be protected and if they grow up in good decent society they will get to know everything as they live life
Just got married then tested positive of covid in a swab antigen test, I am living with my family, my husband went back to another island where he and I live.
its funny that the teacher takes the sahaba seriously when he has them, but when there is no hadith or a weak hadith, he just says DONT DO IT. very funny
Salaam, there’s a spelling mistake in the Ayah about Menses- what was written was أذً but it is actually أذىً The full Ayah is below, Ch 2 Al-Baqara Verse 222 وَيَسأَلونَكَ عَنِ المَحيضِ قُل هُوَ أَذًى فَاعتَزِلُوا النِّساءَ فِي المَحيضِ وَلا تَقرَبوهُنَّ حَتّى يَطهُرنَ فَإِذا تَطَهَّرنَ فَأتوهُنَّ مِن حَيثُ أَمَرَكُمُ اللَّهُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ التَّوّابينَ وَيُحِبُّ المُتَطَهِّرينَ
On a certain level, we have a bedroom in our brain, the neurochemicals that show up in flow: so dopamine, norepinephrine, anandamide, endorphins, and serotonin. If you were to try to cocktail the street drug version of that, right, you're trying to blend like heroin and speed and coke and acid and weed- and point is, you can't do it. It turns out the brain can cocktail all of 'em at once, which is why people will prefer flow to almost any experience on Earth. It's our favorite experience. It's the most addictive experience on Earth. Why? 'Cause it cocktails five or six of the largest pleasure drugs the brain can produce. We're all capable of so much more than we know. That is a commonality across the board. And one of the big reasons is we're all hardwired for flow, and flow is a massive amplification of what's possible for ourselves.
Lets share rewards 1. Subhanallah 2. Alhumdulillah 3. La ilaha illaAllah 4. Allahu Akbar 5. Astagfirullah watub ilaihi 6. Subhanallahi wabi hamdihi Subhanallahi Azeem 7. SubhanAllah wa biHamdihi Its only going to take a few seconds! Please recite!❤
Been trying to get married for over a year now , my two engagements ended ..i'm 28 yo now ...I feel soo lonely depressed and frustrated becase most men in my age either are married or married and they are already fathers to children , and i still single and think a lot about how a lot of years had passed without a halal love in it 😭😭 I've never done anything haram and my youth have been devoted to allah's obedience but i have high sexual desire that didn't fulfiled and i'm afraid i will be sexually impotent and will not enjoy halal sex if my marriage get delayed longer ... i feel i'm running out of time to have kids of my own 🥺 ... please Allah help me and give me what my heart desire .
Dude chill, fast to control desire n pray tahajud to get married. N for u guys its easy, yall can hv kids even if ur 80 (like charlie chaplin) So think logically n scientifically before making "I'll neva be dad" statements
I am 35, earning well, good looking, physically perfect Alhamdulillah and i have every luxury which many of our brothers and sisters desires but still am unmarried and my parents are searching for girl since last 7 years as i want to do an arranged marriage and most of the time the girl or either their parents reject my proposal. I am still thankfully waiting and avoid my self from the haram things
@@virgo.6 I hope you find what your heart desire inshallah sooner brother .. you may think I'm still young but I have been living alone working in another city away from my relatives for almost 3 years, don't have close friends since most people my age are busy and they have their own lives, married. Loneliness is very hard to cope with, and haram is easy, having gf is easier to get married in halal but I don't want Allah to be angry with me, I have hope inshallah both will get married soon.
Don't give up, brother. I know it is hard (trust me, I know) but remember that Allāh سبحانه وتعالى can open doors for you that you never even could have imagined were there! The question is - you must ask yourself what could be preventing you from marriage? For example, some people feel they are ready to get married but don't have a penny to their name. Even our beloved Prophet ﷺ first became a self-made man before getting married. In your case, if it is a high sex drive, think about how that could negatively impact your marriage, especially if it stems from pornography or masturbation habits - which unfortunately so many of our brothers have fallen into nowadays. Remember that marriage is more than just sex and intimacy. This is literally sharing your entire life with someone. If you do some deep retrospection and find that is the case, search for treatment from your habits and desires; clear your mind and heart of these illnesses; pray plenty of Tahajjud and NEVER underestimate the power of Du'a! Then I guarantee you Allāh will send the most noble of spouses your way ❤️ Also, keep in mind that Allāh gives us what we want when He believes we are ready, not when WE think we are ready. Finally, if you live in a Western country, there are plenty of marriage bureaus available to help people find the right spouse. Making Du'a for you, my brother. Insha'allah, you will get the one! PS: from a medical point of view, I wouldn't worry about becoming sexually impotent or not being able to have children. You're good, don't worry!
@@user-jp7tk2bc4j No alhamdulillah I don't watch porn, I don't want to marry just because of sex drive. I want a partner who can share my life and have children and love, thank god I have good income and separate home from my family but the difficulty is the girls or their parents refuse my proosal before they even know me , I live in Saudi Arabia (It's strict country and habits esp for dating and marriage habbits ) my mom do the search and proposal for me (Arrange marriage ) . But i feel soo frustrated because most people my age get married already or planning to and i didn't even find my match yet. I always make dua to allah to help me because i don't want to do something haram and make allah angry ( I kept myself from doing haram all my life alhamdulillah ) but it's soo difficult to restrain yourself from haram and the Halal is so difficult to find and get, after all, I'm human and I have desires and feelings needed to be fulfilled.
please do quote surah + ayat number, when you make a reference through Quran or hadith. Instead only reciting ayats, so we can look for it ourselves as well rather than blindly accepting anything which is being posted online. thanks
The only thing forbidden is going against your partner wishes. Thoses laws can exclude some creation of god and are probably man-made to fit middle age policies
@@absolutelynobody3837 it absolutely has. Also, the hadith you're talking about is conditional. It goes both ways, it's for both men and women. Also, if having intercourse hurts the woman in anyway ( anywayy, physically, mentally, emotionally psychologically) then it's absolutely fine to refuse.
I clicked on this video not even knowing it had anything to do with Islam or Haram, I thought it was just a lifestyle guide video or something like that xD
When I was young.....I was told that u have to pray to get a child and nothing else. I mean they weren't wrong...you just gotta pray u get a child on the 1st try
Everything in religious texts is from men's prospective. Women are your field you can enter them however you want???? seriously? the women who give you birth is such a useless object that you men decide how to enter them. What a sick interpretation. do you even hear yourself? how did Islam a religion that is from God who is of no gender gave all the power and decision to men? or is it that this book you are referring to is just written by men because it only honors sick men.
I really wondering on how i will raise my children in this over-sexualization era that we lived in... May Allah help muslim parents and strengthen our muslim generation 🤲
Also Sadism and jumping on your wife with no foreplay are not allowed. there are etiquettes and mannerisms on how to complete intimacy. Otherwise, animals are better
Do you know that Quran says that men could have sex with their wives and with their female slaves? Do you think that slaves in the past could refuse to have sex? Islam doesn't prohibit rape between a married couple and between a man and his slaves. I don't want to be disrespectful, but I can't understand how a woman can be Muslim knowing this. I think most of the muslim forget about the slavery part because slavery doesn't exist anymore, but it was in Quran
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Islam does not dismiss desires, it disciplines them
Indeed
@ you even said it wrong lmfao, Yes Allahu Akbar, ik my god is great.
@Asim Ali salaams
Quote i want to like 9 times❤️
@ bro shut up you said it wrong and why the explosion at the end?
The Prophet SAW said...
"The best of you are those that are best to their wives"
"Your wives are your partners. They have rights over you just as you have rights over them."
So to all my brothers in Islam... Do not ever even think of being unjust and harsh to your spouse 😁
JazakAllah brother
Then who is the best among women? Since women can't have wives, how will they become the best?
@@crestfire8008 the best of you are those that are best in character ~ also a saying. This one's generally applied, but wider in scope than the earlier Hadith, since character is holistic, multi-faceted, multi dimensional.
@@crestfire8008 I think that is described also in the religion- no one is left out
A happy wife, a happy marriage ❤️❣️
Lol me watching without having a partner🙄😶
Don't worry about it. marriage is over rated, especially bearing in mind that there are very few muslim women who are of high calibre. Just because a woman wears hijab, it does not mean she is a high quality woman (or even a nice woman).
@@beachboy_boobybuilder i understand because we don't see into the heart of other's ,but the fact that a person wears hijab is a sign of submission and i take that as a yes and what comes after is in Allah's hands
@@beachboy_boobybuilder only Allah SWT knows what is in everyone's hearts. Everyone has their own journey, whether hijab is applied or not. Every human has highs and lows even in iman, but everyone has their own journey. Whether a person is male or female, we don't have the right to label or judge anyone by a piece of clothing they choose to wear. We leave that with Allah, he's the ultimate judge. We ask Allah to guide us and bless us with the best of spouse and for us to not ever judge anyone or assume how a persons character might be, upon what they wear or how they look.
Same ahaha y is a 14yo watching this. Y was this on my recommendations 😂😂😩
You're not alone in this .🤧
this is a very sensitive subject the man did a great job explaining in a very respectful way
I'm a Christian, but it was very interesting to learn more about this and watch this. I think it's important to also hear about other cultures.
EDIT: i'm changing culture to religion bc islam is a religion. also, there were very insightful comments i had with others. it's nice to be able to learn from other people.
Its not a culture , its religion. Just like Christianity is a religion. Islam is also a religion not a culture.
@@hudaa3133 Islam is a religion to me and to you. But Christianity is so much more than a religion to me. In fact, it's not. A religion is dogmatic and unbending. Christianity to me is a dynamic relationship with God who is living. It is a faith, a culture, a lifestyle that is so much more than going to church every Sunday. It's engrained as a part of me. That's what I meant when I said culture. Hope this makes sense.
@@lillian5353 I get how you see it but you should still call it a religion instead of culture
Islam is about having a direct relation with Allah.
Islam is also a religion of reason and logic.
Without reasoning a religion is fraud and missleading and anyone praticing that religion will be lost in one way or another.
According to islam Christianity used to be the religion of Allah. But not after the unbelieved christains changed those verses in the Bible(I would be more than happy to refer as Holly Bible but not anymore, for what they did to your(our) holly religion). I said our bcs it used to be the religion of God(Allah) and all the religions of Allah are one religion( unless you change them with your hand).
The exception why islam is unhaned simply makes it the only true religion. Now, there are allot of reasons why Allah guaranteed to protect islam himself(either directly or indirectly).
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This is very important and educational I wish lectures like this were more normalized in our communities
I wish so to,but people think is shame
@@twitchcentury4761 yeah but there is no shame in learning cause you will do it someday
Thats true, many people don't know what's right to do since these topics arent being discussed normally
@@Tanya.2007 i know and thats bad.i discuss this topics with friends and look them up
It’s normal but not with evryone. Woman learn with woman or their husband and men learn with men or their wife
Its funny coz most of the ppl watching this are not married😂”Good job guys”😂😂
Right😂
@@muhammadhaseebmujtaba5960 😂
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@{SKINZ CARTEL} bro,if you have any questions or doubts am islam,feel free to talk to me. 😊
@{SKINZ CARTEL} bro the egypt teacher is definitely lost and he wanted to take advantage of u since he is in egypt and u are somehwere in the usa or europe.secondly to be muslim u dont have to speak arabic.i dont know arabic at all bro.and in the quran its not allowed to beat a woman,its writen that u can only hit her with a handkerchief(small nap kin) its not even hitting its like saying”hey give me your attention “.in islam is forbidden to hit a woman and give her a scratch on her body.there is many muslims who are not following the ways of the prophet.If you have snapchat or instagram i could explain to you more and i would enlighten you more about what islam truly is bro 🤙🏽
My brothers and sisters whatever sin you commit knowingly or unknowingly No Matter how bad you think it is. make sure to repent by saying any dua of forgiveness ie dua of Adam or yunus as. ( La illaha illah anta subhanaka inni qunto minaz zalimin) and make sure you never miss your fard Salahs. It's all about asking Allah swt for forgiveness. You will sin Allah swt said so and he the Almighty showed mercy by saying oh Adam tell them to seek my forgiveness and I'll forgive any sin. Remember this brothers and sister's. No Matter if you keep repeating the sin ask for forgiveness no wudu required. This is all from authentic Hadith's. And if you miss Salah JUST don't miss the NEXT ONE. Allah Hu Allam
Thank you so much, I really needed this.
Thank you:)
This means so much right now
Brother pls correct it , la ilaha illa anta subhanaka inni kuntu minaz zalimin
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For those that might be confused or misguided about:
"Approach your wife", does NOT disregard consent!!!!
Both parties have to agree (wanting and happily) to intercourse.
You CANNOT FORCE/RAPE your wife!!!!
Men are misusing and manipulating "angel cursing" hadith. Yes a wife should not refuse sex as a punishment or to be spiteful. And if she is, that is between her and Allah at that point, if He feels she is truly sinning. You never have the right to rape no mater what. If it becomes a problem after communication and marriage counseling, then get a divorce.
99.999% of woman will not refuse her husband without a valid reason. It can be health problems, or she feels she isn't respected, taken care of, or being pleased in the bedroom (the man is being selfish in bed). This needs communication between spouses, counceling/therapy, and or doctors visits.
Also, there are etiquette to intimacy. You can't just jump at your wife like an animal, foreplay is encouraged and mandatory. She has a right to her needs in the bedroom being met as well. Women's bodies are different and take a bit longer to be in the mood and ready. You will need patience and care.
Treat your wife with respect, honor, dignity, and love, not as objects for pleasure.
yeah but she still cant refuse intercourse whenever she feels like it for stupid reasons like an argument or being not in the mood. that is haram whether u like it or not. if you don't have sex with your wife/husband then what's the point ? sex is an important aspect of a relationship. i do think you are right in many ways. but you're leaning a little bit towards sex being the wife's decision which is simply wrong
@@lordofdestruction9351
Not being in the mood is a valid excuse, and if you're both having an argument or angry at each other too. No one wants to have sex if they're not mentally or physically in the mood or angry at each other 🤨
People are humans not robots, no one is a drop of a hat avaliable to others. 🤨
If you have a dumb mentality like that you should not be getting married or having sex, since you have no consideration or care for the other person.
@@lordofdestruction9351 you’re just making such sick points. Anyone can have a right to not have sex if they are in a bad mood. We humans do not own anyone anything, we’re not their property
@@lordofdestruction9351 also you should not tell us what is haram and what is not, only Allah can judge.
He said if one wishes to!
I hope you would discuss marital r@pe.
I think many muslims dismiss this and girls are taught that it is normal, it is their fault for saying no, or that they have no right to be saying no in the 1st place. You've mentioned consult at the end. I think there is so much to educate about this subject. I refuse to believe that islam allows anyone to hurt another let alone allow a spouse to hurt their wife. It's honestly terrifying how so many muslim men/boys believe that one's they are married they own their wife's $exual desires.
Precisely
@@bilal522 dont talk crap
@@bilal522 He never used violence on his wives. Can you please substantiate your argument?
"requires consultation and mutual consent" did you not watch the video?
@@bilal522 where is the authenticity
of this hadith?
I am Christian and this was very informative and interesting it is nice learning about other religions and let's you understand other people's views.
U welcom
Accept islam so you attain peace in this world and the next
It is great thing to explore others and think rationally. Keep studying Islam.
@@danh4435 hi
My aim is to be able to understand and not let what is rumored be what I see Muslims as.
I am content with my religion.
@@zipporahbassey7814 Don't be content. Seek learn,
It's just amazing how beautifully Islam has explained everything. May Allah guide us to follow it!
Ameen.
1)Subhan'Allah
2)Alhamdulillah
3)La ilaha illallah
4)Alahu Akbar
5)Astagfirullah watub ilahi
6)SubhanAllahi Wabi Hamdhi
SubhanAllahil adheem
whoever reading this, may your parents be safe in this corona situation.
Ameen
Amiinn may yours be safe too 🙌🏾
Ameen but what about us?😂
Ameen, but what about your parents, are they okay?
@@rohail-saqib Alhumdulillah they are ok
the fact that i just got back from my cousin's wedding two hours ago, and then this video popped up. I don't wanna know...
😅😅😅
😂😂😂😂😂😂
Are you Muslim?
Well you should have knowledge because just imagine when it's time for you to get married you won't even have a clue what's happening and then problems will intend to occur in the marriage because the wife is not educated and she no knowledge so it's best for you to gain knowledge so that when it's your time you will know instead of not knowing at all and then being scared
@@Itssuniya of course i understand whats going on. and its natural for that to happen.
Having a wife who will leads you jannah is the greatest blessings from Allah... Only Allah can help to have such a wife
Islamic marriage = rape and abuse
But surah nas said women are more evil than satan because because women can misguide men (as if men never misguided anybody in the history of mankind)
What's a " jannah?"
@WAKE UP WARRIOR Didn't watch the whole video. Thanks
@@vaiolover1997 Paradise
I may be a teen, but I am just increasing my knowledge about my religion, and this helps to be prepared. Thanks. May Allah grant you JANNAH.😁
I'm a teen too and that's exactly why I'm listening to this lecture only to get a better understanding of our religion
Same 😅😊
@@laya14sa-sg5wm Ha ha ha... I am married and currently enjoying with 2 of my wives on daily basis... May allah bless me more.... Anyway do you like animations?
Tell me
@@OmarHamza-nz9ob what kind exactly
You mean like fighting with imaginary powers etc like those not really I like listening to realistic stories
Indeed, how can their be pleasure without mutual consent!! Thank you for this informative presentation, I wish all my brothers and sisters a wonderful married life. 😊
Hi. I noticed your name is In Portuguese. Are you a Portuguese speaking muslim, or just visiting the channel, or not Portuguese speaking but just have a Portuguese account name? Sorry, I'm just interested to see Portuguese speaking muslims, how they became Muslim, etc
@@JVerde853 why yes, it is Portuguese! However, it is a word that I have taken a liking to, and decided to use as an online psudonym. I am from the Maldives, if that is of good info to you!
Ameen
I agree. Except for sex slavery mutual consent isn't needed. Only the men's will matters
@@crestfire8008 ???
I'm not muslim (or religious at all) but this was so interesting!! There is 100% a problem with over sexualization affecting lives and marriages. It's impossible to eat certain foods without being looked a certain way, as a girl who wears glasses and used to wear a school uniform it's insane how much that gets twisted into sexual context (also, girls in school are minors so... jail)
So true
ikr cant even eat my popsicle without my classmates looking at me weirdly 😒
Your messages and lessons are clear and consise and your English is fluid and fluent. Thank you for this and Allah compensate you for your teachings.
Ameen.
I think this talk should be for young children too. Aren't they allowed to know how life is? What our religion says? Teach them young.
Totally agree
The mind has to be mature in order to understand these concepts
Children are not like us, they laugh when they hear such words 😂
It's better when they hit puberty
Children? No. But young teens I agree.
@OnceAnIkon Just because you acted stupidly when you were a teenager doesn't mean everyone else did too.😌
Us after watching(unmarried):- " ya Allah..Bless me with a good spouse"
Ameen.
@@masegom4205say *insh'allah or Amin
There isn’t anything that not taught about in Islam MashaAllah. It’s the most knowledgeable religion ❤️
In Islam have discipline for everything....
Its a pure state of mind bro... Allah noor will enter our hearts
MAY ALLAH GUIDE US TO RIGHT PATH .
AMEEN
Aameen.
Ameen, may allah grant us jannah.
Aminnn
@@ilovepizza3478 ameen
Aameen
may Allah give us a pious spouse
@Muhammad Ali
Ameen
I want Bulma
And may u be also a pious husband
Allah promised that we will get a spouse how we ourselves are. If we're pious we'll get a pious spouse and this helps me so much in this world of temptation and sin.
@ how narrow minded are you. You're supposed to worship the Almighty god and not comparing yourself to your creator. I just wanna remind you in 112th chapter of Qur'an Allah SWT says, "there is not any one like unto him"
ALLAH SHOULD NOT BE COMPARE TO HIS CREATION.
Alhamdulilah, this is so simple and clear to understand.
That is such a liberating talk
Sex is the hardest thing to talk about including with your spouse.
We sadly live in an age when we in the West have either abandoned faith or change it to make it popular
The world has become a very dark place and it is scarry.
This was an amazing video!
I knew about both of these forbidden acts, but i wanted more informations and such.
And when i heard how it has to be consencial (while a lot of ignorant people here tells me "you do whatever your husband wants, doesn't matter if you hate it" which always rubbed me the wrong way) made me tear up of joy and happiness because consent is everything for me.
Thank you so much 🖤
@Baap ho bete ha as in the bedroom not generally..
instagram.com/tv/CJeOeFcgTW9/?
u might benifit from this
This whole cOnSeNt BS is typically western jargon from Zina
@@absolutelynobody3837 what? spouses should always make sure their is consent and genuine regarding intimacy. You are not allowed to force or emotionally manipulate them into having intimacy with you. How can there be love without consent and reciprocated enthusiasm?? How is this some "western jargon"? this is basic human decency
"Don't approach women from their back" that's the translation in Indonesian language, when my friend (he's male) still kid read this.. therefore my friend never approaches women from their back, he always turns around and approaches women from their front including his mother
So I have a fundamental disagreement with the disclaimer: “this video is not suited for children”. Just because with the exceptions of Arabs who can read and understand what is written in the text, do you think that their parents and Ustaads will tell them: son / daughter you’re not supposed to read these lines before 18 or say before ready for marriage!”
And just because other than Arabs natives who can only read but do not understand the direct meaning of the text can off course read & recite the Quran but if the kid he / she would like to read the understanding and the meanings than would be stopped that : “ hey these lines are off limits!”
I believe Quran is for everyone to adopt Halal / righteous path- the way of life direct from the words of Allah and with the guidance of Sunnah. May Allah protect us and guide us all, Aameen
It is obvious that he means very small children, not necessarily everyone below the 18 year barrier. More likely he means pre-puberty children and I really don't see why they need to know this information right now. There's a time and a place for relevant information to be disseminated to children
@@TheRisingMaster so for the sake of argument and clarity, brother would you or can you or should you stop your kid reading the Quran and understandings? Is there anywhere in Quran or Hadith mentioned that this particular area is age subjected? Allah is all knowing and he is the creator, Subhan’Allah
@@CarazyDiamond No I would not stop them from reading the Quran. My point is, that the rulings and explanations given by the Sheikh in the video is not needed for a young kid. Atleast not before the age of puberty.
Perhaps if they explicitly ask, I might tell them but I would not go out of my way to educate them on these matters when they are kids. There are much, much more relevant issues that children need to be educated on before puberty; like Tawheed, Salah, Fasting, stories of the prophets, Islamic history, etc.
Sexual do's and don't are quite low on the list.
@@CarazyDiamond Also, I am not certain if you understand Arabic or not, but the verses in the Quran are not explicit. It is highly unlikely that even an Arab kid reading the Quran will be able to derive the meaning behind the verses quoted. Add to that, many Arabs are actually not able to understand the Quran directly in a complete manner as the Arabic of the Quran is highly advanced. So your statement of "with the exception of Arab children..." does not really apply here to be honest
@@CarazyDiamond moreover a child before puberty would not understand it
The first time we had sex education in school was with 10
And later on we had a more detailed education in the age of 12
You can't read this verse to a 6 year old and expect it to understand it
They also have no need to learning this stuff at a young age
This is a very great educational video. I like the openness and cultural education involved as well. Its an important convo!
This was very informative! Thank you for begging honest and clear for all of those who will be married soon or for the future generations!
Hellfire isn't a joke and noone is promised Jannah!!! PLEASE do tahajjad at night time and ask Allah swt to guide jinns and humans to Islam and save us from Hellfire ameen ameen ameen PLEASE
Mansha allah what an important lesson
May Allah give you the reward of this video. And May Allah forgive all our sins and every Muslim person who fall sins.
If you kick him you going to fly while he fall then you fall as well.
Aameen.
🤲 Ameen
Ameen
I pause the vedio just to leave a comment... wonderful explanation 👌👌👌
I paused my video just to read ur cmnt😅😂
And i paused the video to see how our muslim youth are terrible for girls or ladies specially on such topics .
Not me being 15 and watching this😭
I'm 13-
Not for kids
@@riiidhaaa6836 i am 14-
@@kamrankhan-lj1ng umm ok? so?
@@jungkookthebunny4720 well whats the problem with watching this
Can you please do a detailed video of what happens in a nikkah like everything from start to finish and also when you’re signing your nikkah papers does everyone read like the stuff you wrote or only the bride and groom can
ua-cam.com/video/L8MMXCEkRn4/v-deo.html hope this helps xx
@@mariumjeelani9431 jazakallah sister xx
@@ramenqueen_1013 Wa iya kum xx
Hi I have same question did u get any answers u could ahare with me.?
@@zey7231 my sister recently got married so I know a little bit now
Thank you so much! Very helpful with very clear authentic sources.
Thanks for the info! This was very educational and it was respectful.
Although I wish the last statement about consent was focused on a bit more. The audio faded and it was mentioned after concluding the subject. I bring the point up because the wording throughout the video is tricky where it sounds like men can do as they wish. The man in the example towards the end was right, that "only missionary is allowed" is a myth, but if his wife feels uncomfortable still, he can't "do whatever he wants" with her.
Those who saying “ops im not even married” this is the main point !!! It’s for those who are not and already married.
I'm so lucky to have a Muslim guy in my life actually I'm going to search ldr quote but suddenly I saw This really I'm so blessed to hve u in my life luv u sooo much ❤️❤️
me imagine in my mind when i will
have a patner.🙁
its a educational video..we have to learn it.
many of our parents don't share with us.
specially brown parents.
I watched a scholar once who said that any position other than missionary is completely haram and also you can not do it without sheets. Which is what a lot of people still believe where I come from. This was very informative.
Idk seems about right to mee
due to lack of knowledge
Sheets? What do u need those for?
Subhanallah these days young men watch pornography then they expect filthy sexual acts from their spouses wether anal or oral sex..astaqfurallah may Allah guide today's muslims..so.many dont know the basic expectations of muslim...as parents i believe we need to not feel shy to have these conversations with our teen children so they dont fall prey into grave sins..may allah protect and guide us🙏🏼
Nah girls exepct the same. You will see girls whining how females hardly orgasm without oral sex. They watch and get brainwashed by this too.
Are you implying that oral sex is a grave sin?
2 things 1) many many women do it too just they hide it more 2) oral sex isnt a sin or haraam its makrooh
@@alaminninja0824 Difference of opinion
@@absolutelynobody3837 jazakallah khair for the link I already new the ruling I just wanted to know what the commentator was actually saying
Wife is not like a cultivation .if she says no , it is no despite you are her husband or not.you can't approach the way you want.
that verse probably was just in the context of position like the sheikh was saying but im not sure, allah swt knows best
@@user-lf3fz4kk1u Jazakallah khair :]
Yes of course
This verse is actually talking about sexual positions. Remember language discourse. It's not about just approaching her without her consent. It's about permissible positions.
@@humamumtaz2719 there are no permissible positions in islam? Where u got this information from?
I will come and watch again after marriage
Hahah
Inshallah man
See ya in 10 years
@@raiyanahmadsaadi6944 you gonna marry him, bro?
Me too
I DIDNT REALIZE THIS WAS A RELIGOUS VIDEO AND NOW IVE WATCHED THE WHOLE THING
May Allah guide all of us
Would have been beneficial to include the principle of consent within a marriage in Islam throughout the video rather than at the end as the audio fades out.
Do you know that Quran says that men could have sex with their wives and with their female slaves? Do you think that slaves in the past could refuse to have sex? Islam doesn't prohibit rape between a married couple and between a man and his slaves. I don't want to be disrespectful, but I can't understand how a woman can be Muslim knowing this. I think most of the muslim forget about the slavery part because slavery doesn't exist anymore, but it was in Quran
@@Aurora-dq4lt Everything mentioned in your comment is either incorrect or reported out of context. The religion definitely has the concept of consent and marital rape, and it condemns such things. Islam also imposes the concept of not speaking on a topic that you’re uneducated on… Take note
@@Aurora-dq4lt Slavery is prohibited in islam. It is a huge sin to own or condemn the act of slavery. Second of all sex before marriage is another huge sin. So im not sure where you even got that information from. Stop spreading false information
@@lisamay9672 I've seen the scholar Mufti Menk saying that "what your right hand possesses" means slaves. And he said that what verse in Quran means that men can only have sex with their wives and slaves. And he is not the only one saying this. How do you explain this if slavery is prohibited?
@@Jay-di3fm you’re delusional
I like that he commented on consent at the end for like a few seconds, but the voice just faded out! Should have mentioned about consent in the start.
Do you know that Quran says that men could have sex with their wives and with their female slaves? Do you think that slaves in the past could refuse to have sex? Islam doesn't prohibit rape between a married couple and between a man and his slaves. I don't want to be disrespectful, but I can't understand how a woman can be Muslim knowing this. I think most of the muslim forget about the slavery part because slavery doesn't exist anymore, but it was in Quran
@@Aurora-dq4lt islam is the WORLDS most SUCCESSFUL religion, because women KNOW that it is right. GET OVER IT 🙄🙄🙄🙄
@@razamughal9095 There are more Christians than Muslims in the world. However I'm not Christian or against Islam... I just think some rules are wrong
@@Aurora-dq4lt christianity is ALSO 600 years older than islam.
For anyone saying this should be for young people remember Islam is a head of the 18 year western under age or child rule. Muslim young kids are not treated like idiots and things are not covered from them till they get married. In islam you are treated like an adult and must be knowledgeable and wise (of course everyone goes through ups and downs of teenage years) when you hit puberty which is early teen for both boys n girls in which western kids already start having boy friends and girlfriends. Islam is hence age oriented. Before puberty children's innocent way of thinking should be protected and if they grow up in good decent society they will get to know everything as they live life
No
Islam is no age oriented 🙄
You know
Very useful information...
Jazakallah...
Mashaa allah all question are cleared in one video
Just got married then tested positive of covid in a swab antigen test, I am living with my family, my husband went back to another island where he and I live.
أسأل الله أن ينصركم
ماشاء الله.
Very good.
Imagine showing this to ur desi parents
may Allah (Subhanahu Wa Ta’Ala ) bless you and me and all Muslim brothers and sisters and our families
RIP 😂
beta...
lol
الله يرحمه 😂
May Allah guide us All Aameen
Definitely we leave this world just think we will meet to Allah
Watching this :
Recommended - yes
What reason? - don’t know lol
Single? - hell yeah
Very informative. Jazakallah Khair ❤️
even in ancient time people discuss about this stuff but now a days
I'm just a kid and doing research in advance so when I do get to it in twenty years or so then I am ready.
Thank you sir.
Same 👌
How old are you?
Too soon too know when I was 12-13 i don't know how babies are born
Alhamdulillah. I watch this as awareness
Subhan Allah Jazakallaho khaire Thanks 👍 For Sharing Dear Brother
its funny that the teacher takes the sahaba seriously when he has them, but when there is no hadith or a weak hadith, he just says DONT DO IT.
very funny
Salaam, there’s a spelling mistake in the Ayah about Menses- what was written was أذً but it is actually أذىً
The full Ayah is below, Ch 2 Al-Baqara Verse 222
وَيَسأَلونَكَ عَنِ المَحيضِ قُل هُوَ أَذًى فَاعتَزِلُوا النِّساءَ فِي المَحيضِ وَلا تَقرَبوهُنَّ حَتّى يَطهُرنَ فَإِذا تَطَهَّرنَ فَأتوهُنَّ مِن حَيثُ أَمَرَكُمُ اللَّهُ إِنَّ اللَّهَ يُحِبُّ التَّوّابينَ وَيُحِبُّ المُتَطَهِّرينَ
On a certain level, we have a bedroom in our brain, the neurochemicals that show up in flow: so dopamine, norepinephrine, anandamide, endorphins, and serotonin. If you were to try to cocktail the street drug version of that, right, you're trying to blend like heroin and speed and coke and acid and weed- and point is, you can't do it. It turns out the brain can cocktail all of 'em at once, which is why people will prefer flow to almost any experience on Earth. It's our favorite experience. It's the most addictive experience on Earth. Why? 'Cause it cocktails five or six of the largest pleasure drugs the brain can produce. We're all capable of so much more than we know. That is a commonality across the board. And one of the big reasons is we're all hardwired for flow, and flow is a massive amplification of what's possible for ourselves.
Wow
.I invite everyone to listen holy Islamic speech from India 🇮🇳💓
Don’t have tv I the bedroom. It’s a place for sleeping and not for watching. Allow your partner to have relaxed, uninterrupted sleep.
Not me getting wedding ring ads in the middle of the video…
Lets share rewards
1. Subhanallah
2. Alhumdulillah
3. La ilaha illaAllah
4. Allahu Akbar
5. Astagfirullah watub ilaihi
6. Subhanallahi wabi hamdihi Subhanallahi Azeem
7. SubhanAllah wa biHamdihi
Its only going to take a few seconds! Please recite!❤
Nice content. But, you should include all the references you've used in the video in the description for anyone who's curious and wants fact check.
Thanks for your guidance... Jazakallah khair
Assalamu alaikum wa Rahmatullah thenral bro epidi irukeenga
Assalam o alaikom brother .. Are you muslim ??
Love your efforts... may Allah grant you the ajar of this manifold
Ameen.
Been trying to get married for over a year now , my two engagements ended ..i'm 28 yo now ...I feel soo lonely depressed and frustrated becase most men in my age either are married or married and they are already fathers to children , and i still single and think a lot about how a lot of years had passed without a halal love in it 😭😭
I've never done anything haram and my youth have been devoted to allah's obedience but i have high sexual desire that didn't fulfiled and i'm afraid i will be sexually impotent and will not enjoy halal sex if my marriage get delayed longer ... i feel i'm running out of time to have kids of my own 🥺 ... please Allah help me and give me what my heart desire .
Dude chill, fast to control desire n pray tahajud to get married.
N for u guys its easy, yall can hv kids even if ur 80 (like charlie chaplin)
So think logically n scientifically before making "I'll neva be dad" statements
I am 35, earning well, good looking, physically perfect Alhamdulillah and i have every luxury which many of our brothers and sisters desires but still am unmarried and my parents are searching for girl since last 7 years as i want to do an arranged marriage and most of the time the girl or either their parents reject my proposal. I am still thankfully waiting and avoid my self from the haram things
@@virgo.6 I hope you find what your heart desire inshallah sooner brother .. you may think I'm still young but I have been living alone working in another city away from my relatives for almost 3 years, don't have close friends since most people my age are busy and they have their own lives, married.
Loneliness is very hard to cope with, and haram is easy, having gf is easier to get married in halal but I don't want Allah to be angry with me, I have hope inshallah both will get married soon.
Don't give up, brother. I know it is hard (trust me, I know) but remember that Allāh سبحانه وتعالى can open doors for you that you never even could have imagined were there! The question is - you must ask yourself what could be preventing you from marriage? For example, some people feel they are ready to get married but don't have a penny to their name. Even our beloved Prophet ﷺ first became a self-made man before getting married. In your case, if it is a high sex drive, think about how that could negatively impact your marriage, especially if it stems from pornography or masturbation habits - which unfortunately so many of our brothers have fallen into nowadays. Remember that marriage is more than just sex and intimacy. This is literally sharing your entire life with someone.
If you do some deep retrospection and find that is the case, search for treatment from your habits and desires; clear your mind and heart of these illnesses; pray plenty of Tahajjud and NEVER underestimate the power of Du'a! Then I guarantee you Allāh will send the most noble of spouses your way ❤️ Also, keep in mind that Allāh gives us what we want when He believes we are ready, not when WE think we are ready. Finally, if you live in a Western country, there are plenty of marriage bureaus available to help people find the right spouse. Making Du'a for you, my brother. Insha'allah, you will get the one!
PS: from a medical point of view, I wouldn't worry about becoming sexually impotent or not being able to have children. You're good, don't worry!
@@user-jp7tk2bc4j No alhamdulillah I don't watch porn, I don't want to marry just because of sex drive. I want a partner who can share my life and have children and love, thank god I have good income and separate home from my family but the difficulty is the girls or their parents refuse my proosal before they even know me , I live in Saudi Arabia (It's strict country and habits esp for dating and marriage habbits ) my mom do the search and proposal for me (Arrange marriage ) . But i feel soo frustrated because most people my age get married already or planning to and i didn't even find my match yet. I always make dua to allah to help me because i don't want to do something haram and make allah angry ( I kept myself from doing haram all my life alhamdulillah ) but it's soo difficult to restrain yourself from haram and the Halal is so difficult to find and get, after all, I'm human and I have desires and feelings needed to be fulfilled.
This is such a knowledgeable information, thank youu...
please do quote surah + ayat number, when you make a reference through Quran or hadith. Instead only reciting ayats, so we can look for it ourselves as well rather than blindly accepting anything which is being posted online. thanks
I agree with you Biggus Dickus Sr. Allah SWT's blessings be upon you brother.
بارك الله فيكم و يزيدكم علمكم
Very informative video, thank you
The only thing forbidden is going against your partner wishes. Thoses laws can exclude some creation of god and are probably man-made to fit middle age policies
Interesting, jazakumlau kairon
Please make a video about marital r@pe , a lot of people don’t believ in it and say that such a thing doesn’t exist
Doesn't exist so what? The hadith says he goes to bed angry, which is proof he shouldn't force her. But to call it rApE has no basis.
@@absolutelynobody3837 it absolutely has. Also, the hadith you're talking about is conditional. It goes both ways, it's for both men and women. Also, if having intercourse hurts the woman in anyway ( anywayy, physically, mentally, emotionally psychologically) then it's absolutely fine to refuse.
I clicked on this video not even knowing it had anything to do with Islam or Haram, I thought it was just a lifestyle guide video or something like that xD
Alhamdulillah
Thanks for your explained
It's very clear to understand it
Hahajajaj all single ppl listening to this, including me
jazakAllah khairan
I am 14 and preparing for the future
Same
wouldn't have to wait anymore if you're a girl xDxDXdxDDDDd
Visioner 🔥
Your quote : Don't bring religion into it and say it's not good
Can u also put references of cites and hadith in the video?
It will make it easy for us to find it.
This topics are very interesting for all😂😂😂
ya Muslimin stay away from zinah. This is very useful.
Islamic Marriage = rape and abuse
When I was young.....I was told that u have to pray to get a child and nothing else. I mean they weren't wrong...you just gotta pray u get a child on the 1st try
Somehow I remember about Pasta from nigerian/ugandan news interview
Everything in religious texts is from men's prospective. Women are your field you can enter them however you want???? seriously? the women who give you birth is such a useless object that you men decide how to enter them. What a sick interpretation. do you even hear yourself? how did Islam a religion that is from God who is of no gender gave all the power and decision to men? or is it that this book you are referring to is just written by men because it only honors sick men.
what you're decribing sounds pretty much like rape, which he is clearly NOT talking about.
Are you Muslim or feminist?
@@absolutelynobody3837 wtf are you saying, that got nothing to do with what she thinks!
@@oznurc.5415 Her entire comment reeks of feminazism. And so does your language.
@@absolutelynobody3837 lmfao u need to stop talking out of your ass
I really wondering on how i will raise my children in this over-sexualization era that we lived in...
May Allah help muslim parents and strengthen our muslim generation 🤲
u know uve been watching dis until d end bcoz of d animation right? or else u wud b sleeping half way.. ?🤣
Also Sadism and jumping on your wife with no foreplay are not allowed. there are etiquettes and mannerisms on how to complete intimacy. Otherwise, animals are better
True,am single but i do agree that foreplay or oral is important for intimacy
This!!!
Do you know that Quran says that men could have sex with their wives and with their female slaves? Do you think that slaves in the past could refuse to have sex? Islam doesn't prohibit rape between a married couple and between a man and his slaves. I don't want to be disrespectful, but I can't understand how a woman can be Muslim knowing this. I think most of the muslim forget about the slavery part because slavery doesn't exist anymore, but it was in Quran
And also talk about oral sex that is also prohibited in Islam. In the light of Quran and hadith
Thank you so much for those instructions ❤️
Watching this while being single is depressing
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@@ugwujuliet4132 lol 😂 what kind of nonsense is this 💀 pure scam!!
Same💀😭
Very informative
Thanks for the information n wish you all the best w jazakallahu khaira
Pov: Ppl who are 13 and watching to watch out for these when they get married.
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