INSTA BADDIES REPENT, IS H03 CULTURE OVER?
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- Опубліковано 14 жов 2024
- Hey #QueenTeam, in this video I about #AlexisSkyy #BlaccChyna #OliviaSong and #BrittanyRenner repenting from the imagery that has also aided in their social media presence and their celebrity. What are your thoughts?
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I’m 32. From ages 18-20 i went through this “sexual liberation” phase. 10 plus years later my past actions are still being held against me from time to time. It got so bad throughout the years that I felt undeserving of life. When people found out who my boyfriend was they would tell him stuff about what they heard about me, which some was true, some wasn’t. It got to the point he used to get embarrassed and if we ever used to get into arguments he would use my past against me and say “ I’m just a 304 and everyone knows it.” The moral is to value yourself because if you don’t no one else will. The biggest take is your past actions could really hinder your future. Being “sexually liberated” can really keep you from being with the type of man you would want as you mature. A man of value doesn’t want to associate himself with a woman who was reckless with her body. As women we are already born with our worth. Our chastity is our biggest value, along with our femininity, our natural beauty and in regards to the dating market, our capability to be cooperative and our submission is also a quality trait to possess. Taking men and dating out the equation for a moment, in regards to SELF, promiscuity is never the answer ladies. Not only is it self sabotage, but you are sacrificing your dignity and integrity as well as compromising the reputation of your family name all for the sake of men who have absolutely nothing positive to say about you even after giving them something meant to be so sacred. You live and you learn, but this lesson here is one that you shouldn’t want to embark on, simply listen to those before you who have been there done that. Like Brittany Renner I constantly regret my decisions and wished I stayed true to my “responsible and boring” self. It’s the best savior in the end ! You owe it to you to prioritize and protect your future.
Thank you for sharing your testimony and your words! I couldn't have said it any better. I think the message is thinking about how your current life can affect your future implications. Well said and I'm glad you have the courage to share this 🫶🏾
💖💖💖thank you for sharing that with us. I feel like a lot of teens and young adults go through the “promiscuity” phase. For one that’s when you’re really young and our hormones are going crazy but that’s besides the point. Us as older woman (don’t necessarily have to be older but past that stage) should teach the younger girls about the promiscuity stage and encourage them not to go through it and teach them about self respect, self value, and how sacred we are. Again thank you for sharing and please don’t feel bad, you are a grown woman now and you aren’t the girl you once were. You live and you mature and learn💖💖💖
Thanks for sharing jaz. I have pretty much the same testimony as you
Ummmm this sounds like a red pill man behind her page 😒
@@MsBlackPocahontas I seriously think it is because i was talking to them in a different comment section on a different youtube channel and they sounded like a red pill man pretending to be a woman there too
I don’t get why having class and morals is considered boring
Me neither !! or having self respect.
Facts
That’s how you know we’re living in the last days …Twilight Zone 😵💫😵💫
When Keyshia Cole said, “I used think that I wasn’t fine enough, and I used to think that I wasn’t wild enough”
I felt that
Coz in this case it's difficult to manipulate a person into doing what they don't want to do.
being hypersexual is not cute and i'm glad women are moving on with this.
THIS💯💯💯🗣️🗣️
💯 it's not cute at all!!!
As far as removing implants & fillers….they are starting to look botched aaaand the maintenance. Who wants to keep getting fillers 🥴
@@trini640 that too! Like death & missing ass cheeks …that shit crazy 🥴
@@trini640 they are..black Chyna got hers removed bc it was making her sick and starting to form tissues that were similar to causing cancer. She said it scared her and she went as far to getting baptized and removed EVERYTHING!
Only fillers I’ll get is undereye and my chin. Plus evening out my face
Yea they all messed up. From blac Chyna to the Kardashian’s. Kim took out her BBL and boob implants!
i kinda feel bad for brittany but at the same time i dont. from ages 15-18 i started to act a little fast and it wasnt until after graduating high school that i realized that i got nothing to show for it. im gonna be 22 in a few weeks and im thankful that i learned that being fast and dealing w men that dont really have ur best interest isnt all that great. im happy that i learned that lesson before my 20s bc me doing all those weird things in high school almost was like a cry for help and lack of self worth/esteem.
💯💯 definitely can relate we the same age and I went through the same thing
same^
sameeeee💯💯
I’m 32. From ages 18-20 i went through this “sexual liberation” phase. 10 plus years later my past actions are still being held against me from time to time. It got so bad throughout the years that I felt undeserving of life. When people found out who my boyfriend was they would tell him stuff about what they heard about me, which some was true, some wasn’t. It got to the point he used to get embarrassed and if we ever used to get into arguments he would use my past against me and say “ I’m just a 304 and everyone knows it.” The moral is to value yourself because if you don’t no one else will. The biggest take is your past actions could really hinder your future. Being “sexually liberated” can really keep you from being with the type of man you would want as you mature. A man of value doesn’t want to associate himself with a woman who was reckless with her body. As women we are already born with our worth. Our chastity is our biggest value, along with our femininity, our natural beauty and in regards to the dating market, our capability to be cooperative and our submission is also a quality trait to possess. Taking men and dating out the equation for a moment, in regards to SELF, promiscuity is never the answer ladies. Not only is it self sabotage, but you are sacrificing your dignity and integrity as well as compromising the reputation of your family name all for the sake of men who have absolutely nothing positive to say about you even after giving them something meant to be so sacred. You live and you learn, but this lesson here is one that you shouldn’t want to embark on, simply listen to those before you who have been there done that. Like Brittany Renner I constantly regret my decisions and wished I stayed true to my “responsible and boring” self. It’s the best savior in the end ! You owe it to you to prioritize and protect your future.
@@beautiful_wonderfullymade nice thanks for sharing. I'm 22 and I'll live by this
This is stuff we tried to speak about YEARS ago. “Dont do that you’re kids wont stay kids forever” “you shouldn’t be doing that have some respect for yourself” and everyone called us haters and pick me etc well…. WE TOLD YALL SO😂😂😂😂
😂 right
Right
Congratulations to Angela specifically for growing and wanting to be better. You NEVER have to stick with the mistakes you made no matter how much our society tries to convince BLACK WOMEN that they do. Chyna is a pioneer in this type of content and it’s going to be very influential to watch this change. No matter how much people want to admit that or not.
Just out of curiosity how does society convince black women that they have to stay the same and not change for the better? #hitdogsaregoingto…
@@roneshajoy continuing to call them nothing but baby mamas no matter how they’ve bettered their lives for themselves and their children. Black Men sitting on podcasts saying things like “once a hoe always a hoe”. People continue to beat women down about their past mistakes. I could keep going but I’m SURE you get it.
@@theamazingdoubleA they can try to play crazy but you spoke nothing but facts!
@@theamazingdoubleA I mean if you’re not married you are a baby mama. Men aren’t calling women that’s not living a hoe lifestyle a hoe. Men aren’t on podcast calling wholesome women hoes. No one is beating women down about their past mistakes because today women are celebrating the hoe life with all types of celebrated slut walks. So I just wanted to see where women take accountability for their mistakes
@@theamazingdoubleA Honestly, we have to stop letting the internet chatterers color our perceptions of life.
I remember when a “trend” was Doc Martens and black pleather skirts, the banana clip bump with the side bang, big hoop earrings from the beauty supply store and juicy couture sweats… fun little ways to change with the times. Now, “trends” are body surgeries and implants, ho3 culture and sexual liberation x100… detrimental changes to the body … I hate that THIS is the point we’ve gotten to! These women speaking out on their promiscuity and sexual regrets is VERY telling and SAD! These are the women girls look up too; THESE are the individuals and essentially FACES of the toxic culture they once deemed as “acceptable” and “moral”…
These trends aren’t new at all
Those juicy couture sweats are slowly becoming a trend again lol
@@allyleah2 umm never said they were hun🥴
@@LaiLai.. right 😂
@@LaiLai.. I’ve been buying all things juicy lately!!!!
-mini backpack
- robe
- pajamas
etc.
And I’ve been buying Bratz stuff 😭
I believe these women deserve grace. We let men get away with so much in life and cover it all with “he was young, he made mistakes” well? use that same grace yall give abusers to the girls who didn’t know their worth at one point and acted out because of that
I feel like a lot of women lost themselves trying to keep up with these men 💯 the difference between men & women is they can sell a imagine & hide their hurt etc. It's hard for a lot of women to do that because we live in a world where most ppl love to act like they don't have feelings 😢
@@AlwaysInAMudfuckamouth96 I agree with this.. men are taught from a young age not to show emotions, women aren’t.. they go through things the only difference is the pretend not to be bothered when they are.. not to say they go through more than women, but they definitely have their own demons they’re fighting..
That’s not true @Venus Vicious. Men and women are not the same. As women we are born with our worth which is our chastity and our feminine energy. Men’s worth is his net worth and masculinity. Men are not born with monetary value, and a man’s masculinity can easily be compromised should he not been raised by masculine energy. Those are things they have to go out and achieve. Men have to go out and make money and build muscle. Off the rip that isn’t fair that women are born with value and men have to go out and the world and work for their value. With that being said there are double standards in life that benefits men at times and is unfair to women and visa versa. Women shouldn’t intentionally go out in the world and be promiscuous because “men get to do it and they are given grace.” That’s one of the double standards. The more men as women that we sleep with, the more our value does down, whereas a man has the capability of sleeping with a lot of women and still is highly sought after by other women and praised my other men for basically being a “man 304.” That’s the way the world is. Like James Brown said:” This is a man’s world.” This is coming from a young woman who thought I could compete with men and “do it too” but i quickly learned that I was only hurting myself! Males are giving grace when it comes to sex because unlike men our bodies were not biologically created to be” invaded by many men.” God created the image of the women to be chaste. We are given grace in other areas of life. If a man and is pulled over by a police for speeding and a women is pulled over for speeding, more than likely the women is going to get a warning citation and the man will have a ticket. More times than none women are able to evoke the empathy of others because of our soft nature, meaning we are likely to make out unscathed in more situations versus or male counterparts.
@@beautiful_wonderfullymade This comment needs to be pinned done. It's cute how these girls are trying to change their lives around but they will always be known as hoes.
@@beautiful_wonderfullymade I don’t even disagree for the most part but I am still sending grace out to the girls who were young and dumb, just trying to do what they thought would get them love, money and/or attention. Unpopular opinion maybe but being a h03 really isn’t the worst thing in the world and i think everyone regardless of sex deserves a redemption after trying to find themselves. Alot of times that hyperseggual stuff comes from a very disturbing / traumatic occurrence that leads us to think that’s ALL we’re good for and we act out in that way, I would never punish someone for that. Give the girls grace, too.
Normal women can’t do this. That’s all I have to say…
This is facts 👏🏾
Exactly. I wish they’d be honest about the dangers they faced from having this image. Half of these women were escorts or doing something strange for change. In real life this behaviour sticks it’s not as simple as deleting pictures to create a new image. But good for them
@@0003-t6x right. Or the sexual assault they can face. A lot of men act real sweet until they get you alone. I think the guilt is eating Britney up. You don’t know what kind of fetishes these men have behind closed doors that go beyond kinky to 🤮
At some point it eats away at you.
@@0003-t6x it makes me want to read Brittany’s book now
I mean… blac chyna was a “normal” stripper and tyga still wanted her… anybody can grow and change regardless of status, I wish women would stop acting like men control their value when most of them don’t even know self worth… THIS IS YOUR LIFE f a fairytale lol
I respect anyone who wants to change their life for the better. BUT. Let’s not forget the influence these women had on young girls, promoting this lifestyle for so long and looking down on anything “regular” Meanwhile they’re miserable behind closed doors. Be yourself girls! And use your beauty if you want to BUT, always provide balance in your image. Never be overtly sexual to a point your aren’t taken seriously with clothes on.
Love this!
That’s why you have to know who YOU are and stick to your own morals
You can’t have your cake and eat it too. I’ve noticed Nick cannon and other men are finally getting the side eye too… everyone has the right to redeem themselves though and these women being se.xual didn’t involve making endless broken homes
I love that we living in a generation when everybody getting called out.. double standards starting to fade for them lol
I think because these women are getting older, now in their 30s they are just growing up!!! I think it’s a great thing they are making positive changes.
I agree. This is what life is about. Maturing and coming into ones self. I am happy for them. Like Angela mentioned in one of lives she is passing the baton & that will continuously happen as we go through generations. I love to see people change their lives and chase different things. Growth looks beautiful on everyone.
It's kinda sad that celebs or "influencers" have to do right for people to follow suit 🤦🏽♀️ Im so disappointed in mankind 🥴
Right 👍🏼
This is why in life you shouldn’t follow anybody. You’ll be led astray.
This comment should be pinned PERIOD…. I’m glad I never let anyone’s peer pressure or dislike of me being reserved turn me into someone I’m not. It’s crazy because I could’ve used my childhood traumas of SA and other bad things i been through lead me into a lifestyle of being overtly sexual, drugs, and even jail but I make the choice to preserve and heal daily because the opposite of that is self destruction and I came to this realization as a kid . It’s not easy and I have constant struggles and real life battles dealing with my heavy trauma but it’s worth fighting for my sanity. Y’all don’t let miserable and evil people lead you astray because they love to feed off of the company of others “misery” and naivety and traumas. Live life how u see it fuck what others are saying including family and friends cuz truth be told no matter how old they are most of them are lost themselves. Seek out people with real character and wisdom.
They are getting older & getting pushed out the way for the younger them.. So why not rebrand & try to get to know the new them that they are now becoming.. They made a platform made money & now it's on to the next.. Engage in the "New" person I am becoming to make money.. It's All about MONEY!!!
Truueeeee
I remember Chyna losing that case with the Kardashians…I wonder if the lifestyle is no longer sustainable and I wonder if she’d still be removing her enhancements if she had won that lawsuit and the money…the same with the other ladies…inflation is real and I’m sure the upkeep for the cosmetic enhancements has gone up as well…great video 😇👍🏾
good point , never saw it that way , but it makes sense . I only do fillers and botox and i'm thinking seriously of stopping because the prices went up and spending 1k in one visit is not a smart decision in this economy anymore.
Excellent point! I’ve had laser hair removal and it’s not as reasonably priced as I initially thought. Cosmetic enhancements, hair, nails, makeup, etc can add up very quickly over time!
Exactly. Follow the paper trail and look deeper. There’s always more to the story
@@skindippedingold okay?! 👏🏾
My thinking too!😂
Oh wow blac Chyna took all of her implants out... Never thought this would happen
No she didn’t. The silicon won’t come out bc no doctor will touch her. She dissolved her fillers tho
@@sashamoore9691 thought she underwent a 8 hr surgery for butt shot removal on 3/15? I’ve been watching her live streams
Tbh, this is just them getting older🤷🏾♀️. WE’RE all getting older, and in their circle they can’t compete with the younger upcoming girlies. This happens with every generation😂😂
I love Lori Harvey, however I can see the same happening with her😢 people seem to only care about her dating life🤦🏾♀️ if she continues to solely be known for that, it’s gonna get hard for her. She’s BEAUTIFUL, however being solely known for your partners and getting by on your looks has an expiration
I pretty much have the same testimony as as Jazmin. I can totally relate to Brittney Reneer and now I’m 32 and feel I’ll never find a healthy relationship because of me being reckless with my body and not understanding my value in the past. As dumb as it sounds, I had a mom growing up but she was old school and never put me on game. Neither did any of my women in my family. Not blaming anyone but now I have a 13 year old daughter now and definitely let her know her value and how she can avoid being taken advantage of older men/boys. I want her to be better than me.
Saaaammmeee! My momma old school too so we never had ‘the talk’ etc etc. i had to learn like everything on my own and many lessons were learned the hard way 😢 ouch. For the most part it’s all behind me now but I’m working extra hard to make sure my loved ones dont have to experience it.
@@-_Somebody_ exactly!💕💯💯💯
Amber Rose is probably up next to drive down the “de-heaux” road right along with them 😂
Being a Thot and 304 gets tiring and exhausting for those that choose be this way. It’s a phase and once reality sets in that being a 304 isn’t where it’s at when they want to change and better themselves to do something else or prepare to settle down with a man. They are having these epiphanies after the fact. Not for nothing these women were warned and didn’t listen. What these women haven’t discussed is someday they will be having those hard conversations with their children about their pasts. It’s interesting these women are renouncing their pasts, but the images they have put online will be around forever. The Bible says a good name is better than riches.
A good name is definitely better than riches ❤️😍
Amen 🙏
I think Chyna is venturing into more respectable endeavors like acting, and refining her image would actually really help her be taking more seriously in those circles...honestly out of all the people on the list, I’d give chyna more grace for growth
They want to settle down. they want to be wifed up they are older. The millionaire type of men they want do not mary women like them. 🤷🏽♀️ i dont mean celebs talking about execs in the business they all have normal looking women. Also ig as a career is probably not looking real promising. There is always a new prettier ig model coming up. They have nothing to offer that these men can’t find in a younger prettier version. I dunno but its giving the are regretting a lot of their past $lutty ways and just want to settle and be taken care of but it might be hard for them. 🤷🏽♀️
Facts!
Basically red pill manosphere is right. I'll admit they're right about _some_ things.
Facts
Like men won’t snag them up? So many dusties will pick women up no matter how they look. Perhaps they’re starting to divest so they want a man of no color instead of a pookie, therefore changing and cleaning up their look
@@no.6377 they’re absolutely right about everything. Think about it. The Manosphere mainly consists of men talking about what they do and don’t want in women. If men are picking these women up in real life because of their past smuttiness then we are seeing what they’re saying come to real life.
the whole hyper sexual thing is draining i’m happy for them
I think a lot (not all ) but ALOT comes from broken families and toxic upbringings. Be the change you want to see
From 19-20 i went through that and i was disgusted with myself. It wasnt until i had a false pregnancy that i realized that i was living life wrong.. I did run into the wrong guy who i thought loved me. We were together for 1 1/2 that relationship was toxic i was treated like shiit by him ans his family, by the time i realized i deserved better and im better off by myself i got hit by a car and found i was pregnant. He didnt car nor did his family.. I left went back to my moms got my own place and im happier than i ever have been. Im starting my own business healing from my car accident ( learning to walk again) and i now what i do and dont want in my life and my sons life. That child adult is not involved nor is his family and its the best thing ever. Im growing as a women/ and as a mother. Eventually i'll find real love but for right now im only focused on myself, my son, and getting my life together so my son would have a great life as well❤❤❤ we deserve happiness and to be treated right but you have to start with yourself... Self love, self respect, self value, self worth self growth ect is better than any broke " love " out there.. I realized that when the donor of mt son didnt want that for me.. Id rather be by myself the with someone who dont the best for me and my mental. Self care is very important for mature growth.❤ have a great weekend everyone stay blessed.❤❤
No we're just seeing the changing of the guards in real time via social media. The new baddies will be stepping into their place real soon.
They passing the baton like a damn relay race
I love your content Chioma ❤
Thank you so much 🫶🏾
@@QueenChioma ohhh hey girl! Of course 🥰
How culture is not over. It’s over for them…
I read her book . IT WAS WILD 😭😭 my god sis needs healing
What was your favorite part
@@ULuvJanae I’m not gonna spoil it, but she goes into details of her relationship before she started dating celebrities, and that’s where it started she allowed men to act foolish with her
I don’t understand the whole “I did not understand my worth conversation” because honestly how I feel about it is, men don’t understand their worth either, it’s a lot of men who have low self esteem, self confidence and everything else under the Sun but when it comes to women the first we say is “we didn’t know our self worth” when it’s not that I just think women did all of these things to get the attention of men so they can be wifed up, now that they ARENT wifed up they feel all the shit they did plastic surgery, fillers etc was for nothing because the outcome was t what they wanted.
Yes!👏🏾👏🏾
Yeah, but they’ll never admit they did it for a man. The lack of honestly with a lot of influencers when the BBL and surgery trend began was disappointing.
Good observation
A man’s worth comes from his net worth and masculinity. Our worth comes from our chastity and feminine energy. The “I didn’t understand my worth” narrative comes from women basically handing over their highest form of worth aka their bodies on a silver platter to undeserving men. That’s what she means by “discounting her worth.”I can’t say I agree about the “getting wifed up” part because in our generation it’s all about being seen and getting attention! Many women denounce marriage and demoralize it to “just being a piece of paper.” With that being said I think more times than none the self sabotaging is being done for the sake of being seen and “put on.”
I mean I get what you’re saying, but both points correlate with each other. If they knew their worth, then they wouldn’t be trying to change themselves for men. They would want a man to want them for their personality, character etc and not just because they have a nice body. Therefore, it’s apart of the conversation. They didn’t have self worth and because they didn’t, they did things to gain the attention of men.
The fear of regret is one the biggest reasons I've always been insanely discerning in the men I sleep with. A good girl can wake up tomorrow and become the biggest slore, if she so chooses, but a slore can never take those bodies back 😂
💯💯💯 frfr
A slore??
@@Zvwry they mean a slut/whore
@callmez954 it's slut and whore mixed together
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1:13 nah, why is she on the ground, lord
🤣🤣
Cause suki gross tbh
I cringed too
2 things. Firstly just because you change does reverse the damage that has been done. Women like Blac Chyna and Brittney Renner have contributed to this culture and inspired a whole new generation. Number 2, the internet is forever. Once it’s uploaded it’s there forever lol
This is a prime example of when women do stuff to appeal to the male gaze/pleasure. It almost always backfires. There is nothing wrong with being sexy but it is when it comes to being hypersexual/promiscuous. You'll eventually feel bad about it. Plus, you have to consider your kids seeing/hearing about it, a serious relationship with a man who may discover your reputation and overall your peace of mind. I think about all the women I personally know and the ones I've seen online who are like this. I can see the sadness in their eyes. They look so empty and dead on the inside. It's truly not worth it, ladies. And for those that have, everyone can change for the better, it's never too late. ❤️
The sadness in their eyes is so true I've always noticed that and the fake smile is a dead give away, but most are sooo focus on the bodies that they don't notice that. #sadreality
But it wasn't for the male gaze specifically. It was just to be sexy and "liberated" lol of course, contributing to the male gaze is an inevitable side effect that can't be overlooked and that sex positive feminism has never really had a good answer for..
Glad these ladies are waking up!
They are simply getting old and is drain
Wow, this video was great. I love how you spoke facts about getting into your mid 20’s and having a revolution and growth and grâce mindset. I currently went through the change less than 5 months ago and I’m so proud of myself and my new me! #changed
Doctor Miami is finna get broke 😮😢😊
My first thought (Ha! See what I did there?)
Look, WW do this all the time: they wild out while they're young, then they have the privilege of evolving when they're older. (Cough) Miley (Cough) Paris (Cough) Jenna Jameson - I'm dating myself with that last mention 🤣
I agree, it bothers me how we put these straight jackets on black women to always be “good” and “respectable” or else they are forever trash. Can we give us space to experiment and also change as we grow as people?
Jason lee was like why you stopping only fans. Erm maybe because she has a son that’s getting older and she simply does not want to.
I had my phase, not proud of it. But I learned a lot! I hate the question, “what’s your body count?”
We’re grown asf and some of us thought less of themselves. Like me!
My bf had asked me that question, I told him; we’re grown my past don’t got nothing to do with us today.
It’s my past & it’s not who I am today! I’m happily a homebody ❤
I have mixed feelings about a lot of this. I think black women in particular have a right to be sexual and full human beings without being degraded or viewed as forever “tainted”. A lot of people have “ho”/“slutty” phases when they are young and should not be forever judged based on those standards. Certainly, many white women have their phases and are still able to be considered good wives, mothers, etc. I also get that many girls and women are not coming by their promiscuity from a place of agency and true empowerment and are sometimes acting out of spaces of trauma, neediness, or feeling like this is what they have to do to please men or the only way they can support themselves. I think the “soul ties” nonsense is going too far and often incredibly one-sided in regards to judging women, but many women have sex with people who have no respect for them or out of a need for validation and I understand the regrets. But it’s also not helpful to frame women as irreparably spiritually damaged because they’ve had sex with 15 people instead of 3, and promote this pseudo-spiritual crap that is just about shaming women.
👌🏿 Nicely written.
You have that right but as a WISE woman you better understand repercussions. Especially if you're MOTHER which i think women dont gaf about anymore. We know the repercussions so why not teach and show your children better. There are women that live better lives and didnt have to find themselves and their value in their late 20's and 30's. So understand that the value isnt found in sexuality. We put it on a pedestal when in reality it only matters when you're in your prime, its more acceptable in your youth under the preface of finding yourself , which is Bs, what if youre a young mother? Its no longer appealing as you age and become a Mom. You just become an old hoe. Thats why they are changing. A lonely old hoe on top of that. They thought the lifestyle would land them a man that would value and love them because thats what Black culture told them. It was all lies. Its gets you EXPLOITED and a false sense of value and love.
White women can be slutty and still able to be seen as mothers and wives. Tell me you don't change out in spite spaces or have many white friends without telling me. Lol that is absolutely not true. They have a lot of the same issues and most white men don't care for someone like Kim K for that reason.
Hear hear! Well articulated!
Thank you! 👏🏽 I'm sick of seeing women judging other women for their past, we don't know their circumstances in life, but we are so quick to banish them while giving men a pass and saying "we're not the same", well according to the trans community and their research, we are the same. They put on a wig and a dress and now they are "women".
Black chyna looks so much nicer without the filler :) I always thought her natural face was so pretty to begin with ^^. The fact that she's even trying is Great! I hope people are gentle with her
I feel like a lot of women lost themselves trying to keep up with these men 💯 a lot of ppl on social media selling a image.. want u to think being a 304 or a guy with multiple kids in different household is okay 😢 when behind closed door they crying once the damage really starts to settle in. Stop listening & looking up to these people
It is nice to see Blac Chyna grow especially knowing the type of mother she came from.
I dont think its sincere coming from Brittany Renner though. I lowkey think she's pandering to then Red Pill dudes.
What changed is that they are mothers and if you have any sense you really care about how your kids see you in this world and act accordingly.
Absolutely not Brittany. She displayed who she really is. People was like nah sis you're just a pass around. You not gonna get me. She got a bite size of reality and now you saying oh noooooo I'm realizing blah blah blah. No once again people are falling for her bs. Nobody checking for her and NOW SHE REALLY NEED SOMEBODY TO SAVE HER. Of course somebody gonna save her. She's embarrassed and she knew she played HERSELF and once again somebody will save her so I don't feel sorry for her😌
Good luck to the corn stars and only fans ladies. Children grow up and they'll get exposed to everything. THE INTERNET DOES NOT FORGET
I’m loving this journey from Blacc Chyna. I’ve always loved her but she started to get lost and I’m glad she’s found herself again. I need a network to give her a show about her new journey or document it on UA-cam
Girl they're just rebranding 😊
All I hear is the Migos song “freak no more” in my head 😂😂. On a serious note though it’s very hard for a woman to come back from certain reputations so I feel for them and wish them the best on their journey.
liking the video before the video starts.🥰 yt not about to play with my girl content
They already flagged this before it went live 😭 That’s how they do me lol it’s okay though , thanks for supporting 🫶🏾💖
@@QueenChioma where is the patreon link
It’s pinned !
@@QueenChioma got it! I wasn’t originally planning to sub, but I can’t get enough 😭
They’re much needed topics and I’m proud to support you. I switched my major to communications
Thanks so much! I will definitely keep posting. And yes to Communications!!! I will always advocate for my major lol I appreciate your support. 🫶🏾
If you can only go through the motions without having to blast your life on social media , you wouldn’t have to explain to the world that you’re enlightened. Although we’re all entitled to having a revelation it’s our own personal journey, but once you blast yourself that’s it you’re blasted. 🤷🏽♀️and sukihana is absolutely revolting 🤢
Everyone wants to be natural now! Thank God 🙏🏼 I've stayed natural!
Amen 🙏
YESSS
I think women are learning that looks doesn’t but you love.
Black chyna definitely didn’t need fillers with them naturally high cheek bones. I do wonder in her case would she be different if her mom wasn’t living that lifestyle and didnt mistreat her.
I remember I made this same comment on my platform and was told I was a woman hater lol Listen, having a jezebel spirit will never be valued by the men we ALL would like to marry. If marriage mean a lot to you or if you genuinely respect yourself stop allowing yourself to be used by men. I don’t feel bad for Brittany. She wanted to ride a wave and it crashed because it was never supposed to be respected lol I am thankful I never had a “hoe” phase because my mama taught me better 👏🏿
evrythung has become a trend. Imagine helathy living and spirituality is a trend now lol. But yall do you. But it's nothing new! Its just a way of reshaping trends into what's current.
I just believe what Brittany is saying would be better conveyed on her normal platforms where the girls she may have influenced would hear the message from someone similar to them. So I'm convinced she's just moving into the next grift and this is a 100% calculated move to appeal to the manosphere and make money off the dudes that will pay to see a pretty woman validate their opinions.
As for Blac Chyna, the last I heard of her was when she was trying to date that (barely) 18 yr old rapper. It was giving creeper cradle robber vibes.
Blac Chyna’s boyfriend is 25. (Lil’ twin) If that’s who you’re referring to. As for Brittany Renner I do not think she’s trying to appeal to the manosphere because in all honestly even if she’s just saying what she thinks they want to hear they’re still paying her dust over there. She’s still getting roasted and she is still getting condemned for her “sloreness.” I honestly think she’s simply trying to repent. She’s 30 going on 31 which is normally when that evolution strikes. I’m 32 and about 29/30 is when I saw the light as well.
@@beautiful_wonderfullymade no she’s referring to Almighty Jay. He was definitely like at 18 or 19 when she was dating him. He’s like 24 now.
@@beautiful_wonderfullymade you may be right about Brittany Renner but God does it seem like such a stereotype. Good for her, I guess. I don't buy it, though. The fact that she's aligning herself with the likes of Pearly Tingz makes it all seem disingenuous to me.
But in regards to Blac Chyna. Nah -- I'm not talking about her current bf. I used to keep up with her way back in the late 2010's so they've probably broken up long ago. But basically people were dragging her because she was dating a barely legal rapper. She looked like a goddamn chaperone and he could barely articulate himself in interviews. It was a weird time.
@@LaiLai.. ooh ok. I see!
I been waiting on this topic 😂
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Mademoiselle when are we going to see your beautiful face on screen, can’t wait for this new music much love from your fans in Canada
The sad thing is people never forget and your past reputation sticks with you
I really wish people would stop condemning mothers on OnlyFans. (not saying she did in this video) but she mentioned bullying and people like to use that as justification for their criticism as if kids aren’t bullied everyday for a ton of reasons. Why are we not focusing on the kids that are DOING the bullying? Who are they learning it from?
The same people who watch porn, and frequent strip clubs in a society where sex work is the oldest profession. Be an example for your kids so they don’t go to school and be little assholes. Teach them not to look down on people for their legal occupation especially because at some point in their life they’re going to indulge in that form of entertainment.
And all of these women on their high horses condemning other women for being on OnlyFans with their saved and sanctified vaginas they gave up before marriage while clocking in to the 9-5 job they hate but chose to give their time, energy, and bodies to for a paycheck can miss me with the bs.
Whatever people decide to share with the world will be judged regardless. Unfortunately that’s just the way it is. Social media definitely don’t care and will chew folks up alive.*
@@mmaya772 At one point slavery was just the way it was but that didn’t mean people shouldn’t have denounced it or wanted it to change. The “That’s just the way it is” people are really just defending the status quo instead of challenging it because a lot of them like to put women in boxes so they can mistreat them without consequence while enjoying what it is that they do.
Their mindsets trickle down to their children who then think it’s ok to bully other kids for things out of their control which is why it’s so ironic when people criticize the parenting of OnlyFans models because who’s kids are doing the bullying? I never bullied anyone as a child and that was instilled in by my mother. So things don’t have to be the way it is. It’s called evolving.
No things don’t have to be the way it is, but it’s impossible to assume that the whole world will stop doing certain things. Slavery is a horrible comparison cause they had no control over such disturbing things being done to them. So like I said whatever people decide to put out is their business but don’t expect people not to judge you. Now as far as bullying is concerned yes parents need to get a grip on that. However, grown adults need to evolve and make better decisions. Once ya know better do better or at least try.*@@Nykesia
@@Nykesia Respectfully, I hear a lot of conviction in your tone as I read this post. Perhaps one could assume that you yourself is an only fans worker. With all due respect any mother who calls herself doing “sex work” deserves to be chastised because you are not considering the well being of your children, but instead you’re looking for a get rich scheme and a way to get “put on” because you desire attention and acceptance!! Respectfully there are plenty of other options that allow you to take care of your children while making an honest/ modest living. I don’t know your case, but this is why it’s said to marry before you carry because if a woman was to be carrying her husband’s child she wouldn’t have to put her cakes on blast for the internet because she would have the covering, protection and provision of HER HUSBAND and for the women who may have married and it resulted in divorce, in addition to child support you would receive spousal support and or alimony as income as well as what you bring in. Mothers who condone sex work are not only a danger to themselves, but also a danger to their children and those around them. This is why women are not good leaders because we tend to lead one another up sh!t creek without a paddle. God didn’t make the image of the women to be harlots. We are to be chaste, especially as a wife and or mother. When they used to say “your life is over once you have a child” despite what society says now, that is still held as true. Once you become a mother it is absolutely no longer about what you want, but it’s about the well being of those children!!!!! You don’t get to “buss it wide open” as though you’re young and childless (which I don’t condone that either) then try to use the kids as a reason why you’re doing it. Nah bruh you’re doing that because you want to be highly sought after by men, because you want to compete with other loose girls and because you want attention. Point black period !!!!
I take it you work in the sex industry ?
One thing ab me oh ima in tune everytime 🫶🫶
I really enjoyed this video. Very well put together and I’m also digging your song. Good job mama.
Thank you so much!!
@@QueenChioma you’re welcome! Thank you!
Moving on to the next reality shift (level). The 5th demention.
Everything fake must go.✌🏾💨
Even Dreams aunties have removed some of theirs.
The title is sending me 😭😭😭
The influence they put on the younger generation, the damage is done !.
Your flow at 11:00 threw me!!!😂😂😂
Hi, I'm from Israel and I really connect with your channel! Every video you upload is just so touching and so precise.❤️
Am so happy that our beautiful woman are getting the wake up call.. and Real man would stick by your side and not us your past against you but they might be a little insecure
Um, its called aging lol
Celina Powell even switched up and said she was getting off of only fans.
Ooo yes forgot about her! Is she still in jail ?
Honestly here for the growth ❤❤❤
There is no mystery to them anymore. Men get off on fantasy and mystery. When you are passed around the industry and literally bare all on the internet, it takes away the mystery factor. As soon as men know everything and see everything you become boring.
Jazbell spirt is dying
They're getting old. They realize that the clock is ticking and it's now or never for certain things that they want in life. The end.
I'm ready to change my gym membership. I'll be going to MMA gym instead of planet fitness or LA fitness. Hoe culture is not over, regular women find it suitable to be dressed overtly sexual, probably to compete with influences, strippers, etc. I go to the gym with my S/O so it can be really frustrating when women feel the need to dress skimpy at the dang gym. Personally I like being comfortable at the gym, so wearing thongs and tight shorts that cup my cheeks, is not ideal. I wouldn't feel confident around a large group of men dressed like that, but that's not the case for most women. They'll flaunt it in our faces and expect us jot to notice or care. It's horrible. So I'm changing my gym, normal women wanna compete with women with fake bodies and I'm not here for it .
I'm just happy that I've worked on my body and that I am in love with how I look. If I wasn't, my conscience would have been destroyed. So I know that if I look the same as the women who dress like prozzytutes, then they have no excuse to be "flaunting what they got" cause I got the same goods. So yeah if u go to the gym with ur bf 8/10 ur playing yourself cause every other women will be competing for the male gaze including that of your bf lol.
But if u also dress like that it will go unnoticed to you cause you'll fit in with the thot culture.
Their children are watching and talking about it.
Yo music production so fye
I love ur channel so much
Jasons reaction to China is sad. He legit couldn’t understand why
The song at the end wasn’t bad🔥🔥🔥 make a Spanish song next😂
INSTA chix repent then sin again🤦🏾♀️
It’s called growing up…!
Give respect to Chyna. U got it girl 👏🏾 👏🏾 👏🏾 I'm proud of you 🎉
FOXY BROWN..... gonna sue ur azz for stealin, her song! 😂
Why do I feel like the kardashians…. Might be bringing her in the fold and have a plan for her. Lol her daughter is a kardashian after all. She’s planning for something
Black chyna face look terrible. Why did she touch her face. She has a handsome squidword face. Her face look very strong 😢
Ok guys I’m getting my tattoo removed tomorrow so people don’t think I’m intimidating anymore
Charlie sheen's daughter joined only fans and he was upset about it then his ex wife Dennis Richards joined as well. At least black China stopped and I also think the roles are different for those that are no mixed or black.
I mean they are getting old that’s why they are changing or getting over with h0e selling style
A lot of these women are just misguided girls. I was once like that as well..on my back with every man that looked my way. Grew up in a 2 parent household yet mother never had sex talk with me. It's a dead end behavior and thank God I changed my life around once I got married and had kids.
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It’s because of the manosphere. We’re just scared to admit it. Mens opinions of women and what they expect has come to light more now than it ever has. Women are realizing that the high value men that they desire and expecting certain things and they want to clean up their image partly because hoeing and this imagery is starting to be judged heavily by the very people women look to impress or get the attention of. I don’t think it’s a bad thing that women are partly doing this for men because what they were doing before was also for men but a different caliber of man. Natural looks are starting to come back which is another thing men have expressed heavily that they prefer and also the culture is beginning to shift. I think for the better.
No not just "for women" for both parties. Maybe more women are aware and regretful when it comes to giving themselves away, but it still affects mean as well, whether they are aware or not, and getting spiritually connected with the wrong women through sex has consequences for them too. Women are just made to feel more guilty about their actions bringing them to the conclusion that being sexually free is not a good thing at an earlier stage in life than men, The epiphany happens earlier for women as opposed to men. I think primarily bc of our biological clocks. That podcast lady laughing and saying "for women" is exactly why mean think its okay to do whatever without any conscience (for a while anyway).
Being a how is not cute
Okay pick me
@@MD19853 😂😂it’s not cute!! Being picked by everyone 😢