LORI HARVEY VS ASIAN DOLL, WHATS THE DIFFERENCE ?

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  • @erikavanorsby7068
    @erikavanorsby7068 Рік тому +1365

    I think it’s the way they carry themselves that makes all the difference.

    • @davinauche3195
      @davinauche3195 Рік тому +52

      EXACTLY

    • @adriana-jc6iv
      @adriana-jc6iv Рік тому +22

      it really is

    • @Hi_Tamera
      @Hi_Tamera Рік тому +59

      Yes! And the quality of men they date

    • @FLAWLESSxBEAUTY
      @FLAWLESSxBEAUTY Рік тому +1

      I agree there’s a video of Asian doll getting dry humped by fivio 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @keezemojito1278
      @keezemojito1278 Рік тому +38

      The bloodline also tho she’s Steve Harvey step daughter and she’s not a ratchet she’s a it girl. Asian doll just a ratchet who’s twerking on king Von and Fivio foreign. They can’t compare at all.

  • @kennethiavail1719
    @kennethiavail1719 Рік тому +1574

    I can speak for myself and say that it’s all about presentation. I’m pretty sure colorism also plays a part and likability. Asian Doll is not likable and she constantly talking as opposed to Lori who has perfected her public appearance. Lori also dates men who are a lot more valuable and ranked higher whereas Asian has made it known she dates killers and gangstas and those men aren’t viewed as quality.

    • @davinauche3195
      @davinauche3195 Рік тому +55

      Exactly ❤

    • @yahainHotPink
      @yahainHotPink Рік тому +61

      They look the same color to me, but I assume everything else is true about them you mentioned.

    • @frnzilla
      @frnzilla Рік тому +81

      Y'all want to make everything about colorism so *bad.* 😭😭 Girl turn up your brightness; they're not much different.

    • @numerologicatarot3333
      @numerologicatarot3333 Рік тому +149

      Asian Doll is dark skin. I have never heard anyone ever refer to Lori as such or anything close. Nonetheless, I do not think this is about colorism.

    • @cimj6834
      @cimj6834 Рік тому +3

      Exactly

  • @ratchettea7070
    @ratchettea7070 Рік тому +448

    Its just in the way they carry themselves . Lori is quiet and reserved . Asian is outgoing and opinionated. For all we know lori could be an Asian Doll behind closed doors and Asian Doll could be a Lori when noone is watching but we are watching so theyre both controlling the narrative they want us to see . Looks play a big part in perception as well.

  • @kaaygoldmine
    @kaaygoldmine Рік тому +509

    unrelated but Asian Doll doesn’t get enough credit for how pretty she is. idk if it’s because of antics or not but her face is top tier.

    • @user-nt8wm4ti6f
      @user-nt8wm4ti6f Рік тому +33

      Yes she's beautiful but I can find a face like that on instagram within seconds, there's nothing unique about her look.

    • @LadyAstarionAncunin
      @LadyAstarionAncunin Рік тому +69

      She's gorgeous. I miss her original body, but the face is perf.

    • @LadyAstarionAncunin
      @LadyAstarionAncunin Рік тому +91

      @@user-nt8wm4ti6f You can find a face like Lori's within seconds too, so what's your point?

    • @user-nt8wm4ti6f
      @user-nt8wm4ti6f Рік тому +13

      @@LadyAstarionAncunin We wasn't speaking about Lori? I would've said the same thing hun

    • @WilliamsPinch
      @WilliamsPinch Рік тому +1

      Those damn buckaroos are so distracting, I missed her face bc them damn veneers are so big.

  • @reffa2858
    @reffa2858 Рік тому +323

    Its funny how people refer to Lori's interactions as strategic, poised, and reserved. Back then, that was simply called being a lady.

    • @BBBunny11
      @BBBunny11 Рік тому +63

      Very true. I think it’s because of the dramatic absence of class in the past few years, so now when someone acts like a lady it’s met with such awe.

    • @tashibalampkin8555
      @tashibalampkin8555 Рік тому +4

      I agree.

    • @GoddessRhy
      @GoddessRhy Рік тому +3

      That's all it is still. Lol she doesn't do anything differently than any woman before her.

  • @Maddygurl12304996
    @Maddygurl12304996 Рік тому +527

    People like to choose who to judge and criticize based off of looks. Lori is “pretty” and is quiet, so of course people are quicker to defend someone like her unfortunately. Asian Doll is also annoying and show’s immaturity🙄

    • @almondkissed3794
      @almondkissed3794 Рік тому +59

      Real aggressive!! She talks like a dude fr

    • @luvbug4388
      @luvbug4388 Рік тому +27

      Lie all the men n women is calling Lori ho this ho that I don't even hear about Asian doll

    • @krystalccameron7689
      @krystalccameron7689 Рік тому

      They're both pretty, that's not it. Cover Lori in tattoos, add an obvious bbl and implants, a yellow wig and stage a backwards pose with the tongue out and you have a pretty girl who every one thinks is a hoe. Similarly, remove Doll's tats, and go for less dramatic bbl and implants, appropriate hair shades, less lashes and stage a photo in Lori's cloths with no tongue visible or gang signs, and you'll have a pretty girl who everyone thinks is high value.

    • @TivaWap1738
      @TivaWap1738 Рік тому +13

      @@luvbug4388 then you just choose to ignore it. Go on ANY post or tweet about Asian

    • @luvbug4388
      @luvbug4388 Рік тому

      @@TivaWap1738 well it's something new, cuz I stay in the blog.Lori Harvey has been getting drag for the last few years. Are you choosing to ignore that. She's been getting dragged by the blog. Celebrities Lil Boosie future and Meek Mills other women whoever. You can find way more videos of Lori being dragged for being a ho then Asian doll!

  • @krystalccameron7689
    @krystalccameron7689 Рік тому +306

    Tattoos, body work and clothing. It's more a matter of classicism than colourism. Doll looks and presents like a stripper, Lori Harvey looks and presents like a debutante.

    • @ladytionne1
      @ladytionne1 Рік тому +22

      You really think stripper? I would call it more like gangster.

    • @krystalccameron7689
      @krystalccameron7689 Рік тому

      @@ladytionne1 The nakedness and obvious bbl take that off the table.

    • @julia5508
      @julia5508 Рік тому

      Stripper she always has ass and titties out🤣

    • @ottopotatum5775
      @ottopotatum5775 Рік тому +19

      @@ladytionne1 gansters dont need to dress like that. Most dont

    • @krystalccameron7689
      @krystalccameron7689 Рік тому +7

      @@ottopotatum5775 Yea...nowhere to hide your piece.

  • @almondkissed3794
    @almondkissed3794 Рік тому +376

    I think the only difference is Lori actually benefits from her relationships status wise . Also she’s very strategic which works in her favor , everything is calculated and with thought .

    • @talkfacts2632
      @talkfacts2632 Рік тому +8

      First of all Asian is a rapper entrepreneur and has had fame and money since she was seventeen she doesn't have to attach herself to a man for anyting they're merely accessories to her and you look at Miss Lori who has been taught to go for the bag because what celebrity does she have outside who her mother decided to marry these are two totally different women in different situations

    • @kiyana5569
      @kiyana5569 Рік тому +11

      Lori H...nothing strategic abt signing a contract binding two celebs together for a year. She should benefit from ""love contracts" or "showmances" bc this is her full-time job imo.

    • @almondkissed3794
      @almondkissed3794 Рік тому +2

      @@kiyana5569 Didn’t I say status wise ?

    • @almondkissed3794
      @almondkissed3794 Рік тому +4

      @@talkfacts2632 You missed the whole point. Went right over your head 🤦🏾‍♀️

    • @kiyana5569
      @kiyana5569 Рік тому +7

      @@almondkissed3794 Lori isn't strategic at all. Her business brand hasn't benefited or expanded while dating these esteemed men. Socialites of other famous families are billionaires or becoming. Lori is the "It Girl' to some so where are the multi-deals besides "love contacts" and "showmances"?

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 Рік тому +163

    Lori and Asian are not the same. Lori lives her life simply for Lori and privately. Asian doll exposes everything on social media for everybody to judge her. And she does way too much on the internet

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 Рік тому +8

      Yea no lies told here

    • @sagittariusbeauty
      @sagittariusbeauty Рік тому +3

      Boom! 💯

    • @DumbBroadAdventures
      @DumbBroadAdventures Рік тому +6

      I’m never going to forget when she called herself queen von 😭

    • @kiyana5569
      @kiyana5569 Рік тому +1

      People judge bc it's triggering to them. Nothing Asian Doll does triggers me because it's her life not mine. Anyways...love her music and the woman is beautiful

    • @TT.3123
      @TT.3123 Рік тому +4

      @@kiyana5569 not triggered…irked the wrong way maybe lol. Not everyone dislikes someone because of their own issues, we aren’t designed to like every single person in this world, that’s an unrealistic expectation lol
      Edit: I don’t love her music but some of her songs are okay, her and Von were iconic together IMO and also yes - the girl is gorgeous!

  • @hellothere8347
    @hellothere8347 Рік тому +102

    One thing about Lori she’s not claiming no man that isn’t claiming her! She don’t have to do too much at all. She just be

    • @KC-dx6en
      @KC-dx6en Рік тому +3

      now thats the difference between her and Asian

    • @ArcadiasPlanet
      @ArcadiasPlanet Рік тому

      this, that makes a difference between and hoe and someone whos dating, if he don't claim you, you're just getting passed around

  • @simmingsammi
    @simmingsammi Рік тому +226

    I think the difference is Lori is in charge and Asian Doll isn’t. Men are mad at Lori because they still want her, when she’s in a relationship guys post her. Asian Doll just being passed around.

    • @WinterWeFell
      @WinterWeFell Рік тому +92

      I wish yall would stop calling women having consensual relationships “passed around” 🙃 as if we’re literally objects being used and not adults making decisions to date/sleep w someone

    • @simmingsammi
      @simmingsammi Рік тому +50

      @@WinterWeFell well I don’t mean pass around as an insult. I am sex positive. Still wouldn’t you agree that she is just throwing herself at this guy and that guy?

    • @sukiwilliams1654
      @sukiwilliams1654 Рік тому +3

      @@WinterWeFell This!!!

    • @almondkissed3794
      @almondkissed3794 Рік тому +15

      Still doesn’t change the fact she too hops from man to man

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 Рік тому +14

      My thing with Lori is that she always dating ppl on the scene instead of bts man who got status

  • @tygemini8781
    @tygemini8781 Рік тому +89

    i love how you covered this topic. it definitely does boil down to how both women present themselves to the public. asian doll has various videos of her fighting, arguing, with different men, etc. versus lori who doesn’t. asian doll would be more comparable to someone like cuban doll who has the same reputation.

    • @leakypussy9813
      @leakypussy9813 Рік тому +1

      You’re right. Atleast we know Asian Doll has a talent. Lori Harvey is someone’s step daughter, there’s no need for us to really know her.. she literally gives us nothing other than advice we never needed or asked for.. 🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @aishaabdullah5540
    @aishaabdullah5540 Рік тому +79

    Asian Doll and Lori Harvey ARE TWO SEPARATE PEOPLE, no comparison AT ALL 🙄. Asian is a hard core female rapper, she's like a tomboy actually really anyway! And Asian doesn't thot around, she dates who she wants "at the moment". Lori is in a different class, she's pretty and young and rich.

    • @TivaWap1738
      @TivaWap1738 Рік тому +23

      That’s a good point. I think Asian got a big heart, look at every time she posts a man and look what happens every time they don’t work out. Her emotions are genuine and she truly thinks she’s found the one every time, so she’s excited to show the world that she’s ready to take the next step in life. Then boom, they break up and she’s all over twitter upset because she wasted her love again. Speaking from experience, I know what she’s doing. She’s rushing to find the one so she can ease her pain instead of easing her own pain, getting herself right mentally and letting “the one” find her

    • @shartierrawalson4652
      @shartierrawalson4652 Рік тому +9

      I agree completely and they are brought up completely different. Women growing up in rough neighborhoods can’t afford to be show their soft side like that.

    • @onnie.6815
      @onnie.6815 Рік тому

      @@TivaWap1738mmhmmm, you speaking rn

  • @anneb6262
    @anneb6262 Рік тому +149

    Your consistency is out of this world! Congrats on getting your new place! 🎉

  • @KittentheFennecFox
    @KittentheFennecFox Рік тому +90

    It’s because Lori has the element of mystique. We don’t know much about her, and we don’t know what goes on in her relationships. On the other hand, Asian doll puts all her business out there, even more than anybody asks, which makes people form this negative opinion on her.

  • @copiouscat
    @copiouscat Рік тому +49

    Mam, his performance in Snowfall…. CAPTIVATING. That’s a show that engulfs you back in that time and complete storyline. You will be INVESTED.
    1. Lori - silent and impeccable Media Training. Also I believe it’s due to her mother and alignment with Steve Harvey’s brand so ppl already think and expect higher quality of her.
    2. Asian Doll - loud (on Twitter mostly) and “boastful” behavior she flaunts things with effort when there should be no effort needed, when she’s already in a “celebrity” status. I also believe her name Lowkey holds her back.
    . Lmfao love the Dora vs. Swiper the fox comparison. So spot on!
    💜❤️‍🔥

  • @dionatheempresss
    @dionatheempresss Рік тому +163

    I think colorism does play a small role as well as classism. Think about their completely opposite upbringings. Lori was getting tools of the game AND access to better quality everything from a young age. Asian is a self proclaimed street girl. Of course their methods and behaviors are gonna be different. And that’s not excusing anything just saying we should give them grace. Asian has many other actual problematic things to not like her for 😂

    • @monicabrown712
      @monicabrown712 Рік тому +19

      How does colorism come into play? Both are beautiful Brown skinned women.

    • @sagittariusbeauty
      @sagittariusbeauty Рік тому +5

      You're definitely right with classism and also how their different personalities

    • @Tnyene_Lanice
      @Tnyene_Lanice Рік тому +11

      @@monicabrown712I agree not colorism at all.

    • @alkahinat4558
      @alkahinat4558 Рік тому +6

      @@monicabrown712when it comes to BW, 9/10 colourism is at play
      Lori looks slightly ambiguous and is lighter than Asian Doll
      She has an elitist background and being lighter is easier for the public to digest
      Asian Doll has a street/stripper aesthetic, which then plays into how darker skin BW are seen as lower value
      In this comparison, colourism is less of a factor than any other

    • @Societykilla-ol4fu
      @Societykilla-ol4fu Рік тому +3

      @@monicabrown712 ppl just love to cry out colorism but not hold ppl bleaching they skin accountable it’s like having cancer & diabetes but more worried about the dandruff on your head

  • @AlwaysInAMudfuckamouth96
    @AlwaysInAMudfuckamouth96 Рік тому +603

    Lori gives classy... Asian gives gangsta. Both carry themself differently & on two different levels. I feel like Asian is the type guys will play with.. Lori is the type men love to chase bec she's a mystery to them 🤷🏾‍♀️ Just my opinion..

    • @hellothere8347
      @hellothere8347 Рік тому +47

      This the truth

    • @LadyAstarionAncunin
      @LadyAstarionAncunin Рік тому +45

      Men play with classy and gangsta women alike. Don't be fooled.

    • @HarrisonzHouse
      @HarrisonzHouse Рік тому +33

      @@LadyAstarionAncunin true but they only marry one of them

    • @camillasmith2116
      @camillasmith2116 Рік тому +2

      That shit I something u read online

    • @BlackGirlLovesAnime6
      @BlackGirlLovesAnime6 Рік тому +42

      @@HarrisonzHouse And they cheat on that one too😂😂. I wish yall would stop making the standard a womans ability to be chosen for marriage. Yes marriage can be beautiful but lets not act like men dont cheat on every type of woman no matter how she carries herself. Beyonce is an example.

  • @LaiLai..
    @LaiLai.. Рік тому +94

    I don’t think colorism plays a part in this. It’s really about how they both present themselves as women. Asian doll is a proudly ratchet girl from the hood. Lori is like a classy, suburb girl. They were both raised differently and their demeanor reflects that.
    In conclusion, these two women are like night and day . I don’t think they’re wrong for dating , but people are going to judge Asian more because she’s ghetto and loud(she speaks too soon about the men she’s dating)🤷🏾‍♀️.

    • @jasminemarquita7589
      @jasminemarquita7589 Рік тому +10

      Thank you well said , skin color has nothing to do with it !

    • @WilliamsPinch
      @WilliamsPinch Рік тому +6

      Agreed. Jayda Is a better comparison in my opinion.

    • @XQN-R
      @XQN-R Рік тому

      @@WilliamsPinch loool no 😂jayda obsessed with a dude that embarrasses her for sport. Lori leaves the men before they try embarrass or they’ll get sued. Plus jayda is hella ratchet too. There’s no comparison. Jayda is low class with a cute aesthetic.

    • @TivaWap1738
      @TivaWap1738 Рік тому +1

      @@jasminemarquita7589 exactly!! I hate how colorism is brought up every single time, if colorism was an issue Asian Doll would’ve never got bigger than Cuban. Prime Molly Brazy was arguably better than Asian and she’s lighter, didn’t generate half the buzz Asian did.

    • @tta1390
      @tta1390 Рік тому

      @@WilliamsPinch lol no. Jayda can’t go 3 secs without mentioning lol baby. She doesn’t have much going for her aside from the baby mama thing

  • @theamazingdoubleA
    @theamazingdoubleA Рік тому +44

    I think Colorism and Elitism comes into play in how they were grown to act. Their different skin tones and the lifestyle they came from before we knew them probably played a part in how they move. I dont think the public considered it but it's how they maneuver the public. I hope I made sense Lmao

  • @watts88
    @watts88 Рік тому +38

    Girl you got me telling folks “no, because no” and I’m in the Army😂😩

  • @TivaWap1738
    @TivaWap1738 Рік тому +51

    I think social media plays a big factor in the perception of these 2. Asian Doll was mocked, dissed, trolled etc for simply grieving, and also for carrying on Von’s legacy. Then she tried to move on and immediately she’s a whøre in the public’s eye, they been doing that since the FIRST man she popped out with since Von. Sites like the shade room will post her 24/7 and it won’t be anything positive, she was dropping music all 2022 and only made the shade room once for it, and that was only to clown her about the production of the video. Every other post is about a tweet she made or a man she might be interested in or literally any sort of drama that can paint her out to be the devil. I’m not saying she’s perfect or anything but it seems like a never ending cycle. She lets the media get to her head. She quick to react to everything instead of shutting up and getting the bag which also plays a big role in her perception. If people know they can get a rise out of her and push her to the point of responding they’ll keep doing it, so it’s on her to stop giving people reasons to be against her because it CLEARLY has been detrimental to her career and overall happiness

  • @vn9933
    @vn9933 Рік тому +44

    I think it’s the way they carry themselves that makes all the difference

  • @christypassy
    @christypassy Рік тому +17

    I kinda agree. LH does have a new man almost every year around her birthday like she needs them gifts. No hating on her game though, the girl knows what she is doing.

  • @msdestineemonae
    @msdestineemonae Рік тому +40

    Snowfall is definitely a show that can be taken back to the beginning… even in 2023 🤩 it’s beautifully written - phenomenal storytelling & cinematography!
    I also recommend P-Valley, PowerBook Ghost, & Abbott Elementary as a feel-good comfort show 🥰

    • @Fox74-s7f
      @Fox74-s7f Рік тому +3

      Yes all those shows are good!!!

  • @Theeglowgetter34
    @Theeglowgetter34 Рік тому +22

    I think their professions and aesthetic plays a role as well in peoples perception of them which has impacted their dating lives. (Not sure her profession other then socialite or influencer) but Lori makeup , hairstyles , outfit choices read model , clean girl kinda classic which tends to come off more soft and universal so her dating pool may be wider (if I was thinking of a dark skin version , since colorism was brought up similar to a Ryan destiny which her dating life is completely different but aesthetic wise similar to Lori so I wonder if she started dating the way Lori did if people would say something different about her or even wonder if she has less options because of her skin) even her body like she got surgery but it looks very natural. Asian doll looks like a doll , her style is very bold and sexy but in your face sexy on top of that she’s rapper and most female rappers over sexualize themselves since it’s part of the culture to come off as a man eater , co sign hookup culture which to people when outside looking in looks like the person is a hoe so the man she may be attracting just based off that may lead to less good options and she comes off more hard to me because of those things not her skin but yeah that all which impacts our perception from the outside. a light skin version for her is Nicki Minaj who to me comes off very hard as well. Now if she doing what Asian is doing in terms of always sharing about a new guy I think people would gather the same perception for her as well.

  • @MakaylaG-y7y
    @MakaylaG-y7y Рік тому +15

    Asian doll is such a beautiful woman, she needs to stop letting herself go out sad like this 🫤🤷🏽‍♀️

  • @larazzylexy2433
    @larazzylexy2433 Рік тому +77

    So it’s classism with a hint of colorism.

  • @janaebrionna
    @janaebrionna Рік тому +10

    One thing Chioma is going to do is break a video down into 3 main talking points😂❤

  • @Giftedgurl100
    @Giftedgurl100 Рік тому +9

    I think that it doesn’t matter if it’s Asian Doll or Lori dating multiple men, neither should be praised for jumping from man to man. Being single is okay, consistently being with a man isn’t going to fill whatever void you have. QC You are so right about being silent because speaking up can sometimes do more harm than good.

  • @tieraladiosa
    @tieraladiosa Рік тому +28

    Asian Doll has qualities that are not truly respected in a woman.
    She masculine, she talks too much, she’s in so many peoples faces, she dresses to risqué, she has allowed men & women to publicly air her business & disrespect her.
    Lori is the complete opposite.
    Even if Lori & Asian happened to date the same man - they’d have two complete different experiences & treatment from that man - just based off their different perception. 🤷🏾‍♀️
    We have a lot of influence on how men perceive & treat us.

  • @taylorscott7715
    @taylorscott7715 Рік тому +19

    Hey queen love all your topics and videos! Snowfall is definitely worth the watch…it’s a lot more history in it that may go over a lot of peoples heads. Thank you so much for your viewpoint on this topic. Being a 25 year old black Woman, HBCU grad, working on my 2nd degree in healthcare, I’m always finding myself thinking about how much I appreciate your content and commentary. I’ve been preaching this to my friends for years, but the girls who get it will get it. Congratulations on your new place; sending blessings your way always 💖💜🎉

  • @sassynspoiled777
    @sassynspoiled777 Рік тому +4

    Okay you real asf for saying that this doesn’t necessarily have to do with skin tone / colorism but the way each women Act and Who they choose. I like some of Asian’s songs but she’s Very aggressive and had a pretty bad attitude.
    Love you and your videos Chioma, always keeping it real 💯

  • @abbeysnails
    @abbeysnails Рік тому +9

    Dating around is definitely important, but also date with intention. I mean, both are living their life. I do see a pattern of Lori dating around her birthday and then it’s over within a year until we see someone new next year. I understand dating around, but it’s also important to just embrace single life. You don’t always have to attach yourself to a man.
    I am also not going to compare if one girl is “classy” or “feminine” over the other. Their personalities are just different (Lori also holds the last name Harvey). To me, they both move the same.

  • @jahsdiary
    @jahsdiary Рік тому +18

    I think it’s also their aesthetic too

  • @7EmpathicBeauty
    @7EmpathicBeauty Рік тому +16

    What I think wasn't said was Lori has those characteristics naturally. It comes off naturally. Any girl can try but if it isn't natural for them and forced, it becomes a turn-off. You did really good in the comparison 👏🏼

  • @no.6377
    @no.6377 Рік тому +12

    Asian doll tweeted that she wants men that have "at least 3 body's because [she] likes killers". And that is pretty much all we need to know about how she's viewed.😅
    However, I feel that it's mostly women making this distinction. A lot of men online openly call Lori a hoe and shame her, even though they also admit they'd get with her.

    • @catwoman7694
      @catwoman7694 Рік тому +3

      Yes she is very problematic overall. She also said some messed up things about darkskin black women calling them monkeys, when she herself is darkskin? Like that’s very weird. I think some black women want to defend her for the sake of defending her but they need to separate from women like her.

  • @chococosmos613
    @chococosmos613 Рік тому +6

    I love the consistency with the posting chioma keep it up! My bf always knows I’m watching you when he here’s the “so hey y’all!”😂 be rolling his eyes so hard cuz he don’t understand the tea

    • @QueenChioma
      @QueenChioma  Рік тому +1

      Lol tell him to join the #QueenTeam! 😂 Thanks for watching and supporting my channel💞

  • @zchats26
    @zchats26 Рік тому +28

    I don’t think this is even a fair comparison because both of these ladies grew up in different environments and are also in different social environments now. Lori Harvey is Steve’s daughter lol. He’s been rich for how long? Been in a higher social status for how long?? Lori was raised in that and still operates in this space. Asian was/does not. I don’t know if that’s fair to ignore this point and how It affects their dating style 😅

  • @gigiluscious
    @gigiluscious Рік тому +6

    Girrllll snowfall is amazing you should give it a try

  • @Jade-yu8mh
    @Jade-yu8mh Рік тому +12

    The only thing I have a problem with is I wish they both would choose better quality men. I feel like more people would see them differently. Love your channel 💕

    • @Phoenix2024-k1g
      @Phoenix2024-k1g Рік тому

      For a woman to pick a quality men they gave to date. Which lori is doing 🤔

    • @Jade-yu8mh
      @Jade-yu8mh Рік тому +1

      @@Phoenix2024-k1g you can tell if they are quality men from going on dates and going through the vetting process. They don’t have to actually be in a relationship with them. They both have been in relationships with questionable men but they are young so grace is given. If you think Future and Von are quality man then 😬🤷🏽‍♀️ (I’m not judging them just giving my opinion)

    • @Phoenix2024-k1g
      @Phoenix2024-k1g Рік тому

      @@Jade-yu8mh every man lori has dated where top men .. rich and scuessful . Then she had side rich men the trey song and future . Her roster isn't bad for her age an A in my book.

    • @Jade-yu8mh
      @Jade-yu8mh Рік тому +1

      @@Phoenix2024-k1g well that’s your opinion and I respect that I just don’t consider people that are rich and popular automatically quality men I think character is a really big part. one has multiple children by different bm and publicly disrespects Ciara in his music also raps about drugs and killing and the other has a bunch of sexual assault accusations and the other girls men are self explanatory

  • @MakaylaG-y7y
    @MakaylaG-y7y Рік тому +4

    Snowfall is definitely worth the watch‼️🔥

  • @Astylishphenomenon
    @Astylishphenomenon Рік тому +8

    Hey. Love that you're pushing all these vids out. can you make one about gunna & young thug and the supposed snitching?

  • @venusvicious4446
    @venusvicious4446 Рік тому +10

    Watching your channel at the scheduled time you set gives me nostalgia in a way. It’s been so long since I had a long day and was like mann i can’t WAIT to watch my show when i get home. Now i have that again and it is you. Thank you for the hard work Chioma you never miss! 💫

  • @sj5218
    @sj5218 Рік тому +4

    I just wanna say you articulate your thoughts so well! I really enjoy listening to you and how you break down your point of view. I can tell you really care about HOW and WHY you present your opinion and the way that you present it ❤️

  • @Chevonne8
    @Chevonne8 Рік тому +2

    Omg, I just watched your video 😂 you are correct in women needing to move in silence and not announce their very move…especially in dating. I’m learning this silence thing with my own life. It gives mystery to you as a woman and people often wonder what’s going on when you are absent. It also gives you time to figure things out so you won’t look like a fool if it doesn’t work out. Love your videos!

  • @wellsOFmischa
    @wellsOFmischa Рік тому +4

    My favorite UA-cam niece never miss! Keep up the content Chioma! It’s very good and well worth the view!

    • @QueenChioma
      @QueenChioma  Рік тому +1

      Wow! Thank you! Will do! I appreciate you supporting me 😊

  • @Nwakaego_
    @Nwakaego_ Рік тому +11

    Love your consistency! You’ve been blessing us this week.

  • @Beauty777_
    @Beauty777_ Рік тому +3

    Girl that song at the end gets me lit everytime 😂 🔥

  • @bribritasha4482
    @bribritasha4482 Рік тому +9

    Has nothing to do with colorism ppl kinda let her slide until she was twerking on someone that 1, was close to von and 2, had a gf that was what hit for me and I think many others 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @meldubb35gaza
    @meldubb35gaza Рік тому +1

    Lmao love the way you put that AD is Dora and Lori is Swiper 😂😂😂 and I agree AD does her thing too loud and it looks tacky asf

  • @Emmabangura84
    @Emmabangura84 Рік тому +7

    I swear I love the fact that you are posting more often❤

  • @Veronica_S1
    @Veronica_S1 Рік тому +6

    Love your videos and that you aren't scared to talk about anything. Your music is 🔥. If I was in you area I would love to be in your modeling agency.

  • @turquoiselbo2603
    @turquoiselbo2603 Рік тому +1

    "Snowfall' is definitely worth watching, the first 3 episodes got me hooked...

  • @ImperfectKae
    @ImperfectKae Рік тому +2

    Their intentions are different. I’m so glad you addressed and considered that Asian Doll could be filling a void due to her loss of Von. Lori promotes dating and being selective for women to not settle and take care of ourselves. While Asian doll is coming from a place of trauma and depression.

  • @Ellequisha
    @Ellequisha Рік тому +19

    I love that you covered this. The only difference is that Asian is hood af and doesn’t care about expressing how she feels. People can say whatever excuse they want but it’s colorism and internalized hate against deeper skin, less “affluent” black woman doing whatever they want without shame.

    • @khadyadjisall5708
      @khadyadjisall5708 Рік тому +3

      How is this colorist though? Both of these women are pretty much the same colour. What really is the commons denominator is attitude, behaviour and how these women carry themselves. I like Asian Doll and also like her music, she’s beautiful, but the way she act is really tone deaf sometimes. She’s really loud, talk to much. Lori is mysterious, she’s in control ect. Colorism has nothing to do with this.

    • @wordsbymaribeja1470
      @wordsbymaribeja1470 Рік тому

      @@khadyadjisall5708 I think the colourism comes in that when women conduct themselves in a low class manner people will automatically place them in the 'dark skin' camp. I don't think colourism comes into play here as far as the comparison with the two women goes, Lori is not getting light skinned privilege in how people assess her conduct, she's being judged on her actions, as is Asian Doll, and Asian Doll is losing. Asian Doll is apparently being herself and she won't win admiration for it in many camps, dark skin women aren't going to 'side' with AD because of her skintone when her attitude and character are base. That name doesn't help either, for goodness sakes.

  • @uniqueswhite
    @uniqueswhite Рік тому +4

    Snowfall is bomb it took me a couple
    Of times to start the first season cause it was kind of slow and it does have lots of characters to keep up with but it’s worth it. I’m sad it’s ending

  • @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198
    @mbalenhlebuthelezi3198 Рік тому +4

    The difference between the two is class (Lori's parents are rich celebrities), colorism (Asia doll is darker) and media training.

  • @puthycat8336
    @puthycat8336 Рік тому +57

    Lori gets a lot of hate actually 😭 ~ Anyway it’s most likely because Lori is prettier, classier and even though she’s seen with men, she isn’t putting out her business. Asian Doll is very ghetto, fights people, and just a nasty person !

  • @destinyadam1868
    @destinyadam1868 Рік тому +2

    Chioma you are so intelligent and well spoken 😍

  • @gigijanae1460
    @gigijanae1460 Рік тому +9

    I remember Lori said she wants to get into acting. Damson and MBJ are both men who can benefit from her because of their positions in life. Lori is strategic.
    Let’s be honest Lori is classy and high maintenance so that’s why she gets a pass. Asian Doll is obnoxious and ratchet so she makes herself an easier target.

  • @imfromchicago3057
    @imfromchicago3057 Рік тому +1

    Applying pressure and consistency💪🏾keep going black excellence

  • @mindyoursnotyours
    @mindyoursnotyours Рік тому +1

    ouuuuuuu … tha flowwwwwwwww 😍😍😍😍😍😍 yeahhhh Chimoa

  • @issydelon
    @issydelon Рік тому +6

    Chioma you keeping me busy with these consistent videosss puuurr

  • @deb8911
    @deb8911 Рік тому +3

    Snowfall starts off super slow but once it picks up, it sucks you in and you get stuck 😂🤣 they had a whole episode with a 🐅on the loose and I’m still wondering where it is 🤣

  • @Its_zoey25
    @Its_zoey25 Рік тому +12

    Why does it matter what they do THEY ARE GROWN long as it ain’t you 🤦🏾‍♀️

  • @MrsSpcDomo
    @MrsSpcDomo Рік тому

    Snowfall is the shiznit!
    Gurl you always on point! Glad u brought up the colorism point too!

  • @buff1947
    @buff1947 Рік тому

    Your point is well made. Like people say "it not what you do, its how you do it."

  • @janaek8371
    @janaek8371 Рік тому

    Girl I know it’s good to switch it up but I miss the Chioma Chats intro clap beat🤣💗

  • @Grace_K7
    @Grace_K7 Рік тому +9

    Lovee the consistency babes 🥰

  • @yahainHotPink
    @yahainHotPink Рік тому +9

    Based on these pictures, Lori and Asian Doll look nearly the same color to me. I hope they are being treated well by the men they deal with inspite of their skin colors. 😩

    • @astridediva
      @astridediva Рік тому +6

      That’s a lie. People can clearly see lori features are mixed .

  • @notlxlah
    @notlxlah Рік тому +1

    the glory on netflix! it's a k-drama, but it's about this woman who gets bullied severely, and when she grows up, she gets her revenge on the people who bullied her.

  • @makeupbyife
    @makeupbyife Рік тому +1

    For a younger person you are very wise in your cognition, great job. BTW you can watch Ginny and Georger.

  • @Noor_b1
    @Noor_b1 Рік тому +5

    Lori just do it the classy way Asian just do it hood 😂

  • @bajanb3auty2nv
    @bajanb3auty2nv Рік тому +1

    Snowfall is definitely worth watching!

  • @matthewstanley2627
    @matthewstanley2627 Рік тому +8

    Queen said..."she collected the infinity stones of the hottest man" lol!

  • @Rockstar-qg6jt
    @Rockstar-qg6jt Рік тому +3

    Hi chioma , Can you please talk about Ciara and future’s new song. I would like your opinion on it

  • @ashleetyler429
    @ashleetyler429 Рік тому +3

    With the exception of Future, The men lori dates NEVER TALK ABOUT HER after they break up. Lori hardly NEVER mentions them either. She makes herself mysterious by not talking about the men she dates nor herself. Asian doll is always on live. She and the men she dates TALKS TOO MUCH and they divulge intimate things reee

  • @JaidenMars
    @JaidenMars Рік тому +4

    Whether you come from comfort or struggle, there’s no difference between these two young women other than how they were raised.

  • @fablove2878
    @fablove2878 Рік тому +3

    You ATEEEE that!!!

  • @mercedesamour4611
    @mercedesamour4611 Рік тому

    Sis snow fall IS GOODDDDDDDD you gotta start it season 1!!

  • @yahainHotPink
    @yahainHotPink Рік тому +5

    Lori mentioned she did NOT date Diddy nor his son. She did an interview with Adrienne Bailon Houghton.

    • @Hi_Tamera
      @Hi_Tamera Рік тому +1

      It is weird tho to be matching with Diddy and be seen on vacation with him. Maybe it was a publicity stunt

    • @astridediva
      @astridediva Рік тому

      And you believe her why ?

    • @anonnombre2339
      @anonnombre2339 Рік тому

      She tried to say she didn't date both 🙄doesn't mean she didn't date diddy

    • @yahainHotPink
      @yahainHotPink Рік тому

      @@astridediva 😭😭😭 Because she should know who she dated or did not date...

    • @Phoenix2024-k1g
      @Phoenix2024-k1g Рік тому

      @@astridediva and why not ? Where u there if yes send me a video if no be quiet cause you are running of your feelings not facts

  • @LotsofLisa
    @LotsofLisa Рік тому +25

    I just wish Lori had more going on than just dating and being pretty. At some point this is not enough. It just seems so empty. Where would she be if her mom didn’t marry Steve Harvey? Unless I’m missing something I really would like to see her do something for someone other than her self and her dates.

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 Рік тому +8

      Me and you have the same thoughts and questions and I’m honestly tired of the media being all on her business… she doesn’t bring nothing to the table (not the dating table) the talent table but don’t forget she has a skin care line so that’s something added to her pretty and dating

    • @LotsofLisa
      @LotsofLisa Рік тому +10

      @@titlepending1302 Agreed and let’s be real, everybody who’s half way anybody has a makeup and/or skincare line. I just watched a whole documaentary about the downfall of Morphe, influencers and anything to do with it. Like, what does she DO?

    • @angelinariley9624
      @angelinariley9624 Рік тому +6

      She has a whole skincare company 😩

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 Рік тому +5

      @@LotsofLisalol truly, What does she DO? looks aren’t everything and dating men all the time isn’t everything besides when is she going to date herself? I don’t think it’s personally her but it’s the media all up and in her ass with every moves she makes and I’m bored and tired at this point besides if we really want to go all I have to say at least Asian Doll has TALENT and the other we still waiting for the DO?

    • @nicki1197
      @nicki1197 Рік тому +8

      @@LotsofLisa why isn’t it enough?? Why are y’all so bothered seeing BW live the soft life?? I’m sure Steve Harvey worked hard so the women in his life could focus on living an easier lifestyle.

  • @sicksadworld6221
    @sicksadworld6221 Рік тому +7

    Although everything stated in this video is a 100% accurate, multiple truths can coexist (s/o to Melanated Crowns). We cannot pretend that colorism (sprinkled w/ pretty privilege) is not the biggest driving force behind the selective treatment of these two ladies.
    Case in point, Chrisean Rock. Chrisean is a mixture of both ladies. Wild, aggressive & violent like Asian Doll. And ambiguously "beautiful" like Lori Harvey (by society's standards, not mine).
    Now, although Chrisean is EXTREMELY problematic, the public "somehow" seems to be more patient & understanding with her than they are with problematic women who look like Asian Doll. And it's ironic considering the fact that Chrisean's behavior is a 100 times worse than Asian's behavior, yet Chrisean is extended more grace than Asian. Gee, I wonder why 🤔?
    So yeah, colorism along with everything under the umbrella of it is DEFINITELY the main driving force behind the public's treatment of Asian & Lori.
    Chrisean is proof that whether you're quiet & reserved or aggressive & violent you'll always be extended grace IF you look a certain way.

    • @titlepending1302
      @titlepending1302 Рік тому +1

      Hmmm this view point makes me think of Halle Bailey (who Ik is beautiful)and how successful she is when it comes to her love life and how she didn’t have to jump from man to man and still being successful where she’s at now … now im not a big fan of being in celebrities’ business but her and DDG are worth the media watching imo because to me Halle is like Lori mysterious classy quiet and lady like but also has amazing talent: her angelic beautiful yet fragile (fragile in a good way it has value and needs to be protected at all cost) voice. Overall they present positive black love without even trying!

  • @Aunestly
    @Aunestly Рік тому +3

    You been comin through with the daily uploads 🙌🏽

  • @arianepieternella9685
    @arianepieternella9685 Рік тому

    hi chiomaa, ive been watching your vids from here in curaçao for at least 2 years and you've def helped improve my english and perspective on a lot of things. I honestly agree with what you've said but you didnt go in depth on the fact that Asiandoll is a different type of famous than 2 Lori, one still has the lower income african american mentality and the other let go of that a long time ago due to fame, income etc. They also do have different types of aesthetics, one has tats and the bbl type of fashion mean while the other is more classy with it but still shows off her curves. Hope you see this, lots of love from the caribbean

  • @MissMichon
    @MissMichon Рік тому +13

    I know this will be a good one🙌🏾
    and P.s yasss sis Snowfall is everything very action and suspense filled🔥 Also other good shows I feel like you might like are Blood & Water, Manifest, & the new Bel-Air ♥️

  • @deedwayne2752
    @deedwayne2752 Рік тому +1

    Snowfall & Power were the two series that were fire these past few years from 2019 to date... I suggest you watch Snowfall 🍃

  • @teetee8388
    @teetee8388 Рік тому +8

    Asian doll is beautiful to me, but I do think it's pretty privileged. The choice of men and popularity is the reason Lori gets away with most of it as well.

  • @mirandasantos1655
    @mirandasantos1655 Рік тому +5

    I feel like Asian Doll and Lori Harvey carry their selves wayyyy different! Asian doll is very problematic and is not a likeable person but Lori Harvey is unproblematic and is never in drama so I feel like that plays a big part as wel! Also a lot of people don’t like Asian doll because of the type of person she is or the the things she says because when do we ever see Asian doll on theshaderoom for something positive? When you’re not a likeable person on the internet then obviously people won’t support the things you do

  • @MorganDanielleBeauty
    @MorganDanielleBeauty Рік тому +3

    I understand the colorism aspect to it…but I think that one of the key differences is in the perceived “quality” and reputation of men these two women are dating. AD is dating typical rappers & “thugs”, whereas Lori is dating established career men who carry a different reputation. AD is viewed under the lens of hip hop & dates hip hop men, which colors people’s perception of her moving from rapper to rapper. Lori, on the other hand, manages to slip by because what’s she’s doing is perceived as “soft”.

  • @katslife2837
    @katslife2837 Рік тому

    Snowfall is sooooo good and a new season coming out in February I can’t wait

  • @Sydney-lx9fc
    @Sydney-lx9fc Рік тому

    Snowfall is great. I binged it! Definitely watch it!

  • @paigelovette8156
    @paigelovette8156 Рік тому +4

    One presents herself with class the other presents herself as hood and enjoys dating known murders and thugs. Its extremely simple their only similarity is that they both get around.

  • @TimeisUp22
    @TimeisUp22 Рік тому +3

    🤷🏾‍♀️ Asian Doll is LOUD. Lori is QUIET. Its literally that simple.

  • @KC-dx6en
    @KC-dx6en Рік тому +1

    Their approach is VERY DIFFERENT. Everything us said about Asian and Lori s true. Absolutely true.
    You did not lie once

  • @TruBeautiMe
    @TruBeautiMe Рік тому +1

    🗣️I NEED THIS SONG CHIOMA!!!!!!

  • @Vantanart
    @Vantanart Рік тому +1

    Chioma has been pushing this content OUTTT…

  • @kindikindz580
    @kindikindz580 Рік тому

    Ok Chioma, your tune goes kinda hard still! You’re really improving ❤

  • @aisha-3857
    @aisha-3857 Рік тому +2

    I’m loving the consistent uploads ❤