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I love dir movies too but this one has left a sour taste in my mouth!!
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Can we start having movies portraying women cheating and their husbands journey to forgiveness.,. I would love to see more of that. God bless you all.
Yes o
Exactly. Balanced message is needed. The pressure is always on women. I wonder when it comes to marriage and infidelity, even great preachers cannot say the truth and the mind of God. They don’t consider many lives that have been ruined and have ended. Please don’t exalt traditions over the truth in the word of God.
Many of these preachers cannot withstand their daughters go through abusive marriages.
Really!! He said he loves her, but can cheat on her. LIES!!!!
I have actually watched a movie like that. I think it is an African American movie titled attraction. It centered on forgiveness and the man eventually forgave the wife after she attempted to die without the man in her life again. So ,there are movies out there too. May we never be the victim of the hurt and betrayal of marriage. The message is the same: Forgiveness
You have asked for it, I am sure Daddy will honour you with a movie..if the people of the world can project a movie like that, God's Children won't find that a big challenge
In the Mount Zion movie 'The life of the billows', the wife was denying her husband and having an extra marital affair. Though her husband wasn't any better (he tried to get back at her by getting a girlfriend) it somehow portrays the lady being the one who was unfaithful and the husband having to forgive her
1. The woman was constantly bombarded with calls, no one gave her quiet time to grief or sort things out mentally. No one took the time to understand the pain she was going through before dishing out advice, no one prayed with her. When she initially took her complaints to the Pastor, he sided the lying husband. This has caused issues in lots of homes.
2. I did not see anyone praying with her or standing in the gap in prayers for them.
3. Christians most times when they are going through a difficulty situation like this often feel judged so they run to those who give them succor. If the Pastor or someone else in the Body of Christ had been there for her then she would not have run to the wrong person for help.
4. Begging for forgiveness does not mean repentance and it does not mean that the woman should just snap out of what she's feeling. She also needed time to process things or as most people do, or she'll just go back and become a bitter wife then when something happens she'll also be blamed.
5. The reasons the man gave are flimsy, and regardless of what his reasons are, it doesn't give him the license to sin. The Pastor should not have condoned that. It is like people ALWAYS shift the blame to the woman. This type of things have unfortunately destroyed many Christian homes.
6. While spiritual advice is great, counseling by trained professionals help people to deal with the underlying issues for a better resolution.
7. It was clear that the man was not repentant so the woman was right. She would have gone back and he would have continued his nonsense putting her at risk.
8. She also only went back because she did not have any source of income.
9. God hates divorce and God also does not like adultery. These things need to be handled with prayers, counseling, spiritual advice and on going coaching. Simply commanding the offended partner to forgive & go back is not enough, healing needs to take place. There are steps that should be taken and safe guards put in place to ensure that the offender does not go back to his ungodly ways.
She was expected to have forgiven the husband within a particular time frame, determined by the husband, her father, and the pastors. "I am sorry"is not enough to heal a broken heart, it takes time for healing to take place. An unrepentant husband indeed.
Healing takes time, am currently going tru that phase.
You made some valid points
How can I like your comment more than once. No one gave her a chance to breathe through it and now it's all her fault. I can't explain how I feel watching this movie.
The husband also has some faults, he was not ready to change. The time frame was short, that shows he didn't see adultery as a wrong thing and was not ready to change. The mistake I think the woman made was leaving her home out of anger(no backup, just relying on hypocrite who she called friend). Even if she wanted to divorce based on infidelity, it should be her decision not what her friend adviced her to do. We shouldn't allow friends interfere in our decision with marriage.
She also failed to involve God before deciding, which worsen the situation.
Great lessons learned. no woman should leave her home for a strange woman. But can we start enlightening men too that it is not compulsory to commit adultery, and can we sensitise them to be patient in marital battles too? Mot times, the church focuses more on the women.
Abi o. As if adultery is food.
I agree with you ma
The men also need to be taught
It is not compulsory to commit adultery, in any case you find adultery, the woman or both partners overslept.. watching over the home by the women was given by God from creation.. women build anything given to them. . As women let's focus on mounting guards in our territory diligently as our core ministry rather than wait for what the man will also do.. the wiring God gave women is too much, men do not have such.
Married women too should not deny their husbands their conjugal rights too.dat was wat made David to go out to explore.
@osawinifred5534 Bible reference for such wiring, please. Thanks. The last time I checked, self-control and discipline applied to both men and women. Adultery is rife these days in Christian marriages because there is no consequence, and everyone blames the woman for not being on guard. Last last na let us pray dey end am.
Wow wow wow. So many lessons.
1. Be mindful of your friends
2. Do not deprive your spouse of conjugal duties (not an excuse to cheat though).
3. Don't transfer aggression to your kids.
4. Guard your heart always. If you put yourself in a place of temptation, you will fall no matter how strong you think you are! Rebuke temptation as soon as it comes.
5. Never refuse godly counsel.
AMEN AND AMEN🙏
Beautiful points sis...
Hmmmm i believe there is a part 2
Said it better...
We should me mindful of our pride
6. Listen to ur guardians and counsellors..
My Take on The Movie
1.The film said she needed to repair the tyre before she got stranded. In my own opinion, she was stranded when she married the man. Not when he cheated. Someone who would be hypocritical enough to lie to both his wife and PASTOR till he was caught, DOES NOT fear God. If he can't fear God enough to have admitted the lie before a spiritual authority like the PASTOR before he was caught, he has a flawed perception of God already and she was stranded long before cheating. See David in the bible as a contrast. When the prophet accosted him for his mistake, he admitted right away knowing he had sinned. He didn't lie to the prophet's face even though the man wasn't there when the deed happened. That excuse of a mistake after he was caught is nothing in the face of this explanation.
2. Continuation of number 1, Dave was just manipulative. One, he remembers to remind her of love when she decides to pack out but forgot it when he cheated. He 'claimed' to be ready to even go with the police when he went to see her. Erica pours a glass of water on his head and he LEAVES. I'm sorry I thought we were going against the police? 😂😂
3.The issue on the sexual aspect seemed like the classical cover up in several African settings. There are several other ways they could have sorted out THAT asides from cheating. He could have focused on being more attentive to his wife's pleasure instead of seeking HIS OWN outside. Sex for someone who hasn't done it before or even married before, is not an AUTOMATIC process. Women are emotional beings: nurture our feelings, we respond accordingly. In a case of constant refusal, the basic truth might be it's not enjoyable. Why is the man not checking that part of himself but happy to go outside to someone else who is a free for all that would OBVIOUSLY feed his ego? The story no dey go.
4. As a woman, personal financial growth and independence is something you must always have even in marriage. Don't be the woman who has to stay with a friend like Erica in the case of such a crossfire. Especially a friend that doesn't walk with the mind of God.
5. I'm confused on the ending.
Thank you for the film. It sparked my mind to think. Bottomline: May God help us to marry rightly and avoid messy situations like this. Amen 🙏❤️
Exactly!
The woman has been stranded 'tipe' 'tipe' (long ago). The man has gone down the drain covering up his sins until he couldn't defend it anymore.
After acknowledging that he strayed from God finally, I feel restoring his relationship with God wasn't his focus.
This is also evident in the fact that he is willing to remain in adultery by his consent to the strange woman's proposal. Where does he put the counsel of God's word in this please?
You most definitely wrote out my mind
I laughed on the water scene 😂 He was ready to got to jail for his wife but a cup of water was enough to send him running 🤣🤣🤣
He was deprived sex for three weeks and he was ready to cheat lol. He didn't even bother to smoothen things out with his wife in that respect, especially given the woman was a VIRGIN, it would naturally be hard for her to fall into that rhythm. What if his wife falls sick for years and can't have sex? What would he do?
All in all the man has no redeeming qualities for me to feel sorry for him.
Yes Jenny made mistakes, especially her choice of friendship, but for the man, it is really hard to advocate for him lol
Amen ooooo my sister
You're spot on. I wish African Pastors will start holding men more accountable in marriage. Most times in the African setting, women's emotional health are ignored and they're pressured to put up with anything all in the name of being submissive. Some African men are careless, weak and selfish because they think of their own pleasures and satisfaction instead of considering the emotional needs of their wives. I do t beleive in divorce. But I think it's a high time men are held accountable for their actions and not always giving them a pass on infidelity.
One more thing...forgiveness cannot be forced out of someone. People need a heart change (the work of the Holy Spirit) in order to truly forgive.
May God lead us all
hmmmn... I have some reservations about this movie: 1) the husband who is supposed to be the head of the home was absolved of responsibility for the success of the marriage. He was not shown as truly repentant. Even the escuse he gave for his extra marital affairs was at best flimsy. He said the wife was not wired for sex.... hmmn. Just yesterday, i watched on youtube the testimony of a woman who married as a virgin and could not consumate the marriage until about 12months after because of a condition called vaginismus. It took the support of a loving and a believing husband with other therapies to overcome it. 2) The wife was unforgiving which is wrong as believers. But, she later came to her senses even though it was circumstantial. I only wished she met a husband who exhibited patience and true repentance.
You literally took the words from my mouth...the husband was just selfish to satisfy his own needs. And what pains me the most is the way these men rubbish their wives before their side chicks. Such disrespect!
That excuse is not flimsy, it is a major flaw in the foundation of the marriage - The Bible says it in 1 Cor 7 :1 - 5 that sex is crucial and very important. The Bible explicitly states that the wife does not have authority over her body in 1 Cor 7:4. The same applies to the husband. She should have told the man upfront that she is not interested in marrying him and stated that she is not wired for sex. If a man is told that, he will know to walk away. The Bible says in 1 Cor 7:2 that a man should marry instead of committing sexual immorality. It is also written that a man should marry than burn.
If a woman knows that she is not wired for sex, she can tell all the men who come her way the true status, and even advice them to leave her alone. Such a statement is not hard for most men to take. They will know to walk away and even spread the word. The woman will be left alone.
The film ministered to me, as always, Mount zion films do. More grace to the Crew
@@ayoperiola693 There are different reasons why women do not enjoy sex. One happens to be Vaginismus.
But the husband didn't help her our or talk to her about meeting his sexual need. What would it have cost if they both had gone to the therapist or pastor to discuss about the sexual desires not been met.
@ebunoluwafaith1862
You are right. However, we cannot assume that all women have this condition or other conditions.
In my 35 years of age , I have understood and known for sure that no body , I mean it nobody does life without Jesus Christ ...this was like each and everyone one of us looking at a mirror reflection, the message so timely , ladies see friends some women choose to keep anyways what I am saying is , Life without Jesus is Impossible
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It's painful to be betrayed especially when it comes from a very trusted person. Everyone made a case for forgiveness as though it just comes as easy as it is spelt.
If the Pastor's wife had identified with her pain, sided with her to make her husband see the wrong in what he did, talked her into leaving her bad friend and staying with them while she healed and probably went through counselling to address the primary cause of their marital problem ( sexual dissatisfaction) forgiveness could have come more easily and the home will be restored fully to Christ.
I pray that God gives our spiritual leaders wisdom to tackle seriously knotted matters with sound judgement
That was a wonderful advise, but the woman was not ready to move to the PASTOR house at that moment, because the devil is already living with her, giving her advise on what to do. so therefore, the Pastor should not be blame. we need to be careful of any decision we are making as believer. He that diggeth a pit shall fall into it; and whoso breaketh an hedge, a serpent shall bite him. Ecclesiastes 10:8
The woman offended did not have her feelings and frustration acknowledged by her pastor and his wife.
Nobody acknowledged the children who were also suffering and hurt, too, being uprooted from their home.
I see the message the movie producers are trying to promote in this movie namely the need for wisdom and forgiveness in marriage. However, there are a few issues which I feel needs to be highlighted for a balanced biblical marriage:
1. A partner that has been cheated on, is never to blame.
2. Sex in marriage is not just a man’s need. God created sex for both male and female, hence, the timing, frequency, styles etc need to be mutually agreed. A man can’t use lack of frequency according to his needs, as a basis for adultery.
3. Sex in marriage is to build intimacy and not just a woman’s duty or a man’s right. A couple’s sex life will go through various phases due to childbirth, illness, work, issues of life etc. What is needed is good communication.
4. A woman is not methadone for a man’s sexual addiction. Everything in moderation. A woman is not the Holy Spirit that can control her husband’s unnatural sexual appetite.
5. Some Christian movies on marriage should stop placing emphasis on women having to build the home alone. It takes two people to make a marriage work.
I agree 100%. It takes two! The pressure on women keeping the home is getting out of hand. The message should be balanced! It takes two abeg!
I totally agree with your 5th point. It's so exhausting when all emphases are placed on women to be the home builder , forgiving, hardworking as well as nurturing their kids, etc. The issue of mental health also has to be considered. Some people are not mature enough (mentally) to process and handle issues like this swiftly. They rather need time, grace and strength of God.
I had a client whose husband gave her HIV from adultery. What if instead of being encouraged to put up with an adulterous spouse, she is empowered to heal. What if instead of blaming her the man is held accountable and they had proper counselling, if she chooses to stay? Some spouses commit adultery as a form of domestic abuse, to deliberately hurt. These issues are not black and white and one size doesn’t fit all.
This is why a woman must never depend 100% on a man financially so that when his crazy is activated, she can make wise decisions with God’s help…
We should learn to take the scripture as it is and not to add human reasoning. If the Bible says *A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER HOME*
then yes I accept and run with it!
I am the builder of my home
I am the gate keeper of my home!
I am the help meet for my husband.
If we accept and obey our part, God has never failed on His part..... The husband has his part too.... husband love your wife...should the wife not love her husband? Husband deal with them with wisdom as with weaker vessels... should the wife not deal with her husband with wisdom....
My take....
Accept any duty/ command of the scripture (God's word) to you without questioning or wondering about your partner's part (whether he /she is obeying or not). Each of you will account to God how you obeyed His word!
The Bible is the manufacturer's manual for marriage, God instituted marriage and is still very much interested in it.
The devil is the enemy of God and anything instituted by Him, he will bring many reasoning and philosophy to counter God's word so that we can walk into error!
Take every word of God as it is and see God defending His word.
*A WISE WOMAN BUILDS HER HOME BUT A FOOL PULL IT DOWN WITH HER OWN HANDS*
I disagree, God himself in the bible calls us to reason with what he is saying. The bible always calls us to careful consideration of what is written.
One must read a verse in the bible in context of the chapter, the chapter in context of the book, the book in context of the whole scripture. The word must interpret itself.
Take Jael in the book of Judges, her husband made alliances with the enemy of Israel and Yahweh. Jael went against her husband and killed the Canaanite king and was commended for that. She built her home by not siding with her husband.
How about Abigail, married to a foolish man Nabal? She went against her husband and saved her children from being slaughtered by David. The Lord so commended her that He killed Nabal instead the next day.
Or is it our mother Sarah who stood her ground and told Abraham that the son of the flesh had to go? The Lord himself backed her up.
Sapphira in the New Testament on the other hand went along with her husband’s foolishness and perish for it…
A Christian must forgive. Forgiveness does not always mean reconciliation.
Reconciliation takes two parties and the offender must be repentant with a broken and contrite spirit for that relationship to prosper again.
An offended spouse may hope for reconciliation but it may not be possible this side of the cross. No spouse is a saviour. The bible itself does not make an idol of marriage, we mustn’t either.
I love our father so much and the way he advices the daughter
Experiencing cheating in Christian home will give you a different perspective to this movie. It hurts a lot and the hurting partner needs time if not years to heal. The movie did not show where the emotion of the wife was given attention to. This movie made cheating look like a very small offence. The man gives in to temptation easily. It was fast for him to move on while the wife was hurting. It hurts really badly when you are the one in it. May the Lord heal every hurting soul and guide us to make right decisions in times like this because in years to come the cheated partner will loose trust. There will be suspicion till the end of the marriage. Heal me heart Lord
Thank you so much . Me praying to God to heal my heart and save me from pain 😢😢
Where is the place of brokenness as a man who cheated, if the man is broken he will not continue with the woman he committed adultery with again, if this is a worldly movie I will say this is the pattern of the world, this is a christian movie, what is the lesson here?
O Lord please separate us from demonic, insensitive and ungodly friends and associates in Jesus name 🙏
As much as I like this movie I hated the fact that nobody considered her pain. She was cheated on for God's sakes. She has every right to be angry. Nobody should force forgiveness on her. The husband was even worse for demanding she forgives him. If it was viceversa, the woman will be on her knees all day begging and not demanding.
As much has God doesn't want a broke marriage, we should allow people process their pain anyhow they deem it fit and stop using the word of God to demand forgiveness from them. We all are humans and we feel pain
Amen.
But forgiveness can't be removed from Christianity.. I understand she should heal properly in her own way but even if she decides to divorce him, as a Christian, she should forgive him..
The husband went back to his vomit though so that cancels out whatever message they are trying to pass in the movie
The were demanding forgiveness from her. There's a difference btw seeking forgiveness and demanding forgiveness. A very big difference
@@favourodukoya7158Exactly! They were demanding forgiveness. That’s not fair.
May we not be stranded in life. May we not be stiff-necked and resistant to instructive and Godly advice. May unfriendly friends like "ERICA" never come our path. Amen. God bless the Mount Zion Faith Ministry and RCCG The Kings Palace for this timely and yet another inspirational movie.
Amen...in the mighty name of Jesus Christ🙏🏽
Amen 🙏🏾 I agree in Jesus mighty name!
Amen. May we NEVER be stranded in life
This man has been a serial chet. This is not a one off. He has managed to lie and even deceive pastor. Pls women have emotions. I don't think you need to get AIDS or other nonsense because you are married. May be we truly need to see movie showing how men will heal when they have this type of issue.
and may our daughter never marry an irresponsible, lack of self control and godless man like the man who cheated on his wife with a flimsy excuse and never repented but quickly switch to side chick when opportunity comes and may our sons never have character of such men.
Great movie. There is no excuse for adultery. The husband had no excuse. If your wife's attitude can push you to adultery, it means you had no values and respect for the marriage in the first place.
No excuse for wrong doing!
Exactly
Right! Especially that he was a minister, front line ministry at his church which means he should’ve paid his dues of crucifying his flesh. Not condoning the wife depriving him, but her issues were easier to solve had he brought it up to his pastor (every marriage has something to work through ANNND we CANNOT take the avenue of cheating and betrayal as a resolution, that’s the devil’s bait. They could’ve gotten counseling, he didn’t love his wife like Christ loves the church, he didn’t bother to dig up the bones of what made her sexually uninterested…so the cancer grew.
I hated the fact that the pastor said “you initiated it” to the wife, Uhm NO! They should’ve stopped calling her to talk about David, they should’ve called her to check on and the children and proceed wisely with given her advices and going over necessary wisdom as they pray with her…but they just kept pounding her head. And I guess she was too frustrated to even wait in God’s presence to know what to do, and so the rain caught her while she was still outside and she got wet.
Now the husband wants to pretend like he got the upper hand, classic devil’s case, a repentant man would stay away from the side chick at ALLL COST! David is selfish.
If you continually starve someone you should feed...that's an action that will surely get a reaction.
Biologically a man is always on heat while a woman is cyclically, peaking during ovulation. There is surely a need to strike for balance.
@@Adedexoland that’s something you work through with your wife, not by cheating for months on end. And everyone’s libido is different.
@@pseudonymousbosch6249 I agree with you. The wife saying her body isn't configured for sex is too much. That alone is a very strong risk factor for infidelity. Denying each other the needful is enough opportunity given to the Devil to work with.
If this is happening in any marriage, the man is alone and without help.
This is not to justify Adultery but to point out that not doing the needful is a very strong risk factor for infidelity.
1Cor 7:8-10, Gen 2:18.
I thank God for Mt.Zion Films. However, this is a hard no for me. Yes, we need to beware of ungodly counsel such as the friend portrayed in the film. But the movie grossly undermined the feelings of pain, heartbreak, and betrayal of the woman. It even felt like she was being blamed for not forgiving and fast-forwarding her healing time. She has to work on the husband's clock or he will move on fast. Was he even truly sorry? Or was he sorry he got caught? In the SIX MONTHS that he was committing adultery he did not feel remorseful enough to stop until AFTER he got caught? All this movie teaches me is to value my financial independence. But again, shoutout to MOUNT ZION FILMS, love y'all.
Couldn’t t agree with you more. As women especially African women, we need to ensure we are financially free from men as if this is the kind of message being passed to African men then women who marry them are in trouble.
I’ve looked at the comment section and only women are pointing out the error of the message in this movie. All the men agree with it. Chai!
Have your own money Ladies!
Why is it only women that should be enduring in a marriage relationship? What about Men too? Well, the salvation of a man cheating on his wife and breaking his marriage vows is in question. Also, the salvation of a woman cheating on his husband is also under question. I think more emphasis should be laid on a man or a woman's heart towards the Lord. When a man or a woman truly loves God, both of them will not cheat on each other and both will not need to be enduring each other. Marriage is to be enjoyed and not to be endured.
God bless you.
Thank you Brother Badmus
Jennifer was a stubborn woman who didnt heed to the voices over her.
Erica a devilish friend who has nowhere to go and ready to hinder her friend from moving forward.
Dave an unrepentant husband readily available to go back to his vomit.
Lessons: offenses will come but when they come open your heart to be healed and forgive so as to block access to the devil from continuing what he started.
Thank you Mount Zion films
She had every right to be stubborn. She was hurt, her trust broken and she should be allowed to grief also
'Dave an unrepentant husband ready to go back to his vomit' very accurate. Because, he could fast and pray for God to change his wife's heart, but no. He swiftly went back. Lol, and he claims to love.
@@favourodukoya7158but stubbornness is not among the fruit of the spirit .two wrongs can’t make a right
I love Mount zion, and I have also supported some movies financially just to show how much i respect and appreciate them, but I hope that we all understand that adultery is very, very heartbreaking for the betrayed spouse. I would like to see a movie that shows the wife as the unfaithful spouse. May GOD have mercy on us all. I hope just, as all of you in the comments are forgiving the man because he is repentant, you would forgive a woman too... I ask that the LORD gives us wisdom and keeps us from sin. Adultery can take years to forgive...can a man forgive a woman as easily as they have painted in this movie.. May GOD have mercy on us and all that have been led astray and committed sexual sin in any form.
Exactly! Infidelity causes a deep wound in the heart of the affected spouse. It is not easy. Nobody is even praying for the woman, for God to help her make the right decision in the midst of this hurt.
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Very good comment. And the Bible even allows for divorce in cases of adultery so I think the focus should be on correcting the man. They even entertained his excuse for sin which I do not agree with.
The movie shows that it's still a man world and women should continually be subjected to slavery.
The husband in this movie is very selfish and needs to truly get born again
He is greedy and lust for women
This movie is the worst mount Zion production I have ever watched
@@chinenyejoyamos3894same for me too!! I couldn’t believe mike bamiloye himself was present! I was utterly disappointed
I feel like crying for this woman......she had so many good Godly voices speaking to her, but she hardened her heart to hearing
She had her friend to make the situation worse
Ted to fix him little did she know she was being fixed!
Me too
I think this is necessary to take the time to process and not everyone is going to take the action immediately. Part of me felt the husband deserved to have the time of suffering to recognize what he did was serious and has serious implications but he did not repent really to the point that he took the side woman as his wife for power...from a company that SHE chief executived and built on her own.
The funniest part was when he entered the home. The audacity.
Now JENNY...hmmmmm homegirl was hurt and needed support of her husband in maritial affairs because sexual expectation needs to be discussed and she never had this experience but due to her lack of enjoyment and fear, probably stemmed from trauma. Therapy and uncomfortable conversation would have helped to find a meeting ground. If she can have the capacity a few times a month, happiest than never.
Her wicked friend was too much and she had not had the power or personal autonomy/authority to take control over her own destiny.
Part 2 is going to be best. Most people grow and stretch when their back is against the wall, speaking from personal experience here. This os where God can really meet them and a transformation can happen. I am glad the story ended like this so that it is more realistic. Looking forward to seeing the ressurection power happen.
Will she go to a shelter and meet someone who will change her trajectory via counsel? Will she start her own company? Build a ministry? Please have a part 2. Tje story cannot end like this!
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Lord Jesus please unfriend us from unfriendly friends before they destroy us, help us to yield to the leading of the Holy spirit and to godly counsel, amen. God continue to bless the entire Mount Zion family, I've been blessed watching this❤❤
As a longtime lover of mount Zion movies, this is my honest review of this movie. I am verydisappointed by the narrative. A woman suspects her husband and he denies the allegations then she finally catches him red-handed. He apologizes now obviously because he’s been caught red-handed. Then her pain is trivialized, she is blamed for pushing him into the arms of the side chick in the first place, blamed for her father’s sickness, then pressure is mounted on her to forgive a man whose forced apology is devoid of penitence and humility. Hee’s been denying her allegations, defiling their marriage for months, but when she doesn’t forgive him immediately, he as a Christian man goes for a side-chick and the wife turns out the stranded fool.
For whatever reason, she didn’t enjoy regular sex, only giving in to him a few times a month. His solution as a Christian man was to go for a side chick instead of praying for his marriage as is usually prescribed for women. He never prayed for his wife’s lack of desire, he never sought therapy to make sex more enjoyable for her, yet she turns out the stranded fool.
Christian movies keep doing this like pastors in real life, blaming women for their husbands’ waywardness as if the men have no personal accountability to God. But it will benefit Christian homes more if this laser leaves the women to the men, to teach about godly manhood that loves the woman like Christ loves the church, willing to lay down his life to save her.
There’s no shortage of Christian women enduring their men in real life. Rather, there’s a drought of real godly men who can lay down their lives for their wives. A godly man who sins against his wife grievously as in adultery would be so stricken by the magnitude of his sin that he pursues her patiently and in humility until she can look past her wound and forgive from her heart, not pressuring her to “forgive else side chick takes your place.”
although not intended whatever message you wanted to preach in this movie feels conveyed in a tone abusive to women.
God bless you for pointing these issues out, I thought I was the only one who noticed them🙌
Well, you are right on some issues. However, please don't judge on the number of men and women. The data to make that conclusion is not accessible as a whole on earth but centrally collated and accessible in heaven.
honestly im disappointed in mount zion for this movie and even more disappointed in Pastor Bamiloye, I get the message in this video but the delivery of the message was terrible. its a pity
The delivery and the script need to be reviewed really
Chill
The movie just started
You can never walk in error when the holy spirit is the one leading you. Nice one👍
I really think he should give it a bit more time. It took six months for him to cheat yet wants forgiveness in a minute. Repentance is of the heart and it must be seen by our actions, such actions may not be immediate. The man should fight for his wife and not mind the pain in the immediate. He cheated for Christ sake.
Thank you, I feel it's wrong to pressure me into forgiving you, as a Christian I forgive those who hurt me not cos they deserve it but cos I need to communicate with my heavenly father.
So my warming up to someone I forgive might take a longer time.Dont pressure me into it.
Yes, I agree with you. The man was also in the wrong. He should have waited longer and sought the face of God. Instead he called the side chick and let her inside the house. Both Jenny and David were controlled by their flesh
@@adenikeadeleke5407but she wasn’t communicating with God, she moved in with an unbeliever who kept poisoning her mind. If she continue continues to live with that woman, it will be very difficult for her to forgive. Who you walk with in trying times matters a lot.
I know you have heard the golden rule that says "give not room to the devil". We all are human, it is God's grace with is in fruit of the spirit that you find patience, endurance, long-suffering. Those virtues are not humanly.
You need time to forgive.. so what if you die and never have that chance to forgive.. ?? Yes it’s difficult, but think about that
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I’m waiting to celebrate the 1 million. MZFM is blessing my family always. This is the only movie my children watch.
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Thank you for another master piece. As the plot unfolded I think some scenes dragged a lot and the dialogue was longer than necessary. Also sometimes forgiveness and healing is a process. There was too much pressure on this woman to just forgive and move back into her home, the emphasis on her moving back in was majoring on a minor, because sometimes it’s best people come to healing while being physically removed from the scene of the act or from close proximity to the perpetrator of the act. Many times some depths of pain are walked through, under the guidance of the Holy Spirit and over a season after careful and consistent exposure to the Word of God and counseling, after which reconciliation can happen. The suddenness of how the plot unfolds from his infidelity, straight to her moving out, straight to his insistence on her forgiveness and then straight to his moving on was a little too much.
Of course she was wrong to seek solace in the arms of an ungodly friend. But please come on, the husbands style of asking for mercy was too abrasive. And after two attempts you give up? You don’t force your desire to be forgiven on anyone, you allow the Lord lead their heart into receiving you back and sometimes this may take a while.
Also justifying his infidelity with her inability to meet his conjugal needs wasn’t ideal. He has control over how he chooses to handle their bedroom situation and he chose the sin way out. Letting his pastor know before he was tempted to sin would have been ideal so that his wife would be called to order. Scripture never backs people using sin to resolve sin or hurt to resolve hurt.
On a wholistic scale we are grateful for such godly content, thank you for churning out these movies that give us something to curl up on the couch and watch on Sunday afternoons. God bless mount Zion, amen.
God bless you richly for this comment🙌
God bless you for this.... forgiveness and healing is a process.
Forgiveness doesn't help the other person but it is for me and if we don't forgive, our heavenly father will not forgive us also. I can't afford to trade my relationship with God because of anyone.
Waouhh, i have no word, just speechless. She drives herself so confidently right on the ditch, direct by a blind copilot...
God, have mercy on us... so many times we choose the wrong path, don't let us go this far 😔
The moment elders in church or Pastors or spiritual fathers plead with anyone who has been offended not even spouse alone, the best is to accept and forgive. Forgiveness is a command from God not negotiation . May God gives us the spirit of forgiveness in Jesus name 🙏.
The problem was the friend she has was jealous because in the end she just exposed everything that she is also a side cheek and she want to build a home.
My only question is. I hope that you have this forgiving spirit. If its the woman at fault.
Yes I have forgiven spirit through the help of the holy spirit. Although my own was in a relationship, the guy cheated and he even brought the lady to his parents house where he lives, in my presence the lady and him moved closer together talking, gisting and all other dirty things , I didn't talk, This same man borrowed money from me , he used it to purchase a new phone for another girl friend meanwhile he told me he needed the money for something urgent. When he was exposed, he came to beg, I accepted his apology . He went again to his old ways , he collected all my salaries till I ran into debt .then, I said am no longer interested in the relationship. All what he made me go through kept ringing in my brain especially how I, wealthy young lady was turned to struggling young lady as a result of the huge Debt he put me in.
Even though am no longer in the relationship, there are damages the man made to my life that I can't explain here meanwhile I trusted him because I thought an evangelist like him should be rooted in God than me instead he was the one commiting all sort of atrocities.
One day, my pastor preached about forgiveness and at the end he made altar call ; Do we have anyone who finds it hard to forgive? I went out with tears on my face . I genuinely forgive this man that day despite the fact that people that surrounded me are saying no. The moment your pastor is involved in you forgiving anyone be it in marriage or any, please the truth is "let go". Because forgiveness goes beyond the physical, you don't know what they see spiritually " . Unforgiveness closes doors of blessings. I am not saying the woman is at fault or not but If she made up her mind to forgive immediately her pastor spoke to her, her friend would have respected her choice ".
Right in a way and wrong in a way!! Most of the times " BAD BEHAVIOR IS ENCOURAGED". STOP ENCOURAGING BAD BEHAVIOR, THIS IS UNCALLED FOR REAL! TWO PARTIES SHOULD BE INVOLVED!
@@adaezeokafor4331 please help me clarify your point sir/ma.
In the case of physical violence. It's wisdom to separate before being killed out of foolishness. Forgiveness is key and wisdom is required in dealing with circumstances in marriage
I believe that they were having problems in their sex life they ought to have sort counsel earlier in their marriage. I’m just wondering what happened during the marriage counselling before the marriage
He who has eyes will see, those with ears will hear, great work Mount Zion. May Holy Spirit take this to all who need, may scales be removed. Amen
Hmmm. We should be careful d way we mention d Holy Spirit. The Lord Jesus said that any blasphemy against d Holy Spirit will not be forgiven either in this age or d age to come. Let us be careful.
I think we should be wise, this is not what Jesus wants from us , a church that affirms a man to marry a woman you cheated with
What a wonderful package we have here. The holy spirit guides us, reveal Himself more, and gives us a good heart to listen to corrections when they come.
Yes but God's hand never comes off her. She will jave a testimony in this wilderness.
Amen.
May we not miss it at the junction of marriage ☺️ AMEN
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Am so grateful to God that this is not the first mount Zion film I have watched. I have been so blessed by several of thier movies. If this 'STRANDED' was the first of their movies I watched, that would have totally ended the watching of their movies for me.😢
Part 2 will reveal every fact
All this movie teaches me is the need for financial independence for women.
Walahi
😂😂, You say walahi, same thought i had though.@@ogegod3335
Really! You mean you've just bypassed the whole message on "Forgiveness" and not giving room to the devil? Hmmm okay, if you say so.
You missed the main message and settled for an unintended message.
lol...
This your own angle is on another level oo.
But you seems to have a point. The woman probably went back to her husband not because she had truly repented but because she had no money and no where to go after Erica threw her out...
Life is spiritual. The enemy goes around seeking who he may devour. Lord, give us the grace to be totally committed to You. Open our spiritual eyes and ears so we can see the spiriitual weapons forming against us in every area and to dismantal them mercilessly. Excellent movie. Excited to see part 2.
The Husband, a 'supposed' child of God Justifying an error by committing another error? The man looks more STRANDED to me than the woman.
I am telling you. The husband is the real problem. He wasn't broken at all. You're still projecting your repentance and fiam the side chick came back and you're both in bed already. The justification would now be because your wife is yet to accept your apology. Abegi
I was indeed bless wth this movie!! We should learn to forgive one another so as not to open doors for the devil take over
Never have i ever been so disappointed with a mount. Zion movie. Abeg una don fall my hand
The man commits adultery and was only remorseful because he was caught. Yet the wife, who had undergone hurt, betrayal and difficult situations because of the choice of the man to go outside their marital vows get to suffer at the end.
It’s funny how women are bullied to forgiving their spouses. When will the tables turns and men starts taking responsibility of the success of their marriages too? Women are not robots. Men needs to wake up. These narratives are becoming an epidemic.
This is all that was on my mind while watching. Why should the woman suffer for the man infidelity. The man never repented but was demanding arrogantly for the victim to forgive him. Forgiveness is not forced.
True, Although forgiveness is a must so that GOD too can forgive us but I feel Churches just do a one sided preaching most times against women, the man would be at fault but it's the woman that will suffer and so men are not really taught to take responsibility for their home, it's always women who must build their homes, thereby relieving men from the sense of responsibility that they 33:46 must play in their homes. Until a balanced truth is taught in the body of Christ, women will keep suffering even when they're innocent and men won't wake up to their responsibilities as the protectors of the home
Thank you. I had similar thought. I'm tired of seeing these narratives portrayed in Christian movies. Always giving men passes on cheating have not helped marriages in anyway. It's made some of our African men WEAK, and they're not able to teach their sons any better, so this toxic mindset continues till today.
God commands us to forgive, but no one can force it out of anyone. The woman was not supported emotionally in this movie. She was victimized throughout.
It's time for the Church to start focusing on male accountability. The heads of our homes cannot continue being weak.
@@roselineasante614exactly. Imagine the man, who was supposedly asking for forgiveness, allowed the side chick move in with him. I was repulsed to say the least. No one cared about the woman and how much healing she needed…
@oladiwuraelizabeth6955 yep, i was appalled too. Very typical of most African homes. Women's emotional health is completely ignored. Instead, women are expected to always endure, even to death. It's time we set women free from oppression and start holding men (head and leaders of our homes) more accountable. I'm tired of always seeing men given a pass. The Church is actually doing men a great disservice by not being hard on them. It's made most men weak, lack discernment and easily give in into temptation, especially sexual sin and lust. It breaks my heart to see men feel so entitled especially in marriage. Nothing close to what I have read about Jesus in the Bible. Another sad thing is how most CHRISTIAN African men, don't even know what it means to love a woman, like Christ loved the Church.
This is one mount Zions movie i don't understand. It didn't end like a Christian movie. It only gave permission to the sexual lust of men. I accept that the woman was unforgiving but the time was too short for the man to go back to his vomit. That means, he was not truly repentant, he never loved his wife or family, he was only looking for a chance and excuse to commit adultery to satisfy his sexual lust. Even if the wife came back, the man would still go on with his adulterous life. Is marriage not more than men and sex ? Why make it look as if without sex men will die? What's the lesson in this movie? Will the man make heaven with what he did?
I totally disagree with you. This movie has a great ending.
It mustn't always end in reconciliation, that's the beauty and dynamism of this movie
This movie has a great message.
How doesn't it speak well of Christianity?
Did you see the Pastor applaud her husband for his act afterwards?
Her unforgiviness made her husband fall deeper into sin- which obviously she would also live to regret...now that's the message!!!!
The fact that it didn't end the way you expected doesn't mean it's terrible....
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@@sherine5860 but you can't say her unforgiveness made her husband fall deeper into sin. Can we now put the responsibility of living a life for God on others? We live a life free from sin because it's our duty firstly to God before our spouses. While I agree you may have a point here, going back to his vomit can't be blamed on the woman. God gave us all a will and in the end, this excuse is not tenable before God.
@@sherine5860 Two wrongs don't make a right. When Adam said to God, "it was the woman you gave me that made me sin". What did God do? Did God declare Adam innocent? No! God gave the 2 of them their respective punishments.
You cannot sin before God and say it's because someone else sinned first and pushed you into it. They are both wrong in the eyes of God.
Unrepentant men are everywhere now finding excuse to satisfy their lustful desires..because its gradually becoming a norm...ending up giving their wives STD...is that the kind of end God desires for women?! Am sure if she's financially stable she might not have a reason to regret on earth until jugdment day because God hates divorce! God help everyone of us
I believe the expectation of God for anyone in her shoes whether man or woman is to forgive, let go and provide as much as possible help for the spouse so that they can both get to Heaven. That for me is true love.
As long as she kept living with that are unbelieving friend, I don’t see an easy way for her to forgive the husband. She could have taken her burdens to the Lord in prayer, draw closer to God and listen to God’s leading instead she moved in with an unbeliever who kept poisoning her mind and blocking the way of reconciliation.
Psa 1 says it all
Usually the sin of bitterness n unfogiveness is often overlooked,but can cause more wounds n hurt than we can imagine.Praying in faith that the Lord restores my family since I kind of fall into a family of such....Lord have mercy n extend His undeserved grace to forgive others as He orgive us🙏😭🙌
Amen
Amen
This is a thought provoking movie. Every Christian home needs to watch this. Many lessons to learn from this movie. God bless mount Zion family ❤❤❤❤
Truly provoking... If she had listened to her dad and her pastor!!!!
There is no lesson to be learnt here
I'm glad to be among the first few Partakers of this Blessing.
I need to comment on this movie. A lot of things is wrong, and I have noticed that Nigerian Christian movies consciously and unconsciously try to justify unfaithfulness in marriage for men. All the movies where the man cheated, it is always portrayed that the woman is at fault and to blame.
Very little is done to address why the head of the home shouldn’t cheat.
If your wife is not yielding to your sexual advance, there are several things that you should do, communicate about it, seek professional help for your wife, a lot of women have not experienced orgasm before in their life and you are wondering why she is not asking for sex or interested in sex, if she enjoys sex and reaches climax everytime she will definitely want more.
Every person was blaming the woman in this movie, kept calling and advising her, she wasn’t even allowed to have a feeling. She was betrayed and hurt by the man who vowed to love her like Christ love the church, all everyone did was blame her.
Mount Zion film can do better.
The end of the movie was the worst of it, the man ended up with the side chick.
Indirectly you are teaching men that it is okay to cheat, divorce, and remarry.
Also, if this scenario in the movie happened in the developed world which is the setting for this movie, the woman will not pack out of her house and be left stranded, it is the man that will be sent out of the house and left stranded.
I am still waiting for the day Nigerian Christian movie will act a scenario where the woman cheated and the husband will be blamed for her adultery and advised to forgive the wife.
Absolutely
Totally agree
Thank you!
Well spoken
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Oh Lord keep us away from bad and wicked friends 😢 that hate our peace and joy 🙏
Help us to always listen to godly advice.. Give us a loving and forgiven heart just as Christ love us in Jesus mighty name 🙏
People who are saying that we need a movie that can encourage men to forgive their cheating women should understand that cheating for a man is not these same as cheating for a women.
May God help us all. ❤
Please ma, do cheating wives not also deserve forgiveness?
I hope Christian men can forgive their cheating wives too.
We hope so too,cos this narrative...hmmmm
No, its only women that are wired to forgive and build their homes 😂
I believe the expectation of God for anyone in her shoes whether man or woman is to forgive, let go and provide as much as possible help for the spouse so that they can both get to Heaven. That for me is true love. We need to stop making it look like women are being victimized.
@@nobelatunje Look at our society and be honest. People will expect the wife to forgive a cheating husband but a cheating wife will be disgraced and thrown out, they hardly get forgiveness or a second chance. In all everyone one, both men and women should emulate Jesus Christ.
@@Christinekehindemusic I agree with you that society has a way of victimizing women but in the context of this movie and for the Christian community, the opinion of the society does not matter to us, we emulate Jesus just like you said. God help us all 🙏🏼
You do not need him back move forward he would have cheated again! Hold your head up high and move on! ❤🙏🏿🙏🏻🙏🙏🏽🙏🏿🙏🏾🙏🏻this is not a very wise movie! But it’s life!
For the first time, Mount Zion movie did not hit it for me. Lots of unresolved issues & many questions were raised too. Hun, more grace sha
There are diverse lessons to be learnt; it is sure the man too would regret his quick and unrepentant actions... The lady might be stranded temporarily because of unforgiveness but this is not a sin unto death. She repented but the husband has not had his fill. Not interested in romance or sex in marriage especially from the woman requires some strategies and the moment she starts enjoying it, she would be on always; infidelity is not the way out! Meanwhile, Jenny would be stable even by God's help but the dog that went back to its vomit would now experience the consequences of defiling his matrimony. ...But a whoremonger and adulterers God will judge. Hebrews 13:4
So much to learn. More grace to mount zion films. Great grace
Thank God for this movie.
I am always concerned when much attention is placed on the offended. Forgiveness is not an instantaneous thing. It takes time and rebuilding the trust to forgive wholeheartedly especially in a marital contest like this.
I was a bit happy that the pastor pointed out Dave's fault to him. It is not enough for one party to think that their spouse will automatically forgive them in case of any wrong. If everyone will be careful of their actions and weigh the consequences very well before doing it, no one will be stranded.
Above all, if husband and wife have a 'fix it' attitude in marriage, we would not be considering other unhealthy alternatives.
Once you have the mindset that it is either my wife or my wife, it is either my husband or my husband, we would have more healthy homes.
Thank you.
Hmmm,when faced with difficult situations,who do we listen to ?
What a great message!!
God bless Daddy Mike
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1. Obey God and leave all the consequences to Him.
2. God's word is an immovable anchor in times of storm.
3. Fight all your battles on your knees and you win everytime.
4. God assumes full responsibility for our needs when we obey Him
5. You reap what you sow,more than you sow,and later than you sow.
6. Obedience always brings a blessing.
7. Adversity is a bridge to a deeper relationship with God.
8. Prayer is lifes greatest time saver.
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This movie is such a deep message. Thank you mount zion crew for this, you are a light and you keep the world brighter, your impacts is indeed palpable. I can imagine and feel for the woman about how hurting the situation was for her while overlooking or better to say trivializing the place of true forgiveness and patience. I have learnt a great lesson, not just in marriage but even in other circumstances our hard decisions and disobedience can lead to consequences of getting unavoidably stranded.
I think the movie underplayed the emotions of a partner that is being cheated on and the importance of showing empathy when it comes to sexual issues.
There are several reasons a woman may not enjoy sex. We were not shown the effort her husband made in walking through her issues with her.
What happened to talking to their pastor before cheating? The option of a therapist etc
Same thought here. I guess some African Christians see sex as a thing only to be enjoyed by the men. Such an error. Women's pain and emotional well-being are ignored. Instead, they are pressured to put up with anything. No wonder some African Christian men feel entitled and full of unhealthy ego and no where near being Christ-like.
Same feeling I have. It portrait the man as the victim. And from the comment ppl are blaming the woman too. Let us differentiate between biblical truth and what need to be handled face up.
Finally a comment full of sense. Thank you!
The man moved on too fast in my opinion . It’s not easy to mend a heart that has been betrayed and shattered by infidelity. God help women; we truly are the home builders. Head or tail, we always get the blame but if we flip the narrative now and it’s the other way round, the woman will still be tagged. In all this is our reality as wives, May God help us in Jesus name .
Same feeling. How can she forgive within 24 - 48hrs it takes a lot of emotional therapy and self assessment to forgive. The man is also weak and should have dwelled in place of prayer for his marriage because a man who is remorse won't do all these
Satan was literally at the door waiting for an opening. In a day this marriage fell and the lady became stranded. God have mercy on David and Jenny
'The curtain has fallen, it is late already'. So much to learn from this movie. God bless MZFM
What an “elderly will sit down 🪑 and see,even if the young stand on a ladder 🪜,you can’t see.Most Christian’s of nowadays don’t want to listen to their authorities but rather want to do things in their own way….I pray 🙏 we will be always submissive to listen to our pastors.
Waooo... she is finally stranded .. unforgiveness is a destroyer .. God bless Damilola and bro Mike
😭😭😭 oh Lord the vehicle of marriage. I'll be one year in marriage this month end and my vehicle already has a deflated tire. Lord I connect my marriage to this movie for my testimony. I will celebrate my anniversary in peace 🙏 Amen
May God restore your home🎉
Cry out to the Lord instead for help and wise counsel. Seek good marriage counselling if required.
Je suis tellement habitué aux happy ends avec vous que j'avoue que j'ai été surpris par la fin du film.
Le titre l'annonçait bien mais cette fin est douloureuse quoique reflétant la réalité de plusieurs foyers.
Mais puisque Mike B. l'a dit : " Le mécanicien du véhicule appelé mariage peut encore réparer la panne "
J'attends donc une suite qui aura un happy end.
Que Dieu vous bénisse pour ce ministère profond avec lequel je remplis mon réservoir spirituel et emotionnel chaque semaine.
Ma famille et moi vous suivons depuis Austin, MN USA 🇧🇯🇺🇲
My heart is heavy watching this movie 😭😭😭😭😭 Broken home isn't an option
I experienced the side effect of it, lost my mom as a results of it, I pray Married couples will be guided by the Holy Spirit always and even in trying times.
hmmmm RIP TO MOM it's well
I am so sorry for your loss. May the Lord comfort you and heal your heart in Jesus' Name, amen!
Sorry dear.
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Thanks for the effort.. Cast & Crew.
1. Even though I would have thought that the man that forced himself into Erica’s house saying he won’t leave….he was assertive. Affirming and so bold to go that length….
WHY DID HE LEAVE after water was poured on him…?
2. He showed some remorse at first. And asked the pastor and or God to forgive him
WHY DID HE GO BACK INTO ADULTERY AGAIN AFTER FEW WEEKS….?
Yes. Jenny was warned.
Yes. Jenny had a bad friend Influence.
Yes. Jenny moved out or should have atleast exercised more patience Maybe just maybe issues won’t end this way…And Yes when the man begged and pleaded at that time and yes she didn’t yield.
BUT I AM THINKING THAT BOTH OF THEM SHOULD BE STRANDED NOW….
Not only the woman o.
I am a singlemom myself… and the father of my children walked out over 4 years now without even looking back…
And I have just realised that THERE ARE SOME MEN THAT CANNOT BE HELD…DOWN whatsoever you do….
It's not even your duty as a believing woman or partner to hold down a man/spouse, especially if he is unbelieving like the man in this case. As Paul noted, everyone is called to leave in peace
@@preciousoparanozie5747 yes. Indeed.
Society's patriarchal view regarding adultery has always been unfair to women. It is usually sorry to the woman, not sorry to the man.
Whilst the church's intention to keep a home intact is good, honourable and in accordance with God's word, the answer cannot be 'forced reconciliation'. It has to be about healing, restoration and the teaching of agape to make shattered hearts whole again. God will never leave the brokenhearted stranded.
"The Lord is close to the brokenhearted; He rescues those whose spirits are crushed."
Psalms 34:18 NLT
What a dreadful movie! The husband the head of the household made a mess of this family and was not willing to take responsibility for what he did. The victim was blamed for the whole affair. He was not a good leader, unrepentant and expected his wife to accept him back into her arms as though he was a naughty child. I agree her "friend" was bitter, but worse still she was a side chick too. All together it sent the message that when your husband makes a mess of the family the wife should just accept what he has done and be glad that he is "willing" to remain with family until the next side chick comes along. Horrible conclusion. I would not recommend this movie. It's slanted against the victim of abuse.
I believe the expectation of God for anyone in her shoes whether man or woman is to forgive, let go and provide as much help as possible for the spouse so they can both get to Heaven. That for me is true love. Let’s stop making look like women are being victimized
I hope you will say the same thing if the woman cheated.
@@nobelatunje
The lesson here is to forgive as a Christian. The woman shouldn't have been heart-hardened. She wasn't meeting up with her conjugal right which is unscriptural. This act brought in a crack in her marriage, devil quickly used the opportunity to strike and it was too late for her. I'm not supporting what the man did, nonetheless the woman should have given room to forgiveness. I will definitely recommend it especially to people with unforgiving mind.
@nobelatunje. This is why Jesus said husband love your wife and give yourself up for her. He should have sacrificed his lust to help his wife heal of her low libido issues.
We don't plant a seed and expect another to eat the sour fruit
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She wasn't meeting up with her duties, and that justified the cheating abi?
The husband that was supposed to love her didn't try to help her out. He still denied and was trying to impose forgiveness on her.
What a powerful lesson that we are learning from the movie. let's study the word. the truth will set you free. DON'T BE QUICK TO LEAVE YOUR MARRIAGE. Choose your friends wisely.
When a dog mess up your house, do you break down the entire house or you clean it up. Timely analogy, May God give us wisdom and grace to do His will. Thank you all the members of the crew; God bless you
That was so good right 👍
Haba!!! Did a dog break your heart and your marriage vows?
Did a dog sin against God when he committed adultery.
How can you use a dog poo analogy on something like this???
If it's the husband that is the dog, then you believe when the Bible says dogs go back to their vomit and you flee.
Because it's the husband that messed up the home
She got stranded at the start of the marriage by marrying a "so called good man". Its one thing to forgive but its another thing to actually forget & move on. I cant imagine living in that kinda pain especially with an unrepentant spouse. Financial independence would have ensured she wasnt stranded.
I have seen a woman who decided to keep her home despite having an unfaithful husband. He contracted hiv and was on treatment while still fulfilling his marital duties. Years later she became so sick and only got to know at the hospital that her hubby is a Cd4 patient and since she's not been undergoing check ups. It got to full blown AIDS followed by death.
Yes its good to forgive and keep your home be it male or female. But how do you do that without being hurt healthwise
Lord deliver and separate us from unfriendly friends amen 🙏
I have two emotions towards this movie. I like how it has portrayed the significance of a whole home, how to restrict access to the enemy by covering up any loop holes and most importantly the significance of forgiveness in marriage.
But wait ooo.. i dont like how it ended (did all this happen in the space of one month?) Jenny has every right to be upset and healing takes time, yes she didn't have the right friend but for her, her pain was real. I know the expectation is to be like Christ but it can be hard sometimes. Dave must also have serious issues because he was impatient and still let another woman into his home. Ehn.... Rosalind entered the house, that was the time for him to leave. He must be very weak sha, because are you telling me he can't walk her out of his house if he really wanted to make amends with his wife.
Anyways lovely watch, but i didn't like how you left Jenny stranded.
If God forgives us our sin, will it take time for him to love us and return back to us?
The father told her, the pastor told her, the husband told her and begged her and water was poured on his body and she had no pity. She had several chances to forgive. But she didn't. If she forgave him earlier and obeyed her father's pleas. It wouldn't have resulted in that and mind you the husband wouldn't have gone back to the side chick. He will be more conscious to mend the marriage and the unity will be back again. Reason it well. The woman was so much at fault. If it was me, I would have forgiven him since. You know why? I have a soft heart and a forgiven Spirit. And I know if I don't, God won't forgive me.
Moral lessons: learn to forgive, if you are the type who says, it is easy to forgive but it is not easy to forget, you are not ready to forgive. When you forgive, you will forget. Forgetting comes gradually. God forgives us and forgets it never happened. It is well.
@@herribon_kyou can forgive and not have the strenght to re enter the relationship. Every person Can Do a mistake or be in iniquity. It's true every body sin but don't forget that there are conséquences for your sins. God forgave David but the punishmentn was still there. There was a price to pays but because David asked for the Mercy of God he réducted the pain and transformed it to grace. Adultery is a sin. Every sin is a sin but some are more painful that others and the répercussions are differents. And definitely that man wasn't stable, one foot in Christ one foot in the World. He must bear the conséquences, he must accept the décisions of his wife and pray and wait for God to show mercy. We could've probably Say yes the madam was stubborn but look at the end, that man wasn't serions at all. There were not even divorced yet so he restarted his adultery.
Both of them have problem and the devil just to use the weakness of one to strenghten the weakness of the other.
God bless you for that truth, oh bcus he asked for forgiveness, she should jump at it ? What happened to him interceding for the wife for God to touch her heart to forgive him . God bless you for this . How can they encourage adultery, ok the divorce letter wasn’t even served yet and he already brought in his other woman, isn’t that an adultery ?
Me too,I don't.we share the same feeling here
What if the wife was the unfaithful one? What would people say....if she begged her husband severally and he didnt accept then she goes to the home of the man she was cheating with and marry him. I don't support the ending. It's unfair to the wife...adultery is a very heartbreaking experience and whoever committed the offense should be ready to ask for it for as long as it takes. While elders of the church pleads with spouse to forgive. If the elders have been involved.
Voice of the old serpent
How many times have you asked God for forgiveness? Jesus was beaten, mocked, stone and crucified yet he forgave those who did that to himand asked God to forgive them. Regardless of the gender, Christians must forgive those to wrong them because if they don’t God won’t forgive them
Whose report should we believe? Yours or Gods word
I get your point but the husband will have to forgive. Though society has a totally different view. But the husband will have to forgive.
I believe the expectation of God for anyone in her shoes whether man or woman is to forgive, let go and provide as much as possible help for the spouse so that they can both get to Heaven. That for me is true love. We need to stop making it look like women are being victimized.
May we not be stranded in life. Only if we know what bitterness and unforgiveness cause, we wont nurse it at all. .................please part 2 oooooo...God bless mount zion ministry
This speaks directly to me. Thanks to you for delivering this message to me.
is not for you... Pray to Godddd
My love for moun Zion movies have no boundaries
Let’s not cease in praying for God’s unending grace and mercy.
I love mount Zion movies ❤
May God continue to increase your wisdom IJN
jaymikee doesn't disappoint 🔥
Nice piece.
Honestly, the creativity is always loaded and great
Only if I knew I wouldn't watch...
Help me Lord to be a wise woman that build's her home and not a caterpillar that destroys
Give me a forgiving spirit and help me to be firm in faith🙏
This is powerful for all marriages to be guided,the enemies is really fighting the home
Great lesson learnt.
God bless both ministries and everyone involved, including the viewers in Jesus' name...AMEN.
Hmmm... I'm blessed... May I not be stranded in Life... This is more than a movie, o deep gan
Moving with bad friends won't help us in anything 😔
What would men do if women were going out to look for other men who can love them as Christ loves the church if they felt unloved in their marriage? Would this behavior fly with men???? So the issue of not having sex being a cause for men to cheat is absolutely ridiculous and these excuses must stop!!!!!!!!!!!!
Hallelujah! Absolutely! And the irony is African Pastors harp on about the man being the leader and the woman the weaker sex - how about thy start holding these husbands accountable as Leaders! It’s the women being given the burden to shoulder.
And I tell you this kind of movie is only passed to African Christians. White Christian Pastors tend to hold the men accountable and demand they give their wives space and go for counselling.
This movie is not a Biblical message but an African message.
OMG! At the end, she used the very word "Stranded" that her Dad used. Inflate your tyre with the pump of forgiveness so that you will not be stranded on the way. God bless the Mount Zion Film Ministry. More Grace 💪
Arrrh... Stranded 😩
Oh Lord help us
The high rate of broken Marriages in our genz is so high, God I don't want to miss it🤲🏼😭
Lots of lessons to learn. I usually enjoy mount zion movies, but I can't say the same about this one. Quite one-sided. Either ways, may God help us all to walk in the Spirit so that we don't gratify the desires of the flesh, and to walk with wisdom always.
Amen.
Yes!! Am ready to see my Boss, Dr Tokunbo Jarrett in action...halleluyah
Wow this is powerful and also great lesson to the children of God, sometimes forgiveness can so difficult may God help to always forgive others thanks to all the crews much appreciated ❤❤❤❤❤
I do saw this movie but I have been ignoring it but today I just have to give a try it .
Wow what a lovely move .
Am so blessed by it
Seriously, its like this movie is supporting d man. See him even boasting
Where is part 2 o? I can't wait to see Bro David stranded too..(legs crossed😂)
Beloved, Marriage is deep! The home started cracking since their honeymoon. Maybe if they have sought solution to the wife's bedroom problems, maybe, just maybe.
God bless the cast and crew, its a beautiful movie🎉
I agree, the crack started from the very beginning..
When the foundation is destroyed, what shall the righteous do?
There are things that we shouldn't bottle up as christains. Movies like this is a wake up call
I will like to see a movie that shows the wife as the unfaithful one. Thank you
Exactly
Let’s see how easy it is, to get a man’s forgiveness. For once, show us please.
Would love also to watch a movie on the difficulties that young people face while waiting on God for the right partner and the blessings that come when we wait for God's perfect time. Because there are many blessings believe me if we wait for God's time
go watch Gbemi
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The end is epic. A very classic way to end this movie.
Good job. God bless