5 Signs of a Counterfeit vs. Godsent Relationship

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  • Identify Godsent relationship vs. how to spot a counterfeit relationship. Is that relationship from God?
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 572

  • @DaintyAbby
    @DaintyAbby Рік тому +1140

    Girl, I broke up with my boyfriend few days ago.. about 1 week into the relationship God told me “Hes not for you.” And followed up with “I have someone better for you.” 😢😢😢😢 I asked for confirmation and God showed me signsssss. It was sad. But I got away

    • @tiasmith6223
      @tiasmith6223 Рік тому +10

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @tammys5417
      @tammys5417 Рік тому +83

      Praise God for your obedience. It’s better to get out when God says so.

    • @Mindsetolympics
      @Mindsetolympics Рік тому +35

      God will show you dreams and signs yessss its so powerful when u operate in obedience ❤❤❤❤

    • @toneyfox6328
      @toneyfox6328 Рік тому +11

      Proud of u sis u won’t regret it

    • @cosmosprincess20
      @cosmosprincess20 Рік тому +41

      😢 I married him and now we are divorced I didn't listen but God is merciful ❤🎉

  • @SetFreePodcast
    @SetFreePodcast Рік тому +816

    God sent relationships don't require you to sin or override your morales and values, even if he's presenting as the "whole package". Key word presenting. Pay attention to the patterns, not just yours but his.

  • @Jenshaw510
    @Jenshaw510 Рік тому +391

    I got married before I got saved. Through a series of painful situations in that marriage, I surrendered my life to the Lord Jesus. Things got worse, it was traumatic, yet I thought if I prayed for his salvation and waited it would get better. He started going to church, acted like he was different all the while he was still doing the same things. Early one morning the Lord spoke to me and I heard “this is not my best for you.” That day we had a talk, things were revealed and I asked him to leave. That night I had the most amazing rest and peace. We divorced and I’ve been single for 6 years. I’m patiently waiting and enjoying my single season.

    • @franceshaggitt3104
      @franceshaggitt3104 Рік тому +15

      Wow that's good. I got rid of two counterfeiters. Hurts to be lonely but they were evil

    • @aidarisyazmin1
      @aidarisyazmin1 Рік тому +2

      thank you for sharing--i believe the Lord is speaking to me. "acted like he was different all the while.."

    • @Jenshaw510
      @Jenshaw510 Рік тому +1

      @@aidarisyazmin1 I pray the Lord gives you the same insight and clarity. 💗

    • @all_tutorials609
      @all_tutorials609 Рік тому +11

      There’s always two sides to every story. I wouldn’t object to any facts stated in you all stories of your men being the culprit, but one thing for sure is , both parties to any relationship at all must play their unique roles to make it work.
      Regardless of whether a man is meant for you or not, our characters can spoil a lot of things if not well managed even in marriages that are ordained by God.
      A classic example and way to apply this reasoning is : A man of God like David the King, who was loved by God even from childhood, when he failed to manage his character (lust ), he was punished.
      So, the fact that God ordained or showed that a man is meant for us doesn’t automatically takes away the fact that every transaction of the marriage would happen without hiccups here and there.
      Learning to communicate and appreciate the interests of others and to understand we are from different unique backgrounds, would actually in my opinion go a long way in building marriages or any relationships at that.

    • @anteantic986
      @anteantic986 Рік тому

      @@Jenshaw510 what makes you think god told you to get divorce ?? bible talks about virgins and chaste women not divorcee women,,,most likely devil spoke to you , God cannot be around sin and you are sinfull woman

  • @Fav984
    @Fav984 Рік тому +126

    Your instincts will never lie ! The moment you get a bad feeling about someone believe it ! You don’t have to know the reason why at the time, but just believe…trust me guys …your inner spirit never lies.

    • @Celestialslayz
      @Celestialslayz Місяць тому +3

      This is the hard part though, to know if it’s instinct vs trauma response. When someone hasn’t completed self discovery instincts and paranoia can feel similar. Some may even trust the paranoia more than the intuition due to lack of societal awareness of the difference.

    • @Hey_OverHere
      @Hey_OverHere Місяць тому

      The problem is that many cannot discern between instinct and feelings. Feelings change every day and basing a relationship merely on feelings often makes one devoid of commitment and the kind of love that transcends far above your feelings at the moment.
      This is why 70%-80% of all divorces are initiated by the ‘weaker vessel’ today. Society tells us that how we feel is more important than the relationship or life that committed to you in the first place.
      Pray and test the spirits. Ask God if that truly is Him talking to your spirit or if that is the enemy separating you from love and life. Remember no man or no woman is perfect. One of the keys to true love is how those two imperfect people work together and recognize those imperfections.
      Peace and Love ❤️

    • @alonzoneloms5651
      @alonzoneloms5651 Місяць тому +3

      The Biggest problem with Believers in Christ! They don't know the voice of God. Because our Prayer life and time alone with God. Is not top priority! ✨✨🔥🙏💯 The Holy Spirit/ Essence of God will always tell you! What to do what's right! Listen to the Comforter/ Holy Spirit of God.

  • @its.just.davidd
    @its.just.davidd Рік тому +426

    I can also say that one reason we can obsess over a person & become distracted from God is our mental health background & our level of wholeness. Whenever a person becomes an idol or an obsession, it’s called infatuation. Infatuation isn’t love, but it always feels really good. A whole person doesn’t allow themselves to be obsessive over a person anymore. Their relationship w/ God is a part of their individuality as a person. Your individuality should normally remain whether you’re involved with someone or not. But when it doesn’t remain, it means you’re looking to people to fill a void. So an unwhole person can’t handle a new love interest, but a whole person can. A whole person is more level-headed & has a certain balance or a routine in their life that doesn’t allow for them to be distracted when they have a new love interest. We should all be working towards that point. 🎉

  • @inadia001
    @inadia001 Рік тому +157

    The counterfeit looks really, really good and so deceiving. I learned that time and paying attention will reveal itself in due time. Be patient......also speaking to myself...😊

    • @emily3333
      @emily3333 2 місяці тому

      Amen!! Learned 8 years later but I know God is always on time.

  • @BLACKNIGHTKNIGHT
    @BLACKNIGHTKNIGHT 6 місяців тому +17

    I’ll admit, I know I’ve slipped “My Will” first before “Gods Will” and ended up divorced twice. Now I’m dating an amazing woman and we both agree 💯% that God’s Will comes first, practicing purity, communicating, praying together and letting God be in the center of our friendship, relationship and beyond.🙏

  • @ayandagamedze8715
    @ayandagamedze8715 9 місяців тому +67

    Girl. Counterfeits looking alike, or having similar energies to your godsend is sooo real. It's something I've been mulling over in my head lately...why do I see glimpses in my counterfeits of what I truly want, but they're not the full package?? I love love love that you brought this up. Such confirmation ❤

    • @YahToldMe
      @YahToldMe 8 місяців тому +1

      This!! Yessss 🥹

    • @Sl-gi7om
      @Sl-gi7om 5 місяців тому

      🔥🔥🔥🔥

  • @Indyona500
    @Indyona500 Рік тому +100

    1. The difference between settling and compromise.
    2. Recognizing patterns
    3. Is the person checking for you?
    4. Does it pull me closer to God?
    5. Are you equally yoked?
    Jesus is the son of God. The Way. The Truth. The Life. The Savior of the world and the only way to God.

    • @Simplythetruthfulone
      @Simplythetruthfulone 11 місяців тому +2

      I love comments like this!♥️ Thank you!🥰🙌🏾🙏🏾

  • @jennifersnelling1265
    @jennifersnelling1265 Рік тому +60

    I had to pay attention to men who say they were Christian and good on paper but did not live the lifestyle or were afraid of offending others.

  • @komodokhan
    @komodokhan Рік тому +155

    This is part of my testimony. I was dating this girl who I thought was going to be the wife I wanted but turns out it was just a disappointment and & distraction that almost took my soul. My ex-girlfriend has to many soul ties & I just wanted someone to love so I didn't care. I lower myself and turn out I was the one who was being abused and manipulated by lust & fornication. Lord Jesus saw everything & he protected me from wickedness of this world and my then girlfriend. I am so blessed that he saved my life and got me out that relationship because we would've been struggling untimely parents if the lord didn't put a stop to that sinful life I was living. Psalm 34 18 is one of my favorite scripture. I been walking with the lord for almost a year now 🙏 glory to his name hallelujah

    • @Cal_me_lady1
      @Cal_me_lady1 11 місяців тому +1

      Hallelujah 🙌 may God be praised

    • @similoluwaawoyele-finni5564
      @similoluwaawoyele-finni5564 11 місяців тому +2

      How do you know she had so many soul ties? I just wanna know

    • @komodokhan
      @komodokhan 11 місяців тому

      @similoluwaawoyele-finni5564 she been in multiple relationships way to many

    • @similoluwaawoyele-finni5564
      @similoluwaawoyele-finni5564 11 місяців тому

      @@komodokhan ok

    • @arrikgibbs9983
      @arrikgibbs9983 10 місяців тому +1

      @komodokhan I hope you are doing well brother! Thank you for your powerful testimony!

  • @Minskiies
    @Minskiies Рік тому +101

    This brought so much clarity to what I’ve been wrestling with! Counterfeits look and feel like the real thing, you need to discern it through the lens of the Holy Spirit to test it.

  • @lateshas.hollinshed9556
    @lateshas.hollinshed9556 11 місяців тому +17

    When I look back on majority of my past relationships, they all had red flags that I completely ignored, and they all showed up within the first week of meeting. When I tell you God truly wastes no time. We have to be alert and allow God to lead us every single time.

  • @DearGod111
    @DearGod111 11 місяців тому +45

    This is a Blessing. It’s hard to leave that person that you always thought was the one but if God says otherwise, I can’t argue.
    I’m really praying for Clarity In my relationship🙏🏻

    • @graciakinyanjui6937
      @graciakinyanjui6937 10 місяців тому

      me too i feel am giving alot than am receiving...

    • @Ashley-og9ti
      @Ashley-og9ti 3 місяці тому +1

      Same been praying on it for a long time🙏🏾 hope it becomes clear for us seeking🤍

  • @camzloren
    @camzloren Рік тому +20

    Wait, I say on the Lord. Then eventually you will see whether this person is for real or a counterfeit. Always ask God for discernment and to guard your heart

  • @latifahpitre5890
    @latifahpitre5890 11 місяців тому +27

    This is so spot on I broke up with my fiancé because I felt like we were not equally yoked, I was drained

    • @Ashley-og9ti
      @Ashley-og9ti 3 місяці тому +3

      Sis how did you do it it's SO hard with history there, I even left twice but we always end up back together. Trying to tell if that's what God wants or not

    • @user-dl7uj6fw4l
      @user-dl7uj6fw4l 2 місяці тому +2

      Same here. I broke it off my engagement. He has Jehovah witness beliefs. They belittle Jesus . He does not believe in going to church, he said going to church is satan lifestyle

    • @Ashley-og9ti
      @Ashley-og9ti 2 місяці тому

      @@user-dl7uj6fw4l they have the kingdom hall idk I heard JWs is a cult or cult practices but idk 😬

    • @20vannesa
      @20vannesa 11 днів тому +1

      @@Ashley-og9tithis happened to me. I was with him for 4 years and broke up this year in February we got engaged last November 2023. I had to break up bc I just didn’t feel peace anymore. There was also signs and God speaking to me that he was NOT my husband. No lie I would hear God speak to me through videos about the same thing over and over. I will never forget I was in my room and my door was opened and my dad was listening to this preaching and I can hear it and the preacher clearly say “ there’s someone who been praying saying if this person is the one, and I’m here to tell you that God has better for you” I was like lWHAT THE?!!” Then second time this UA-cam video that wasn’t even about kingdom marriages and this Prophetic word from this UA-camr was “I hear God saying that you thought that person was the one but God is saying No and that he has better for you “😭 God speaks. Do NOT settle pls! ❤

  • @emarimyles9969
    @emarimyles9969 10 місяців тому +20

    This video gave me so much clarity…was dating my ex for 2 years believing him to be my Kingdom Spouse. I watched so many prophetic words telling me this was my husband and that our relationship was just being attack by spiritual warfare….it’s like we was stuck in the same karmic cycles until I decided this isn’t working so I decided to separate. The week I did that…I received the most shocking news that he passed away…I was beyond crushed and didn’t know what was going on…I was so confused with the Lord. I know I deserved better and still have hope I will meet the right one for me. I’m just in my healing stage right now because I really did love the guy. I just ask the Lord to heal my broken heart so that I’m able to love again. It’s been really tough.

    • @mlady8137
      @mlady8137 7 місяців тому +4

      Im so sorry. How are you now? That must have been a real shock x

    • @charlinecharlostin3188
      @charlinecharlostin3188 Місяць тому

      Familiar spirits can also give confirmations. When someone becomes an idol it makes us deaf, dumb and blind to red flags.

  • @LuvJonesie
    @LuvJonesie Рік тому +37

    Amen, I saw this video last night and I saved it to watch later, all morning I kept hearing the Holy Spirit say Go watch the video. I needed to see this! This is my conformation that the young man that showed interest in me a couple of months ago is not a Godsend but a distraction. I admire some qualities about him but God is missing in his life, So while he may have those qualities that I love ( kindness, patience, gentleness etc) I know he is not the one. I wrestled for months because I was afraid there will be nothing or no one would be interested after him, but that is simply a lie that the enemy is trying to get me to believe. I know that my husband will come into my life in God’s time, so until then I will wait. Thank you Jesus!

  • @pridigals
    @pridigals Рік тому +53

    This really makes sense im married to a man that I thought God gave to me but after years and years I invested myself in this relationship he's now showing me who he really is,he doesn't care about my pain,doesn't value me, doesn't have that energy he use to have towards me,he listene to other people's advices than mine,he respect other people's inputs to mine,he can even make sure he tells me anything he wants whether I wants it or not..please pray with me I don't know what to do..

    • @christinerobinson7966
      @christinerobinson7966 Рік тому +14

      I pray that give you that clarity and understanding and give you that wisdom and understanding on what you should do. God will give you strength to make the necessary steps to take to move forward.

    • @GospelMusicLover247
      @GospelMusicLover247 Рік тому +14

      Dear Heavenly Father, we know that nothing is too hard for You! Get glory out of this situation. Give our sister the grace she needs if You tell her to stay and the strength she needs if You tell her to go. She won’t move until You speak Lord, so speak to her heart and tell her what to do. We love You, Lord, and we trust Your will for her life. In Jesus’s name, we pray. Amen.

    • @pridigals
      @pridigals Рік тому +3

      Amen Amen Amen 🙏

    • @Stoickingdom1
      @Stoickingdom1 Рік тому +2

      May the Almighty God intervene in all your worries 🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿🙏🏿

    • @Ndube
      @Ndube Рік тому

      Psalm 34 vs 4-8

  • @lannalanna84
    @lannalanna84 Рік тому +53

    Thank you I needed that. God only wants the best for me, so He is not going to send me anything less. 🙏🏾

  • @floydadams7069
    @floydadams7069 Рік тому +25

    For a lot of us waiting on god for so long leads us to acting out of loneliness. As for me I don’t know what a God centered relationship looks like. I had to leave my x because God called me. But it sucks being lonely but the lord knows what is good and I just don’t

    • @BansheeKing22
      @BansheeKing22 11 місяців тому

      Its how God is. Its a toss of a coin. If it lands in your favor you'll get blessed by God with love, marriage, children. However if it lands on the reverse as it did with me and many many others, you get nothing but bitter loneliness and piss poor affirmations from people who were blessed with it. Its easy for them to act all positive about it and tell you to just "have faith" or "be strong cause God has a plan" and "God's timing" blah blah blah. I guarantee those same people wouldn't have that same mindset if the toss of the coin landed on an unfavorable side.

    • @floydadams7069
      @floydadams7069 11 місяців тому

      @@nats948 thank you.

    • @floydadams7069
      @floydadams7069 11 місяців тому

      @@BansheeKing22 I completely understand what you’re saying. But I will pray for you. Because at the end of the day, I don’t love Jesus for his blessings. But that doesn’t mean you don’t long for them.

  • @byrnenoel6317
    @byrnenoel6317 Рік тому +146

    1. Having an understanding between settling (lowering your standards) and compromising (both meet in the middle)
    2. Recognize a pattern that comes with red flags and toxic situations
    3. This person isn't truly "sold" on you
    4. Does this relationship pull me closer to God or away from God.
    5. Are you unequally yoked?

    • @TheOnlyChastina
      @TheOnlyChastina Рік тому

      Thank you

    • @Irispia97
      @Irispia97 7 місяців тому

      God tells me to leave, my moral problem, before my father died he told me to never leave the man, but now the man is physically /verbal/mental abusing me 😢

  • @yshstar
    @yshstar Рік тому +72

    God always wants the best for you. ❤
    “Does this relationship pull me closer to God?”
    Amos 3:3

  • @FollowMeStopPlayin
    @FollowMeStopPlayin Рік тому +24

    If u gotta ask God is he/she the one they are not the one if u need confirmation they are not the one discernment is key I'm learning this now

    • @Realasf5
      @Realasf5 11 місяців тому

      This is facts!! 😊

    • @VictoriaNakaraKizer
      @VictoriaNakaraKizer 6 місяців тому +9

      You always go to God in prayer before you make critical life altering moves. I bump my head when I don’t pray and receive confirmation.

  • @eugeniajones1895
    @eugeniajones1895 Рік тому +21

    Yes as I looked back I noticed the red flags 🚩. And I noticed the pattern as well. I had to let go of individuals that weren't on my level. And I just recently walked away from a relationship because we were going in different directions. At the beginning we seem to understand each other and we could read each other without saying anything about things changed and I didn't know what was going on. We had a lot of similarities as well.
    But God showed me/ gave me insight on what was happening and I had to make my decision. And I did what was best for me.
    I'm more cautious,wiser and stronger 💪 for the experience. And I know that I won't be making that mistake again with the help of God.
    I'm so much better and I have my peace 🕊️.

  • @bodycakellc
    @bodycakellc Рік тому +25

    Thank you for sharing 💜 One of the Amazing things about the Holy Spirit is that HE leads and guides us into all truth 💜 We should lean on Him and not our own understanding of a thing💜
    🙏🏾John 16:13
    🙏🏾1 Corinthians 2:3-5
    🙏🏾Proverbs 3:5-6

  • @dmae93
    @dmae93 Рік тому +80

    God always sends me a message on time! Thanks for this ❤

  • @brittanycheairs
    @brittanycheairs Рік тому +41

    This truly helped me to understand the counterfeit that im grieving over. Thank you ❤

  • @em77775
    @em77775 Рік тому +16

    Great topic, great tips! If a man isn't constantly seeking the Lord's guidance in your relationship and doesn't know if he wants to marry you within a year, I wouldn't waste any more time on him! Usually he's going to know pretty quickly.

    • @theyoung_counselor22
      @theyoung_counselor22 10 місяців тому +2

      It's funny how some know but have no structure on how it will happen😂😂. May God help us

    • @em77775
      @em77775 10 місяців тому +1

      @@theyoung_counselor22 I mean, I can see if you're really young and still maturing it may take time to feel like you're ready and all but if you feel you're being strung along, I would listen to that. ☺

  • @Hauseofmars
    @Hauseofmars Рік тому +38

    Girl I had to pause the video at the ‘Recognize a pattern’ section to comment. You shared sooo many gems! 💎 God knows the desires of your heart, and so does the enemy. The enemy will bring distractions and counterfeits to your space in disguise of the real, God centered relationship that we know we desire. Discernment and faith in God is necessary 🙏🏾

  • @MrSa458
    @MrSa458 Рік тому +39

    Well, I'm just waiting on my God ordained spouse. I believe that I've met someone, but I heard God tell me that I should go to Texas. I think that I'll meet my wife in Texas
    So anyways, God bless you, sister Karloyne, and keep up the great work that you're doing for the ever growing family in Jesus' name ✝️🔥🕊🙏🏾

  • @stephyLynn7
    @stephyLynn7 Рік тому +26

    You encouraged me so much with this. You have no idea. I was feeling ashamed that I didn’t see the flags and was self condemning my choice. I broke up after almost 2 years and I’m proud of myself but feel like I wasted so much time… I don’t want to make that mistake again and I found your channel (though I don’t want to date anytime soon).
    I know it’s a learning situation and you made me not feel so bad about it but to be mindful. Thank you so much!❤

  • @crystalgrose
    @crystalgrose Рік тому +17

    This is so needed! Thank You Karolyne! God bless you ♥️

  • @serinabrown1681
    @serinabrown1681 Рік тому +22

    I Can Trust That It Will Be A Right Now Word From You 🙌🏾 Thank You For Your Obedience 🙏🏾

  • @danafowler6688
    @danafowler6688 Рік тому +10

    Amen and Amen!!!! Great breaking down of the Word of God!!! Ladies and Gentlemen of God please listen to our Sister has walked through and has been given clarity of the word of God!!!

  • @evieluna6318
    @evieluna6318 3 місяці тому +1

    Thank you Lord for leading me into this video. I needed to understand the differences between counterfeit and God sent relationships. As a 25 year old I don’t have time for distractions, negativity, or to play games. I’m glad I heard this video. Amen ❤️

  • @theebonyjbrand
    @theebonyjbrand Рік тому +9

    This was good. 👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾 My sentiments exactly. I’ve been trying to help other ladies not to settle or lower their standards because they’re tired of waiting.

  • @aliciasheffield-rw9em
    @aliciasheffield-rw9em Рік тому +9

    On time word! Lord help me to submit, surrender and take heed as you have revealed in this video. May God continue to use you as a vessel of wisdom.

  • @Godslilgirl00
    @Godslilgirl00 Рік тому +19

    LOVE THIS! SOOOOO NEEDED IN THE BODY OF CHRIST.❤

  • @heathergraham754
    @heathergraham754 Рік тому +6

    Thank you Karolyne for your wisdom!!!🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽🥰🥰

  • @victoriam3894
    @victoriam3894 Рік тому +10

    Thank you Lord for this video!! Confirmation!!

  • @ChristinaJune23
    @ChristinaJune23 Рік тому +4

    Very good video! I agree! Alot of believers but not walking their faith !

  • @leslieroldan4207
    @leslieroldan4207 Рік тому +9

    Thank you for helping me to put things into perspectives.

  • @minniepeete4659
    @minniepeete4659 Рік тому +4

    You are on point sister, keep teaching!!!

  • @mariehtzz9160
    @mariehtzz9160 10 місяців тому +1

    So clear and complete, I really loved this video, thank for your help !

  • @veronicastewart7875
    @veronicastewart7875 Рік тому +1

    God BLESS you for sharing this message, Karolyne. 😇🙏🏽

  • @tianamelton4901
    @tianamelton4901 11 місяців тому +1

    This was timely. Thank you for posting 🙏🏽

  • @Yahweh-Chase-Bella
    @Yahweh-Chase-Bella Рік тому +20

    I met a Godly woman not too long ago and thought it was going well but her ex from 3 years ago messaged her which brought some stuff up in her so we paused. I was hurt i thought i was content but boy was i wrong. He used it to show me some errors, pulled me even closer to him thank Jesus. When i was pretty low he put his spirit on me in a new level. I thought it was rejection but he told me She is going to be my Wife but not before there is some work done first. I wasnt prepared to fully Lead a family by walking in the spirit continually and i am sure he still has some amazing healing to finish in her. Praise God he cares enough to teach us some hard lessons. Iv focused on him since and putting my faith completely in Him. I could use prayer not to waiver on this and trust in him with the work hes doing in me. God Bless

    • @mawusinam1456
      @mawusinam1456 Рік тому +4

      Wow! I'm going through the exact same thing right now. True, the Lord is using this experience to work in us and teach us. He's even brought up some issues in me I didn't know I had to work on.
      Now, I thank Him this is happening, because I see how disastrous a marriage my partner and I would have had if we had moved forward without first working on these hidden issues.
      It will work together for your good, Chase. Trust Him. Jesus be glorified forever.

    • @Yahweh-Chase-Bella
      @Yahweh-Chase-Bella Рік тому +1

      @@mawusinam1456 Glad to hear he's used it to put some wisdom in you! And I pray he helps heal your heart because it still isn't easy in the time being. GOD bless

    • @jamesmoore830
      @jamesmoore830 Рік тому +3

      O YAH, Maker of the heavens and the earth; heaven is Your throne and the earth Your footstool. HalleluYah! How great are You? I ask that You open Your gates with thanksgiving and praise, as Your Word states, and lend an ear to my supplication. I pray for my brother here, Your son, and ask that's You give him the strength He needs to endure the burdens You have allowed him to have. Keep him abiding in You, Yahusha; for apart from You he can do nothing. But through You, he can do all things. Bless him O God, with the spirit of wisdom and the spirit of understanding. Let Your wisdom guide his every thoughts and search his heart O God, for You seek truth in the inward parts. HalleluYah! According to Your loving kindness Abba. Have mercy. Be upon him. In the blessed name of Yahusha Ha'Maschiach of Nazareth I pray. Amen!

    • @Yahweh-Chase-Bella
      @Yahweh-Chase-Bella Рік тому +4

      @@jamesmoore830 thank you friend it's means alot! I'm staying in his word and praying alot. Just want more of him revealed to me and that my heart will continue to grow in Christ

    • @jamesmoore830
      @jamesmoore830 Рік тому +3

      @@Yahweh-Chase-Bella HalleluYah!! Blessed are those who hunger and thirst for righteousness. For they shall be sated! Be encouraged brother. You got this! Not on your own. But because of Whom you serve. The Lion of Judah will see you through it because His Word says He is the author and finisher of your faith. The shepherd and bishop of your soul. Keep your head up!

  • @christianlubanda3008
    @christianlubanda3008 Рік тому +4

    Just what I needed to hear, God bless you 🙏🏾

  • @anyiaporter7599
    @anyiaporter7599 10 місяців тому +1

    Yess , you have definitely blessed me and opened my eyes all glory to God🙌🏾❤️

  • @ItsGabriellasTime
    @ItsGabriellasTime Рік тому +7

    Thank You God, and thank you for posting

  • @Bernice_usman
    @Bernice_usman Рік тому +1

    This video is a blessing. Thank you for availing yourself to God.

  • @vanessamiran4684
    @vanessamiran4684 Рік тому +2

    Coming across you for the very first time without searching then boom, just the word I needed!!🙌🙌🙌

  • @aliyahx2784
    @aliyahx2784 Рік тому +3

    thisssss!!! thanks this gave me strong clarity and also foresight thank you Lord he made it clear. amen.

  • @tiannaannenicole
    @tiannaannenicole Рік тому +1

    Thank you sharing! This was so helpful 🙏🏽❤️

  • @YeshuaKingofmyLife
    @YeshuaKingofmyLife 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you so much! I needed this more than I knew 🙏🏽🙏🏽🙏🏽💖💖💖 God is good, Amen

  • @aprilashley17
    @aprilashley17 11 місяців тому +1

    You are teaching good! This so helped me today! Thank you!!!

  • @ivyt2319
    @ivyt2319 11 місяців тому

    Thank you I appreciate the time you take to bring up these sensitive topics that many are afraid to bring up or feel like they should already know but in reality don't have a full understanding. You were clear, straight forward and easy to understand. And throughout it all what God wants for us compared to what He doesn't. Thank you God bless you

  • @LeboGrace
    @LeboGrace Рік тому

    Thank you so much. I needed the reminder. Love & blessings to you.

  • @itssleahh_
    @itssleahh_ 6 місяців тому +2

    God really spoke to me through this video. Thank you for this.

  • @mairenybreton9614
    @mairenybreton9614 Місяць тому

    Thanks for this message. It really helped me reflect on my patterns and what I did wrong in my past relationships.

  • @alexwebstar
    @alexwebstar 10 місяців тому +1

    Thank you sister Robert’s for the information God bless you!!

  • @debralitton4600
    @debralitton4600 Рік тому +8

    Actually this is really good but i will say sometimes God does send us people when we are not looking for someone but you just know and it does happen unexpectantly.

  • @edwardroseiii7498
    @edwardroseiii7498 Рік тому +1

    Amen!!!, .... Preach!!! Love this word. Thank You.

  • @vanessamiran4684
    @vanessamiran4684 Рік тому +1

    This message is perfect timing 🙌🙌🙌

  • @celiciabledsoe5157
    @celiciabledsoe5157 Рік тому +3

    This was a right on time message 😊

  • @masivuyenodali8622
    @masivuyenodali8622 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for this video - I learnt something useful while in waiting.

  • @marilynriggins3445
    @marilynriggins3445 Рік тому +4

    Again thank you Sister whooo I’m so glad that I listened to you again thank the Lord my Husband matches up with the word and what you have also established to be a Msn sent from God I can’t wait for him to return home because I miss having him praying with me you don’t know what you have until it not available but anyway this was so encouraging to know that the Lord has answered my prayers and is in our lives ❤see you at the next level thank you Again 🙏🏾

  • @drfelisakendall
    @drfelisakendall Рік тому +3

    Thank you for these wisdom keys.

  • @user-rn5hv5ks8c
    @user-rn5hv5ks8c 3 місяці тому +1

    Gal i needed to hear this,you just prophesied me thnks, i should've seen this message earlier

  • @markitalh25
    @markitalh25 Рік тому +4

    Great information! Thank you 😊

  • @fremponv
    @fremponv 11 місяців тому +1

    I needed to hear this!!🙌🏾🙌🏾

  • @chiomaobinna9878
    @chiomaobinna9878 Рік тому +1

    Wow.. nice to have you back... missed you for quite a while. Thankyou for this.

  • @lizcuero9065
    @lizcuero9065 Рік тому +5

    God is so good! He always makes it great.

  • @jacindahardy9282
    @jacindahardy9282 11 місяців тому

    I so love this message. God bless you! 🙌🏽🙏🏽

  • @tamikatoheaven
    @tamikatoheaven Рік тому

    Thank you for sharing 😊 I receive this word today with gladness in the mighty name of Yeshua’ Amen

  • @user-vu5br7sm6h
    @user-vu5br7sm6h Рік тому +4

    Thank you for this video It greatly helps me determine the qualities of a kingdom spouse🙂💙. All glory to God.🙏

  • @reginabowman7068
    @reginabowman7068 Рік тому +40

    This is my first time coming across your videos and this is just so on time for me.. I've really been struggling with leaving my son's father. This has given me alot of clarity... it's time to listen to what God's been telling me.

    • @cookiethomas8069
      @cookiethomas8069 Рік тому +2

      Go for it, luv!! I just left my relationship that wasn't for me about 3 months ago. And when I say it's been peaceful. I'm glowing and happier. God is good..

    • @robloxceeday1025
      @robloxceeday1025 Рік тому

      are yall married ?

  • @madeleinebruna9382
    @madeleinebruna9382 Рік тому +2

    Amen 🙏🏼 ❤thanks for sharing Sis be bless🙏🏼

  • @TheRealisticAngel
    @TheRealisticAngel Рік тому

    This is so Good! Thanks for sharing.

  • @tiasmith6223
    @tiasmith6223 Рік тому +10

    This is my current situation. Told him on the 1st date that I prayed for him. Sounds crazy but true

  • @StephanieHolt-nk8cs
    @StephanieHolt-nk8cs 3 місяці тому

    So glad i found you ..after my prayer time this morning..blessings and thank you ♡

  • @kekef3620
    @kekef3620 Рік тому +1

    The message I wished I heard earlier. But still right on time.

  • @thecalmwayhome8483
    @thecalmwayhome8483 10 місяців тому +1

    Great video. Thank you 🌷🌷🌷

  • @victorywakasa6287
    @victorywakasa6287 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video Karolyne❣️

  • @Shantastic_11
    @Shantastic_11 7 місяців тому

    I thank God for confirmation of my Godsent! You did a great job breaking it down girl!!

  • @trinamack1
    @trinamack1 Рік тому +3

    Jah Bless you and thank you for sharing.

  • @maryanneville4397
    @maryanneville4397 3 місяці тому

    Thanks for the heads up and encouragement❤

  • @red6hot1913
    @red6hot1913 Рік тому +6

    This blessed me. I'm not seriously dating anyone, but once I decide too I often wonder how will I know? This was a helpful template.

  • @lapriece3578
    @lapriece3578 2 місяці тому

    This video was really helpful thank you

  • @rubyking8237
    @rubyking8237 Рік тому +12

    I was with my bf for two years and one day we prayed together and I got sleep paralysis, I didn’t pray again with that person, I started having dreams of him cheating and it all came true. I know that he wasn’t the person for me

  • @msliltrinity
    @msliltrinity Рік тому +11

    Sister @Karolyne Roberts I’ve seen a handful of your other videos in the past and always thought you shared wise insights and were beautiful inside and out. This one was so timely that it just hit different. I’m going to pray on it, but I think you’ve brought me some clarity that I’ve been looking for. What you said about counterfeits who have similar characteristics to your God-sent spouse (who may be good people but are not your person) and relationships that become idols because you’ve been trying so hard to figure out if it’s the right person… those things resonated so much with me. I think I’ve been trying to ignore that someone and I have been unequally yoked. Thank you for this wise, humbling message. Your personal examples made it easier to understand. God bless you and all of your viewers. Praying we all seek God to be in alignment with His will. Happy Sunday all!

  • @AWomanCalledByGod
    @AWomanCalledByGod Рік тому

    This was a really good video and helped me put things into perspective. Thank you!

  • @mjbx33
    @mjbx33 Рік тому

    Thank you for this video! God bless you. 🙏🏾

  • @moniquejackson9450
    @moniquejackson9450 Рік тому +2

    Wow definitely needed this because I def struggled in this area

  • @florencechipeta3869
    @florencechipeta3869 Рік тому

    Thank you so much for this. It has opened my eyes

  • @aleshapeters
    @aleshapeters Рік тому +5

    I love this wisdom that was recommended to me. But I'm literally one of those ones that aspires to be the bridesmaid. And yup, I'm the single girlfriend in my circles, in my family & extended family. I love love for other people and hope everyone finds that special person if they want it (including sending good vibes to my soul family in the comment section). But it's not for me. After some life experiences, I find that I'm a better friend, cousin, auntie and supporter. When I see a friend or cousin gets engaged or walking down that aisle, I'm jumping up and down like it's me! If I ever change my mind I know what videos to re-watch. I won't comment all the time, but I love watching and learning from perspectives outside my own.

  • @Chanelboateng
    @Chanelboateng Рік тому

    Great video sis ❤

  • @uchman2640
    @uchman2640 Рік тому +2

    You were so much fucosed on self and never realised that you both can win togther in faith

  • @maryburgess2625
    @maryburgess2625 2 місяці тому

    Dang thank you !!!!!!!!! R is the one … wow so beautiful.. he leads me, prays for me, over me, loves his god, I seen the signs. I am waiting on him. Beautiful blessings sweet girl. Thank you