RUN BOUJEE ERRANDS WITH ME | Lydia Elise Millen

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 348

  • @SzazaM077
    @SzazaM077 3 місяці тому +182

    Absolutely Lydia!🙌😊 You are a "bundle" of interests and hobbies. I wouldn't (and possibly most of the people here) be here if you were only showing your handbags and designer clothes. For me, the beauty of your channel is in the variety of your interest and that includes gardening, your make up routine, you talking about your struggles with monthly cycle (yes! I can relate!), cooking healthy meals and recommending good books. Never try to fit in. You are doing great and definitely having a huge crowd of followers who are here twice a week to watch your vlogs.😊

    • @sharontisherman7619
      @sharontisherman7619 3 місяці тому +3

      Well said.❤

    • @PrettiteLife
      @PrettiteLife 3 місяці тому +8

      So glad there are ppl who truly enjoy such content. I love Lydia's channel many years now too. She inspired me to do mine even if it is tiny tiny.
      Year Niche videos do lot better (for small channels at least) but if you genuinely love vlogs, it is what it is

    • @lizavictoriasalt
      @lizavictoriasalt 3 місяці тому +1

      @@PrettiteLifemy channel is teeny and I love hearing about others liking different interests as I’m such a ping pong ball, I want to be vlogging everything I do when sometimes you feel you should stick to one thing to be discovered by watchers wanting to share it too 🤗

    • @karenreiter533
      @karenreiter533 3 місяці тому +1

      @@sharontisherman7619 absolutely , this is spot on for sure!

    • @sm7657
      @sm7657 3 місяці тому +2

      Thanks for sharing this - yeah that’s why she’s lively and fun to follow - and I am starting my channel soon and was worried if I’d have too many interests but I love this a “bundle of interests and hobbies” -

  • @darrylcelestemorales477
    @darrylcelestemorales477 3 місяці тому +25

    Lydia, to figure out at your young age that you don’t care to be part of a group if they don’t want you shows maturity decades beyond your years! I am nearing 50 and only recently finding my self love and appreciation within that nomad group! Well done you! ❤

  • @annamastronardi1575
    @annamastronardi1575 3 місяці тому +54

    Awww…Lumi guiding you home is so precious 🥹

    • @reem7710
      @reem7710 3 місяці тому +1

      The absolute best bit ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @ChrisetteMichelesWorld
    @ChrisetteMichelesWorld 3 місяці тому +6

    Your conversation on gardening and liking the nicer things really resonates with me. You’re voice has always been one that’s made me feel less freaked out by who I am and what I love. You’re a lovely voice and I’ve been watching for many years.

  • @kokocn
    @kokocn 3 місяці тому +54

    Saying this with love. May no one feel any less beautiful because they are not getting these treatments and procedures. If your nose has a bump you are still beautiful. TV and a world obsessed with aesthetics can really lower someone's self esteem by making you feel less when all those things are just superficial. To me true beauty lies in a person's heart and character. The rest is just a tent you inhabit. Which when you age will also age and get wrinkled and bumpy. Will you stop believing you are beautiful then? I personally don't plan to ❤️. Please do not let it be what defines how you view yourself dear Lydia and all the darlings gathered here ❤️❤️

    • @mariposa1933
      @mariposa1933 3 місяці тому +4

      Well said. ❤ Lots of a love from Cali. 🌴🌞

    • @kokocn
      @kokocn 3 місяці тому

      @@mariposa1933 🥰and to you too dear ❤

  • @silke70
    @silke70 3 місяці тому +18

    Don't worry, you're not the only one who doesn't really belong in any group because there's always something wrong. You are you and you're unique... Enjoy it, the older you get, the better it feels ❤️🙏🏻

  • @kylanhiggs7536
    @kylanhiggs7536 3 місяці тому +12

    I love love that you support Souster & Hicks, you're supporting a legacy while building your own. LOVE!

  • @debbiestott3651
    @debbiestott3651 3 місяці тому +15

    Food is medicine Lydia, you are doing so well. So many people are sick with all the nasty additives etc. Can't wait for the warmer weather and the gardening season to come into it's own.

  • @Natalia-to5gc
    @Natalia-to5gc 3 місяці тому +18

    I felt so connected with the things Lydia said in this video. I wish I could be part of a community like the one Lydia has built for herself, it is so beautiful!

  • @jjohnson6833
    @jjohnson6833 3 місяці тому +24

    I adore your new three piece suit! ❤❤❤ so stunning! And I don’t normally like trousers, but I do in that context… that outfit is so very chic! And the tailor seems like an absolute gentleman.

  • @ManifestByLaura
    @ManifestByLaura 3 місяці тому +2

    Same…I had spent my whole life trying to fit in and finally realized I was meant to stand out. Decided to embrace it and it’s wonderful. I love being different. I think that’s how trailblazers and game-changers are born. I continue to go deeper everyday and shed more layers of the onion. We are all meant to be multidimensional and unique. ❤

  • @tenwaystowearit
    @tenwaystowearit 3 місяці тому +28

    The conversation about fitting in spoke to my soul. I can relate 1,000%. Yessss! ♥️

  • @theresas8163
    @theresas8163 3 місяці тому +11

    Lumi waiting to guide you home in the end was just priceless 🥰

  • @CountingStars80
    @CountingStars80 3 місяці тому +4

    At first, when I recently discovered you my first impression: I didn’t like you very much.. now, the more that I get to know you, I have to say that I really like you Lydia! This goes to show how we can be so wrong when we don’t know someone or something and we tend to judge and give impressions that are totally unnecessary!
    You are a very beautiful person!

  • @EmmaCaitlain
    @EmmaCaitlain 3 місяці тому +5

    You are multi-passionate and that reflects in every area of life. I feel the same and really enjoy answering the pull from different interests. That’s why I love your vlogs so much! You do it all ❤

  • @rachelmaunder3347
    @rachelmaunder3347 3 місяці тому +3

    I love my aesthetic, it evolves in my oasis - home , to how I style for work and home , I love brain dumps , and I love being free not fitting in .
    I love gardening 🧑‍🌾 and love your aesthetic too ❤

  • @anonymous-uo7cb
    @anonymous-uo7cb 3 місяці тому +7

    I had a non-surgical nose job (not by this doctor) and mine dissolved in 3 months. Was in pain the whole time, headaches, nose hurt, and very lethargic. I'm envious yours has been great for so many years- I guess people's bodies are different!

  • @karenreiter533
    @karenreiter533 3 місяці тому +2

    We are all so unique and special in our own way. It’s the manner in which we synthesize our love our gardening, fashion, wellness, interior design, art, love of our pets, our friends and family and other interests that allows us to be so magnificent. And you, Mrs Millen Gordon, are one of a kind…..beautiful in every way. 💕💕

  • @AndreaTerdott
    @AndreaTerdott 3 місяці тому +2

    I absolutely agree this community was much needed !

  • @emilylesleymiller
    @emilylesleymiller 3 місяці тому +2

    Lydia, I love the variety you give us with your content. You give us the best of both worlds - treating yourself and enjoying luxury as well as staying grounded and connected to nature. Social media can make us think that we need to fit into one aesthetic, but the truth is we are all multi-faceted beings! 🧡

  • @mur52691
    @mur52691 2 місяці тому

    This is why I watch you Lydia! I feel the same way in my own life. I find myself sharing interest in so many group but not fitting into those groups entirely. Your spirit and energy resonate so much with me too! It’s refreshing to know I’m not alone in that feeling!

  • @rachaelwaring9991
    @rachaelwaring9991 3 місяці тому +4

    Totally agree Lydia, defining ourselves can be unhelpful sometimes but also sometimes it’s nice to find your people…. I’m a luxury lawyer, a yoga teacher, a home herbalist, a forager, a dog mama, a fashion lover, a gardener etc etc etc 😂 it’s good to have all of these interests and passions and facets to who we are…. I find that I have friends who bring out different parts of my nature they all live my entirety but we might just connect more strongly on certain parts of ourselves and that’s amazing ❤❤❤

    • @cooky75015
      @cooky75015 2 місяці тому +1

      Beautifully said 💕💕💕 - couldn't agree more. Fellow Lawyer here (Corporate and Projects), plants lover, dog mama, decor obsessed, singer, God believer... and the list goes on. Sharing different things with different friends and closed ones... that's the beauty of life. Have a lovely day

  • @user-op8yd3zi7s
    @user-op8yd3zi7s 3 місяці тому +5

    It's a blessing to know who you are and your positivity shines through😊❤

  • @alisonsneed3707
    @alisonsneed3707 3 місяці тому +8

    Thank you so much Lydia for saying the words “I am a feminist”. So many misguided young women think it’s a nasty word. They have no understanding of how simple the definition is. We just want to be equally free to live our lives. We worked long and hard for what we have, what we want to pass on to the next gens ..and it can be taken away.

  • @alexrodriguez5370
    @alexrodriguez5370 3 місяці тому +6

    Boujee errand videos are my FAVE!!!! Continued success and many thx!!!

  • @alexnewall8864
    @alexnewall8864 3 місяці тому +6

    Lydia your vlogs make my heart sing ,since lockdown your vlogs became my comfort blanket and whereas before lockdown they were very event heavy and like the other high end vloggers which I now get very bored of yours took a new route and I love them 😊xxx

  • @tenwaystowearit
    @tenwaystowearit 3 місяці тому +14

    The doctor is so dreamy… 😍🥰😍

    • @valentinalopatina8229
      @valentinalopatina8229 3 місяці тому +2

      Haha thought so too, let’s go visit 🥰

    • @livhammy
      @livhammy 3 місяці тому

      Yassss!!! 🥰😘😘😘❤️

  • @janaculbreth007
    @janaculbreth007 3 місяці тому +5

    Life is not about fitting in~ it’s about living and doing what brings you Joy! If we do most things only to fit in that means we are only doing it to find acceptance from others and who needs that!!!!! Not us!!! Love your vlogs and I love Carrie!!! I have so missed seeing her!! Thank you for long videos! It makes doing laundry almost enjoyable lol! ❤

  • @jtsbbsps8000
    @jtsbbsps8000 3 місяці тому +2

    the summer 3 piece is so so stunning!!! I love that style on you!

  • @dianenetherton456
    @dianenetherton456 3 місяці тому +3

    I love your videos. They inspire me. I was always trying to fit in and never felt like I did. But not I’m at the point where I’m comfortable being me. Not that I don’t find myself slipping in to old patterns. I slap myself in to reality.

    • @melissaomalia9870
      @melissaomalia9870 3 місяці тому

      To be fair, I feel like if they were comfortable being themselves, they would not have so many treatments

  • @Stella-rf9ll
    @Stella-rf9ll 3 місяці тому +29

    Love you Lydia. Am going through a rough time at the moment, and you really are my escape from reality 😢❤ Am on your channel 24/7 at the mo lol. Thank you for 'being there' in a weird way! ❤❤😂

    • @latteslettersandlife
      @latteslettersandlife 3 місяці тому +6

      Whatever you are going through, it will pass. Just keep going and you‘ll find the light at the end of the tunnel ❤️

    • @rexysmum
      @rexysmum 3 місяці тому +1

      Sending hugs 🤗 🌸

    • @Stella-rf9ll
      @Stella-rf9ll 3 місяці тому +5

      @@latteslettersandlife That's such a kind thing to say. I hope you are right. Thank you xx

    • @Stella-rf9ll
      @Stella-rf9ll 3 місяці тому +1

      @@rexysmum 🩷💜🩷

    • @DecadenzaMelodica
      @DecadenzaMelodica 3 місяці тому +3

      I’m also sending you hugs ❤ The sun always finds a way to shine on us even through the darkest clouds. 🌸

  • @milcatiwari
    @milcatiwari 3 місяці тому +3

    Welcome to the world of sickness free time of the month. We have definitely been trained to think the time of the month systems are normal. But those symptoms are not. This time should not disrupt your life. I myself have gone through my own journey to balance my hormones in a holistic way 3 years ago. It’s amazing how our body’s adapt quickly when you nourish it. It’s a process but gets better and better. I can honestly say that being in tune with my body and nourishing it, has changed everything about that time of the month for me. I no longer dread it 🎉

  • @Rise.of.Artemis
    @Rise.of.Artemis 2 місяці тому

    Lydia, I’ve been an avid fan of yours since 2017. I love how open minded you are. I actually dabble in tarot, and use acupuncture as well. I love how into nature you are, and that you’re not just a cookie cutter fashion influencer. You’re the only UA-camr I’ve been watching loyally and consistently. Please keep doing you because you’re amazing.

  • @Lifewiththelassletts
    @Lifewiththelassletts 3 місяці тому +10

    I always wanted to fit in it took me till I was 38 to realise that I didn’t actually want to fit in and I was happy just being me ❤ I’m so glad you said this xx

  • @bethanysharingtropic
    @bethanysharingtropic 3 місяці тому +5

    Loved the chat about fitting it, love handbags and gardening! Yes ❤ missing gardening this spring as heavily pregnant xx

  • @bymiahs
    @bymiahs 3 місяці тому +2

    Gardening is the best thing for relaxing and at the same time it´s like gym to me (our garden needs lots of fysical effort at this point). It´s so lovely to have food on your own garden 😍I love your plans for your garden and can´t wait to see the natural flower field.

  • @msdchik9008
    @msdchik9008 3 місяці тому +3

    You know what I realised? I’m a woman who has many interests. I love experiencing various spectrums of life. So I don’t like being put into 1 category. I’m a person who is on this journey of life to LIVE and living involves trying everything and doing as much as I want. And unfortunately, many people can’t relate to me.

  • @rachpeterson6796
    @rachpeterson6796 3 місяці тому

    Your Dad and Daughter day you will both treasure, Love that. Your outfits look beautiful, gorgeous tailoring Lydia nice choices. And Lumi is just precious taking you and Carrie home, clever kitty!

  • @angelamoreno5914
    @angelamoreno5914 3 місяці тому +7

    Lydia your taste in clothing is impeccable. Your three piece suit is stunning! Love every ensemble you have worn.

  • @Pianistforlife
    @Pianistforlife 3 місяці тому +1

    Always lovely and considered content Lydia. Your music choices are particularly what draws me to your channel. It’s always on point.

  • @newfoundland3030
    @newfoundland3030 3 місяці тому +2

    Lydia, what stunning tailored suits! They're so divine. You HAVE to get the orange fabric for the height of summer. I remember you had this stunning orange outfit (pants and top) that you wore down south; it was so beautiful on you.

  • @CaseyWiggin
    @CaseyWiggin 3 місяці тому +2

    Your conversation about fitting in really resonated with me. Awwww Lumi

  • @nicolem4766
    @nicolem4766 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Lydia, still watching, and had to pause to comment about fitting in. You are right, you don't have to fit in. I believe its about CONNECTION. When you connect nothing else really matters. The 'fitting in' is what keeps us separated, and we miss out on wonderful people and opportunities.
    Unfortunately, Everybody is not for Every Body. So find the Right Somebody that can Embody You!

  • @KateriRansom
    @KateriRansom 3 місяці тому

    I think people who find themselves in the position you're in (I'm similar with my love of fashion, nature, and books too!) means that you are well and truly being yourself! So cheers to that!!

  • @morganeTus
    @morganeTus 3 місяці тому +2

    I love it so much when you show us Lumi, she is so beautifull !

  • @oliviaday5805
    @oliviaday5805 3 місяці тому

    Oh my gosh this totally resonates with me as I have been thinking the same thing…the fitting in - being into gardening/home produce/preserving but still wanting to have quality clothing and beautiful loveliness - it’s so hard to be your own thing. But maybe there is more of us!🎉

  • @selinabrown4896
    @selinabrown4896 3 місяці тому +4

    Lovely to see you Carrie, I've not seen you in a while. Such fun to see girls have fun

    • @mfes14
      @mfes14 3 місяці тому

      Carrie did it hurt ?

  • @Sarasstorytime22
    @Sarasstorytime22 3 місяці тому +4

    I appreciate the many different sides of you. I think that is what makes you special. I am glad you do not try to fit in to a certain space that would make you compromise the whole of you.

  • @KateKolo-rq4bx
    @KateKolo-rq4bx 3 місяці тому +8

    What a start of the day!

  • @sprinklemagiconenglish504
    @sprinklemagiconenglish504 3 місяці тому +1

    I simply love it when you talk to us about what you think, because some of us feel the same

  • @fifiGkersh9589
    @fifiGkersh9589 3 місяці тому +2

    Just watched your moving house vlog and your house decor style and dress style has changed so much and definitely suits you more now ❤

  • @AD-wg3cg
    @AD-wg3cg 2 місяці тому +1

    Fit in in what? A drawer that is difficult to get out of again?
    Please do not overthink and just keep going your individual path - always trying and challenging to be the best version of yourself.
    That is very inspiring!
    Thank you for all your great work 👏🌷

  • @simonevanseumeren8563
    @simonevanseumeren8563 3 місяці тому +1

    That suit looks gorgeous 😍 but ma’am I’ve seen the sneak peak of you’re Karen Millen collection today on your stories and I CAN’T WAIT for it to launch! 😍

  • @EmilyBltz
    @EmilyBltz 3 місяці тому +1

    That suit was stunning ! Loved it with the jacket off! Just gorgeous! That orange would be amazing on you ! This was so much fun running errands with you ! 😊❤

  • @user-oy4gj2cw6f
    @user-oy4gj2cw6f 3 місяці тому +1

    My headaches went away when I had a child at 40 years old . A journey. Love woo woo

  • @archiediggins641
    @archiediggins641 3 місяці тому +1

    Oh I loved this vlog! I loved it even more as there wasn't a Monday one which I really really missed. I love the wine crawls they are fab!

  • @ORMORPHIA
    @ORMORPHIA 3 місяці тому +1

    Hi Lydia, the light coloured three piece suit is gorgeous! 😍 Stunning workmanship by this atelier.

  • @MickiB0610
    @MickiB0610 3 місяці тому +1

    Lydia, I work very hard helping my husband managing his medical practice, I love making my home cozy, I love tending to my pool and patio and planting flowers, I love being a mom to adult boys and their wives, but I also love a nice bag. I love making myself look and be the best I can. So I love your content. As women we can be many different things. Why limit ourselves to one small niche?

  • @DebraFrazier-sj6bq
    @DebraFrazier-sj6bq 3 місяці тому +2

    The 'not fitting in' thing is very relatable. Turns out I am just ADHD. I think its a common feeling to not fit in. Im a very late diagnosis, and it's been a relief actually to understand what I use to think was not fitting in or having uncommon hobbies or ways of communicating were very much classic ADHD. Of course, it took a bit of time to come to terms with it because there's some stigma around it, but I feel very at peace with it now. I actually embrace it now and don't get hard on myself when there's a bit of struggle to fit into an environment anymore.

  • @IsobelCeline
    @IsobelCeline 2 місяці тому

    Couldn’t agree more with the gardening and fashion being a thing together. We aren’t here to fit in 👏🏻👏🏻 we have always been made to stand out 🫶🏻🌿

  • @missybelmont9830
    @missybelmont9830 3 місяці тому +4

    Gorgeous in everything you put on Lydia! I adore you bespoke fittings appointments!! Living in Florida we don't get to wear wool but definitely linen..I loved your 3 piece spring summer new outfit, heavenly!!!! Just keep doing You and don't concern yourself with other influencers. You are a natural born leader Not a follower anyway. You're nice to everyone and that's all that matters when at work functions. We love you for All your many talents and interests!!❤❤❤❤❤Happy Birthday Season too, Lydia!!!!

  • @lorihawk358
    @lorihawk358 3 місяці тому

    Love the dark, dramatic bronze color in bathroom! Will be stunning against the tile

  • @caroldanderson6781
    @caroldanderson6781 3 місяці тому +2

    I love it! I totally relate with being in your own world of loving the widest variety of things. It's why I have a large selection of different friends who enjoy very different things. This gives me different people to do the things I love with, across this diverse group. If that all makes sense. 😊

  • @toniacoward3319
    @toniacoward3319 3 місяці тому +6

    such an interesting conversation, It's my view in my life that we can relate to and enjoy lots of different friendships and love the individuals for who they are. They aren't a carbon copy of us but we have things in common and like their company. They also may not like or get on with each other but its fine to have a few circles of friends, this gives us a full spectrum of fun where we enjoy and learn from each other. The biggest thing I believe is that it should never be hard work and good people in your life should be the same if you see them a little or a lot. The major struggle I have is to make sure I am a good friend when needed, its sometimes a struggle with our busy lives?

  • @EPpMac
    @EPpMac 3 місяці тому +2

    There are many of us that fit in to our own niche- I think you are becoming aware that there are many more niche’s than what you were aware of when you were younger- not fitting in has always been a thing - welcome to those of us that can’t be categorized💖

  • @sholly1741
    @sholly1741 3 місяці тому +1

    The “word vomit” around 24 mins resonates with me on every level hahah spot on Lydia!!!!

  • @lyndamarland9405
    @lyndamarland9405 3 місяці тому +2

    Hi Lydia 🤗 absolutely be you! Never feel you need to fit in run with the wind not the pack! Your inner strength shines through and this is why I watch/follow you because you’re interesting!…….your trouser suit is beautiful love the trousers! What a cut! ….,,glad the boys are much better now always so upsetting and worrying! I know. Xx 😘

  • @theresapaige678
    @theresapaige678 3 місяці тому +1

    Amen sista!!!! 🎉🙌🥰 you do you and own it!! We love you!!

  • @triciaoquinn9238
    @triciaoquinn9238 3 місяці тому +2

    Lydia, I love watching your videos! Everything about your videos are Awesome!

  • @kaitlyngall9099
    @kaitlyngall9099 3 місяці тому

    You look stunning always, but that silk and linen suit is PERFECTION!!! Absolutely love that look on you!

  • @rachpeterson6796
    @rachpeterson6796 3 місяці тому

    Hi Lydia,
    I am totally with you with many of your topics on this vlog. I went thru the same and would say endometriosis was one of the hardest things on me, even tho I was never diagnosed. Ever since my "change" as they used to call it happened at age 13, I had horendous periods. And I never knew there was a actual medical condition for it. I only learned about that as a much older adult and even that it could affect having to make decisions regarding having children. Its not something that has ever been taught or discussed I guess so I feel that us women kinda have to learn about from our friends etc. I suffered thru so much period pain and heavy periods and just stuck it out. I also when in my 20s got engaged and when we were trying to have kids and couldnt I of course blamed myself. That relationship ended but it wasnt solely coz of that. I always thought, I couldnt have kids. And was told so. But several years later when I was 30 I gave birth to my daughter. Its the old story isnt it, everything is scary until it happens, ya just dont know..until it happens. Just let life happen coz its got you this far hey. I guess I'm trying to say "Breathe, guide yourself, and: You know where you're going now and you and Ali will be alright on your path".

  • @MsDolly786
    @MsDolly786 3 місяці тому +3

    I first discovered Ayad through your channel. 7 years later and 3 non surgical rhinoplasty procedures later, I will always be so thankful to you for introducing him to us all. I no longer have any insecurities about my nose, and as someone who would be way too nervous to get actual surgery, this has totally changed my life. So thank you 🙏🏽

  • @afloridagalabroad
    @afloridagalabroad 3 місяці тому +1

    I loved your brain dump about interests and fitting in and I'm at that point right now where I've spent half my time in the north of England and London, and I feel so split between both worlds. I love the freedom of my life in the countryside and I'm finding it more and more difficult to strictly be in the "things to do in London." I feel people, companies, etc, don't quite know where to place me because I'm everywhere and I do everything. I don't know. I'll find my way though, I feel it.

  • @lindatennant2688
    @lindatennant2688 3 місяці тому +10

    Is Botox not toxic for hormonal health ?

  • @jennifercasavant-yealy900
    @jennifercasavant-yealy900 3 місяці тому +1

    I love the diversity ❤ and subject matter ~ you are a real person living her own life! I enjoy your content 😊

  • @figueirafabi
    @figueirafabi 3 місяці тому +2

    Lydia, your space is so special… you did without trying what others try so hard to do on this platform which is being authentic… I’m far from being like you in terms of having the professional success you have, the wealth, the relationship or even the taste! But you inspire me and I truly want to be like you because you combine all things I love like beautiful expensive things but also beautiful cheap things and handmade stuff, small business stuff, gardening and a mild homesteading vibe (😂) while being very chic but also funny and goofy… I mean, I love your content because I relate so much… I have a personal slogan (😂) which is “I’m not a single thing” (sounds better in Portuguese, but ok!) because I like a lot of different things, have a lot of different interest and my mind changes a lot because I allow for all these new things to come in… and I totally feel your the same! Do you hate when people start those games of “do you prefer the beach or the countryside?” Cause I do!!! 😂 why tha hell do I have to choose?! Oh well… you’re not alone and I’m sure many other people out there feel the same and love your content as much as I do 🥰

  • @akc2128
    @akc2128 3 місяці тому +2

    Loved this vlog so much, natural and relaxing. And the beautiful scenic wine walks, so gorgeous! I’d love to do this walk through the country later in the year and experience these beautiful areas, can you list the pubs you walk to please?

  • @brandontodd3799
    @brandontodd3799 3 місяці тому +2

    I call that being a Town and country girl.. you live in the country but you're totally okay going to the big city and indulging and what that has to offer.. it's nice that you have the ability to custom make your life.. you're in your niche ❤️ here in America we actually have a magazine called Town & country. And it is so you

  • @hannah50353
    @hannah50353 3 місяці тому +2

    What a dream Suster and Hicks outfit ❤ “woven in Huddersfield” My Nanna from Yorkshire, worked in one of the sewing factories in Huddersfield and surrounds.

  • @Havehopeagain
    @Havehopeagain 3 місяці тому +1

    I was terrified of flying and I downloaded your video to get me through !! Thank you !! I feel you are a lovely person . I’m from Sonoma Ca

  • @sharonevans6261
    @sharonevans6261 3 місяці тому +1

    I appreciate your videos so much❤. I love this niche 😊 You have your opinions and observations which come from a place of humility and growth.

  • @carinapowney7512
    @carinapowney7512 3 місяці тому +2

    Thank you for normalising nose work etc, fantastic

  • @judithmelvin7392
    @judithmelvin7392 3 місяці тому +2

    100%! I've never wanted to "fit" in. I'm me and if you can't accept who I am then you are not necessary for my growth. I'll never lose who I am to please others, and I've dealt with some real mean girl cliques here in the US and believe me I broke them before they could break me or anyone else.

  • @callan02ish
    @callan02ish 2 місяці тому

    I love that you do all the things!

  • @pineconesacorns3118
    @pineconesacorns3118 3 місяці тому +1

    Lydia, I think that most people including myself have a diverse life. No one is one dimensional. That said, blogging and social media wants you to niche down to one thing, you are a lifestyle blogger and that encompasses gardening, home, fashion, food, etc, all elements of your life. Stay true to you and let the people who want to be focused on their niche do that.

  • @harrietgrace14
    @harrietgrace14 3 місяці тому +1

    The start made me laugh, we have a basset hound and he does such similar things. Hounds definitely have a mind of their own!! ❤

  • @luckylindysoverfifty
    @luckylindysoverfifty 3 місяці тому +1

    Wow just wow your suit! You are beautiful. Don’t change we love all of your content. Thank you for sharing!

  • @tracyambler1058
    @tracyambler1058 3 місяці тому

    Beautiful three piece suit. My mum was a tayloress n appreciated a good cut and clean line

  • @peytonhutchison9335
    @peytonhutchison9335 3 місяці тому +3

    Lydia the suit is gorgeous!

  • @margotsausagedog
    @margotsausagedog 3 місяці тому +1

    I love the quote: "getting back to the soil". I think when it comes to nature we should not forget the brutality of it too. I know you wrote your book on the wonder and beauty but i dont think we appreciate that context without the brutality of nature too. I bring it up because I think there is maybe more to explore here. Humans, insects, animals we can be kind and soft, we can be determined and we can be deadly. For some it has to be instinct and survival and for others, i think mainly mammals, it can be a choice. The spiders in your green house that you are scared of....what's their function there, what are the compelled to do by nature, what are they keeping safe to do or keeping safe from.

  • @traderm00n
    @traderm00n 3 місяці тому

    The suit 😍 looks amazing on you!

  • @karenmizrahi794
    @karenmizrahi794 3 місяці тому

    Wow …… exactly my thoughts!!!
    I also feel at times that I have in me a lot from those two communities you’ve mentioned.
    But recently I’ve realised that it is perfectly fine ;))) enjoy your experiences ❤

  • @Thisismeeeeee
    @Thisismeeeeee 3 місяці тому

    I felt this one. I like nice things in my life, I have a few nice bags I purchased secind hand and use in special occasions (my dream is a blush pink mini lady dior, i never see it happening though 😅) however I am not afraid to get my hands dirty. I recently changed the oil in my car, I like to sand and paint old furniture ect I am also drawn to tarot, and I have purchased a few decks and enjoying the journey. I enjoyed this, thank you 😊

  • @Neverknewitall
    @Neverknewitall 3 місяці тому

    Whatever space you are residing in, I am in the same space! I never feel like I fit in with any camp nor do I want to. I appreciate not being defined by one single thing, but it is difficult to overcome stereotypes.

  • @meme_bonbon9717
    @meme_bonbon9717 3 місяці тому +1

    I absolutely love this video ❤

  • @lifeoverdose
    @lifeoverdose 3 місяці тому +1

    For me with a syringe phobia, it's so crazy how relaxed you are sitting there. I could never

  • @LifeLessonsFromBooks
    @LifeLessonsFromBooks 3 місяці тому

    I spent my entire life thinking about how I fit in with others and why I seemed to never do. I felt at odds with everything but I also felt that I didn’t want to follow trends or crowds or cliques. It took many years of thinking deeply and coming to an acceptance of self. What also was an eye opener for me was understanding MBTI and finding my type as INFJ which then all jigsaw pieces fell into place with how I related to people. Many say it’s not evidence based but nevertheless it helped me to understand myself a lot more.

  • @sunshinegalkw9675
    @sunshinegalkw9675 2 місяці тому

    Love the suite so far

  • @livinginthealgarveportugal3357
    @livinginthealgarveportugal3357 3 місяці тому

    Lovely Vlog Lydia ….we are getting a sandstorm 🌪️ here in the Algarve this weekend and mud rain ☔️ I will envy your normal rain 😹 love from Portugal 🇵🇹

  • @teresahalliday3680
    @teresahalliday3680 3 місяці тому +2

    One of the best quotes..."I refuse to join any club that would have me..." - Groucho Marx