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I so relate what you said about Middle Eastern culture and help with kids. In Albanian culture it’s sooo normal to grow up with your grandparents and our tradition is literally that when a woman gives birth, her mum comes to stay with her for a minimum of 40 days to help with the baby and recovery, and that’s the minimum. It’s so crazy that women are shamed for getting help. It takes a village!!! You’re doing great.
Same in Armenian
Same for Bosnians
Same for Ukrainians🙌🏼
And that should be the standard! I know in some countries like Germany a nurse is sent to the home of a post partum mother multiple times to make sure she’s okay. A lot of people forget that the mother went through a lot physically & emotionally. Same with the partner. They need someone to take care of them so they can take care of their babies
Same with South African black women
I like when your answers are elaborate, when you "go off on a tangent." You always make good points on topics that might not be spoken about enough and that maybe make people consider things differently. Don't hold back on having and sharing your voice. The world needs people like you. ❤
Yess!! I love u for this naz. And ur also sooo well spoken. U make everything make sense and easy to understand when u are "going off on a tangent" or just in general! I would love to hear more opinions/advice you have on any topics ❤️
You’re just blessed to have parents that are so hands on and are there to help with your babies and be grandparents. I will be the same with my grandchildren. Don’t let any negativity get to you.
this is why you’re my favorite youtuber. you say things like “actually i’m not going to lie and put that out there.” You dont tell us always what we feel programmed to hear. You keep it real and make us feel better to hear that no one is perfect and we all have faults in every situation possible
People will always have something to say whether it’s your age, weight, being married young, or having kids. Whatever is right for YOU is all that matters. The fact you have your family there and always willing to help is such a blessing and those people who make comments about it are just mad they don’t have it PERIOD. Keep doing you girl at your age it’s so beautiful to see how accomplished and where you are in life with your hubby and kids ❣️
“I’m so tired of women apologizing for no reason” THAT PARTTTTTTT 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
I’ve been seeing that lately and damn I didn’t realize how much women apologize to make others feel comfortable, but fuck that! No more
One of my fav things about Naz is how understanding she is when it comes to generational differences! Most people our age these days are very impatient with their parents because of how different we are from them but it’s important to keep in mind they grew up completely different compared to us and I love how she respects that 💕
Wow I'm 30 minutes in and I can't tell you how much I missed these types of videos from you😍 it's like having a deep talk with an old friend and catching up
Jesus loves you he died on the cross for your sins. Believe in him and you will be saved and go to heaven!
I loved your honesty regarding not having a connection with Von right away. People don’t usually share this but i’m sure it happens to a lot of people
100% happened to me with my 2 older babies it took me about a couple weeks to get that "feeling" with my babies😅 my husband noticed but NEVER made me feel guilty about it💜
@@jazzy679 which is totally okay 💜 you have an amazing supportive husband & i’m 100% sure you’re an amazing mom and wife 💜💜
@@pmm4091 😭 sweetest words..thank you so much and may God bless you and your family with so much more🙌💜
@@jazzy679 thanks love 😭😭 and you as well 💜💜💜
Yes! I had my son and I told everyone I felt like a Sim for the first few weeks. Literally just feeding, changing, and putting him to sleep. It was hard for me but now it’s nice that he has own little personality and shows affection ❤️
Mel is such a good person and husband there’s so many toxic men who don’t even allow you to see family or friends without him and it’s so toxic. I hope woman stop dealing with men who make them walk on eggshells
Why you shold be with that kind of man???Just leave them,it's your life, you decide what and who you want for you.
you are so right... i used to be married with a very controlling and manipulative man. but we separated a month ago💔i just couldn't take the emotional abuse anymore i just felt miserable everyday
There's also sooo many WOMEN like you who are just as toxic for think there are more toxic men than good
I refuse to have baby #2 without my mom being able to move in with us for a couple of months! She couldn’t bc of covid with my daughter. It’s a blessing to have that support and should honestly be normalized. New moms NEED it ❤️
Awe I’m happy to see you on nazanin’s channel! Didn’t realize it was you Jen☺️ until I read who wrote the comment
Naz you don’t even know how much your views and your approach to motherhood saved my life. I found out I was pregnant in November and saw nothing but negativity surrounding motherhood online. So many women bitching and complaining and having this nagging negative attitude towards motherhood. It depressed me my whole first trimester. I was looking desperately for someone to truly radiate positivity and love for motherhood. And I’m so glad I started watching your mommy Vlogs because they literally saved mine and my child’s life. You radiate so much love for your child and for motherhood and you truly see that you genuinely love being a mother and I could not find that anywhere. Any time I felt depressed I just put your mom vlogs on and they truly help begin to change my views and perspective about my pregnancy. I also love that you are not ashamed to say that you use your support systems. I also plan to use my parents and in-laws as a strong support systems and I see one of the main reasons why all these mothers are so miserable is because they refuse to use their support systems or they simply don’t have them. But even if they do have them it’s like they’re just not allowed to use them and I don’t understand where that mentality came from. But it’s definitely causing all these women to just hate being a mother because they don’t get any help and they do everything by themselves and they’re all complaining and nagging about it and spewing all this negativity into the world because they refuse to use have any help. It’s definitely an American thing because almost everyone else around the world knows it takes a village to raise a child. America is also having the lowest birth rates in the world right now because of this idea of motherhood being unbearable and this whole “you can’t use any help” mentally is a huge contributor to that. Thank you for all you do and spreading you love and light 💕
Mothers are the strongest people in the world, and the fact that you’re thinking this much about it shows how incredible of a mother you will be. Do what works best for you & ignore the negativity as best you can. Sending the best vibes your way!
@@sillyghost98 thank you so much! Sending love your way as well 🙏
Agreed!
You go girl! You're going to make a great mother believe that!
Totally agree with this! Our first is turning one and I was hearing so much when I was pregnant and early postpartum about “just surviving” the first year and everything is so hard and awful, but honestly the first year has been 95% wonderful! Definitely hard moments but much much more joy. You’re going to do great!
Thank you for bringing up the fact that not all mom's feel an instant connection to your baby. Sometimes it take a little bit considering your body just went through much and you're sleep deprived and you feel insecure. I love how honest and raw you are 💝
When we moved into our home, my dad added an extension to the house for his office but had to get approved by the city to do so. You guys should look into that!
Yes girl! So many relationships people don’t even realize how much better it could be because of what they’re so used to. And it’s insane when you do find someone you trust and trust you. It totally makes allll the difference for sure!
Girl thank you so much for being a mom who talks about needing help being okay!!! Too many people judge and think you should be able to do it all. Thank you for being real!
It’s really nice how the first approach to their birth control is for Mel, too many woman are forced to take birth control and go through hormonal imbalances when in all reality it takes two to make a baby. The man should most definitely share responsibility and and naz and mel are a great example of that.
you’re such an inspiration naz, seriously. I hope in 10 years when I plan to have babies I’m a good mom like you 🤍
Aww thank you🥺
Yessss having freedom in your marriage is the keyyyy! My husband and I are the same way. I couldn’t imagine being with someone who I couldn’t tell any and everything too or who stops me from doing the things I want to do (like hang out with friends, traveling, etc). Life is awesome with your best friend ♥️
Regardless of any one’s situation it takes a village to raise children.. from teachers, to doctors, to aunts/uncles, grandparents, friends, day care workers. So I 100% agree with you about us moms having help ❤️
when it gets closer to your due date, we NEED to here the baby names you love but aren’t picking, especially for your baby girl!!
Yessss
The older my son gets and more time I spend with him the more I love him. My love for him is always growing
Y’all hating over Naz getting help? 😂 y’all are some miserable people. It’s a huge blessing to have help with children and just because you don’t have the same opportunity, doesn’t mean you can rain on somebody’s parade. 😂 Being “grown” or “independent” or even a mom doesn’t mean you’re not allowed ask for help. Kavon is flourishing! Take that negative energy somewhere 🤢
I think it’s different for young women who get pregnant “unexpectedly” and then can’t assume responsibility for their kids and rely on their parents to raise their kids.
Your case is completely different. It’s not because you’re unprepared. So why not accept the help from your parents . I’m sure your parents love being grandparents. It’s a luxury , but that’s not your fault for having awesome parents lol. And twins is going to be rough, so I think it’s wonderful you’re going to have your parents to lean on. It’s going to help with your sanity , and make everyone happier. Haters gonna hate . Lol
Girl my mom tells me my emotional pisces ass use to do the same thing that Kavon does at the playground! Always tell him to embrace it. As much as i use to hate the extra love/care i gave it truly became the most appreciated and my best quality! Vonny will learn from you guys when its okay to be vulnerable and caring, he's so sweet and he will always be the big brother/oldest son taking extra good care of everyone around him! Love youuu girl and congratulations, you are an amazing mother!
-KavariKrew since the beginninggg
My grandma and grandpa helped raised me when my Dad needed help!! That’s what family does♥️😇
Girl in other countries, family members go for a month long to help out and make sure they have support to help the mother, because they know how tough it is on mother's. Having help should not be frowned upon if you have it great! Once again Congratulations Naz!
As a Pacific Islander, it is totally normal for grandparents to come & help like they’ve done it for years since ancestors lol so idk why others think it’s so weird. Shoot I was blessed enough my parents wanted to help, even thou I didn’t want them to but they did anyway u know. I love everything you said thru this video! Keep doin you Naz, y’all are doing great!! 🙏🏽
Love your response to the last question. Diversity is so important when raising children. You seem like a sweet girl and can’t wait to follow your journey.
Back home, the whole family helps raise a child . The mother and father need a break sometimes, and so relying on extended family is completely normal.
right when I was searching for a video to watch as I’m about to cook 😭 notification gang 💖
Im sooo happy u are happy! I am hoping I also fall pregnant, lost twins last year via ivf and had a further 2 ivf fails. Life is so hard but Im still hopeful and love watching happy, positive videos. Thank u for getting me through this Naz and Mel xx
It is so wonderful to have support. A lot of people do not and I feel like that’s why they don’t understand how beneficial it is for your whole family to be together and support each other not just for children but for life!
First, I just want to say that I love your chit chats because I truly feel like I’m sitting there conversing with you 😭 I literally welcome your tangents! In reference to your expansion question, my parents added a room into their apartment because the living room was massive. It was super affordable and such a good idea because there was so much space to fill. You literally can’t tell that it was even an extended living room before. I say definitely go for it! It’s such a good investment, especially if you love your neighborhood! :)
I really appreciate you talking about the parenting between your parents and Mel’s parents. My fiancé and I trust our parents fully so i am not worried. My sister in law (married to my brother) does not let my parents see my nieces as often as her parents do. My parents are wonderful parents and grandparents but my sister in law treats them like they know nothing and gives them all of these rules with what they can and cannot do. I could see if my mom was a horrible mother in law but she’s not. I can’t wait to have kids bc i know my parents will have a lot more of a positive experience with my kids and i love my fiancés parents i could never imagine treating them that way.
I’m so sorry your parents have to go through that. I know it’s probably really tough them. Hopefully things will get better between parents, brother, and sister in law. Best of luck 💗
I LOVED this q&a, thanks Naz!
Jesus loves you he died on the cross for your sins. Believe in him and you will be saved and go to heaven!
girl yes you can definitely expand your home! my parents didn’t plan on having 6 of us lol but when 3 more showed up by surprise they didn’t wanna buy a new house so they ended up expanding and just adding on to the house! i would suggest doing that if it’s worth it to you! also, you’re glowing! 🤍🤍 going through pregnancy with you has been fun, being able to see your symptoms and what not! love it 💗
SIS YES, I’ve got boy girl twins born in 2018 and I got pregnant unexpectedly and it’s twins AGAIN! So your chances are definitely bigger that you’ll conceive multiples again 🤍
I do not mind the tangents at all lol it makes it more interesting. You’re not a blan boring talker and the elaboration helps and makes me feel more so as if I know you. You talk to us like family:) 💕 I love it
Your maturity is unmatched and you're absolutely right. A child is not meant to be without a parent. It takes 2 to make a child. Most grandparents mean well, they're just protective and don't realize that them being so involved can potentially and unintentionally create tension in their kids marriage
I absolutely love Naz!!! Such a beautiful, well spoken, driven, positive, mature, and classy young lady who has accomplished so much! We need more influencers like her. She’s younger than me yet I look at her as a role model ♥️
Wow thank you so much 🤍
I am screaming at “I’d rather shit in my hand and clap” 💀💀💀
But Naz I’ve been watching you for years and you never slack in the content you put out and you and Mel are both incredible parents! I cannot wait to see how far you all continue to grow in everything you do. 💕
*Ugh I’ve been missing you Naz, I’m selfish & want like 10 vlogs in a week* 😭 46 minutes???? Don’t mind if I do!
THANK YOU ❤️
My mom helps when she can but she works, so she always says you decided to have kids, it’s your responsibility to take care of your baby. But I totally respect others living differently ☺️
I can definitely relate to how involved grandparents are in certain cultures. I was surprised to see that when I had my kids, their dad's side of the family was barely involved, I felt like I had to beg for help and beg for a babysitter. It takes a village and we all deserve help! Being a mother is not easy at all but I love it and you're doing amazing. So excited to see you as a mom of 3 💖
“i dont aspire to be you why would i care about your opinion” i need to live by this!!
I feel and I’m happy you have your family as a support system, I wish my parents were close to me so they could be by my side when it comes to something like having kids or life situations where you just want mommy and daddy closer❤️ so good for you Naz💕
39:22 actually had me laugh out loud sis 😂😂😂 I haven’t sat through a whole UA-cam video in a while but you def had me entertained
LOVE YOU NAZ! thank you for being a middle eastern asian example who is non-judgemental and open minded. Always more important to be beautiful on the inside god bless ur family. BTW i miss seeing your parent's restaurant and the guys who he used to work w in Ohio in that video when you were young learning arabic in the kitchen. nice to see ur success, humility, and introspection. please keep going this way, we are with you
Jesus loves you he died on the cross for your sins. Believe in him and you will be saved and go to heaven!
Yasmin is so wise beyond her years I think she knows more about you than you realize❤️
I so enjoyed this video. Naz you have ALWAYS been beautiful but this pregnancy has made your skin and the natural color of your hair look just stunning!! You and Mel have an incredible marriage and a beautiful son!! Don’t EVER change your foundation, morals and values!! Many Blessings 🙏🏽!!
In Middle East, we have big families and we adore family it’s like #1 thing
For the grandparents to get so involved and help is so normal for us
My daughter is the happiest and she spend time with both families all the time, grandparents love it and ask for her all the time so why not?
Also the daycare helps and there’s nothing wrong with that
I don’t work and my daughter is in daycare not only to give me time but also for her social skills and guess what? She talk nonstop very early because of the daycare
Getting help and support doesn’t mean you’re a bad mother at ALL
Raising a child take a village honestly 🧘♀️
You are so mature and your kids are going to be so confident to grow up on such a supportive and loved environment. So proud of you Naz💖💖
Yes, I agree. Not using face makeup as much as possible helps
I’m from Australia and I’ve been watching you from day 1. watching you have kids and still keep hustling is truely inspiring. You have become such a beautiful mom, I really aspire to walk in ur footsteps 💞
I love how open (minded) and respectfull you are, such a breath of fresh air. Thank you for being you! 🤍🤍🤍
When i first had my daughter, i didn’t feel like that “connection” right away like other moms say, until like you said 2 months or so. But i also feel like it was just so much going on at that time as well. But i love that little girl so much! ❤️
You should be very proud of yourself you raised a beautiful son I love to watch him on here he’s so happy his smile is infectious. You will do equally as well with your twins I’m sure of it. About those ppl commenting on you making you tube videos as a teenager ahhhh look at you now.
I literally love when you stop and change your answer to what your saying. When you took back your accustomed way of saying sorry because women shouldn’t be programmed to say that and when you said “I’m not gonna lie” about how it took a while to truly feel connected with your son. That’s so inspirational and I admire how strong and unapologetic you are and that you show us that. Bad a** woman 💪💗
My favorite mom/ wifey channel , I have been following you for so long, I’m at that age as well where I’m starting to think about having kids, and I we have so much in common. I love watching you take care of the house and babies. I also love how long your videos are !!
My mom added 2 bedrooms, 1 bath & a laundry room to our house back in the '90s! We're in Northern CA so our lot isn't huge but we still have a decent size backyard. Totally doable, just pricey especially now.
i got disciplined too much and then ended up not having as much self-discipline, but rather needing another person to motivate me or be there
“I’m so tired of women apologizing” PREACH SISTER
I know we don't know you and your life but one thing i can say is u have self displays , I've been watching u for years and years and watch u grow and it takes alot for someone to post all the time and speak on the camera and then edit and post . It takes knowledge, time, patience. So proud of u! Love how u always work on yourself to be better.
I'm from Spain and I think the same about grandparents always being there, like my parents would leave us with them on weekends and they would go on trips. It seemed great to me because that way they take their mini vacations and my sister and I our vacations with the grandparents, but I see that in the United States that is frowned upon (at least the UA-camrs I've seen).
I’m high watching this, but I’m just so proud of Naz. I’ve been watching since you were in high school and it’s just amazing and so sweet to see her as a mom and wife and more mature. Keep being great 😍
I definitely think you should look into building an addition to your home if you have the extra land ☺️☺️ I think that would be great for you guys! Love you!
i’ve been watching you for almost 8 years now🥺🤍 i love how honest you are and how true you are to yourself. it’s been so amazing basically growing up with you and watching you build your family 💕✨
The parenting/support speech is SO relatable!!!
I have young parents so they were like ok, if you need us, we’re here for you.
My husband’s family…. PHEW. He’s first generation here in America, so his mom is super old school (they were even in an arranged marriage back in Egypt). I get super offended when she tries to take care of our son and hovers us about him. He’s first grandchild as well so I do give her slack but omg it’s hard, I think especially the language barrier. Last year for my bday we were out at brunch, our son was fussy and we both reached for him, and she smacks my hand!!! I was so pissed I walked away to take a breather because I know I can have a mouth on me.
And on the support, my husband and I did the same thing. But we’re having another boy. So we found an amazing house in Ventura county near his mom, she’s older, doesn’t work, lives 5 min away.
Wishing you the best pregnancy and life!! ♥️
You’re so well spoken and so mature for your age. I love the way you think and who you are as a person. I can tell you’re truly a good genuine human even in person. Your babies are very lucky to have you as a mamma❤️
Did you admit that you have had a bbl? 37:12 No hate or negativity!!!! You are so open about the things you get done but never talked about the bbl before
Wish you all the best for your pregnancie
I thought she did
When I was in the hospital for 3 days I would cry every time I was on ft with my 2yr🥺, now that she’s a big sister she’s so caring n loving n very over protective over her little sister
if you love everything about your house and area then you should definitely look into adding an extra room. I expanded my 2 bedroom home and added another room because we had the land for it. If you have a lot of space around your home then get someone to look into if for you.
I love your personality and your videos. Kavon is the sweetest boy ever. Cant wait for the twins to be here(can it be 9months already-LOL). Have a lovely week everyone!!!
Naz can you do a video on getting body work done? I would like to learn more and consider it but I’m so scared. Mentally I’m also very terrified! I can’t even draw blood without having a lot of anxiety and passing out. I would love if you did a video about it
“I don’t aspire to be you, why do I care about your opinion” omg Naz this needs to be on a cup 😂😂❤️
🔥🔥 naz, this whole video was just so therapeutic and relieving to hear 💗 ty for always keepin it real
I don’t know what I would have done without my parents’ help after my hubby and I had our kids. I’m also a mom of 3 under 3 (no twins though) and I totally agree that it should be more normalized for grandparents to help with their grandkids. I’m so grateful for their help and support!
Lmfaooooo Naz you’re so funny!! You kept being bold and did not care what other people think ☺️
Naz you should look into building an office outside detached or attached to your home! That way it gives you that extra room for a playroom inside the house! 😊 I’m so excited for your growing family! 🥰
It feels good to have all those qualities in a partner. Good on you Naz. It makes it easier to get through this crazy life 💗
shout out to naz for always talking about the controversial topics/opinions!! such a strong women & we are here for it🤍🤍
thank you for being so honest and personal. feel super connected to you- love ur vids girl xx
I feel that abt the Maybelline foundation, I’ve tried sooooooo many foundations and I honestly go back to it over and over again
You can think about extending your home, being that you love the house and the area.
Omg I could cry just hearing you talk about your Love for Von 🥹💗 much love to your beautiful, growing family
Haven’t seen you in years & this video just made me fall in love again with your channel 🥺 you have grown so so much & the cutest mama 💕
I find it so crazy how much you have accomplished and we’re about the same age, it’s truly motivating 🤍
Agreed with this!
Thank you so much ❤️
Honestly. She motivates me
I thought the same about having my second child. Like how my heart can get any fuller ? And to be honest it came naturally. You just look at your second kid like wow another Angel . Your heart will be even fuller❤️
I have 3 under 2! My son and twin girls! I was so nervous at first but honestly it’s not as hard as I thought and I love it so much! Keep them both on the same schedule to make life easier lol. It’s so nice knowing they will all have so many memories growing up together ☺️ Wishing you all the best!
Let me get my meal ready so I can watch this😂 love you Naz!!
Enclose the covered patio maybe? You could extend the house to make another patio behind it bc the yard is big. It wouldn't make the footprint weird bc a lot of homes do that anyway. The newly enclosed patio could be the playroom for now, and then eventually the beauty room in a few years.
Adding an additional unit and expanding your home is absolutely something you can do love! You just need to call the city you live in and get permits 🥰
I think it’s absolutely amazing how involved your parents are. You’re blessed to have that free childcare😅 also how cool would it be for Kavon to be bilingual!!!!
He’s learning Farsi:)
I’ve definitely seen people add a whole additional floor to their home once you get the permits. You should definitely look into it, once you have the space to do so.
The energy in this video is UNMATCHED ❤️ such a sweet and gentle soul!
I really felt when you were talking about freedom in your relationship. I’m a Sagittarius, 12/08 the day after yours 💗 and it makes so much sense. We hate feeling trapped it’s a no no lol. From the moment I started watching your channel I related to you so much and haven’t stopped watching you since. Love you Naz! Wishing you the best on your pregnancy 😘🙏🏼
You are by far the best. My favorite youtube channel❤️
gurl extend your house, you can do a loft extension and get a whole floor at the top with 2/3 rooms!
Would you ever share all the surgery you had done? Just curious on your process and how you vetted your doctors. It would help 💜