How Long Should You Date Your Girlfriend Before You Give Her a Promise Ring

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  • Опубліковано 5 вер 2024

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  • @DatingLogic
    @DatingLogic  3 роки тому

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  • @16Gould1
    @16Gould1 7 років тому +107

    I married my wife after a month of knowing each other. Time isn't a factor if y'all know what y'all want

    • @lucifercrandall2842
      @lucifercrandall2842 4 роки тому +12

      SpencerG y’all still married?

    • @sr.ladybuggz2177
      @sr.ladybuggz2177 3 роки тому +4

      I would also like to know the answer to this question

    • @collinmccookcomposer
      @collinmccookcomposer 3 роки тому +2

      How is your marriage now?

    • @16Gould1
      @16Gould1 3 роки тому +10

      @@collinmccookcomposer wow three years ago I posted this and forgot. Ive learned a lot and I realized I didn’t even love myself enough to have someone who actually wanted to love me and that stemmed from my early childhood years by not having my parents involved in my life. That made me make an impulsive decision such as getting married desperate for love. It was all new to me and I never had relationship role models. It was a gamble in the beginning but it worked out for the best and because of that I’m happier than ever in life and she seems to present that same energy towards me. But we definitely had to work on ourselves and learn each other as humans. I’d say we got that down now. I just fall in love with her more and more everyday and we listen and communicate well with each other. We have 1 kid who is 2 and we have another one on the way due in December. she works from home and I recently quit my job to stay home and take extra care of them.

    • @16Gould1
      @16Gould1 3 роки тому +15

      @@lucifercrandall2842 idk how UA-cam didn’t give me this notification lol sorry. I was a young dumb broke kid when I wrote this post but I’m grateful to say yes we are still married we just don’t move with the social norm. We just work together as one in this game of life and we have fun doing it, while loving each other as well.

  • @sratrat78
    @sratrat78 9 років тому +12

    My bf gave me one when we had been dating 2 years and a few months. It felt like it took forever! But I'm glad he waited. Patience is good. He's taught me to slow down a lot. About to have our 3 year anniversary next month and I still cherish the ring he gave me

    • @ctown6592
      @ctown6592 3 роки тому +1

      How’s about now

  • @blossermrbify
    @blossermrbify 8 років тому +3

    You are one insightful son of gun. This was exactly the advice I needed to hear. It has been a month since we have been officially "boyfriend, girlfriend" so I now know that my head is full of dopamine and I should be patient and allow things to progress a little further before "hitting the accelerator". Thanks again.

    • @kalearmy1993
      @kalearmy1993 Місяць тому

      How’s yall relationship now? Was it worth it to wait?

  • @kevinhernandez6155
    @kevinhernandez6155 3 роки тому +3

    Do it after the honeymoon phase. The way you are the first 3 to 6 months most likely won’t be the norm. People change all the time.

  • @billyrocky2974
    @billyrocky2974 2 роки тому +2

    I been dating this women for a little over 2 years. I have seen her at her lowest in life and she has also seen me a low points also. A month ago i finally asked her to be my women after getting to know eachother as we both have children so we had to put them first of course. Its her 50th Birthday in November and Mum going to gove her a promise ring. You can't rush things just because you think your in love. Take your time. If He/She truly loves you. Their not going anywhere.
    Good luck everyone 💍

  • @Akstis_Yor
    @Akstis_Yor 7 років тому +49

    I was planning on giving my gf a promise ring because I am going to be leaving for the marines in August of this year. we have been dating for a year now and I honestly couldn't ask for a better person. Should I still go through with the ring or not?

    • @ivyhammett-aron8012
      @ivyhammett-aron8012 7 років тому +13

      kyle pinheiro, from what you've said, I say go for it. If you are absolutely in love with this woman and feel like nothing could stop you from keeping that promise, then make it. A promise isn't meaningless, so it should only be made when one can face it practically and sincerely. It seems to me that the time is right for it. Personally, I think that it's an amazing idea to give her a promise ring before you leave. I wish you luck in the Marines and in your relationship. Sorry that this is such a late response.

    • @gillyvibes1224
      @gillyvibes1224 4 роки тому +2

      Kyle pinheiro I also agree you should give her the promise ring... If you love her, I see nothing wrong with telling her she the only one for you

  • @noahland811
    @noahland811 4 роки тому +7

    I'm going to give my girlfriend a promise ring for christmas this year and we will have been dating for 1 year in December

    • @popstarkitty617
      @popstarkitty617 4 роки тому

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

    • @raymoreno101
      @raymoreno101 3 роки тому

      Same

    • @raymoreno101
      @raymoreno101 3 роки тому

      I got her a promise ring and I am going to give it to her on Christmas

  • @erynpower7438
    @erynpower7438 8 років тому +8

    ive been dating my boyfriend since year 8 and now im in year 10

  • @StudioCloud-hr6mg
    @StudioCloud-hr6mg 6 років тому +1

    Me and my bf were best friends for 5 years before we started dating. He's seen me both at my worst and my best and loves all my sides. Honestly, I'm surprised he loves someone like me. I love him to death though and was extremely happy when he gave me a promise ring. He felt like 5 months was enough for him to make this decision and I'm glad he did.

  • @Naila_Beautiful_Life
    @Naila_Beautiful_Life 10 років тому +5

    Totally loved this advice more guys should do this!

  • @WitchooThirstySelf
    @WitchooThirstySelf 8 років тому +6

    Well we've been dating for 2 years, 5 months and we've been living together for almost 2 months. I've waited patiently and he brought it up a couple of times but I still never got a promise ring. Plus, he's about to go into The military.

    • @ctown6592
      @ctown6592 3 роки тому

      For real

    • @fayzasanchez2383
      @fayzasanchez2383 2 роки тому

      Did u get one?
      I've been with my love over three years we been together through our worst and thru health issues, we're almost 40, we've had the happiest times together and so much in love. He's my forever. But still no promise ring 😩

    • @WitchooThirstySelf
      @WitchooThirstySelf 2 роки тому +1

      @@fayzasanchez2383 we broke up 2 years ago. I’m with someone now and he proposed after 4 months of us being together

  • @jayramirez6812
    @jayramirez6812 8 років тому

    Good advice.... I've dated my gf before we were official for two months exclusively and then it has been a month that we have been a couple. She's amazing. I just love her so much. I'm 26.... But this gave some good insight. Thanks

  • @soadfan1016
    @soadfan1016 7 років тому +16

    My girlfriend and I have been dating for almost a year (November 18th officially). We have been there for each other through hard times. She has seen me weak and supported me to the fullest (my best friend got hit by a car pretty bad and I felt responsible). I am worried because she'll be an hour away from me in college. I have been thinking about giving her a promise ring because I won't see her everyday. I completely trust her and am not worried about her cheating. She knows I'm 100 percent dedicated towards our relationship and I feel she is too. Her and i dream of having our own place in the future. Should I give her one when we have dated for a year?

  • @igot2picklesheyheyhey566
    @igot2picklesheyheyhey566 9 років тому +33

    Im a 26yr old woman & my 25yr old bf gave me a promise ring : / I feel like were way too old for this

    • @Sharie14
      @Sharie14 7 років тому +4

      I'm 25 and my bf is 26. We r getting this. I want this because We have only been dating for a year and we both see ourselves being together in the future and starting family. but for now, we r getting to know each other more and focus on our careers and stuff while we display our level of commitment until we are truly ready to take the next step as well as in a more reasonable and established position.

  • @rachelmulveen2314
    @rachelmulveen2314 5 років тому

    I am 8 years together now with my boyfriend and now he wants to give me a surprise gift calling it a friendship ring to get engaged soon

  • @Rainfallltv
    @Rainfallltv 6 років тому

    he gave one to me on our 2 year and 9 months ❤️❤️ giving him one our 3 year anniversary

  • @elijahgonzales2754
    @elijahgonzales2754 7 років тому +20

    So.....4 weeks?

    • @Emo_kidXD
      @Emo_kidXD 6 років тому +2

      Elijah Gonzales I mean it just depends you commented this 4 months ago so you probably already have it's your choice I'm going to give her it for Christmas because it would be 12 months together basically a year

    • @jay2x351
      @jay2x351 3 роки тому

      😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @meganhumphries1007
    @meganhumphries1007 7 років тому +6

    I'm 20 been dating my boyfriend for almost 2 years still ain't got one

    • @channyef12
      @channyef12 5 років тому +2

      I’m 22, 5 years with my boyfriend, still no promise ring :(

    • @mprettty
      @mprettty 5 років тому +1

      Going on 10 years no ring.

    • @purgei.o6800
      @purgei.o6800 4 роки тому

      Dammm 2 years??????

    • @seag.1
      @seag.1 3 роки тому

      Buy him one...

  • @rachelmulveen2314
    @rachelmulveen2314 5 років тому

    Me and my boyfriend Martin have also been in a lot of loss between our family's we have been both the same but we are very happy greatful to begin together 8 years together now

  • @roydanquezada6603
    @roydanquezada6603 10 років тому

    Thanks for the advice 😀

  • @max4lifexoxo71
    @max4lifexoxo71 7 років тому +2

    Subscribe! Thanks!! .. I did do see my girlfriend a little bit of her worst side .. like she's don't say nothing or like moving her mouth around like 2 seconds of ignore .. so I'm seeing a little for now.. but it's been 24 days we been together lol I calculated..

  • @seag.1
    @seag.1 3 роки тому

    I started talking to this girl a few days more than 2 months now, and I really feel like she’s the one. We both love each other and we wanna stay together for the rest of our lives. The problem right now is the distance and restrictions because of the virus. Because of this, I’ve only really been with her once since we really started talking. And we’re not official yet. Because of this, I want to give her a promise ring on the day that I ask her to make it official. If all goes to plan, this should happen in about 2 months, when I know that I’ll see her again. We might see each other before that but with the current UK restrictions, I find it hard to believe that will happen. Would this be a good idea ?

  • @decoycoyadventures6178
    @decoycoyadventures6178 6 років тому +2

    Verry nice advise sir. Thank you so much. I've learned a lot from this video. Were been 3 months with my girlfriend and I'm already 30 yrs old and i want to give her a promise ring this week. But i think i have to know here more as what you've said. Thnk you so much!!!

  • @alxn45
    @alxn45 4 роки тому +2

    thank you, me and this girl have been dating for 3 months now and i love her beyond the meaning of love she is so amazing and i really want to do this because i know that i will always love her & stuff should i still do it when we have only been dating 3 months? is that long enough?

    • @nicholascruz9660
      @nicholascruz9660 3 роки тому

      Y'all still dating?

    • @alxn45
      @alxn45 3 роки тому

      @@nicholascruz9660 thankfully yes

    • @gh3n257
      @gh3n257 2 роки тому

      @@alxn45 that’s awesome man

  • @sameerisa7283
    @sameerisa7283 5 років тому +1

    I have a important question should i wait for 7 or 6 months to give my girlfriend a promise ring. What month would it be good or holiday. I read it said i should give her a promise ring on veletines day,Christmas,new years eve,or on our anniversary or her birthday. That's the important I need.

  • @Uglyface5590
    @Uglyface5590 6 років тому

    Thanks man.

  • @lindseyhebert5568
    @lindseyhebert5568 5 років тому

    Someone stole my promise rings it was like 200 to 300 we started dating 2005 then not long ago my mom and dad went to a trip while I was in grand isle Louisiana all of the sudden next morning the girl who had her boyfriend over my mom said no men are allowed while sitting the girl said I threw your rings down the toilet I almost had a heart attack over her so now I’m stuck with no ring my boyfriend has his that I gave him it’s just mine that are gone I cried my heart is broken

  • @RebeccaJ720
    @RebeccaJ720 6 років тому

    I mean, it really ain’t the end of the world if you gave the girl a ring too early and find out she’s complete shit. I fail to see where the “commitment” lies. If you break up just get the ring back, save it for another woman or sell it, simple. Shit this can apply to more legitimate engagements too.

  • @mfarfan0035
    @mfarfan0035 9 років тому

    Thanks man

  • @meep3709
    @meep3709 4 роки тому +4

    If you are a teenager, give a promise ring. If you’ve hit 20, please stop lol

  • @mariannemo
    @mariannemo 10 років тому +1

    What did you say here? Cuz I'm deaf to curious what you said here on video

    • @MultiSamSami
      @MultiSamSami 8 років тому +7

      don't get carried away. try to get to know the other person at her worse and see if you can handle it. you will know when is the right time, but you need patience first

  • @octavialeon1663
    @octavialeon1663 6 років тому

    Me and my boyfriend been tog 5 year

  • @ritahelmick187
    @ritahelmick187 8 років тому

    Hey my boyfriend have seen me at the bad and the good so how long should I wait until I get the ring

  • @rebeccahermes9970
    @rebeccahermes9970 3 роки тому

    Its a Very Strong Picture to get to Engage ment it is If. Youre serious Responsible and Mature way... Wow terrible now

  • @shereent3121
    @shereent3121 Рік тому

    Great, Women expected to hold out even longer for sex. 🥴

  • @naleliton.3148
    @naleliton.3148 5 років тому

    Y’all I’m 12 years old and I have a girlfriend it’s bouta be our 2 month should I get her a promise ring pls answer

    • @haileykrantz6556
      @haileykrantz6556 5 років тому +1

      My name is Chef. Personally, I feel like time would be your best option. You don’t want to jump into anything. You may feel totally in love with her, but it is best to wait and see how things work out.

    • @obsrob1810
      @obsrob1810 4 роки тому

      Naw bro you too young still

    • @yazirgomez8393
      @yazirgomez8393 4 роки тому

      Your a little kid😅😂😅😅😂😅😂😂😂😂