Give What You Want to Get!
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- Опубліковано 12 вер 2024
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Katilette I am in High School right now. I am having a very hard time. Just yesterday I was lying on the ground in my back yard wishing I could just die. I have a few extra things that most don't have. I have a few disabilities and I am homeschooled in 11th grade. I am having a hard time right now stressing over school work and having panic attacks about silly things. Like about my brother coming to the YMCA with me because when he comes I feel like I have to rush during my swim practice and other things. Keep in mind I used to not have panic attacks. I was never diagnosed with them before and still not diagnosed with them. Yesterday I cried more then 4 long times. I even had my concealing appointment yesterday. I cried during that to. I sometimes don't know why I am here on this planet. I do want to say your videos on this channel and the Shaytards channel do help me a lot because you guys are so positive about life and so strong in your faith. I am very strong in my faith and I honestly believe that if I was not strong in my faith I would have already committed suicide. I also want to say I already help others. I help others when I am going threw a hard time and a good time. It does help me feel good to help people when I am having a hard time and a good time. Is there any more ideas you have about how to deal with stress or panic. God bless you.
I lost my mom 22 years ago to cancer when she was 37. I was 19 then. I was so depressed and actually lost my faith and was angry with God. After 2 years of living in a depressive fog, I went back to my child church. I found out how much I needed God if I was going to pull myself together and go on without my mom and be there for my dad and brother.
Hey Colette,
I just started rewatching all of your old videos and I fully enjoy it!
Since I am having a hard time at the moment with lots of changes and bad things happening, you help me so much! I love the way you talk and it comforts me a lot. You have a talent for making me think and reflect my points of view without me feeling like you want to convince me in any way!
I don't expect you to read this but I just wanted to tell you this and I hope you understood me! (I'm from Europe and sometimes it's not easy to explain what I want to say.)
In Auguts 2015 I met you (and your family) in Disneyland and I wanted to tell you all those things but I was so overwhelmed that I couldn't say anything...
Much love and a big "thank you"!
Going through something like this right now.... feeling super alone and losing just about everything that makes me happy and confident. It's like im back to square one. and as sad as it is, money is really a big factor. Thanks for your words.
To be loved by the beautiful Colette Butler ... makes a subscription to this channel truly worthwhile. God bless ya today, Colette ! You are an incredible lady. I admire you, even though I'm a little farther along in years than you --- you're an inspiration. Praying you have an easy 5th delivery, and much health & happiness to you & yours. Love from Canada !
REALLY needed this message. Thanks Colette. You are really wise and I have always thought that. Through the Shaytard's vlogs, podcasts, and the videos on this channel, you always come from a place of knowledge and experience and truth.
I really appreciate this message. You're right.. Maybe if I look past my own struggles, I can see someone else's problems and help them out. Because life ISN'T about you all the time. It's about how you can make a positive impact on others living in this same world. :)
"There is always something better ahead."
Love that. You give me hope.
+ I bought the song Hope by Natasha Bedingfield today so if anyone reading this needs a song to pick them up, this is the song.
Much love to everyone.
This is one of the few motivational videos that actually gives real advice. Most just talk about how everything will be okay, but you actually give concrete advice on what to do. that means a lot to me.
I also must say I feel almost ashamed when I think about the problems that I feel depressed about when I hear about people who have lost close family members and have gone through horrible tragedies...its gives me so much perspective.
Thank you so much. Today my pet bird passed away (by accident...she got out and my puppy wanted to play with her) and I'm trying really hard to keep it together. This is the third pet I've lost in just over a year. It's always helpful to feel like someone understands, because I really feel alone in my sadness. Thanks for making me smile :)
There was a point in my life (three years ago) where I was in a very very dark place. I was already watching the Shaytards vlogs for a year or so and your daily video's helped me get through the day a bit more. Every single day. And I'm still very thankful for that! :) I love you so much! Thanks for everything.
I have lost lots of people in my life including my Dad. And you are so right, Colette! Doing service for people helps SO MUCH! It takes your mind off of yourself and makes you think about someone else. Doind this has made me such s strong, more compassionate person!
I've been so depressed I can't move, haven't been eating, or anything really. Watching UA-cam distracts me from doing things that truly scare me, and when I saw this video it was like a blessing. You do make a difference, Colette. Thank you for the video.
We love you too Colette!! Lol, I am 7 months pregnant right now and you made me cry big time! I could see you are all emotional right now also...so funny how things get with all the hormones. YOU are such an inspiration...so much of what you say has a profound effect on my (and so many other viewers) lives. I strive to have the amazingly positive and fun attitude that you do on a daily basis. I think of you and Shay so often and remind myself to "Choose Happiness" everyday. Thank you!!!!!
I totally agree with reaching out and helping people. Its the reason I have been a caregiver for the elderly for a total of nine years. I tried to quit caregiving all together, due to the extreme physical and emotional challenges. It Is very hard to watch someone you have taken care of for months or years pass away. But I get pulled back just when I think I am ready to leave caregiving by a patient telling my how much I mean to them.
Well you definitely are doing a lot of things for a lot of people. My mother passed away from cancer last year, I'm 21. Imagine having someone like you to look up to and take advice from when you were going through this. It is so much help and you are the best role model out there in my opinion. thank you
I appreciate your honesty Katilette. I was diagnosed with Bipolar a few years ago and have had a pretty messed up life because of it. Though knowing that I have one of your videos or a Shaytards video waiting on me at home has helped me to keep it together. Shay has become my role model over the past 4 years. Thank you from Ireland
Stress actually makes us release a hormone nicknamed the cuddle hormone, which makes us want to reach out to other people. It's amazing. It's like the body has a built in response to make you connect with other people because it knows that will make you feel better. Anyway thanks so much for this, Colette, I really needed it today! Love you x
Failing my first year of university doing dentistry, I questioned everything about my life's worth. I barely smiled or spoke to my family over the summer. I felt like I could only smile if i was watching katilette or the shaytards, the rest of the day I studied. Now I have passed my resit exams and can move on to 2nd year! :) Thanks to you and your family guiding me through my darkest times, I can be a happier, better person to my family. Like the person I was before. Sincerely, Thank you. :)
Katie you made me smile today and cry when you said your mother passed away with Breast Cancer I just about cried my mom did to in June 2012 I dont have any brothers or sisters just me and my dog and three cats . I noticed when my mother was passing away she was in a coma but at home she was looking straight up and her face was glowing like bright shining I saw her smiling there was a dove that was outside her window coming closer and looking straight at me
I have been bullied since 4th grade and now I'm in 7th. No one ever knows how it feels and I don't know how others feel. I wish I could help other just like you! You are such a great influence and I love your family and videos! I'm so glad I found your family on UA-cam you have helped me be more Christ like and I love that! I just turned twelve the end of August the 20th and I haven't had the chance to go to the temple yet! I'm really excited to and your family helps me through tough times!
When one of my very best friends from childhood unexpectedly passed away four months ago, my faith really helped me (and continues to help me) get through this. This isn't to say there haven't been days I've felt incredibly sad or hopeless, because it does happen from time to time. But I find comfort knowing that she is now free from the pain and illness she felt throughout her life, and I know her journey is far from over.
Colette, This video is so inspiring. I have been watch your channel and the shaytards channel for the past few months. You don't know how much watching your videos means to my life. I am a mom of 6 year old autistic son and 21 month old toddler twins. My kids are absolute blessing, and i love them dearly. They are my life, but there are days that are really, really hard to get through. My faith in God is what also helps me through.
Thank you for this, Colette! Love the idea of volunteering your time and taking the focus off yourself. It really puts things into perspective.
This video is so comforting. Her words really get to me because I've been watching the daily vlogs for a long time. So her giving this talk, makes it seem like I know her and I feel at ease. As if she is speaking to me personally and directly.
Collette you inspire me so so much. I just want to let you know so bad how much you mean to me but I just can't. There aren't words for it. You inspire and amaze me every time and I love you and I want to thank you so much for making my life better. You are one amazing woman. Thank you.
Collette, thank you so much for this video!!! It brought tears to my eyes! I have been struggling for a while with battling my weight, anger and hurt from loosing some very close people to me. One day i said this is not how i want to live my life it's not fair to my amazing husband and my wonderful baby boy! The main thing that has helped me was my faith, I now have lost 45 pounds and im enjoying life so much more now!! This video was a breath of fresh air!
Thank you!
I can't put into words how grateful I am for what you and your family do. You are one of my biggest inspirations, your family and life are what I wish for in my future, and whenever I'm down or sad or lonely I know I can watch your videos and I'll smile again. Thank you Colette and the shaytards!! 3
Thank you so much Colette, I genuinely think that you are the most loving mom on UA-cam :) Your family's videos are the only thing that makes me want to get up in the morning and try to get past my sadness because I know that no matter how bad my day was, there will always be a Shaytards video at the end of it to bring me happiness.
Thank you. I've been going through a rough time because of my social anxiety and low self-esteem but you always make me feel better. Its always nice to hear words of encouragement.
You are so right! I've been thru a lot and some people wonder how I can stay so positive. I always try to think of others first. So many people go thru battles you know nothing about. Be kind and selfless!
I'm in my second year of high school and I've been suffering from depression and anxiety for over a year now. Thank you for your kind words, Colette. I really needed to hear them. Just thank you and your family and Shay so much
Thanks for this video Colette. I lost my big brother four years ago, he was only 25 years old, I was 24 years old, it was so devastating to lose such a close family member so suddenly as well. The pain stays with you for the rest of your life, BUT it does get easier, I pray that I will see him again in heaven, and I believe he is at peace now, but still with us looking down on us. I still dream about him, which is nice in a way cause I get to see him in my dreams. I wish he was still here.
Thank you, Colette. This is exactly what I needed today. I just started college recently and I've been having frequent anxiety attacks because of stress. The only thing that's keeping me going is the idea of graduating and hopefully having a family of my own that's as amazing as yours.
I went through some rough times about two years ago, and I felt alone and that I struggled in a hole I would never be able to get out of. If only I knew the existence of someone as sweet as you who reaches out and says "hey, you're not alone and it will get better", it would have been easier. From my experience, it does get better eventually. Thank you for your support, Colette, I think you help a lot those ones who are stuck in life and feel like everything is wrong.
Love from Spain
how is it that this video came to me when i most needed it? i've had a rough few days, feeling down, unloved and unwanted, and your message has just made me a whole lot more optimistic! thank you so much!!
You've really helped me realize what I have to do in order to get through my rough patches. It's hard especially when there isn't anyone to talk to about your problems.. Sometimes I try but most often people can't understand what that person is really going through and the emotions they're feeling. It gets hard, but you are so right when you say to forget about yourself and give what you want to get.
My grandmother has lung cancer and my dad most likely has prostrate cancer it is very hard and i am only 13 i have been very sad and scared i was raped at the age of 10 it all is very hard but watching you has helped me a ton thank you for doing videos because of you and shay and charles and alli i now am happy even though my brother is in the army and is probably going to syria i still smile
Whenever I feel upset or sad, the thing I ALWAYS look for to is watching your videos and the shaytards videos. The happiness and love you guys radiate from your videos is enough to cheer me up. I literally can feel the love and happiness that you guys have and I love you guys for that. So thank you.
When she took her last breath it was this soft sigh it was very peaceful and not painful I know we will all see our loved ones again and that day will be so joyous
Thank you katielette. my long distance boyfriend who i have not met in person yet has passed away less than two days ago. i feel totally alone, but reading the other comments on this video, lets me know I'm not the only one having a rough patch at the moment. and watching your families videos are at least giving me a short time of happiness in the day. thank you to your whole family.
You are such an incredible inspiration. Thank you. Every time I feel down, I watch you and your crazy family and feel less alone!
This video brought me to tears because I really needed to hear that. I am going through a rough time. I am recovering from being sick, and now I am about to go into the real world again, I feel so lost and Thank You for the sweet words that I have received from you. God Bless !
Such good advice! :) we so many times are caught up in our own "drama" searching for answers and if we just step back and look around and see that we can help each other I think that as a whole, we all would be happier!
When you started talking about how you get so much of a fulfillment from doing the vlogs. I started to cry because you and Shay have really helped me in my own life, just by doing the vlogs I have learned so much about myself and what / how I want to have be like. You and Shay are so amazing! So thank you Colette!
And with every video you post, I admire you more and more.
My best advice to anyone would be to surround yourself with people you genuinely enjoy being around who make you feel good and encourage you to do well rather than bring you down. These past two years I've been working on that and I can honestly say it's made a huge difference.
3 years ago my twin sister died and I felt like I had no hope. Luckily the Shaytards vlogs brought a smile to my face on the worst days :)
I have been through some really dark times and this is exactly how I got through them. Thank you for sharing this. You can reach so many people. I love how you use your platform to give such sound advice.
I love you so much, Colette! You've helped me a tone through my highschool years and I'm so grateful that I can still get more and more of your love, advices, example and encouragement. God has turned you into a beautiful, strong and smart woman. Be blessed!
Colette, Shay is right you are amazingly amazing and you truly give amazing advice. Its interesting that you say we give so much to you when in fact I cant believe how much you give to all us viewers! There has not been a video where i have not smiled or laughed or just felt better after watching. You brighten up our days and make our days more happier in both bad times and good times! So thank you and your amazing family! :)
I love you and your advice colette :) Most peoples advice to someone in this situation is 'take some time, think about yourself and what YOU want' But the way you talk about it and what you say makes so much sense! Helping others can give you opportunity to get OUTSIDE of yourself, and maybe you can learn from helping others, by seeing what is you need to make you feel better. Another amazing video thank you.
I'm sorry to hear about your dad. My dad passed away in Feb from cancer and my Mammaw passed in 2009 from cancer. It's hard, but stay encouraged. Talk to God about your feelings. I went from angry to sadness; it seemed like every 5 minutes. Enjoy your time with your dad. Ask as many questions about his past as you can, and focus on enriching your relationship with him and your Heavenly Father. Surround yourself with good friends. :) Praying for you & your dad!
What a wonderful, sincere, kind person! I hope one day to have friends like that.
This is exactly what I needed to hear today. Things have rough lately, but watching and listening.to you and your family gives me hope so thank you.
I really needed this right now. I've had random anxiety attacks and haven't gone to school this past week because I feel unwanted and it seems like alot of people have been feeling down lately, so this was perfect timing and you made us feel much better! Love you and you're truly a great role model
You and Shay are the best! Your advice helps everyone. I love to watch you guys because you guys are so real. I have been going to volunteer at a old folks home during the day for awhile and the friendship ad love they give you can't be compared. Thanks for being an awesome daughter of God!
I wish you the best with your new baby boy... my firt baby was due around rocktard b-day... sadly my pregnancy ended in november 2009... watching you and your family help me to find hope in better days. I,m now a proud mother of a wonderful boy of 2 years old and a 6 months little girl. Through your videos you helped me in so many ways. :-)
i'm in my second year of university, and quite honestly, i really didn't think i'd make it this far. i definitely agree with you, katilette, if you give back it does fill a void, so i'm studying social work, & i know for a fact that i have saved lives. i even volunteer at a support centre, but regardless, my depression and anxiety & ptsd is still here.
all i can say is thank you so much for your kind words and validating my feelings. i really, really needed that right now, mommy #2. thank you.
This is a great video. I've been so lost when my grandma passed away on New Year's Day this year. This has helped me so much, along with your vlogs and other videos on Katilette. Your like a mom to me, and I love you lots :) thank you.
Colette I've just had a rough day that got me so down and in low spirits. Watching this video and hearing your advice made me really cry. I'm glad you advice that before I'm going to heed it. Forget ourselves and think of others. In hardest times. Thank you, I love you.
Colette, thank you for all your words, you can't believe how much you help me understand life and everything that surrounds me. You're truly amazing. I admire you and your family and feel blessed for knowing you guys! Love you!
This made me cry, just hearing your inspirational and kind words from such an amazing person like yourself Colette, is uplifting :)
you and this channel are just here to inspire, and by reading the comments all you've been doing is inspiring and helping people in times of need. Your beautiful soul is reflected not just by how stunning you are but the way you speak, and give hope for everyone watching this video. everyone needs to watch and gain from videos like this and everyone needs a role-model like you because you represent happiness.
Thank You so much....im going through the roughest times. Im praying, praying, praying and trying to stay positive but it really is hard. I feel lost, this helps. Thank You!!!
if you watch this with your eyes defocused (almost cross-eyed) it looks like it's in 3d!
very good advice, i love this series very much, you are so inspiring... this is exactly what my brother needs to hear right now, he's been suffering with brain damage since 2007 due to a severe beating that left him with clotting on the brain and in a coma for 4 months, right now, he wants to end it all and this is what he needs, thank you colette :)
At church last Sunday we talked about the future. It's basically what u were saying, that everyone has a future and that God will pull you through the tough times and we need to just trust in Him. My bf of almost 3 years broke up with me today, I feel sad and just lonely. It's hard and I'm trying not to break down and cry but I know with time it will get better. Someday I will be happy again.
Thank you so much Kaitilette! You couldn't have posted this video at a more perfect time. Today was just awful and with me moving to college things have been really hard lately and it's nice to just escape from reality for a little while and watch your videos and the shaytards. You guys are my boost that I need daily. Thank you! Thank you!! mwahh!
Colette, you and Shay always know the right things to say to help anyone! Thank you and your family for sharing your life with us!
I always watch this video when I've had a bad day and my anxiety is worse than it usually is. This video always gives me hope for the future and you are such a perfect role model. Thank you for being such a big part of my life and helping me with the struggles xx
As always you are amazing Colette. You are a woman of such grace, strength and kindness.
Colette I have to say I am so proud of you for making it through this video with totally balling your eyes out. You are amazing!
Thank you so much for sharing your advise. You are so wise. This has really helped me because my boyfriend of two and a half years and I broke up about 2 weeks ago. He had joined the Air Force 6 months ago and I was willing to wait for him and I believed he would too. But it didn't work out. And yesterday I found out that he has moved on and that this girl was more than likely involved. I am so heartbroken but you help me see that everything will work out the way it is supposed to. Thank you!
Thank you Katilette, I needed this, especially recently. I've been going through a rough time, and it's hard not to feel like you're alone
You are such an intelligent, beautiful woman with such a great warmth in your heart. I really love you and your family =) Thank you for sharing your thoughts !!
Thanks Collette, I needed to see this video, it has been so hard these past few months, in July my wife had a miscarriage, we have been having such a financial crisis with college and well there have been rainstorms her in UT that have been awesome for outside but our closet decided to flooded and we are currently not staying in our apartment at this time, and its just been overwhelming, serving others hopefully is that remedy. Keep us in your prayers...
I absolutely just love you. You're so beautiful and sweet and have the best advice to give. You seemed on the verge of tears for most of this video and it just seemed so genuine. Thank you Colette.
I was having a really awful morning before I watched this video and your kind and godly words really helped me Colette! Thank you so much for doing these videos, they really do help us in more ways than you can imagine. I admire you so much and your genuine faith so keep doing what you're doing! :)
You're such a beautiful person, Colette. Thank you for letting us be a part of your life and your family.
You are such a beautiful person on the inside and out! You are like a second mother to me and when I'm away at college I really look to you and your family as my second family. I love you!
Colette you're such a kind hearted and caring person and you deserve all the happiness you want in life
My mom passed a few years ago and I was 13. I still feel like I can't keep going some days but I know that I'm not. When I hear you talk about this it makes me feel a little closer to feeling better. So thank you for making like a little brighter(:
I agree 100%. I always say that a life shared is a life well spent...share your life and experiences and magical things happen.
Thank you so much for this video collette!! I'm under a lot of stres from school and stuff at the moment and just found out tonight that my aunt had cancer. She has lived with her twin sister for their whole lives and now the other will be on her own when she passes on, and I can't do anything about it because they live in Spain and I'm in England. I feel quite helpless and your video really helped lift me up :) xx
Your wisdom is incredible, those words will always stay in my heart. Being there for others is what it's all about! Cheezy but true!
When my mum passed away my faith helped me through I developed a strength that pulled me through it all :)
This brought a tear to my eye.. I love these videos and I really look up to you. I'm suffering from anxiety disorder and this video really made me think.. I feel your love and I feel like you care even tho you don't even know me. I love the Shaytards and Colette you are amazing!!
It is super hard to loose someone close. I lost my mom on my 21st bday 10 yrs ago (on the 11th of Aug) and the pain is still there. I do however celebrate her life positively though by remembering the good ! That always brings a smile to my face.
My mothers face was filled with so much love and happiness I knew she had seen someone who passed away Maybe it was Her Mother saying its time to come home now
I feel like this every day of my life and it NEVER gets better. God bless you sweetie
I've been trough depression and it was horrible. After some months of therapy I'm better. Sometimes I still have days when I'm down but I always look at the things what I have. I learned that from your family. Whenever I feel down I just watch some random vlogs so I feel happy again. You and Shay are my inspiration. Thanks for being here.
I just started watching your family's videos and you have matured so much in the last 4 yrs into a such a beautiful woman. I watched some of the earlier videos and you seem so young and still very beautiful but you can see a new wisdom you have now. You are a great Woman and a wonderful Mother!
I can't imagine losing my mom when I was going through puberty... You're a very strong person and I really look up to you. I can only hope to one day become only half the woman you are. You're amazing. :)
hello colette!i've been a shaytards viewer for 4y and i really enjoy seeing your lives and mostly that religious part of it.I've been raised as an atheist and i am one.I was severely bullied during the past year i was at the point where i thought i'd give up,like i couldnt handle it,and it was then that 4 awesome people came in my life,basically i went up to them and they still help me through it.i may not have faith in God,but I have faith in people,especially those 4.you are amazing,great vid!
You are so amazing Colette! Thank you so much for sharing your experiences with us. I have been having a hard time recently and this video really helped me. You are such a sweet and loving person. I hope you know how grateful we all are for you!
You're awesome Colette. You're such a strong person and you always give the best advice you can.
Thank you so much Colette, this is just what I needed to see. I just started university this week and it's been extremely hard on me. But I did rely in God's hands this week and I feel like he was watching over me :) And watching this video just sealed the thought :)
Colette, I love and respect you, thank you for this vlog. I hope that people realize that feeling sad, low or depressed is much different than those who experience clinical depression. Clinical depression needs medical attention and is not something that someone can just "shake off" or do something to take their mind off of it. If anyone feels that way, please reach out and get the proper help and support you need.
Colette you and your family have helped me so much a couple weeks ago I lost my dear Grandmother and I haven't smiled in weeks until I watched your family on the shattered
I love how heartfelt this video was. I definitely needed this. I don't get how you stay so strong in your faith despite so many hardships. I'm really struggling with that right now and I'm kind of angry at god. Not sure what to do but this did let me know I'm not alone when it comes to difficult times
I suffer from depression and I am searching for my faith, thank you for this and I would hug you so hard
All I can say is thank you, Colette! You are an amazing person. ♡
Thank you so much Colette. I comment that on your videos all the time but I mean it. You have inspired me so much.