To Love Is To Grieve - Mueni Wambua

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  • @ruthnduta36
    @ruthnduta36 11 місяців тому +16

    I have had my most painful time with grief and I totally relate to this November 4th 2022 I lost my dear dad and on January 17th 2023 I lost my dear only sister. It's been difficult for me and this losses have put me down . I have so many questions. I believe one day I will come through this. God's Grace has been there for me.

  • @christinemwalimu7043
    @christinemwalimu7043 11 місяців тому +3

    Passie, walked me down memory lane. Grief is great in its own way. Abuna, never met such a beautiful soul.

  • @jackynjunge4383
    @jackynjunge4383 11 місяців тому +6

    Grace has brought me this far and Grace will lead me home.

  • @everlynkamau3820
    @everlynkamau3820 11 місяців тому +8

    I didn't want her to end her talk. Grief is inconclusive. This was so wholesome. Thank you Mueni. ❤

  • @sarah.k.nganga2311
    @sarah.k.nganga2311 11 місяців тому +10

    Thanks for sharing and more grace to you as you soldier on🙏🏼
    Takeaways:
    AIR
    A- Come up for air as you remain authentic.
    I- Live with the in conclusion.
    R- Reimagine your life afresh.
    We are all on borrowed time (bundles)

  • @ruththumbi3207
    @ruththumbi3207 11 місяців тому +24

    Today is mum's 6th anniversary and what's pops up? My chaama mate Pasi Mueni talking about grief. Ooh, I grieved my mum. Those hot tears at times unceremoniously but they become less with time and sweet memories dominate.❤

    • @billiangee6815
      @billiangee6815 11 місяців тому

      We are on the same boat. 2018 feels like yesterday but when you say 6 years then it hits how long it has been.

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      @@billiangee6815 and may the memories carry you forward. 🫂

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Oh my chama mate Ruth .... hugs my sister 🫂🫂🫂

  • @njambikiburio7836
    @njambikiburio7836 11 місяців тому +11

    A.authentic acceptance of grief
    I. Inconclusive acceptance of the unanswered questions
    R.invent your life how your loved one would have loved you to live.

  • @joychina9748
    @joychina9748 11 місяців тому +8

    How do we live with the inconclusion? How long should one grief? How long does the effect of grief impact our lifeline? I have had my most painful points with grief and I totally relate to this...I agree our lives are in the hands of a loving God. He provides us the unconditional love and grace we need to navigate everything!

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому +1

      There is no time line to grieve because how long will your loved one be dead ... you will miss them as long as you are alive. Grief impacts us and shapes us in many ways and the effects are lifelong. We live with the inconclusion in making peace with knowing that we will never quite get the answers that will "make sense" .....

  • @integerconsulting9344
    @integerconsulting9344 11 місяців тому +5

    It is fortunate when you have grief not complicated by other terrible circumstances.. Someone died and you are heartbroken. Others like us faced hostility and rejection from our mates families and friends and crippling financial burdens, not to mention having to deal with young children. That still persist to date. But the promises of the Bible are true in that All things work for good for they that love the Lord and whom He has called according to His purpose. It shall be well with all of us who are grieving.

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Grief can be a very difficult journey as everything changes and nothing is spared ... may God continue to be your anchor in the recovery journey.

  • @lilianchybire9610
    @lilianchybire9610 11 місяців тому +3

    ❤❤❤
    You know you are a big part of my healing journey.
    I celebrate you always.
    2020 - 2023 were such a tumultuous years 😔.
    Grief has changed how i relate...
    I feel the emotions.
    I live with the incoclusion.
    But I am cognizant that grace has brought me this far, and grace will carry me home.

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      And I continually marvel watching you blossom my dear ♥♥

  • @mercykalendi
    @mercykalendi 11 місяців тому +3

    I have lost my brother, who means the world to me and a cousin one month apart, and it hurts. You have spoken to me because grief is a topic, not even pastors preach. Grief is excruciatingly difficult, especially if your loved ones were killed.You are an amazing storyteller.

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Thank you Mercy and may God's comfort and peace be your strength in your healing journey

  • @sisesta
    @sisesta 11 місяців тому +2

    Thanks Passy for this. Truth be told, i am still trying to re invent myself after Alices' transition... It hasn't been easy even after all these months/ years.

  • @desta6372
    @desta6372 11 місяців тому +1

    Mueni....thanks for this piece on how to handle grief....came very timely after loss of two colleagues.

  • @joynzaywa7635
    @joynzaywa7635 11 місяців тому +1

    Oh, Alice , it's never the same again, mtaasis. You are celebrated in death. Just as in life .💜. Beautiful one Pasi 🙏

  • @waihiga124
    @waihiga124 11 місяців тому +5

    Me and grief are sworn enemies. I chose to ignore it completely, and refused to pay attention to it even when it was standing in front of me screaming in my face. Grief on the other hand completely refused to ignore me or release me till I have allowed it to sit me down and face it squarely. I still hate it!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      I hear you on hating grief but still sitting down with it .... the complexity of it all

  • @qt_cutie2429
    @qt_cutie2429 11 місяців тому +2

    Thanks for this overcoming grieve has been the hardest thing in me.i know one day I will...I lost my bro on 4jan 2021...but little have I know how to handle this...but to everyone am that strong girl that people can envy

  • @TheeSparkleFamily
    @TheeSparkleFamily 11 місяців тому +1

    This reminded me of my daddy...4months ago...THE A.I.R.Part is very helpful.....I almost dream with him daily...I was his lil girl♥️🙏🙏🙏😭

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      And you will always be his lil' gal even in his absence....the love he had for you remains and I hope it comforts you and the memory will always be a treasure

  • @alexclivembaye
    @alexclivembaye 10 місяців тому

    Huweeh, Passy Mueni Wambua, your compassionate and insightful reflections during the talk illuminated the depth of your connection with our sister Alice and underscored the invaluable role you played as her friend and therapist during her journey. Your words eloquently captured the essence of those meaningful conversations, offering comfort, solace, and wisdom to those who are currently grappling with similar experiences. It is truly an honor for our family to have Alice's memory and legacy celebrated in such a meaningful way. Your willingness to share her story with grace, humor, empathy, and authenticity reflects the profound impact she had on those fortunate enough to have known her. Thank you for journeying with the our family on this one. Continue resting Easy Alice!

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому +1

      The one thing that has comforted me in the journey of grieving Alice is knowing the Mbayes .... the more I know you, the more I grasp who Alice was because you are all such a loving and lovable people ...thank you.

  • @frallystoneomusula9510
    @frallystoneomusula9510 11 місяців тому +2

    Great talk, very inspiring and encouraging. May your Dad, Alice and Middi rest at the feet of the Lord Jesus

  • @liznjoki2183
    @liznjoki2183 11 місяців тому +1

    Thank you Pasi. Thank you for sharing ❤❤

  • @nyangimunyasia2927
    @nyangimunyasia2927 11 місяців тому

    Thank you for sharing your grief story Mueni. It will three years this July since I lost my mum. That is the most difficult thing that I have ever gone through in my life. I lost it! I became numb... I cried loads, I shut people out... the 'I' part of Air was the hardest! Guilt creeped in, the things I had planned to do for mum but never did. The wasted time... I am glad that God helped me through it! I am reinventing everyday and it is bearable now. I am glad that I didn't get stuck in there. We mourn because we love.

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Yes, where there was great love, there will be great grief. May peace and comfort be yours in this journey

  • @WandiaNjama
    @WandiaNjama 11 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤ grace has brought me this far and grace will lead me home 💕💕

  • @annehellen7665
    @annehellen7665 11 місяців тому

    My grief and my story told so well by Pastor Mueni. Thaaaaaaankyou so much. No one really understands me one year later; but working on me slowly to still stay afloat.

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      And it is ok for them not to understand because it is not their journey ... I pray you can find spaces that you feel understood and can be authentic in your journey. Hugs

  • @StoryMelody254
    @StoryMelody254 11 місяців тому +1

    Touching, bundles

  • @gladysnkuusayiga9093
    @gladysnkuusayiga9093 11 місяців тому

    Wow! Thank you Pasi Mueni. You're so graceful and God's love shows on your face.

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Thank you dear ...His grace amazes me

  • @maureenasami9229
    @maureenasami9229 11 місяців тому +2

    My dear sister Alice,it has never been the same since you left 😢,,still struggling with grief,each passing day without you around aches my heart,your demise really broke me💔,,continue resting easy my love,i miss you so much my bestie,till the resurrection morning,i will always love you Abuna❤❤💜💜💜💜

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Abuna was one of kind .... we are blessed to have been loved by her. Hugs Maureen

    • @maureenasami9229
      @maureenasami9229 8 місяців тому

      @@mueniwambua2354 Thank you,Indeed she was the the best ever🫂🤍🙏

  • @carolewachira1922
    @carolewachira1922 11 місяців тому +1

    Wooow! Well said, this is soooo good am blessed to have come across it. am still grieving my son 2 n a half years later and this has changed the tone of everything in my heart mind and spirit

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      And Carole the death of a child does change us just as loving a child does. May the change be one that aligns with the love you carry for your son

  • @tris2766
    @tris2766 9 місяців тому

    We have so much in common, from the name to the dad's favorite human to being a last born and grief .. You've just earned yourself a fan.

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Oh wow ... may you go on and find the superpower of being a lastborn 😉

  • @chaniawillow
    @chaniawillow 11 місяців тому +3

    Poleni sana. Thank you for sharing your story of grief. It has encouraged me and i've shared it with others.

  • @elizakambua7016
    @elizakambua7016 11 місяців тому

    Beauty 😍 eloquence and the wisdom.
    So much to be grasped from you passie Mueni.

  • @EngBMashanga
    @EngBMashanga 11 місяців тому +5

    Always Come Out For AIR...

  • @joykiniaru1789
    @joykiniaru1789 11 місяців тому

    More blessings to you Pastor Mueni

  • @kandechu4154
    @kandechu4154 11 місяців тому +1

    ❤❤❤ No words!!

  • @josephinekiluta1214
    @josephinekiluta1214 11 місяців тому +1

    Very well delivered, very authentic and creative 👏👏👏

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Thank you ma .... you remain very precious because you connected me with the Grief Recovery Institute and of course our trainer Rev Kioko

  • @alvowanju7451
    @alvowanju7451 11 місяців тому +2

    Master piece in real life ,,, Great
    Authentic
    In conclusion
    Reimagine
    evaluate
    einvest

  • @lornathesewist
    @lornathesewist 11 місяців тому +2

    May the Lord continue to comfort you

  • @kenokwara
    @kenokwara 11 місяців тому

    This is an awesome piece. You made me reflect over many things. Very touching. God bless you Passy.

  • @jackiendinda4706
    @jackiendinda4706 11 місяців тому

    Im still grieving but I'll remember to come up for air. Thanks for this.

  • @carolmueni1864
    @carolmueni1864 11 місяців тому +4

    This is such an encouraging piece. You are beautiful and eloquent

  • @marrion25
    @marrion25 11 місяців тому +1

    👏👏👏 I have been waiting for this since we 'met' @ LBWC. Message well delivered. I love your bright smile.

  • @joykiniaru1789
    @joykiniaru1789 11 місяців тому

    May God bless Midi

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Oh yes, she left an indelible mark in our lives ...,and her legacy lives on

  • @ragburn20
    @ragburn20 11 місяців тому +5

    Jirani looking gorgeous... Very sorry about middi really sad I'll pass by one day

    • @MiloMyriad
      @MiloMyriad 11 місяців тому

      The worst loss is an abrupt one...But maybe it was a spiritual warfare.
      However, God will wipe away our tears and pain,he will make all things new...

  • @wisdomlife
    @wisdomlife 10 місяців тому

    Haki am relating kabisaa...

  • @rnguku
    @rnguku 11 місяців тому

    She's beautiful

  • @annlinda3846
    @annlinda3846 11 місяців тому +3

    This is another one again I lost my Champion my son who was battling cancer at a young age of 5 the dark day I mark it as 14th July 2023 just what name do you give to a mother who has lost her child pain it is

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому +1

      Oh Ann, losing a child is such a painful tragedy. What name do you give a mother who has lost her child ... she is still a mother. Child may not be in hands but child remains in her heart and from there your son will never depart🫂🫂🫂

  • @stellahmasavu2772
    @stellahmasavu2772 11 місяців тому +1

    Sometimes when it rains it pours.

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 4 місяці тому

      Oh yes it does .... and grace amazes us

  • @sheilaogol9503
    @sheilaogol9503 11 місяців тому

    grief l did😢 2008 through to 12.2012

  • @Jed_Wang
    @Jed_Wang 11 місяців тому

    Wow! ❤ Do you have a Midi in your life?

  • @leegwen958
    @leegwen958 11 місяців тому

    Death is cruel. Grief is more overwhelming.
    I miss my big sis every day. 😢

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      And that is the part of grief that is hard, the learning to live without your loved one .... may the journey get gentle as the days go by

  • @lucylucy3155
    @lucylucy3155 10 місяців тому +2

    Which church does pasi minister in because I feel like this is it? I have finally found a home

  • @emmahgor5622
    @emmahgor5622 8 місяців тому

    I need her contacts, someone please. I'm breaking down.

  • @africanawang2674
    @africanawang2674 11 місяців тому +3

    In Greek we say, wendo nī ùnyamarania.

    • @nyawiramaina6418
      @nyawiramaina6418 11 місяців тому

      Autocorrect definitely spoilt it... Greek😅

    • @africanawang2674
      @africanawang2674 11 місяців тому

      ​@@nyawiramaina6418I'm telling yoh 😂😂

  • @mamjiee3935
    @mamjiee3935 11 місяців тому +2

    Almost 8 months ago my Dad died. I have not grieved him yet🥹

    • @mueniwambua2354
      @mueniwambua2354 8 місяців тому

      Grief is a journey and some journeys are hard to start ... but also grief doesn't go away on its own. May you find the courage to start the journey

  • @Hey.Its.LowKey
    @Hey.Its.LowKey 11 місяців тому +2

    Pasii😅