The problem is the how. I've been disappointed with my life for years and have spent that time trying to improve it and having experiences I feel fulfilled by, but no matter what I do that disappointment always comes back, there's just not enough things in front of me that can make up for what I've lost and missed out on. My happiness being my choice doesn't help when I have no idea what choice will actually make my life into one I can be excited about.
Seems like you need to learn to accept and live with the fact that you've lost and missed out on stuff. We all do miss out on stuff, ALL THE TIME, but focusing on it will only make it bigger. By accepting its existence you can shift focus towards the stuff you can and want to do. "You see what you look for". Are you looking at all the windows in a neighbourhood, then that is what you gonna find, but if I asked you what cars were there, you would have had a hard time answering.
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The problem is the how.
I've been disappointed with my life for years and have spent that time trying to improve it and having experiences I feel fulfilled by, but no matter what I do that disappointment always comes back, there's just not enough things in front of me that can make up for what I've lost and missed out on.
My happiness being my choice doesn't help when I have no idea what choice will actually make my life into one I can be excited about.
Seems like you need to learn to accept and live with the fact that you've lost and missed out on stuff. We all do miss out on stuff, ALL THE TIME, but focusing on it will only make it bigger. By accepting its existence you can shift focus towards the stuff you can and want to do. "You see what you look for". Are you looking at all the windows in a neighbourhood, then that is what you gonna find, but if I asked you what cars were there, you would have had a hard time answering.