It's nice that you want to help your children's father but I also worry about Stephen's intentions or ability to take advantage of your self-admitted codependency.. Please be careful. Codependency as you know obscures obvious red flags from us when we're enmeshed (not a healthy adaptation). I hope you have some kind of therapeutic support from a professional versed in trauma, addiction, and codependency over the next 6 months then. I didn't think I needed it until I had it. But good luck momma. ❤
Absolutely. I could see him staying there "going well" and being "so much more convenient for everyone" and him end up staying longer "for the kids" ..... when Laura owes it to herself to advocate for herself and maintain her boundaries for her wellbeing. You can't be the best for your kids if you're not okay first. ❤ But I'm some stranger on the internet and I don't really know them well at all, so take my feelings with a grain of salt.
this is so beautiful! There's so much joy in the kids there's more love & care in this family than many families & that's what's most important in life Love love love 🥰
Oh Laura….i know the signs of major co-dependency…he’s doing everything he can to.. Never mind. Just please, be careful, stay safe and most of all protect yourself and those precious children. You all’s emotional health is much more important than his foot/ankle (next it will be his back) ❤
@@bluseastar2 when I was making excuses for my ex my therapy looked at me and said “ well, I don’t know, I think he’s just an arsehole”… I needed to hear it
She’s talking about if he has surgery which is true but he isn’t incapable he can still parent in a damn cast if I could work with a broken hand and tailbone to continue paying the bills for my family he can show up with a cast on smh
It’s not too much of a stretch. When I fractured my foot it turned into a break. I had to get pins and a plate put in. I was in my cast for almost 6m. Then the surgery to take out the pins and plate recovery was another 3. This was 13 years ago. My leg is still smaller than my other one 😅
Stephen insists on calling his son nonverbal. The child is speech delayed. And unfortunately both of these people are going off the advice of a Hollywood quack like Dr.Amen. Nice way for Steeeppphen to use the autistic community to excuse his atrocious behavior and exploit his kid.
Laura I send you strength to break from this cycle you’re in. You are pure and kind and deserve complete peace. Unsolicited advice I know I just truly believe in you and care about your future 🥰
I want to see the best in this situation but I can't help but see 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 I wish you the best, Laura and the kids. I pray that Stephen is being honest and not manipulating.
He walked to the front door of the guest house just fine. He wouldn’t show his face either. I guess he didn’t want those pupils showing he’s still a pill popping addict.
Its amazing Laura that you have the patience and ability to allow this. Its awesome. I hope it works out for u both. Just dont put too much on yourself.
No one with a broken foot and twisted ankle is running anywhere like he did .... period. Hes trapping you with whatever he can try. Smh nkt to mention this is probably going to create a huge addiction issue as far as pain medication ... im praying for you and the kids . 😢
Awesomeness. Co-parenting at it finest during stressful times! I love you guys separate or together. Good humans, wonderful parents! Go Alfie! Keep on smiling Poppy!
So.....months ago he wanted to move into the guest house and I assume you said no. Now he's broken his foot and has done nothing whatsoever to help it heal. In fact he's made it worse. And now has moved into the guest house, which is exactly what he wanted. Also where are those amends videos that you deleted?
Hes only move in for 6 days. I'm sure she's already consulting people like her sponsor or whoever knows the situation well enough to help keep her from getting manipulated or at least maneuver through the situation with as many benefits and little impact/damage as possible. He's damn lucky he has an amazing ex wife and mother of his children who can hold it down, despite his bullshit. Hopefully he genuinely appreciates it but their lives are not ours. Not our monkeys and they are adults. We watch little snippets of their life, sometimes.
So you're supportive as long as she makes the decisions YOU agree with. Are you blind? She relies on Stephen A LOT with the kids which is great. It's how it should be....but this is for her too
I’ve a lisp and as a child often experienced bullying but I was big enough to withstand it also taught me to protect others But I’m still very self conscious of my lisp. But strangely several ladies found no it a turn on lol Anyone tell me what causes lisp ???
@@CelticPondDweller I actually have a lisp also, but I wasn't picked on for it. I'm not sure what caused it. I recently learned about babies being tongue tied, where the skin under the tongue is holding down the tongue more than it should. That may have something to do with it
My son is a couple years older than Alfie and also autistic. (As well as ADHD and mild cerebral palsy.) I love seeing how Alfie is doing and his progress! ❤
Kudos to you both for putting Alfie in early intervention🎉 Reaseach shows time and again Early Intervention is so helpful in reaching higher potential. Alfie is doing so well. And Poppy! What a cutie patottie!❤ WAY to go you two! Thanks for letting us be a part of your lives.
Nurse here - I’ve never heard of someone needing to be in a cast for six months. Maybe an orthotic boot but definitely not a cast. Six weeks sounds more like it.
Imusted watched a video,you should rewatch,the one where you admitted you were separated,Laura look back and listen to your pain,him in guest house I’m scared for you and kids,please rewatch
That was a very tired Alfie at the end, very nice neighbour giving snacks and drinks. My daughter loved sleeping in when she was little, and now she's a grumpy teen who still loves sleeping ❤❤
You fall for near to every one of his never ending antics. Get him out of there. He doesn't need an consistent enabler, which you appear to be almost always.
I think she likes it, she likes having him obsessed with her, plus having a boyfriend, she's desperate for attention oh and may a well pimp the kids out too for that attention.
You are an inspiration, Laura! Thank you for sharing these moments with us. Your videos are a comfort and bring me so much joy. Sending care and love from South Africa x
I can't imagine any thinking man would date Laura, yet developing a healthy relationship with her at this time with this ongoing crazy with Stephen's need for her attention after all the deplorable things he has put her through. He will interfere with her own life to bring her down time after time. He wants the guest house for not only financial reasons but to ruin her private life. She just doesn't get what an enabler she is. She can be helped. She just makes up this Stephen and I are family. She is shooting from the hip. No male role model in her life. I am so rooting for her, but actually think there is no way she gets it still, after all these most recent, horrific years putting up with his constant b.s. plus he is so disheveled looking every time I see him.
@@AstrologicalToolscheck out all his hateful posts towards gay and trans people on Instagram. I can’t see his IG anymore because he blocked me for asking what he’s actually doing “for the children” he claims are being “influenced and ab*sed” by gay and trans people.
@@AstrologicalTools why are you so invested in this man? I hate to disappoint you but you are too old for Steve. He likes young impressionable women that he can manipulate. And how do you know how loving their marriage was? You saw edited 10 minute clips that were meant for public consumption. But when the cameras were off, you weren’t there. Sad to be so invested in a man who is so broken.
He is using you and lying. I have had a lot of ankle damage and that dude has full definition. No bruising or inflammation. He lied to you to get you to take care of him
@@shadowpuppet0312i have friends who have addiction issues and they know not to get opiates. I have friends who are allergic to opiates and they get pain killers that are safe for them. Plenty of alternatives if you care about your sobriety
@@kristennations8516maybe it's rude of you to assume that they were assuming. He's spoken about the fact he has been prescribed narcotics with this foot injury.
Wow Alfie really really is thriving!!!! I knew you two were the absolute PERFECT parents for that wonderful boy!!!! I love the way you two co parent, that's always been so important with me and my children's fathers. And miss Poppy is just EVERYTHING!!!! Love your family so so much!!!!
Seriously? The child is having sleep issues and meltdowns. As the mother of an autistic child, this is a horrible situation. They need stability and routine. His father is a hurricane of chaos and his mother is enabling the storm. What’s wrong with you people? 😢
@@ANsMommy1979Autistic children do have sleep issues sometimes. I wouldn't call a bad day a meltdown. These two co-parent perfectly. Their children are well loved and thrive. Poppy is so intelligent. Just a couple of beautiful children with parents that aren't perfect for each other but are perfect for their kids.
@@ANsMommy1979 I'm sorry you feel the way you feel about them. I think they r great parents. I've followed them both for years and I've watched both sides all the way thru. It's also really sad to me that Laura's account is all positive, she's careful with what she does and says, she's really hard on herself already, and dealing with anxiety and a split and learning to navigate co parenting, and instead of women supporting her and lifting her up... They r picking her apart, her parenting apart, her choices and coparenting apart. That will never b me.
He is playing you. I understand wanting to have a good coparent relationship but he is mentally unwell. He had relapsed. He hates your new bf. What good is going to come of this. Nothing.
We can't possibly understand their actual real life stuff. I think she's a grown up and can make solid judgment calls on her own life without unwarranted criticism. Vlogs are a tiny view into a large life we aren't living. Enjoy it or don't but remember that we aren't her friends or family so we should be careful not to overstep by making broad sweeping assumptions that question her judgment.
Daddy's making his injury worse by not following Dr's orders. His hygiene is disgusting. He's relapsed. Sounds like letting him live on your property and "help with the kids" is the best idea ever. 🙄
You criticism of a situation you know nothing of personally is what is disgusting. He is family! Period. If you have nothing positive to contribute, then just the shut up.
@@Technicolor-mother I'm old enough to be his mother and to laugh at juvenile bulls*it. You're so clueless you don't even know how obvious it is that YOU find him so attractive, you think all women do. Stop projecting.😹
Are you the house mother? What a hypocrite. Most of Laura''s followers relentlessly denigrate her husband and even harass him on his own channel. They write the most appalling bulls*it yet she NEVER objects to any of it and that is why the rumors flourish. I'm just another commenter, she's his wife. But you're okay with that. I made one short, reasonable comment and was attacked, so I reasonably responded. That's how it works. Don't like it? Don't read it.
The KneesOverToesGuy on YT for all things knees, Laura. Former military here, and his curriculum has corrected every bit of knee pain I had. Best of luck running - it's my hot yoga.
@@LauraMarieCleryyeah but he does dodge stuff too... Bet you don't see that. He's manipulating you girl... Seriously. Why are you defending someone who behaves the way he does? Just because you were together and have kids together doesn't meant you need to defend this guy and help him with everything in his life. It's overboard now. A lot of young women look up to you and look at the example you're setting for them by being SO involved in his life and vice versa.
If they are random strangers he hasn't had contact with that are sending him unprompted nudes, how would they have his number to contact him and call him?
@@LauraMarieClery you've lost the plot. I've been a fan of you for YEARS but you've now, finally, lost me. Sell your house and start over. Stephen tanked your career, there is no going back.
You look so tired Laura. 💔 I'm going to say this because I want to assume that you're truly in a hard place and want the best. You already admitted that You are extremely codependent. Working your program means that You address The thoughts and behaviors that help create your addiction. You are supposed to change these thoughts and behaviors with therapy. You can't manage Stephen even with all the love in the world. You can't want something more than somebody else wants it. You can't save someone. They have to save themselves. I seriously hope that this doesn't create a toxic situation that will affect you and your children.
All in all hunny, co parenting , which ever way you choose is best for you and your family alone. There is no right or wrong way to co parent. It’s about your family. What works for YOUR family , love u!!!!❤
You have the same relationship I had with my ex. My new fiance and I were helping him all the time. Then he died and it's been 6 months since he's overdosed and I miss him so much but I can only imagine what these past 6 months would have been like if he was still here. I had such a soft spot for him. I really do miss him but we were together for 17 years. I just wish he could have gotten his life together but now that will never happen. I hope Steven can stay sober you don't want to go through what I went through.
Oh my gosh is absolutely astonishing how much Alfie and my son are like. My son brings me my shoes also along with his shoes and whatever else he knows that he puts on before he goes out the door lol Alfie is awesome and amazing they are our neurodivergent superheroes. Loves being outside. Loves to go bye bye whether it's the car or bike or walking..he just can't be cooped up in the house. Autistic ppl need stimuli everyday but not things that'll trigger a meltdown because of the sensory challenges. We're always on the go like u are with alfie
Nothing says "I'VE CHANGED" faster than a narcissist with narcissistic personality disorder in need of someone to take care of them and cater to their every need! Laura, please stop subjecting yourself to his BS. You'll never heal properly if you do not stick to your boundaries. Let him hire a live-in nurse (or should I say nanny, since he's a child in an adult body?) If he's that hurt, but do not become his victim all over again. I guarantee if he's that hurt, a doctor would have him in the hospital, not in your guest house! 🤦🏼♀️ BOUNDARIES! Set them and stick to them!
My daughter broken her arm (2 bones snapped and bent so bad) she was in a cast for 6 weeks Came out the cast one week Broke her arm again 3 days ago had to go under to fix , now she has a metal plate in her arm Absolutely devastating
Ultra runner here. Make sure you have the right shoes for your gait. I need insets so I hit the ground in a way where it isn’t putting extra pressure on my ankles and knees (and pelvis). Cross training is good to strengthen supporting muscles (runners can have an imbalance if they don’t). I also mostly run trails which is not as hard on my joints as well. I used to not be able to walk but I run ultra marathons now ❤️
Laura as someone who tried to live with my bd after we split its impossible they keep trying to slip back in but glad you feel you have a little support but I do feel like it’s an excuse to be closer in your life and know what you’re up too. I had 4 ankle surgeries from 14 to 18 and did fine by myself didn’t need a support perso. Taking care of me the crutches are the only support he needs he slept good by he wasn’t obsessing over what you may be doing without him seems like entitlement
Laura you and stephen are doing amazing with the kids. I know there’s a lot of background noise right now but, the only opinion that matters is the immediate family unit. Alfie talking so well warms my heart.
They should remarry. Not because it would be healthy or positive but because if she wants to have total control the closest she will get is giving up any path forward or any possible healthy relationship. You can't eat your cake and have it too.
I'm impressed with Alfie's progress, especially with talking/connecting. Out of pure curiosity, do you still consider him nonverbal/non conversational? I see him use words and learnt sentences to communicate his wants and needs. That's amazing! ❤
I think once you have that many words/phrases you would consider your child "limited verbally" over non verbal/non-speaking! My son and Alfie are the same age and are so similar it's baffling! So much progress with verbal speaking and the waking up and sneaking into bed 😅
Look like things are going exactly as Stephen planned 😂
It's nice that you want to help your children's father but I also worry about Stephen's intentions or ability to take advantage of your self-admitted codependency.. Please be careful. Codependency as you know obscures obvious red flags from us when we're enmeshed (not a healthy adaptation). I hope you have some kind of therapeutic support from a professional versed in trauma, addiction, and codependency over the next 6 months then. I didn't think I needed it until I had it. But good luck momma. ❤
Came here to say the same thing 🫶🏼
He a weasel🤣😂🤣
Be your own best friend Laura. How would you advise your best friend in this situation?
I think it’s nice helping Stephan. Just get ready when he’s all healed up and have him understand that it’s not permanent.
Absolutely. I could see him staying there "going well" and being "so much more convenient for everyone" and him end up staying longer "for the kids" ..... when Laura owes it to herself to advocate for herself and maintain her boundaries for her wellbeing.
You can't be the best for your kids if you're not okay first. ❤
But I'm some stranger on the internet and I don't really know them well at all, so take my feelings with a grain of salt.
You have beautiful children ❤ they are blessed to have you both as parents
this is so beautiful! There's so much joy in the kids there's more love & care in this family than many families & that's what's most important in life Love love love 🥰
Oh Laura….i know the signs of major co-dependency…he’s doing everything he can to..
Never mind. Just please, be careful, stay safe and most of all protect yourself and those precious children. You all’s emotional health is much more important than his foot/ankle (next it will be his back) ❤
It's the new type of broken foot. Or ankle. You just never heard of it. 🙄
He's a leach 🤣😂🤣
@@bluseastar2 when I was making excuses for my ex my therapy looked at me and said “ well, I don’t know, I think he’s just an arsehole”…
I needed to hear it
I absolutely adore how well y’all co-parent. It it so super important for the kiddos and if more adults acted as so what a difference it would make.♥️
The “Thanks for watching” was beyond adorable
Omg Alfie is communicating so flipping well it brought tears of joy to my eyes!!!!! Your welcome alfie him n poppie hug melted my heart
I literally just broke my ankle in February. I was in a cast for 1 week, then a fracture boot for 6 weeks. 6 months is a lie.
She’s talking about if he has surgery which is true but he isn’t incapable he can still parent in a damn cast if I could work with a broken hand and tailbone to continue paying the bills for my family he can show up with a cast on smh
@recoverymemequeen6810 they're divorced, anc he is toxic and manipulative as all hell. Simping for abusers isn't cure, hun.
It’s not too much of a stretch. When I fractured my foot it turned into a break. I had to get pins and a plate put in. I was in my cast for almost 6m. Then the surgery to take out the pins and plate recovery was another 3. This was 13 years ago. My leg is still smaller than my other one 😅
So much for those so called experts saying he would stay non verbal and not show emotions. He is doing so great and they both are adorable.
Stephen insists on calling his son nonverbal. The child is speech delayed.
And unfortunately both of these people are going off the advice of a Hollywood quack like Dr.Amen.
Nice way for Steeeppphen to use the autistic community to excuse his atrocious behavior and exploit his kid.
Laura I send you strength to break from this cycle you’re in. You are pure and kind and deserve complete peace. Unsolicited advice I know I just truly believe in you and care about your future 🥰
I want to see the best in this situation but I can't help but see 🚩🚩🚩🚩🚩 I wish you the best, Laura and the kids. I pray that Stephen is being honest and not manipulating.
When Alfie said “thanks for watching” I melted 🥹 they are both so cute!! 🥰
He saw the foot wasn’t doing it so he added an ankle. Okey dokey. Best of luck
He walked to the front door of the guest house just fine. He wouldn’t show his face either. I guess he didn’t want those pupils showing he’s still a pill popping addict.
Its amazing Laura that you have the patience and ability to allow this. Its awesome. I hope it works out for u both. Just dont put too much on yourself.
I see everyone’s concern for a helmet.. he’s fast!!!!! 😂😂😂❤❤❤
Alphie is the sweetest. So happy for you all that he’s gaining language 💕🙏🏼
No one with a broken foot and twisted ankle is running anywhere like he did .... period. Hes trapping you with whatever he can try. Smh nkt to mention this is probably going to create a huge addiction issue as far as pain medication ... im praying for you and the kids . 😢
As a momma of two autistic boys it makes me so happy to see him communicate so much. You go momma! ❤
Awesomeness. Co-parenting at it finest during stressful times! I love you guys separate or together. Good humans, wonderful parents! Go Alfie! Keep on smiling Poppy!
Sure… 🤦♀️
Dude, Stephen can walk.
I’m so happy to see Alfies progress. He’s words are phenomenal and all the affection. So happy for him and you, Stephen and Poppi. 😊❤️
So.....months ago he wanted to move into the guest house and I assume you said no. Now he's broken his foot and has done nothing whatsoever to help it heal. In fact he's made it worse. And now has moved into the guest house, which is exactly what he wanted. Also where are those amends videos that you deleted?
He's made it worse HELPING with his children. He hasn't just been goofing off
Who are you to question her choices about HER family?! Smh
Hes only move in for 6 days. I'm sure she's already consulting people like her sponsor or whoever knows the situation well enough to help keep her from getting manipulated or at least maneuver through the situation with as many benefits and little impact/damage as possible. He's damn lucky he has an amazing ex wife and mother of his children who can hold it down, despite his bullshit. Hopefully he genuinely appreciates it but their lives are not ours. Not our monkeys and they are adults. We watch little snippets of their life, sometimes.
@@youpoops I suppose u r right. Didn't think of it like that. X
So you're supportive as long as she makes the decisions YOU agree with. Are you blind? She relies on Stephen A LOT with the kids which is great. It's how it should be....but this is for her too
Poppys little voice and her little lisp is about the cutest thing Ive ever seen
I’ve a lisp and as a child often experienced bullying but I was big enough to withstand it also taught me to protect others
But I’m still very self conscious of my lisp. But strangely several ladies found no it a turn on lol
Anyone tell me what causes lisp ???
@@CelticPondDweller I actually have a lisp also, but I wasn't picked on for it. I'm not sure what caused it. I recently learned about babies being tongue tied, where the skin under the tongue is holding down the tongue more than it should. That may have something to do with it
My son is a couple years older than Alfie and also autistic. (As well as ADHD and mild cerebral palsy.) I love seeing how Alfie is doing and his progress! ❤
Kudos to you both for putting Alfie in early intervention🎉 Reaseach shows time and again Early Intervention is so helpful in reaching higher potential. Alfie is doing so well. And Poppy! What a cutie patottie!❤ WAY to go you two! Thanks for letting us be a part of your lives.
Alfie's come a long way! You must be very proud of his progress. :)
Nurse here - I’ve never heard of someone needing to be in a cast for six months. Maybe an orthotic boot but definitely not a cast. Six weeks sounds more like it.
I had a friend who was in a boot cast on and off for months. Turned out a year later almost she needed surgery for it to heal
Also I say this because I don’t trust Stephen at all and don’t want him to be lying to you about these things.
@@paulamacdonald7070 There are absolutely exceptions and so many other factors in play.
It's good content ,As long as we're not being manipulated!!....
I sometimes wonder how much is just 'content' and how much is really true?
@@Lisajed The only two people who know what’s really true are Stephen and Laura.
He’s totally playing you! Get him out!
Imusted watched a video,you should rewatch,the one where you admitted you were separated,Laura look back and listen to your pain,him in guest house I’m scared for you and kids,please rewatch
That was a very tired Alfie at the end, very nice neighbour giving snacks and drinks. My daughter loved sleeping in when she was little, and now she's a grumpy teen who still loves sleeping ❤❤
I had one of these 😜
laura u r honestly a natural at being a mom so much deep love
You fall for near to every one of his never ending antics. Get him out of there. He doesn't need an consistent enabler, which you appear to be almost always.
I think she likes it, she likes having him obsessed with her, plus having a boyfriend, she's desperate for attention oh and may a well pimp the kids out too for that attention.
He’s a master manipulator
@@Sparkinthedarkness100%
Those walks..with your son..so beautiful..so special ❤
You are an inspiration, Laura! Thank you for sharing these moments with us. Your videos are a comfort and bring me so much joy. Sending care and love from South Africa x
I can't imagine any thinking man would date Laura, yet developing a healthy relationship with her at this time with this ongoing crazy with Stephen's need for her attention after all the deplorable things he has put her through. He will interfere with her own life to bring her down time after time. He wants the guest house for not only financial reasons but to ruin her private life. She just doesn't get what an enabler she is. She can be helped. She just makes up this Stephen and I are family. She is shooting from the hip. No male role model in her life. I am so rooting for her, but actually think there is no way she gets it still, after all these most recent, horrific years putting up with his constant b.s. plus he is so disheveled looking every time I see him.
They appeared to have a loving marriage for years, so I'm curious why you dislike him so much? What did he do wrong that he was forced to leave?
@@AstrologicalToolscheck out all his hateful posts towards gay and trans people on Instagram. I can’t see his IG anymore because he blocked me for asking what he’s actually doing “for the children” he claims are being “influenced and ab*sed” by gay and trans people.
@HumanTorch1988 what a disgusting comment. My comment got deleted because it was critical of Stephen but this one definitely deserves to be deleted!
@@AstrologicalTools why are you so invested in this man? I hate to disappoint you but you are too old for Steve. He likes young impressionable women that he can manipulate.
And how do you know how loving their marriage was? You saw edited 10 minute clips that were meant for public consumption.
But when the cameras were off, you weren’t there.
Sad to be so invested in a man who is so broken.
@HumanTorch1988lmao
Okay misogynistic toolbox
Alfie is progressing in leaps and bounds! So exciting!
Poppy and alfie literally warm my heart. You two are lovely parents
Alfieeeee!!! You’re getting so many great tools to express how you’re feeling buddy! I couldn’t be more proud of you,way to go Alfie boy!
Your kids seem so happy!
So... When is the cat out of the bag that Stephen's the secret boyfriend? 😹
Y’all chill. He’s the father and it isn’t easy doing it alone let alone kiddos w special needs.
He is using you and lying. I have had a lot of ankle damage and that dude has full definition. No bruising or inflammation. He lied to you to get you to take care of him
And it got him a few narcotics prescriptions. Don't forget that part. The pill addict got narcotics twice from this injury. That we know of
@@shadowpuppet0312i have friends who have addiction issues and they know not to get opiates. I have friends who are allergic to opiates and they get pain killers that are safe for them. Plenty of alternatives if you care about your sobriety
@@shadowpuppet0312 wow, what a rude assumption
@@kristennations8516 He said it himself 😂 It's not an assumption when he talked about it.
@@kristennations8516maybe it's rude of you to assume that they were assuming. He's spoken about the fact he has been prescribed narcotics with this foot injury.
You are such an AMAZING mother, Laura ❤
Wow Alfie really really is thriving!!!! I knew you two were the absolute PERFECT parents for that wonderful boy!!!! I love the way you two co parent, that's always been so important with me and my children's fathers. And miss Poppy is just EVERYTHING!!!! Love your family so so much!!!!
Seriously? The child is having sleep issues and meltdowns.
As the mother of an autistic child, this is a horrible situation. They need stability and routine.
His father is a hurricane of chaos and his mother is enabling the storm.
What’s wrong with you people? 😢
@@ANsMommy1979Autistic children do have sleep issues sometimes. I wouldn't call a bad day a meltdown. These two co-parent perfectly. Their children are well loved and thrive. Poppy is so intelligent. Just a couple of beautiful children with parents that aren't perfect for each other but are perfect for their kids.
@@ANsMommy1979 I'm sorry you feel the way you feel about them. I think they r great parents. I've followed them both for years and I've watched both sides all the way thru. It's also really sad to me that Laura's account is all positive, she's careful with what she does and says, she's really hard on herself already, and dealing with anxiety and a split and learning to navigate co parenting, and instead of women supporting her and lifting her up... They r picking her apart, her parenting apart, her choices and coparenting apart. That will never b me.
@@angieo2245 yaaaas!!! Fully agree with you💜
Aww such a sweet little boy.
Helmet while scootering?
With his autism he may not allow it. I know it’s extremely important but he may not like the feeling or anything.
Then he should not be scootering
Unfortunately my daughter suffered a concussion because I did not have proper protective gear on her 😢
He is playing you. I understand wanting to have a good coparent relationship but he is mentally unwell. He had relapsed. He hates your new bf. What good is going to come of this. Nothing.
When did he relapse?
Ya when ?
Mentally he relapsed @@kristennations8516
We can't possibly understand their actual real life stuff. I think she's a grown up and can make solid judgment calls on her own life without unwarranted criticism.
Vlogs are a tiny view into a large life we aren't living. Enjoy it or don't but remember that we aren't her friends or family so we should be careful not to overstep by making broad sweeping assumptions that question her judgment.
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Be careful, Mama❣️
Daddy's making his injury worse by not following Dr's orders. His hygiene is disgusting. He's relapsed. Sounds like letting him live on your property and "help with the kids" is the best idea ever. 🙄
May no one ever talk shit about you and everyone blindly believe it. But karma does have its way.
Did it work? Did he pick you? Are you married yet? @@AstrologicalTools
You criticism of a situation you know nothing of personally is what is disgusting. He is family! Period. If you have nothing positive to contribute, then just the shut up.
@@Technicolor-mother I'm old enough to be his mother and to laugh at juvenile bulls*it. You're so clueless you don't even know how obvious it is that YOU find him so attractive, you think all women do. Stop projecting.😹
Are you the house mother? What a hypocrite. Most of Laura''s followers relentlessly denigrate her husband and even harass him on his own channel. They write the most appalling bulls*it yet she NEVER objects to any of it and that is why the rumors flourish. I'm just another commenter, she's his wife. But you're okay with that.
I made one short, reasonable comment and was attacked, so I reasonably responded. That's how it works. Don't like it? Don't read it.
The KneesOverToesGuy on YT for all things knees, Laura. Former military here, and his curriculum has corrected every bit of knee pain I had. Best of luck running - it's my hot yoga.
Ho's? Really Laura? You sound very immature and mean girl here. Thought you were better than that. Guess not.
Trust me I’m not talking about her… the amount of girls sending him unprompted nudes was insane and disturbing
@@LauraMarieCleryyeah but he does dodge stuff too... Bet you don't see that. He's manipulating you girl... Seriously. Why are you defending someone who behaves the way he does? Just because you were together and have kids together doesn't meant you need to defend this guy and help him with everything in his life. It's overboard now. A lot of young women look up to you and look at the example you're setting for them by being SO involved in his life and vice versa.
If they are random strangers he hasn't had contact with that are sending him unprompted nudes, how would they have his number to contact him and call him?
@@LauraMarieClery you've lost the plot. I've been a fan of you for YEARS but you've now, finally, lost me. Sell your house and start over. Stephen tanked your career, there is no going back.
@@TJCPACANUCKRight a fan for years with a 6 month account. Mind your business. This is her family, not yours.
You look so tired Laura. 💔 I'm going to say this because I want to assume that you're truly in a hard place and want the best. You already admitted that You are extremely codependent. Working your program means that You address The thoughts and behaviors that help create your addiction. You are supposed to change these thoughts and behaviors with therapy. You can't manage Stephen even with all the love in the world. You can't want something more than somebody else wants it. You can't save someone. They have to save themselves. I seriously hope that this doesn't create a toxic situation that will affect you and your children.
All in all hunny, co parenting , which ever way you choose is best for you and your family alone. There is no right or wrong way to co parent. It’s about your family. What works for YOUR family , love u!!!!❤
You have the same relationship I had with my ex. My new fiance and I were helping him all the time. Then he died and it's been 6 months since he's overdosed and I miss him so much but I can only imagine what these past 6 months would have been like if he was still here. I had such a soft spot for him. I really do miss him but we were together for 17 years. I just wish he could have gotten his life together but now that will never happen. I hope Steven can stay sober you don't want to go through what I went through.
Oh my gosh is absolutely astonishing how much Alfie and my son are like. My son brings me my shoes also along with his shoes and whatever else he knows that he puts on before he goes out the door lol Alfie is awesome and amazing they are our neurodivergent superheroes. Loves being outside. Loves to go bye bye whether it's the car or bike or walking..he just can't be cooped up in the house. Autistic ppl need stimuli everyday but not things that'll trigger a meltdown because of the sensory challenges. We're always on the go like u are with alfie
Nothing says "I'VE CHANGED" faster than a narcissist with narcissistic personality disorder in need of someone to take care of them and cater to their every need!
Laura, please stop subjecting yourself to his BS. You'll never heal properly if you do not stick to your boundaries.
Let him hire a live-in nurse (or should I say nanny, since he's a child in an adult body?) If he's that hurt, but do not become his victim all over again.
I guarantee if he's that hurt, a doctor would have him in the hospital, not in your guest house! 🤦🏼♀️
BOUNDARIES! Set them and stick to them!
get him out of there!
Laura is an adult and I bet she knows what’s best for her family more than you do.
He needs a knee scooter with a basket. Those things are awesome.
Saved my life when I broke my ankle. ❤
It will work out good. ❤
My 3 year old daughter sleeps late too! Sometime til 930 which blows my mind 😂😂😂
Loved this video Laura. ❤your family is beautiful and you are such a good Mommy and you guys are parenting so well together for your kids. 🩷💛
You need to take your rose coloured glasses off, this is not a healthy situation
Alfie is such an adorable boy 😍…cuuuteee
Your children are amazing.
Stephen n Laura are both back together clearly trialling it in guest house
My daughter broken her arm (2 bones snapped and bent so bad) she was in a cast for 6 weeks
Came out the cast one week
Broke her arm again 3 days ago had to go under to fix , now she has a metal plate in her arm
Absolutely devastating
You are the kindest person.
Love ya lauraaaa ❤️
Praying he doesn't learn to use things like this to manipulate you to keep him close.
It’s exactly what he’s doing right now
Too late. Already in motion.
I tried it once and was sick and drained for 2 days. Im sticking to regular yoga. 😊
Broken foot and no pain relief 💊 ❌ . That’s rough 😢
You're a wonderful mama ❤
Ultra runner here. Make sure you have the right shoes for your gait. I need insets so I hit the ground in a way where it isn’t putting extra pressure on my ankles and knees (and pelvis). Cross training is good to strengthen supporting muscles (runners can have an imbalance if they don’t). I also mostly run trails which is not as hard on my joints as well. I used to not be able to walk but I run ultra marathons now ❤️
Such beautiful kids !!!😮
Alfie and Poppy so adorable. Super Poppy! ❤
Alfie's come a long way! LOVE the Nate Dogg riff😂❤😎
Awww.. Your children touch my heart. ❤ They're doing so great. "Thanks for watching!" 🥰
Laura as someone who tried to live with my bd after we split its impossible they keep trying to slip back in but glad you feel you have a little support but I do feel like it’s an excuse to be closer in your life and know what you’re up too. I had 4 ankle surgeries from 14 to 18 and did fine by myself didn’t need a support perso. Taking care of me the crutches are the only support he needs he slept good by he wasn’t obsessing over what you may be doing without him seems like entitlement
Broken foot in pain running to.the door?! Unreal⚠️⚠️⚠️
Alfie and Poppy are toooooo cute!!!!!
Hes using you 🤣😂🤣
You both need help. Officially done with you both. bye.
Im so happy things are so good with alfie
Laura please ignore the negativity,,,Love you and kids
You mean the serious concern for her safety and mental health and that of her children.
Yes, ignore people showing concern she let a domestic abuser back into her home!
She is ignoring it. That’s the issue
@@moeszylak2779he's hurt and she's being compassionate and helping him out. You people need to get a life and mind your own business
@@Imaseeker13 He physically assaulted her. He likes to playrape with his PMA. Dude probably broke his own foot just to score drugs.
To protect your knees get good running shoes, learn good running form - avoid lateral movements
I think this is a major factor to your stress rn
Stephen will def drag this out to stay as long as he can won’t be surprised if he doesn’t take care of it and “needs” surgery
Laura you and stephen are doing amazing with the kids. I know there’s a lot of background noise right now but, the only opinion that matters is the immediate family unit. Alfie talking so well warms my heart.
My daughter got a concussion on the same scooter.
Does he get to barge in her house whenever he wants?
Evidently so.
Evidently so. There is no reason he has a key or any sane right to enter her home.
Well there goes any chance of ever finding a new stable relationship next thing you know 10 years have gone by and he's still in the guest house😮
She is as obsessed with him as he is with her.
They should remarry. Not because it would be healthy or positive but because if she wants to have total control the closest she will get is giving up any path forward or any possible healthy relationship. You can't eat your cake and have it too.
I know you'll always make the best choices for you and your family ❤️❤️❤️❤️
Alfie and Poppy are both thriving. Give yourself a break - you’re doing great, Mom!
Super popppoyyyyyy and super Alfie!!!
Alfie is thriving Laura ❤
I like how I’m reminded of my cat when I try to kiss him when you’re trying to kiss Alfie!
Same 😂
I'm impressed with Alfie's progress, especially with talking/connecting. Out of pure curiosity, do you still consider him nonverbal/non conversational? I see him use words and learnt sentences to communicate his wants and needs. That's amazing! ❤
I think once you have that many words/phrases you would consider your child "limited verbally" over non verbal/non-speaking! My son and Alfie are the same age and are so similar it's baffling! So much progress with verbal speaking and the waking up and sneaking into bed 😅
I think some hardware places let you do a daily rental for a sander
Laura, your kids and your heart, so amazing. 🥹❤️
Steven needs to find his own space to be a sociopath freely and away from you.
And now a psychopath. His newest single!!!
Oh no. I hope this ends well for you Laura