This would of went straight to the grave with me, only me and God would have known about what was going on , with what she got going on, which is nasty for me, that's not natural behavior And she came straight to social media instead of getting her therapist in private 🙄🥺🤦🏽🤦🏽
I understand it’s hard for women to date in 2024 but the desperation is sad.If you don’t want back door action then don’t even entertain him.Be single and abstain and if you must date don’t be so desperate.
As I understand it’s usually men who are inadequate in size. I hear this from many women. These are heterosexual men who want to feel more control during intercourse.
@@jayc5756 Bro you are defending this? I see why some “Sista’s” have zero confidence in male leadership!! There is no way………um neva mind…..Low vibrational people will “water sand” and then wonder why an “oasis” will not grow .
I don’t need to watch the video, the answer is that it doesn’t matter. If you’re uncomfortable and not being fulfilled, leave. This concludes my Ted Talk.
@EvaElyse I LOVE that shame is a thing of the past, people can cry out for help and get support vs the olden days where you cried and accepted abuse in silence for fear of being “judged”
This girl needs to get herself all the way together. Men know when women are desperate. GET TO A PLACE WHERE YOU ARE TRULY COMFORTABLE BEING BY YOURSELF. Then, you will be better able to attract better people, and be better able to evaluate your options.
She likes the backdoor, she cappin, he turned her a$$ out , and she misses that action, 🟤🟤, he made her feel some type of way too, she was digging for reals 👍🏽
This reminds me of first bf I had, kept asking for back door pleasure. I lit didn't even know it was a thing. I kept making fun of him asking if he's secretly gay. He got furious and told me never to make that type of fun about him again. Later we broke up. But, moral of the story is if it's not for you don't do it. You should never force yourself to please anyone. 🍀
Most women 9/10 knows what the hell we going/want to do anyways even when we asking for advice. The key word she mentioned is that she’s single and it’s so hard out here. Ashely is right , change your approach and also get your mind out the gutter .They are plenty quality men out here. Y’all just lazy when it comes to dating. Plus she already has a child, she got to work even harder. She’s nice looking in face, get your body right, mind and just move different. I promise she’ll find someone. Change your mindset about relationships, good vibes only.
@@candorsspot2775 That's why you vet good and the low effort men, you Clearly don't entertain...so it doesn't go any further. But unfortunately, the low effort men that's Not really fully interested in you, a lot of women feel the need to pursue them and/or chase them. Then when it doesn't work out in the long run, they crying & whining and wondering what happened. SMH 🤦♂️
That is so true what Ashley said, the man would be asking you after a couple weeks to be with him. My now husband asked me to be exclusive after a week of dating. Here we are married four years later women got to stop being desperate. Let go of the BDE =big desperate energy
After what she just admitted on THE INTERNET, She says she wants a guy who ‘knows god’, in addition to having a son out of wedlock😮…Then she says their morals don’t align 😅..2+2=5
The real question is if you want to waste your time again or not. He wants to be with you to most likely fulfill his fantasies some more and yall will break up again.
She definitely gotta change her mindset...or else she will keep attracting these same type of dudes. FR Stop Settling. Be Comfortable Single. Vet good to get the Right Partner. Period!
@@MsBrittChannel Yeah and no. Cause you know, the easy sign is if they super freaky. So a lot of DL dudes do it all. They need super freaky shit to get off...or just to turn them on period. Whereas us straight men, we don't Need extra to turn us on...a woman right there that we are attracted to is enough of a turn on already.
I think it’s important for her to change her view of what she wants. The things she was saying that she said she may think is a lot is exactly why she’s in that position. I would recommend dating for the fun of it (no sexual relationship) while working on changing her mindset. I think she has the physical beauty down but, the internal one seems to be lacking. I could see that she doesn’t really trust of her self.
I would say renew her mind b4 dating. It’s hard to walk away from the things you desire when you have a weak mindset… if she tries to do both, she’ll still end up in the same circumstance
@5:01 She said "he needs to know God". When she gets serious about God, she can read her Bible and find the other word for "backdoor" behavior. It's referenced many times, and complete with an exciting story, a moral ending and a warning. Imho, she's playing with fire.
What do you think they really mean when they say 'knows God'? Clearly they can't be talking about living by God's commands. What do they really mean? I hear this a lot.
@@candorsspot2775 Most people cherry pick from the Bible and figure God won't mind. I've been guilty of cherry picking the easy rules while minimizing the hard, tempting ones myself. Over the years I've learned God's commandments to live by are to protect us as individuals as well as a community.
@@candorsspot2775 it’s because a true man of God will not cheat or play in their face. They want a man like that but most of that so that can be well assured that a man won’t cheat, disrespect, or leave.
@@Dawgyjoe Ahhh... So that's the type of man they want while they cheat, be disrespectful and won't obey? A lot of them conveniently omit the fact that they are to obey their husband.
“He needs to know God” but has back door activities with a man she doesn’t know well. 🙄🙄 It seems like a lot if ladies are committed to suffering. because there’s no way they don’t hear how they’re literally playing themselves. Men have NEVER changed yet ladies keep acting surprised. ADAPT and love yourself.
Prioritize yourself and every level of your health, beloved. Mental, spiritual, and physical all sound like they're being compromised. You were created in the image of God. Demand better for yourself, he does. It's time for a healing journey if you don't think so.❤
Ladies dating is not a game show that you go out with everyone and sleep with everyone and rack up more bodies. Master yourself get over the trauma that you have been through and then find your match. Nobody’s perfect stop looking for Mr. perfect and find someone that you can grow with that respects you that wants to grow with you.
She literally let what the lady said to her go over her head. She said to figure out your standards or he wouldn’t be back and then she said, oh no he’s not back…but he’s begging so I’m wondering if I should give it another chance….
She’s not content being single, but she’s also doesn’t enjoy a long term relationship with that guy but she’s willing to settle because she hasn’t found a better substitute
By the sounds of it, they are just hooking up and the pushy is trash or the pH is off. I don't know why a gay dude would be begging and begging to hook up with a woman. She's not even a beard for him as he doesn't want to be seen in public with her. It also explains why she can't find another dude to hook up with.
i feel her.....i had an ex like this which is wild because im not into it so he would get off on tapping at the door but not actually completely entering! we didnt last long but of course he still wants me. its never my best eater its always the man i dont want that wants me. 😂
I prefer to keep it this way so that in case someone reports my video, we have VERBAL consent. It only takes 10 seconds to ask, and it doesn't bother me at all.
I dont have to see this to answer this based on the title...Definitely Yes. I mean, Clearly. Do you even need to know the obvious answer? Cmon now. SMH 🤦♂️
Why should a new man be a father figure?? I'm not trying to play step mom been there done that. Most men not trying play step daddy. Let his dad be a dad. Don't put expectations on a person u dint have kids with
Girl are you serious?2i lived was in a relationship with dL man. He's dl unless the front is too loose but for the most part, if he wanted it not u the he's bisexual ok
@@ashleyldalton ok!🙏🏽not being disrespectful but you were dabbing your face at the beginning of the video,I thought you would dab the sweat or oil off your forehead because it is reflecting a lot of light,but if you intended it to look like that, no problem!
Situationship expired, and the ex-booty call is now shaming him? Sounds like a Tuesday. You will shame a quality man into taking you seriously. They'll just move on. Cringe AF.
He's bisexual at least %90 % if the front door is top loose then I don't know but if hes always doing it then he's dl . He doesn't mind doing it to u or a man. If downstairs not smelling right, then the guy bot going down.
I don't understand why us women have a problem being single. Work on you like wth. Like you always need a man. So hung up on penis. Then get upset when guys don't take you on dates.
This is so so silly.... she likes it but now wants him to jump through hoops to get with her. She never directly answer questions the host asks. She deflects a lot. Very disingenuous.
You never get what you want because you're very disingenuous particularly with that hairhat she's wearing. Change your approach, be more natural and real. All she wants to talk about is sex with a previous partner on social media. That previous partner will see this video and she will be ostracized.
Low self esteem is real 😂. If she needs to upgrage her prospects....she gotta lose some weight too. Most black women would rather buy a $400 wig than a $10 month gym membership. Smh
What in the Sodom and Gomorrah is going on here? 👀
😂
🤣😂
Exactly yuck
😂😂😂
THIS!!!!
You couldn't beat this conversation out of me!!!
With everything you have on hand, and what you can buy from a sports shop!
@@Gem-n-life right!
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This would of went straight to the grave with me, only me and God would have known about what was going on , with what she got going on, which is nasty for me, that's not natural behavior
And she came straight to social media instead of getting her therapist in private 🙄🥺🤦🏽🤦🏽
I understand it’s hard for women to date in 2024 but the desperation is sad.If you don’t want back door action then don’t even entertain him.Be single and abstain and if you must date don’t be so desperate.
EXACTLY. Very Simple!
Shii it’s hard for men too in 2024. Not only y’all. We all need a reset button.
It is hard for both men and women. I think it is easier for the most desirable people who don't really put their heart in it.
@@hrstories2 We know it's tough on both sides...in different ways. That wasn't the main point she was talking about though.
ikr, if you have morals and values, then stick to them and change for no one
This is sad. I’m sorry girl. You better get tested and take care. He’s not into you. “Not asking for much” got you here.
Exactly
After i read the title I decided he was down low. Im not entertaining down low behavior.
Girl my first comment says: Title comment: yes 😂😂 if I got to question your sexuality, then to me you’re just gay 🤷🏾♀️
He definitely is.
After reading the title, i decided that her vagina is no good.
As I understand it’s usually men who are inadequate in size. I hear this from many women. These are heterosexual men who want to feel more control during intercourse.
What if her vag is trash 🗑
Lawwdddd she came online to reveal this….smh 😂😂😂😂😂😂😂
She better not try to manipulate Ashley’s UA-cam channel after she act like a goddamn idiot and just put herself out there in such a vulnerable manner
GOH! It's a show dude, that's what we do here.
They are not smart.
@@jayc5756 Bro you are defending this? I see why some “Sista’s” have zero confidence in male leadership!! There is no way………um neva mind…..Low vibrational people will “water sand” and then wonder why an “oasis” will not grow .
😂😂😂 this comment!!
I don’t need to watch the video, the answer is that it doesn’t matter. If you’re uncomfortable and not being fulfilled, leave. This concludes my Ted Talk.
Yea, it really is as simple as that.
Men like dates. If we don’t take you on dates. We don’t look at you like that.
lol not all men 😂.
big facts
no.
Damn 😢
On a public platform!? This is crazy
Shame is a thing of past for most now smh
She wants attention from more men all I can think of why she would do this . Desperate attention in this case 😂
@@EvaElyse Yup. I long for the day where decorum and class are normal again when interacting in public society. SMH
@EvaElyse I LOVE that shame is a thing of the past, people can cry out for help and get support vs the olden days where you cried and accepted abuse in silence for fear of being “judged”
@@tertra114Hence, why the community is the way it is😅
This girl needs to get herself all the way together. Men know when women are desperate. GET TO A PLACE WHERE YOU ARE TRULY COMFORTABLE BEING BY YOURSELF. Then, you will be better able to attract better people, and be better able to evaluate your options.
He’s only coming back because she’s an opportunity he feels like he can take advantage of.
She needs to get her discernment up for sure…
Super Facts!
She's a good cover up for his lifestyle
bingo
Why would you even consider wanting this man back?
She's unattractive so clearly her options are limited
She likes him...that's why.
She likes the backdoor, she cappin, he turned her a$$ out , and she misses that action, 🟤🟤, he made her feel some type of way too, she was digging for reals 👍🏽
She said she “still single”, she feel desperate n lonely
Gurl never compromise yourself!! Especially something you are not comfortable with to begin with!!
She wants a God fearing man but practices back door action and has no issue saying it online...🤯 Hope she finds someone still
He only came back bc nobody else would do that.
Exactly the woman he really want not down if he even asked her but quick to ask this lady because she desperate lol
That woman is so pretty! That man she’s messing with is selfish and probably DL! She needs to move on FAST!
the danger of not being consistent with what you want,
facts, stick to your values and beliefs
Yes exactly
Low self esteem will do that
What did you mean he’s not a date kind of person? I keep telling my sisters to have some standards😩🤦🏽♀️
Exactly he just don't want her . Obviously. Excuses men make equal code for I don't like you
This reminds me of first bf I had, kept asking for back door pleasure. I lit didn't even know it was a thing. I kept making fun of him asking if he's secretly gay. He got furious and told me never to make that type of fun about him again. Later we broke up. But, moral of the story is if it's not for you don't do it. You should never force yourself to please anyone. 🍀
Follow up story needed… so has he come out or is he married with a beard 😂❤😅
@@delightfular9200 girl it’s been 1 more month? Story time story time !!!!!!!
@@CarmelBun92 🤣😅🤣 I have no idea. We live on different continents now. I never saw him again.
Men looking for wives are not scared. While being in the presence of a confident woman, with values and standards.
She is desperate as hell. Period.
fr fr, she is too thirsty and needs to stand up for what she wants in a relationship
Most women 9/10 knows what the hell we going/want to do anyways even when we asking for advice. The key word she mentioned is that she’s single and it’s so hard out here. Ashely is right , change your approach and also get your mind out the gutter .They are plenty quality men out here. Y’all just lazy when it comes to dating. Plus she already has a child, she got to work even harder. She’s nice looking in face, get your body right, mind and just move different. I promise she’ll find someone. Change your mindset about relationships, good vibes only.
Most of them are low effort. So they get these results..
EXACTLY!!!
@@candorsspot2775 That's why you vet good and the low effort men, you Clearly don't entertain...so it doesn't go any further.
But unfortunately, the low effort men that's Not really fully interested in you, a lot of women feel the need to pursue them and/or chase them.
Then when it doesn't work out in the long run, they crying & whining and wondering what happened. SMH 🤦♂️
She seems so defeated😢
😷🤢
She needs Jesus. He’ll give her more peace than she could ever imagine. Some Jesus with his discernment will get out of these situations
That is so true what Ashley said, the man would be asking you after a couple weeks to be with him. My now husband asked me to be exclusive after a week of dating. Here we are married four years later women got to stop being desperate. Let go of the BDE =big desperate energy
the first problem is offering your body to a guy who has no desire to marry you
After what she just admitted on THE INTERNET, She says she wants a guy who ‘knows god’, in addition to having a son out of wedlock😮…Then she says their morals don’t align 😅..2+2=5
Well it seems like perhaps there is something that’s not aligned. However, I do agree with most of what you’ve noted.
She needs to pick a side that's for sure
😂😂😂Ashley: You’re meeting MEAN men who have BAD BREATH and no MORALS?!?!?! 😂😂😂x
lol I'm trying not to laugh
Sis please get healed, find you. Establish boundaries.. No means no point blank period. ❤️❤️❤️
The real question is if you want to waste your time again or not. He wants to be with you to most likely fulfill his fantasies some more and yall will break up again.
He wants a beard
She’s worried about the wrong things. She said he don’t have the right values so why she seeing him in the first place?
When you take them back you make them start all over again. No seggs
Exactly
She definitely gotta change her mindset...or else she will keep attracting these same type of dudes. FR
Stop Settling. Be Comfortable Single. Vet good to get the Right Partner. Period!
He's the G or B if not that the Q in the Lgbtqia community ma'am
Facts! Exactly
😂😂😂
Yup, and the icing on the cake was when she said he refuses to go down on her 😢😮 That's a dead giveaway
@@MsBrittChannel Yeah and no. Cause you know, the easy sign is if they super freaky. So a lot of DL dudes do it all. They need super freaky shit to get off...or just to turn them on period. Whereas us straight men, we don't Need extra to turn us on...a woman right there that we are attracted to is enough of a turn on already.
😂😂😂
At this point, asking/desiring a "GODLY" person is a RED FLAG!!!
You would already know if someone is by talking to them. You have to be Godly yourself to recognize when someone is, or isn’t.
Chile you to old… for this. You saying your morals don’t align. Move along expeditiously
She knows that it's something else with him. You knw if your man is gay.
I think it’s important for her to change her view of what she wants. The things she was saying that she said she may think is a lot is exactly why she’s in that position. I would recommend dating for the fun of it (no sexual relationship) while working on changing her mindset. I think she has the physical beauty down but, the internal one seems to be lacking. I could see that she doesn’t really trust of her self.
Yea let's act like she doesn't need to lose a few pounds 😂 You, ladies act like your weight should not matter to get a guy of value.
Today most men won’t entertain women unless they give it up.She can change her mindset but males will still be the same.
@@maxlogan7388 there’s men who enjoy women her size. It’s not one size fits all.
I would say renew her mind b4 dating. It’s hard to walk away from the things you desire when you have a weak mindset… if she tries to do both, she’ll still end up in the same circumstance
You're on point on her mindset and view of herself. Super Facts!
🤓🤓could never be me.
@5:01 She said "he needs to know God". When she gets serious about God, she can read her Bible and find the other word for "backdoor" behavior. It's referenced many times, and complete with an exciting story, a moral ending and a warning. Imho, she's playing with fire.
What do you think they really mean when they say 'knows God'? Clearly they can't be talking about living by God's commands. What do they really mean? I hear this a lot.
@@candorsspot2775 Most people cherry pick from the Bible and figure God won't mind. I've been guilty of cherry picking the easy rules while minimizing the hard, tempting ones myself. Over the years I've learned God's commandments to live by are to protect us as individuals as well as a community.
@@candorsspot2775 it’s because a true man of God will not cheat or play in their face. They want a man like that but most of that so that can be well assured that a man won’t cheat, disrespect, or leave.
@@Dawgyjoe Ahhh... So that's the type of man they want while they cheat, be disrespectful and won't obey? A lot of them conveniently omit the fact that they are to obey their husband.
@@candorsspot2775 yea lol true
Corinthians 6:12-13
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🙌🏾 this is why most men don't take women who say they are Christians seriously.
What more do you need to know ????😢😂😂😂😂😂 -Tyrese voice
“He needs to know God” but has back door activities with a man she doesn’t know well. 🙄🙄
It seems like a lot if ladies are committed to suffering. because there’s no way they don’t hear how they’re literally playing themselves.
Men have NEVER changed yet ladies keep acting surprised. ADAPT and love yourself.
Young ladies of the world … really?!!!
And it is ok being single....what do you want? Because if you do not know what you want; how do you know when it is in front of you
Prioritize yourself and every level of your health, beloved. Mental, spiritual, and physical all sound like they're being compromised. You were created in the image of God. Demand better for yourself, he does. It's time for a healing journey if you don't think so.❤
Back door with a guy you hardly know
Ladies dating is not a game show that you go out with everyone and sleep with everyone and rack up more bodies. Master yourself get over the trauma that you have been through and then find your match. Nobody’s perfect stop looking for Mr. perfect and find someone that you can grow with that respects you that wants to grow with you.
Indeed!!
She literally let what the lady said to her go over her head.
She said to figure out your standards or he wouldn’t be back and then she said, oh no he’s not back…but he’s begging so I’m wondering if I should give it another chance….
She’s not content being single, but she’s also doesn’t enjoy a long term relationship with that guy but she’s willing to settle because she hasn’t found a better substitute
Settling for the homosexual man instead of getting your inner self together is crazy!
Girl run
Gurrrrlllaaa🙄🙄🙄....WTH....Grow up...set boundaries
By the sounds of it, they are just hooking up and the pushy is trash or the pH is off. I don't know why a gay dude would be begging and begging to hook up with a woman.
She's not even a beard for him as he doesn't want to be seen in public with her.
It also explains why she can't find another dude to hook up with.
Thank you. She trying to shame the man, but clearly she is nothing to him. Even to the point he doesnt want to look at you during sex.
Yes. Yes he is.
i feel her.....i had an ex like this which is wild because im not into it so he would get off on tapping at the door but not actually completely entering! we didnt last long but of course he still wants me. its never my best eater its always the man i dont want that wants me. 😂
Not him tapping at the door because you won't let him enter. 😂😂😂
Yall gotta change yall mindset. FR
Yeah, of course he still wants you, sure.....
@@shaungarrett5291 what's wrong u want him
@cheriamor84 those kiddie shaming tactics don't work lady. Try harder. Arrested development at its finest.
Ashley you can just put a disclaimer on the screen that way you don’t need to repeat yourself every call
I prefer to keep it this way so that in case someone reports my video, we have VERBAL consent. It only takes 10 seconds to ask, and it doesn't bother me at all.
@@ashleyldalton that’s fair enough ❤️
@@ashleyldaltonabsolutely, cover yourself at all costs, people are sue happy these days FRFR
Yes sweetheart, yes he’s DL
The standards are in hell 😮😮😮😢
Ashley I wish I found your page earlier. Cus I definitely have a different mindset now after I listen to you.
I dont have to see this to answer this based on the title...Definitely Yes. I mean, Clearly. Do you even need to know the obvious answer? Cmon now. SMH 🤦♂️
He’s not for you move on
BBS= bring back shame
Be careful who you sleep with. Ask God to direct you 🙏🏾
Why should a new man be a father figure?? I'm not trying to play step mom been there done that. Most men not trying play step daddy. Let his dad be a dad. Don't put expectations on a person u dint have kids with
I went to space. I got a trillion dollars! 😂😂😂 I'm done!
He probably got something and is trying to give it to you
He is either gay or he doesn't like you.
If I want to call in and ask Ashley a question how can I do that. On UA-cam or tiktok? What day and times?
Maybe the back door is tighter 😂
That right there
Great point 👍🏽👍🏽
If it was that big of an issue, he would be with a different woman.
Yes he is!
If you gotta ask....
Girl are you serious?2i lived was in a relationship with dL man. He's dl unless the front is too loose but for the most part, if he wanted it not u the he's bisexual ok
She doesn’t know what she wants bc it would be a no brainer lol. She’s in desperate energy and that’s why she saying it bad out here
Why does that woman’s forehead look so shiny?…it is a windshield!🤭🤭🤭
That’s the side of effects of being stress free, happy and consistently on vacation 😎 I glow.
@@ashleyldalton ok!🙏🏽not being disrespectful but you were dabbing your face at the beginning of the video,I thought you would dab the sweat or oil off your forehead because it is reflecting a lot of light,but if you intended it to look like that, no problem!
Situationship expired, and the ex-booty call is now shaming him? Sounds like a Tuesday.
You will shame a quality man into taking you seriously. They'll just move on.
Cringe AF.
Lack of self awareness and principles. Hopefully he goes on another platform and exposes her skeletons 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
God? Morals have to align? Amazing.... This is why they are to remain silent in the church.
The front door is to open playing with them 5xl toys
He's bisexual at least %90 % if the front door is top loose then I don't know but if hes always doing it then he's dl . He doesn't mind doing it to u or a man. If downstairs not smelling right, then the guy bot going down.
I don't understand why us women have a problem being single. Work on you like wth. Like you always need a man. So hung up on penis. Then get upset when guys don't take you on dates.
def....GAY
The firsts guy must be fine as hell 😂
He’s a NoMo. 😂
I was there 😅😅😅
No shame 😂
He probably thinks he cat is trash😂😂😂and has an odor
And the bottom doesn’t? Make it make sense.
@@DeshaunTellezthey talk out of both sides of they neck 🙄
@@DeshaunTellez Thank you. These people are clueless.
@@Alyssaj1236 Exactly.
Run
Yes he is gay
Girl!
This is so so silly.... she likes it but now wants him to jump through hoops to get with her. She never directly answer questions the host asks. She deflects a lot. Very disingenuous.
Excuse me ? 😅🚶🏽♀️
Maybe her kitty is loose
No woman’s vag is tighter than her anal ring. Some men need that to feel in control and maybe he has a tiny peen.
Wtf….
You never get what you want because you're very disingenuous particularly with that hairhat she's wearing. Change your approach, be more natural and real. All she wants to talk about is sex with a previous partner on social media. That previous partner will see this video and she will be ostracized.
The fact that she even engaged in that sh tells you everythin u need to kno 😷
Low self esteem is real 😂. If she needs to upgrage her prospects....she gotta lose some weight too. Most black women would rather buy a $400 wig than a $10 month gym membership. Smh
What does her hair have to do with anything? You BM are so pathetic & hateful.
@@maxlogan7388facts 👌🏽👌🏽
That cat might be smelly boo
🥴. EWWWW
I 💖 🔙 🚪 activities. OOOoooooo