This is extremely true. It’s just a truth we don’t want to accept. The couple you described being married 20 years sounds exactly like the situation I was in. People think because you’ve been married a long time that things are great when it often has more to do with what you choose to put up with and when it finally ends it’s because the lightbulb pops on in your head realizing you don’t HAVE to put up with foolishness.
One of the reason why I stop dating was because I realize that I was always attracting man that doesn’t deserve me or don’t even want me . I was always the push over trying to show my value until I realize that I need to reconnect to myself first , heal from my trauma because the emptiness is real , the damages are real, I want to be happy and connect with my godly spouse, I never felt connected with any of those man and it’s the first thing that alarm me . I was liked you are not yourself , work on you and you will not have to chase happiness .
I declare that because God is your refuge and the Almighty God of your home, NO evil can befall you and NO plague can come near Stephans dwelling. AMEN, HALLELUJAH
Yep, she left me for her ex even though he is completely toxic towards her. I simply just walked away because I know I deserve better, and she wanted someone less. Her lost, not mine lol.
Tell the truth and shame the devil!!! You better speak Stephen‼️💪 Some people just want to be "wanted" and be in a "relationship" even if it causes them to live a lie.
So true. From my experience, the women I've dealt with weren't able to handle that I was a good man and a lot of times they would sabotage the relationship.
I knew the last one was the wrong guy. I felt sorry for him. Before him I didn’t know they were the wrong ones because I was being abused and living in sin. I’ve never had a great man. I cannot see myself running from a good man.🔥
On point again Stephan! I've had red flags, yellow flags and roadblocks that I ignored to my own hurt. I've been in this pattern exactly how you explained it. Thank you Sir so much for sharing the God given wisdom and helpful insights. 🙏
I'm with a great guy that I was scared to be with until... the Lord said I should not be afraid. There is peace in our relationship. Thanks be to Father God.
I am going to run to my kingdom husband and love him forever! Love understands, respects, gives, uplifts, encourages, supports, is compassionate, and patient.🥰 I already love my King! He makes me smile and blush just thinking about him.👑❤️
I've not watched the video, but the first thought that came to mind for me was *I didn't know that.* I didn't know that women run away from good men, because best believe I am running straight to that man hehehe🤣🥰 #NotJoking
I agree was with a good man for 14 years and we were both on different levels ppl thought we were good but I knew we were just more of flatmates nothing more, we both didn’t want to let go but i need to date on my level and not just settle for this will do for now. Because when love flows or just connects feels good I know when it’s the right time that I will meet a good man that wants to do life with me.
YES LORD, YES LORD, AMEN 🙏 🙌 LORD YES, LORD YES, AMEN 🙏 🙌 RIGHT ON POINT, AMEN SO SO TRUE, AMEN 🙌👏🧎♀️🙆♀️👧🤗😷👣🤵♀️👩🎤😆🙋♀️😊🙂👐😁👍🤲HALLELUJAH, GLORY TO GOD ✝️ 🙏 🙌 👏 😊
I declare that God's armies of heaven will keep you from falling, you Stepahan will walk unharned and kick anything that is evil from your path! Thank you Jesus
💯💕💞I declare that because of God's love for you. You will call upon Him, He will set you Stephan ABOVE your troubles, He will deliver you from all your fears, and he will honor you with His presence and power!
Stephan, those two men really look up to you. GOD bless your heart Stephan and theirs in JESUS’ HOLY NAME! THANK YOU, LORD JESUS IN ADVANCE! PRAISE THE LORD GOD ALMIGHTY!🔥🙏🏽❤️👑
I've seen this happen a lot to many women I know. Every woman wants to marry a good man, but sometimes in her own insecurity and fear, she doesn't choose a man that she thinks is best for her or someone who is the best match for her. She simply chooses to be with someone who is "good enough."
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This is extremely true. It’s just a truth we don’t want to accept. The couple you described being married 20 years sounds exactly like the situation I was in. People think because you’ve been married a long time that things are great when it often has more to do with what you choose to put up with and when it finally ends it’s because the lightbulb pops on in your head realizing you don’t HAVE to put up with foolishness.
Nah, we know a lot of ppl be married to the wrong person. It is what it is.
Oh damn. Happy for you though😊🥳
One of the reason why I stop dating was because I realize that I was always attracting man that doesn’t deserve me or don’t even want me . I was always the push over trying to show my value until I realize that I need to reconnect to myself first , heal from my trauma because the emptiness is real , the damages are real, I want to be happy and connect with my godly spouse, I never felt connected with any of those man and it’s the first thing that alarm me . I was liked you are not yourself , work on you and you will not have to chase happiness .
Praying for you my brother in Christ. Thank you for caring for us men and woman so much and helping us in life. I appreciate you
Is called low self-esteem, women!
I wish a good man came across my path, I wouldn’t run at all.
Thank You Sunny! ❤️
@@jayc5756 ❤️
I declare that because God is your refuge and the Almighty God of your home, NO evil can befall you and NO plague can come near Stephans dwelling. AMEN, HALLELUJAH
Yep, she left me for her ex even though he is completely toxic towards her. I simply just walked away because I know I deserve better, and she wanted someone less. Her lost, not mine lol.
Tell the truth and shame the devil!!! You better speak Stephen‼️💪 Some people just want to be "wanted" and be in a "relationship" even if it causes them to live a lie.
So true. From my experience, the women I've dealt with weren't able to handle that I was a good man and a lot of times they would sabotage the relationship.
I knew the last one was the wrong guy. I felt sorry for him. Before him I didn’t know they were the wrong ones because I was being abused and living in sin. I’ve never had a great man. I cannot see myself running from a good man.🔥
I am ready for my God given husband!!
IM ALL READY FOR A GOOD MAN.
On point again Stephan! I've had red flags, yellow flags and roadblocks that I ignored to my own hurt. I've been in this pattern exactly how you explained it. Thank you Sir so much for sharing the God given wisdom and helpful insights. 🙏
You love toxic men that’s why
I'm with a great guy that I was scared to be with until... the Lord said I should not be afraid. There is peace in our relationship. Thanks be to Father God.
Honestly this is me bc I’ve been in horrible relationships 😢so I’m afraid of potentially meeting a really good well rounded man
rip😂
Deserving and patient 👁🦻🏼🙌🏽
Good information in regards to relationships
That's because we don't believe great guys are out there.....
I am going to run to my kingdom husband and love him forever! Love understands, respects, gives, uplifts, encourages, supports, is compassionate, and patient.🥰
I already love my King! He makes me smile and blush just thinking about him.👑❤️
Sometimes.... Being a good man doesn't mean being a good relationship partner...some cant balance loving with being good..
I'm not running. You already know who I want
Preach. 🔥❤️
The truth and the real!!
Sometimes love is one sided too
PREACH IT, PREACH IT AGAIN, PREACH IT ONE MORE TIME, AMEN 👏🙏✝️😊🙋♀️😀😆👌🎤👩🤵♀️👣😇😷💒📖🤗👧🙆♀️🧍♀️🧎♀️HALLELUJAH, GLORY TO GOD ✝️ 🙏 🙌 👏
I declare that God is your refuge and your fortress
I declare that Stephan will dwell in the shelter of the Most High God
Yup, when she hits the wall she will want to crawl back to him, to find out it is too late.
I've not watched the video, but the first thought that came to mind for me was *I didn't know that.*
I didn't know that women run away from good men, because best believe I am running straight to that man hehehe🤣🥰
#NotJoking
I declare that Stepahan will find REST in the shadow of the Almighty
YOU HIT THE NAIL ON THE HEAD 😊😊🙏🙏❤
I agree was with a good man for 14 years and we were both on different levels ppl thought we were good but I knew we were just more of flatmates nothing more, we both didn’t want to let go but i need to date on my level and not just settle for this will do for now. Because when love flows or just connects feels good
I know when it’s the right time that I will meet a good man that wants to do life with me.
I declare that you God are Stpehan's God in whom he trusts and with great confidence in whom Stephan will rely on. Amen. GLORY BE TO GOD
Real talk we know
That definitely resonates 😆
Damn chileee.... I just watched this video and boy was it an exposeeeeé
YES LORD, YES LORD, AMEN 🙏 🙌 LORD YES, LORD YES, AMEN 🙏 🙌 RIGHT ON POINT, AMEN SO SO TRUE, AMEN 🙌👏🧎♀️🙆♀️👧🤗😷👣🤵♀️👩🎤😆🙋♀️😊🙂👐😁👍🤲HALLELUJAH, GLORY TO GOD ✝️ 🙏 🙌 👏 😊
I declare that God's armies of heaven will keep you from falling, you Stepahan will walk unharned and kick anything that is evil from your path! Thank you Jesus
Me.
💯💕💞I declare that because of God's love for you. You will call upon Him, He will set you Stephan ABOVE your troubles, He will deliver you from all your fears, and he will honor you with His presence and power!
Where is he, and when is he going to find me?😊
🙏🏾🙌🏽❤
Stephan, those two men really look up to you. GOD bless your heart Stephan and theirs in JESUS’ HOLY NAME! THANK YOU, LORD JESUS IN ADVANCE! PRAISE THE LORD GOD ALMIGHTY!🔥🙏🏽❤️👑
Crazy
You are Psalm 91 equipped
I declare that He will reward Stephan with long life and He will show Stephan His salvation .
I deserve well how can I get a one on one
Only you
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Soooooooo many are fakin ❤
Stephan….get off my neck sir!
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🙏🏽♂️♀️📢💯
I've seen this happen a lot to many women I know. Every woman wants to marry a good man, but sometimes in her own insecurity and fear, she doesn't choose a man that she thinks is best for her or someone who is the best match for her. She simply chooses to be with someone who is "good enough."