The Black Women's Secret Love

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  • @saraiyahwashington1300
    @saraiyahwashington1300 8 місяців тому +175

    Who’s watching this man of God in 2024

  • @WillieRichJr
    @WillieRichJr 9 місяців тому +91

    In 2024 and still hits different! ALL BLACK PASTORS should take courage from his ministry

  • @jamesbrown197
    @jamesbrown197 Місяць тому +9

    Who’s still listening to this man of God in 2024 I sure am

  • @4thKingT.V
    @4thKingT.V Рік тому +36

    Men we have to be thankful this man stood up for his brother pointing out truth

  • @AD-br3sx
    @AD-br3sx 4 місяці тому +12

    "I ain't having no altar call, I ain't praying for nobody" Darby gave zero effs in this sermon. These women going to have to listen to this sermon and marinate on that!

  • @atom6277
    @atom6277 Рік тому +26

    Its 2023, this Brother knew what he was talking about, just look around you !!!

  • @cola11984
    @cola11984 3 роки тому +290

    I always felt it was foolish that women say I don't need a man when God clearly made us to be together. My black brothers I love you

  • @Moshe5573
    @Moshe5573 5 років тому +608

    I can’t stop listening to him. This man runs to issues pastors run from

  • @amarica09
    @amarica09 Рік тому +9

    Absolutely superb
    Greatest sermon of the decade
    Rip my beloved brother

  • @JAZZY2REALZ
    @JAZZY2REALZ 3 роки тому +205

    " The government is an abusive husband. "I felt that.

  • @gorgeouslady5612
    @gorgeouslady5612 6 років тому +424

    I AM SO PROUD TO SEE THOSE YOUNG BLACK MEN LISTENING TO SOMETHING POSITIVE AND SPIRITUAL!.

  • @pianokeys4503
    @pianokeys4503 7 років тому +842

    Im not kidding when I say...this man made me believe in God again....Because I gave up on God 25 years ago...But his message brought me back...because hes the only one preaching truth. .Hes the best history teacher ever!!

  • @jtbatista
    @jtbatista 3 місяці тому +6

    The best preacher of all time 🔥 very tangible and technical with teaching.

  • @bimmons9975
    @bimmons9975 Рік тому +22

    The message punched me right in the head but I can admit I needed it.

  • @sashapositivemind
    @sashapositivemind 6 місяців тому +13

    We black women have got to do better 😢. This is one of the best sermon i have ever heard.

  • @vernonweatherbe119
    @vernonweatherbe119 5 років тому +224

    My nephew turned me ln to Pastor Darby and I haven't listened to no other preacher since. I was sorry to hear he passed, but God allowed him to leave us with "words in due season" How good is it! We shouldn't be sad, but praise God that he's with Jesus and one day we'll see him in person and thank him for, fearlessly, preaching the truth!

  • @vanessaphinnessee8930
    @vanessaphinnessee8930 4 місяці тому +5

    Just now seeing this awesome Pastor in 2024 . And I haven’t seen nor heard a man that teaches like this

  • @truetothefaith9094
    @truetothefaith9094 4 роки тому +122

    Pastor Darby was the bravest Pastor in history.

  • @Balfour1948
    @Balfour1948 6 місяців тому +8

    This is a ‘classic’ presentation that should be required for all Black American high school students 😢

  • @jahserva3598
    @jahserva3598 3 роки тому +51

    Who is still listening to this Man of God in 2021 . Thank you for the word🙏🏾 33 years old it’s time to rise Saints !!!!

  • @goldlomtlomt4464
    @goldlomtlomt4464 5 років тому +281

    He is married Not bitter..He trying to put divine order bk in place with truth

  • @charity7142
    @charity7142 3 роки тому +73

    Six eye shadows looking like a Chinese dragon bout took me OUT😂😂😂 This message is sooo relevant (2021). I wish he was here to speak on today’s events. Rest in the Lord Pastor Darby

  • @MiaMorinarealway
    @MiaMorinarealway 6 років тому +150

    "Your identity become greed!" The level of conviction in his voice is all you need! Thank you God for sharing Pastor Darby with us!

  • @sholeroy
    @sholeroy 5 років тому +187

    Are y'all thur?

  • @reginaldmosley64
    @reginaldmosley64 5 років тому +101

    Every black in this country needs to hear this message!!!!

  • @TheBridgetdenise1
    @TheBridgetdenise1 7 років тому +226

    Something's I just don't understand, how someone like this, Pastor Darby one of the only preachers and pastors preach truth the way he did!!!...... Why did he have to leave we need this STRONG WORD, because we black women are out of control!!! Pastor Darby is greatly missed!!!

  • @latricejames9211
    @latricejames9211 10 місяців тому +14

    Here on February 19th 2024.
    oooooooweeeeee he is digging in. My God!! Sooo good and true. I feel this in my soul. Thank you Pastor Darby 🙏🏾🙏🏾

  • @tyeshabush462
    @tyeshabush462 8 місяців тому +5

    He said, “You may be battling but don’t take nothing in here.”😂. Preaching!

  • @Cstar7
    @Cstar7 4 роки тому +74

    As a single black woman, I agree with this message. I am a little confused as to what a woman is to do tho if she desires a black man and wants to honor God in not having sex before marriage. I'm not saying black men who also agree with that don't exist but my experience has led me here at 35, still never married, without children and waiting for someone who wants to live in God's order. 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @nubianbuddha7437
    @nubianbuddha7437 Рік тому +24

    This is a powerful message. I am a single mom of 3 but because of my high paying job I don’t receive any type of government assistance. Very stable. But I do see this around me a lot. I see how these women operate. It’s time to get it together sisters. We do need our brothas and we need to honor them. Thanks pastor for the message. This can speak to many. 💜💜💜

  • @keribarley
    @keribarley 7 років тому +258

    This that grown man preaching

  • @ItsDJNuName
    @ItsDJNuName 8 років тому +257

    There has never been a message preached like this from the pulpit that I've seen!!!!! until this!!!! Most preachers won't say it cause women dominate the congregation. This is much needed.

  • @davidchandler1733
    @davidchandler1733 9 років тому +393

    Wow! When was the last time you heard a sermon on the effects of feminism on the Black home????

  • @jenniferhubbard2813
    @jenniferhubbard2813 5 років тому +145

    I am addicted to this type of teaching, my soul has been fed today...There is nothing like hearing the truth, and Pastor Darby delivers it to us raw and uncut!

  • @lyricsoftheart
    @lyricsoftheart 5 років тому +129

    What I love is that he is what the Bible is... a father to the fatherless. He is talking to us women as a father or our father in heaven would be talking to us- straight no chaser. It hurts, I was quiet on my way to work while listening. Yet, most of the time when I listen to his preaching I usually am saying amen and yes yes yes! But, this had me silent. Because I knew it was for me! I’ve been hurt from this thing called life, but, most of all from living in sin! I don’t wanna hurt anymore and I don’t want my daughter to pay for my sins! Please forgive me Yahuah for the spirit of lust, spirit of rebellion, sorcery, and independence from my own father who tried to teach me the Bible (albeit through jehovah witness) but I wasn’t a very obiedent child, teenager and young adult. I’m sorry, please forgive me and bind those spirits, so, that I can be the best mother, the right wife someday and daughter of Zion. In Yahusha’s name- Amen!

  • @MomTheEbayer101
    @MomTheEbayer101 7 років тому +197

    The identity thing is so true. As a UA-cam vlogger I see how the vloggers with the cute clothes, big houses, lavish vacations etc get more people wanting to hear them and the vloggers that's about the word of God or keeping family structure together, you tend to get less people wanting to hear what you have to say.

  • @tracygrier950
    @tracygrier950 7 років тому +322

    My goodness, I would rather sit home and listen to this man on the internet than go to these churches that's not telling me the truth! I am going to partner with this ministry! The Most HIgh bless you and your family Pastor Darby! Boy, CONVICTION SO THICK RIGHT NOW!

  • @brendahassell2829
    @brendahassell2829 5 років тому +95

    WOW! Even as a woman, you can't be mad a this message. Unless you don't love the truth of the word of God. I definitely need to humble myself when it comes to my husband. I Praise God for this on time word!

  • @kyreanoconnor2862
    @kyreanoconnor2862 7 років тому +257

    I'm 16 and I've been watching you for a while now I don't know if you remember but my aunt visited your church she came from Louisiana and you have really been helping my family and I thank you for everything and the prayers at the end of your videos God bless you Mr.😊

  • @sherriholcombe5428
    @sherriholcombe5428 2 роки тому +29

    Pastor Stephen Darby is speaking the truth in this video too!..I was raised by feminists in my family when my Mom divorced my Dad,and I was told from a very early age that black men were dogs,not smart, only good for a paycheck, etc. This video is continued confirmation of what God started laying on my heart concerning family. It starts with the family and we, as black people, are perpetuating the same toxicity that began in slavery. And then we wonder or get angry when our men date or marry another race. We need to get back to God's Word and principles and building up our families!😊💖

  • @gmw1635
    @gmw1635 Рік тому +15

    He went hard on this one right …so be it!

  • @maryturner8697
    @maryturner8697 7 років тому +286

    I’m blown away! Gone to soon!! But you’ve left behind enough knowledge to keep us afloat. I’m so thankful to receive this knowledge!

  • @thatgirl4633
    @thatgirl4633 7 років тому +146

    Unbelievable! I have never heard this message explained so well. Ladies, it's not just men complaining, it's deeper than that... it's biblical and we need to get it together

  • @SoliloquyMusicGroup
    @SoliloquyMusicGroup 2 роки тому +17

    This type of preaching and teaching is the new drug THE TRUTH, it's addictive pleasing to the soul, I can't get enough of it.

  • @antoniolondon5878
    @antoniolondon5878 4 роки тому +37

    In order to get our women back, us as Black Men have to fine tune ourselves, exert power, and build financial infrastructure so that as the HEADS of our nation we can thrive harmoniously. Women are attracted to shiny things, and there’s nothing on earth that shines harder than power, well, to a woman at least.

  • @trowmofi
    @trowmofi 5 років тому +65

    This brother was absolutely profound!

  • @naturalhairkhronicles5790
    @naturalhairkhronicles5790 4 роки тому +55

    Until the day this message still applies like never before. I've listened to this message at least 3- 4 times and Iam still blessed by it. The government is still the husbands of some women. This message is still the truth Hallelujah

  • @chidimmaobi6655
    @chidimmaobi6655 5 років тому +46

    I don’t have kids nor am I on welfare but I felt like he was talking directly to me ...powerful sermon!!

  • @JAZZY2REALZ
    @JAZZY2REALZ 3 роки тому +30

    "Favor is what you need for your idea to get off the ground. Favor is what you need for your business to work."

  • @tarreyllhicks1925
    @tarreyllhicks1925 9 років тому +247

    That is some of the best preaching I ever seen. Pastor Darby is the truth

  • @briangivens8651
    @briangivens8651 8 років тому +105

    this message needs to be framed for every black single women to hear keep preaching brother

  • @SM-yw2xn
    @SM-yw2xn 2 роки тому +24

    Pastor Darby you are truly missed!!
    The world is cursed, that's why we don't have no good leaders left to guide us.

  • @reddnewmillennium
    @reddnewmillennium 3 роки тому +10

    The realist preacher I’ve ever heard

  • @WavyCloud313
    @WavyCloud313 Рік тому +18

    Lol six colors of eye shadow look like a Chinese dragon 🐉 he got me with that lol man I pray I find a virtuous woman.

  • @sanuraholmes9233
    @sanuraholmes9233 Рік тому +6

    When I tell you I'm a woman and married but so grateful for this pastor and this message

  • @flightboyjazzrapp4953
    @flightboyjazzrapp4953 3 роки тому +9

    I'm speechless! My son is 14 year's of age. He and I will have a sit down this Sunday and watch this video. Thank you God for allowing me to stumble upon this brother/teacher/healer/prophet🖤 RIP💯

  • @lisamarsha8398
    @lisamarsha8398 8 років тому +124

    I thank you for ministering the word to us black women to show us ourselves....I never heard someone teach truth without twisting the word....thank you pastor

  • @msve3730
    @msve3730 3 роки тому +15

    Stephen Darby " This a drive by message ain't goin be no saving today" every time he said that I knew he was goin go deep.

  • @DelightfullyDanni
    @DelightfullyDanni 2 місяці тому +3

    2024 and a lot of women are suffering from alopecia😮😮😮 his words are ringing true today!!!!

  • @brittanyw.605
    @brittanyw.605 Рік тому +26

    When God is telling you about you it hurt!!! But it’s necessary to bring change ❤thank you Father

  • @notnobuthellno9458
    @notnobuthellno9458 6 років тому +74

    Just found this man and his ministry and heard his about his passing. I was broken hearted. R.I.P brother you spoke truth to light and understanding in the things I'm going through right now. Only wish I found him and his wisdom 4yrs ago before I stared going through the things I'm going through now.

  • @majormediaproductions
    @majormediaproductions 8 років тому +101

    P-O-W-E-R-F-U-L Message!!! This man is the truth he definitely pulls back the veil on our core issues. I salute you Pastor Darby👊

  • @RealTalk-bn5zg
    @RealTalk-bn5zg 7 років тому +48

    I love the truth. Teach the truth. Shame the lie. Need more preachers speaking the truth.

  • @andytof47
    @andytof47 3 місяці тому +3

    Amazing sermon.. Thx

  • @demondbrown506
    @demondbrown506 3 місяці тому +2

    Pastor Darby is and will always be the truth speaker!!! Rest in Peace Good brother.. you are truly missed 👍🏾👍🏾

  • @jameeljohnson30
    @jameeljohnson30 5 років тому +47

    Just found this man ,when I was listening to Dr.Monroe ,thanks for that person in the comments who said to listen to Mr.darby who are we ,and this sermon as well

  • @bigjon.6258
    @bigjon.6258 7 років тому +45

    This Brotha is da truth.. Best Preacher ever!!

  • @thomasharris3814
    @thomasharris3814 8 місяців тому +6

    Where would brothers be, if sisters truly understood this.

  • @NaturalElicia
    @NaturalElicia 4 роки тому +28

    That's the first time I heard women being so quiet in his congregation. He was stepping on toes, even mines!

  • @dingleberry9947
    @dingleberry9947 7 років тому +43

    I love his style of preaching. So raw and honest. I will miss listening to his sermons.

  • @gloriakanga6409
    @gloriakanga6409 7 років тому +67

    And he preach the truth with a small crowd....3or more gathered in my name is blessed I love his church I want to go to his church

  • @pauljones6590
    @pauljones6590 5 років тому +46

    I love my pastor!!!! I will be with my pastor til God says different. I pray for a woman of God who loves me unconditionally to be brought into my life...for me.

  • @barackthecomposer6642
    @barackthecomposer6642 5 років тому +40

    A man who finds a “WIFE“ finds a good thing.
    A “WIFE“
    stays home,
    cooks,
    cleans,
    washes,
    nurses to children,
    respects her husband,
    does not embarrass him in public,
    manages money carefully instead of wasting it.
    Because of FEMINISM, it is difficult to find a traditional, conservative, ancient biblical “WIFE.”

  • @Rotorqueen1
    @Rotorqueen1 7 років тому +68

    SPOT ON!!!!!!! Love this man. He tells it like it is. I see this is for Black Women, but the white women need to listen to this too!! The switching, the attention seekers, the harlot spirit, when women go wild, that's the barometer of a society........PREACH IT!!!!!!! This is the truth and nothing but the Truth!!!! Thank you Pastor Darby!!

  • @jeremyandchristina5556
    @jeremyandchristina5556 7 років тому +45

    We waking up
    Thanks to pastor like you

  • @Shalom_7777
    @Shalom_7777 3 роки тому +9

    This word is quick and sharp!!! My God.

  • @hellomellow4265
    @hellomellow4265 4 роки тому +41

    I want to get married, Amen 🙏🏽

  • @popajenkins48
    @popajenkins48 5 років тому +19

    Now this is real fireball spitting preaching. We need a thousand more men like this one.

  • @jeezusgurl
    @jeezusgurl 5 років тому +18

    Getting My 10 Yr old daughter ready for school ...
    And we're listening to this late-great teacher of GOD 🔥 .... HalleluYAH Pastor Darby 🙌
    HalleluYAH Pastor

  • @bosdon8945
    @bosdon8945 5 років тому +22

    This right here every black woman needs to here. Amen amen.. the truth..

  • @jasonroberts557
    @jasonroberts557 7 років тому +133

    Black women need to rewind this message from 34 min onward. Brothaz been trying to tell you this for years especially at 35:07

  • @jansmithbsa
    @jansmithbsa 10 років тому +156

    WOW!! This was hard to hear, but it was a EYE OPENER!

  • @andreadrake4890
    @andreadrake4890 5 років тому +26

    My husband had 15 different women, I couldn't stay

  • @oliverstantonjr7861
    @oliverstantonjr7861 4 роки тому +13

    Wen I tell y'all I thank God for allowing me to find pastor darby on u tube I don't no way to do the first time I heard one of his sermons I was hooked if he don't tell the truth and tell it like it is I'll pay u this is why a lot of these churches are out of order because there not telling the members the truth ...

  • @brotheroftherepublic5706
    @brotheroftherepublic5706 6 років тому +69

    Rest in peace brother Darby! The Lord Jesus used you mightily! You will be missed the more these last days unfold!

  • @goldlomtlomt4464
    @goldlomtlomt4464 5 років тому +26

    As soon a man start struggling because the system is fighting against him the woman start giving the man altermatives

  • @SimplySage854
    @SimplySage854 7 років тому +64

    I agree completely, it's very difficult to discuss this with other black peoples they become angry and defensive

  • @dmitriguter949
    @dmitriguter949 4 роки тому +20

    It’s crazy how this Minister preached this 6 yers ago yet it sounds like he’s talking about today as it is going on now? I just found out he’s no longer with us in the flesh but his words are hear with us as he speaking to our spirits Amem

  • @xxPantherBabe
    @xxPantherBabe 7 років тому +40

    this is some real teaching. .. yall not hearing this man... yall better get with it.

  • @elyakimbarjudah5230
    @elyakimbarjudah5230 2 роки тому +8

    I'm studying with my pastor in may 2022! Oh this word is so good. It cuts but pastor pours the oil and wine to heal your wounds in JESUS name for the glory of YAH.

  • @ThoughtformsOverstood
    @ThoughtformsOverstood 2 роки тому +8

    Thank you God for bestowing such a powerful anointing on Pastor Darby's Life

  • @deborahbrown2947
    @deborahbrown2947 7 років тому +30

    I love his teaching he gets right to the spiritual cause of what has manifested in the flesh the blind are beginning to see

  • @NeicyJ1990
    @NeicyJ1990 11 років тому +67

    This Is The Truth That Need To Be Spoken In Church!

  • @jackeebonner1
    @jackeebonner1 3 роки тому +10

    He's not lying! He is tell the whole truth, nothing but the truth! PREACH IT BROTHER, PASTOR DARBY! 🌻
    Shame the fools!
    He is truly missed! His words are not in vain!🙏🏾💜💯

  • @Yaneeb
    @Yaneeb 5 років тому +23

    Amen! Pastor Darby was definitely heavily Anointed

  • @kacyjohnson9537
    @kacyjohnson9537 5 років тому +13

    I swear this was for me! I have true pain in my chest. I wish I was able to have met this brother. I’ve never heard a message like this ever!! I’ve shared this with my family. I’m in tears listening to this message. I love you pastor and I appreciate your message and the way you bring it!!

  • @TangerineMelody
    @TangerineMelody 10 років тому +172

    "You can't tell if you're looking at a harlot or a woman of God."
    I thought I was the oooonnnnlllyyy one who noticed the immodest attire of our modern day "women of God". I've seen some shoes and boots that had me thinking that they ran straight out of the club into the church. I understand the women who are seated in the pews because God may still be working on them but the ones who are in the praise team and those who are part of the ministry....

  • @MrDevDivo
    @MrDevDivo Рік тому +4

    This is 1 of my favorite sermons and1 of his last before Passing.

  • @TERMINATORT8OO119
    @TERMINATORT8OO119 5 років тому +4

    River Stephen Darby is on fire fire fire that man is on fire I never heard a sermon like that before God bless him and his family God bless him that he would be used by God like that hallelujah hallelujah hallelujah amen amen amen amen and amen!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

  • @mikesuniverse1789
    @mikesuniverse1789 4 роки тому +6

    Maaaan. This mane is dropping BOMBS!