The Importance of Communicating to Your Partner

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  • Опубліковано 10 лис 2024

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  • @msnola915
    @msnola915 Рік тому +38

    I'm the husband and I'm so married that I rubbed my wife's neck and shoulder because of the pain she was experiencing while preparing for my 61st birthday today. I'm the wife and we watched together, and that's how married we are❤️ Married 41 years this April 17th. You guys are helping us learn and become better partners. Thank you 1000xs🤗🥰

  • @GodsChildLtd
    @GodsChildLtd Рік тому +13

    I'm so married that I'm not married yet but I'm still watching 🤷‍♀️😄❤

  • @newmank0217
    @newmank0217 Рік тому +39

    I regularly relate to Yvette! And her all over the place storytelling is ME!! 😅 you about to get 15 stories in one conversation AND they’re related to each other! 😂

    • @casondrarenaye3289
      @casondrarenaye3289 Рік тому

      Yvette, I am the same way with people pleasing. I need to change,but I frustrate myself so 😶

    • @sneaky0girl
      @sneaky0girl Рік тому

      Me too!!!

    • @ajordan1847
      @ajordan1847 Рік тому

      😂❤Same. I typically give disclaimers too.

  • @Mrcloudpotato
    @Mrcloudpotato Рік тому +35

    My heart was in my throat watching this! What I get from you both is that communication means running the risk of offending each other at any point. Y'all do it anyway! Tact, respect, and honouring perspectives remains key. Sometimes the feels get all up in there but the grace y'all have for each other?! Inspirational.

  • @latashamarbuary8425
    @latashamarbuary8425 Рік тому +15

    Im not married YET!!! But I'm listening and paying attention to the growth!!!

  • @Yentirb68
    @Yentirb68 Рік тому +12

    Those of us with adhd followed you girl. Loved all the supporting facts 😂😂😂😂

  • @paolajean1163
    @paolajean1163 Рік тому +30

    I love the way you guys (argue)I know it took a lot of times to get there.I an married and I want to be on that side of communicating.Belief I can seeyou really take the time to choose your words,while telling your truth without hurting her on purpose.

  • @Sewnover
    @Sewnover Рік тому +26

    I am her and she is me. I compare the way I talk to people to a carousel: we will come back around to that topic. Just enjoy the ride 😂

  • @leratomokuena2967
    @leratomokuena2967 Рік тому +9

    I'm not married, yet but I am being intentional with how I steward my single season. Your videos are helping me believe in love again. Thank you.

  • @Loveis_Kind
    @Loveis_Kind Рік тому +12

    Your wife is so natural absolutely beautiful her smile is everything 💕

  • @kingdomkeata
    @kingdomkeata Рік тому +1

    I'm so committed to my future husband that I stayed til the end, and that's just how married I'll be. 😅 Love you guys! ❤

  • @gloriamadrid1468
    @gloriamadrid1468 Рік тому +4

    Glen at the end. “Thank you Theo. Thank you for the support feature.” Haha.(:(: And he showed his beautiful smile.(:(:

  • @Deelifull
    @Deelifull Рік тому +6

    Awww .. that ending tho!!!!!!! Oh and this one of my favorite episodes! It started off goofy, then gitty and then right down to the nitty gritty!!

    • @msnola915
      @msnola915 Рік тому

      Truth‼️ Agreement from me‼️

  • @lynngevity3724
    @lynngevity3724 9 місяців тому

    Ive been married over 28 years and I wish this channel would’ve been a thing when my kids were young. You all have sooo many great ideas, so many experiences that couples can learn from! Episode after episode you offer so much wisdom!! Thanks for sharing your lives with us.

  • @XoApryl
    @XoApryl Рік тому +8

    yall are such healthy communicators. i really strive for this in my relationship.

  • @anp0731
    @anp0731 Рік тому +5

    I am so married that I related to every bit of this episode ☺️

  • @LearningLeadersGrowLiveGive

    Yvette is such a nurturer❤. I love it! And I get her desire as a mom to keep her kids encouraged and not throwing cold water on their enthusiasm. She wants them to "want to" keep going. Not give up. It's a beautiful thing. Glen's desire and approach is valuable as well. Helping the kids develop the character of hard work and just "do it". Not because you "feel like it," but because you said you would. Love the differences. That's why two are better than one and He makes all things beautiful in His time (Ecc. 3:11; 4:9). Shout out to single parents (been there with two wonderful sons).😉 Praying 🙏your efforts are blessed and continued success!

  • @RAEHDoing2much
    @RAEHDoing2much Рік тому +3

    Hi. I am so married I share the channel with others. Thank you for sharing

  • @riah3932
    @riah3932 Рік тому +9

    I took a sip of my coffee and once Yvette said “and then I saw on instagram” that coffee exploded out of my mouth 😂 long story short you owe me a Starbucks Yvette lol 💕💕

  • @xoiitzchryssx
    @xoiitzchryssx Рік тому +10

    This episode y’all 😂 mental whiplash trying to follow along 😅😂 #squirrel 🐿️

  • @mommychitchat7654
    @mommychitchat7654 Рік тому

    Thank you Yvette, for choosing to be example of how it looks to evolve and elevate as a women, no longer letting your triggers control the narrative. Often times it’s talked about but rarely is it actually personified authentically. Thank you 🙏🏾
    Thank you you Beleaf for supporting your wife fully and wholeheartedly. Much love for you both.
    We need more of this as a community 💛💛💛

  • @CJacksonMark
    @CJacksonMark Рік тому +10

    In my opinion, You didn’t have to say no , I would have just said not right now because mommy needs the capacity and energy to show up effectively.

  • @WiseMagiGodcast
    @WiseMagiGodcast Рік тому +2

    ADHD as can be but really enjoyed it. Free speech is needed at times & really enjoyed watch y’all work through it, respectfully. It was definitely inspiring. The Most High told be to come back; to simply say Thank you.

  • @chandabwsandidge0430
    @chandabwsandidge0430 Рік тому +5

    Never heard of TOM… we say Aunt Flo(w). Lol

  • @T.Mull23
    @T.Mull23 Рік тому +2

    Yooooooo! Why am I just learning who "Tom" is?! 🤯 As soon as Yvette said it my ADHD started working overtime! So we just throwing that other "T" away? 🤔 "time of THE month"... ok enough about TOTM... Thank you for always being real! I think in marriage we become so familiar with our spouse that we forget we're always presented with an opportunity to extend grace. You both display grace very well in real time! ✊🏾

  • @crystalphillips696
    @crystalphillips696 Рік тому +1

    Yvette you are one of the best mothers on this planet.

  • @darisesanker6022
    @darisesanker6022 Рік тому +2

    I hear you Yvette with the intro 🎉come wit it...

  • @victoriat9145
    @victoriat9145 Рік тому +1

    Awwwh I love you tooo! The growth is visible Y’all!!
    I really felt for Glen at the end though🤣

  • @recipebandit3563
    @recipebandit3563 Рік тому +3

    Home economics is very important to teach the babies Yvette. I wonder if Theo is showing an interest in something (cooking) that he admires what his dad does and that it might become a bonding experience of common interest. Good job you guys. Blessings

  • @crystalphillips696
    @crystalphillips696 Рік тому +1

    Anaya is a living angel on Earth.

  • @natashamia7
    @natashamia7 Рік тому

    😂😂😂 Glen asked why she changes outfits so many times! 😂😂😂
    We were following you Evette! Im here for it!

  • @elijahmayaka6783
    @elijahmayaka6783 Рік тому

    I have recently started listening to the podcast but I just wanted to affirm you guys for how simple , genuine yet normal your pursuit for one another is (both individually and as a couple) .
    I think there's a beauty in love shining through the normal, the struggle and just through life in it's unique but genuine way .
    Yvette in your growth don't put yourself or merely think of doing better but celebrate every inch you take which you're already doing but just to say we also see it and appreciate you for it.
    Glen I appreciate you for how you pursue love and understanding through yourself and how you aim reciprocate this with your wife and kids.
    May God bless you both , y"all are amazing ! ❤🙌🏾💯

  • @diasiamonaeministriesforjesus

    Hearing Yvette's explanation about allowing them to make decisions on their own- mind blowing. In my marriage I often tell my husband what he should do in advance. Like recently I told him maybe a year ago to begin exercising for the time when he would have to go to the police academy. He did not listen. I nudged him so much! I told him a few months ago, and I told him over a month ago. A month ago he received an acceptance letter to the academy. I told him to prepare then, he did not listen.1 week ago I asked him to at least start trying to do the exercise requirements. He started and he is not able to do the amount of push ups needed. Now he's stressed out and upset everyday. He's talking about giving up, because the physical test is on Sunday. I feel like he's upset with me, but I warned him. Now I wish I hadn't warned him. 🤔

  • @iss_alxss
    @iss_alxss Рік тому

    That was one helluva dialogue! So amazing to watch you guys incorporate the communication skills you've learned over the years in real time. Truly inspiring :)

  • @EvolvingMama_
    @EvolvingMama_ Рік тому +1

    34:15 the growth 🥲

  • @lashawn369
    @lashawn369 Рік тому

    Checking in from the DMV.

  • @aaliyah_expressions
    @aaliyah_expressions Рік тому +1

    I like the Huxtable jacket

  • @briannedrummond6017
    @briannedrummond6017 Рік тому +2

    I LOVE LOVE LOVE THE INTRO SONG.!!!

  • @anisejones8479
    @anisejones8479 Рік тому +1

    One my my fav episodes !!

  • @MsDarko909
    @MsDarko909 Рік тому +2

    "Did we... did we grow?" 😂😂😂

  • @jessicagreen3277
    @jessicagreen3277 Рік тому

    Dude...this is me when I talk too Yvette! And my boyfriend is so like Glen lol! 🤣
    On a random note - love the green vibes in both of your outfits!

  • @natashacampbell1768
    @natashacampbell1768 Рік тому +2

    Irrelevant but I love Yvettes' orange frames 👓 ❤

  • @marinac9339
    @marinac9339 Рік тому +1

    Great episode guys. With me, I always try to do the best and do it all for my kids, and maybe end up being a hindrance in hindsight. Sometimes it's so hard to see them struggle so I step in and help instead of really letting them figure it all out on their own.

  • @b.iconic
    @b.iconic Рік тому +1

    Glen’s face when Yvette said, “Where’s Glen?”😅

  • @MersayW
    @MersayW Рік тому

    Love the Intro❤❤❤❤❤ Yvette your voice is beautiful

  • @mentallycultured5473
    @mentallycultured5473 Рік тому +1

    Great job Fam, growth is seen.🎉👏🏾👏🏾👏🏾🙌🏾

  • @gorgeouswales9635
    @gorgeouswales9635 Рік тому +2

    You both always have informative stuff, I like ya’ll energy!😅

  • @DoItAgainA
    @DoItAgainA Рік тому

    I watched, cause i couldn’t focus and was all over the place…. lol so for y’all to announce this the ADHD friendly pod was perfect timing 💗🎉 love hearing y’all be y’all

  • @daiyahpayentertainments
    @daiyahpayentertainments Рік тому +3

    YALL ARE FIREEEE 🤎🤎🤎

  • @sydneythom8626
    @sydneythom8626 Рік тому

    one of my favorite episodes yal have done

  • @rachaelmwangi4819
    @rachaelmwangi4819 Рік тому +2

    Thank you for this podcast. Xx

  • @godlovesusall8115
    @godlovesusall8115 Рік тому

    Truly ADHD friendly from begining to the last second! Absolutely love this episode and will come here often 😂

  • @mrscylogan
    @mrscylogan Рік тому

    My son loves to cook as well. I bought him the Black Panther/Wakanda Forever cookbook and he loves it! I'm sure Theo and the fam would too!

  • @annicesamuels3069
    @annicesamuels3069 Рік тому

    This is my favorite episode!!!

  • @DaraAdeola
    @DaraAdeola Рік тому

    I love your outfits! So cute and coordinating and a little bit of contrast ❤

  • @handmadewithchristiwade9693
    @handmadewithchristiwade9693 Рік тому +2

    Lol. "What happening?"

  • @candyrapper6599
    @candyrapper6599 Рік тому +1

    Glenn saying🎤🎤🎤 "let's really make some money and turn this into a lesson .....this is life work for me cause them learning this lesson can teach them lessons on lessons..... for me its entrepreneurial spirit " really sound like lyrics that would be in a song. 🎶🎶🎶 I had to edit this to add more cause he just keeps on going "for me right there that's a lesson because a lot of times I'm not motivated to do what gotto do but I gotta do it." 🤣🤣

  • @Trisha81
    @Trisha81 Рік тому

    I hate shopping as well, yet I shop A LOT🤦‍♀. Make it make sense, I can't it is what it is lol.

  • @danescabaez2896
    @danescabaez2896 Рік тому

    Ok so I hate shopping 🛍️ too Yvette so I can relate and we are the same height 4’ 11” and 1/2 .. lol 😂

  • @EvolvingMama_
    @EvolvingMama_ Рік тому

    12:10 lmaooo love the ADHD representation 😅🙌🏾💗

  • @Srrc2567
    @Srrc2567 Рік тому +1

    The best always xx

  • @smw11581
    @smw11581 Рік тому

    Theo has grown so much. he went from saying it all the time to low key being forced lol

  • @saab75
    @saab75 Рік тому

    Y'all, this episode was refreshing....surprisingly hahahaha

  • @lynntw743
    @lynntw743 Рік тому +2

    Yvette and I have the same brain 😂

    • @ahsinrev6704
      @ahsinrev6704 Рік тому

      Same! But I didn't realize it until she said it. I gotta watch myself lol.

    • @Dsomler
      @Dsomler Рік тому

      omg, I do too!

  • @ChaM_25
    @ChaM_25 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤❤

  • @GinaJ790
    @GinaJ790 Рік тому

    One thing Yvette is going to do is make sure the negative reason is not her but the situation.

  • @imtime22
    @imtime22 Рік тому

    Guise your next videos to watch don't populate at the ends of your videos IK it would drive engagement higher if i could choose which I could watch next instead of the algorithm choosing

  • @AwesomeMsT
    @AwesomeMsT Рік тому

    Married to Jesus 😂❤

  • @morinewill
    @morinewill Рік тому +5

    My life has changed Thank you Jesus.$32,000 weekly profit Our lord God have lifted up my Life!!!, Glory to the everlasting God Almighty.

    • @morinewill
      @morinewill Рік тому +1

      She is on Whats Apk Messenger👇👇

    • @morinewill
      @morinewill Рік тому

      That's her info on what's Apk Messenger 👍👍

    • @morinewill
      @morinewill Рік тому

      She is on Whats Apk Messenger👇👇

    • @morinewill
      @morinewill Рік тому

      That's her info on what's Apk Messenger ⬆️⬆️

  • @GinaJ790
    @GinaJ790 Рік тому

    Well now I don't want a bracelet. 😏

  • @rickellford4351
    @rickellford4351 Рік тому +3

    I’m 2 seconds in, just wanted to comment how good you guys look! Love the outfit coordination!🤎 Okay back to the episode now…