Let’s get candid! *Open Relationships, Anxiety, Queer things, etc

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  • @ConnorFranta
    @ConnorFranta  6 років тому +786

    Oops. I forgot to comment on my own video.. I always do that. HELLO! Welcome! I hope you enjoy my *hungover* advice and thoughts on topics you all sent to me. Also... GO VOTE TODAY! Ty for coming to my Ted Talk! x

    • @elliotdrew6725
      @elliotdrew6725 6 років тому +1

      You should put some beanie hats on common culture and some hoodies that are bigger sizes :)

    • @owend.1485
      @owend.1485 6 років тому

      You remind of Antoni from Queer Eye. And you are amazing btw. You helped me to come out. So thx Connor!

    • @tschinkerl4554
      @tschinkerl4554 6 років тому

      Hi Connor!
      So, about your sleeping problem, I figured out that meditating helps me a lot in terms of a good night sleep. It doesn't have to be much, but about 5-10 minutes can do miracles for me! Just find a guided meditation that works for you and follow that. I have one that wants to help you focus on the present moment. And honestly, i fell asleep a couple of times, but each time, i slept soooo good! xD So yeah ... Maybe you can give that a try.
      Hope you have a great day! :)

    • @GuillermoCaballero10
      @GuillermoCaballero10 6 років тому

      I haven't watched you in so long (college happens) but now Ive realized how much I've missed uu!! Happy to see ya again

    • @cortniegore8199
      @cortniegore8199 6 років тому

      Omg I wish I could post photos in the comments I want to show you one I took of my little cousin I’m SO PROUD

  • @thiskidneedsmedicine
    @thiskidneedsmedicine 6 років тому +2096

    dark green is your color

  • @charjuan
    @charjuan 6 років тому +846

    Loving the green sweater with dark hair

    • @KaroKaulitzHilfMirFliegen
      @KaroKaulitzHilfMirFliegen 6 років тому +21

      & his eyeeeess!!! What a contrast!!! :'DD

    • @shalome
      @shalome 6 років тому +16

      That reminds me of a super Slytherin thing to wear for some reason...(I love Slytherins and have nothing against them)

    • @charjuan
      @charjuan 6 років тому +1

      @@shalome nice I totally see that

    • @Juliezeneth
      @Juliezeneth 6 років тому

      💕 yes!

    • @mimimaria3
      @mimimaria3 6 років тому

      @@shalome exactly what I was gonna say!

  • @victoriaque601
    @victoriaque601 6 років тому +242

    Connor is the least problematic youtuber I’m pretty sure

  • @RaheemD
    @RaheemD 6 років тому +467

    Your videos give me the same feeling as drinking Hot Chocolate. Soothing.

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  6 років тому +41

      I have a theme in mind before i sit down and try to get the message across in setting, tone, music & visuals,, so ty and this makes me happy

    • @RaheemD
      @RaheemD 6 років тому +7

      @@ConnorFranta I notice it in your choice of background setting, graphics, lighting, the white borders and groggy hungover ASMR voice :') It all just works. You're welcome, Enjoy the rest of your day Connor 👍

    • @anonomousdoughnut3169
      @anonomousdoughnut3169 6 років тому +1

      I agree with all of this

    • @jtswift4909
      @jtswift4909 6 років тому +1

      Funny thing. right before I started the video, i grabbed a cup of hot cocoa.

    • @jamiethegaymie
      @jamiethegaymie 6 років тому +2

      Now I want hot chocolate thanks

  • @ash-gm6he
    @ash-gm6he 6 років тому +938

    I could've sworn everyone's always told me angels aren't real...

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  6 років тому +115

      omg stop hahaha

    • @Emmy-ee3jl
      @Emmy-ee3jl 6 років тому +6

      Glass , gloss ,idk who i am anymore. Sorry i saw your picture and i just had to make some sort of reference

    • @ethanlivemere1162
      @ethanlivemere1162 6 років тому +17

      @@ConnorFranta We will never stop

    • @ethaneblaghie7583
      @ethaneblaghie7583 6 років тому +7

      The other Ethan agrees

    • @d874627
      @d874627 6 років тому

      you are right

  • @hannahgandon
    @hannahgandon 6 років тому +451

    His voice is so soothing oml

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  6 років тому +77

      this is my sleepy hungover voice

    • @absolutelynoone303
      @absolutelynoone303 6 років тому +20

      @@ConnorFranta be hungover more pls

    • @bleurain6372
      @bleurain6372 6 років тому +2

      @@ConnorFranta lmao

    • @tangyspy
      @tangyspy 6 років тому +2

      @@ConnorFranta GET A FREAKING PODCAST ID PAY TO LISTEN!!!

    • @tangyspy
      @tangyspy 6 років тому

      sorry for being aggressive pretty please

  • @user-lm1ps2eh4d
    @user-lm1ps2eh4d 6 років тому +37

    Watching Connor feels like watching an old movie that you've watched a million times and love so much that it's just become an integral part of your life because you know it's going to make you feel all warm inside.

  • @hannerhead
    @hannerhead 6 років тому +48

    Hope you don't mind me adding my two cents here, but I am currently taking an Adult Psychology class at my university and a big takeaway I have gotten so far is that a lot of your college years and twentysomethings is spent finding who you are. It is important to not just drift through this time though, explore your passions and do anything you want (within reason). Your brain actually gains what is called elasticity during this time, similar to the developmental stages in young infants, and during your 20s is the best time to explore yourself!
    Also on the topic of sleep as someone who is currently studying Psychology and has had insomnia her whole life, the best things to practice are limiting screen time at least n hour before bed, or if you're like me and use computers/phone a lot for work, using red light filters to diminish blue light emission. Drinking relaxing tea (chamomile is my go-to) and avoiding things especially with high sugar content or caffeine. Another thing is taking cold showers, I know not many people like this but I have started doing this when I take showers at night and it actually helps, when your body is cooled (after the initial shock of the water) your heartbeat slows and your body relaxes faster.
    Hope these little tidbits help some of you folks! I know its a long post but I know as a college student myself life can get pretty crazy, so videos like this seriously help so much to know we aren't alone and I hope my input can do the same. Love you and your videos, Connor!

  • @CameronPhillips
    @CameronPhillips 6 років тому +238

    Omg Brokeback Mountain is an incredible film that literally broke my heart so hard the first time I saw it, and yes nobody takes it serious!! people wake up!!

    • @budgie4350
      @budgie4350 6 років тому +5

      Cameron Phillips if it literally broke your heart, you would be dead.

    • @ristygirl792
      @ristygirl792 6 років тому +1

      I cried so hard when I watched it aH

    • @evangeline819
      @evangeline819 6 років тому +4

      i watched it and it was so sad but didn’t make me cry i have no soul help

    • @imbrettr3307
      @imbrettr3307 6 років тому +1

      I just watched it a couple days ago and I'm still crying. It's such a good film though!

  • @bella-je5yc
    @bella-je5yc 6 років тому +240

    I love this man so much wtf

    • @B4leful
      @B4leful 6 років тому +4

      Honesty same

    • @Juliezeneth
      @Juliezeneth 6 років тому +1

      💕 omg same

    • @chelsey8737
      @chelsey8737 6 років тому +3

      Its weird to think that ive been watching long enough to see him be old enough to a man

  • @maskitmati
    @maskitmati 6 років тому +35

    connor is legit the most precious ever ahaaa

  • @oliviakingsley4884
    @oliviakingsley4884 6 років тому +27

    after just a few moments of watching this video, i realized that i had sighed and was contently smiling slightly. out of boredom, ive been mindlessly going through youtube watching other youtubers and as much as i love them, you really are a sigh of relief...literally. you're just so genuine, down to earth, and warm and you never fail to give that pure, raw sense of joy. thank you, connor.

  • @lulubelle3924
    @lulubelle3924 6 років тому +5

    Literally everything about Conner is aesthetically pleasing

  • @pascalouue3
    @pascalouue3 6 років тому +72

    why is it that your videos always put a smile on my face even before i've seen them?

  • @OLDS98
    @OLDS98 6 років тому +78

    This was candid, but quite informative and informational. You are really developing into the person you desire to be based on the things you said. Thank you for sharing. Good advice as well.

  • @zerobudgetproductions4201
    @zerobudgetproductions4201 6 років тому +47

    I know I am like two years late but I just listened to note to self and the part about love and relationships helped me so much because of a complicated love life (or lack of one) that I have.I guess what I am trying to say is thank you Connor for helping me and other LGBT people accept themselves.

    • @fi5976
      @fi5976 5 років тому

      Zero budget Productions
      OMIGOD YES HE DOES! Good on ya for picking that out, you obviously have a great eye.
      Have a nice day hun!

    • @fi5976
      @fi5976 5 років тому

      Oops sorry meant to reply to someone else

  • @Gamzeeker
    @Gamzeeker 6 років тому +155

    Ily more thanks for being such an lgbt inspiration

  • @MRdaBakkle
    @MRdaBakkle 6 років тому +79

    QUEER MOVIE! THE WAY HE LOOKS! Such a lovely film about being a blind teenage boy as he figures out that he is gay!

    • @rpturtle9329
      @rpturtle9329 6 років тому +8

      MRdaBakkle do you know of a place to watch that movie that provides audio descriptive? As a gay blind person, that movie has interested me but it’s in a foreign language and only offers subtitles on Netflix Of course, subtitles are useless to me lol. If not, no worries. Just curious.

    • @MRdaBakkle
      @MRdaBakkle 6 років тому +2

      @@rpturtle9329 i do not. If you are really interested you could see if you could find a dubbed version online somewhere

    • @rpturtle9329
      @rpturtle9329 6 років тому +3

      MRdaBakkle no worries. I was just curious. Thanks for the suggestion.

    • @thejaviersimon
      @thejaviersimon 6 років тому +1

      i love that movie!!!!!!!!!

    • @purplekitten6637
      @purplekitten6637 6 років тому

      This sounds amazing. I should watch it.

  • @tova1412
    @tova1412 6 років тому +1

    here are *some sleep advice* that has helped me sometimes with my insomnia: (1) try to set a pattern/schedule your sleep and try to stick with it, if you do your body will most likely adapt to that sleeping-schedule. (2) listen to asmr (maybe give it a second chance if you dislike it or give it a shot if you haven't before, it can really help). (3) listen to some calm music as you're about to sleep, e.g. piano pieces. (4) try to put away your phone/laptop etc. at least an hour before going to bed. (5) try drinking some calming tea before bed, warm milk, etc.

  • @loobeeloou
    @loobeeloou 6 років тому +15

    Yes to more CC clothing! If there was a way you could share the journey/highlights of developing a product through to sale that would be interesting. I’ve enjoyed the bits you’ve shared in the past 💛‬

  • @dialakawar2921
    @dialakawar2921 6 років тому +4

    his eyes match his sweater i’m gonna cry connor is so cute

  • @grace.g9874
    @grace.g9874 6 років тому +151

    This was such an amazing video and very helpful love you Connor 😊💕💕

  • @laurenvdk-8728
    @laurenvdk-8728 6 років тому +2

    THAT SHIRT BRINGS OUT YOUR EYES SO MUCH
    OH MY GOD I LOVE YOU

  • @GeloOcampo
    @GeloOcampo 6 років тому +8

    *CONNOR PLEASE MAKE MORE APPAREL* like seriously, two of my favorite clothing pieces are from CC, and you have a great eye for design so yes, please release more!

  • @cherylreid9428
    @cherylreid9428 5 років тому

    I am a straight, married woman who recently finished reading The Velvet Rage. This book was such an eye opener! I read it wanting to hopefully more fully understand some of my LGBTQ family and friends. What I came away from this book was that we all have more in common than we think. We all want to be loved, we all want to be accepted, we all are on a journey of self awareness. I recommend this book to everyone

  • @grapejuice2937
    @grapejuice2937 6 років тому +40

    yesss king connor uploaded 🙌 love u 💕💕 ur such a genuine human being

  • @rabinabeepath6993
    @rabinabeepath6993 6 років тому +1

    Love casual convos with connor. Makes me feel like im chatting with a friend

  • @mikaelaaa
    @mikaelaaa 6 років тому +28

    this is so chill I’m here for it

  • @anaskuletic3530
    @anaskuletic3530 6 років тому

    I have wanted to SCREAM this entire video how good your eyes fit with the colour of the sweater. I have never been so aesthetically pleased in my LIFE! When will my eyes ever-

  • @sararamirez9316
    @sararamirez9316 6 років тому +180

    Please put out new things for common culture

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  6 років тому +29

      working on it rn!! im feeling inspired again!

  • @jesseyjacobs
    @jesseyjacobs 5 років тому +1

    damn, my anxiety is exactly like yours! thats crazy. like im terrified and paranoid that someone will break into my place all the time, holy cow, and the only crowds i can be a lil bit comfy in are concerts!!! music is the best therapy!

  • @aasthajani3478
    @aasthajani3478 6 років тому +34

    I felt so called out when you said sleep is essential. I'm in Dubai. It's 2AM. I'm falling down the UA-cam spiral. Send help.

  • @gabycamilla4278
    @gabycamilla4278 6 років тому

    omg new common culture clothing would be amazing!! this video was very helpful for me ily con

  • @TheEyeOfTheSpider123
    @TheEyeOfTheSpider123 6 років тому +4

    The framing/aspect ratio looks so original & stylish!

  • @emilybenford9910
    @emilybenford9910 6 років тому +23

    "my friends Arden & Will"

  • @rebeccahamm2349
    @rebeccahamm2349 6 років тому +51

    If your not of age to vote or want to make your voice heard on more things you can go to change.org . They have lots of petitions and if they don't happen to have a petition for a subject that you wanna sign on you can make one.

  • @Scooby_Dooby_Doobert
    @Scooby_Dooby_Doobert 6 років тому

    I don't get a chance to watch you as much as I used to but I still love you and consider you an icon and a very prominent role model that got me through middle and highschool. Love yah Connor keep being so pure and you.

  • @cowboy_rockstar
    @cowboy_rockstar 6 років тому +4

    I went to go watch the trailer for Carol, and I saw an ad with you in it

  • @aniahbland4052
    @aniahbland4052 6 років тому

    I could listen to you talk all day! This was great. Thanks

  • @evediby2183
    @evediby2183 6 років тому +9

    You should make a series called Candid with Connor

  • @gretak.618
    @gretak.618 6 років тому

    Oh wow, I have missed you. I haven't been on UA-cam too much this year because, well, life. watching your videos now is warming my heart, you're a beautiful human being, Connor, don't ever change!

  • @charliedavis340
    @charliedavis340 6 років тому +3

    Omg I’m literally in love with Connor Franta

  • @Nicole-kk4sj
    @Nicole-kk4sj 6 років тому

    I was having bad, bad day... I clicked this video and your voice is so soothing that it really calm me down. Anxiety can gets pretty bad sometimes. Ty x

  • @kaitlynconrad571
    @kaitlynconrad571 6 років тому +6

    Are you going to write your third book soon???? You are my favorite author!!!

  • @juiciegiraffe2562
    @juiciegiraffe2562 6 років тому

    there's no disrespect in finding beauty in death, connor. if anything, it respects those who have died even more. i loved that photo!

  • @bere.garcia
    @bere.garcia 6 років тому +4

    He’s the cutest thing eveeeer 😍 It would be so nice to be his friend

  • @maddie.bolland.7
    @maddie.bolland.7 6 років тому

    You are such an inspiration to me Connor! 💖 I think LGBTQ+ education is super important, so the fact you donated a whole section to a library is beautiful.

  • @xraulc
    @xraulc 6 років тому +258

    Why did I think the thumbnail had the Walmart logo?! Whahehqjs

  • @kristenolson7308
    @kristenolson7308 6 років тому +2

    your voice and just overall presence is so soothing. not many people on UA-cam I can say I leave watching their videos feeling better about myself, but you definitely do that for me. thank you thank you for being yourself :)

  • @caryplays
    @caryplays 6 років тому +185

    why are you so damn cute. teach me please.

  • @joliefalcon3491
    @joliefalcon3491 6 років тому

    What you said at the end was very sweet of you Connor 😊

  • @baethyh7892
    @baethyh7892 6 років тому +24

    Do you have a list of the queer literature books you donated to your old high school? A queer literature video would be soooo good!

    • @oliviayeske_
      @oliviayeske_ 6 років тому +2

      a few of my favorite queer (teen) books are Ramona Blue by Julie Murphy, True Letters from a Fictional Life by Kenneth Logan, all of the books from the Simon vs. the Homosapiens Agenda series, and Everything Leads to You by Nina LaCour

    • @Jjjjjjjj27
      @Jjjjjjjj27 6 років тому +2

      I’ll give you the sun- Jandy Nelson(my favourite book in the world🌎😁🙏🌞)
      History is all you left me-Adam Silvera
      More Happy Than Not- Adam Silvera
      The mis-education Of Camren Post- I forget
      All these books are amazing and beautiful and wonderful and-oh my goodness just the best books in the world! If you read them tell me how you like them

    • @baethyh7892
      @baethyh7892 6 років тому +1

      Olivia Yeske thanks! I'll check those out

    • @baethyh7892
      @baethyh7892 6 років тому

      J H thank you!!! 😊

    • @oliviayeske_
      @oliviayeske_ 6 років тому +1

      BaethyH yay! I hope you like them!

  • @natalieflowers5839
    @natalieflowers5839 6 років тому +1

    I do enjoy simple conservations especially when it with advices and questioning things.

  • @lamtwentythirteen
    @lamtwentythirteen 6 років тому +6

    wow when you click a video and get hit with those cmbyn feels out of NOWHERE thanks

  • @aashu1512
    @aashu1512 6 років тому

    I love how calm his videos can make me feel within seconds ♥️

  • @DrDLL99
    @DrDLL99 6 років тому +3

    More Validate Me shirts PLEASE???!!!

    • @DrDLL99
      @DrDLL99 6 років тому +2

      and hoodies

  • @Sol_705_
    @Sol_705_ 6 років тому

    God, you are so right, thinking about the universe, the fact that is infinite (or if it's not something else over the universe is infinite), and also the time. Thinking that there is not a point in which everything started and it will never finish, literally freaks me out

  • @bleurain6372
    @bleurain6372 6 років тому +3

    WE LOVE COMMON CULTURE
    give him some love hunnies

  • @michellebradford7070
    @michellebradford7070 6 років тому

    Omg I can’t believe I just realized how much you physically changed omg I be been drifting through life and just noticed that and honestly it’s probably because I can relate so deeply on depression and loneliness

  • @janezella6454
    @janezella6454 6 років тому +3

    hi sweaty just wanted to say you are an editing queen

  • @kizzy3563
    @kizzy3563 6 років тому

    You genuinely give really good advice... and a lot of it pertains to me and where I am in life right now. 23... and utterly lost but excited for the future. You motivate me to reach for dreams I thought were unattainable and you give me the courage to trust in myself. I'm not going to let anxiety/fears hold me back. Thanks Connor! :D

  • @charlisonnenblume
    @charlisonnenblume 6 років тому +64

    Can you PLEEEAAASE restock the yellow lonley lane hoodie?

  • @shawncola123
    @shawncola123 5 років тому

    I stopped watching your videos for a hot minute and I’m not sure why but, I miss these so much. So relaxing and motivating

  • @mikaelaaa
    @mikaelaaa 6 років тому +16

    yes new common culture products!!

  • @ayushbhardwaj319
    @ayushbhardwaj319 5 років тому +1

    Ahhhhh he's so good looking and positive!!!! He's totally the person i'm trying to become

  • @KyleeNguyen
    @KyleeNguyen 6 років тому +5

    Wow I love him

  • @malithevillain8438
    @malithevillain8438 6 років тому

    Thanks for motivating the people to go vote! It's so important, not only for America, but also for other countries. It also affects us here in Europe!

  • @skeletondeskworker2732
    @skeletondeskworker2732 6 років тому +6

    I have not had a good sleeping schedule since I was seven

  • @pritalprabhu8209
    @pritalprabhu8209 6 років тому

    the sweater, the eyes, the lamp, the painting...
    ugh connor's so effortlessly aesthetic i love it

  • @moonwarrior586
    @moonwarrior586 6 років тому +3

    Darling, on the sleep issue: get a weighted blanket. It’s magical 😴💤

  • @emmasophiacoleman1563
    @emmasophiacoleman1563 6 років тому

    your hair, your eyes, and your sweater, go SO good together

  • @darbat
    @darbat 6 років тому +8

    Connor's favorite genre of movies is HORROR.
    *gay attraction and infatuation INTENSIFIES*
    Also, Im at that age where I don't buy a lot of clothes anymore and can afford better quality, timeless clothing. Been meaning to check out Acme in Downtown LA. Have tomorrow off and will definitely check them out.

  • @sarinaboley1931
    @sarinaboley1931 6 років тому

    thank you for being so genuine and honest in this and thank you for acknowledging that what is good for you isn’t necessarily best for everyone - it makes me happy to see you so introspective and open :))

  • @moodyblue7817
    @moodyblue7817 6 років тому +6

    candidn’t

  • @ColoxrI
    @ColoxrI 6 років тому

    That green sweater is giving me christmas vibes!!!! I'M FEELING CHRISTMAS!! I don't care if thanksgiving comes first, but it's already Christmas for me.

  • @alicegallagher8925
    @alicegallagher8925 6 років тому +12

    You are amazing ❤❤❤🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍🌈

  • @moodyblue7817
    @moodyblue7817 6 років тому +2

    YES OF COURSE I WANT MORE CLOTHES FROM COMMON CULTURE THEY’RE ALWAYS SO GREAT

  • @taylorpetter3804
    @taylorpetter3804 6 років тому +4

    I have had trouble sleeping basically my entire life, but you can buy sleeping aid pills basically at any store like Walmart etc; it has really helped me calm down before I go to bed so I HIGHLY RECOMMEND. I can actually get a good night of sleep now after 19 years lol

  • @PS-bn6st
    @PS-bn6st 5 років тому

    Shelter is a really good movie!!!

  • @kaichey2976
    @kaichey2976 6 років тому +24

    I might just be imagining this but I just noticed that Connor speaks more out of the right side of his mouth, let me know if I'm going crazy

    • @fi5976
      @fi5976 5 років тому +1

      OMIGOD YES!
      You obviously have a great eye! I would never have picked that out.
      Have a nice day, Genius

  • @userx57hf98
    @userx57hf98 6 років тому

    I enjoyed this! Your videos always put me in a calm and peaceful mood so thank you for that! 😊 i hope you have a great week ahead of you!

  • @hannahgandon
    @hannahgandon 6 років тому +49

    Hey Connor! How’s your day been?

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  6 років тому +52

      really really good! you?

    • @hannahgandon
      @hannahgandon 6 років тому +11

      ConnorFranta it’s been pretty good! nice to know things are good on your end! :)

  • @sasaoldbarn
    @sasaoldbarn 6 років тому

    Can I just say that the format of this video is perfect?!! Suites my phone screen very well and I enjoy it everytime

  • @chickenfries7942
    @chickenfries7942 6 років тому +28

    ah anxiety, just ma cup of tea

  • @nat-wf2rr
    @nat-wf2rr 6 років тому +1

    connor makes me feel so happy i dont know how to explain it but i just feel so content

  • @imbrettr3307
    @imbrettr3307 6 років тому +151

    *drops homework* This is more important!

    • @aliciawilliams7711
      @aliciawilliams7711 6 років тому +7

      ImBrettr That’s exactly what i did! Who needs biology?😂

    • @emilybenford9910
      @emilybenford9910 6 років тому +4

      Same! Scrap the bio test

    • @clareashcraft3411
      @clareashcraft3411 6 років тому +5

      I scraped my bio test yesterday today i scrap the algebra 2 test

    • @mollyk3768
      @mollyk3768 6 років тому

      Lol. A whole essay to write and yet here I am.

    • @ankitmahilary7799
      @ankitmahilary7799 6 років тому

      Sameeeee.Bye history.Hello Connor Franta.

  • @AnnaPedron
    @AnnaPedron 6 років тому +1

    Audio books for life!! I love how many people are getting into it now

  • @mrscowboi
    @mrscowboi 6 років тому +4

    I’ve been listening to note to self on audible and Jesus you are amazing

    • @zerobudgetproductions4201
      @zerobudgetproductions4201 6 років тому

      Isabelolivia333 I have been listening to note to self as well and it helped me so much.

  • @smv824
    @smv824 6 років тому

    That sweater literally makes you eyes POP we love a king who wears colors

  • @natalie-vh2zl
    @natalie-vh2zl 6 років тому +18

    Ughhh I want to be friends with Conor and have a book and film club with him and get advice from him and go on runs and hikes with him and have deep conversations wow

  • @lilashiro
    @lilashiro 6 років тому +2

    i love learning more about you through these “simple” video formats! also love that you’re uploading more frequently x

  • @GellardTheFox
    @GellardTheFox 6 років тому +4

    Watch Love, Simon if you haven't already done so, it is a great LGBT movie.

  • @두펀스머츠
    @두펀스머츠 6 років тому +1

    this make me so happy

  • @glennanderson2611
    @glennanderson2611 6 років тому +6

    I miss the do do do do at the end of your videos

  • @CyanChenYuam
    @CyanChenYuam 6 років тому +1

    the green style is perfect perfect!!💚💚

  • @natalie-vh2zl
    @natalie-vh2zl 6 років тому +18

    OK I HAVE THE EXACT SAME VIEW ON LIFE AFTER DEATH

    • @oliverpiers6603
      @oliverpiers6603 6 років тому

      natalie repent and believe in the Lord JESUS CHRIST before it’s too late

    • @natalie-vh2zl
      @natalie-vh2zl 6 років тому +2

      Oliver Piers oh ok sure I guess I will if you say so

    • @natalie-vh2zl
      @natalie-vh2zl 6 років тому +2

      Oliver Piers you’ve cured my agnosticism

    • @natalie-vh2zl
      @natalie-vh2zl 6 років тому +2

      Oliver Piers how can I ever repay you

    • @ThatFlower12
      @ThatFlower12 6 років тому +2

      natalie lmaooo

  • @olyverthew3570
    @olyverthew3570 6 років тому

    If you're having trouble with sleeping, I have some tips!
    I spent most of my life with insomniac tendencies and so I researched what the most common and easy ways to get your body on a better sleep schedule.
    1. Create a routine. This is the foundation for most cycles. Our bodies thrive on routine because A. It makes us feels safe, and B. It helps our bodies to create a neural patter (or better known as a synaptic pattern).
    2. Part of creating the routine is trying to go to bed around the same time every night. I say my around bedtime is 9:30, which means I start getting ready at 9, in bed by 9:30, and roughly asleep by 10.
    3. Find what creates the most soothing environment for yourself. Most people like things like weighted blankets or lots of blanket layers because it reduces anxieties like a hug, listening to white noise or soft melodic music (I use Relax Melodies every night which is incredibly helpful and designed by researchers on better sleep), or sleep meditations which I also use in combination with Relax Melodies. I pick a 20-30 meditation that helps me to relax and regulate my breathing, telling the body to get ready for a resting period. After I hear the same one for awhile, I'm usually asleep before the end of it.
    4. As all of these are optional, another option is doing things like making tea before bed, especially teas that induce relaxation with herbs or roots such as Kava, Chamomile, Valerian, etc. I drink it before bed and it's very soothing and makes me feel warm and nice.
    5. In small doses things such as Melatonin supplements can be very helpful too. I take just 1mg a night, and it's just enough to induce my body to relax and make me a little sleepy. However, unlike prescriptions, things that are naturally based may take longer to take effect, such as melatonin may take a few uses before your body starts to react. Dont up a dose or drink more of relaxant indecent test or herbs just because you dont feel anything right away.
    6. Excercising is said to make people feel tired afterwards, so some people do so, shower, and then go to bed. A common but not often talked about way is moderation! Especially in primarily testosterone persons but also in estrogen persons, master at ion is a great way to enduce positive mindsets towards sleeping with feel good hormones like dopamin, and serotonin and other sleepy hormones that help us to relax and get a good nights rest.
    7. As it's getting colder, things such as heating blankets, socked feet, a comfort item such as stuffed animal, pillow, or blanket to hold, and low lights such as Himalayan salt lamps (which cast a soothing low glow that's ajustable), are also great ideas.
    Everyone is different, we all react differently, so experiment and find what works for you!

  • @ellah.211
    @ellah.211 6 років тому +29

    i just realized at 1:38 it says wow instead of how, whoops

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  6 років тому +22

      oops

    • @jessica6967
      @jessica6967 6 років тому +1

      I seriously was doubting my eyes when I read 'wow'. Convinced myself I didn't need to obsess and pause the video just to check.. At least my eyes weren't lying to me for once :D

    • @zeak166
      @zeak166 6 років тому +2

      @@ConnorFranta It's okay Connor! You wow yourself just like you wow us everyday ;)

    • @flaurelmusic
      @flaurelmusic 6 років тому

      I noticed that too lol!

  • @evelynu.5838
    @evelynu.5838 6 років тому

    His voice is so soothing and calming.