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  • @ConnorFranta
    @ConnorFranta  7 років тому +3573

    Anddddd we're back with another suprise friday video! HE'S KILLING IT FOLKS. he. is. killing. it. You guys enjoyed the last LGBTQ+ video I did, so here's another for you. If you want another, make sure to click the like button. Also, my book is out in 4 days and my tour begins then too so AH see you all soon xo

    • @allisonkuo9288
      @allisonkuo9288 7 років тому +3

      ConnorFranta killing it. Yas u go Connor 😂

    • @catherout
      @catherout 7 років тому +2

      K I N G

    • @itsnot_ASIA
      @itsnot_ASIA 7 років тому +2

      ConnorFranta I love you Connor

    • @mabel4723
      @mabel4723 7 років тому +2

      ConnorFranta P E R F E C T

    • @kae-lynndeal4810
      @kae-lynndeal4810 7 років тому +2

      ConnorFranta❤❤

  • @tbhbyron
    @tbhbyron 7 років тому +2382

    the aesthetics. the cute tree. the fairy lights. the stripes. THE GAY. I love love love

    • @jacksapeach
      @jacksapeach 7 років тому +9

      hes a cutieee for sure

    • @dhanyanarayan322
      @dhanyanarayan322 7 років тому +3

      TBHBYRON cutie 😘😘

    • @pascal5285
      @pascal5285 7 років тому +1

      TBHBYRON ayyyyye

    • @Zoejo
      @Zoejo 7 років тому

      TBHBYRON heeeyyyy Byron!

    • @tala9553
      @tala9553 7 років тому

      I have accidentally found you again.

  • @jendim12
    @jendim12 7 років тому +1630

    connor: sweet like honey
    me: DONT NEED MONEY ALL I NEED IS YOU

    • @gabim8105
      @gabim8105 7 років тому +5

      Jen Dim HELL YEA

    • @rhiannon6523
      @rhiannon6523 7 років тому +11

      Jen Dim I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT THANKS FAM

    • @jess-yh6ci
      @jess-yh6ci 7 років тому +10

      EXCUSE ME WHO ASKED YOU

    • @Coachgrapefruit
      @Coachgrapefruit 7 років тому +8

      Rhiannon Brown OMG SAME I WAS LOOKING FOR THIS COMMENT LMAAOOOO

    • @aleli5626
      @aleli5626 7 років тому +2

      when does he say this???!!!

  • @helenak.5482
    @helenak.5482 7 років тому +611

    DUDE I JUST REALIZED CONNOR LOOKS EXACTLY LIKE THAT PERSON THAT VIOLET FROM THE INCREDIBLES HAD A CRUSH ON OMG

    • @thursdayschild2094
      @thursdayschild2094 7 років тому +15

      Helena K. Omg he does! I think his name was Danny or something

    • @lilyfrey9351
      @lilyfrey9351 6 років тому +9

      OH SHIT U RIGHT!

    • @misfitmia
      @misfitmia 6 років тому +11

      I AM SHOOKETH

    • @lisacz9627
      @lisacz9627 6 років тому +23

      Helena K. TONY RIDINGER

    • @rxsonance
      @rxsonance 6 років тому +1

      Helena K. Hahaahaa

  • @sarahthompson4505
    @sarahthompson4505 6 років тому +153

    My best friend came out to his mom, this is how it went
    Friend: Mom, I'm gay
    His Mom: OH THANK GOD! YOU ARE TERRIBLE WITH WOMEN

  • @annaf.7658
    @annaf.7658 7 років тому +1357

    I befriended a bullied bisexual girl recently (she is bullied bc it's the south and they are not as accepting here) and she recently asked me infront of my friends if I wanted to help her start a GSA (since I'm straight), and I said yes and one of my friends were pissed at me for saying yes and I cut her out of my life because I don't need that in my life

    • @saijalbedi9252
      @saijalbedi9252 7 років тому +76

      good you did that. no one needs toxic people who spread negativity in your life

    • @Crystal-hw2re
      @Crystal-hw2re 7 років тому +16

      I live in the South too. I wish I had the courage to create a GSA like you did, Anna F., At a Catholic School. Which is basically impossible lol.

    • @zaneygirl1
      @zaneygirl1 7 років тому +8

      Anna F. hey, thanks. My best friend did that. It was the hardest thing we've ever had to do and we live in the north, but the shitty Pennsylvania north so. good luck.

    • @islapennington9140
      @islapennington9140 7 років тому +7

      Awww that's really sweet. I'm proud. ❤

    • @kiradot8071
      @kiradot8071 7 років тому +5

      Good 4 u!!! 👏👏👏👏

  • @clairevanorsow
    @clairevanorsow 7 років тому +909

    Why aren't you calling these Q and Gay's?

    • @sirknightlancelot
      @sirknightlancelot 7 років тому +13

      CLaire VO It's Matthew Lush's thing

    • @Crystal-hw2re
      @Crystal-hw2re 7 років тому +27

      Trevor Moran called his coming out video a "Q and Gay"...

    • @thatcooldalek6079
      @thatcooldalek6079 7 років тому +1

      oml yus trevor slay kween

    • @miamor513
      @miamor513 7 років тому +2

      Tyler Oakley does those 😊

    • @alyssamuustdie4639
      @alyssamuustdie4639 7 років тому +20

      Mi Amor Tyler Oakley actually does Q and Slay.

  • @NatalieMarte
    @NatalieMarte 7 років тому +398

    " Actually my girlfriend "
    " Oh.... tell me about her"
    Sadly that is not how my mom would react

    • @Lady0taku
      @Lady0taku 7 років тому +7

      Same

    • @rebekahdrummond2818
      @rebekahdrummond2818 6 років тому +5

      Natalie Marte yeah same I’ve been dating my girlfriend for 2 years and my best guy friend is who she thinks I’m dating ahaha

    • @crisk75
      @crisk75 6 років тому

      :(

    • @saimahramen
      @saimahramen 6 років тому +1

      Fuhrmanizer I know I’m late, but I can oddly relate.

    • @idkilikeeggos5261
      @idkilikeeggos5261 6 років тому +1

      Natalie Marte that’s sad I’m so sorry.

  • @camronmonroejackson2619
    @camronmonroejackson2619 6 років тому +58

    Why do his videos always seem so calm and angelic

  • @jesswarble5544
    @jesswarble5544 7 років тому +115

    I just came out as pansexual to my mom and I have my first girlfriend. I legit couldn't be happier bc I'm finally being who I am and a lot of it is bc of u con. I am a very young child and you helped me so much 😂. Thank you so much!! I also will be meeting you in Bethlehem!!

  • @elisehopkins9260
    @elisehopkins9260 7 років тому +54

    I have a friend who is pan and they always say "it's the hearts not the parts"

  • @petewentzfrommychemicalrom3114
    @petewentzfrommychemicalrom3114 6 років тому +33

    His face.
    I want to hug it and show all the unconditional love in the world.

  • @morethananyonedarlin6804
    @morethananyonedarlin6804 7 років тому +882

    What if you called this series " Hardly Heterosexual: with Connor Franta"

    • @nina-ro7do
      @nina-ro7do 7 років тому +14

      more than anyone darlin' I'll totally watch that

    • @mads9257
      @mads9257 7 років тому

      helllll yes

    • @trishmnz
      @trishmnz 7 років тому

      that's very... omg i LOVE IT

    • @bassfairy_
      @bassfairy_ 7 років тому

      haha it's cute

    • @reharm_reality
      @reharm_reality 7 років тому +1

      I love it!

  • @jadaragner
    @jadaragner 7 років тому +733

    connor is such an angel fUUUCK

    • @jacksapeach
      @jacksapeach 7 років тому +9

      i knowwww

    • @harley_kay_
      @harley_kay_ 7 років тому +7

      Jada Ragner the word angel and fuck in one sentence...consecutively.... SHOOK...

    • @jadaragner
      @jadaragner 7 років тому +7

      why the fuck did this get 200+ likes

    • @sillymonk3y
      @sillymonk3y 7 років тому +1

      Jada Ragner 400*

    • @laurencameron7453
      @laurencameron7453 7 років тому +1

      Jada Ragner 600*

  • @quinciking9077
    @quinciking9077 7 років тому +233

    There's a GSA at my middle school which I'm in. I'm not gay I'm straight and I love supporting and being in this school and group activity. It helps so many kids at my school and around the world

    • @crisk75
      @crisk75 6 років тому

      That's nice

    • @erinkelley1212
      @erinkelley1212 5 років тому

      What does GSA stand for. We have thing like that too!

    • @swistle2548
      @swistle2548 5 років тому

      Random Turtle Im late but im pretty sure it stands for Gay-Straight Alliance

    • @erinkelley1212
      @erinkelley1212 5 років тому

      Oh that makes sense thanks!

    • @jennifers8260
      @jennifers8260 5 років тому +1

      That’s amazing! As a very gay person, I wish that my school was that progressive!

  • @amberazalea
    @amberazalea 7 років тому +253

    the gsa club at my school is called the gender sexuality alliance. More open and inclusive

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  7 років тому +86

      oh wow i like that !

    • @dontask2940
      @dontask2940 7 років тому +13

      Amber Heard At my school we're called SAGA for Sexuality and Gender Awareness! Oh the inclusion

    • @pikapower427
      @pikapower427 7 років тому +5

      This is a common substitution for what was previously more commonly known as the Gay-Straight Alliance. As the concept of fluidity of gender identity and expression became more commonplace and understood throughout the entire LGBTQ+ community, the community realized as a whole that the name "Gay-Straight Alliance" was problematic and exclusive. So, it is more common nowadays to find GSAs changing their names to the Gender and Sexuality Alliance.

    • @seto749
      @seto749 7 років тому +1

      An excellent change. Not only does it manage inclusion, it seems to be really a step towards establishing each letter as a separate entity with its own voice.

    • @seto749
      @seto749 7 років тому +1

      +Mkkio Harts - Ls, Bs, Ts, Qs and others strongly dislike that the mainstream has a tendency to call anything non-straight "gay". It's no picnic for the Gs either. I could say it's like living in Downton Abbey and then having to lease increasing chunks of it to the cast of Duck Dynasty, but I won't.

  • @Justineelv
    @Justineelv 7 років тому +201

    My school tried to get rid and not let our GSA meet... they got sued

  • @camformerlymagicalrainbowb1180
    @camformerlymagicalrainbowb1180 7 років тому +261

    *sees video title*
    *nods*
    seems like a video for me

    • @shadow3616
      @shadow3616 7 років тому +1

      Magical Rainbow Bean basically

    • @horsecrazy2266
      @horsecrazy2266 7 років тому +4

      your username is evidence to this :)

    • @ajcasper4354
      @ajcasper4354 7 років тому +1

      Magical Rainbow Bean omg me

    • @cheese____24
      @cheese____24 7 років тому +1

      Magical Rainbow Bean me haha

  • @IAmGadzooks
    @IAmGadzooks 7 років тому +246

    Actually, both bisexuals and pansexuals can be attracted to all genders. The difference is that many people choose to call themselves pansexual to show that gender doesn't affect their attraction to someone, whereas a bisexual might be more attracted to one gender than the other, or might be attracted to different genders for different reasons. In this way, pansexual is more of a political and personal label whereas bisexual is a more general label with lots more history and an established community.

    • @keroline
      @keroline 6 років тому +15

      gabriel. Yeah that's not true. Bi people are only attracted to 2 genders (mostly male&female)

    • @claraconkling2202
      @claraconkling2202 6 років тому +7

      gabriel. Mmmm super sorry honey and not to be a debby downer, but that's not correct. As a bisexual person who has been aware of their sexual identity for 7+ years, it's really aggravating when pan people or people who aren't lgbtq+ or even uneducated bi people put down or put out ideas that alter what bi actually is.

    • @adrianpaul817
      @adrianpaul817 6 років тому +5

      Karoline yea cause there are only 2 genders :)

    • @updog7470
      @updog7470 6 років тому +6

      Nope! Pan means they love everyone regardless of gender. Bi is male and female. And poly is pan with limitations, meaning they love certain genders. Not all, but not just female and male.

    • @rayeofsunshine8519
      @rayeofsunshine8519 6 років тому +8

      actually, bi refers to atraction to primarily two genders, while pan is the atraction to guys, gals, and non-binary pals alike. pan could also be omni.

  • @DamonAndJo
    @DamonAndJo 7 років тому +7

    Loved this. So personal but also informative. KILLIN' IT!!

    • @jmz1736
      @jmz1736 3 роки тому

      I miss damonandjo so much.

  • @ananyaseth9094
    @ananyaseth9094 7 років тому +277

    THE LAST TIME I WAS THIS EARLY I WAS STILL IN THE CLOSET

    • @shadow3616
      @shadow3616 7 років тому +11

      con you not
      you've left me ded

    • @user-dq1jl4pb9d
      @user-dq1jl4pb9d 7 років тому +1

      con you not I'm English so don't have a closet to be in..
      and I'm straight

    • @devinjm007
      @devinjm007 7 років тому +1

      Con you like not

  • @rmk2762
    @rmk2762 7 років тому +66

    I hear "that's so gay" over 25 times a day. Wednesday May 17th is national day against homophobia. I talked to my principle and my High School will have host a pride day! :) Organize something at your school and take a stand.

    • @rmk2762
      @rmk2762 7 років тому

      Rayney Rayney good for you! I'm glad you stood up!

    • @Dan-vn4he
      @Dan-vn4he 7 років тому +4

      Not every school allows it :( at mine (in England - a School that prides itself on allowing everyone to be themselves and be proud of it) I'm constantly told to not 'be so gay' to put it simply. To 'tone it down a bit'. We (me and my gays) asked the School if there could be a GSTA (gay straight trans alliance) but they took our comments (without saying anything LGBT, like they were afraid it would hurt us???) and completely ignored it. Sometimes making a stand works and that is so amazing but other times it's useless - what I'm saying is don't expect it to always work the first time, people need convincing a lot sometimes :(

  • @emmawins6509
    @emmawins6509 7 років тому +22

    I haven't watched your videos for a long time now, I guess since your coming out video or around that time, I don't know why. It just kinda didn't happen. And don't get me wrong, it wasn't because you are gay. But watching this video today and seeing how happy and confident you are now made me really happy. It kind of encouraged me to believe in the good times of life. Thanks Connor!

  • @brynrenee2455
    @brynrenee2455 6 років тому +76

    Guys I am straight but my best friends makes homophobic comments and Idk that makes me uncomfortable...I respect her opinion but what do I do?

    • @lucyhoward2543
      @lucyhoward2543 6 років тому +44

      Respect people’s opinion so long as their opinion doesn’t disrespect anyone else’s existence

    • @choose_happyxo
      @choose_happyxo 6 років тому +8

      Bryn Renee state your opinion, see how they react. If they don’t agree, that’s fine. Just be nice and don’t disrespect their opinions/beliefs

    • @books2438
      @books2438 6 років тому +10

      Well, she insults people because of who they love, so she doesn’t deserve respect, and if I were you she would already be out of my life, but just talk to her about it

    • @spifii
      @spifii 6 років тому +8

      BURN HER WITH FIRE.....no that's mean but that was my first instinct

    • @whyisgamora4191
      @whyisgamora4191 6 років тому

      If you're straight, you shouldn't have to worry about defending your opinion. If you were gay and closeted that'd be a little less convenient

  • @elsazheng3070
    @elsazheng3070 7 років тому +125

    connie is the cutest boy in the world

  • @ZoeHammer
    @ZoeHammer 7 років тому +805

    where can I buy a cute, little connor? I need one as soon as possible

    • @ZoeHammer
      @ZoeHammer 7 років тому +3

      love you connor!💖

    • @lostanguishbladelord2461
      @lostanguishbladelord2461 7 років тому +10

      have to clone a fresh batch, but we'll see what we can do

    • @bassfairy_
      @bassfairy_ 7 років тому +1

      same

    • @ZoeHammer
      @ZoeHammer 7 років тому +13

      +Blade Lord maybe we can find one at the supermarket!

    • @madisondecker2993
      @madisondecker2993 7 років тому +16

      Zoe Delane try hot topic I bought a Daniel Howell there and when it broke I returned it and got my money back or target

  • @gnome7534
    @gnome7534 5 років тому +2

    awww when he was talking about pansexuals and he goes “i love that. that sounds lovely.” MY PAN HEART MELTED

  • @trydiy8773
    @trydiy8773 7 років тому +105

    Such gay
    Much love

  • @SpencerSteelman
    @SpencerSteelman 7 років тому +270

    A friday video?!?! I am shook Connor.. ahaha

  • @emilioKeka
    @emilioKeka 7 років тому +277

    literally everytime i hear his outro i wiggle my body to the beat

    • @ConnorFranta
      @ConnorFranta  7 років тому +79

      omg lol

    • @emilioKeka
      @emilioKeka 7 років тому +12

      ConnorFranta OMFG IM SHAKING YOU REPLIED

    • @gabriellehofmann1805
      @gabriellehofmann1805 7 років тому +2

      seth sivan omg same 😂 beatboxing works with it too xD

    • @habibaimam882
      @habibaimam882 7 років тому +1

      i was literally dancing to the outro as i read this wtf

    • @graceotte4002
      @graceotte4002 7 років тому +1

      i do wiggle....everytime with the little icon at the top also CONNOR FRANTA REPLIED TO YOU!! Ahh

  • @alyssadilella218
    @alyssadilella218 7 років тому +38

    Connor is adorable oml💕

  • @burdensofrestriction
    @burdensofrestriction 7 років тому +13

    7:10 Me. Me everyday. I live in a pretty conservative community, so if I experience someone exhibiting homophobic or transphobic behavior, I make sure to act EXTRA gay.

  • @evew6161
    @evew6161 7 років тому +296

    my best friend asked me out yesterday. 💜😁( i said yes)

    • @phoebeb136
      @phoebeb136 7 років тому +15

      THATS SO FUCKING CUTE I CANT,, MY HEARTTTTTTTTT

    • @horsecrazy2266
      @horsecrazy2266 7 років тому +5

      YAY

    • @raienwhilby5280
      @raienwhilby5280 7 років тому

      Eve W WHAT HAPPENED?!

    • @nancyserena1847
      @nancyserena1847 7 років тому

      Eve W yayyyy!!!!

    • @evew6161
      @evew6161 7 років тому +7

      Riarkle_ Babe she called me after saying that she was the one who liked me (my friends had been giving me hints) and now we're together. couldn't be happier!

  • @smashbyofficial
    @smashbyofficial 7 років тому +69

    anyone else love connor answering gay questions?

    • @mairaahmed8764
      @mairaahmed8764 7 років тому +13

      smashbyofficial i just love Connor talking lol

    • @kieran6766
      @kieran6766 7 років тому +4

      maira ahmed who doesnt

  • @nxreu
    @nxreu 7 років тому

    i just love how you always get so real about so many different kind of topics. i love you, con

  • @Karlzz279
    @Karlzz279 7 років тому +8

    I also look at the men section as a girl ^^ I often like the men clothes (like jumpers and hoodies and stuff)

  • @alextcherdak5896
    @alextcherdak5896 7 років тому +35

    +ConnorFranta okay but bisexuality is more like the duality that includes liking one's own gender as well as other genders (so it isn't necessarily limited to the gender binary). The pink on the flag represents attraction to one's own gender, the blue is other genders, and the purple is the sum of both into one sexuality. As for pansexuality... well, they have the saying "hearts before parts" for a reason, right? Pansexuals see a person more as a soul than as a body, and they tend to fall in love with or be attracted to a person's personality rather than their body, similarly to sapiosexuality (the attraction to intelligence).I feel like I should also mention that terms such as pan, poly, omni, pluri, ect fall under the bi umbrella, meaning that you are included in the B of LBGTQ(IA)+ if you fall under any of those identifiers and that they are non-exclusive. I hope this was helpful, if not, I highly recommend RJ Aguiar (+thenotadam) 's Ask a Bi Guy videos for a more detailed explanation, but yeah.

  • @adrianoines521
    @adrianoines521 7 років тому +49

    i saw gay in the title and clicked so fast

    • @adrianoines521
      @adrianoines521 7 років тому +4

      also the new GSA deffinition is the Gender Sexuality Alliance

    • @adrianoines521
      @adrianoines521 7 років тому +4

      and ur mom sounds amazing

  • @jaydenwalsh6630
    @jaydenwalsh6630 7 років тому +174

    Since I can't come out to my family I'll just come out to everyone here , hi I'm Chantelle I'm 13 and I'm pansexual :)

    • @eliwest3393
      @eliwest3393 6 років тому +7

      chantelle Walsh hello and pleased to meet you!

    • @Lily-ih8xz
      @Lily-ih8xz 5 років тому +6

      Hi well done welcome to the community

    • @tadhgloadsman1803
      @tadhgloadsman1803 5 років тому +7

      Hi chantelle, I'm Tadhg and I'm VERY gay. We always welcome a new member of the lgtbq+ community.

    • @mathquintogrado4554
      @mathquintogrado4554 5 років тому +1

      Well a big gay hello and welcome to youuu!!

    • @rihannailyas8252
      @rihannailyas8252 5 років тому +3

      Ur accepted and love❤️ if u ever need to talk to someone I’m here! :)

  • @axm601
    @axm601 7 років тому

    This kind of video is REALLY refreshing and make me feel good and smiling and a lot of positive emotions. It, as well make me see Connor as a guy you can relate to. Just keep being yourself, You're amazing

  • @snoot702
    @snoot702 7 років тому +44

    i'd be so cool to see connor speak in high school gsa clubs tbh

  • @kritibhatia4836
    @kritibhatia4836 7 років тому +224

    connor thinks pansexuals are awesome?!?!?
    never been happier to be pan

  • @gabbyrusso2436
    @gabbyrusso2436 6 років тому +24

    Bisexual-attraction to 2 genders not always male and female,
    Polysexual-attraction to more than 2 genders just not all genders.
    Pansexual-attraction to all genders.
    And Polysexual does not mean dating multiple people at the same time. That is Polyamory which I'm not very educated on. Hope that helped someone!

    • @theinkstainsblog1436
      @theinkstainsblog1436 6 років тому +3

      Some bi people also define it as "attraction to genders same as their own and other than their own" and may be attracted to more than two. Source: I am one. This is where some of the confusion comes from because there is overlap but its common to consider pansexuality as attraction regardless of gender as well as attraction to all gender.

  • @kittenrae6494
    @kittenrae6494 6 років тому +1

    Honestly Connor you've been my biggest role model even before you came out like I loved your videos and after you did I feel like im even more inspired by you 💓💓

  • @emilyneely8666
    @emilyneely8666 7 років тому +50

    Connor is so cute and I'm over here looking like a dying goose

    • @kieran6766
      @kieran6766 7 років тому +1

      dreamerem lol me tho

    • @straystars801
      @straystars801 7 років тому +2

      dreamerem Shiiit, I look like a dead frog 😂😂😂

  • @allisonkuo9288
    @allisonkuo9288 7 років тому +109

    I like your shirt, Connor 😍 and of course this video is aesthetic af

  • @CamilaGo
    @CamilaGo 7 років тому

    watching this made me remember your coming out video. so much time has flew by since then. youve grown so much as a person.

  • @maddie.bolland.7
    @maddie.bolland.7 5 років тому

    All of Connor's videos are so aesthetic and cute! I love his sweater and the tree with the lights. Also I love how open and honest he is about everything! His channel is such a great place to come for chill, aesthetic, lovely, lgbtq+ friendly content.

  • @sillymonk3y
    @sillymonk3y 7 років тому +68

    I heard, "Gay, Gay, Cute, Calvin Klein, Gay, Calvin Klein (x9), Gay, Cute"

  • @catherineliu06
    @catherineliu06 7 років тому +4

    In response to that "use slurs to be cool" question. Any time someone on my facebook says something like "that's so gay" i explain to them that it is not the right connotation of that word and to rephrase or unfriend me because I don't want someone that bad in my life. But I usually hope they learn and grow to be better

  • @carlazuzisdaddy8712
    @carlazuzisdaddy8712 3 роки тому +1

    even though this video was uploaded three years ago, I just wanted to say thank you connor. it was this video that inspired me to start a GSA at my middle school a few years ago. it was such a life changing experience that i’ve decided to write my college essay about how this video led me to one of the most inspiring and incredible decisions of my life. thank you for being in my college application essay :)

  • @evagelevska
    @evagelevska 5 років тому

    Every question you answer I become more and more surprised at how you answer them EXACTLY how I would - this made me feel so much better about myself, thank you ❤️

  • @daisyb7189
    @daisyb7189 7 років тому +760

    WHERE MY LGBTQ+ SQUAD AT?

    • @itsnot_ASIA
      @itsnot_ASIA 7 років тому +48

      miss graceffa I'm part of the LGBT community but I don't know about the LGDT community

    • @BLXYDE
      @BLXYDE 7 років тому +1

      lgdtqi abcdefghijklmno WAHUT UP.

    • @itsnot_ASIA
      @itsnot_ASIA 7 років тому +3

      NNB doll house he said lgDt not LGBT

    • @regardingdean
      @regardingdean 7 років тому +8

      Pansexual and nonbinary ✌️✌️

    • @jacksapeach
      @jacksapeach 7 років тому +2

      im hereeee

  • @skylarspeedwell
    @skylarspeedwell 7 років тому +22

    we have a gsa but it's "gender sexuality alliance" so it's not limited to JUST gay and straight people. :)

    • @skylarspeedwell
      @skylarspeedwell 7 років тому +12

      ALSO this video should be called "Q&gay" that would be amazing

  • @olivetatara8874
    @olivetatara8874 6 років тому +5

    Being pan is lovely! And yes, it means being attracted to people regardless of their gender. Sometimes referred to as being genderblind

  • @georgiakolster5057
    @georgiakolster5057 7 років тому

    Connor! I received notification that your book has shipped!! So excited to read it! Best wishes on great success on this book! 😊

  • @olivertwisted5542
    @olivertwisted5542 7 років тому +306

    I think that clothing shouldn't be gendered. If clothing was made only by measurements, everyone could use some measuring tape, find out their measurements, go out & buy things they like & actually fit & there wouldn't be a stigma about it anymore. You can't tell me that doesn't sound amazing. Style isn't gendered.

    • @danielh.8765
      @danielh.8765 7 років тому +1

      Oliver Twisted YESSSS

    • @mayczos2029
      @mayczos2029 7 років тому +9

      Clothes should be gendered because males and females have different body shapes.

    • @olivertwisted5542
      @olivertwisted5542 7 років тому +14

      May Czos so non-binary & transgender people aren't valid? The ignorance of your statement aside, that is why I said clothing should be made by full measurements. No human is shaped "female" or "male," regardless of gender identity. In case you're not aware, what "full measurements" means is measurements of every part of the human body. And every article of clothing would come in all measurements. That way, you go to the store & you know whether or not something is going to fit you & have an idea of how it's going to fit you without trying on a million things that don't fit. And again, every single human on earth is shaped differently, regardless of gender or genitalia (as they're not the same thing). Also, men can wear dresses & skirts & they should be able to on a regular basis. Women had to fight a stigma to wear pants & now it's completely accepted by society. Men were the first to wear heels, not women. Style & fashion isn't gendered, the only reason most people think it is is because of how stores categorize it, how the industry makes it & society's current idea of what is "acceptable," which will most definitely be completely different in 10 years, as history has repeatedly shown us.

    • @olivertwisted5542
      @olivertwisted5542 7 років тому +9

      EllaBanks gender stereotypes are the definition of idiocy. Preference & style aren't determined by gender(:

    • @olivertwisted5542
      @olivertwisted5542 7 років тому +8

      Again, people would wear what they personally like. Not to mention implying that all men have dicks is extremely transphobic.

  • @sampottorf3176
    @sampottorf3176 7 років тому +133

    more gay questions with kian and jc

  • @mauiguy85
    @mauiguy85 7 років тому

    Just picked up your book....loving it so far. very inspired, and the images are amazing!

  • @EagleBot13
    @EagleBot13 6 років тому

    I just want to say that your videos have been such and inspiration. I'm 23 and just recently accepted myself as being gay. Ever since coming out to myself and one of my coworkers I have been so much happier. I plan on coming out to my mom this week; i'm both scared and really excited.

  • @MrNotThatFamous
    @MrNotThatFamous 7 років тому +25

    finally a new connor vid!

  • @irisolympia
    @irisolympia 7 років тому +85

    For Bi versus Pan: a little correction for bisexual is that it can be two or more genders and any two genders-not just men and women 😊

    • @mnaii6343
      @mnaii6343 7 років тому +2

      MeMyselfAndIris it literally can be anyone. im bisexual and most of the time i need to get to know the person to like them. tbh they both are kind of the same because bisexuals dont reduce people to their genitalia but ya know if you read it on tumblr it MUST be true!

    • @irisolympia
      @irisolympia 7 років тому +1

      oh yeah totally! I'm kinda like you in that respect. It's so interesting that there are so many different ways to classify it because sexuality is a spectrum! 💕 It's really important to recognize that many different people have different definitions!

    • @darciehorton9748
      @darciehorton9748 7 років тому

      MeMyselfAndIris well bi means two so generally it is just two - well that's what I was told.

    • @decissivemoss
      @decissivemoss 7 років тому +4

      Well Bi is still two though. There is a sexuality that labels people who fall in love with some But not all genders! Pan, obviously, based as all. Idk I don't understand labels since I myself do not label anyone or myself really. I'm just a blob of me 😂 Honestly in my opinion everyone's different there's no point to labels.

    • @kaylaalexander9827
      @kaylaalexander9827 7 років тому

      What other genders are there?

  • @louthe_coffee_addict7790
    @louthe_coffee_addict7790 7 років тому

    Omg there need to be third part.. i love that you are so honest and real about it..

  • @maggi77188
    @maggi77188 7 років тому

    I like how lighthearted these are. it makes it seam like hanging out and just talking about stuff. It's also so comfterable becuase you know that he gets and yeah,thanks conner:)

  • @nifemiadetunji5853
    @nifemiadetunji5853 7 років тому +73

    Gay questions are the best questions 🌈

  • @meowrobinson837
    @meowrobinson837 7 років тому +23

    He got Pansexual definition right!! I'm so happy 😆

  • @jade-qf5px
    @jade-qf5px 7 років тому

    I recently came out to my mom and dad and I couldn't have even thot about coming out without u Connor ur so inspirational and I wish I could thank u enough but I can't you've made me so comfortable with myself ❤️ thank u so much for being u!!

  • @Savi_616
    @Savi_616 6 років тому

    PLZ MAKE MORE OF THESE THEY HELP SO MUCH

  • @briannastanaford5184
    @briannastanaford5184 7 років тому +29

    conner is the reason why i came out, and i want to meet him so badly but i don't think i can.

    • @briannastanaford5184
      @briannastanaford5184 7 років тому +3

      i started crying when my mom said no, like i literally felt my world start crashing down around me.

    • @user-fp8gd6xd4s
      @user-fp8gd6xd4s 7 років тому

      Brianna Stanaford Connor*

    • @nikola2739
      @nikola2739 7 років тому +1

      *ConnOr

  • @TheJunglePulse
    @TheJunglePulse 7 років тому +7

    Agave Maria sounds sweet and sassy and boujee af you could win Drag Race with that personality I stg

  • @ellieshaw3741
    @ellieshaw3741 7 років тому

    Why are all your videos so aesthetically pleasing?!♥️

  • @dannybribiesca
    @dannybribiesca 7 років тому

    OMG! Those 9 minutes went by so fast! I'm left wanting more 😭 Also, your book just shipped, so I can't wait to read it! ☺️

  • @doughnuttv5504
    @doughnuttv5504 7 років тому +31

    Last time I was this early Congratulations was still in Hamilton

  • @SprinkleOfStyle22
    @SprinkleOfStyle22 7 років тому +737

    *99% of you won't see this so... hi 1%! I hope you have the best day/night ever* 😘

  • @hailybelle7473
    @hailybelle7473 7 років тому +3

    when connor was explaining how happy he was about CK sponsoring him- made me so happy :)))

  • @HannahJensenRae
    @HannahJensenRae 5 років тому

    I love that you shop in both sections! I totally do that too. I know it's a bit different societally (unfortunately), but it definitely is so freaking nice to not restrict myself to one area.

  • @hbshined
    @hbshined 7 років тому +52

    YAASSS CON! I wore a gay pride shirt the other day and got made fun of it but screw them.

    • @shadow3616
      @shadow3616 7 років тому +6

      HannaShine TELL IT HUNNY! DO YOU, BE YOU, YOU'RE PERFECT!

    • @chloestansifer986
      @chloestansifer986 7 років тому +2

      OMG YES

  • @erin28
    @erin28 7 років тому +11

    ur videos are so aesthetic and gay it makes me so happy

  • @sydneybruner3288
    @sydneybruner3288 7 років тому

    So excited to see you this Saturday💞

  • @Grace-cr1xf
    @Grace-cr1xf 5 років тому

    i love way when he was having a conversation beetween the "mum" and "daughter" how the mum reacted hes so lovley!

  • @alisandravega
    @alisandravega 7 років тому +12

    ahh these videos are always so comforting to me i love them so much

  • @crowace5508
    @crowace5508 6 років тому +3

    i didnt know that i needed connor being a supportive mom until now but yes

  • @zeak166
    @zeak166 7 років тому

    Beautiful video after a while! Love you, Connor :*

  • @reinacastanon7462
    @reinacastanon7462 7 років тому +126

    this was unexpected yay!💛💛

    • @jacksapeach
      @jacksapeach 7 років тому +10

      i knowww i get so excited every time he uplodes hehe :3

  • @katiedrinkscoffee
    @katiedrinkscoffee 7 років тому +14

    Let's get this straight, I'm not
    I'm not original I know

  • @jasperastra
    @jasperastra 7 років тому

    Admiration for the gay community as a whole for caring for each other, as it was, your coming out inspired me to do so and I've never been more comfortable in my own skin. Its been two and a half years since I came out (at age 14). If you do read this, you have my personal thanks. We love you Connor, thank you xx (ps come back to Britain and do something, a meet and greet would be nice XD)

  • @JuliannXo
    @JuliannXo 7 років тому

    I love this and you connor!!! It's always great to see my favourite and super influential UA-camrs talking about important topics ✨🌈

  • @ranjahaugen4747
    @ranjahaugen4747 7 років тому +28

    When you're bisexual you like two genders. It doesn't have to be boy and girl.

    • @ranjahaugen4747
      @ranjahaugen4747 7 років тому

      And ily Connor

    • @stellaserena660
      @stellaserena660 7 років тому +2

      Ranja Lucky Connor was actually right, if you look up the definition it says men and women not to be mean

    • @decissivemoss
      @decissivemoss 7 років тому

      Ranja Lucky I thought there was a different sexuality that that's how it's described. Where the don't like all but certain ones. Sometimes 2 or more. Idk there's so many out there it's sometimes confusing. 😅

    • @horsecrazy2266
      @horsecrazy2266 7 років тому +1

      I think bisexuality usually implies men and women.. I'm bi so like. There might be another label for that?

    • @ranjahaugen4747
      @ranjahaugen4747 7 років тому

      It's usually men and women, but you are still bi if you only like two other genders.

  • @mnaii6343
    @mnaii6343 7 років тому +190

    i know you dont know everything connor, and thats why im going to try to explain to you or your viewers what i've learned as a bisexual person who reads a shit ton of blogs and resources online about the lgbt community: that definition of bisexuality and pansexuality is so so biphobic as if us bisexuals were attracted to genitalia only and pansexuals were superior for falling in love for "souls". i am tired of tumblr trying to educate us and pushing their biphobic (and transphobic) definitions of a whole sexuality just because they feel like it.
    you don't need a whole new sexuality because you are attracted to someone's personality. bisexuals are not superficial and we not only think of sex. lets erase that ugly difference that tumblr has impose in our community.

    • @DemonWolf-kk5is
      @DemonWolf-kk5is 7 років тому +12

      kinda felicity thank you this is so true like I don't see a difference between pan and bi bc we are both attracted to personality like does it even matter? It's just loving others without caring about their sex.

    • @mnaii6343
      @mnaii6343 7 років тому +8

      DemonWolf2002 ikr? like since when we can only fall in love with men and women? can't we also like non-binary? we see so much more than just genitalia but people don't seem to get that

    • @judgehangman
      @judgehangman 7 років тому +14

      bisexual has been used with the "any two genders" and "more than one gender" definitions for literal years before the label pansexuality even came to be. like. can people stop erasing bisexual history because transphobic people decided nonbinary genders don't exist and so "any two genders" and "more than one gender" obviously meant "men and women"

    • @mnaii6343
      @mnaii6343 7 років тому +6

      judgehangman i know, i feel like we're pretty much on the same page. bisexuals can like men, women and non-binary. but its not like we only see genitalia and reduce people to what they have between their legs :/

    • @darciehorton9748
      @darciehorton9748 7 років тому +9

      kinda felicity I completely agree with you. I'm pansexual not bisexual but I do agree that bisexuals are getting this negative stereotype that makes you seem somehow awful. from my understanding bisexuality is the love of any 2 genders who love them for them like any other person. pansexuality is any and all genders who love the person for them. personality. anyone really loves someone due to their personality so saying pansexuals are better because they love their personality is so wrong because anyone falls in love with anyone due to personality. bisexuals love 2. pansexuals love all. there is no superiority in that.

  • @laurenwilliams274
    @laurenwilliams274 6 років тому

    This video makes me v happy to see someone genuinely taking time out of their day to help someone. You are so insightful on things and just LGBTQ+ its more than that and it honestly makes me smile :)

  • @ayybby8699
    @ayybby8699 7 років тому +98

    Connor's Drag name: Orange Franta/Fizzy Franta!😅

  • @lia6115
    @lia6115 7 років тому +5

    connor is literally killing me with these surprise videos :,,,,,)

  • @eshadeo9965
    @eshadeo9965 7 років тому +20

    I am loving these random uploads♥♥♥♥

  • @KBallelli
    @KBallelli 7 років тому

    thank you for always cheering me up :)

  • @cyan-sky1188
    @cyan-sky1188 7 років тому

    I love this channel so much because it's gay but it's also calming and quiet. It's very nice to watch Connor's videos when you have a headache but just want to have some gay fun. :3

  • @anidaria
    @anidaria 7 років тому +6

    My classmates, friends and family constantly throw around offensive slurs(like blatantly racist shit and things that are ignorant as hell) and every time I tell them that it's fucking wrong it feels like I'm talking to a wall. Like I constantly need to remind my friend that calling someone "fucking gay" or "retarded" as an insult(or in any way, really) is shitty but she keeps doing it. I'm getting really sick of living around these people who constantly use things that other people can't change about themselves as insults. It fucking hurts.

    • @anidaria
      @anidaria 7 років тому +1

      Also what makes me really fucking mad is the fact that they don't think they're being homophobic or racist or ignorant. When I call them out on their fucked up bs they just tell me to learn how to take a joke.

  • @lia6115
    @lia6115 7 років тому +9

    WHEN I SAW THE NOTIFICATION I SCREAMED AND WENT "ITS ONLY FRIDAY"

  • @grayamet
    @grayamet 6 років тому +2

    the way he exposes his vulnerability and how secure he appears in his golden personality: i just love connor franta

  • @tehyarosedutoit226
    @tehyarosedutoit226 7 років тому

    Please do more of these videos! I love them!!!

  • @straystars801
    @straystars801 7 років тому +21

    I've been open about my sexuality since I was 8!!! (I'm gay, btw. and I'm now 13) And I love this! (rant coming up) I love that this was posted so randomly, yet it's so entertaining and very educational at the same time. I feel like since it's the 21st century, there isn't as many homophobes as the past generations (or decades, whatever), and more people are now accepting towards the LGBTQ+ community. Being gay, and not having such a big support system (seeing as almost everyone here in the Philippines is half-homophobic or just plain homophobic.), is sometimes really hard. That's why, when I grow up, I want to be someone like Connor. Someone very influential, yet very humble and educated. I also want to be someone that stands up for the LGBTQ+ community, and someone that educates people about said community. Still being 13, all I can really do is correct and educate my classmates, friends, and family about certain aspects about the LGBTQ+ community. Also, having typed this comment/rant that no one will probably read, I also want to tell people that, if you're still in the closet, please don't fight yourself. It'll only further confuse you and may cause you stress if you don't accept the fact that you're gay, lesbian, pan/bi (whatever you wanna call it), or asexual, etc. You be you, and surely, there's someone out there, be it you're best friend, boyfriend/girlfriend, or family, that loves you for you. Love from the Philippines! 😘😘😘

    • @mylouhedwig678
      @mylouhedwig678 6 років тому

      What if you're 13 and you still have literally no idea what your sexuality is.. 🤔

    • @trishapaytas3863
      @trishapaytas3863 6 років тому

      Mylou vd it's okay, you just need to explore your sexuality.

    • @maxenetigno4536
      @maxenetigno4536 6 років тому

      Paige Robbie hi fellow Filipino and Army!! ~~ I’m bi and I loved your comment. fighting!! ~~