7 Things I Did To Stop Wasting My Evenings After Work

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КОМЕНТАРІ • 82

  • @DanielleBabyBliss
    @DanielleBabyBliss 4 дні тому +61

    Miss the vlogs. They just feel more real. Honestly I don’t guilt trip myself into productivity all the time. My mind needs peace. I like to unwind with my kids and family.

    • @siurene81
      @siurene81 3 дні тому +6

      Thanks- I have a bad pattern after watching similar videos and shaming myself on “non productivity”. It’s hard to remember these days that “rest is productive”

  • @Brontelee37
    @Brontelee37 5 днів тому +65

    Here are some things that actually helped me to stop feeling drained all the time and to make my days productive (not just evenings):
    1. I read all books from Mindbloomery and implemented all their lessons in my daily routine
    2. I fixed my sleep schedule. No more scrolling until 2am or something like that
    3. I focus on learning something new every night, instead of just zoning out. If I am 1% better than yesterday, it makes me happy
    4. I make sure I have time for hobbies, so it isn't just work, work, work
    5. The book 'Power of assertiveness: Unlock your potential' made me stop saying 'yes' to all distractions and negative people
    Now I just chase my goals one by one. I make every day count and life is so much better.

    • @WilliamBecker-v6k
      @WilliamBecker-v6k 5 днів тому +4

      Got all their books few days ago, and it's probably the best decision of my life.

    • @selectnini
      @selectnini 5 днів тому +1

      great tips, thanks

  • @LittleKagsx
    @LittleKagsx 6 днів тому +19

    Thanks Faye - this video turned out to be a video i didn't even know I needed. As a fellow NHS worker working in mental health, I can definely feel mentally and emotionally exhausted - I will be watching this video again and making myself some notes so I can too stop wasting my evenings - thanks again xxx 😘

  • @harrisarianna7
    @harrisarianna7 6 днів тому +591

    - Three things that changed my life:
    1. started watching confidence videos
    2. I read the book called: The Art of Seductive Power
    3. I stopped comparing myself

  • @Kaylove322
    @Kaylove322 2 дні тому +3

    I love your videos!!! Especially videos like this with tips on how to elevate! I’m a first year Nursing student & I am in love with all your content!! Thank you ❤

  • @bikerandspice3706
    @bikerandspice3706 4 дні тому +35

    I’m a Pathologist in the UK conducting Post Mortems- and there is NOTHING wrong with decompressing from the workplace to private life by NOT learning a new skill etc… your brain is allowed to switch paths and recalibrate. No ‘right ways’- just what is best for you. 🌿

    • @cheerfulcynic
      @cheerfulcynic 4 дні тому +4

      I’m not a pathologist conducting post mortems, but I did watch the video entirely before commenting …. She actually addresses different types of mental rest and toxic productivity. Watch before judging next time. The 17m mark summary really makes sense.

  • @rosepond7178
    @rosepond7178 4 дні тому +35

    You do need to unwind and relax sometimes, the productivity chase and being scared of doing nothing is a bit toxic

    • @leftymusician1
      @leftymusician1 3 дні тому

      Scrolling social media is not unwinding and doing nothing.

  • @shiverwind4361
    @shiverwind4361 День тому +1

    I love this, I'm guilty of slumping down after dinner, thanks for the suggestions :)

  • @genomicswithgeorgia
    @genomicswithgeorgia 3 дні тому +2

    Love this! Hacking my commute has made me feel like I get more out of my day! Great videos as always ❤️

  • @tmoonyy
    @tmoonyy 6 днів тому +11

    Definitely going to try incorporate these as a 1st yr medical student!! Your videos are always so helpful Faye 🥰

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 днів тому +1

      Thanks for watching ❤️❤️

  • @GreenFairyPrincess
    @GreenFairyPrincess 2 дні тому +1

    You are so inspirational! How you do what you do and your still glowing! I am a busy NHS nurse and appreciate all your advice :)

  • @isabel.catarina
    @isabel.catarina 6 днів тому +15

    Thank you for the tips! Some of them I can't really apply, for example, I stand on the bus so brainstorming isn't an option. However, I can listen to a podcast about a topic that interests me in name of self-development. Sometimes we can't follow these tips to perfection, but we can try our best!

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 днів тому +7

      I love this comment so much! If this video is even a springboard for your own ideas, I’m so glad you watched ❤️

    • @vinegar-chip
      @vinegar-chip День тому

      Podcasts are the best for commutes! My hour long bus commutes would be very boring otherwise, as I get carsick way too easily to do anything that needs visual focus. Do you have any favorites?
      Though sometimes just zoning out (without doomscrolling) can also be therapeutic after a rough day.

  • @RachelECartwright
    @RachelECartwright 6 днів тому +4

    Loved this video, I found it really helpful and am going to try and implement some of these tips this week. Please make more videos like this! How to make the most of your mornings, how to break down your goals when life feels hectic etc.
    I really love your videos. Keep being so inspiring!

  • @tarunpalfilmmaker
    @tarunpalfilmmaker 3 дні тому

    Hey Dr. Faye! Your science-backed evening strategies are game-changing! As a video editor, I was super impressed by how you broke down productivity tips. Would love to collaborate and help bring your amazing content to life. Keep inspiring us with these awesome insights! 🌟📝

  • @nelliel4409
    @nelliel4409 5 днів тому +2

    When it comes to tv, if you switch to anime an episode is only 25 mins which gives so many more stop points and allows you to feel more satisfied since you are actually finishing episodes without your life flying past.

  • @AhmedAmer-v3z
    @AhmedAmer-v3z 6 днів тому +13

    Thanks Faye, All the best for your life. From a final year physical Therapy student 😊💙

  • @MuhmmadSaad-m6z
    @MuhmmadSaad-m6z 2 дні тому

    "Hi
    Dr Faye Bate], your video was amazing! Loved the way you explained . Just a small suggestion:
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  • @user-xq5kc5cy5k
    @user-xq5kc5cy5k 4 дні тому +3

    It’s ok to enjoy the commute to work without using that time to learn something new

  • @scofah
    @scofah День тому +1

    Would you consider making your videos without the background music?

  • @Sandra-pc1cs
    @Sandra-pc1cs 5 днів тому +7

    My dad told me " Watching series is wasting time serially." when I was still six. Now in an era of Netflix and Disney I realize how wise is he.

    • @AZearafel
      @AZearafel 5 днів тому +1

      not true for every series.many series have deeply enriched my life

  • @asmmovies0220
    @asmmovies0220 6 днів тому +1

    A really great video! The tips were so good and accessible!

  • @ON-YT
    @ON-YT 5 днів тому +2

    I already created a rule with tv series long time ago. Never watch them when school or work is active only on a break. I remember when I watched the handmaids tale I spend 2 days watching from season 1 to season 5. I am too scared to open season 6.

  • @fakifaki2588
    @fakifaki2588 6 днів тому +1

    woah, is that Jennie'a Love Hangover in the background.
    .
    Anyway ty Faye. smth I just needed

  • @poetrybysuhashani__
    @poetrybysuhashani__ 5 днів тому

    loved this video - exactly what i needed ☕✨

  • @cynthiarodriguez3346
    @cynthiarodriguez3346 6 днів тому +1

    Excellent video!❤ Thank you for sharing

  • @arshidafshan
    @arshidafshan 6 днів тому +115

    if we don't waste our time and watching nothing you wont get viewers...

    • @feetjiefit6353
      @feetjiefit6353 6 днів тому +8

      😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

    • @loulou24051990
      @loulou24051990 5 днів тому +1

      😂😂😂😂

    • @ArleyBabcock
      @ArleyBabcock 5 днів тому +27

      I know you’re joking, but seriously, I listen to her while I’m driving to work. I like to listen to personal development on my commute.

    • @ccyoutube8793
      @ccyoutube8793 4 дні тому +4

      Omg haha the brutal honesty 😂 let’s say this is educational and not Netflix TV series

    • @SoniaCatosh
      @SoniaCatosh 4 дні тому

      No watching 😂

  • @ralitsamincheva2292
    @ralitsamincheva2292 4 дні тому +6

    I understand that you need an income, and I do wish you to have all the abundance in life. However, this video felt more like a continuous stream of advertisement, and because of that, somehow lacked the needed authenticity...also, no chair is good for your back, stand up often and move around, your body is not made for sitting, coming from a physical therapist:) Wishing you the best!

  • @naiemiqbal2299
    @naiemiqbal2299 5 днів тому

    Very good, keep going Dr Faye

  • @hannepiasecki
    @hannepiasecki 2 дні тому +1

    That's 10.000 hours, not 100, to master a skill ...

  • @fionalloyd1927
    @fionalloyd1927 5 днів тому +7

    I love your videos but the background music in all of them recently have made it really hard to listen, love just your voice ☹️

    • @M5854-c7p
      @M5854-c7p 5 днів тому +1

      The repetition of the melody makes me aaaaaarrrh xD

  • @gemmadaly3963
    @gemmadaly3963 6 днів тому +2

    What Type of doctor are you? Love youre vids❤

  • @itstianshi
    @itstianshi 5 днів тому +5

    pls take off the background music next time 😭

  • @Amelia-Kat
    @Amelia-Kat 4 дні тому

    I doom scroll after work because my mom is so sick 😢

  • @maydini5259
    @maydini5259 6 днів тому +2

    Hey Faye, would you be willing to reveal the references for the video please? Would love to do some further reading on all of this :)

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 днів тому +3

      Linked in the bio 🫶🏻

  • @emiliawojtkowiak5785
    @emiliawojtkowiak5785 5 днів тому

    Do you have podcast channel? I would love to listen to your podcasts ❤

  • @Golds174
    @Golds174 4 дні тому +1

    If you're driving home from work, I suggest you keep your eyes on the road. The background music is so irritating.

  • @nikolsx
    @nikolsx 4 дні тому

    is that supposed to say link to the study xxxx

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    @divyv20 4 дні тому

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  • @Chidduu54
    @Chidduu54 6 днів тому +2

    Just after 23 sec

  • @sansusu6487
    @sansusu6487 6 днів тому +11

    I dont understand the first step. How I'm supposed to use my commute to write in a note app a "brain dump" on my plan for what to do in the evening while I'm driving during my commute? You showed yourself driving in that part of the video. How can anyone scroll or write acionable tasks while driving? Do you dictate your notes?

    • @soph-p1m7i
      @soph-p1m7i 6 днів тому +3

      That’s a good point.. she did say “on my tube’s journey home I open my notes app” so it seems like she doesn’t it when she is driving. The clip of her driving makes it confusing tho

    • @bennablements
      @bennablements 5 днів тому +4

      Public transit is more common in the UK compared to the US, she might commute by train or bus, or carpool. That's my guess.

  • @sinabnc8139
    @sinabnc8139 5 днів тому

    I wast 17.58 min successful

  • @viialice
    @viialice 6 днів тому +4

    i say this with love: your cosmetic procedures are aging you rather badly. the difference between this video and "millionaire payday routine" is staggering, especially in the brows/forehead. i know it's difficult to resist the pressure to get botox and filler as a british woman but you are genuinely so beautiful with your own features; it sucks to see you fall further into that trap. you are already the woman you need to be.

    • @njlondon
      @njlondon 6 днів тому +5

      Let the gurl be more than a face 😅

    • @yousername16
      @yousername16 5 днів тому +3

      So? even if she looks older - what's the problem with it lol

  • @rarespetrescu380
    @rarespetrescu380 6 днів тому

    The way you blink is so relaxing and hipnotic !🫶🏼 thank you extremely motivating video .🩵🩵🩵

  • @sashajoan4396
    @sashajoan4396 6 днів тому +5

    youtube hid this from me for 1 whole hour?? Iove the tips btw 🫶

    • @DrFayeBate
      @DrFayeBate  6 днів тому +1

      Thank GAWDDD you found us ❤️❤️