WERE INLOVE, WE GOT ENGAGE BUT WE END LIKE THIS 💔
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- Опубліковано 29 вер 2024
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Sa mga nag tatanong tungkol sa amin ito napo ang huling video na gagawin ko tungkol sa amin, mula simula hanggang sa huli
I learn so many things those past years with my relationship with him daming mga ala ala pero i choose na iwanan para sa kabutihan naming dalawa 😢
I can relate, time will tell when I can move on it's really heart breaking 💔 for 3 years of relationship it come to an end.
Sa mga nag tatanong na pa balik balik yung video ko tungkol sa kanya kaya hindi ako maka move on, ito napo ang huling video ginawa ko
naka move on napo ako kaya naishare ko ang videong ito at para matapos na ang mga nag tatanong sa akin,
Im moving forward at masaya na ako ngayun.. ❤
Parehas ta dai Ako petsa nlng sa kasal ginahulat pero nibalik na siya ni walng valid na rason iya lng ingon nga na usab Ang iyahang flight
Thank you sis 😘 alam nang dios kong anong ikakabuti mo..patient ka lang darating ang taong tunay na magmamahal sa iyo..bibigyan ka nang magadang buhay basta magtiwala sa dios ..ipagtuloy mo lang ang pagbloblog..your a very loving person compassionate ar mabuting anak.. were hereby support you...😍😍
pangita nalang ug lain ka ng sure na higugmaon jud ka
That was a beautiful story and I’m happy that you will still have your friendship and respect for each other. That’s the main part.
Oh, break up is so painful! I hope you have a sister in Christ that can be your accountable/ prayer partner.
It's unfortunate that your relationship didn't work out. I hope you both maintained proper boundaries and treated each other with respect, as befitting your Christian values. Living together and being very sweet like married couple is a no no for true believers of Christ. Every relationship requires respect for boundaries, and marriage, in particular, is challenging as well. Relying solely on our own feelings isn't enough; it requires divine blessings and honoring God in our thoughts, words, and actions.
May you continue to seek God's righteousness and delight yourself in Him. He will give you the desires of your heart.
Relate nanaman Ako sa u gurl .. kasal din Ako sa isang Australiano for 10and half year kaso hiniwalayan nya Ako for no reason never kami nag away. Kaya nagtaka ako bigla siya magbago at sa mismong Jan 1,2024 Nakita ko nag iba Ng profile lahat binago nya at Dina nya ako kinontak hanggang ngayon kahit pamilya nya di makapaniwala. .. depression .. anxiety attacks me that time halos Araw Araw Gabi Gabi iyakk Ako Ng iyak Kasi Ang sakit. blinock pa Ako pero thankfully nakahanapnako ng makakausap at nakapagpabago Ng aking emosyon na Akala ko Dina Ako makaka move on sa Asawa ko pero now I'm happily talking to a guy na kahit hindi kami siya nagiging reason kung bakit Ako Masaya
huwg ka dumipindi sa tao mas mgnda mgmula sa panginoon ang kasiyahan ng puso mo
Hanggang ngayon di ka pa rin naka move on Tagal nyo ng nag hiwalay
Ang masakit lng doon yung mahal nyo pa ang isat isa, di lng kyo magkasundo kya kyo naghiwalay,,parang ang hirap.mag move on😢😢
Di na kayang sustentuhan buong pamilya..baka ordinaryong trabahador lang si afam at kandakuba na sa pagkayod tapos si girl may pa ayuda pakain pa sa mga tao...baka si afam nagttipid din sa sariling bansa
You deserve better ma'am..
If he loved you he will marry you. People in this life can be actors and you will never know their hearts.
His love scams , paasa lang Lalo pa sa atin mga Pinay maniwala talaga tayo one man woman Ika nga Lalo pa first time Natin.
Nice story with you. Very nice noble. I like your patience, sacrifice, and wisdom. Good luck to both of you. Endless love.
You make me cry. Too sensitive Video. Yes you are right.Its very hard to be sensitive person sometimes.But you are very loving and very careful too. He is very understanding but not ready to be tiedown.Good for you and not to push to continue the relationship with out commitment.Once you are engaged the next is to get married. If the person is not ready to commit he should not be engaged. Being engaged is holding you back on your future to go forward.Unless he is really ready to be with you in your life and supportive all the time. Just like a married man until death do as part.But being engaged with out commitment at come and go, no way that you will settle for that. Good thing you asked him for the right time and he agreed.Very good thing what you did with no heart feeling.And good for him too that you both let go to each other in a good way. You have a good heart and he have a good heart.He is not just ready to be a husband but just a lover and a friends.Im happy for both of you and your agreement to each other.Now you can go on to your life.
Girl, just move on. Dont look back and learn from the past. Guy, who loves you truly won't make a thousand excuses. If he really wants to be with you, he will make an effort. This man is a user, I guess. True love makes no effort to PLEASE each other just to make him/her stay and no pretentions. Mutual love has respect, has both happiness, and makes you complete.
Exactly. If he truly loves you he will do everything in his power to be with you, no excuses! I can tell he is a fake and you should forget him. He is not worth your tears.
Was he a user? He traveled bach n firth from USA to the Philippines thats not cheap He paid gor her mother's hospital bills and funeral he showered her with gifts and money so how was he using her?? True if he truly wanted her he could have married her and taken her to USA with him....we dont know his side of the story im sure he has his reasons...
Iven you, who speak about efforts, would never do the half part of what he didi for her. So you comment is very stupid.
Girl forget him. He is wasting ur time and using u.
At least walang nawala sknya.di nya binaba ang bandira ng Bataan.intact pa ang verginity nya.nakataas ang noo at ang digidad bilang babae
Young lady you gave your all but he wasn't ready for anything... Hope you find your true love in a better side 😊
It isn’t that he wasn’t ready but he saw red flags.
I believe he is a spiritually matured Christian whereas she is not. Therefore she is going by the flesh and expect a lot of stuffs.
Com’on girls expect man to read their minds but that is not how it works in a relationship
Your voice is very calm....stay strong and praying for your healing...everything happens with a reason. Trust everything in God
Thanks for sharing ur love story....just be strong ..
I think he fell out of love. He's a gentleman not to tell straight to your face. But his action spoke louder, you know what I mean. Move on. You're still young.
Afam din yong hubby ko,malaki age gap nming dlawa but I am very lucky kasi he really trust me about his money. Nong mgkasintahan plang kasi kmi never ako nanghingi sknya pero ngbibigay siya sa akin ng allowance ko kusa siyang ngbibigay but about sa family problem ko never ako nagsabi sknya. Ako nlng gumagwa ng paraan pra sa pamilya ko yong allowance na bnbgay skn monthly yon ang tinutulong ko sa pamilya ko. Nong ngvacation ako sknla sa europe at nameet ko family niya dun ko nlman yong kultura nila na hindi sila umaasa sa bawat isa lahat sila my trabaho. Payo ko lng sa my mga afam wag niyo iparanas sknla na prang responsibilidad niya ang buong pamilya niyo po.
Korek ka dyan...Ang mind set ng iba gustong mag asawa ng afam para maiahon sya at ang pamilya nya.......ako asawa ko Canadian, rank no,1 sa sobrang kuripot...work ako at yon ang ipadala ko sa pinas.....
eh ang problema ngayong yong mga afam naghahanap ng pinay kasi gustong mag settle down sa pinas kasi mas mura yong cost of living compare sa country nila....eh kung naka timing ka ng kuripot or walang masyadong datong eh paano na ang luho mo😂🤣nganga🤣🤣
Ma suerte kaya sa Asawa nyo Tama wag na i ASA sa afam husband ang tungkol sa Pera at problema sa pamilya ayaw nila yan
Tama iba ang kultura nila. Pag afam ang asawa mo kailangan mag trabaho kadin hindi nalng aasa sa kanila pati pamilya natin. Sa mga afam bata palang mga 16 nag tatrabaho na. At ang mga anak humihiwalay na sa parents kasi kaya na nilang buhayin sarili nila. Di katulad sa pinoy kahit may asawa at anak na sa parents parin umaasa. Just sayin kasi yan ang totoo.😅
Kaya siguro hindi na nkipagtuluyan sayo..baka nIsip nyA.malaki obligasyon nya sayo at pamilya.
At hindi rin natin alam baka may mission pa sa ibang lugar or m personal or bka ngkasakit..lalo na mTanda nya..pray k nlng na sana magkaroon k ng lalaki na forever..god bless..
@@muffieorcino8029 true yan ung Pilipino culture na d nwwala,..😅
My advice to anyone who has foreigner bf please never let them know about your own family problems. I’ve been married for 34 years with 2 kids and I never asked money from him just to send it to my family, I sent my own money. When he was courting me I was very independent, I struggled with my own family problems. Same with you my husband was my first experienced, our relationship is not perfect until now but we always talked it out. I wish you luck and God Bless!
@Geraldine… correct! Hindi dapat seni-share lahat ang mga family side problem kung puti ang asawa o boyfriend mo.. Kailangan may trabaho ka.. din kung may tinutulungan… hindinsanay ang mga puti sa ganung kultura… although mayroon talangang mababait na puti..!pero karamihan hindi..,
Exactly my friends or supposed to be a bf stop talking to me when I told him about my family problems and ask him to borrow some money then after that he changes until he dint answer my messages anymore we still friends but I let him go ...
@@loelpajar1700 yun ang sabi ng mga foreigners dito na may asawa na ngayon and married Filipinas who didn’t asked for money or mention anything regarding money. They said they dumped their gfs. Americans are not selfish once you’re married to them and they’re very good providers but mostly they just don’t wanna support extended family dahil lalo daw nagiging mga tamad ayaw nga nilang manlimos sa mga beggars sa kalsada.
Tama ka❤
totoo yan kaya ako di ako humihingi sa asawa ko I work very hard for my money and of course tutulong ako kong kailangan nila..
God will give you the very right one just like he did for me I was dating a guy for a year never worked out but now I’m married to the most loving kindest and caring man ❤just trust The lord ❤❤❤ so sorry about your mum ❤
Feel sorry for you. You could have met someone else who will sincerely and truly love, cherish, be committed and marry you despite any differences. You deserve much more. ❤
They both fell in love albeit separated. There is nothing to regret.
Pls sis....ilet go mo na Siya...You deserve someone better...Yun na nga masakit niligawan ka, you got engage, nag Live In kayo pero while you were together Hindi Siya Decided at Hindi Siya nagcommit 100% sayo...Ambilis mag File Ng FIANCEE Visa...may mga friends relatives kami within 7mos na Approve Ng Fiance Visa Wala pang 1 year nagpakasal na...Kung desidido sayo dapat Yun ang naging focus niya while magkasama kayo ang pakasalan ka at magkasama ka for good...Nakkaturn off si Eric nun sinayang lang niya Time mo...ilet go mo na may darating pa sayo na talaga tatanggapin ka at mabibigyan ka ng masayang pamilya & Kids...
Tama ka dapat ilet go mo na cya hwag pagaksayahan ng oras kung hindi cya 100 percent na ikaw ang priority nya,maganda ka at makatagpo ka rin ng the One ,goodluck
That's right I am a Christian you're just a daughter to me let him go he doesn't deserved you,you can still someone better this time and my advice what I can see is you'll just going to waste time with him let him go you still don't know what's his another plan for you one yr is not enough for you to know him better.Just like what the other says, you're still young and you can still find much better than this guy.
BOA noite Vanda você está certa quando às coisas é di Deus não tem conflito se ela não tá feliz é porque não é de Deus, eu tenho um irmão quê está horando à Deus para preparar uma esposa para ele e também serve à Deus ele é uma benção eu queria entrar em contato com ela e apresentar ele para ela somos do Brasil Deus abençoe
😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
I’m sorry your beautiful this man is not ready to married who knows you don’t much he’s families he might be married just go to Philippines to find a woman he can manipulate move on is he’s lost not yours
Minsan kasi aminin man natin o hindi masakit man pakinggan ang katotohanan yung ibang pinay kasi kaya nakakapangasawa ng foreigner dahil iyun ang dream nila para makaahon sa hirap ng buhay mayaman man o mahirap same lang ng dream alam naman natin pag nakapag asawa ng ibang lahi maaalis na kayo sa pinas at dadalhin kayo sa ibang bansa at doon magpapakasal bubuo ng pamilya pero habang nagtatagal naiisip mo na pera lang pala habol mo sa ibang lahi kaya nagpakasal yung iba eto po comment ko wala ako sinasabi o tinukoy na lahat ng may asawang ibang lahi ang pinupunto ko po yung ibang pinay na ganyan ang gawain ang pangarap nila makapunta ng ibang bansa kaya nagaasawa ng ibang lahi unang una po anjan na lahat gagawin mo para lang mabigyan sya ng atensyon mo kasi meron kang habol or intensyon about sa material na bagay at alam na alam ng mga foreigner yan natural may kapalit ang lahat ng bagay na gagawin mo kaya sana lang sa mga ang ugali wag na kayo mag asawa ng foreigner kung peperahan nyo lang kasi may karam po yan
You will be okay. Dont worry. Time heals, and you will be okay, and so will Eric.
Very sad and detail story.You are a good warm heart person .any man that you choose is a lucky guy. I wish the best for you
Move on gurl!! Foreigner doesn't like to act like a milking cow on the entire family. He's probably fed up with taking care of the whole clan. According to your narrative your family became dependents on him. Looks like you gold dig from him, sorry for being judgemental. And at last he finally realize that he can't continue doing it, so he end his relationship with you. On the other hand he might be still married in the US , we don't know. So next time you found someone again esp. foreigner never involve your whole clan on bleeding him dry. PEACE!
Correction we never ask Him for money I NEVER ASK HIM hes the one who Offer i always say NO but he insisted. money is not a problem to us
Both of you are pressured by social media, families, friends and relatives to get married. Stop sharing your life more often. This will ruined everything! Too bad, but it’s true. Your fiance might have a problem that you don’t know.
Without sexual ??Who will believe this😂😂😂
Di ka talaga makamove on..kong talagang gusto ka nang taong yan hindi ka nya iiwanan... kong gusto mong kalimutan sya at magsimula ka nang bagong buhay kailangan mong iblock at huwag nang kausapin huwag nang...paulitnulit nang iblogblog.....maganda ka .marami dyan darating sya iyo....hangang hindi mo inaalis sa buhay mo...hindi ka makakapaguumpisa....Tapos na ang kabanatang yon...sabi mo mo move ka na .....pero ito paulit ulit ka lang....iniwanan ka na di ba. Bat mo mo ipagsisiksikan ang sarili mo Wake up !!!..😡😡
Agreed
Agree. Bakit nag vlog na naman ng ganyan. Never to watch it.
Korek. Napuno na seguro Si guy baka Sa kakahingi ni girl. Yan ang pinaka ayaw Ng mga ibang lahi na Puro hingi
Bakit hindi na kau nagpadasal nong time na un? Total nakasuot na rin Kau ng damit na pangkasal? Anyways Hindi talaga kau para sa isa't Isa.Okey na rin yan kesa magdivorce pa Kau.
Başta ganyan Ang situation may money involved spclly nka saksı sa maraming problems , hanggat Maari sana careful ka basta sa money matters. Ang mga foreigner Hindi cla gusto ng ma talagal isang lng alam na nila kong may plano magpakasal sayo. Moved on and forget him paasa lng cya sayo pero Hindi gusto magpakasal good luck for another adventure of life. Hindi cya para sayo yan ang totoo
By his look he seems like he is already married
Correct seems like after she graduated they’re separated.
Yes tama. At d aq mniwala na living together wlang ngyari? 😂😂 wg idahilan dhil christian kc marmi nga Pastors nang.rape or ngloko.. 😂😂
You know 😢
I feel the same way, He might be married with a full family and kids..
That's what I think too , he looks married already
let him go na lang seguro hindi lang yon ang dahilan kung bakit kayo nagkahiwalay meron din seguro syang ayaw nya sayo but thats ok maganda yan at di kayo nakasal , MOVE ON na lang dont keep repeating your story about him ok lang open minded ang iba na manood sayo . move on and be happy who knows one day makahanap ka rin at may idea ka na kung ano ang ayaw ng afam .
pinasan nya yong Problema .ayaw ng culture natin
You also don't know if has someone already in America. He may had to let go because of someone here in the states. He may have gotten caught.
You have a point po.
Your right, maybe he had family in America
Probably his wife and kids busted him.
His rejection is Gods protection!
You sound goofy.
agree with you..
He looks so much older than you. Patience is a virtue
Are you sure he is not married? This makes no sense. I noticed some people will do other sexual acts and pretend they are not having sex because it's non coital.
This dude is old enough to know what he wants.
He is doing this because sure you let him do it!
Personally I don’t see any necessities for you both to live together but not having biological interaction, what’s the point of living together then? I am bit confused about this, how can you be together without doing “that” thing?? Something must have gone wrong.. Is he normal? And how can you also even can stand with that? 😱 although you said that both of you held on Christian’s value, but you’re just ordinary human.. I smell something were off… Sorry..🙏🏼
Anyway, don’t waste time for that just to find certainty. If you want to marry, just marry, if you just want to live together, just live together.. people who just wondering around trying this and that are not worth of having true treasures.. especially for that Man.. as for you, dont be naive again..
Huge age difference, of course it won’t work! What do u have in common? You knew but you took a chance.
dapat d muna binabalikan yan kac pag past s past dka makaka move on niyan pag lagi mo siya iniisip
True! If Yong taong sinaktan ka at binalikan Mo. WALA na kayong peace of mind.
Toxic natin attitude mga pinoy is pag merong nakapag afam sa pamilya lahat hinihingi na sa afam like for bday sa magulang at pang bigay sa ibang kamag anak naging gatasan nalang ang afam😢😢lahat na asa na kay afam kaya siguro nag bago or nag ka problema relationship nila..ganyan kasi tayo pero girl move on na next time kng magkaka afam ka pa wag muna gawin sa bago mo kng ano nangyari sa n u ni Erick kng pera involved man yan o iba para maging ok na next time..
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True!mostly sa atin mga pinoy kaya minsan ma culture shock ang ibang lahi di mn nla direktang masasabi yan kc my pride din nmn cla pero nahihirapan din cla lalo na sa usaping financial seems obligation na nla when in fact it’s not🤩
Korekkkkkk…..
Mind set ng karamihan sa mga pinoy hindi naman lahat. At karamihan sa mga kapatid at magulang gagawin puhunan mga anak kahit malakas katawan tamad magbanat ng buto. Dami ko kilala dito sa kinaroroonan ko. Ang lage ko naririnig sa kanila mgpadala sa pamangkin, kapatid. Hindi masama tumulong huwag lage kasi tamad sila mgbanat ng buto.
Don't give up. My scenario was exact 100% like this 8 years ago. In 2015, i dated a man. Hugeee age gapppp. Very elderrr. He infact was a preacher. He taught me good biblical teaching. At some point, I was having that fire in my bones just like him. Because he was so strong in the Lord. He was a christian man but in some ways, he didnot treat me right, so I left him and he went to UK but didnot forgive him for years. I blocked him for years. I hated him. The grudges and pain were there in me. I remember one time God spoke to me in my left ear and it felt like a wind, "I can be mad at you for what you have done but I love you so much, you have to be like that to him, show Love". Then in the meantime, he was searching for me everywhere, tried contacting me in many ways but I was not reachable. He went to my church 3 times looking for me but I was not there. I believe these actions was caused by the power of the Holy Spirit. He must have stirred his heart so gooddd that he realised his mistakes ...then it was my choice to listen to God, so I did but not so much. I somehow struggle to forgive him bcz so muchhh of hate for him. Then I told myself, I forgave him even tho its not complete doesnot mean that I have to talk or stay in contact bruhh. Then this year 2024 (so its like 9 years ago) he texted me in general text saying that he wants to marry me ..I cant forget you..bla bla..so I unblock him and we spoke for few weeks. I asked him how u know that u want to marry me and he answer was "I dont have same feelings like before and I think I should not be proposing you" Duhhh...what the heckk..so from here, I saw that he is also struggling with confusion and he just do not know plainly whether even it was the holy spirit leading him to me or not. I told him then, I dont want to keep in touch with the past anymore and he just keeps coming bck. A gentleman should respect one's decision and step back. But he was obviously annoying and always keep sharing about Jesus when he dont act accordingly but just preach powerless. Ever since then, I kept a distance with a confusing person bcz he does not have that affirmation of God. He needs help too. I know he wants to help of course its not a crime but I dont want to go bck to that trap unless he dont wanna play no games no more with me. Plus, I have yet to forgive him completely but I am working on it just to forgive and not more. Bcz for me, if God is about to bless you with someone, you dont go through this hardessttt stuff until you develop hate bcz of the impact. God is love and you will find absolute peace in relationship. The only thing I can reflect what God told me is to make peace with my past self, love agape one another, if you happened to bump with ur past, just forgive them completely and move on (if your heart is not in love with them). I suggest not to keep in the touch with your past unless the thoughts and intensions are pure towards each other, or God leading. No offense, unbelievers are thousand times better than believers. But even in a 60 years of relationship, Jesus is the only one that you should trust.
Jesus still can do wonders. Just dont give up and try your maximum effort
I don't know how many years apart you guys are. But looking at you two it looks like at least over 15 years apart. He looks old enough to be your father. And usually these guys from another country usually I think are perverts always trying to go with younger girls young enough to be there daughter. They'll wine and dine you till they get you to bed. Then that's it after awhile they'll treat you like shit. It's mostly like that. And these girls would go with them for money just use them kahit na pangit! Desperate most of them are. Anyway that's all I can say about that lol
so true 💯 %
What you wrote is so interesting. Thank you. Pretty deep understanding about the situation.
AMEN🙏
My 2 cents to the above issue. He is already married in the US, so he can't marry you. That makes sense.
He is married?
Why did he hide this fact from her?
Even I feel the same...
I think , that he already married maybe
How does he stay away from his family for so long. No work or works virtually? Is he on disability and the money goes directly to the bank? So he always has money available to live. I’m glad she has Christian values ❤
Di talaga sya para sayo.minsan iniiiwas ka sa di dapat sayo . Someday may mas better na para sa iyo. God give us the best for us
Hanap k nalang ulit marami sa online dating site
Hindi Siya Ang para sayo...
Wasted 23mins
Ang punot dulo nto pera hinde lang halata pero iyan ang dahilan kasi kung tutuusin very simple lang naman ang buhay na gusto mo. Pero bigla cya nanlamig sa iyo. Sa una lahat labas ng pera to show your family, pero at the end wala cyang nakita in return. Iniisip nya palabas lang ng pera pero walang income.. Kaya dyan cya na drain.. base lang sa kuwento mo.. I also married a Canadian guy. Iyan ang una kung nahalata sa kanya kaya I work hard at hinde umasa sa kanya. Kahit alam ko na marami cyang pera hinde ako umasa. During the time, na may sakit mama ko. Hinde ako humingi sa kanya. And I think this is a secret of a happy life. Sa family ko outside cya, pero sa family na binuo namin cya lahat ang bahala. Hinde nya pinakikialaman ang income ko. Ako lang nakikialam kung magkaano ang pero nya pero hinde ko ginagalaw..
Mostly money talks😅😅😅
True mga foreigner nagbibigay pero pag parati ayw nila 😅,so Tayo ,try natin gumawa paraan para sa pamilya sa pinas na hnd na pabigat sa knila Kasi sya na lht sa gastusin sa Bahay ,mga anak ,laht so enough na yn naawa din ako so ako hnd na ko nagaask ako na dumidiskarte Padala sa pinas.
Good luck! True love can wait❤❤❤
Ohhh i met my husband At Asian dating sites for6 years chatting until he proposed to me and now im in America 🇺🇸...Long story but i make it shortly 😅Tiyaga lang talaga ...
His not real man..not a real christian..because if his real he will never hurt you instead he will always adore you and treat you like a queen .
Yes, I agree i had a relationship with blackman before he was from kenya but working in Qatar Doha. He also met my family here in the Philippines He had a vacation for 2 weeks and he Promised me that he will get me there in doha unfortunately i married him At that time i was only 21 now I'm 31 now almost 1 decade ago from now after that when he go back to qatar a few months later he send me a letter about divorced he sign it without my agreement he said im still young i can have my future!!! He's f...uckng annoying what he said for me if he likes that Personal he will come to Philippines again to fix it he is Muslim even he convinces me to become muslim that's su....cks!!!
Girl I agree! Jst to get to the point bro got side chick's already, his from a big world, I mean we still humans and yeah wether your Christian or not never expect perfection from anyone, always remember to always b yourself, stick to ur lane, stand your ground, u hav a beautiful soul, but what bro did it's more like a bribe, honestly real love is never bought, bro bought his way in and out, most important thing in relationships is "communication" then all
this things will jst follow trusts & loyalty depending on ur communications, if bro really loves you bro would literally drop everything getting in his way nd com 2 you, bro wouldn't even leave u there, bro ma take u with him,1 of the biggest red flag, girl there's nothing bout bro side of the family in the video, who knows mayb bro's got family nd mayb married u know ?
Like think deep girl, you were dating a stranger nd got engaged to a stranger, nxt time listen more to ur survival sense wen ur heart says wait, or if uncomfortable at first then u shud stop bcoz it ain't gona end well ahead, " Dnt work hard, work smart.
I believe that we weman are the strongest human beings in the planet..I always tell myself this
" I dnt need a man to get a good life" so yeah we can do it ourselves with or without them" som males are jst selfish🤞✌️
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Thts not true he really loved her he did the right thing for her stop the negative
@@zia8-cm9gmwhy you Philippines always want to marry old men from the USA they can be your dad I’m sure it’s not about love is about money he just woke up and reality hit him he realize tht girl was to young he was a gentleman though he sent her family money he loved her mom so don’t bash him now your man is a different story and why did u take him back don’t say he made u turn Muslim u turned Muslim to keep him wish u all the best🙏🏽
Kung may afam ka wag ka mag share ng problem mo about family not all afam nkakaintindi
Wish and pray for your future Heart..you surely have a good heart and reflecting in your life. God sees what is your future!!! God bless….
Jesus is the way, life and Truth. Please accept Him today and be saved.
Amen❤
Wow 😲... Definitely Yes it's really hard to break up with a long distance relationship... But I love your testimony I'm going through with the same difficulties with my long distance relationship right now, but we have to be strong and faithful... God Almighty always do things for our best. .. I'm just a new subscriber for your Utube chanel.. Be strong & God bless you and your future ❤🙏
Magingat kayo sa mga foreigners yan modus nila kunyari single
Emotional 😭😭😭 story. But maybe it's not God's will. Pray about it for God to reveal unto you HIS will concerning your life. Accept the reality whether it'll be yes or no, and ask Jesus to comfort you and you'll be fine my sister. Be strong, be courageous God is with you. You're not alone, everyone in this life goes through some bitter experiences but we carry on by God's grace. Anything, if it it according to the will of God, will come to pass, if not no matter what or how you hold on, things will not work out. So, Take care my sister. God and Jesus they love you so much. Trust Jesus to guide and pray. ❤️❤️🌹💕🇺🇬
Girl, age you have the future ahead of you! Move on and turn to a new page better or make it the best! Don’t drown in mistakes, negative thoughts! Best of luck!
You have God in your heart.. for sure He has the best plans for you. If you are really meant for each other, you’ll eventually end up together. Just keep the faith.
How is it possible that you live together but no sexual relationship?
just to let you guys know base on my experience only about afam ayaw nila yong masyado kang ma drama and not only that ayaw ng mga yan na gawin silang palabigasan at ayaw nila yang mga parinig ng problema ng pamilya in short '' IM NOT YOUR FAMILY KEEPER'' hindi ko sinasabi na ganoon si inday buryat just saying only base on my experience , KASI KAYA YAN SILA NAGHANAP NG IBANG LAHI KASI MAY MGA PINAGDAANAN ANG MGA YAN at gusto nila yong good vibes and no stress.
Mo comment lng ko Ani noh.. I've been following her vlogs since before . cguro Hindi Sila meant to be Kasi si heart iba ang gusto nya at iba din gusto Ng afam.at gusto nya yong drama kahit balikan yong mga videos nya Dami po syang reklamo.bakit daw Hindi tulad noong napanuod nya sa tv (drama movie) ahh Basta mainis ka talaga .buti nga Ngayon ok ok na yong mga videos nya..pero dati ma stress ka din sorry heart kahit same place lng tayo ..iba po yong style nyo po.
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Saka ayaw nila Ng palahingi at buhayin ang buong pamilya ni girl
Just because of your experience, every afam is like that?!?! NOT ALL AFAM IS LIKE THAT!!
That was a very beautiful story ❤One day you will find another lovely man,you such an amazing person
I feel sorry for you. Hindi fair para sayo ang magmukhang Ikaw ang nanghihinayang sa sitwasyon niyo. Alam mo kapag ang foreigner gusto ka talagang seryosohin at pakasalan, gagawin niya yun ng walang alinlangan. Wag mo sanang kawawain sarili mo kc kpag nakita nilang weak ka sa feelings mo for them, they will take advantage of it. Pasensya na pero pansin ko lang kung sino pa yung hindi nmn din pinalad sa hitsura yun pa yung mga antataas ng tingin sa sarili nila. You sounds so intelligent and smart girl. You deserve more than what he could possibly offer. Huwag kang manghinayang sa taong ikaw Mismo ang sinayang. Kumuha ka ng pogi girl! Ha ha pero di lang dapat pogi ha. 😅 Be careful din sana kc yung iba gusto lang tumikim pero may priority pala sila. Build yourself up na kung hindi mo man matagpuan ang dream man mo, you can live on your own. Keep trying but this time, don’t let them just use you emotionally and physically. Be wise. You are beautiful. You deserve more. ❤️
No one knows what the future holds for us. My husband now we broke up for a few months while in a relationship I was still in the Philippines taking care of my sick father and he was here in the US taking care also of her mother who got dementia. We were both working but he has already submitted a petition (K1 visa for me and K2 visa for my daughter). He came to a point wherein his PTSD got a toll on him that he just suddenly told me he does not love me anymore. Though he told me that I still message him daily until after 3 months, he told me that he is willing to give it a try and we did until 2018 when we were all got freed from our family responsibilities that we decided its time for us to be together already. We got engaged in 2015 it was very private only no parties, and we kind of broke up in 2016 for 3 months and got reconnected and in May 2018 flew here in the US, got married in June 2019 and here we are will be celebrating our 6th wedding anniversary in a few days. We have the same passions for life. Maybe you will be able to rekindle again and who knows the saying "love is sweeter the second time around" is still happening. Wish you both happiness!
I lived here in Australia 🇦🇺 over 40 yrs na… Most men that age are still married, they may not be with their partner but they’re not legally divorced yet… why, coz divorce process is costly. That’s one possibility, another one is in America there are some cultural issues too.
Kapag tlaga nag ssama kyo dun nyo plang malalaman ang totoong ugali ng isa't isa.. at least hnd kyo ikinasal.. Praying for your healing..
How comes he will raise your whole family clan this is strange you should be independently too ,you cant depend ur whole family expenses he is human not ATM
If you’re destined to be together God will make it happen 😊
Life can be full of challenges but through God all things are possible. Always keep your faith alive!
Amen and Amen ❤️🙏🏽❤️
After he used u he will flew away from the seen
The time I let go my bf want me back 2 years we are separated he dated some Filipinas but finally his back to me and propose 2013 got married 2014 till now were still together if ur really meant God will find a way.
So he is back in the USA now but did he tell you that he will be back to marry you..is he legally free to marry you? Does he have a job or financial means to support you when you get married..is he planning to marry you and bring you to the USA? Love is a happy feeling but does he plan to have a family together?
Why is a man visiting your home more than once meeting your parents extended family yet you don't even know his home and family??!!!! Ladies don't be blinded by love never allow that!!!
Visa issues
Did he apply? Was he ready for her to join him, married or not? You’re beautiful and smart, you did the right thing. ❤
The bf is older than the parents 😭🤣🤣😭
So sad story from both of you 😢di kayo nagkatuluyan for me is big discouragement pag ganyan ang lalaki pero I'm glad my husband black American man his not like Eric we been together now almost 8yrs stay strong siya rin lagi nagsuporta sa family ko but never ko siya hinihingian ng pera kusa siya nagbibigay sakin that's why I'm lucky kasi hindi kami nagaaway sa pera 🤗 masaya kami nagsasama magasawa kahit nakita ko siya umiyak noong nakunan ako sa anak namin doon ko naramdaman ang pagkapalad ko sa kanya di niya ako sinukuan inspite of our ups and down nanatili pa rin siya sa piling ko ayaw na niya bumalik kami sa America nagsasama kami mapayapa 😊god bless us all 🥰
If your relationdship is tainted with money.its better to split men mostly would like to control the money even the wifes .thryvwill hivevyou an allowance just likevyou arechis maid paying your salary time for you to fly out the coup .hard to.lived with someone who is controlling both money and your activities.
I always tell this in the comment section when it is about relationship is that “Communication is the key to successful relationship” man cannot tell whats on a womens mind so in order for him to understand things women should tell men what they want and what they feel.
Matalino kayo heart, and I know you can manage. Don't blame God be thankful instead even the hardship you experienced. And everything will be ok. Just ask guidance from him.
Thats true. My fiance told me that he cant read my mind. That he is not a mind reader , that i need tell what’s in my mind why i cry ,why i was mad at him and not talking… he is the guy that loves open communication and he doesnt want always fighting in our relationship or in his previous marriage. For 5yrs we always fight and reconciled and we were both tired of this sh!t. We already have 2yo boy. So handsome and cute boy. We had a deal that if we marry and divorce bcoz we always fight same reason, he gonna do everything to get my son. I cried and we talked again calmly and i promised him il change my moody attitude.
And been more than 2weeks already we never fight anymore and that’s great. We are both happy now and we gonna get marry in august. Hope that we wont fight hard anymore.
He is a good person..Why you leave him..Every couples has their ups and downs and doesn't mean that you have to break the relationship. He even help your family and he travel a long distance just to reach you..that's shows his heart towards you. You are so blessed to have him as part of your life.❤❤❤
Correct! Just because you have different hobbies you fall out of love.Age difference will not be enough reason to part ways. Love will always be the reason to stay in the relationship.Me and my French husband have 35 years age difference. We have different interest in life.I don't care.
I married at 30 to a 33 Yr old man.if I'm marrying again, I ll marry an older and more mature man
It's not real Love it's only financial use of a personal gain.
He didn't want to tied down the relationship yet. That's the truth.
Minsan din,may mga afam pag nakita nila na ang boung pamilya are sitting & doing nothing..expecting lang na ang anak makapag asawa ng afam?. Isang reason din na gagawa nalang sila ng alibi😂😂😂😂😂😂....Sabi pa ng husband ng cousin ko ,if you married filipina? It's like you married the whole barangay😂😂😂😂😂😂..
Hindi siya ang para sayo Inday may nilaan si Lord para sayo na higit pa..At totoong nagmamahal sayo..masakit at feel ko rin ang sakit na nararamdaman mo dahil napagdaanan ko rin to Inday divorced ako ng ex husband ko..pero kinaya ko rin kahit masakit..
I believe he has own family back home.
My point exactly
Yeah check with his status in USA too
I think he got tiered and saw the truth !!$$$
Maybe, and he decided to go back and maybe ayaw niya sa pinas!
Oo NGA baka may pamilya to don,nong umalis parang Wala lang biglang bago
feeling sad buts i believe your strong woman you can overcome it.GOD BLESS YOU
Eric is too old for you .
Being single or dating doesn't make a person feel different from who they are, it's just a nature of thinking that's a reality.
That happen when a couple accept to live together without Marriage the man get so confortable get bored and leaves, like Spanish we advice our daughters no to do that
Ooh Lord ! May your mums soul RIP i feel so bad you lost your mum 😢😢😢. You a nice lady and if i was a man i would marry you. You young,beautiful i know God will send the best man to you.
Unfortunately, in many cases, a foreigner does not realise the extent of his future involvement with the whole family.
In committing with a filipina, this can become a huge problem later on. I see this happen so often. The distance between two people can become wider as time goes by.
The arguments and then the loneliness follows. So sad to see.
Quite a few months na nanunuod ako ng vlogs nya ma advice ko lang let go muna lang di talaga kayo para sa isat isa. He is not ready yet kya sya bumalik bg US that's life po talaga me nga ne let go ko ang afam kung 10years na kmi ayaw ng mga afam ang ma drama its hurts but that's the FACT
karamihan kasi sa pinay kung hindi mukhang pera e gusto lang makapunta at tumira sa mayayamang bansa
Putting my relationship in God's name. I am engaged with my bf now and we are about to file a case for a k-1 visa. I won't expect too much about it but I have faith in God that he will grant it😊
What part of US he live? How old is he? What is his job? Is he still working or only receiving pension as his only income?
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Lol 😂
Just wait and another door will opened
Nkakalungkot nman..bka married pa sya sa lugar nla ❤
Exactly then he is too old to enjoy a young inexperience woman and who always say God God … she probably didn’t see how much worth she had to only date one man and to love one old man ..
married na yan malamang parang ung ex ko yan nag i ilove u pa samantalang nandun asawa niya nakakagago dba!
fairy tale, how can u stay together in a year in one house with something happening as a partner
First time na family bonding 😅😅😂😂 with him. So pyesta pala ang family mo during your relationship with him. OMG. I can't do that to the man i love. Independent woman ako kung gano kamahal ang regalo sa akin tinutumbasan ko rin in return lalo na pag birthday nya or pasko.
Absoultely…..
I know right.
Welcome to Life dear❤️, your going to take many directions on your journey, enjoy, be careful, and be positive, appreciate, and Be Kind To Yourself 💅🏾🌷💪🏾❤️✨✨✨😘
U seems to be such a sweetheart, i think he is too old for u, N probably he has a lot of baggage in his life, trust the Lord, he has the perfect time ⏲️ 4 u...u never know what the Lord is protecting u from, two different culture...😮 trust the Lord...🙏🏻
Girl you gon find you a good man and its gonna last forever.
Eww
My pamilyadong tao na xa
You think you found the Rice Despencer huh?
Nonesens.bunch a bullshit.
I feel you but Because he has different culture to us. They always prepare you to be open and tell them what you want. Both need to have opinion Sharing. He seems very nice and a responsible person.
Inday move on kna paulit ulit nalng content mo sa kanya,,wala kna bang ibang content inday?isa lng ibig sabihin nyan inday kaya kanya iniwan kasi ayaw na nua sayo gets mo✌️
Loving God loving ourselves is the greatest love of All. Love is Self discipline self control self respect self restrain with self value. A lots of people doesn’t know that! 🙏😭♥️😭🙏
You nailed it😂... sometimes people try living another when they don't even live themselves.
Baka babalik pa xa at mg ipon pa xa to marry you
Old man woke up and saw the truth !!$$$$ you will find another one !!
Guys, stop using the word AFAM. The meaning of it is "A Foreigner Assigned in Manila". 😅😅😅
Girl!!! I’m trying so hard to listen till the end of your story…but I can’t do it. I do feel bad for you, pero grabe po ang tone and style nang pag narrate mo nang story mo…it’s dragging po. Try to speak nang real na ikaw…
I'm so sorry about your mom Dear 😢
Baka kasi pabigat at pasanin niya din ang familya mo, ganon kasi ang black man gusto nila yong masipag at wag umasa sa pera ng iba