Kuv yog koj tus pojniam ces rov los yuav koj, pauj txoj kev ntsim siab koj muab rau nws. 1. Nws yog koj tus pojniam. Nws tsi yog koj tus hluas nkauj. Ua cas koj thiaj yuav tau koj tus niamtij? Tsawg tsawg tus thiaj yuav niamtij. 2. Koj tsi yog minyuam yaus. Koj twb tawv dhau koj txiv, muab koj txiv tso cia rau Thaibteb. Txhob dag tias koj cam tsi dhau koj txiv. 3. Yog ua cas koj thiaj nce taus txaj nrog koj tus niamtij? Please don't try to justify your case. Tsi yog txhua tus niamtij yuav tus kwv. Yog neb hlub thiab saib taus neb tus tijlaug, neb yeej tsi sib yuav ib zaug li. Neb yeej xav xav thiab es luag hais tib los ces neb yeem kiag. Zoo qhov Nws los muab koj tsim ib ntus. Tus txiv zoo li koj ces tsi tshuav dabtsi khuvxim lawm. Tsuas tshuav lub pauj kev ntsim siab lawm xwb.
Everyone bashing this man but you must not understand how he feels. He was forced to to marry his sister in law. The parents were unreasonable. The hmong culture and the elderly are to be blamed in situations like this. He was honest from the beginning.
Men control decision making power in Hmong culture. This man is the only one with the power to say, I'm married already and will not marry niam tij. If he wasn't married, maybe he could be forgivable as a victim, but not in this case.
It’s a horrible practice in the Hmong culture…I hope our new Hmong generation will never repeat this horrible practice in America…! The kids will grow up and move on to find their own life. Your life will be miserable forever…you don’t have to listen to your father…it’s an old horrible practice… After listening to the whole story, your first wife and you weren’t made for both of you to be together in the first place anyway…sad ending…😩!!!
Sister May, thaum koj hais cov story no mas Koj hais li koj tsis xav hais los yog koj make up xwb es koj thiaj hais xav hais xav. Hais nrawm nroog thiaj li zoo mloog. Koj hais ces pause li tseem xav tso ces mas hais dua no naj. Hais li no ces zoo li yog koj make up story xwb es thiaj ib ke hais ib ke xav.
It’s so ridiculous that you have to let go your loved one in Thailand. I think your second wife is not your niam yaus. She is actually your first wife and your sister in law should be your niam yaus. However that first divorced woman doesn’t deserve your nco nws.
Koj tus qub pojniam yuav koj los tsim xwb vim koj ua mob nws siab lawm. Txojkev yus tus txiv mus yuav dua tus tshiab yog txojkev mob. Yog kuv los ntshe yuav ntsw tas li thiab lau 😂😂
Tus brother aw cas nej pheej xav txog tus qab xwb na tsis hais hluas nkauj los yog hluas nraug nej pheej xav txog txoj kev lwj siab nyuaj siab nej pheej rhuav nej lub neej na tus qub ces txhob xav txog lawm os yus tau tus twg ces yus hlub tus ntawv xwb os
Wow!!! I never really understood the lives of these OGs until UA-cam came along. I truly feel so so sorry for some of them. I can't imagine being bride-napped, forced to marriage your sil or younger bil or being sold to marry some old guy..just to be his 2nd or 3rd wife.
Thaub aww, koj mas tsis sawm zoo li. Your ex-wife didn’t love you that’s why she remarried. Why bother remarrying her again? You deserved what you get now.
Nev tos koj raug tsim los koj pheej ua li koj txiv hais ne koj tus qub pojniam thiaj li rov qab los tsim koj mas yog koj ua dhau plaws koj txiv ces twb zoo lawm os
Koj ua tsis tau txiv neej yawg ces niam quav txim. Yog kuv yog koj tus poj niam kuv tseem ua mob tshaj. Vim koj yog txiv dev xav noj ntau xwb los hos txhob dag koj tus kheej!
Txhua yam no Tim koj txiv ib leeg nkaus2 xwb los mas. Hmoob txoj kev uas niam tij txia kws mas yog ib yam ntxim ntxub tiag2, specially cov uas twb muaj poj niam tub se los muaj hluas nkauj lawm es muab lawm txoj kev hlub txiav mas mob siab tiag2😢 Txawm li cas los koj twb tau rov mus koj tus qub poj niam ib zaug es twb tsis zoo li lub siab xav ces ua ib siab hlub tus ntawm koj xub ntiag ko mus kom tas tiam no. Tej zaum kuj yog neb daim ntawv txoj nkawm sib raug thiab es thiajntau los nyob uake li ko lawm.
Thats a lesson learned. He didn't get to marry the one he loved in the first place bc they werent meant to be. Should've been moved on when he was married already. The only one I feel for is the sister inlaw. She deserved better.
I feel so sorry for this man. It is not your fault to be blamed. It is your parents and your sister in law. Your sister in law should never have agreed to marry you when she knows you already have a wife. Your 1st wife was too broken to be good to you. I believe she's a good woman. She did everything out of anger and jealousy. Your 1st wife would probably think that if you love her, you wouldn't married your sister in law. She didn't consider that you got forced to marry your sister in law. Your sister in law have to play the good person because she broke your marriage and she wants you. So don't hate your first wife. I can feel that she love you, and you love her, but she's too broken to be fixed. You have to understand that. Now you are stuck with the person you don't want to be with.
@@arinalis3130 you could tell she was really hurt and insecure from it. That left some kind of negative effects on her that she could never trust him and always accusing him bc he betrayed her b4. I was once in a similar situation, but only being bf/gf. U get so bitter, hateful, jealous, and insecure bc of what they did to u b4.
Hmoob os hmoob aw txoj niag cai liam qias zoo li no ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws.tus niag yus twb tsis hlub cia li yuav kom yus yuav ntshe xum tuag xwb os .yuav ua ib zaug neej diam yus yuav tsum yuav tus yus hlub hlub thiaj tsim nyog.niag poj niam ko los cas yuav ntshaw koj ua luaj thiab.
When you got married to your sil, your ex got married right away. Her heart grew of hatred and bittered. If she had the heart to move on, you are not the man she once loved. She's not the diamond you once cherished, but you went to go pick her back up and gave her everything. She should have appreciated your love and what your sil did for her. But this woman just wants trouble! Glad she taught you some lessons and left you. If you are one of those stupid guys, you will probably die in her palms. Good luck to you and your wonderful current wife. May you stay a wise man and love her as she deserves it all. She is your rightful soulmate.
Hell no. Ain’t nobody want to be a first or second wife! Women want to be the ONLY wife. It’s not her fault. If she stayed married to him she would come out with a story saying “my husband married his sister in law and I’m stuck!” And people would be like “you’re so stupid, just leave him.” She’s just saving extra steps. She got married in 7 months. In Hmong terms that’s long. Some people just get married right away.
I'm glad she got her revenge. U did her wrong and broke her heart. People said she didn't love u and that's why she remarried. I said u didn't love her and that's why u married your niam tij. Now that she got her revenge, i hope her rage is over and she can live happily now.
You’re a patient man for taking back the love of your life. With that should have come some borders and rules. You should have set your boundaries with her and your obligations. It’s too bad she was immature and Caused you pain when you thought wow, now I have the one I love. People grow and change into different adults. That person than isn’t the same now. That’s where the mistakes happen, when you don’t realize all the things that happened in between has made that person to who they are now, bitter, scarred, black, on the offense and negative.
Tus kwv tij koj yuav kev lawm yog tias koj tus niam tij tsis hlub koj mas koj ua lis ko los tau tab sis koj tus niam tij twb hlub koj xis teb xis chaws lawm Cas koj ho ua tau lis ko rau koj niam tij Los yog niam loj.
Koj twb yuav tuaj es koj mus yuav poj niam dab tsi ruam tiag tiag li koj na tej yam koj ua ces yeej yuam kev lawm tom qab no thiaj muaj tej nyuaj siab li no
Koj tus ua kwv tsis muaj peevxwm thiaj plam tus koj hlub lawm os me kwv. Cas koj tsis txawj hais kom tawv2 tias koj yeej tsis kam yuav li no ma? Koj twb yuav tau tus koj nyiam2 lawm na, cas koj thiaj hais tsis taus li?
It’s Not Fair. It’s Not Great Doing This To These Younger Brother. Who Wants To Teach Their Younger Sons To Be A Cougar Lover. Unless That’s His Choice To Find One. I Wouldn’t Do This To My Boys. Changing The Hmong Name. Feel Sad These Younger Brother Always Gets Their Brothers Wife. It’s Seriously Sad. Old G’s Need To Let Their Oldest Son’s Wife Go.
Thats one of the problem with a lot of the OG'S Hmong Couple that divorced, they keep calling eachother "me koj niam/txiv." Making the current spouse jealous. They still talk to each other like they're couples too. And the worst part is they see eachother at family gatherings too. If they want their current marriage to be happy, they need to stop doing and saying thise things. But this guy deserved it. He's not content with his marriage with his niam tij and decided to go back to his ex wife so too bad for him.
Tus txiv tsev no yuam kev lawm lub ntuj twb paub tias nws tus poj niam tsis zoo es lub ntuj thiaj tsis nkawv sib tau los mas. Pab hlub tus txiv tsev no tus niam loj heev nws npluas nuj nplua teb tsis tau es nws tus me txiv thiaj tuag lawm xwb. Tus txiv neej ces siab phem tshaj plaws
This man is a txiv 🐕 who can't stand up for his wife and can't make up his own mind. He ruined his first wife by marrying niam tij, and he dared to come tell his story like he's an innocent. Of course, his first wife will have to avenge herself. How could she go on until she's ruined him. He has no one to blame but himself. No backbone to stand up for himself at all. He deserves everything he got and more. He should've never married niam tij. Then, he would've had a good life with his first wife.
I believe that he is a victim of toxic cultural practices. That’s something we should recognize that it’s not fair for boys and men to be forced into these kinds of marriages that they don’t want.
Some of our cultural practices are just the worst. This happened to my grandparents. My grandmother was married to my grandfather's first cousin. They were teenagers, and my grandfather was just a child, 11 yrs old. It's sad.
I don't feel sorry for him. It your life, not your parent's life. Or your sister-in-law's life. You should make up your mind at the very beginning. No mean No. Why do you listen to your dad???
Kuv yog koj tus pojniam ces rov los yuav koj, pauj txoj kev ntsim siab koj muab rau nws.
1. Nws yog koj tus pojniam. Nws tsi yog koj tus hluas nkauj. Ua cas koj thiaj yuav tau koj tus niamtij? Tsawg tsawg tus thiaj yuav niamtij.
2. Koj tsi yog minyuam yaus. Koj twb tawv dhau koj txiv, muab koj txiv tso cia rau Thaibteb. Txhob dag tias koj cam tsi dhau koj txiv.
3. Yog ua cas koj thiaj nce taus txaj nrog koj tus niamtij?
Please don't try to justify your case. Tsi yog txhua tus niamtij yuav tus kwv. Yog neb hlub thiab saib taus neb tus tijlaug, neb yeej tsi sib yuav ib zaug li. Neb yeej xav xav thiab es luag hais tib los ces neb yeem kiag. Zoo qhov Nws los muab koj tsim ib ntus. Tus txiv zoo li koj ces tsi tshuav dabtsi khuvxim lawm. Tsuas tshuav lub pauj kev ntsim siab lawm xwb.
If i were your 1st wife, i would never remarried u again. There's just too much that happened that cannot bring back that innocent love back anymore.
Tus dab uas luag muab xa yus tseem mus coj rov los yug ces yeej yuav nyuaj nawb yuav tau ua neeb nya xa thiaj li yuav dim
Everyone bashing this man but you must not understand how he feels. He was forced to to marry his sister in law. The parents were unreasonable. The hmong culture and the elderly are to be blamed in situations like this. He was honest from the beginning.
Put yourself in his wife shoes. WWYD? No forgiveness in this case. He chose his niamtij over her.
Men control decision making power in Hmong culture. This man is the only one with the power to say, I'm married already and will not marry niam tij. If he wasn't married, maybe he could be forgivable as a victim, but not in this case.
Grass always not green on the other side
It’s a horrible practice in the Hmong culture…I hope our new Hmong generation will never repeat this horrible practice in America…!
The kids will grow up and move on to find their own life. Your life will be miserable forever…you don’t have to listen to your father…it’s an old horrible practice…
After listening to the whole story, your first wife and you weren’t made for both of you to be together in the first place anyway…sad ending…😩!!!
Agree hope this isn’t happening today
Agreed! I told my hubs if they make me marry his younger brother, someone gonna die. Please stop this tradition 😢
Man, i could feel her rage. Lol. I would have purposely treated him like this too. Lol.
Same.
Yup...he's a 🐕
For real
That's why they NEVER go back to your ex no matter what....
You brought it upon yourself so why complaint 🤷🏻♀️!
Sister May, thaum koj hais cov story no mas Koj hais li koj tsis xav hais los yog koj make up xwb es koj thiaj hais xav hais xav. Hais nrawm nroog thiaj li zoo mloog. Koj hais ces pause li tseem xav tso ces mas hais dua no naj. Hais li no ces zoo li yog koj make up story xwb es thiaj ib ke hais ib ke xav.
Lub neej dhau ces tas lawm tus nyob ntawm yus 1 sab thiaj Yog qhov tseeb 3 txhua tus yeej muaj 1 tug in the pass tab sis cia ua chaw Nco xwb
Coj liko es nws tus txiv thiaj nrauj nws.. koj thiaj rov tau nws. Yog nws zoo ces nws twb tsis losnlawm. Txhob cia siab rau qub kiav roj mog...
Niag poj laib xwb xwb nws twb yog niag phem es mus yuav luag los luag thiaj tsis hlub koj tseem rov mus khaws los dua
Stay with sisterNlaw. She's the one that truly loves you.
It’s so ridiculous that you have to let go your loved one in Thailand. I think your second wife is not your niam yaus. She is actually your first wife and your sister in law should be your niam yaus. However that first divorced woman doesn’t deserve your nco nws.
Hmoob yuav tsum txhob xyaum li no ntxiv lawm. Txivneej tsis hlub niamtij hlo li os.
Never remarry your ex.qub kiav roj never work too much baggage...kav tsij uv koj twb tau tus koj hlub
Nws yeej muaj nws kev tu siab thiab os nawb. Thov kom Hmoob tsis txhob muab niam tij txis kwv ntxiv lawm.
Pab koj tu siab kawg noj qub zaub ces mob plab ces yog koj lau...
Tu ko tsi yog kj tu ntujj thiaj tshem kj lo rau kj tsi hlub
Koj tus qub pojniam yuav koj los tsim xwb vim koj ua mob nws siab lawm. Txojkev yus tus txiv mus yuav dua tus tshiab yog txojkev mob. Yog kuv los ntshe yuav ntsw tas li thiab lau 😂😂
Tus brother aw cas nej pheej xav txog tus qab xwb na tsis hais hluas nkauj los yog hluas nraug nej pheej xav txog txoj kev lwj siab nyuaj siab nej pheej rhuav nej lub neej na tus qub ces txhob xav txog lawm os yus tau tus twg ces yus hlub tus ntawv xwb os
Hahahahaha hahahaha
This is so funny to me anyway.
Hmoob OG rules backed 100 years old.
Wow!!! I never really understood the lives of these OGs until UA-cam came along. I truly feel so so sorry for some of them. I can't imagine being bride-napped, forced to marriage your sil or younger bil or being sold to marry some old guy..just to be his 2nd or 3rd wife.
Hmoob muaj 1 lo lus tias phov siav tuag ces yog koj los ma thaub.
I don’t know why he let her treat him like that.
Thaub aww, koj mas tsis sawm zoo li. Your ex-wife didn’t love you that’s why she remarried. Why bother remarrying her again? You deserved what you get now.
I feel sorry for this man and his niam tij (wife).
Nev tos koj raug tsim los koj pheej ua li koj txiv hais ne koj tus qub pojniam thiaj li rov qab los tsim koj mas yog koj ua dhau plaws koj txiv ces twb zoo lawm os
Koj ua tsis tau txiv neej yawg ces niam quav txim. Yog kuv yog koj tus poj niam kuv tseem ua mob tshaj. Vim koj yog txiv dev xav noj ntau xwb los hos txhob dag koj tus kheej!
Txhua yam no Tim koj txiv ib leeg nkaus2 xwb los mas. Hmoob txoj kev uas niam tij txia kws mas yog ib yam ntxim ntxub tiag2, specially cov uas twb muaj poj niam tub se los muaj hluas nkauj lawm es muab lawm txoj kev hlub txiav mas mob siab tiag2😢 Txawm li cas los koj twb tau rov mus koj tus qub poj niam ib zaug es twb tsis zoo li lub siab xav ces ua ib siab hlub tus ntawm koj xub ntiag ko mus kom tas tiam no. Tej zaum kuj yog neb daim ntawv txoj nkawm sib raug thiab es thiajntau los nyob uake li ko lawm.
Tsuav ho muaj tej zaj neej neeg zoo li no thiab es cov tsis tau thiaj tsis khuv xim tas tiam
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Thats a lesson learned. He didn't get to marry the one he loved in the first place bc they werent meant to be. Should've been moved on when he was married already. The only one I feel for is the sister inlaw. She deserved better.
Grass isn’t always greener on the other side.
phem li ntawv es thiaj li tau ua pojnrauj los cas koj tseem mus theej txhoj ua yawg nrauj od.
Niam tij txis kwv plam hluas nkauj niam qhuav pom zaj no thiaj ts tshua pab neb tu siab xw 😂😂
Tod tau uas poj nrauj los yeej phem
Oh goodness this is a re-tell story
I feel so sorry for this man. It is not your fault to be blamed. It is your parents and your sister in law. Your sister in law should never have agreed to marry you when she knows you already have a wife. Your 1st wife was too broken to be good to you. I believe she's a good woman. She did everything out of anger and jealousy. Your 1st wife would probably think that if you love her, you wouldn't married your sister in law. She didn't consider that you got forced to marry your sister in law. Your sister in law have to play the good person because she broke your marriage and she wants you. So don't hate your first wife. I can feel that she love you, and you love her, but she's too broken to be fixed. You have to understand that. Now you are stuck with the person you don't want to be with.
Yes, his first wife is real hurt and broken. It really changed her. I also believed she's a good person too.
@@arinalis3130 you could tell she was really hurt and insecure from it. That left some kind of negative effects on her that she could never trust him and always accusing him bc he betrayed her b4. I was once in a similar situation, but only being bf/gf. U get so bitter, hateful, jealous, and insecure bc of what they did to u b4.
You said it perfect...the first wife is too broken to be fixed.
Hmoob os hmoob aw txoj niag cai liam qias zoo li no ntxim ntxub tshaj plaws.tus niag yus twb tsis hlub cia li yuav kom yus yuav ntshe xum tuag xwb os .yuav ua ib zaug neej diam yus yuav tsum yuav tus yus hlub hlub thiaj tsim nyog.niag poj niam ko los cas yuav ntshaw koj ua luaj thiab.
Niam ntsuab teev kv nyiam mloog kj cov neej neeg heev kv xav muab txoj kev nyuab siab rau kj tham yuav xa li cas kv nyob nyab laj o
When you got married to your sil, your ex got married right away. Her heart grew of hatred and bittered. If she had the heart to move on, you are not the man she once loved. She's not the diamond you once cherished, but you went to go pick her back up and gave her everything. She should have appreciated your love and what your sil did for her. But this woman just wants trouble! Glad she taught you some lessons and left you. If you are one of those stupid guys, you will probably die in her palms. Good luck to you and your wonderful current wife. May you stay a wise man and love her as she deserves it all. She is your rightful soulmate.
Hell no. Ain’t nobody want to be a first or second wife! Women want to be the ONLY wife. It’s not her fault. If she stayed married to him she would come out with a story saying “my husband married his sister in law and I’m stuck!” And people would be like “you’re so stupid, just leave him.”
She’s just saving extra steps.
She got married in 7 months. In Hmong terms that’s long. Some people just get married right away.
Twb yog zoo li ntawv es thiaj li tau ua poj nrauj los mo
I'm glad she got her revenge. U did her wrong and broke her heart. People said she didn't love u and that's why she remarried. I said u didn't love her and that's why u married your niam tij. Now that she got her revenge, i hope her rage is over and she can live happily now.
Agreed!
They say....
"Leave the past behind, or you will suffer a miserable future not worth living."
You’re a patient man for taking back the love of your life. With that should have come some borders and rules. You should have set your boundaries with her and your obligations. It’s too bad she was immature and Caused you pain when you thought wow, now I have the one I love. People grow and change into different adults. That person than isn’t the same now. That’s where the mistakes happen, when you don’t realize all the things that happened in between has made that person to who they are now, bitter, scarred, black, on the offense and negative.
Zoo qhov rov sib yuav es thiaj paub nwg lub siab phem😂. Tsi mag ntshe yuav khuv xim tag tiam😅😅
Tus kwv tij koj yuav kev lawm yog tias koj tus niam tij tsis hlub koj mas koj ua lis ko los tau tab sis koj tus niam tij twb hlub koj xis teb xis chaws lawm Cas koj ho ua tau lis ko rau koj niam tij Los yog niam loj.
Koj tus qub poj niam yeej yog ib tus neeg siab phem os. Tsim nyog nws yuav hlub koj tshaj na. Zoo siab koj rov los yuav koj tus niam tij lawm.
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Koj twb yuav tuaj es koj mus yuav poj niam dab tsi ruam tiag tiag li koj na tej yam koj ua ces yeej yuam kev lawm tom qab no thiaj muaj tej nyuaj siab li no
Koj yog ib tug txiv neej ruam txiv neej tsis sawm zoo ces nyuam qhuav ntxim xwb.
Koj tus ua kwv tsis muaj peevxwm thiaj plam tus koj hlub lawm os me kwv.
Cas koj tsis txawj hais kom tawv2 tias koj yeej tsis kam yuav li no ma? Koj twb yuav tau tus koj nyiam2 lawm na, cas koj thiaj hais tsis taus li?
It’s Not Fair. It’s Not Great Doing This To These Younger Brother. Who Wants To Teach Their Younger Sons To Be A Cougar Lover. Unless That’s His Choice To Find One. I Wouldn’t Do This To My Boys. Changing The Hmong Name. Feel Sad These Younger Brother Always Gets Their Brothers Wife. It’s Seriously Sad. Old G’s Need To Let Their Oldest Son’s Wife Go.
Peb hmoob yuav tau tseg lub maib pheej koo niam tij txia kwv li no qias neeg thiab tsis ncaj ncees rau ob leeg kiag😡
It’s your fault for wanting to have 2 wives so it is NORMAL that your wife likes 2 husbands too.
Ntsej muag ruam noj mov mus ua quav ruam rab ntse ob tog qhwv ob tog plhe ruam hlwb rwj
Thats one of the problem with a lot of the OG'S Hmong Couple that divorced, they keep calling eachother "me koj niam/txiv." Making the current spouse jealous. They still talk to each other like they're couples too. And the worst part is they see eachother at family gatherings too. If they want their current marriage to be happy, they need to stop doing and saying thise things. But this guy deserved it. He's not content with his marriage with his niam tij and decided to go back to his ex wife so too bad for him.
U had a good life. You didnt want it. The one that got away, they got away for a reason. I'm sorry, hope we all learn from this story.
Tus poj niam es phem li ko ces nrauj xwb mas rov qab mus yuav koj tus niam tij xwb os
Tus txiv tsev no yuam kev lawm lub ntuj twb paub tias nws tus poj niam tsis zoo es lub ntuj thiaj tsis nkawv sib tau los mas. Pab hlub tus txiv tsev no tus niam loj heev nws npluas nuj nplua teb tsis tau es nws tus me txiv thiaj tuag lawm xwb. Tus txiv neej ces siab phem tshaj plaws
Hmoob people 🤦♀️
Koj tus sil yeej yog koj tus os..txhob tu siab. If it wasnt for your sister in law your life will be more in hell..
😢Sorry Uncle, very sad life. At least your sister in law who became your wife values you enough not to hurt you.
Happy thanksgiving 🦃🍁🍽
Tus niag kwv tsis sawm zoo niag Lim Liam. Koj Tias koj khaws koj tij laug qub ua Li cas koj hos mus koj qub tshuaj khib qub poj niam uas twb raug mus Rau lwm Tus muab ua 2 muaj 5 thooj diam thiab ? Tus Tsim nyog Tsim koj mas koj Tus niam tij naw ! Koj niag qub poj niam nws tsis yog los Tsim koj pauj os yog nws niag yeej siab phem tshaj plaws naj ! Nws Tus txiv thiaj muab nws nrauj es koj thiaj rov mus khaws los na has uas koj pom tseeb kawg puas yog !
Your 2nd wife, who used to be your 1st wife is a psycho brother. You should have kicked her out the 2nd time you caught her cheating!
This is such a sick tradition, you’re in America!
Uncle, I feel bad for you but you’ve also made a life. You should have left that old life behind. The only person I feel bad for is your SIL/wife.
I feel so bad for this man
This man is a txiv 🐕 who can't stand up for his wife and can't make up his own mind. He ruined his first wife by marrying niam tij, and he dared to come tell his story like he's an innocent. Of course, his first wife will have to avenge herself. How could she go on until she's ruined him. He has no one to blame but himself. No backbone to stand up for himself at all. He deserves everything he got and more. He should've never married niam tij. Then, he would've had a good life with his first wife.
Agreed 💯
I believe that he is a victim of toxic cultural practices. That’s something we should recognize that it’s not fair for boys and men to be forced into these kinds of marriages that they don’t want.
Agreed. He ruined his first wife reputation and she didnt have a good life so it is correct she seeks revenge.
Some of our cultural practices are just the worst. This happened to my grandparents. My grandmother was married to my grandfather's first cousin. They were teenagers, and my grandfather was just a child, 11 yrs old. It's sad.
I feel sorry for this bro. This marriage is just like my uncle and auntie(rip). It is so sad and heartbroken.
I don't feel sorry for him. It your life, not your parent's life. Or your sister-in-law's life. You should make up your mind at the very beginning. No mean No. Why do you listen to your dad???
His niam tij was still young so he hoped to have two wives. He deserved his karma.
😂😂😂😂❤❤yuav kiag kom pom dej dag. lub siab thiag nqeg. lub niag neej ua tsov ua raig
Tej zaum koj tus niam loj yeej mob siab tshaj thiab nws yeej hlub koj nws thiaj li mob siab npaum ntawv.
Txog txij lawv muab nrauj ce yeej phem dhau
Cas tau tus zoo tsis hlub os tseem mus thab tus neeg phem tsim txom yus lub siab ntsws thiab os