I remember Jesus saying, marriage is between one male and one female (Matt. 19:4,5), confirming what Genesis says. So, it doesn't matter what some wacko judge says. God invented marriage, and only He has the right to define what it is.
I am on the warning side....watch how you respond to a non Biblical teaching....after all.....eternal judgement is something worth warning people about....eh...
Hi Della. Just curious, I have read about marriage and remarriage. My wife divorced me 18 years ago bc I hit her. I'm a different person now bc of God, but I haven't ever married again bc I haven't met anyone yet, but would it be a sin for me to remarry?
@@kevinwhitley5499 the exception, in Matthew involves fornication, and sense that did not happen, you were divorced for abuse....then the Bible would not support a remarriage.....
Deuteronomy 24 New International Version 24 If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him(A) because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce,(B) gives it to her and sends her from his house, 2 and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, 3 and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce....Mat 19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: AND WHOSO MARRIETH HER WHICH IS PUT AWAY DOTH COMMIT ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. 1Co 7:11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband! Old Testament law regarding marriage done away with!
I am in the process of studying the topic of marriage, divorce and remmariage for myself.. I started with prayer and a 100% genuine thirst and willingness to be obedient to God regardless of my own wants.. I prayed for Godly wisdom to discern his word.. I was led to get a King James version, A Hebrew/ Greek dictionary and concordance. I also started studying old testament laws and practices regarding marriage. All I will say at this point is that a lit of the translated words in the bible for divorce, putting away , bill of divorcement, and fornication is missed interpreted in our standard understanding of the actual definition of these words compared to Hebrew and Greek definitions. Plese study and you will be surprised by what you learn and how God truly views things. My tip for studying.. Look at history, read previous versus then the ones right after. Ask yourself who, what , where and when and why.
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Your are 100% correct those who translate these texts for themselves will see the truth as you have. Amen
@@ronpolson6981 Hi Ron.. It went very well.. I learned a lot . Studying with a Greek/Hebrew dictionary and concordance has completely changed how I read and enriched my life.. Some of the things that seemed to contradict itself in our modern day translations now makes more sense and actually does not contradict itself in the original text. The issue I now see is that some words can be mis translated due to interpretation. I don't think it was done purposefully.. I speak some Italian some Spanish and a tiny bit of German. If you translate other languages into English some if the original wording gets translated differently especially in formal speech. This unfortunately can take away from the intended true meaning of something. The best advice I can give anyone is seek God for wisdom and study.
The best thing anyone can do is to understand what God started with which was one man, one woman, as one-flesh for life. After God saw that the world was so corrupted and that there was only one man and his sons who were upright in their generations from Adam he started over with four couples which consisted of four men and each of their wives. There was no polygamy, no divorce, and no remarriage.
Susan Pillion You are awful eager for the betrayed to kill themselves. Downright blood thirsty, because why would the unrepentant unfaithful care. The only one who does care is the betrayed. And the only option you leave them if they care about the unfaithful is to kill themselves before the unfaithful can marry. Blood on your hands.
Susan Pillion so you admit it. You are not only bloodthirsty, but literally sending the betrayed to hell as fast and enthusiastically as possible. Wow that’s ice cold.
All the sights I've looked on tonight, have turned off the comments so I can't ask. If a person does remarry after a divorce, what is the repentance of that?; what does it look like? Thank you. Glenn
As I have said to Brother Francis, I already have a friend/covering who Leeeaaaaps! to conclusions...I know protectively...but he is sufficient for all of that...keep the Orayer Wheel turning and don't forget.. I and probably now We need you to mediate as only you can...there are some and strategic over there that have been afraid to do anything and praying for help to come..
you lost me at the free to marry again i cant find that part anywhere , the only reason i've found and read in the Bible that allows you to remarry is if the spouse be dead, can you please give me chapter and verse where God said [ you can remarry ] when the spouse leave and it wont be adultery
Scripture clearly teaches anyone who divorces and remarries while their covenant spouse is still living (with the exception of fornication) is an adulterer or adulteress (Matthew 5:31-32; Matthew 19:3-9; Mark 10:2-12; Luke 16:18; Romans 7:2-3; 1 Corinthians 7:10-15; 1 Corinthians 7:39). Additionally, scripture clearly teaches in order to receive God's mercy one must repent or they won't inherit the kingdom of Heaven (1 Corinthians 6:9-10; Luke 13:3). God saves anyone who genuinely repents. Repentance has two elements: Confessing AND forsaking our sins. Proverbs 28:13, says: "He who covers his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses AND forsakes them will have mercy." Remaining in an adulterous remarriage is not repentance. The liar has to repent and stop lying; the thief has to repent and stop stealing; the homosexuals have to repent and stop committing homosexual acts; and the adulterers and adulteresses (including those in adulterous remarriages) must repent and stop committing adultery. Sharing the scriptural truth about divorce and remarriage infuriates people who are supposed to be followers of Christ. Jesus's words regarding this issue anger his alleged followers like no other topic. Perhaps, it's time to obey Jesus Christ, and to begin believing He means what He says. Most importantly, ALL sins are unforgivable without repentance...including remaining in adulterous remarriages. According to the clear, easy to understand words of scripture: Jesus most definitely sends unrepentant adulterers and adulteresses to hell.
Fornication during betrothal (engagement) according to what the Jews were following in Deuteronomy 22:13-21. Covenant wives who have become one-flesh with their husbands cannot commit fornication only adultery. The Gospel of Matthew was written to the Jews who understood that fornication was premarital sex.
Randy Nethery yeah if only He actually said that, like laid it out plain, except He didn’t. It’s almost like this whole doctrine is made up by modern day Pharisees. It’s almost like God has grace enough to accept people where they are at and lead them to Truth by Himself. It’s almost like it’s God’s job to convict sinners not yours. Funny how that seems to be the case.
@@johnborland7865 Christ Redeemed Us (Deuteronomy 21:22-23) 10For as many as are of the works of the law are under the curse: for it is written, Cursed is every one that continueth not in all things which are written in the book of the law to do them. 11But that no man is justified by the law in the sight of God, it is evident: for, The just shall live by faith. 12And the law is not of faith: but, The man that doeth them shall live in them. 13Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree: 14That the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Jesus Christ; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith. The Purpose of the Law (Romans 7:1-6) 15Brethren, I speak after the manner of men; Though it be but a man's covenant, yet if it be confirmed, no man disannulleth, or addeth thereto. 16Now to Abraham and his seed were the promises made. He saith not, And to seeds, as of many; but as of one, And to thy seed, which is Christ. 17And this I say, that the covenant, that was confirmed before of God in Christ, the law, which was four hundred and thirty years after, cannot disannul, that it should make the promise of none effect. 18For if the inheritance be of the law, it is no more of promise: but God gave it to Abraham by promise. 19Wherefore then serveth the law? It was added because of transgressions, till the seed should come to whom the promise was made; and it was ordained by angels in the hand of a mediator. 20Now a mediator is not a mediator of one, but God is one. 21Is the law then against the promises of God? God forbid: for if there had been a law given which could have given life, verily righteousness should have been by the law. 22But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe. 23But before faith came, we were kept under the law, shut up unto the faith which should afterwards be revealed. 24Wherefore the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ, that we might be justified by faith. 25But after that faith is come, we are no longer under a schoolmaster (Galatians 3:10-25) 21Tell me, ye that desire to be under the law, do ye not hear the law? 22For it is written, that Abraham had two sons, the one by a bondmaid, the other by a freewoman. 23But he who was of the bondwoman was born after the flesh; but he of the freewoman was by promise. 24Which things are an allegory: for these are the two covenants; the one from the mount Sinai, which gendereth to bondage, which is Agar. 25For this Agar is mount Sinai in Arabia, and answereth to Jerusalem which now is, and is in bondage with her children. 26But Jerusalem which is above is free, which is the mother of us all. 27For it is written, Rejoice, thou barren that bearest not; break forth and cry, thou that travailest not: for the desolate hath many more children than she which hath an husband. 28Now we, brethren, as Isaac was, are the children of promise. 29But as then he that was born after the flesh persecuted him that was born after the Spirit, even so it is now. 30Nevertheless what saith the scripture? Cast out the bondwoman and her son: for the son of the bondwoman shall not be heir with the son of the freewoman. 31So then, brethren, we are not children of the bondwoman, but of the free (Galatians 4:21-31). Freedom in Christ 1Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage. 2Behold, I Paul say unto you, that if ye be circumcised, Christ shall profit you nothing. 3For I testify again to every man that is circumcised, that he is a debtor to do the whole law. 4Christ is become of no effect unto you, whosoever of you are justified by the law; ye are fallen from grace. 5For we through the Spirit wait for the hope of righteousness by faith. 6For in Jesus Christ neither circumcision availeth any thing, nor uncircumcision; but faith which worketh by love. 7Ye did run well; who did hinder you that ye should not obey the truth? 8This persuasion cometh not of him that calleth you. 9A little leaven leaveneth the whole lump. 10I have confidence in you through the Lord, that ye will be none otherwise minded: but he that troubleth you shall bear his judgment, whosoever he be. 11And I, brethren, if I yet preach circumcision, why do I yet suffer persecution? then is the offence of the cross ceased. 12I would they were even cut off which trouble you. 13For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another. 14For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 15But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another (Galatians 5:1-15).
AJ Louviere yes absolutely free full of grace and accepted from where you are. I Cor. 7 talks about divorce amongst a previously immoral group. It offers no condemnation for those who seek a wife. It doesn’t lay out any distinction between those previously married or not. Or does I Cor. Not apply to me because I’m not a Roman or a Corinthian?
Matthew 5:32 King James Version (KJV) 32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. What about this verse, Why if He is the cause of the divorce, She is still called an adulterer?
Lord send Randy Boteilho ! A Women of God with a Devine introduction ,in Jesus name thank you lord that you oh God knowss hat she is right for me Amen ,
if your wife has a living spouse, then you dont have a wife....you are in an adulterous relationship and should be terminated.....regardless of the economics....
and this one does not address the eternal question....for those already divorced, and remarried....what course of action....stay in a relationship that the Bible calls adultery, or leave it....
Whosoever shall put away his wife except it be for formication, the question is what kind of wife fornicate . The answer is is an espoused wife. Or engaged wife . When you are engaged you are still single. So when an espoused wife cheats she commits formication. She still single not married yet . Joseph and Mary was espoused to each other she still was a virgin. The angel Gabriel told Joseph not to put her away.
Patrick Moran Yeah if Porneia meant only fornication, that would be great. It doesn’t. It means any kind of sexual immorality, before, during, or after a marriage. It includes all kinds of things like incest, and beastiality. The problem is the verse or Jesus’ teaching, it’s people trying to make a Greek word have a more limited English meaning.
What if it’s been done to the women? I got divorce ten years after my ex-husband left with another women. He did not marry this particular women but, another one he was having an affair with. If the men insist in having an affair and leaves, would this be cause for divorce and can the women remarried?
Basically God doesnt like divorce or ( putting away ) since from the beginning man and woman are to become one flesh till death and cling to one another. But if you do seperate you can't remarry. You are to remain single and if possible later reconclie. If that can't be the case then staying single and working on your relationship with God is the only way . The only way the mariage is seen as officially over in God's eyes is if one becomes a widow / their spouse dies. Then you are free to marry again in the Lord. If someone remarries while their first spouse is still alive then they are an adulterer and whoever marries them are one too. And for example, if a man/woman who has never been married before , marries a person who has been divorced and their first spouse is alive, that marriage is not valid and is adultereous in Gods eyes because the divorced person is still one flesh with their first spouse. Hope this helps .
Look up Dr Joseph Webb (CPR Ministries) on youtube and his books. Divorce and remarriage is not what Jesus taught..Paul said the same, you can be single or pray for reconciliation with your husband..he is only remarried on paper not in the eyes of God and he is still your husband and you his wife until death (Romans 7)
Miriam Diaz Cordova you free from him. He broke the covenant. However keep in mind another might do the same. The stats on this aren’t good. I advise people against marriage. It’s not worth it anymore too many are too sinful. It’s not worth the risk. However a broken covenant is broken and if he’s committed sexual immorality you’re free according to Jesus.
Pastor Greg you are an angel because your light encourages us to follow the word of the Lord Jesus Christ and fight against world sins and the demons that want us to fall into temptation. May God bless you, your wife and family with health and safety. 🙏
Because her pregnancy was not of formication with man outside of that espoused relationship they were in. Joseph thought she fornicated with a man. Now if that was the case he can put her away . Any man or woman that is engaged or espoused to each other cheats on one another before marriage they can be dismissed.
No where does Jesus imply that if you found out that your wife had sexual relations with another man before marriage that this gives rights for divorce. Many have sex before marriage especially non-Christians and yes some Christians have fallen into this as well and must repent. But to say now we can divorce because we found out our spouse was sexually active and in an immoral lifestyle before marriage is unfounded and unscriptural. However during your betrothed/engagement period you found out after marriage there was hanky panky going on, then yes you can divorce.
First Law Of A Good Christian Marriage: "If no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death." Deuteronomy 22:20
Jesus in fact said very little about not divorcing each other and forbidden adulterous remarriages. But what he does say is too much for most passion hungry humans to accept and bear. "2 Some Pharisees came to test him. They asked, “Can a husband divorce his wife?” 3 Jesus answered them, “What command did Moses give you?” 4 They said, “Moses allowed a man to give his wife a written notice to divorce her.” 5 Jesus said to them, “He wrote this command for you **because you're heartless**. 6 But God made them male and female in the beginning, at creation. 7 That's why a man will leave his father and mother and will remain united with his wife, 8 and the two will be one. So they are no longer two but one. 9 Therefore, don't let anyone separate what God has joined together.” 10 When they were in a house, **the disciples** asked him about this. 11 He answered them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another woman **is committing adultery. 12 If a wife divorces her husband and **marries another man, she is **committing adultery.” Mark 10:2-12 (GW) Accept the above and teach it, and you be a very wise and contented follower of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Jesus, isn't going to give you a way to get out of marriage, by saying go fornicate, and then it will be ok! You seen God punishing in Ezra, Numbers, Jerem. Malachi for Hushands putting away their wife's, this was after Deut.24, and when Jesus was walking on the Earth, and spoke this in Matthew, the old law was still in place. Jesus said it wasn't so, since the beginning, God can't change His view on Sin, and the moral law, doesn't go away Luke 16:17,18 .
My wife divorced me 18 years ago bc I hit her. God has transformed me since then. She's been remarried and has kids. I don't have kids. I'm dating a wonderful woman of God now. As far as I know my ex is still living. Is it wrong for me to remarry??? I'm confused.
you divorced, or were divorced, for a non Biblical reason....ergo, according to the Bible you are still in a covenant, with your wife....what you would call your ex....in any event, according to the Bible, for you to remarry would be adultery, for the both of you...it is not really confusing, it is something that hits us at a very emotional level.....who wants to be left out....of life...so, to speak...
@@ob-of2gx according to Jesus, a divorced man who marries another commits adultery, just as a woman who is divorced also commits adultery, and whosoever marries one who is divorced commits adultery.
Advice: I married a unbeliever while I was in a extremely backslidden state, God has in his mercy gently brought me back to him, and now there are issues, the Old Testament seems to outright say get outa the marriage, the New Testament is clear that the unbelieving spouse is sanctified by the believing husband otherwise your kids would be unholy. Anyhow any clarity in this would be greatly appreciated
If this is the first time you and the woman you married have ever been married, then you are in a covenant marriage. As such you are not to divorce your wife if she is pleased to live with you (1 Cor 7:12). If she does leave you, you cannot remarry for as long as she is alive because only death can break a covenant marriage (1 Cor 7:39 & Rom 7:2-3). If you did remarry while she is still alive, you would be committing adultery (Mark 10:11-12 & Luke 16:18). Also, as Christians we did not follow the Mosaic law of the Old Testament. We follow the law of Christ (Hebrews chapters 7-8). I hope this helps.
desertion.....means one is not under bondage, or not enslaved....not not boune......which means Mt has it wrong....it should have said...one of the exceptions is....etc...
it would be interesting to know just when pornea was translated to sexual immorality and why....not just fornication....and how the context, of the use, of this word would aid in defining the word...
Some are saying that fornication ("porneia" in greek) only applies to the unmarried, and that Jesus (Mat 5:32) was talking to those yet to be married. Here is why that is not true. The word for porneia in it's meaning (greek, as our new testament is translated) does not imply (a single, one, not married, or the like). Porneia covers homosexual, heterosexual, beastiality, incest, adultery, pedophilia, it is a generic word used for sexual misconduct. In Rev 2:20-22 Adultery falls under the category of sexual immorality "porneia". In 1 Cor 5:1 there is adultery but the bible uses "porneia". Just because adultery has it's own Greek definition does not mean it can't be included under fornication "porneia". That's like saying lust has it's own Greek definition but can't fall under the category of sin.
@@heymichaelc it does not matter what a word may mean, it does matter how it is being used.....que, is what in Spanish, but is translated in other ways, depending on the context, in which that term is used....
here is another way....out....if the unbeliever.....etc....well if anyone departs, by defauld they are considered to be an unbeliever, or at least treaded as if this one were an unbeliever...
the unbeliever.....the first thing is you negate that by saying if anyone walks out....that one is to be treated as an unbeliever....and the second you are equating bondage with bound.....why would he use another word.....oh, but it really does not matter, in Calvary Chapel and many others....there is a thing called repentence.....I am sorry, but not sorry enough to change.....as a matter of fact it is better, because the orginal covenant is nullified and the adultery is changed into a legit covenant.....oh my......
soo,if u live together before u get married your likely to get a divorce ,than getting married then living together,,right ,but theres still a chance of you getting a divorce.so if you live together without getting married ,and live together happily till then end .then divorce doesnt even come into the picture.
Since revised Bibles, beginning in 1971 , have people thinking Christians actually commit adultery?.... It makes sense that the elephant in the room is no longer the deed of adultery or fornication.... But rather divorce and remarriage.
I left my wife cause I wasn't willing to try to save my marriage...I dated my daughters friends....I was terrible to her...blame her for my unhappiness....now she is alone...broken...wanting to die after I walked out of our 25 year marriage....what would God want me to do now
Pray Repent, ask the Lord for instruction. Anything in your heart still hardened remove. Attempt if possible to reconcile with your wife. If the door is open it would be a wonderful restoration. If not you must remain single. May the Lord be with you.
two excetions for divorce....it almost sounds like a contradiction...as except usually is defined, as one reason....so maybe Matthew should say....blah, blah, blah, but one of the exceptions is.....etc...
I love pastor Greg and most of his teaching in scripture and how it relates to our post modern lives. However, his "TEACHING" on divorce and remarriage in the church, opens the door for married persons to divorce and remarry for almost any cause. Which is causing great damage to the church and society today! (Many Pastors today teach this doctrine). In the KJV of the Bible fornication is used, not sexual immorality. Matthew 19:9 & 5:32, clearly say for fornication. In the case with Joseph and Mary, his betrothed wife, Joseph was permitted to put his wife away under Jewish law, because she was found to be with child during the betrothal period, (for fornication). Also in Genesis 19, Lot proposed to give his virgin daughters to the men of Sodom so they would not take the Angels of the Lord. However his daughters were said to have husbands, (Genesis 19:4 Lots sons in law) because they were still in the betrothal period. Because churches teach Gods grace covers all sin, including divorce and remarriage, divorce is rampant in the church today. I believe this is a great sin before God and is hindering much of the work of the gospel. Families are so broken today from divorce and remarriage, where terrible abuse and neglect are taking place! Blended families have a much higher case of domestic violence, drug abuse, child neglect than intact one man one woman for life families. Most children never get over their parents divorce and remarriage and go on themselves to commit the same behaviors. And greater numbers are choosing not to marry but to live together. John the Baptist lost his head over condemning King Herod's remarriage to his bothers wife Herodius, even thought not believers in Christ was clearly wrong before God. I also believe the confusion with gender today comes out of the confusion that comes from rampant divorce and remarriage. Just my thoughts.
@@roselewis9950, 1st Corinthians 7:10 clearly teaches a wife must not separate from her husband but if she does she is to remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. Roman's 7:2-3 clearly states the marriage covenant. Malachi 2 God says he hates divorce. We as children of God should hate what God hates. A woman who is being abused by her husband should always seek safety and legal counsel, but know where in scripture does give allowance for divorce.
@@brianhemmert9394it is the remarriage that constitutes adultery. In some states without legal separation, a legal “divorce” may protect spouses and children, even though it does not constitute a breaking of the marital bond in God’s eyes.
if you had not wasted half of your time....you may have addressed the question of what course of action, if any for the already divorced, and remarried....stay, in what the Bible calls adultery, or.....repent....and somehow change a case of adultery, into a legitimate marriage, or covenant....
It's strange to me that he makes fun of other people to get his point across. Kinda a "mean girl" approach to Jesus's teachings. OTHER THAN THAT, fervent message.
Deuteronomy 24 New International Version 24 If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him(A) because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce,(B) gives it to her and sends her from his house, 2 and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, 3 and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce....Mat 19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so. Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: AND WHOSO MARRIETH HER WHICH IS PUT AWAY DOTH COMMIT ADULTERY. His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry. 1Co 7:11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband! Old Testament law regarding marriage done away with! V Rom 7:3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
Philip Buckley I know it’s actually honest without adding stuff like those marriage permanent people adding to God’s word like the Pharisees, and having the boldness to teach the whole bible.
What would happen to one’s interpretation if everything Jesus said is taken literally? It would eliminate the false supposition of “indissoluble marriage.” It would eliminate the supposed conflict between Jesus and Moses. It would simply mean that Jesus revealed to His covenant people that they had for hundreds of years been committing adultery by supplanting one spouse for another. It would mean that Jesus gave them a reason to stay married. It would mean there is no difference in the outcome of divorce from one Testament to the other. It would mean that “divorce” means divorce. It would mean that divorce terminated the marriage. It would mean the divorce was real. It would mean that the theory of “indissoluble marriage” is false. It would mean that a divorced woman WAS NOT “still married to her first husband.” It would mean that all the suppositions based on “indissoluble marriage” are false. Particularly the “divorce to repent” supposition. It would mean that “marry another” (Matthew 19) means marry another. It would mean remarriage is a marriage. It would mean remarriage was real. It would mean there is no difference in the outcome of remarriage from Old Testament to New. It would mean that all those who advocates “divorce to repent” are guilty of causing the dissolution of families. It would mean that all who divorced their second spouse out of fear transgressed another marriage. It would mean transgression were multiplied. It would mean wives and husbands abdicated their role in their home. It would mean that families were destroyed from false teaching.
Except it be for formication clause had been taken out of context for many years through unlearned pastors formication is committed by single people never married. Single people cannot commit adultery because there not married. Married people cannot commit formication because their not single. Married people comment adultery.
Re-study the Word my friend. Married people can commit fornication. Rev 17:2 With whom the kings of the earth have committed fornication, and the inhabitants of the earth have been made drunk with the wine of her fornication. Don't you think some of those kings were married?
as usual the question, of what one, from a non Biblical divorce and remarriage should do.....maybe it is time to stop ....scratching the surface, and do a real teaching....on this topic...
Philip Buckley being espoused is like being a little pregnant. You either are married or you aren’t. Joseph and Mary weren’t a little married. They had an agreement to agree in the future if and when certain conditions were met. Both parties retained the right to back out of the contract. That’s not marriage it’s an option to marry. You know what we call people with an option to marry? We call them single. So yes, yes it was imaginary.
if the unbeliever....etc...you are saying...if one....departs.....wrong, on two counts....the false teaching of this, and, sadly, many denominations.....
this guy does not know his terms.....the term, used for desertion, is not enslaved....which is not akin to not bound, something spoken of, in the same section....oh, and Matthew got it wrong...hey, one of the exceptions is....etc...
Biblical Marriage - Rape Your Way In, Stone Your Way Out this guy is GAY AS A MOFO btw , anybody who doesn't see that , check yourself , you're probably one too
You are sending people to hell; you can only remarry if your spouse dies. If they divorce they are to remain unmarried . I easily thought you were a better pastor than that
@@JamesWFisher22 trying to get a correct teaching, as this is one of the largest....open secrets.....in the whole Church....the pastor of the Congregation I attended was divorced, by his wife, he remarried.....is he in adultery, now that he has died, is he lost.....this is a serious issue.....
When Jesus spoke He spoke of a real divorce and a real second marriage. One marriage ended and another marriage constituted. Divorcing the present spouse would be another real sin, multiplying transgressions.
@grant2149 So Jesus's exception clause bears no weight? Adultery does NOT sever the marriage bond/contract? Interesting, something the Bible calls a disputable matter.
@@nickwadson5731 Adultery does NOt severe the covenent at all. Wake up. Except it be fornication NOT adultery. 2 diffrent meanings a 2nd marriage is continous sin. Except if spouse died. No where in NT is remarry except it be death.
I remember Jesus saying, marriage is between one male and one female (Matt. 19:4,5), confirming what Genesis says. So, it doesn't matter what some wacko judge says. God invented marriage, and only He has the right to define what it is.
@pavel mihai you are everywhere.....you are on the wrong site.....
I am on the warning side....watch how you respond to a non Biblical teaching....after all.....eternal judgement is something worth warning people about....eh...
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Wow. God doesn’t say hate for everything. Thank you for this bold and important sermon!
Thank you for sharing this message.
This message should be taught in ALL church services AND in youth services at least once a month!!!!!
only if its taught right, he added something thats not in the Bible
speak the truth god bless you I wish everybody what think like you
A lot of preachers do not preach on divorce and remarriage, they do not want to lose members.
but they lose souls....
Hi Della. Just curious, I have read about marriage and remarriage. My wife divorced me 18 years ago bc I hit her. I'm a different person now bc of God, but I haven't ever married again bc I haven't met anyone yet, but would it be a sin for me to remarry?
@@kevinwhitley5499 no, reconciliation is the aim, or every divorce....
@@kevinwhitley5499 the exception, in Matthew involves fornication, and sense that did not happen, you were divorced for abuse....then the Bible would not support a remarriage.....
Lol facts
Put God first!
Amen. Praise GOD. Thank GOD for THE LORD Jesus Christ and Calvary.
Thank you Pastor for your sermon may God bless you & yours amen
Wow! Only God knows how much I needed to hear this!!!! Wow!! Unbelievable!!! Thank you pastor Greg!!!!!
if you think you can repent, and yet remain, in the sin......oh my....
Deuteronomy 24
New International Version
24 If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him(A) because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce,(B) gives it to her and sends her from his house, 2 and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, 3 and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce....Mat 19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: AND WHOSO MARRIETH HER WHICH IS PUT AWAY DOTH COMMIT ADULTERY.
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
1Co 7:11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband! Old Testament law regarding marriage done away with!
I am in the process of studying the topic of marriage, divorce and remmariage for myself.. I started with prayer and a 100% genuine thirst and willingness to be obedient to God regardless of my own wants.. I prayed for Godly wisdom to discern his word.. I was led to get a King James version, A Hebrew/ Greek dictionary and concordance. I also started studying old testament laws and practices regarding marriage. All I will say at this point is that a lit of the translated words in the bible for divorce, putting away , bill of divorcement, and fornication is missed interpreted in our standard understanding of the actual definition of these words compared to Hebrew and Greek definitions. Plese study and you will be surprised by what you learn and how God truly views things. My tip for studying.. Look at history, read previous versus then the ones right after. Ask yourself who, what , where and when and why.
Your are 100% correct those who translate these texts for themselves will see the truth as you have. Amen
Christine, how is your study coming along?
@@ronpolson6981 Hi Ron.. It went very well.. I learned a lot . Studying with a Greek/Hebrew dictionary and concordance has completely changed how I read and enriched my life.. Some of the things that seemed to contradict itself in our modern day translations now makes more sense and actually does not contradict itself in the original text. The issue I now see is that some words can be mis translated due to interpretation. I don't think it was done purposefully.. I speak some Italian some Spanish and a tiny bit of German. If you translate other languages into English some if the original wording gets translated differently especially in formal speech. This unfortunately can take away from the intended true meaning of something. The best advice I can give anyone is seek God for wisdom and study.
The best thing anyone can do is to understand what God started with which was one man, one woman, as one-flesh for life. After God saw that the world was so corrupted and that there was only one man and his sons who were upright in their generations from Adam he started over with four couples which consisted of four men and each of their wives. There was no polygamy, no divorce, and no remarriage.
so what have you learned....
We're not allowed to remarry.
Are you divorced Jacqueen?
@Tony Rowan Shame on you.
unless your spouse is dead..
Susan Pillion You are awful eager for the betrayed to kill themselves. Downright blood thirsty, because why would the unrepentant unfaithful care. The only one who does care is the betrayed. And the only option you leave them if they care about the unfaithful is to kill themselves before the unfaithful can marry. Blood on your hands.
Susan Pillion so you admit it. You are not only bloodthirsty, but literally sending the betrayed to hell as fast and enthusiastically as possible. Wow that’s ice cold.
All the sights I've looked on tonight, have turned off the comments so I can't ask. If a person does remarry after a divorce, what is the repentance of that?; what does it look like? Thank you. Glenn
if one remarries after a non Biblical divorce, then that relationship is adultery, and one would have to leave that relationship...
39:48.. where is he reading from? Never heard the marry again part.
As I have said to Brother Francis, I already have a friend/covering who Leeeaaaaps! to conclusions...I know protectively...but he is sufficient for all of that...keep the Orayer Wheel turning and don't forget.. I and probably now We need you to mediate as only you can...there are some and strategic over there that have been afraid to do anything and praying for help to come..
net worth, for this speaker....20 million.....amazing......how many people, like this just seem to make so much money off this profession...
@@susanpillion3114 that is your take, on this...
why not make a comment on the issue of what some one should do, that is divorced and remarried....
it seems that Christianity is an easy way, to become rich....eh...
Lord help me find a woman of God, in Jesus name I pray my name Randy Boteilho. Aloha
Amen, Randy! “And I will do whatever you ask in my name, so that the Father may be glorified in the Son.” John 14:13
Glory Be To Him !
Thank you Father in Advance !In Jesus ‘S Mighty Name !...
the best way is to keep busy, and when you are not looking, someone will find you....
you lost me at the free to marry again i cant find that part anywhere , the only reason i've found and read in the Bible that allows you to remarry is if the spouse be dead, can you please give me chapter and verse where God said [ you can remarry ] when the spouse leave and it wont be adultery
Scripture clearly teaches anyone who divorces and remarries while their covenant spouse is still living (with the exception of fornication) is an adulterer or adulteress (Matthew 5:31-32; Matthew 19:3-9; Mark 10:2-12; Luke 16:18; Romans 7:2-3; 1 Corinthians 7:10-15; 1 Corinthians 7:39).
Additionally, scripture clearly teaches in order to receive God's mercy one must repent or they won't inherit the kingdom of Heaven (1 Corinthians 6:9-10; Luke 13:3).
God saves anyone who genuinely repents. Repentance has two elements: Confessing AND forsaking our sins.
Proverbs 28:13, says: "He who covers his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses AND forsakes them will have mercy."
Remaining in an adulterous remarriage is not repentance.
The liar has to repent and stop lying; the thief has to repent and stop stealing; the homosexuals have to repent and stop committing homosexual acts; and the adulterers and adulteresses (including those in adulterous remarriages) must repent and stop committing adultery.
Sharing the scriptural truth about divorce and remarriage infuriates people who are supposed to be followers of Christ. Jesus's words regarding this issue anger his alleged followers like no other topic. Perhaps, it's time to obey Jesus Christ, and to begin believing He means what He says.
Most importantly, ALL sins are unforgivable without repentance...including remaining in adulterous remarriages. According to the clear, easy to understand words of scripture: Jesus most definitely sends unrepentant adulterers and adulteresses to hell.
Fornication during betrothal (engagement) according to what the Jews were following in Deuteronomy 22:13-21. Covenant wives who have become one-flesh with their husbands cannot commit fornication only adultery. The Gospel of Matthew was written to the Jews who understood that fornication was premarital sex.
Randy Nethery yeah if only He actually said that, like laid it out plain, except He didn’t. It’s almost like this whole doctrine is made up by modern day Pharisees. It’s almost like God has grace enough to accept people where they are at and lead them to Truth by Himself. It’s almost like it’s God’s job to convict sinners not yours. Funny how that seems to be the case.
@@johnborland7865
Christ Redeemed Us
(Deuteronomy 21:22-23)
10For as many as are of the works of the law are under the curse: for it is written, Cursed is every one that continueth not in all things which are written in the book of the law to do them. 11But that no man is justified by the law in the sight of God, it is evident: for, The just shall live by faith. 12And the law is not of faith: but, The man that doeth them shall live in them. 13Christ hath redeemed us from the curse of the law, being made a curse for us: for it is written, Cursed is every one that hangeth on a tree: 14That the blessing of Abraham might come on the Gentiles through Jesus Christ; that we might receive the promise of the Spirit through faith.
The Purpose of the Law
(Romans 7:1-6)
15Brethren, I speak after the manner of men; Though it be but a man's covenant, yet if it be confirmed, no man disannulleth, or addeth thereto. 16Now to Abraham and his seed were the promises made. He saith not, And to seeds, as of many; but as of one, And to thy seed, which is Christ. 17And this I say, that the covenant, that was confirmed before of God in Christ, the law, which was four hundred and thirty years after, cannot disannul, that it should make the promise of none effect. 18For if the inheritance be of the law, it is no more of promise: but God gave it to Abraham by promise.
19Wherefore then serveth the law? It was added because of transgressions, till the seed should come to whom the promise was made; and it was ordained by angels in the hand of a mediator. 20Now a mediator is not a mediator of one, but God is one. 21Is the law then against the promises of God? God forbid: for if there had been a law given which could have given life, verily righteousness should have been by the law. 22But the scripture hath concluded all under sin, that the promise by faith of Jesus Christ might be given to them that believe.
23But before faith came, we were kept under the law, shut up unto the faith which should afterwards be revealed. 24Wherefore the law was our schoolmaster to bring us unto Christ, that we might be justified by faith. 25But after that faith is come, we are no longer under a schoolmaster (Galatians 3:10-25)
21Tell me, ye that desire to be under the law, do ye not hear the law? 22For it is written, that Abraham had two sons, the one by a bondmaid, the other by a freewoman. 23But he who was of the bondwoman was born after the flesh; but he of the freewoman was by promise. 24Which things are an allegory: for these are the two covenants; the one from the mount Sinai, which gendereth to bondage, which is Agar. 25For this Agar is mount Sinai in Arabia, and answereth to Jerusalem which now is, and is in bondage with her children. 26But Jerusalem which is above is free, which is the mother of us all.
27For it is written, Rejoice, thou barren that bearest not; break forth and cry, thou that travailest not: for the desolate hath many more children than she which hath an husband.
28Now we, brethren, as Isaac was, are the children of promise. 29But as then he that was born after the flesh persecuted him that was born after the Spirit, even so it is now.
30Nevertheless what saith the scripture? Cast out the bondwoman and her son: for the son of the bondwoman shall not be heir with the son of the freewoman.
31So then, brethren, we are not children of the bondwoman, but of the free (Galatians 4:21-31).
Freedom in Christ
1Stand fast therefore in the liberty wherewith Christ hath made us free, and be not entangled again with the yoke of bondage.
2Behold, I Paul say unto you, that if ye be circumcised, Christ shall profit you nothing. 3For I testify again to every man that is circumcised, that he is a debtor to do the whole law. 4Christ is become of no effect unto you, whosoever of you are justified by the law; ye are fallen from grace. 5For we through the Spirit wait for the hope of righteousness by faith. 6For in Jesus Christ neither circumcision availeth any thing, nor uncircumcision; but faith which worketh by love.
7Ye did run well; who did hinder you that ye should not obey the truth? 8This persuasion cometh not of him that calleth you. 9A little leaven leaveneth the whole lump. 10I have confidence in you through the Lord, that ye will be none otherwise minded: but he that troubleth you shall bear his judgment, whosoever he be. 11And I, brethren, if I yet preach circumcision, why do I yet suffer persecution? then is the offence of the cross ceased. 12I would they were even cut off which trouble you.
13For, brethren, ye have been called unto liberty; only use not liberty for an occasion to the flesh, but by love serve one another. 14For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this; Thou shalt love thy neighbour as thyself. 15But if ye bite and devour one another, take heed that ye be not consumed one of another (Galatians 5:1-15).
AJ Louviere yes absolutely free full of grace and accepted from where you are. I Cor. 7 talks about divorce amongst a previously immoral group. It offers no condemnation for those who seek a wife. It doesn’t lay out any distinction between those previously married or not. Or does I Cor. Not apply to me because I’m not a Roman or a Corinthian?
AJ Louviere because if that’s the case I’m not Galatian either. Apparently in your view little to none of the Bible applies to me.
Matthew 5:32 King James Version (KJV)
32 But I say unto you, That whosoever shall put away his wife, saving for the cause of fornication, causeth her to commit adultery: and whosoever shall marry her that is divorced committeth adultery. What about this verse, Why if He is the cause of the divorce, She is still called an adulterer?
because the marriage bond is not broken.....
Lord send Randy Boteilho ! A Women of God with a Devine introduction ,in Jesus name thank you lord that you oh God knowss hat she is right for me Amen ,
so what is the course, of action, to the ones remarried after a nonbiblical divorce....that is the test to your theology....
What if my wife who has a living spouse doesn’t want to leave
then you have to leave....
@@philipbuckley759 I pay the mortgage
@@philipbuckley759 excatly
if your wife has a living spouse, then you dont have a wife....you are in an adulterous relationship and should be terminated.....regardless of the economics....
the exception clause is one....not two....the second is not enslaved to....not not bound to....ergo it is not a reason for divorce, and remarriage...
Remarriage when your x is living is adultery according to God’s word. He’s word doesn’t ever say you can remarry if the spouse is living.
@@Ustle amen...
@jamieseiple ok gotcha
it would help if you would focus, on the topic, at hand....
What about divorce.
The Royals, Disney and Tim Burton all have something in common.. can anyone guess what it is? 🤔
and this one does not address the eternal question....for those already divorced, and remarried....what course of action....stay in a relationship that the Bible calls adultery, or leave it....
Whosoever shall put away his wife except it be for formication, the question is what kind of wife fornicate . The answer is is an espoused wife. Or engaged wife . When you are engaged you are still single. So when an espoused wife cheats she commits formication. She still single not married yet . Joseph and Mary was espoused to each other she still was a virgin. The angel Gabriel told Joseph not to put her away.
Amen brother! Luke 2:5-7, Matthew 1:25.
Patrick Moran Yeah if Porneia meant only fornication, that would be great. It doesn’t. It means any kind of sexual immorality, before, during, or after a marriage. It includes all kinds of things like incest, and beastiality. The problem is the verse or Jesus’ teaching, it’s people trying to make a Greek word have a more limited English meaning.
That's some trash theology right there. It's all hinged on a flawed definition of pornea.
Cake Batter exactly Pornea is any sexual immorality, not just premarital sex.
Not me. At one time, I did but didn't last.
What if it’s been done to the women? I got divorce ten years after my ex-husband left with another women. He did not marry this particular women but, another one he was having an affair with. If the men insist in having an affair and leaves, would this be cause for divorce and can the women remarried?
Basically God doesnt like divorce or ( putting away ) since from the beginning man and woman are to become one flesh till death and cling to one another. But if you do seperate you can't remarry. You are to remain single and if possible later reconclie. If that can't be the case then staying single and working on your relationship with God is the only way . The only way the mariage is seen as officially over in God's eyes is if one becomes a widow / their spouse dies. Then you are free to marry again in the Lord. If someone remarries while their first spouse is still alive then they are an adulterer and whoever marries them are one too. And for example, if a man/woman who has never been married before , marries a person who has been divorced and their first spouse is alive, that marriage is not valid and is adultereous in Gods eyes because the divorced person is still one flesh with their first spouse. Hope this helps .
Ren yeah yeah that’s why God requires covenant breakers be put to death. There’s not enough legalism and putting to death anymore. Don’t you agree?
Look up Dr Joseph Webb (CPR Ministries) on youtube and his books. Divorce and remarriage is not what Jesus taught..Paul said the same, you can be single or pray for reconciliation with your husband..he is only remarried on paper not in the eyes of God and he is still your husband and you his wife until death (Romans 7)
Count it all Joy there’s not enough putting to death for covenant breakers don’t you agree?
Miriam Diaz Cordova you free from him. He broke the covenant. However keep in mind another might do the same. The stats on this aren’t good. I advise people against marriage. It’s not worth it anymore too many are too sinful. It’s not worth the risk. However a broken covenant is broken and if he’s committed sexual immorality you’re free according to Jesus.
Pastor Greg you are an angel because your light encourages us to follow the word of the Lord Jesus Christ and fight against world sins and the demons that want us to fall into temptation. May God bless you, your wife and family with health and safety. 🙏
not under bondage....is akin to not being bound...this contradicts what had just been said....how strange....
9:31 💯💯💯💯💯💯
Because her pregnancy was not of formication with man outside of that espoused relationship they were in. Joseph thought she fornicated with a man. Now if that was the case he can put her away . Any man or woman that is engaged or espoused to each other cheats on one another before marriage they can be dismissed.
No where does Jesus imply that if you found out that your wife had sexual relations with another man before marriage that this gives rights for divorce. Many have sex before marriage especially non-Christians and yes some Christians have fallen into this as well and must repent. But to say now we can divorce because we found out our spouse was sexually active and in an immoral lifestyle before marriage is unfounded and unscriptural. However during your betrothed/engagement period you found out after marriage there was hanky panky going on, then yes you can divorce.
@@heymichaelc read fornication......and how the definition was changed by Erasmus and promoted by Luther...
@@heymichaelc it was durning the engagement time....
jesus saves you
First Law Of A Good Christian Marriage:
"If no proof of the young woman’s virginity can be found, she shall be brought to the door of her father’s house and there the men of her town shall stone her to death."
Deuteronomy 22:20
Jesus in fact said very little about not divorcing each other and forbidden adulterous remarriages.
But what he does say is too much for most passion hungry humans to accept and bear.
"2 Some Pharisees came to test him. They asked, “Can a husband divorce his wife?”
3 Jesus answered them, “What command did Moses give you?”
4 They said, “Moses allowed a man to give his wife a written notice to divorce her.”
5 Jesus said to them, “He wrote this command for you **because you're heartless**.
6 But God made them male and female in the beginning, at creation.
7 That's why a man will leave his father and mother and will remain united with his wife,
8 and the two will be one. So they are no longer two but one.
9 Therefore, don't let anyone separate what God has joined together.”
10 When they were in a house, **the disciples** asked him about this.
11 He answered them, “Whoever divorces his wife and marries another woman **is committing adultery.
12 If a wife divorces her husband and **marries another man, she is **committing adultery.”
Mark 10:2-12 (GW)
Accept the above and teach it, and you be a very wise and contented follower of the Lord Jesus Christ.
Jesus, isn't going to give you a way to get out of marriage, by saying go fornicate, and then it will be ok! You seen God punishing in Ezra, Numbers, Jerem. Malachi for Hushands putting away their wife's, this was after Deut.24, and when Jesus was walking on the Earth, and spoke this in Matthew, the old law was still in place. Jesus said it wasn't so, since the beginning, God can't change His view on Sin, and the moral law, doesn't go away Luke 16:17,18 .
We have been made free from the law in Deuteronomy 24:1-4.
@@ajlouviere202 excatly
My wife divorced me 18 years ago bc I hit her. God has transformed me since then. She's been remarried and has kids. I don't have kids. I'm dating a wonderful woman of God now. As far as I know my ex is still living. Is it wrong for me to remarry??? I'm confused.
you divorced, or were divorced, for a non Biblical reason....ergo, according to the Bible you are still in a covenant, with your wife....what you would call your ex....in any event, according to the Bible, for you to remarry would be adultery, for the both of you...it is not really confusing, it is something that hits us at a very emotional level.....who wants to be left out....of life...so, to speak...
@@susanpillion3114 Amen! Well I'm single again 😜
@@kevinwhitley5499 stay that way while you have a living covenant wife. Eternity lost is not worth anything in this life.
@@ajlouviere202 but his wife is remarried so that make him an adulterer? Is he in a permanent state of adultery ? I'm confused
@@ob-of2gx according to Jesus, a divorced man who marries another commits adultery, just as a woman who is divorced also commits adultery, and whosoever marries one who is divorced commits adultery.
Advice: I married a unbeliever while I was in a extremely backslidden state, God has in his mercy gently brought me back to him, and now there are issues, the Old Testament seems to outright say get outa the marriage, the New Testament is clear that the unbelieving spouse is sanctified by the believing husband otherwise your kids would be unholy. Anyhow any clarity in this would be greatly appreciated
If this is the first time you and the woman you married have ever been married, then you are in a covenant marriage. As such you are not to divorce your wife if she is pleased to live with you (1 Cor 7:12). If she does leave you, you cannot remarry for as long as she is alive because only death can break a covenant marriage (1 Cor 7:39 & Rom 7:2-3). If you did remarry while she is still alive, you would be committing adultery (Mark 10:11-12 & Luke 16:18). Also, as Christians we did not follow the Mosaic law of the Old Testament. We follow the law of Christ (Hebrews chapters 7-8). I hope this helps.
Dedicated to Biblical marriage and ALL Pleasing to God...
desertion.....means one is not under bondage, or not enslaved....not not boune......which means Mt has it wrong....it should have said...one of the exceptions is....etc...
This is more about divorce than marriage
An engaged wife carries the title of wife to be married.
Truth! Jewish tradition called the betrothed (engaged) husband and wife but were not yet until consummation and becoming one-flesh.
@@ajlouviere202 Very Respectfully With All Due Respect Good Gods Day, "BETROTHED" means "MARRIED", V/R
@@nextlevelamazing7865 Wrong.
@@nextlevelamazing7865false.
sex does not make a marriage....
it would be interesting to know just when pornea was translated to sexual immorality and why....not just fornication....and how the context, of the use, of this word would aid in defining the word...
Some are saying that fornication ("porneia" in greek) only applies to the unmarried, and that Jesus (Mat 5:32) was talking to those yet to be married. Here is why that is not true.
The word for porneia in it's meaning (greek, as our new testament is translated) does not imply (a single, one, not married, or the like). Porneia covers homosexual, heterosexual, beastiality, incest, adultery, pedophilia, it is a generic word used for sexual misconduct. In Rev 2:20-22 Adultery falls under the category of sexual immorality "porneia". In 1 Cor 5:1 there is adultery but the bible uses "porneia". Just because adultery has it's own Greek definition does not mean it can't be included under fornication "porneia". That's like saying lust has it's own Greek definition but can't fall under the category of sin.
It was changed to give people more excuses to divorce.
@@Gud2B_Blessed you are right, about this....
@@heymichaelc it does not matter what a word may mean, it does matter how it is being used.....que, is what in Spanish, but is translated in other ways, depending on the context, in which that term is used....
@@Gud2B_Blessed sad, eh....Erasmus, in the time, of Luther....evidently Luther was crazy, literally...
here is another way....out....if the unbeliever.....etc....well if anyone departs, by defauld they are considered to be an unbeliever, or at least treaded as if this one were an unbeliever...
the unbeliever.....the first thing is you negate that by saying if anyone walks out....that one is to be treated as an unbeliever....and the second you are equating bondage with bound.....why would he use another word.....oh, but it really does not matter, in Calvary Chapel and many others....there is a thing called repentence.....I am sorry, but not sorry enough to change.....as a matter of fact it is better, because the orginal covenant is nullified and the adultery is changed into a legit covenant.....oh my......
soo,if u live together before u get married your likely to get a divorce ,than getting married then living together,,right ,but theres still a chance of you getting a divorce.so if you live together without getting married ,and live together happily till then end .then divorce doesnt even come into the picture.
Tony Rowan yeah, but at least they haven’t committed the unforgivable sin of divorce.
Since revised Bibles, beginning in 1971 , have people thinking Christians actually commit adultery?....
It makes sense that the elephant in the room is no longer the deed of adultery or fornication.... But rather divorce and remarriage.
Decent marriage
Please read Exodus 22:16. Fornication is when a woman marries a man who didn't take her virginity. Thank you!
I left my wife cause I wasn't willing to try to save my marriage...I dated my daughters friends....I was terrible to her...blame her for my unhappiness....now she is alone...broken...wanting to die after I walked out of our 25 year marriage....what would God want me to do now
Chad Thomas pray and ask God what to do. In the meantime, study the Bible on marriage and divorce. Hope this helped..God bless!
Chad Thomas attempt to reconcile as Jesus instructed but do not enter into another relationship because you will be committing adultery.
@Tony Rowan agree 100,,%
Pray Repent, ask the Lord for instruction. Anything in your heart still hardened remove. Attempt if possible to reconcile with your wife. If the door is open it would be a wonderful restoration. If not you must remain single.
May the Lord be with you.
@@Gud2B_Blessed he does not have to ask, as the answer is to reconcile.....
two excetions for divorce....it almost sounds like a contradiction...as except usually is defined, as one reason....so maybe Matthew should say....blah, blah, blah, but one of the exceptions is.....etc...
I love pastor Greg and most of his teaching in scripture and how it relates to our post modern lives. However, his "TEACHING" on divorce and remarriage in the church, opens the door for married persons to divorce and remarry for almost any cause. Which is causing great damage to the church and society today! (Many Pastors today teach this doctrine). In the KJV of the Bible fornication is used, not sexual immorality. Matthew 19:9 & 5:32, clearly say for fornication. In the case with Joseph and Mary, his betrothed wife, Joseph was permitted to put his wife away under Jewish law, because she was found to be with child during the betrothal period, (for fornication). Also in Genesis 19, Lot proposed to give his virgin daughters to the men of Sodom so they would not take the Angels of the Lord. However his daughters were said to have husbands, (Genesis 19:4 Lots sons in law) because they were still in the betrothal period. Because churches teach Gods grace covers all sin, including divorce and remarriage, divorce is rampant in the church today. I believe this is a great sin before God and is hindering much of the work of the gospel. Families are so broken today from divorce and remarriage, where terrible abuse and neglect are taking place! Blended families have a much higher case of domestic violence, drug abuse, child neglect than intact one man one woman for life families. Most children never get over their parents divorce and remarriage and go on themselves to commit the same behaviors. And greater numbers are choosing not to marry but to live together. John the Baptist lost his head over condemning King Herod's remarriage to his bothers wife Herodius, even thought not believers in Christ was clearly wrong before God. I also believe the confusion with gender today comes out of the confusion that comes from rampant divorce and remarriage. Just my thoughts.
Brian Hemmert, God had Moses to draw up a release on being married because he was treating his wife badly.
@@roselewis9950, 1st Corinthians 7:10 clearly teaches a wife must not separate from her husband but if she does she is to remain unmarried or be reconciled to her husband. Roman's 7:2-3 clearly states the marriage covenant. Malachi 2 God says he hates divorce. We as children of God should hate what God hates. A woman who is being abused by her husband should always seek safety and legal counsel, but know where in scripture does give allowance for divorce.
@@brianhemmert9394excatly
@@brianhemmert9394it is the remarriage that constitutes adultery. In some states without legal separation, a legal “divorce” may protect spouses and children, even though it does not constitute a breaking of the marital bond in God’s eyes.
It is strange that these divorce and remarriage videos are interspersed with ads for TV shows about sexy women! Hello? Are we missing something here?
Use a free Adblocker...problem solved....😊
if you had not wasted half of your time....you may have addressed the question of what course of action, if any for the already divorced, and remarried....stay, in what the Bible calls adultery, or.....repent....and somehow change a case of adultery, into a legitimate marriage, or covenant....
It's strange to me that he makes fun of other people to get his point across. Kinda a "mean girl" approach to Jesus's teachings.
OTHER THAN THAT, fervent message.
Deuteronomy 24
New International Version
24 If a man marries a woman who becomes displeasing to him(A) because he finds something indecent about her, and he writes her a certificate of divorce,(B) gives it to her and sends her from his house, 2 and if after she leaves his house she becomes the wife of another man, 3 and her second husband dislikes her and writes her a certificate of divorce....Mat 19:8 He saith unto them, Moses because of the hardness of your hearts suffered you to put away your wives: but from the beginning it was not so.
Mat 19:9 And I say unto you, Whosoever shall put away his wife, except it be for fornication, and shall marry another, committeth adultery: AND WHOSO MARRIETH HER WHICH IS PUT AWAY DOTH COMMIT ADULTERY.
His disciples say unto him, If the case of the man be so with his wife, it is not good to marry.
1Co 7:11 But and if she depart, let her remain unmarried, or be reconciled to her husband! Old Testament law regarding marriage done away with!
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Rom 7:3 So then if, while her husband liveth, she be married to another man, she shall be called an adulteress: but if her husband be dead, she is free from that law; so that she is no adulteress, though she be married to another man.
how about a Biblical teaching, here....
Philip Buckley I know it’s actually honest without adding stuff like those marriage permanent people adding to God’s word like the Pharisees, and having the boldness to teach the whole bible.
@@johnborland7865 well then we have to learn and apply, what we have learned, regardless of how others are, or are not handling the truth.
@@philipbuckley759 yes you do.
What would happen to one’s interpretation if everything Jesus said is taken literally?
It would eliminate the false supposition of “indissoluble marriage.” It would eliminate the supposed conflict between Jesus and Moses. It would simply mean that Jesus revealed to His covenant people that they had for hundreds of years been committing adultery by supplanting one spouse for another. It would mean that Jesus gave them a reason to stay married. It would mean there is no difference in the outcome of divorce from one Testament to the other.
It would mean that “divorce” means divorce. It would mean that divorce terminated the marriage. It would mean the divorce was real. It would mean that the theory of “indissoluble marriage” is false. It would mean that a divorced woman WAS NOT “still married to her first husband.” It would mean that all the suppositions based on “indissoluble marriage” are false. Particularly the “divorce to repent” supposition.
It would mean that “marry another” (Matthew 19) means marry another. It would mean remarriage is a marriage. It would mean remarriage was real. It would mean there is no difference in the outcome of remarriage from Old Testament to New.
It would mean that all those who advocates “divorce to repent” are guilty of causing the dissolution of families. It would mean that all who divorced their second spouse out of fear transgressed another marriage. It would mean transgression were multiplied. It would mean wives and husbands abdicated their role in their home. It would mean that families were destroyed from false teaching.
It would also mean remarriage after divorce is adultery, as clearly stated by both Jesus and the apostle Paul!
nice try, but....not, to your explanation...
Except it be for formication clause had been taken out of context for many years through unlearned pastors formication is committed by single people never married. Single people cannot commit adultery because there not married. Married people cannot commit formication because their not single. Married people comment adultery.
Re-study the Word my friend. Married people can commit fornication. Rev 17:2 With whom the kings of the earth have committed fornication, and the inhabitants of the earth have been made drunk with the wine of her fornication. Don't you think some of those kings were married?
Exactly.
as usual the question, of what one, from a non Biblical divorce and remarriage should do.....maybe it is time to stop ....scratching the surface, and do a real teaching....on this topic...
basic message...oh dont worry....divorce, remarry....repent.....repeat....
half way through and it is just....blah, blah, blah....you are not focusing, on the topic....
adultery is not a Biblical basis, for divorce.....fornication.....is the term......
Espoused wife and married wife are two different people
Patrick Moran well yeah one is imaginary. The other isn’t.
not to Joseph and Mary....
Philip Buckley being espoused is like being a little pregnant. You either are married or you aren’t. Joseph and Mary weren’t a little married. They had an agreement to agree in the future if and when certain conditions were met. Both parties retained the right to back out of the contract. That’s not marriage it’s an option to marry. You know what we call people with an option to marry? We call them single. So yes, yes it was imaginary.
@@johnborland7865 then why did Joseph want to divorce Mary, if it were....imaginary.....
How do I get all the information from Patrick?
if the unbeliever....etc...you are saying...if one....departs.....wrong, on two counts....the false teaching of this, and, sadly, many denominations.....
this guy does not know his terms.....the term, used for desertion, is not enslaved....which is not akin to not bound, something spoken of, in the same section....oh, and Matthew got it wrong...hey, one of the exceptions is....etc...
Biblical Marriage - Rape Your Way In, Stone Your Way Out
this guy is GAY AS A MOFO btw , anybody who doesn't see that , check yourself , you're probably one too
too many cutesy stories....try staying, on topic.....
You are sending people to hell; you can only remarry if your spouse dies. If they divorce they are to remain unmarried . I easily thought you were a better pastor than that
adultery is not the exception.....it is fornication....a completely different term......
Are you divorced? If not why are you litterly on everyone of these videos throwing rocks at people?
@@JamesWFisher22 trying to get a correct teaching, as this is one of the largest....open secrets.....in the whole Church....the pastor of the Congregation I attended was divorced, by his wife, he remarried.....is he in adultery, now that he has died, is he lost.....this is a serious issue.....
Terrible!!! 🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️🤦🏾♂️
When Jesus spoke He spoke of a real divorce and a real second marriage. One marriage ended and another marriage constituted. Divorcing the present spouse would be another real sin, multiplying transgressions.
if the current....marriage....were Biblically considered, to be adultery, then leaving a sinful relationship would not be a sin....
nope wrong, second wife is not yours to begin with
NO. Divorcing the "2nd spouse" would Not be Divorce it would be repentence. Not considerd a marriage at all,but sin.
@grant2149 So Jesus's exception clause bears no weight? Adultery does NOT sever the marriage bond/contract? Interesting, something the Bible calls a disputable matter.
@@nickwadson5731 Adultery does NOt severe the covenent at all. Wake up. Except it be fornication NOT adultery. 2 diffrent meanings a 2nd marriage is continous sin. Except if spouse died. No where in NT is remarry except it be death.
blah, blah, blah....cheap so called jokes....etc....try focusing on the subject, from the vantage point, of the scripture....
try focusing, on the subject....this seems to be a rambling rant....of some sort....