How To Be HAPPY SINGLE - de-centre the need for a relationship & enjoy your single era (Episode 43)
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- Опубліковано 26 лис 2023
- How to de-centre the desire for a relationship and learn to embrace and enjoy your single era. There is so much beauty in taking time to discover who you are and what you bring to the world.
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I think I started following you around the time you posted that tiktok, surprisingly I do remember the comments responding to your video, It almost felt as if people didnt care if you are single as long as you are miserably single. it was very odd to see . Ultimately i think a lot of us men are conditioned to believe that women are lying to themselves that they are content alone and if only you were to snatch them up and save them from a life of loneliness . Its very backwards thinking, because if you date people frivolously they hate it too. Im glad you didnt let it get to you Victoria, keep up the good work!
I completely agree that society has shaped us to believe that we need a relationship to be happy. I think people who are single but feeling unhappy about it, or feeling a general sense of negativity around dating tend to feel triggered to hear about other people enjoying life single. Thanks for sharing your thoughts :)
This hits deep for me, as it basically summarizes most of my life thus far. The part from around 12:05 - 15:34 I loved the most, as it's something I've always embraced and wanted to express, but felt nobody I knew bothered to truly understand. This is a core theme that's forged well throughout my 20's; "The Solitude Era" - the joy and value of doing things alone, how it fosters personal growth and learning the difference between being alone vs feeling "lonely". I think it's crucial to realize that, especially for young adults in a time of social media who may feel pressure to find someone. Much of this topic also relates to your previous podcast on why/when to be selfish.
All in all, having been around many relationships, seeing them flourish and fall apart, I don't feel it's a rollercoaster ride I need at the moment. I'm on the same wavelength as you, and just trying to figure out where my life is going and what I truly want.
Thank you for sharing!!! Love this explanation so much
I’m single long time but I’m happy🥂
love that for you