Dealing with moving to a new city & living alone

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  • @Youtubewaliaartie
    @Youtubewaliaartie  2 роки тому +2

    ua-cam.com/channels/FR-wm0IY4YbSzSZxMhdaxQ.html Guyss! Subscribe to my new channel for more videos like these ❤✨

  • @devyanipadhiyar5277
    @devyanipadhiyar5277 2 роки тому +76

    I've just moved out from my parents house and it's been like 3-4 days and I've been feeling homesick, been crying everyday , and thought I'll give up and go back to home , but this helps me honestly. Now I'm taking everything in different way. So thank you soooooo much 🤍

    • @user-vu8ot1pq5d
      @user-vu8ot1pq5d 2 роки тому +3

      I am going to move out for the first time ... And i am feeling the same snd I'm still at my parents house🥲

    • @devyanipadhiyar5277
      @devyanipadhiyar5277 2 роки тому +3

      @@user-vu8ot1pq5d don't worry . It will be fine. I've been through worst time when I moved out , which was 2 weeks ago but now my life is better than ever. I'm like literally happiest right now. So don't worry and take a step , it will be hard at first then you'll manage

    • @user-vu8ot1pq5d
      @user-vu8ot1pq5d 2 роки тому

      @@devyanipadhiyar5277 btw in which city you've moved?

    • @perfectlyyummy3406
      @perfectlyyummy3406 2 роки тому

      Where are u now?

    • @rishh69
      @rishh69 Рік тому

      Same kind of situation that I'm in right now

  • @dragonwarrior8118
    @dragonwarrior8118 2 роки тому +77

    The worst part is i am an introvert and have no actual bonds or connection with people expect my family in my current home town itself. And in 2022 i have to move out to chennai for job.

    • @artisticcreature
      @artisticcreature 2 роки тому +2

      hang in there, take heart and wish you all the best for future years . keep that thought in your mind why you moved and what you are gonna get while you stay here . stay blessed

    • @architanand555
      @architanand555 2 роки тому

      Relate maxx

    • @ranveerpatil3754
      @ranveerpatil3754 2 роки тому

      Same brother. Itts hard

    • @aadarshsah1046
      @aadarshsah1046 Рік тому

      Same here msn

    • @vedantgunjkar
      @vedantgunjkar Рік тому

      Same situation

  • @anumxx7
    @anumxx7 4 роки тому +95

    this video honestly made me feel so much better, Just moved away from my family interstate and lot of uneasy emotions so this really helped - lots of love! ❤️

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  4 роки тому +4

      Awww I’m so glad!❤️ Aaaand you’re gonna have a ball ya!🤗

  • @vijengala4721
    @vijengala4721 3 роки тому +29

    Trust me I was feeling very lonely since last 2-3 days but seeing your video really helped me to overcome this feeling

  • @jasjotkaur2292
    @jasjotkaur2292 2 роки тому +9

    I have never ever in my life ever commented to any video on UA-cam. Suddenly found yours one which I really needed as I would be living that type of life really soon. Thank you so much for such delightful things you have said and encouraged. I have saved it for my tough times ahead. Thank you so much. It was really worth watching it. God bless you and give you all the success in life. Thank you 🌹❤

  • @divyanih5344
    @divyanih5344 Рік тому +4

    Going to move out of my house in few months for my job. I'm feeling so anxious and worried. The feeling that this easeness of home is not going to be there with me in the new state is making me worried. Also I'm from north and going to South, i don't know how to handle things there. I'm the first person from my whole family and extended also to go out of UP for employment purpose.
    I'm just praying to God for everything to go well.
    This video helped a lot thanks

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  Рік тому

      SO glad it helped!

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  Рік тому

      You will do well! All the best!

    • @manusingh7491
      @manusingh7491 9 місяців тому

      Hey Divya...same happened with me I am from Up but got my first govt. job in Chennai... feeling soo lonely 😢

  • @vartikajain9391
    @vartikajain9391 3 роки тому +30

    Just moved to a different city even a different state and I am feeling so overwhelm and I fell sick just after 7 days of shifting here and this helped me and motivated me to hold a Lil bit more 🌼❤

    • @Charlie-lf7iy
      @Charlie-lf7iy 3 роки тому +1

      All the Best. I'm in the same boat. Stay strong 💙

    • @vartikajain9391
      @vartikajain9391 3 роки тому

      All the very best @@Charlie-lf7iy

    • @sweta_saurabh_
      @sweta_saurabh_ 2 роки тому +1

      same here.. i moved to delhi today for studying and i am crying

    • @vartikajain9391
      @vartikajain9391 2 роки тому

      @@sweta_saurabh_ You got this ❣️

    • @sweta_saurabh_
      @sweta_saurabh_ 2 роки тому

      staying away from home and that too for preparation like UPSC is quite exhaustive..

  • @Ajay-uy5nx
    @Ajay-uy5nx 3 роки тому +3

    Kind of positive vibe i was in need of, and you're so attractive because of way you talk in, thanks for the video 🙌

  • @rahuldebnath6592
    @rahuldebnath6592 2 роки тому +11

    I am almost 2700kms away from my hometown , currently living in Chandigarh Mohali feeling homesick , loneliness for past few days...without friends living alone preparing food for myself,felt really good watching your video ❣️ afterall it's a life lesson happy to be a part of it 🌺❤️.

  • @nikitajain2274
    @nikitajain2274 2 роки тому +5

    I come back to this video time and again to remind myself of all the things you have said, thank you ❤️

  • @somyaverma4761
    @somyaverma4761 3 роки тому +8

    Have my flight tomorrow. I am dead scared. This video kind of helped. Thanks 💕

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  3 роки тому

      You’ll have the best time 💕

    • @artisticcreature
      @artisticcreature 2 роки тому +2

      hope after 9 months you are doing fine there , take care of yourself

  • @siddhikabra428
    @siddhikabra428 2 роки тому +2

    I am shifting to a new city and this has been so helpful. Thank you so much.

  • @mania20
    @mania20 3 роки тому +14

    Making friends is one of the hardest thing for me.

  • @patelrajkumarnareshkumar8156
    @patelrajkumarnareshkumar8156 2 роки тому +22

    next week I'm shifting to Pune for my first job before this I never even travel out of my city I feel very anxious and nervous but after the video, I feel this is part of it and I will learn something from it.
    wisdom lines "when you are out of your conform zone that
    means you are growing in life."

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  2 роки тому

      🤗🤗

    • @dileswarisahu2994
      @dileswarisahu2994 2 роки тому

      Same.. i also moved to Pune last week

    • @subhancore3436
      @subhancore3436 Рік тому

      Pune is amazing.... you'll fall in love with that city...it will be like your second hometown I bet 👍 All the best ✌️

    • @memberacc9192
      @memberacc9192 11 місяців тому

      How's it going?

  • @MBBSACES
    @MBBSACES 4 роки тому +8

    I am watching this video before I settle out alone in the rent ... Thanks for the Video

  • @amitswarnkar874
    @amitswarnkar874 2 роки тому

    The confidence and extrovertly speaking skills of you is just amazing 😊

  • @sparkle998
    @sparkle998 4 роки тому +14

    who else can understand much better than me... staying alone in the city😢

  • @damayantipatil2216
    @damayantipatil2216 3 роки тому +4

    I found this vedio today.
    But the situation was same that feeling that are in my mind that how I could live alone without my family and friends in new place but now after watching this vedio I feel more positive and motivated .
    Thank you 🙏🙏🙏

  • @theglamorousgirl28
    @theglamorousgirl28 2 роки тому +3

    How real person you are ❤️
    Lots of respect 💫

  • @PuriBabaPunjabi
    @PuriBabaPunjabi 2 роки тому

    Moving to a new city and you are like my elder sister teaching me almost everything about the hustle. Thank You ❤️

    • @ttggff3897
      @ttggff3897 2 роки тому

      Facebook photo per gana lagega

  • @SandhyaSanil
    @SandhyaSanil 3 роки тому +5

    Highly needed this. Huge thank you💛🤗

  • @hizbullahkhan9627
    @hizbullahkhan9627 4 роки тому +3

    Its very helpful and motiational video bcz i am shifted to a new city, thank u so much. I have noted down evry point so that i could read it again. God bless u

  • @srijonidhar5829
    @srijonidhar5829 3 роки тому +19

    I'm moving to a new city real soon and this made me feel a whole lot better❤ thanks ❤

  • @shivammathur1011
    @shivammathur1011 3 роки тому +1

    I like the way your are talking with in. Some people make over their personality to enhance the peoples attraction but when I saw you I am very glad to know that you came with your originality, I realy like it, because you are confident on your skills, this is maturity, co'z whenever you believe in yourself nothing does matters, your personality speaks.👍👍👍good job sis....👍

  • @anilchandeliya2026
    @anilchandeliya2026 3 роки тому +13

    This given me a lot confidence 🥺❤️

  • @jiyah1523
    @jiyah1523 3 роки тому +5

    This was such a nice video Aarti! Thank you so much ❤️
    It gave me a lot of confidence.

  • @buildyourself3521
    @buildyourself3521 3 роки тому +3

    Thank you so much I shifting to new city on this Sunday 👍🏻🥰🙌🏻🙌🏻

  • @denzelheden4256
    @denzelheden4256 5 років тому +24

    wow now I know why you are so mature. so you live alone for 5 to 6 years, interesting....I live alone for 10 years, 5 of these in South India..(I am not Indian though lol)

  • @SB.243
    @SB.243 5 років тому +20

    Ur English is superb loving it ❤

  • @syedahkam7164
    @syedahkam7164 3 роки тому +5

    This is very helpful! As I will be moving to a hostel for college soon. Being a small town guy, it feels even more overwhelming.

  • @tanishjhamtani9866
    @tanishjhamtani9866 2 роки тому

    Thankyou so much for this video I've moved to a new city and really this video has made me feel a lot better ♥️

    • @tanishjhamtani9866
      @tanishjhamtani9866 2 роки тому

      Can u you also make a video for someone who has moved to Maharashtra from another state

  • @jeffhendrickx7763
    @jeffhendrickx7763 5 років тому +8

    Hopefully moving to a new place in the near future. So all this stuff is coming my way 😁 Bring it on! 🥊

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  5 років тому +1

      Whhhhat! Where are you moving!😧

    • @jeffhendrickx7763
      @jeffhendrickx7763 5 років тому

      @@UA-camwaliaartie Jaipur I think.
      No no, didn't I tell you? Planning to start living on my own.

    • @careerguidestudy1496
      @careerguidestudy1496 4 роки тому

      @@jeffhendrickx7763 are you indian?

  • @devendrahaldankar8535
    @devendrahaldankar8535 3 роки тому +6

    Even I'm moving out to Bangalore when WFH ends
    Born and brought up in Mumbai, and everything, education and all happened in Mumbai....
    I'll watch this video again when my time will come out of my cocoon. 🙃

  • @meetad2929
    @meetad2929 2 роки тому +2

    this video deserves more views and likes

  • @ayushinegi8346
    @ayushinegi8346 2 роки тому +1

    much helpful video, lots of love 💕
    you gave me hope, as i am feeling sad

  • @youareyourhome1629
    @youareyourhome1629 2 роки тому +1

    This is exactly what I needed at this point of time thankyou btw you look beautiful 🧁

  • @sushmitabyapari3896
    @sushmitabyapari3896 3 роки тому +5

    The last part specifically was extremely well articulated 😃

  • @punitaarora7137
    @punitaarora7137 2 роки тому +2

    Anyone from Gurgaon near to sec 55 m new here
    Any girl.
    Health conscious girl
    So that we can have health goals

  • @abhishekmahoniya9950
    @abhishekmahoniya9950 4 роки тому +8

    I'm 19 years old I want to go delhi for college but I'm little bit scared about living in PG with unknown people, what should I do?

    • @Loisbewilin
      @Loisbewilin 4 роки тому

      I'm going to delhi as well, Feeling same. We can connect if u want

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  3 роки тому +3

      It’s an awkward feeling to live with strangers at first. You’ll have to be careful in choosin who you live with! That can make or break your independent life 😁 but if you find amazing people you’ll have a ball

    • @4kgamer937
      @4kgamer937 3 роки тому

      same bhai

    • @bhoomijain795
      @bhoomijain795 2 роки тому

      I am 16 years old but I want to go out for coaching.. But all are worried that will i be able to live alone there or not.!

  • @riyameera5936
    @riyameera5936 4 роки тому +12

    Due to my dad's job we moved to new city after my 10th in 2017. Then started preparing for exam from home..i isolated myself from everyone..i am not very social person but still it feels like hell..coz I can't tell what i am going through..nd also failed in my entrance exam.

  • @Masterstrange56
    @Masterstrange56 2 роки тому +2

    Thanku so much siso..

  • @JubeeVerma
    @JubeeVerma 5 років тому +4

    Are you staying in PG?

  • @garima2473
    @garima2473 2 роки тому +1

    This was really helpful - thanks ✨

  • @yashkumar9960
    @yashkumar9960 3 роки тому +2

    found this video today, its literally wensday today

  • @mohit_trader
    @mohit_trader 3 роки тому +1

    thank you, that was awesome.. i loved it.

  • @ayushsaraswal3941
    @ayushsaraswal3941 3 роки тому +1

    I was Finding a video to move in and all I thought if I can get anyone making this video.. but This Girl mabe a video of pune 😛 yaar I'm moving to pune in 2 days from Gujarat yaar This helped me

  • @samadritachakraborty3019
    @samadritachakraborty3019 Рік тому

    goshh succhaaaa positive videoo!!!! thank you for this!

  • @rachanalolla9905
    @rachanalolla9905 2 роки тому

    Helpful, thank you so much!

  • @porinitabora3747
    @porinitabora3747 Місяць тому

    Thank you.
    I am going to shift for the first time

  • @McBaller96
    @McBaller96 2 роки тому +3

    I've been having such a hard time at university. The new city I'm in is nothing like my home city. I never want to leave my dorm and it's been impossible to find the courage to meet new people, my school is small so I thought it'd make the most sense to find cool events around the city. The only problem is that I don't feel comfortable going to cool events by myself because I'm a young girl AND alone (Danger 101) :((((

    • @Ms-money
      @Ms-money 2 роки тому +1

      Hey! I'm going through something similar except that I've graduated from uni and moved to a new city for a new job. My initial days in clg were also very hard and I felt exactly the same - it was too scary to step out of my room and living in my room was also pretty uncomfortable because of my roommates. I would say, please don't be hard on yourself. In fact, take the responsibility of taking care of yourself and love yourself the most, especially when you're alone.

    • @piku4321
      @piku4321 Рік тому

      Yes i got you girl . I just moved to Pune and i don't understand Marathi, so I feel totally alone, my roommates always speak in Marathi and i don't understand so they plan their things and i feel totally alone and depressed and missing home and family. But i know I have to do it i need to learn to stay alone and enjoy your own company, sometimes i try to make new friends but due to the language they just don't want to be friends . Every telling just leaves this job and goes to your city. After this video I feel much better now I will prove to everyone that i can survive here.

  • @mohammedmoulali9516
    @mohammedmoulali9516 2 роки тому +1

    hi mam i in small village . when i going to cities for job purpose i was sick my parents every day. how to solve it mam i was came to village immediately. how to solve mam

  • @venkateshiyer4072
    @venkateshiyer4072 3 роки тому +2

    Very nice video 👍👌 i am almost moving to Bangalore after living 15 yrs or more in Mumbai , really needed this video ,started new phase of life

  • @Quickandhealthyrecipes976
    @Quickandhealthyrecipes976 2 роки тому

    Thank you so much.... your video is very helpful ☺️☺️☺️☺️

  • @horror_time2you
    @horror_time2you Рік тому

    I’m a upsc aspirant I’m in my 20s I shift to Noida from Bengal To re create myself in a new way

  • @siddhisalve5085
    @siddhisalve5085 2 роки тому +1

    Feeling so much better after watching this🤭

  • @mrgentleman811
    @mrgentleman811 2 роки тому +1

    I'm moving to New delhi next month for pursuing Class 11th from Jamia senior secondary school & I'm gonna live in private PG. I'm just 15 [turning 16 this dec :)] & I'm very nervous as well as excited to live alone.

    • @dhritisman6822
      @dhritisman6822 Рік тому

      Abe Tu excited hai aur mera yaha ga*d fat raha hai

  • @Clarityinlife335
    @Clarityinlife335 3 роки тому +1

    Waah bohot saare sawal clear kar diye aapne.

  • @itsdraory
    @itsdraory 3 роки тому +1

    Mam Mae abhi just apna collage start krne wali hu aur Mae bs ye soch rhi ki meko ghr se paese nai lene my age 17 but abhi meko kuch smjh nai aa rha but ab Meko dusre city jana h please guide me didu😓🥺🥺and I'm also want to do job

  • @jonnieeee5757
    @jonnieeee5757 3 роки тому +2

    I got some good quality information from here☺️ thank you dii♥️

  • @anonymousbee
    @anonymousbee 3 роки тому +1

    I am working on shifting to Mumbai from Delhi.

  • @heycameraman13
    @heycameraman13 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much ❤️🤗

  • @Andracewilston29
    @Andracewilston29 2 роки тому

    Delhi jane se pehle ke precautions per please make a video .. Like .. How to travel .. There metro kese leni ha .. Like all small and bigs thing you think is important ..

  • @nehabaokar5309
    @nehabaokar5309 3 роки тому +1

    Heyy tai. I found your Vedio today. Bfor this I've never seen u...
    I am to shift to a new city next month wth my hubby. He started a job at there.
    I am getting nervous. What to do or not. Even I can't decide what to pack with me or not. How will I manage things..
    Please help me out of this.
    Please reply karshil hmmm...

  • @wekenh
    @wekenh 2 роки тому

    Should I leave my home town and family for career or settle in my hometown?

  • @amrutamagdum8597
    @amrutamagdum8597 3 роки тому

    Thank you so much di
    ❤❤discipline wala point bhot acha tha.

  • @Iambichitra
    @Iambichitra 3 роки тому +1

    I am watching it before shifting alone in Kolkata...

  • @MyRahasyaHINDI
    @MyRahasyaHINDI 3 роки тому +1

    Really, Mere Sath Same Ho Rha h , Job Chod Di, Thank you For Telling Everything.

  • @mintmoneyy
    @mintmoneyy 2 роки тому

    I needed it , thanks

  • @swaleh3210
    @swaleh3210 2 роки тому

    I really want to move for job but where should I go I really feel so alone and confused

  • @jktheallrounder3108
    @jktheallrounder3108 3 роки тому +1

    Basically I am a bengalee but I have to go darjeeling for 12th study but darjeeling's speaking language is nepali.......
    So what should I do

  • @anujasparkle
    @anujasparkle Рік тому

    very nice video,well explained!!!

  • @highiq8928
    @highiq8928 4 роки тому +5

    Thank you, atleast you talked about this topic, itna depression ho rha h yha pr akar ki kuch ni bta skta
    Thanks again for shared your experience and solutions

  • @Randomness_28
    @Randomness_28 2 роки тому

    10k mn kaise adjust kre food supplies and lyf support in new places 🥶

  • @Clarityinlife335
    @Clarityinlife335 3 роки тому +2

    Bohot zabardast gyaan diya hai didi ne aur maza aaya.

  • @songoku-jj2to
    @songoku-jj2to 2 роки тому +1

    Yrr m na job ke liye Delhi ya pune m confuse hu konsi jagah jada mast h

  • @krvijayalaxmi1180
    @krvijayalaxmi1180 2 роки тому

    This video helped me a lot

  • @nagativegamer1915
    @nagativegamer1915 Місяць тому

    Awesome

  • @ritikabansal1307
    @ritikabansal1307 2 роки тому +2

    Who is here after DU notification??😁

  • @yashjoshi461
    @yashjoshi461 3 роки тому +1

    Inspirational 💓

  • @dzedits3728
    @dzedits3728 4 роки тому +1

    I’m moving to new city with my family
    But I don’t know why
    But I don’t wanna leave my home town and it hurts a lot

  • @ankurajay3933
    @ankurajay3933 3 роки тому +1

    I am from Delhi and moved to Mumbai. Mumbai is horrible for me no one wants to be friends because everyone is busy

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  3 роки тому +2

      Aww! Hey! Mumbai can be overwhelming when you are new here but it’s amazing once you get settled . 😊 People have a lot to do , yes. But you’ll make friends soon I hope 🌸

    • @ankurajay3933
      @ankurajay3933 3 роки тому

      @@UA-camwaliaartie but seriously your video is life changing for me
      thanks for helping out

    • @minalpuntambekar1239
      @minalpuntambekar1239 2 роки тому

      Not at all, mumbai is extremely friendly, I don't think u have tried enough to make friends ⭐

    • @ankurajay3933
      @ankurajay3933 2 роки тому

      @@minalpuntambekar1239 yes people are nice indeed but no one has time to hang out, also there are no places to hang out like an open space. Can not think of buying a car here because you know traffic sucks. I am into sports but the sports clubs are exorbitantly over priced. Besides no girls are into average looking guys it seems!

  • @vasnisahu8966
    @vasnisahu8966 3 роки тому +1

    Ap kaha rhte ho
    Kiya akele rhna safe h or ye batana ki ap new ho is city m

  • @Vishal_Chaudhary_0001
    @Vishal_Chaudhary_0001 Рік тому

    I don't have any problem bt I'm scared about nights
    Bcoz I had not slept alone without family till yet... 😶‍🌫️

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  Рік тому

      I knowwwww that feeling! Terrifying at first! But you’ll get used to it:)

  • @BhawnaKapoor11
    @BhawnaKapoor11 3 роки тому

    Thanks for making this video

  • @svaishnavi3967
    @svaishnavi3967 4 роки тому +1

    How did you convince your parents about this all moving in

    • @Youtubewaliaartie
      @Youtubewaliaartie  4 роки тому +3

      They’ve always let me have my freedom and make my decisions :) didn’t have to convince

  • @nirvishasathvara3600
    @nirvishasathvara3600 Рік тому

    This is really great

  • @OshoWorld777
    @OshoWorld777 4 роки тому

    I'm totally relaxed thanx didi ☺☺☺

  • @workshaktiwork
    @workshaktiwork 2 роки тому

    Great advice

  • @rrreverseracing3323
    @rrreverseracing3323 3 роки тому

    Thanks 🍻

  • @nitishlanjewar2772
    @nitishlanjewar2772 3 роки тому

    awesome ...breakup wala sahi tha ....i just getting out of it ...thanks

  • @astroash1222
    @astroash1222 4 роки тому

    Thank you 😊

  • @ObnoxiousDrummer2
    @ObnoxiousDrummer2 3 роки тому +1

    This is so good 😊

  • @apnafantasycorner3544
    @apnafantasycorner3544 2 роки тому +1

    You are ossssmmm speaker

  • @rashmikumari4589
    @rashmikumari4589 3 роки тому

    I will move new city soon, I find you thank you

  • @saurabhkaushik3552
    @saurabhkaushik3552 3 роки тому +2

    You are so funny and cute Aarti😂

  • @thecatyalst91
    @thecatyalst91 2 роки тому

    Really helpful

  • @shaileshthakur7785
    @shaileshthakur7785 5 років тому +2

    It's a challengeing

  • @mayur.s.k
    @mayur.s.k 3 роки тому +3

    I m planned to settle in delhi. I'll go very away from my family . But it's nessary for career.

    • @payaldas1864
      @payaldas1864 3 роки тому +1

      Delhi worst bnglore too kolkraok fr my fm
      16tgni2021rpju
      Mumbai best 529pmrpktkjndl

  • @aakashpawar6579
    @aakashpawar6579 5 років тому

    Hii arti where are you going to live in another city