I’m not a career woman. I’m a woman with a career because I need food and shelter. Men don’t get called ‘career men’. We’re all humans just trying to survive.
Yes, many of those super red pillers make it sound like women went into the job market, after the housewife eras, because feminism told us to...its the fricking cost of living that told us to, cause you cant afford a nice home, a car and kids with one average income now like you could back then. If my man comes home and says he will make a million every year from now on, I will put on my petticoat and stepford-wife the ish out of my life, if it means I never have to face the bs at work again.
Maybe it’s just me, but I would like myself a independent woman who only wants me not needs me so if we eventually get married and I get into a accident and I can’t work she could hold it down and vice versa
IF it's a 45 year old rich and handsome dude i bet you would date him in a heart beat. just look at Leonardo Dicaprio and Johnny Depp, they have no difficulty whatsoever in getting Girls
They attract gold diggers or women who are seeking fame and attention. Not genuine love or care. Big difference. Me personally would never date an old guy because I'm just not attracted to them, simple. I grew up with a father figure no need for no old man's attention. Eww 😂
Those Civics are good, reliable vehicles, and practicality is attractive. Better than some dudebro who pisses his money away on a car whose sole functionality is as eye candy and social one-upsmanship.
37, with a beat-up '09 Ford Focus... The point A to B sounds scared when it starts. But I used to have to Bike to Work, so IDC what it looks like, she gets me where I need to be.
These unmarried men, with a history of unstable relationships, giving advice about stable relationships and marriage are hilarious. If you can't lead by example, you better be prepared for some well deserved pushback.
He turns over 7 figures a year and has a g/f who hes been dating for years... He has to work hard for his money, he cant be having a clingy or demanding girl constantly complaining. Hes doing the right thing.
@@armondtanz yea. Tim said his girl does stuff for him and cooks for him. He said she's not a headache. He said she's doing naturally feminine things. That's good. Correct me if my memory is wrong.
That flips both ways though. "Oh you're successful? Why would I listen to your advice, you don't know the struggle and you have survivor bias." "Oh you're unsuccessful? Why would I listen to your advice, you clearly don't know how to succeed." Like a magic trick: now you can ignore all advice from anyone ever.
My husband is always telling me I should go for a promotion to make more money but whenever I take on work projects that require extra time and attention, then he is always telling me I work too much and need to stop what I’m doing and come have dinner or spend time with him. Like, what do you think it’s going to be like if I ALWAYS have the extra responsibilities that come with a promotion???
The issue is multi factorial if does what you are saying then the issue is you’re not around but if he doesent support you then you’re gonna say you’re strong and independent and chasing your career or he is holding you back
@@justinsmith9851 If I remember correctly, I think I made this comment in response to something Aba and/or Preach said about why they think relationships are more likely to end after the woman gets a promotion. If you just watched this video you’ll probably have a better idea than me right now what that was. My point was more to say that, sometimes, what stresses the relationship after a promotion is just the fact of having to divide more attention away from home-life and husband. Mine, for example, likes the idea of me earning more money in theory, but, I know from experience, he doesn’t actually like it in reality when I periodically put more time and effort into work, even though that leads to bigger bonuses. If I got a promotion I would have to be doing that much more ALL the time because there’s no promotions available that would lead to me making more money in the same amount of hours. I guess that might not be the case in other companies, though.
@@justinsmith9851 But he asked her to get the promotion. She should communicate that there are extra responsibilities that come with the promotion and he should be able to understand that because HE brought it on. He was okay with it. Sometimes you can't have your cake and eat it too.
Not a millionaire, still married to a good woman. There are definitely gold diggers out there, but there are a lot of other types of people too, and women are people.
@@Dice-Ztrue but the issue here is materialism and modernity (low quality values that are shared by the Youth) is what's ruining relationships and destroying couples. Hence, why so many people are single and avoiding marriage. Tim Pool has a point and you know he's unto something when a vast majority of "wealthy women" are starting to become more and more single. (The higher the income, the higher chance she is single)
Meanwhile there's me, who only wants a partner who treats me well and is emotionally mature, and who will not judge me based on my autism and other things. I don't have very high standards I know... But the fact that not many people can even live up to my very low standards says alot. I rather be single and friendless then ever letting another abusive asshat into my life. Too many bullies, too many self centered idiots. And the funny thing is, that I have gotten myself some good friends who treat me well only after I raised my standards. I used to have zero standards back in the day, I wanted to be friends with everyone because I thought I had to beg for love. I refuse to beg for scraps anymore, I deserve so much more then that. If I get any sense that you are shallow and judgemental you are a not someone I can ever hang out with. Too many idiots who think that depression is a myth, and that if you can't work due to shitty mental health that you are just faking it because you are lazy. I realize now that I vibe the best with people who have life experience with mental health like me, anyone who has had an easy life often will not understand at all... If I ever want to start dating again I think the easiest way to weed out idiots is to ask them what their thoughts are about depression, crippling anxiety and mental health in general honestly. Even if I someday beat depression and have a successfull life I will never forget the hell I was in for 15 years. That experience will stay with me forever and it has shaped me as a person in so many ways.
My last relationship actually ended because I accepted a role that doubled my salary and moved me closer to him. He said it was something we should've discussed and said he felt disrespected. I pointed out that not only did my income increase which helps us both, but I now live driving distance to him which should help the relationship as well. He eventually said he can't be with someone who out works him, which is crazy to me. He disagreed with everything I said and was an azzhole more and more until I just decided to walk away from him.
Who are these guys? Majority of women I dated made more money than me (when you factor in child support) and I never cared. In my opinion unless you’re married or engaged they shouldn’t even know how much you make.
There's tons of average looking men with average jobs with a wife and kids in their 30s. These people honestly think it's impossible despite there being so many people proving that it isn't.
That's literally majority of people. Idk where they get these ideas from. Most people are still getting married and having kids, in their 20s AND 30s. My man is 31 and I'm 27 and we just had our 1st son. He's not rich and neither am I, but we are happy.
Right?! "It's the triple six standard"... the evidence to that's false exists everywhere! "Gold diggers..." the vaaast majority of men won't ever come across a gold digger in real life because they're not going anywhere near average men. Like being afraid a shark is going to eat you while wandering through the desert.
I mean that's pretty anecdotal. You really need to look at statistics with this kind of stuff. The age of women having children is getting older and older. Nearly half of all 30 year old women don't have a kid. It's their choice to do whatever they want with their lives, but it is still a discussion to be had. The rate of single mothers is higher than it's ever been, complete families are becoming less and less common. Sure it is still possible to do, just not an easy thing to do anymore. There's a lot of mental illness now days and a large demographic of people are medicated.
Guys, this is a terrible take from y'all. Several problems 1) This clip is 4 if not 5 years old and from the very beginning of when he started his long-form discussion podcast, very outdated. 2) Tim's not one of the red-pill dating dating bros. He talks politics and what's relevant to that. 3) He's not single today. He's been w/his SO for 3 or 4 years now. 4) the clip you played is part of a greater conversation about the increasing rift of the day-to-day life values people of differing political opinions have and how that affects who is willing to date whom. I listen to Tim regularly and disagree w/half the crap he says. But i listen bc i find him honest and keeps me out of echo chambers. Come on, you can do better.
Honest? Are you joking? The man will literally pull up articles, make a crap guess of what it will say, and if it doesn't say that, he closes it! He just claimed "I denounced the death penalty when Lara Loom suggested it, I don't agree with it. So Kamala HQ defamed me. blahblahblah" Well if you go to his Rumble clip of that episode, you will learn that he is full of crap. He was just scared to break TOS on UA-cam so they didn't post those parts on here. Also, do you realize a report just came out how he (& other right-leaning commentators) has been being paid by Russian operatives to make videos promoting a civil war, right?
@CassilovesMocha ok, 3 things 1) do you only watch soundbites that are purposefully short and exclude details to conversations? Because if you didn't, you would know Tim has said multiple times through the years that he can't support the death penalty for anyone because he has lost that much trust in the justice system. Loomer said she wanted capital punishment for the people in question, not Tim. 2) "Tim makes a guess on what an article says and closes them if they don't say that." So what your saying is he tries to look up certain articles he's read in real time but sometimes can't find them, so he moves along to not waste everyone's time during a real, in-the-moment conversation? Wow, shame on him for not being a perfect encyclopedia with photo-idedic memory. 3) foreign investors into TENET media...............and? Is it their job to find Russian spies? No. Are we going to target CNN, NBC, ABC, CBS, NYT, Google, etc now for being funded and influenced by foreign nationals? No, hm. Why is Russia still an evil boogeyman? Didn't the Soviet Union collapse 30 years ago? I thought George Bush was evil for war-profiteering. I don't care that 2 Russians secretly gave them millions for what they say. We shouldn't be funding the war in Ukraine to line the pockets of Raytheon, Lockheed, etc. "Lauren Chen criticizing Trump helps Putin." So? It is her right to criticize anyone whom she disagrees with. And criticizing 1 person you don't like sometimes helps abother person you don't like. That's life.
He found a gf and has been with her for years now. This is a clip from a very old video. Maybe he felt like the odd one out but shortly after found his current gf so it doesn't really matter anymore.
Imagine digging up a video to hate on something dumb Tim Pool said four years ago but you can't hold destiny accountable for celebrating the death of an innocent man THIS year.
8:29 Tim Pool is having the very issue Red Pill grifters claim older women have. He focused on his career instead of becoming attractive to a family oriented woman and now he can’t find one
He admitted that he finds himself drawn towards those successful, independent career-focused women, but is apparently shocked when they don't want to quit their jobs to become dutiful, family-oriented housewives. So instead of going after women who are already have a desire for that life, he wants to bag a career woman and try to change her into what he expects her to be. But sure... the problem is everyone else, not him.
@@AngryReptileKeeper Because driven women aren't leeches... I think that's what makes them appealing to him. Whereas the alternative sees him as a meal and Gucci ticket.
@@AngryReptileKeeper Because it's not about having a stay at home wife. It's about bragging how he broke and molded a career woman to his liking. It's all about power.
As a woman who wouldn't mind the stay-at-home life and has been offered the stay-at-home life, in my experience, the type of guys that are offering are guys who want absolute control and would abuse that control if we ever had differences. And that's not a position anyone in their right mind would want to find themselves in.
It's unfortunately so common that every time I hear a man say he wants a stay-at-home wife, it's a massive red flag. There's a reason why the term "stay-at-home wife to broke single mom pipeline" became a thing. I don't think it's wise for _anyone_ to put themselves in a position where their ability to eat and keep a roof over their head is contingent on how their spouse feels about them. I've watched that sort of financial dependency ruin far too many people's lives.
I did the SAHM thing for a few yrs with my ex. Never again. I loved being able to be there with my son, but the person my ex turned into after almost a decade together was not worth dealing with.
As a man who was offered and took it from a woman my experience the single time it happened to me she had the same personal traits you described. Had a reason why we couldn't hang out with my family or any friends I made before we met. Completely isolated me. I'm glad I went through the experience. I learned a lot of red flags. I haven't been with a controlling jealous partner since. Now that I'm older, I have no time for a toxic relationship.
@@kenseihaup This clip is like 5 years old and Tim has since been in a stable relationship for like 4 years now and they trying to have a family... so yeah it worked out for him.
@@goosejohnson3197 "Trying to have a family" "Worked out well" They call this counting your chickens before they hatch😂 It hasn't worked out well until he has his children and a wife and sustains it. 4 years is a long time. At that point they should get fertility checks
this seems like a hit piece, y'all have fans of tims as some of your base, this is very disingenuous, must've really had nothing else to shit all over. im unsubbed, pretty dirty to pull shit from this long ago to start beef with somebody who's done far far more good for culture and politics the last few years then you ever have. gl y'all, no bad blood
Good riddance lol they take shots at EVERYONE, they don’t give af about the fanbases. Cos that’s how you give OBJECTIVE CRITICISM, something that clearly bothers you. Go on to your echo chambers and think tank, promise you they won’t even notice your unsub 😂
Men who hasn’t showered in weeks, spends time moaning about women, doesn’t care to take careful of themselves: “Why aren’t women just banging down my door?”
10:52 personal story here: roughly 4 years ago i thought i would never find anyone because i was short, like short-short (5'2) and overweight. High school me was knee-deep in this rhetoric and was always depressed about all this, but after highschool and some introspection, i realized that why should i care so much for my flaws as they made me a better person overall, also was a literal filter for all the shallow people in my life. I now have had over 3 partners and have been dating my gf for 1 1/2 years now. Don't let your flaws control you for you will become them. Stand tall kings, queens and in betweens.
That's one hell of a phrase, 'kings, queens and in betweens'. I'm stealing that. Nevertheless, I'm happy that things are now going good for you, things may turn upside down, but keep on living and thriving like you are now.
@@spicyeyedrops237 it's part of the problem. everyone is a king or queen now. remember when people who did shit things were just shitty? they look at these posts and tell themselves "it can't be me, i'm a king/queen!". This very post is the reason this goofy ahh dude is who he is
I legit hope I’m wrong but this feels like a hit piece. This video that y’all got was from 4 years ago. The guy has a wife and is trying to have a kid now. Which means clearly whatever was keeping him from getting that relationship is gone and he might’ve fixed himself. So why bring up old laundry? Please tell me I’m wrong and just over exaggerating here.
I've seen so many of my girl friends date legitimate bums. Moving them into their house, gf buys them consoles and games. Buying them shoes and hats like it's Christmas. The internet men who truly believe every single women in America desires a man who's +6ft, 200k salary and handsome is delusional.
It’s complete cope. The issue with these dudes is their personality and vibe. Their egos are too fragile to face the reality that they need to work on themselves. Rule number one is to not give a woman a reason to feel like something is off about you.
I agree and disagree. But, I believe I am a complete outlier at the same time so my 'story' will not apply to everybody else. Summed up: I was born with a birth defect. Nothing I can do about it, not a victim either. Has to work myself into the ground to get to where I am at today making good money, a lot of life lessons during my life etc. Back in my late teens to mid 20s, women didn't care about my birth defect. They enjoyed my personality even though I didn't have my life together at this point. Fast forward with social media boom, TikTok trends, these dating 'influencers' etc. I might as well be on the island of broken toys with dating. Even with me having my life together, being the man I am, as soon as a women sees or finds out about my birth defect. That's a wrap. I can check 5,6,7 boxes out of 10 boxes, but that's all for nothing once they find out. There's nothing I can do about it either, I either say something upfront and it's deemed self conscious or I say nothing and have women act horrible towards me for not telling them. So I simply just stopped dating. Some people are meant to be in relationships, others aren't. I may just not be made for anybody and I've made my peace with it.
How is the problem NOT him when he basically just admitted to doing the same thing that SOME men essentially accuse many women of, which is basically wasting his youth being a trash person and doing trash things? If you wanted a family earlier, why did you not consider that earlier, the same way many people (unrealistically) expect women to have their entire lives figured out straight out of high school at 18-19 years old (and even 20-24)?
The reason the pressure is on women is biological. But if either men or women want to settle down they need a good record. What kind of woman would want a man who has a history of tossing out women? I think it is about trust in the end for everyone.
Exactly! And its like, dude, you're a f***in multi-millionaire. Just find a single chick who wants to be a stay at home mom and start pumping out kids. It should not be that hard, but instead, he's putting all his time into youtube (from the sounds of it) and intentionally dating career women instead.
@@wikiwoof9590not true. By 45 men’s quality of sperm starts to degrade and by 50 it’s not the best quality. People LOVE to say women have a biological clock but it goes both ways. This is an another case of since men can’t get pregnant we will assume the woman is infertile instead.
@@wikiwoof9590 Correct, sometimes you here dudes on here make fun of women who had trains ran on them, but then I always think what well put together woman wants to date a dude that was running trains on one woman with a bunch of other men in the picture.
I read the study Tim Pool was talking about. It was a study out of Sweden looking at men and women who mostly had political jobs or were CEO's. They found that in traditional marriages with a much younger wife who was responsible for most of the child rearing had a high likelyhood of divorce if they were to get a promotion and out earn their husbands. They didn't find a link between couples with a more even relationship and age difference when the woman got a promotion. So this is likely more culturally specific to Sweden and the jobs/careers they were assessing. Most people probably don't have to worry about this.
Unfortunately, these 2 simpletons are too selfish and illiterate to seriously educate themselves on anything, they just follow their immediate intuition and build reasoning from there. This is one of the reasons why they will never accept a debate on veganism with you.
I see it. It's an age gap thing. If she's bringing the youth and he's bringing the money.... Then if she can get money why does she need his wrinkly butt. So date your age.
His comment still stands and an interesting topic of conversation. A lot of guys out there still think like that, and there’s a lot of them watching his videos I’ve seen the comment sections
As someone in college, I guarantee the vast majority of high-school and college-age girls are dating high-school and college-age guys, not random 30-year old men...I don't know where the internet got this idea.
It’s just a way to justify why they never got any 😂 Just because a couple of college girls date older guy doesn’t mean the majority do. The red pill guys are just projecting what they want to be true. Majority of the college girls during my college years all dated college boys and boys their age.
What's more is the few 30+ guys who do catch the "interest" of a young gal don't realize that they are often the side dude. I heard a lot convos where gals were making fun of the older guys behind their back for allowing themselves to get fleeced by a pretty face. 30-something men are most def considered "old" by the typical 25 & under crowd.
Ive had thinning hair with a balding head for over a decade, and handling it the way tim pool does is the nightmare of insecurity that would destroy my self esteem.
I’ve been with the same woman for 18 years, nearly half my life. We grew up together and have built a life together. No kids, yet. A severe medical issue prevented us from starting our family, but we are starting now. One thing I never hear male or female influencers (supposedly high value partners) say is how they are willing to sacrifice for the other person. Both my wife and I have given up dreams and opportunities, for each other. We decided when we were young that our relationship would be the cornerstone of our lives and everything else would be built on that foundation. There have been rocky spots and tough situations, but the core has held strong. If you are taking advice from someone about relationships and they don’t talk about mutual sacrifice, forgiveness, love, respect, and growth, they are lying to you and want your money. Have standards, have dreams, have desires, but be willing to give and take; and find someone who reciprocates that attitude.
To your last point: Not necessarily. If one partner talks about sacrifice, forgiveness, respect, & compromise, it can often indicate that the person expects it only from you.
This is beautiful and so well written. It's what has kept my parents 30 years now almost. A little introspection plus communication and effort can go a long way.
try @drycreekwranglerschool older cowboy with some great life advice. He and is wife love each other dearly and sometimes talk about treating each other right.
What I find so funny and ironic about these male ‘gurus’ is that they’ll tell single mothers that it’s their fault their partner left them to raise a child on their own because they should’ve picked better men, but when their own relationships don’t work out it’s supposedly ‘not their fault’. No matter what the situation the woman is always to blame 😂
@awesome395 aba and preach pretty much lumped tim pool in the red pill gurus section for some reason i guess. Unless he has a dating show im not aware of?
He spent his 20s hooking up and partying. He was definitely the problem. Men and women who want a family, don’t want to have families with men and women who party and hookup. They’re literally the opposite of each other. This bothers me because I feel like I know what he was trying to get at, but how he explained it was so off😭
Definitely true. I'm a woman who is turned off by guys wirh a high body count/into casual sex. I've tried to ignore the feeling, but I couldn't get past it with previous partners. My current partner is someone who only sleeps with women he's in relationships with and his values around sex and relationships are much more aligned with mine. I respect him much more than previous partners.
Ikr? A major lie red pillers tell men is that they can be as promiscious they want and still land a virgin trad wife in their 40's or whatever, because women dont care about men's sexual past. We absolutely do, and promiscuity is a huge red flag for a woman looking for a man who is responsible and trustworthy.
He has changed though, for example, he no longer surrounds himself with people who will be honest with him & push back on his shitty opinions. I quit paying attention to him after the Shane Cashman/Eliza Bleu stuff. He talked such a big game about journalist integrity. Then lets his main writer go spend a weekend with the subject of his piece & never once bothered to push back or fact check her story. Then when she gets exposed, instead of calling it out, his “journalist” blindly defends her & fails to understand why people don’t want to trust his reporting.
Why did they make this vid? Tim isnt red pill, isnt conservative, and he has a standing relationship. Is it cuz tim called destiny out for L take on the guy that died. Honestly i cant see why critic a person he no longer is.
15:14 I mean the girl I’m talking to tells me consistently she wants to grab a milkshake and hang out so it’s not unrealistic. Again like Aba said, if you spend all your time online you’re gonna just think women only want money and a fast, flashy life. If you go outside and develop some personality and character, women will be down to just hang out and do simple stuff like grabbing a milkshake and talking.
i feel sad for these guys. cuz your actually never gonna find a woman if you think everyone is a miami sugar baby 😂 this is real life, not social media. the women your going to meet are normal with jobs, rent, and real lives
I'm in my mid 30's, have 3 kids and a wife. My wife is a doctor so pretty good career as well so "career driven women" can't be a blanket excuse for why someone hasn't settled down with you. To be fair, I count myself lucky but it annoys me when people act like its every external force and not their own shit that lands them where they're at.
I agree with u because im in the same situation (married/3 kids/mid-30s) but you probably (like I did) met your wife before she had a long term career. I’ve been with mine since before social media became so ubiquitous and mentally toxic. But to be fair, Tim’s point in the video was simply that there **are** external factors that prevent people from staying in a stable long-term relationship. Not that it isn’t ever one’s own fault.
It's harder to date and court a woman nowadays. That was Tim Pool's point. His excuses are valid in today's world though. You see back then women didn't care so much about money and social status but these days with the advent of social media, that is what most women seek after.
@@kennymichaelalanya7134 I think women have always wanted money/men with money (it represents safety, stability, "freedom" etc), the difference is that modern women just have better access to men with money than women 30 years ago did because of the internet and social media 🤷🏾♂️
Yooo, this isn't the flex yall think this is. You guys listened to a 5 year old podcast and he was speaking about the sociopolitical hardships that differ from traditional dating and men and women. Watch the whole video. He has a relationship of 5 years too. This video is severly clipped to change the context of what he was saying.
Nah, last he talked about having long term gf was not too long ago and for about the last year has hinted at trying for kids but doesn't want to reveal more than that.
There’s billions of women in the world. If you can’t pick one good woman, that’s a YOU thing. Just like men tell women to vet/choose better, do the same towards women!
@@PEZ1514no one is. Go to Asia. Problem is grouping all women in the west to be a certain way when u haven’t met them AND never thinking why you keep getting toxic types. It’s dodging accountability and instead thinking it’s a gender thing
@@cgigammez5749can’t generalize a whole gender because you’re common denominator in these relationships 😂Evaluating why u keep running into toxic people helps instead of saying it’s all men or women 😂
@Femtoisbackandbetterwho’s y’all? I’m married and have a husband. I’m getting out the marine corps soon and starting my journey as a sahm and sahw. It’s not my fault, you’re giving women you don’t like energy
Was thinking the same thing, this studio was from years & years ago. And dude wears a beanie because its his gimmick at this point. People call him the beanie man. Its what sets him apart from every other talking head at a glance.
They talk about what they wanna talk. The fact he said ''It's not me, it's everybody else'' is what they are talking about and they developed on that. Who cares if the video is old or not.
@@JennyferPepin Because it's taken out of context for one. He does long format videos, and he poses long hypotheticals often in order to play devil's advocate, ect. It's also from 4 years ago, so his opinions may have changed or become more nuanced. It's a bad faith hit piece on someone just to drive clicks, when he himself has been nothing but cordial to these two goofy lookin drama farmers.
@@Marin3r101 wouldn't call them cowards, they were even in FnF in one moment, the video is more likely to bait more people since sharing the crash and burn of FnF they got a lot of people on their videos...also as one person commented salty at the "redpill" that mocks Destiny.
My brother never married. He had one girlfriend that he was with for years and years and we all loved her and always thought he would marry her. But one day he told us he had left her and it was over. When I asked why he said that they had met when they were both struggling and that now her business had taken off and she was doing amazing while he was still getting nowhere and he couldn't stand the mismatch between them.
@@GodWorksOut Agree, but truth is this is bigger problem for man than woman. Woman are more likely to be proud to be with high status man. However otherwise as a man you feel belittled. Men like to feel that they can provide for family (woman, children) but when they are not main providers (higher earners) they just feel bad. I am a man and I couldn't be with woman who earns more than me. I know that not every man is like that, but most men are.
That is a natural feeling for men. Men have evolved over millions of years being the protector and provider. It is a naturally ingrained disposition. A man who feels unable to do this feels like a failure. It is like a man who fails to sexually please their wife. Many of you seriously downplay evolutionary biology.
your brother either isn't the smartest or he's leaving things out of the story. many men leave when the woman starts disrespecting the man & the disrespect starts when she starts making more. women seem to have an issue controlling their ego when they make more money & also add in hypergamy & women become a nightmare. which is why many men avoid boss babes & career women. because her making more isn't reason enough to leave. if that was the case, most men make more than their women because most women date up.
the average college girl will not leave campus to meet an older man, as a collage aged girl most women here dont feel safe with that. why would you leave campus to meet a stranger online? its not safe, a boy your age who lives close to you is much better, this is selective bias because of course lots of girls do meet those guys but the average young woman who has parents breathing down her back wont do this
I used to be like Mr. Pool over here, I started balding in my early 20s. One day I went bald and kept my beard, some woman saw me and said “you looking good, I like you better without hair” and I’ve been bald permanently ever since
@@TonyRule Tim is the one who is unwilling to compromise. He’s asking the woman to quit their career and he’s unwilling to quit his own. A compromise to this would be if they both agreed to scale back their careers a little. A compromise requires both parties to concede something.
@@HypocritesExposd yeah I mean if he's wanting someone to be a stay at home wife to take care of his children, he has plenty of money to provide so his children get the best lives possible and she doesn't have to work in this crappy eco. That's fine. It's his preference. It won't match up with a lot of women, but there are many women who dream of that and just want to be mom's who it will match up with. That is the pool pardon the pun that he will look at it. He's not forcing someone by slavery to be his wife then she cannot work or follow her dreams. I'm sure he clearly states it in the dating process what he is looking for. You don't have to compromise on ideals perse, you can find people who want the same ideals and that is the trade agreement in form.
@@ishitrealbad3039 he is -minimum. i'm female and can tell you he's objectively attractive. plus he's interesting and intelligent. and he's right - dating apps have messed things up.
This video is a few years old. I like Tim pool's politics I listen to podcasts everyday. Tim has a long-term partner called Alison now. However I do think dating apps are terrible. All my failed relationships happened from dating apps where people can pretend to be someone else. I met my soon to be husband at a new years eve music gig and we have been together 7 years, a house and kids. I gave up my career to be with him and be a mother. I had a fear of marriage for the longest time but something changed after I had my youngest child, I realised I am not leaving this man if he wants to marry me then I will marry him our relationship is happy, healthy and we have been through some of the hardest situations and decisions.
"Tim, it's not women's fault you are single. If all of them reject you, then it's you. YOU are the problem." Tim was a 304 back in the day, by his own admission. Now he wants to settle down and have a family. He sounds like a modern woman who thinks their past doesn't matter or count.
That's a lot of guys though. I spent my 20s in male dominated jobs & watched many guys reject very stable, chill, wife material gals who genuinely liked them for being "boring". They'd go chase the 304s, party chicks & walking red flags they claimed to not want. It totally defied any & all logic. 30s roll around, they're getting divorced because they can't stand the drama anymore or suddenly realizing they are in fact mortal beings who age & their own biological clock is in fact ticking because they don't want to be 40+ with toddlers. They start reaching out to the women they rejected & back burnered hoping they might have a chance. When I got on dating apps, I came across quite a few 35+ guys who expressed regrets for spending a whole decade+ chasing flings & fun times.
He wants loyalty and love he hasn't earned. Money cannot buy these 2 things. In order to have loyalty / love you need to dedicate lots of time to your relationship, and he hasn't put in the time, yet he wants the results. That would be like a dude being rich, expecting to have 6 pack abs, but has dedicated zero time to the gym. Rich dudes are entitled af, just like a lot of modern women.
@@adim00lah But he does have love and loyalty. He’s been in a stable relationship with his girlfriend for over four years with Alison Neubaur. This is common knowledge. This clip they used to dump on him is at least 5 years old. Your analysis is incorrect.
I don't know if it's just an immigrant (they both are Caribbean) thing, but my mom did not care what my dad made and they got married. She wanted someone that would make sure the kids they had together were loved and taken care of, while they both worked, could communicate to each other, have similar interests/values and that's what he did. Even when my mom got sick, he took care of her, us, and still worked.
That's because looks, money and status didn't have anything to do with love back then. Heck my dad was ugly AF but he courted my mom who had green eyes and was a beauty. But love has been replaced with materialism and modernity (low quality values shared by the youth today) nowadays.
@@kennymichaelalanya7134 my friends that are international and my friends raised from international parents are still keeping with it though. It's beautiful and it can still happen. It's all about the environment you choose to be in and I will never settle for less when it comes to what I feel is a pure kind of love. I agree that some people are wanting what you are describing and some seem happy with their outcome. I know I would not though. Imagine having a brain tumor and being drained of all your money and left by them because the person doesn't truly respect or even love you. No thank you. I am super glad my dad stood by my mom when he could have just disappeared and visited us when he felt like it. My mom will be always be the first to say he is the better parent and partner and she's a great mom so that speaks volumes to me.
Hey guys, this video is at least 4 or 5 years old. He has a girlfriend whose hes been with for a couple of years now, and the career woman argument Aba inserted for Tim Pool was kinda crazy. I rewatched that segment to see if Tim Pool said that he and the career woman ended things on bad terms or if he made demands to the career woman about quitting her job and I didnt see the clip at all. You making those statements and inserting that this is what Tim is doing, not knowing if it ended amicably for them both, was disingenous on your part as well categorizing him as conservative. Maybe I missed a clip where he says he's conservative, but hes never classified himself a conservative and is more of a centre-right guy who still has liberal tendencies. Not one of your better videos. Coconuts and Barbados..... That being said
I saw that coverage, and Tim always said it was based on the current indicators and models...there's a difference between a definitive statement of fact vs prediction. You're welcome
I can't belive yall took this that much out of context. When he said "it's not me" he means, "it's not men like me." Meaning, he actually knows how to date outside of apps. He has a serious gf. If you're going to sit and act like dating isn't trash rn idk who you're pandering to.
Because they're pathetic. They said plenty of times that people can change but now they want to act as if Tim Pool didn't change his stance about this... A&p don't want to talk about real problems because it would cause a exit of a huge amount of their audience.
I do understand the point Tim Pool was making (not defending anyone) but he's made a succesful business and money isn't a problem for him. Im pretty sure plenty of women would go after that and if anyone on his position doesn't take extra measures, he can lose everything in an instant.
As a person that works in the mental health area Ive seen many cases around separation and divorce, a lot (if not the majority) of cases of woman getting divorced after getting a promotion or substantial raise, are woman that were already thinking of divorce for a variety of reasons unrelated to their jobs and now find themselves in a position to be economically stable or economically satisfied by themselves. The promotion is not the cause, its a medium to get what they already had been wanting because their relationships werent viable anymore. The problem with many of the studies mentioned in this kind of situations is that people dont understand them. They just read promotion and divorce and they stablish and imply a direct causality that might have never been mentioned in the study. They just skip the explanation on how they do both occur, but its a 3rd or 4th factor that made them happen. So instead of an "A" -> "B" situation, the reality is more of a "Z" -> "B", because "A" existing makes it possible.
So, Time Pool is a dominant alpha who exploited all the dating apps being an awful person and he's surprised he has no family. And the dating apps he used are beneath him, and this is everyone else's fault.
I like that common denominator line because I've been saying that for years. I had failed relationship and as I got older I began realizing I'm the common denominator here. It can't all be their fault. With that realization I actually contacted a couple of them and said "hey I'm sorry for the way I acted when we were together, you weren't crazy, I was tripping" and these are wonderful women I hadn't spoken to in years. I'm in an almost 2 year relationship now and with that knowledge I make compromises, I've learned from my past. It's sad when we don't learn. Whether this relationship works or not I'm good cause I know I'll be even better for the next person.
@@Kingstoncollege7it’s not weird when this is coming off the back of Destiny being blacklisted everywhere for promoting violence. Aba is protecting his bitch
He actually has a girlfriend now and this is an old clip but still has no kids and I don’t think his work schedule is ever going to let have a functioning family
I met my now wife on tinder at the young, “inexperienced” age of 27… I 100% guarantee my wife would never find Tim Pool or anyone like him attractive regardless of how much money he had/has 😂😂😂
@@nonder92 He’s not “wrong.” He simply made a generalization. Women *in general* prefer guys who older/more intellectually mature and have above average socioeconomic status. That’s not rocket science.
@Slayy05a Sure, but the guys in your age bracket are broke… the overall point is that there is a preference for *older* men. I’m not saying Tim Pool is correct in the absolute sense-just in general. Maybe 30 is too old for you and your friends… whatever. That’s also emblematic of the problem with modern dating. Women are selecting men based on feelings and not pragmatism. Instead of selecting for the most successful man, you’re dating men because they are cute and inevitably you breakup or get divorced.
why are Tim Pool fans so weird. It's a topic for discussion, Tim Pool is just a case study and an example of the rhetoric shared by others. Does the fact that he is in a relationship now absolve him of what he said?
@@ravenflare8076 just seems very weird to target him 4 years after he state it. There might be more current and better examples to use atm. The only thing he really said wrong is "I'm not the problem." Everything else was just his talking about the situation and what may have caused it.
Y'all are such snowflakes, Im sure Tim Pool is completely capable of defending himself, Have you ever asked yourselves why you are so happy when people like Tim talk shit and make fun of people on their podcasts, but when the same is done to them all of a sudden you are crying about how unfair it is? its kinda pathetic tbh
Yo, how old is this clip? Are you in a time warp? You’re commenting on the man’s beliefs of years ago. That’s an old studio, old cameras, all irrelevant at this point. If you’d like to talk about what’s going on right now, talk about how he’s built multiple media companies, he has a long-term steady girlfriend, is involved in all kinds of endeavors, he is very well-read in history, and can debate with the best of them. He’s built a lot, and I am actually shocked that you guys are coming at him from this 3-ish years ago angle. I’ve always had respect for your balanced takes on things, but you definitely fumbled this one.
Haha, no. As I said, I’ve usually seen Aba and Preach as good guys with good morals who have good takes on things. They’re fair and call people out for BS objectively, as far as I can tell. This just seems like they’re broadcasting from a different planet, digging up old clips and dumping on them like personal growth and progress isn’t a thing. And when it’s so plainly evident that the dude is just a guy who went from being unsuccessful and ignorant to someone who got smart and had a bunch of life experiences and built multiple successful businesses endeavors, it just seems like a different flavor of Trump Derangement Syndrome. People sometimes can’t see the simple facts straight because they have some kind of hard bias in the way.
I hate when they say every choice women make is a biological thing, as we don't have the ability of making choices depending of our circumstances or beliefs🙄.
I have not heard anyone say that every choice women make is a biological one but I have seen women ignore how biology affects their perceptions more times than I could count.
@@173rdskysoldier9did you not catch it at 15:20? It's pretty much what she's referring to. It's implied, but no one is going to actually say the words "women only make choices based on their biology" (except maybe some idiots like f&f)
@ti20g I did not catch it because I had to mute my audio before then. I would not be surprised if he was prattling on about women being dictated by biology. It is a constant talking point for the "red pill" types... but why? Go back to my previous comment and think about it. There is a reason guys like F&F have an audience and it's not because of something called "The Patriarchy."
@@173rdskysoldier9 of course you didn’t catch it. You sounds quite slow so… that’s why you aren’t in an intellectual profession. The fact that you defend the audience of fresh and fit saying stuff like « I understand where they come from » show that you share the same characteristics as them (delusional, uneducated, anti intellectual, emotional, subjectivism,…)
@@173rdskysoldier9 i was talking about the answer the woman gave as well. Just shows you that this idea is present in a lot of people. It's okay to say some things are our response to biological urges but let's be honest, it's much more complicated than that. it's almost degrading and very surface level to say picking a man is based on our biological urge to reproduce. And f&f.... Welli believe they have an audience because they pray on lonely man who don't know better.
Bro did found a fiance and they try for kids. This video is 4 years old. I'm not sure why react to something that old. Unless you want to do someone dirty for some reason.
Because these guys took the cowards way and joined the UA-cam leftist scene, and part of that is lying about the right non stop. It takes a second of research to see he has a finance he’s been with for years. He’s also had more women on his show that he respects than these guys, but they choose to ignore all that to lie about him
Same nonsense as those "dating gurus/ coaches" that claim running through dating apps for 7 yrs means they know how to handle relationships. "I've been on thousands of first dates..." not a flex. The flex is knowing how to vet & behave well enough to get off the apps in a reasonable time frame.
As soon as a person says "it's not me it's everyone else..." They have IMMEDIATELY singled themselves out as the common denominator. 100% main character syndrome.
Another thing to note is that the video they are using is a 4 years old. A lot changes in the time after and from what is shown Tim is currently in a relationship as of this time. Once more this not favoritism toward Pool, but this again seem disingenuous and taking things out of context. Yet will run defense for destiny and not call him out. Who would drop them if it was expedient for him.
I'm so used to men not being held accountable. That is so mind-blowing that they're so quick to blame women and us. Women, we should hold ourselves accountable to, but the fact that men are so stubborn and prideful. They don't want to be held accountable. It's so baffling, but seeing a couple of men holding a man accountable is like a breath of fresh air to me. We need more of this
Most men are not that good looking and don't have a stable income to compensate, so when they become stable then they think about dating, how do you don't get that?
I don’t see why 30 year olds would seek out someone in their early 20s anyway. I’m 21 and if a 30 year old wanted me I’d see it as a decently sized red flag
Bro same. always go up to mine and give her a big ol kiss for being patient, loving, passionate, caring and communicative. I’m extremely grateful that I’m not in the trenches of dating anymore.
Aba either contradicted or called out himself. He said that anyone who watches the Red pill crap is NOT happy. Then how does Aba break down those same videos without watching them ?
He watching bc it's his job. Search the internet for interesting content to give your opinion about that's all😂 some people are good at some steal and we just watch
@@YML256 Tim not Red Pill, he talked very little about things that align with Red Pill, but he is not Fresh and Fit, he hate hookup culture, he dislikes men like Fresh and Fit, he dislikes those type of podcast Aba and Preach painted Tim as another Red Pill players sleeping around with women and telling men to get rich when he not, and if I could I would down vote this video for it
Dating apps junk these days and I’m 37 with no kids. But also, I’m gay and most gay most in 2024 seem like the modern woman, according to media. Glad I’m not married. Been working on me and my finances. Couldn’t be happier. Buying my first house soon. 👏🏽👏🏽
what is the problem with that? does the fact that he said it 3 years ago somehow mean he didn't say it? or are we saying its unethical to look back at events from the past?
@@ravenflare8076 Nah just it feels weak to criticize the guy as if he still believes this or hasn't changed at all despite it being a 4-5+ year old clip and shortly after said clip he entered and is still in said long-term relationship. it be like me saying I don't like dogs/ cats, then shortly after I get one, and then years later you try and bring up to me a old clip of me saying I didn't like them, Yah....well it's been 4 years and my opinion has obviously changed so....I don't see why you're flaming me exactly on an old opinion?
@@ravenflare8076 It's irrelevant and maybe he did run through women on tinder, you don't know. Your just assuming this based off his looks and the way he talks, especially with that goofy pic of his in the thumbnail. They cannot produce any content with some actual substance so they have to attack other online personalities. Grow the hell up. If you want to talk about modern dating trends between men and women then do it. You don't need to drag other people into your drama..
@@ravenflare8076Unless it’s a comedy video or some type of meme, it’s very unusual for A&P to react to old videos. This video is from 2019 or 2020 and Tim has a girlfriend now and they may or may not be going through fertility issues. It’s just weird that they would out of nowhere focus on this video in particular when there’s a thousand other things that are recent they could’ve made a video about.
They've been on a grifting arc for a while now. If you asked Timmy if he was red pill, he would say no. Then they tried to conflate pick up artists with tim. Tim has never tried to sell scam stuff like that, afaik
Aba I normaly agree woth yoy, but this is entirely out of context. Yes he did say this, but almost 4 years ago. The man is I think married now and he might have changed his mind since. I find this pretty dishonest
I never understood the red pill stuff. I've always been pretty broke but never had trouble dating. These guys are just straight up telling you that they have no idea how to talk to women.
@Femtoisbackandbetter I'm like average in looks. Not ugly but not super attractive either. I'm like 5'10" or so. So not tall but not particularly short. I just never had a problem talking to women. I think a lot of these dudes just start yammering on about whatever obsession they currently have like a little kid. If you walk up to a girl and start talking at her about Star wars you probably don't have much of a chance.
@@vortex_1336 Not what he said tho. He has been dating, he literally has a girlfriend for years now. He is talking abt the men that don't get woman. IDK how you ppl have never met that nice guy who has a good job, good looks, but is really bad with woman, that's the men he is talking abt. They are introverts, women don't usually date them, and now saying that, is somehow seen as evil or automatically makes you a red pill or some sexist insecure person.
@@vortex_1336 some girls out there would even be into star wars lol. I met my wife because I was reading a fishing magazine at a barnes and noble and she thought it was funny how obsessed I was with the different color of lures. Our first date was a fishing trip and now we go kayak fishing together every week. Point is, even if you have a weird hobby or obsession I bet you there is still someone out there for you.
It’s just a grift to extract money from insecure men, make them even more insecure and take even more of their money. It’s basic sales: define a “problem” and sell a “solution.”
I’m not a career woman. I’m a woman with a career because I need food and shelter. Men don’t get called ‘career men’. We’re all humans just trying to survive.
Yup. We are just adult with jobs. Ain't nobody feeding me for free, saddly.
@@rbguerreiro2466 exactly. Most of us would enjoy not working if we had a choice. But we don’t.
Yes, many of those super red pillers make it sound like women went into the job market, after the housewife eras, because feminism told us to...its the fricking cost of living that told us to, cause you cant afford a nice home, a car and kids with one average income now like you could back then. If my man comes home and says he will make a million every year from now on, I will put on my petticoat and stepford-wife the ish out of my life, if it means I never have to face the bs at work again.
So you’re a Career Woman is what you’ve just told us.
Gosh, women eh lads? 😂❤
men dont get called that, because men and women are different. shocking, i know.
let a woman come to me with some 'I make more than you quit your job' nonsense because imma quit right that second. where the sugar mommas
Drizzle drizzle
Always tough to see other people turn down your dream
Secure the bag king!
LMAO 😂😂😂
Maybe it’s just me, but I would like myself a independent woman who only wants me not needs me so if we eventually get married and I get into a accident and I can’t work she could hold it down and vice versa
"Because guys like me have dominated dating apps the entire time" - said Tim Pool, to the belief of no-one.
Baby boy missed your Red Pill vid.
Turns over 7 figures figures a year?
He's rich. Not hard to believe
@@armondtanz successful and still getting curved is crazy, which means that it IS absolutely him 😂😂😂.
😂😂😂😂😂
As a woman, I’ve NEVER wanted a 30 something year old man when I was 19-21. I knew they had to be weird to like me.
IF it's a 45 year old rich and handsome dude i bet you would date him in a heart beat. just look at Leonardo Dicaprio and Johnny Depp, they have no difficulty whatsoever in getting Girls
I always wanted a daddy
@@mikhailabdurrachman2443ew.
They attract gold diggers or women who are seeking fame and attention. Not genuine love or care. Big difference. Me personally would never date an old guy because I'm just not attracted to them, simple. I grew up with a father figure no need for no old man's attention. Eww 😂
@squashbits it's a proven fact. In the real world there ARE guys above 40 that CAN get laid with multiple chicks because they tall and handsome
I'm just happy to hear that, as a 30 year old guy with a Civic, it's finally my time
God speed
Those Civics are good, reliable vehicles, and practicality is attractive. Better than some dudebro who pisses his money away on a car whose sole functionality is as eye candy and social one-upsmanship.
😂😂
37, with a beat-up '09 Ford Focus... The point A to B sounds scared when it starts. But I used to have to Bike to Work, so IDC what it looks like, she gets me where I need to be.
Light up the sky young phoenix.
Tim pool probably closes his eyes when he changes beenies 😂
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ouch
That’s savage lol lol
I laughed so loud when I read this, I can picture it now.
Really you think he fence sits?
These unmarried men, with a history of unstable relationships, giving advice about stable relationships and marriage are hilarious. If you can't lead by example, you better be prepared for some well deserved pushback.
They are hypocrites.
He turns over 7 figures a year and has a g/f who hes been dating for years...
He has to work hard for his money, he cant be having a clingy or demanding girl constantly complaining. Hes doing the right thing.
@@armondtanz yea. Tim said his girl does stuff for him and cooks for him. He said she's not a headache. He said she's doing naturally feminine things. That's good. Correct me if my memory is wrong.
This is Tim 5 years ago. He has been with the same woman since just after this interview. Alison Neubauer
That flips both ways though. "Oh you're successful? Why would I listen to your advice, you don't know the struggle and you have survivor bias." "Oh you're unsuccessful? Why would I listen to your advice, you clearly don't know how to succeed." Like a magic trick: now you can ignore all advice from anyone ever.
My husband is always telling me I should go for a promotion to make more money but whenever I take on work projects that require extra time and attention, then he is always telling me I work too much and need to stop what I’m doing and come have dinner or spend time with him. Like, what do you think it’s going to be like if I ALWAYS have the extra responsibilities that come with a promotion???
well you should talk to him
The issue is multi factorial if does what you are saying then the issue is you’re not around but if he doesent support you then you’re gonna say you’re strong and independent and chasing your career or he is holding you back
@@justinsmith9851 If I remember correctly, I think I made this comment in response to something Aba and/or Preach said about why they think relationships are more likely to end after the woman gets a promotion. If you just watched this video you’ll probably have a better idea than me right now what that was.
My point was more to say that, sometimes, what stresses the relationship after a promotion is just the fact of having to divide more attention away from home-life and husband.
Mine, for example, likes the idea of me earning more money in theory, but, I know from experience, he doesn’t actually like it in reality when I periodically put more time and effort into work, even though that leads to bigger bonuses. If I got a promotion I would have to be doing that much more ALL the time because there’s no promotions available that would lead to me making more money in the same amount of hours. I guess that might not be the case in other companies, though.
@@justinsmith9851 But he asked her to get the promotion. She should communicate that there are extra responsibilities that come with the promotion and he should be able to understand that because HE brought it on. He was okay with it. Sometimes you can't have your cake and eat it too.
Not a millionaire, still married to a good woman.
There are definitely gold diggers out there, but there are a lot of other types of people too, and women are people.
And women come in the billions. Always makes me laugh when people have had a dozen experiences and suddenly think they know the other 5 billions.
I'd argue that being a high functioning multi millionaire would make any meaningful personal relationship difficult.
@@Dice-Ztrue but the issue here is materialism and modernity (low quality values that are shared by the Youth) is what's ruining relationships and destroying couples. Hence, why so many people are single and avoiding marriage. Tim Pool has a point and you know he's unto something when a vast majority of "wealthy women" are starting to become more and more single. (The higher the income, the higher chance she is single)
@@davagevorriose8046 the exception doesn't change the reality of the rule being a rule based on consistency.
Meanwhile there's me, who only wants a partner who treats me well and is emotionally mature, and who will not judge me based on my autism and other things. I don't have very high standards I know... But the fact that not many people can even live up to my very low standards says alot. I rather be single and friendless then ever letting another abusive asshat into my life. Too many bullies, too many self centered idiots. And the funny thing is, that I have gotten myself some good friends who treat me well only after I raised my standards. I used to have zero standards back in the day, I wanted to be friends with everyone because I thought I had to beg for love. I refuse to beg for scraps anymore, I deserve so much more then that. If I get any sense that you are shallow and judgemental you are a not someone I can ever hang out with. Too many idiots who think that depression is a myth, and that if you can't work due to shitty mental health that you are just faking it because you are lazy. I realize now that I vibe the best with people who have life experience with mental health like me, anyone who has had an easy life often will not understand at all... If I ever want to start dating again I think the easiest way to weed out idiots is to ask them what their thoughts are about depression, crippling anxiety and mental health in general honestly. Even if I someday beat depression and have a successfull life I will never forget the hell I was in for 15 years. That experience will stay with me forever and it has shaped me as a person in so many ways.
My last relationship actually ended because I accepted a role that doubled my salary and moved me closer to him. He said it was something we should've discussed and said he felt disrespected. I pointed out that not only did my income increase which helps us both, but I now live driving distance to him which should help the relationship as well. He eventually said he can't be with someone who out works him, which is crazy to me. He disagreed with everything I said and was an azzhole more and more until I just decided to walk away from him.
Smart choice on your part.
... So you're single? 👀
Being unhappy with your success is a big red flag
Foolish man.
Who are these guys? Majority of women I dated made more money than me (when you factor in child support) and I never cared. In my opinion unless you’re married or engaged they shouldn’t even know how much you make.
There's tons of average looking men with average jobs with a wife and kids in their 30s. These people honestly think it's impossible despite there being so many people proving that it isn't.
That's literally majority of people. Idk where they get these ideas from. Most people are still getting married and having kids, in their 20s AND 30s. My man is 31 and I'm 27 and we just had our 1st son. He's not rich and neither am I, but we are happy.
Right?! "It's the triple six standard"... the evidence to that's false exists everywhere! "Gold diggers..." the vaaast majority of men won't ever come across a gold digger in real life because they're not going anywhere near average men. Like being afraid a shark is going to eat you while wandering through the desert.
@@TheIndigoLion The dream!
It's only impossible because their expectations are unrealistic. They all want to be millionaires married to women who look like pron stars.
I mean that's pretty anecdotal. You really need to look at statistics with this kind of stuff. The age of women having children is getting older and older. Nearly half of all 30 year old women don't have a kid. It's their choice to do whatever they want with their lives, but it is still a discussion to be had. The rate of single mothers is higher than it's ever been, complete families are becoming less and less common. Sure it is still possible to do, just not an easy thing to do anymore. There's a lot of mental illness now days and a large demographic of people are medicated.
Guys, this is a terrible take from y'all. Several problems
1) This clip is 4 if not 5 years old and from the very beginning of when he started his long-form discussion podcast, very outdated.
2) Tim's not one of the red-pill dating dating bros. He talks politics and what's relevant to that.
3) He's not single today. He's been w/his SO for 3 or 4 years now.
4) the clip you played is part of a greater conversation about the increasing rift of the day-to-day life values people of differing political opinions have and how that affects who is willing to date whom.
I listen to Tim regularly and disagree w/half the crap he says. But i listen bc i find him honest and keeps me out of echo chambers. Come on, you can do better.
Agreed
Alison moved in during te summer of 2020, so thus has got to be five years old.
Agreed
Honest? Are you joking? The man will literally pull up articles, make a crap guess of what it will say, and if it doesn't say that, he closes it! He just claimed "I denounced the death penalty when Lara Loom suggested it, I don't agree with it. So Kamala HQ defamed me. blahblahblah" Well if you go to his Rumble clip of that episode, you will learn that he is full of crap. He was just scared to break TOS on UA-cam so they didn't post those parts on here.
Also, do you realize a report just came out how he (& other right-leaning commentators) has been being paid by Russian operatives to make videos promoting a civil war, right?
@CassilovesMocha ok, 3 things
1) do you only watch soundbites that are purposefully short and exclude details to conversations? Because if you didn't, you would know Tim has said multiple times through the years that he can't support the death penalty for anyone because he has lost that much trust in the justice system. Loomer said she wanted capital punishment for the people in question, not Tim.
2) "Tim makes a guess on what an article says and closes them if they don't say that." So what your saying is he tries to look up certain articles he's read in real time but sometimes can't find them, so he moves along to not waste everyone's time during a real, in-the-moment conversation? Wow, shame on him for not being a perfect encyclopedia with photo-idedic memory.
3) foreign investors into TENET media...............and? Is it their job to find Russian spies? No. Are we going to target CNN, NBC, ABC, CBS, NYT, Google, etc now for being funded and influenced by foreign nationals? No, hm. Why is Russia still an evil boogeyman? Didn't the Soviet Union collapse 30 years ago? I thought George Bush was evil for war-profiteering. I don't care that 2 Russians secretly gave them millions for what they say. We shouldn't be funding the war in Ukraine to line the pockets of Raytheon, Lockheed, etc. "Lauren Chen criticizing Trump helps Putin." So? It is her right to criticize anyone whom she disagrees with. And criticizing 1 person you don't like sometimes helps abother person you don't like. That's life.
One thing my dad always said to me was, "When it feels like it might be everyone but you, *you* are the common denominator."
The entire world seems crazy. Is it just me or everyone else that thinks men can be women?
That makes no sense, how are you the common denominator if you're the odd one out. My dad always says, the nail that sticks out gets hammered.
He found a gf and has been with her for years now. This is a clip from a very old video. Maybe he felt like the odd one out but shortly after found his current gf so it doesn't really matter anymore.
@@mehakverma7043 he basically said conform or you're the bad guy and bases all his life experiences on that. only dead fish follow the stream.
Cept that don’t really make sense.
Don’t be silly now! Tim Pool doesn’t wear a beanie to bed, he wears a silk nightcap
BRO STAWp he don't know about that secret 😂
He still reaches more people than you… ☕️
😂😂😂😂😂😂
I want to see him with a durag
@@viscose808he can reach everyone, but women apparently xD
Honestly, I don't think I can believe that Tim dominated any dating environment anywhere ever.
@Femtoisbackandbetter obvs not as much as you think. He would have a family and wife by now if it was that
@Femtoisbackandbetter Now, but he was saying when he was in high school. No hate he built an empire but they were talking about before that.
@Femtoisbackandbetter he is not attractive though
@Femtoisbackandbetter don't worry you'll get laid someday lil buddy
@@MaisPriv Some women don’t want men, they want money
Imagine digging up a video to hate on something dumb Tim Pool said four years ago but you can't hold destiny accountable for celebrating the death of an innocent man THIS year.
EXACTLY
Yeah, it’s pathetic.
At this point I imagine Aba and Destiny put on matching frilly panties when they get together. Such a disappointment.
Wait, this was FOUR years ago? Why are they trying so hard?!
Tim got paid by the Russians
8:29 Tim Pool is having the very issue Red Pill grifters claim older women have. He focused on his career instead of becoming attractive to a family oriented woman and now he can’t find one
Nope. He's rich! He can easily find a wife. Try again dummy.
He admitted that he finds himself drawn towards those successful, independent career-focused women, but is apparently shocked when they don't want to quit their jobs to become dutiful, family-oriented housewives. So instead of going after women who are already have a desire for that life, he wants to bag a career woman and try to change her into what he expects her to be.
But sure... the problem is everyone else, not him.
@@AngryReptileKeeper Because driven women aren't leeches... I think that's what makes them appealing to him. Whereas the alternative sees him as a meal and Gucci ticket.
@@DullestStar9299Driven women are just as greedy. They're the kind to make 500k a year and still want the man to pay for everything
@@AngryReptileKeeper Because it's not about having a stay at home wife. It's about bragging how he broke and molded a career woman to his liking. It's all about power.
As a woman who wouldn't mind the stay-at-home life and has been offered the stay-at-home life, in my experience, the type of guys that are offering are guys who want absolute control and would abuse that control if we ever had differences. And that's not a position anyone in their right mind would want to find themselves in.
It's unfortunately so common that every time I hear a man say he wants a stay-at-home wife, it's a massive red flag. There's a reason why the term "stay-at-home wife to broke single mom pipeline" became a thing.
I don't think it's wise for _anyone_ to put themselves in a position where their ability to eat and keep a roof over their head is contingent on how their spouse feels about them. I've watched that sort of financial dependency ruin far too many people's lives.
I did the SAHM thing for a few yrs with my ex. Never again. I loved being able to be there with my son, but the person my ex turned into after almost a decade together was not worth dealing with.
Your sample of men is skewed
This!!!!!!!
As a man who was offered and took it from a woman my experience the single time it happened to me she had the same personal traits you described. Had a reason why we couldn't hang out with my family or any friends I made before we met. Completely isolated me. I'm glad I went through the experience. I learned a lot of red flags. I haven't been with a controlling jealous partner since. Now that I'm older, I have no time for a toxic relationship.
Man wants a liberal woman with conservative values
Don't we all lol
The sad part is that they exist, but they don’t even want him.
@@kenseihaup This clip is like 5 years old and Tim has since been in a stable relationship for like 4 years now and they trying to have a family... so yeah it worked out for him.
@@goosejohnson3197
"Trying to have a family"
"Worked out well"
They call this counting your chickens before they hatch😂
It hasn't worked out well until he has his children and a wife and sustains it.
4 years is a long time. At that point they should get fertility checks
is that a flip on a saying which is something like Women want a conservative man with liberal values, or am i imagining that?
this seems like a hit piece, y'all have fans of tims as some of your base, this is very disingenuous, must've really had nothing else to shit all over. im unsubbed, pretty dirty to pull shit from this long ago to start beef with somebody who's done far far more good for culture and politics the last few years then you ever have. gl y'all, no bad blood
And don’t forget they did a video on Asmongold, of all people. They definitely share a similar audience. Seems real petty and unnecessary.
Definitely a hit piece. It’s a super old video and Tim’s has a gf for years now.
Good riddance lol they take shots at EVERYONE, they don’t give af about the fanbases. Cos that’s how you give OBJECTIVE CRITICISM, something that clearly bothers you.
Go on to your echo chambers and think tank, promise you they won’t even notice your unsub 😂
@@Werewolf.with.Internet.Access LMAO. Gay
@@Werewolf.with.Internet.Access dude, they had to find a 5 year old video to attack him on something. They were fishing for something.
Its everybody else that stinks! Not me who hasn't showered in months!
Do you know that beanie hasn’t been cleaned either because he’s always wearing it. When does it ever get the chance to be cleansed?
Men who hasn’t showered in weeks, spends time moaning about women, doesn’t care to take careful of themselves: “Why aren’t women just banging down my door?”
Ok AsmondGold
"you know, by day 10, you stop getting dirty really, you hit a plateau"'
-negromancer asmongold
@@guccimane3731that’s his durag
10:52 personal story here: roughly 4 years ago i thought i would never find anyone because i was short, like short-short (5'2) and overweight. High school me was knee-deep in this rhetoric and was always depressed about all this, but after highschool and some introspection, i realized that why should i care so much for my flaws as they made me a better person overall, also was a literal filter for all the shallow people in my life. I now have had over 3 partners and have been dating my gf for 1 1/2 years now. Don't let your flaws control you for you will become them. Stand tall kings, queens and in betweens.
You can be short but you best get muscles, mind and money lol. You get one problem not two.
That's one hell of a phrase, 'kings, queens and in betweens'. I'm stealing that.
Nevertheless, I'm happy that things are now going good for you, things may turn upside down, but keep on living and thriving like you are now.
Ooo, that last part rhymes!
My shoe size is UK8/US10, I’m not embracing anything
@@spicyeyedrops237 it's part of the problem. everyone is a king or queen now. remember when people who did shit things were just shitty? they look at these posts and tell themselves "it can't be me, i'm a king/queen!". This very post is the reason this goofy ahh dude is who he is
I’m 35 no family no woman. It’s my fault and I know it. The fact grown men are still blaming everyone else is one of the reasons you are the problem.
Are you a multimillionaire
Not to old to make a change
Don't give up!
how’d you end up like that breh
Facts same
I legit hope I’m wrong but this feels like a hit piece. This video that y’all got was from 4 years ago. The guy has a wife and is trying to have a kid now. Which means clearly whatever was keeping him from getting that relationship is gone and he might’ve fixed himself. So why bring up old laundry? Please tell me I’m wrong and just over exaggerating here.
You aren’t wrong.
Simp
Fr Aba and preach rlly reaching n weird rn
Definitely a hit piece
@@Max4Z simp
Did Tim dirty with that pic 😂
He did himself dirty by not going full bald💀
"Hatfish"!😂
No they didn't. Tims a nazi.
He did. He posted a front facing picture
Holy shit, that's him? God damn.
Dude thinks the problem is not him is one thing. But man, he has that beanie glued to his head. Just shave it bro. It’s not that serious.😂
That's crazy😂
Maybe it’s cold in the studio 😂
Hes delulu bro no h0es are chasing him 😂
Bro is BAWWWWLD
He posted that bald photo of himself. He's already addressed his....
I've seen so many of my girl friends date legitimate bums. Moving them into their house, gf buys them consoles and games. Buying them shoes and hats like it's Christmas. The internet men who truly believe every single women in America desires a man who's +6ft, 200k salary and handsome is delusional.
Handsome bums
@@narutouzumaki2157 I mean don't we all date who we're attracted to?
They want either or. Good looking futon dic, vs guys who gotta pay.
It’s complete cope. The issue with these dudes is their personality and vibe. Their egos are too fragile to face the reality that they need to work on themselves. Rule number one is to not give a woman a reason to feel like something is off about you.
I agree and disagree. But, I believe I am a complete outlier at the same time so my 'story' will not apply to everybody else.
Summed up: I was born with a birth defect. Nothing I can do about it, not a victim either. Has to work myself into the ground to get to where I am at today making good money, a lot of life lessons during my life etc. Back in my late teens to mid 20s, women didn't care about my birth defect. They enjoyed my personality even though I didn't have my life together at this point.
Fast forward with social media boom, TikTok trends, these dating 'influencers' etc. I might as well be on the island of broken toys with dating. Even with me having my life together, being the man I am, as soon as a women sees or finds out about my birth defect. That's a wrap. I can check 5,6,7 boxes out of 10 boxes, but that's all for nothing once they find out. There's nothing I can do about it either, I either say something upfront and it's deemed self conscious or I say nothing and have women act horrible towards me for not telling them.
So I simply just stopped dating. Some people are meant to be in relationships, others aren't. I may just not be made for anybody and I've made my peace with it.
tim pool is in a longterm relationship with a woman for 3 years i think...
Even longer…I remember Adam said she moved in during the summer if 2020.
🎀I thought they were engaged?🎀
Tim, stop posting this on your alt accounts, we definitely believe youre in a relationship 🙄
@@Austii42 lol..🤣🤣
And he still cant put the ring on her finger?😂
How is the problem NOT him when he basically just admitted to doing the same thing that SOME men essentially accuse many women of, which is basically wasting his youth being a trash person and doing trash things? If you wanted a family earlier, why did you not consider that earlier, the same way many people (unrealistically) expect women to have their entire lives figured out straight out of high school at 18-19 years old (and even 20-24)?
Because people like Tim have one standard for themselves, while holding everyone else to a totally different, often completely unreasonable standard.
The reason the pressure is on women is biological. But if either men or women want to settle down they need a good record. What kind of woman would want a man who has a history of tossing out women? I think it is about trust in the end for everyone.
Exactly! And its like, dude, you're a f***in multi-millionaire. Just find a single chick who wants to be a stay at home mom and start pumping out kids. It should not be that hard, but instead, he's putting all his time into youtube (from the sounds of it) and intentionally dating career women instead.
@@wikiwoof9590not true. By 45 men’s quality of sperm starts to degrade and by 50 it’s not the best quality. People LOVE to say women have a biological clock but it goes both ways. This is an another case of since men can’t get pregnant we will assume the woman is infertile instead.
@@wikiwoof9590 Correct, sometimes you here dudes on here make fun of women who had trains ran on them, but then I always think what well put together woman wants to date a dude that was running trains on one woman with a bunch of other men in the picture.
I read the study Tim Pool was talking about. It was a study out of Sweden looking at men and women who mostly had political jobs or were CEO's. They found that in traditional marriages with a much younger wife who was responsible for most of the child rearing had a high likelyhood of divorce if they were to get a promotion and out earn their husbands. They didn't find a link between couples with a more even relationship and age difference when the woman got a promotion. So this is likely more culturally specific to Sweden and the jobs/careers they were assessing. Most people probably don't have to worry about this.
Unfortunately, these 2 simpletons are too selfish and illiterate to seriously educate themselves on anything, they just follow their immediate intuition and build reasoning from there. This is one of the reasons why they will never accept a debate on veganism with you.
Interesting stuff, thanks for pointing this out VG.
GradeA destroyed you
I see it. It's an age gap thing.
If she's bringing the youth and he's bringing the money.... Then if she can get money why does she need his wrinkly butt.
So date your age.
@@piggysew797gradeaunderA? Haven't heard that name in years if that's who you are referring to?
Tim Pool without a beanie looks like a middle school substitute teacher who who moonlights as a magician.
Timothy the Terrific 🪄🎩
Nah, Tim Pool without the beanie looks like either a magician who is also a gRapist or a gRapist who also does magic
This is so specific 😂
@@liveesunflowerit really is. I pictured it in my head and laughed
“And now for my next trick, I will pull a wife out of my hat”
He’s 38 now with a girlfriend. Why are we watching old shit?
His comment still stands and an interesting topic of conversation. A lot of guys out there still think like that, and there’s a lot of them watching his videos I’ve seen the comment sections
As someone in college, I guarantee the vast majority of high-school and college-age girls are dating high-school and college-age guys, not random 30-year old men...I don't know where the internet got this idea.
Lol, u def have a lot of life to live! Bless your heart.
It’s just a way to justify why they never got any 😂
Just because a couple of college girls date older guy doesn’t mean the majority do. The red pill guys are just projecting what they want to be true. Majority of the college girls during my college years all dated college boys and boys their age.
Seriously. No young woman takes men their age seriously at all.
@@KidFromQueens mah they r right.. Most of my friends are dating people their age. I . Maybe some of them but majority of them? Nahh
What's more is the few 30+ guys who do catch the "interest" of a young gal don't realize that they are often the side dude. I heard a lot convos where gals were making fun of the older guys behind their back for allowing themselves to get fleeced by a pretty face. 30-something men are most def considered "old" by the typical 25 & under crowd.
Ive had thinning hair with a balding head for over a decade, and handling it the way tim pool does is the nightmare of insecurity that would destroy my self esteem.
It’s kinda like make-up for men, hiding the baldness😂
@@ReggSess haha, no doubt. Though make up doesn't always scream 'sad and insecure' like the beanie do
True that. I'm the same, I don't wear any headwear. No hats, no beanies, no nothing. Just own it.
@@adamlarussa5243I wear hats only when I'm in direct sunlight. Anywhere else, I own my shit
@@adamlarussa5243 Exactly. Give that scalp some sun Tim, it's dying under that beanie.
I’ve been with the same woman for 18 years, nearly half my life. We grew up together and have built a life together. No kids, yet. A severe medical issue prevented us from starting our family, but we are starting now. One thing I never hear male or female influencers (supposedly high value partners) say is how they are willing to sacrifice for the other person. Both my wife and I have given up dreams and opportunities, for each other. We decided when we were young that our relationship would be the cornerstone of our lives and everything else would be built on that foundation. There have been rocky spots and tough situations, but the core has held strong. If you are taking advice from someone about relationships and they don’t talk about mutual sacrifice, forgiveness, love, respect, and growth, they are lying to you and want your money. Have standards, have dreams, have desires, but be willing to give and take; and find someone who reciprocates that attitude.
Aba throw that vest away my man lol
This was so well said. Exactly.
To your last point: Not necessarily. If one partner talks about sacrifice, forgiveness, respect, & compromise, it can often indicate that the person expects it only from you.
This is beautiful and so well written. It's what has kept my parents 30 years now almost. A little introspection plus communication and effort can go a long way.
try @drycreekwranglerschool older cowboy with some great life advice. He and is wife love each other dearly and sometimes talk about treating each other right.
I think the video you guys are commenting on is 4 years old.. guy is 38 and in this video he says he is 34..
What woman wouldn’t want a guy in his late 30s who wears a beanie everywhere who fencesits about everything?
That doesn't define a person
Is 33 almost 34 late 30s? Damn.
@@PepeToTheMooon who isn’t attracted to somebody who always wears a beanie and still thinks it’s cool to skateboard
@@SeventyVellelegit, dude probably thinks 40 is the new 50 lol
and is like 5'4
What I find so funny and ironic about these male ‘gurus’ is that they’ll tell single mothers that it’s their fault their partner left them to raise a child on their own because they should’ve picked better men, but when their own relationships don’t work out it’s supposedly ‘not their fault’. No matter what the situation the woman is always to blame 😂
How does this apply to this current video with Tim Pool though?
@awesome395 aba and preach pretty much lumped tim pool in the red pill gurus section for some reason i guess. Unless he has a dating show im not aware of?
@@TheJadedSimmer I guess we both blame each other
@yualwayscmecommenting3074 But Tim doesn't believe in any of this. I'm starting to realise an echo chamber in here lol
So they are saying that Timmy Pool is a red pill influencer now lol...
Aba and preach are turning into what they claim to think is goofy
He spent his 20s hooking up and partying. He was definitely the problem. Men and women who want a family, don’t want to have families with men and women who party and hookup. They’re literally the opposite of each other. This bothers me because I feel like I know what he was trying to get at, but how he explained it was so off😭
Definitely true. I'm a woman who is turned off by guys wirh a high body count/into casual sex. I've tried to ignore the feeling, but I couldn't get past it with previous partners. My current partner is someone who only sleeps with women he's in relationships with and his values around sex and relationships are much more aligned with mine. I respect him much more than previous partners.
@@SurvivingOutHere I’ve never listened to Tim pool, but he’s definitely an incel, if this is how he thinks.
Ikr? A major lie red pillers tell men is that they can be as promiscious they want and still land a virgin trad wife in their 40's or whatever, because women dont care about men's sexual past. We absolutely do, and promiscuity is a huge red flag for a woman looking for a man who is responsible and trustworthy.
@@SurvivingOutHere good for you, I'm the same.
The past is everything to me, even medical past.
@@SurvivingOutHere That's interesting. Your text implies you have a higher partner count than he does, is that right?
Digging all the way back to 2020 huh?
He's got a girl and trying to have kid's in a real family.
This is very disingenuous fellas
"Miserable people go online looking for answers", was such a bar. I could relate back in 2018 when I was in to the red pill stuff 😅
"I was arrogant, cocky, you know, awful person." You haven't changed, Tim. All that money and attention has gone to your head.
Dude never stopped being arrogant, cocky and awful.
He has changed though, for example, he no longer surrounds himself with people who will be honest with him & push back on his shitty opinions.
I quit paying attention to him after the Shane Cashman/Eliza Bleu stuff. He talked such a big game about journalist integrity. Then lets his main writer go spend a weekend with the subject of his piece & never once bothered to push back or fact check her story. Then when she gets exposed, instead of calling it out, his “journalist” blindly defends her & fails to understand why people don’t want to trust his reporting.
lol, I was thinking that too.
Like "What do you mean "Was", Tim? You're still a cocky prick"
Once a dork always a dork. No amount of money changes that
Why did they make this vid? Tim isnt red pill, isnt conservative, and he has a standing relationship. Is it cuz tim called destiny out for L take on the guy that died. Honestly i cant see why critic a person he no longer is.
I lost respect for them when they defended Destiny, they got low standards for friends.
When Aba and Preach are biased on something they make a ton of mistakes.
15:14 I mean the girl I’m talking to tells me consistently she wants to grab a milkshake and hang out so it’s not unrealistic. Again like Aba said, if you spend all your time online you’re gonna just think women only want money and a fast, flashy life. If you go outside and develop some personality and character, women will be down to just hang out and do simple stuff like grabbing a milkshake and talking.
i feel sad for these guys. cuz your actually never gonna find a woman if you think everyone is a miami sugar baby 😂 this is real life, not social media. the women your going to meet are normal with jobs, rent, and real lives
I'm in my mid 30's, have 3 kids and a wife. My wife is a doctor so pretty good career as well so "career driven women" can't be a blanket excuse for why someone hasn't settled down with you. To be fair, I count myself lucky but it annoys me when people act like its every external force and not their own shit that lands them where they're at.
I agree with u because im in the same situation (married/3 kids/mid-30s) but you probably (like I did) met your wife before she had a long term career. I’ve been with mine since before social media became so ubiquitous and mentally toxic. But to be fair, Tim’s point in the video was simply that there **are** external factors that prevent people from staying in a stable long-term relationship. Not that it isn’t ever one’s own fault.
It's harder to date and court a woman nowadays. That was Tim Pool's point. His excuses are valid in today's world though. You see back then women didn't care so much about money and social status but these days with the advent of social media, that is what most women seek after.
@@kennymichaelalanya7134 I think women have always wanted money/men with money (it represents safety, stability, "freedom" etc), the difference is that modern women just have better access to men with money than women 30 years ago did because of the internet and social media 🤷🏾♂️
Tim Pool: *" It's definitely not me. It's everyone else."*
Yeah, it's gotta be that damn beanie then.
maybe it's too tight and cutting off the circulation to his brain 😭
It probably smells like expired goat milk. 😂
Tim’s been in a relationship for 4 years. This clip is really old.
Yooo, this isn't the flex yall think this is. You guys listened to a 5 year old podcast and he was speaking about the sociopolitical hardships that differ from traditional dating and men and women. Watch the whole video. He has a relationship of 5 years too.
This video is severly clipped to change the context of what he was saying.
I like how Aba went through with the biker aesthetic after that vid from a couple of weeks ago lol
😂😂
Bro that have that "Wild Hogs" movie vibes 😂
Which ines aba
@@jonyboyblackpaisathe smaller one, on the right
He even working on that handlebar, clearly.
This is an older clip cause he’s like 39 now but still, nothing has really changed at all. He probably still thinks he’s not the problem.
Nah, last he talked about having long term gf was not too long ago and for about the last year has hinted at trying for kids but doesn't want to reveal more than that.
HE'S THE PRIZE lol
Lol... Thanks, thought the same when I heard his age
Dude he has a fiancé and she works at his company
@@bigboxxxthat's the irony. He makes fun of women online who don't have kids. Yet he's way past the age and hasn't even started with kids.
There’s billions of women in the world. If you can’t pick one good woman, that’s a YOU thing. Just like men tell women to vet/choose better, do the same towards women!
Loom we shaming guys going to Asia for the women though
@@PEZ1514no one is. Go to Asia. Problem is grouping all women in the west to be a certain way when u haven’t met them AND never thinking why you keep getting toxic types. It’s dodging accountability and instead thinking it’s a gender thing
Thats not really fair to men or women
@@cgigammez5749can’t generalize a whole gender because you’re common denominator in these relationships 😂Evaluating why u keep running into toxic people helps instead of saying it’s all men or women 😂
@Femtoisbackandbetterwho’s y’all? I’m married and have a husband. I’m getting out the marine corps soon and starting my journey as a sahm and sahw. It’s not my fault, you’re giving women you don’t like energy
This is an OLD clips of Tim. He's been in a long term relationship. You guys couldn't find anything recent to roast?
Since this is an old clip, does he still wear the beanie to hide the insecurity?
Was thinking the same thing, this studio was from years & years ago. And dude wears a beanie because its his gimmick at this point. People call him the beanie man. Its what sets him apart from every other talking head at a glance.
Are you on his payroll 😒😒
@@ND-dd5spTelling the truth is on a payroll? Are you actually this stupid or is it an act for the internet?
@@NoThankYou-uk4zdHe wore Beanies when he worked for Vice more than 10 years ago, You're just being a dick because you don't like his politics.
Man, y'all really scraping the barrel with old videos from people who have never had beef with y'all. You clout farming or what?
They've been having L takes recently yeah. Don't know what's all that about.
They talk about what they wanna talk. The fact he said ''It's not me, it's everybody else'' is what they are talking about and they developed on that. Who cares if the video is old or not.
@@JennyferPepin Because it's taken out of context for one. He does long format videos, and he poses long hypotheticals often in order to play devil's advocate, ect. It's also from 4 years ago, so his opinions may have changed or become more nuanced. It's a bad faith hit piece on someone just to drive clicks, when he himself has been nothing but cordial to these two goofy lookin drama farmers.
@@blubirdhill2608Tim does that stuff all the time
@@blubirdhill2608bruh tim has long videos to milk those superchats lol not because he is some profound thinker
This channel has gotten alot more biased. Tim would absolutely have you on.
Make your case man to man.
Yo these 2 will talk all their $h17 from Canada but they never interview. They are the very definition of cowardice.
@@Marin3r101 wouldn't call them cowards, they were even in FnF in one moment, the video is more likely to bait more people since sharing the crash and burn of FnF they got a lot of people on their videos...also as one person commented salty at the "redpill" that mocks Destiny.
My brother never married. He had one girlfriend that he was with for years and years and we all loved her and always thought he would marry her. But one day he told us he had left her and it was over. When I asked why he said that they had met when they were both struggling and that now her business had taken off and she was doing amazing while he was still getting nowhere and he couldn't stand the mismatch between them.
It causes problems in the relationship. It’s just natural. For the man and the woman.
@@GodWorksOut Agree, but truth is this is bigger problem for man than woman. Woman are more likely to be proud to be with high status man. However otherwise as a man you feel belittled. Men like to feel that they can provide for family (woman, children) but when they are not main providers (higher earners) they just feel bad. I am a man and I couldn't be with woman who earns more than me. I know that not every man is like that, but most men are.
That is a natural feeling for men. Men have evolved over millions of years being the protector and provider. It is a naturally ingrained disposition. A man who feels unable to do this feels like a failure. It is like a man who fails to sexually please their wife. Many of you seriously downplay evolutionary biology.
@@GodWorksOut Is it natural, or just egotistical? Why would your love waver over the person you love's success?
your brother either isn't the smartest or he's leaving things out of the story. many men leave when the woman starts disrespecting the man & the disrespect starts when she starts making more. women seem to have an issue controlling their ego when they make more money & also add in hypergamy & women become a nightmare. which is why many men avoid boss babes & career women. because her making more isn't reason enough to leave. if that was the case, most men make more than their women because most women date up.
the average college girl will not leave campus to meet an older man, as a collage aged girl most women here dont feel safe with that. why would you leave campus to meet a stranger online? its not safe, a boy your age who lives close to you is much better, this is selective bias because of course lots of girls do meet those guys but the average young woman who has parents breathing down her back wont do this
I used to be like Mr. Pool over here, I started balding in my early 20s. One day I went bald and kept my beard, some woman saw me and said “you looking good, I like you better without hair” and I’ve been bald permanently ever since
Even IF you bald, girls STILL wanna date you as long as you ARE tall and muscular
Dating requires compromise on both ends. If you're unwilling to compromise, YOU'RE THE PROBLEM!
So you agree with Tim.
@@TonyRule Tim is the one who is unwilling to compromise. He’s asking the woman to quit their career and he’s unwilling to quit his own. A compromise to this would be if they both agreed to scale back their careers a little. A compromise requires both parties to concede something.
@@HypocritesExposd You don't have to concede the same thing for it to be a compromise...
@@HypocritesExposd yeah I mean if he's wanting someone to be a stay at home wife to take care of his children, he has plenty of money to provide so his children get the best lives possible and she doesn't have to work in this crappy eco. That's fine. It's his preference. It won't match up with a lot of women, but there are many women who dream of that and just want to be mom's who it will match up with. That is the pool pardon the pun that he will look at it. He's not forcing someone by slavery to be his wife then she cannot work or follow her dreams. I'm sure he clearly states it in the dating process what he is looking for. You don't have to compromise on ideals perse, you can find people who want the same ideals and that is the trade agreement in form.
Tim Pool has been in a stable relationship with the same woman since 2020. This is common knowledge.
This video is like 5 years old. I think he's even married now
"Guys like me have dominated the dating apps." 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
1:05 bro has not dominated the dating app space lmfao
He is rich, tall, maybe a 7 on looks for his age, he prob is.
The rich part gives him all the dates he wants.
@@V34035 "maybe a 7 on looks"
lol, lmao
@@V34035 7 is being _very_ generous.
@@ishitrealbad3039 he is -minimum. i'm female and can tell you he's objectively attractive. plus he's interesting and intelligent.
and he's right - dating apps have messed things up.
@@CamCam-mq6ji that tells more about you than it says about tim.
This video is a few years old. I like Tim pool's politics I listen to podcasts everyday. Tim has a long-term partner called Alison now. However I do think dating apps are terrible.
All my failed relationships happened from dating apps where people can pretend to be someone else. I met my soon to be husband at a new years eve music gig and we have been together 7 years, a house and kids. I gave up my career to be with him and be a mother. I had a fear of marriage for the longest time but something changed after I had my youngest child, I realised I am not leaving this man if he wants to marry me then I will marry him our relationship is happy, healthy and we have been through some of the hardest situations and decisions.
You guys must be strapped for content if you're digging this shit up
"Tim, it's not women's fault you are single. If all of them reject you, then it's you. YOU are the problem."
Tim was a 304 back in the day, by his own admission. Now he wants to settle down and have a family.
He sounds like a modern woman who thinks their past doesn't matter or count.
That's a lot of guys though. I spent my 20s in male dominated jobs & watched many guys reject very stable, chill, wife material gals who genuinely liked them for being "boring". They'd go chase the 304s, party chicks & walking red flags they claimed to not want. It totally defied any & all logic. 30s roll around, they're getting divorced because they can't stand the drama anymore or suddenly realizing they are in fact mortal beings who age & their own biological clock is in fact ticking because they don't want to be 40+ with toddlers. They start reaching out to the women they rejected & back burnered hoping they might have a chance. When I got on dating apps, I came across quite a few 35+ guys who expressed regrets for spending a whole decade+ chasing flings & fun times.
Tim’s not single and hasn’t been since 2020. This is a really old clip His girlfriend is Alison Neubaur. They’re going on 5 years now.
This sounds like every man everywhere lol. Most women don’t care either as long as you don’t revert to those ways
He wants loyalty and love he hasn't earned. Money cannot buy these 2 things. In order to have loyalty / love you need to dedicate lots of time to your relationship, and he hasn't put in the time, yet he wants the results.
That would be like a dude being rich, expecting to have 6 pack abs, but has dedicated zero time to the gym. Rich dudes are entitled af, just like a lot of modern women.
@@adim00lah But he does have love and loyalty. He’s been in a stable relationship with his girlfriend for over four years with Alison Neubaur. This is common knowledge. This clip they used to dump on him is at least 5 years old. Your analysis is incorrect.
I don't know if it's just an immigrant (they both are Caribbean) thing, but my mom did not care what my dad made and they got married. She wanted someone that would make sure the kids they had together were loved and taken care of, while they both worked, could communicate to each other, have similar interests/values and that's what he did. Even when my mom got sick, he took care of her, us, and still worked.
That's because looks, money and status didn't have anything to do with love back then. Heck my dad was ugly AF but he courted my mom who had green eyes and was a beauty. But love has been replaced with materialism and modernity (low quality values shared by the youth today) nowadays.
@@kennymichaelalanya7134 my friends that are international and my friends raised from international parents are still keeping with it though. It's beautiful and it can still happen. It's all about the environment you choose to be in and I will never settle for less when it comes to what I feel is a pure kind of love.
I agree that some people are wanting what you are describing and some seem happy with their outcome. I know I would not though.
Imagine having a brain tumor and being drained of all your money and left by them because the person doesn't truly respect or even love you. No thank you. I am super glad my dad stood by my mom when he could have just disappeared and visited us when he felt like it. My mom will be always be the first to say he is the better parent and partner and she's a great mom so that speaks volumes to me.
I haven’t thought about Tim Pool in years
The internet finds it's way around to bring up the most insufferable things unfortunately (I Hate Tim Pool) never liked him even politically.
@@danteshollowedgrounds he is awful
That's what she said...
I have
@@viscose808 why??
Hey guys, this video is at least 4 or 5 years old. He has a girlfriend whose hes been with for a couple of years now, and the career woman argument Aba inserted for Tim Pool was kinda crazy. I rewatched that segment to see if Tim Pool said that he and the career woman ended things on bad terms or if he made demands to the career woman about quitting her job and I didnt see the clip at all. You making those statements and inserting that this is what Tim is doing, not knowing if it ended amicably for them both, was disingenous on your part as well categorizing him as conservative. Maybe I missed a clip where he says he's conservative, but hes never classified himself a conservative and is more of a centre-right guy who still has liberal tendencies. Not one of your better videos. Coconuts and Barbados..... That being said
he thought Trump was going to win a 50 state landslide... Tell me what other 'liberal' made similar claims 🤣
I saw that coverage, and Tim always said it was based on the current indicators and models...there's a difference between a definitive statement of fact vs prediction. You're welcome
I can't belive yall took this that much out of context. When he said "it's not me" he means, "it's not men like me." Meaning, he actually knows how to date outside of apps. He has a serious gf. If you're going to sit and act like dating isn't trash rn idk who you're pandering to.
Why are you commentating on something that happened 4 years ago
Because they're pathetic. They said plenty of times that people can change but now they want to act as if Tim Pool didn't change his stance about this...
A&p don't want to talk about real problems because it would cause a exit of a huge amount of their audience.
I do understand the point Tim Pool was making (not defending anyone) but he's made a succesful business and money isn't a problem for him. Im pretty sure plenty of women would go after that and if anyone on his position doesn't take extra measures, he can lose everything in an instant.
that would imply that the only thing you need to get a woman is money.
Clearly women are repelled by some reason other than his wealth.
He's an idiot.
@@Elle44289murderers and thugs have many girlfriends and babymomas.
Modern women have higher body counts, can abort your child, have a higher likelihood of divorcing you, etc... but it is men's fault lol
As a person that works in the mental health area Ive seen many cases around separation and divorce, a lot (if not the majority) of cases of woman getting divorced after getting a promotion or substantial raise, are woman that were already thinking of divorce for a variety of reasons unrelated to their jobs and now find themselves in a position to be economically stable or economically satisfied by themselves. The promotion is not the cause, its a medium to get what they already had been wanting because their relationships werent viable anymore.
The problem with many of the studies mentioned in this kind of situations is that people dont understand them. They just read promotion and divorce and they stablish and imply a direct causality that might have never been mentioned in the study. They just skip the explanation on how they do both occur, but its a 3rd or 4th factor that made them happen. So instead of an "A" -> "B" situation, the reality is more of a "Z" -> "B", because "A" existing makes it possible.
So, Time Pool is a dominant alpha who exploited all the dating apps being an awful person and he's surprised he has no family. And the dating apps he used are beneath him, and this is everyone else's fault.
Any man with the looks or social skills required to dominate dating apps has no shortage of available women willing to start a family with.
In his own mind
You know that Pool has been in a 5 year relationship, right?
And the video they're responding to is 4 years old.
@@rehwr That pool has pee in it.
@UsandEveryoneWeKnow You come with that on your own, or did your mom help you?
I like that common denominator line because I've been saying that for years. I had failed relationship and as I got older I began realizing I'm the common denominator here. It can't all be their fault. With that realization I actually contacted a couple of them and said "hey I'm sorry for the way I acted when we were together, you weren't crazy, I was tripping" and these are wonderful women I hadn't spoken to in years. I'm in an almost 2 year relationship now and with that knowledge I make compromises, I've learned from my past. It's sad when we don't learn. Whether this relationship works or not I'm good cause I know I'll be even better for the next person.
This is Tim 5 years ago. He has been with the same woman since just after this interview. Alison Neubauer
Probably a few months before that because even Adam brought her up a few times before that video was made.
Shhh, you'll ruin the hate fest. People are trying to fap here.
Sadly they dont care. Kinda weird tbh
And he's still unmarried and childless? Is never seen with her?
@@Kingstoncollege7it’s not weird when this is coming off the back of Destiny being blacklisted everywhere for promoting violence. Aba is protecting his bitch
He actually has a girlfriend now and this is an old clip but still has no kids and I don’t think his work schedule is ever going to let have a functioning family
I met my now wife on tinder at the young, “inexperienced” age of 27… I 100% guarantee my wife would never find Tim Pool or anyone like him attractive regardless of how much money he had/has 😂😂😂
What does that prove..?
@@krisjones4051 it proves that Tim Pool is wrong and just talking out of his ass… wait, is this Tim Pool?! Sorry for offending you, Tim!
@@nonder92 He’s not “wrong.” He simply made a generalization. Women *in general* prefer guys who older/more intellectually mature and have above average socioeconomic status. That’s not rocket science.
@@krisjones4051 yeah fair enough, that part is true but Tim Pool using himself as an example was pure comedy lol
@Slayy05a Sure, but the guys in your age bracket are broke… the overall point is that there is a preference for *older* men. I’m not saying Tim Pool is correct in the absolute sense-just in general. Maybe 30 is too old for you and your friends… whatever. That’s also emblematic of the problem with modern dating. Women are selecting men based on feelings and not pragmatism. Instead of selecting for the most successful man, you’re dating men because they are cute and inevitably you breakup or get divorced.
Weird video.
Tim Pool has been in a relationship for a few years now.
why are Tim Pool fans so weird. It's a topic for discussion, Tim Pool is just a case study and an example of the rhetoric shared by others. Does the fact that he is in a relationship now absolve him of what he said?
@@ravenflare8076 just seems very weird to target him 4 years after he state it. There might be more current and better examples to use atm.
The only thing he really said wrong is "I'm not the problem." Everything else was just his talking about the situation and what may have caused it.
@ravenflare8076 it's really stupid to take a years old clip and hold it up as if it's what he currently thinks.
I agree. They did the same thing to Asmongold. I only learned it was years old from the comments section.
Y'all are such snowflakes, Im sure Tim Pool is completely capable of defending himself, Have you ever asked yourselves why you are so happy when people like Tim talk shit and make fun of people on their podcasts, but when the same is done to them all of a sudden you are crying about how unfair it is? its kinda pathetic tbh
Yo, how old is this clip? Are you in a time warp? You’re commenting on the man’s beliefs of years ago. That’s an old studio, old cameras, all irrelevant at this point. If you’d like to talk about what’s going on right now, talk about how he’s built multiple media companies, he has a long-term steady girlfriend, is involved in all kinds of endeavors, he is very well-read in history, and can debate with the best of them. He’s built a lot, and I am actually shocked that you guys are coming at him from this 3-ish years ago angle. I’ve always had respect for your balanced takes on things, but you definitely fumbled this one.
First time on the internet?
@@gangstarock2455like me he thought this channel was above this level of stupid shit.
Haha, no. As I said, I’ve usually seen Aba and Preach as good guys with good morals who have good takes on things. They’re fair and call people out for BS objectively, as far as I can tell. This just seems like they’re broadcasting from a different planet, digging up old clips and dumping on them like personal growth and progress isn’t a thing. And when it’s so plainly evident that the dude is just a guy who went from being unsuccessful and ignorant to someone who got smart and had a bunch of life experiences and built multiple successful businesses endeavors, it just seems like a different flavor of Trump Derangement Syndrome. People sometimes can’t see the simple facts straight because they have some kind of hard bias in the way.
Damn Aba&Preach ya got people coming for this man over something he said 4 years ago. That's wild
I hate when they say every choice women make is a biological thing, as we don't have the ability of making choices depending of our circumstances or beliefs🙄.
I have not heard anyone say that every choice women make is a biological one but I have seen women ignore how biology affects their perceptions more times than I could count.
@@173rdskysoldier9did you not catch it at 15:20? It's pretty much what she's referring to. It's implied, but no one is going to actually say the words "women only make choices based on their biology" (except maybe some idiots like f&f)
@ti20g I did not catch it because I had to mute my audio before then. I would not be surprised if he was prattling on about women being dictated by biology. It is a constant talking point for the "red pill" types... but why? Go back to my previous comment and think about it. There is a reason guys like F&F have an audience and it's not because of something called "The Patriarchy."
@@173rdskysoldier9 of course you didn’t catch it. You sounds quite slow so… that’s why you aren’t in an intellectual profession. The fact that you defend the audience of fresh and fit saying stuff like « I understand where they come from » show that you share the same characteristics as them (delusional, uneducated, anti intellectual, emotional, subjectivism,…)
@@173rdskysoldier9 i was talking about the answer the woman gave as well. Just shows you that this idea is present in a lot of people. It's okay to say some things are our response to biological urges but let's be honest, it's much more complicated than that. it's almost degrading and very surface level to say picking a man is based on our biological urge to reproduce. And f&f.... Welli believe they have an audience because they pray on lonely man who don't know better.
Bro can apparently slay in dating apps, but can't find someone to settle with.... and blames others? Oh the denial
He's in a long term relationship.
Bro did found a fiance and they try for kids. This video is 4 years old. I'm not sure why react to something that old. Unless you want to do someone dirty for some reason.
Because these guys took the cowards way and joined the UA-cam leftist scene, and part of that is lying about the right non stop. It takes a second of research to see he has a finance he’s been with for years. He’s also had more women on his show that he respects than these guys, but they choose to ignore all that to lie about him
Dude he's been in a relationship for like 4 years.
Same nonsense as those "dating gurus/ coaches" that claim running through dating apps for 7 yrs means they know how to handle relationships. "I've been on thousands of first dates..." not a flex. The flex is knowing how to vet & behave well enough to get off the apps in a reasonable time frame.
As soon as a person says "it's not me it's everyone else..." They have IMMEDIATELY singled themselves out as the common denominator.
100% main character syndrome.
Another thing to note is that the video they are using is a 4 years old. A lot changes in the time after and from what is shown Tim is currently in a relationship as of this time. Once more this not favoritism toward Pool, but this again seem disingenuous and taking things out of context. Yet will run defense for destiny and not call him out. Who would drop them if it was expedient for him.
Digging up old bullshit?
Like seriously, I thought you guys were better than this 🤣😂
This is such an old video. He's got a girlfriend now and the studio is completely different.
P*ss poor research.
haha they should have done a video on how he made every single skateboarder hate his guts
So he's still a fence Sitter lmao I remember when he hated trump
So they're literally doing what they accused him of 😂😂😂😂😂
So why is Tim still miserable?
Tim Pool is the guy at the party who will interrupt you because he has a better Point than whatever it is you thought you were going to say
I'm so used to men not being held accountable. That is so mind-blowing that they're so quick to blame women and us. Women, we should hold ourselves accountable to, but the fact that men are so stubborn and prideful. They don't want to be held accountable. It's so baffling, but seeing a couple of men holding a man accountable is like a breath of fresh air to me. We need more of this
Is this an old clip? I thought Tim Pool was in his late 30s? No way he’s 34.
He is 38.
@@Pinkrosesandagraveyardyeah old video
The effort on this really shows!
It's funny how men wait till their late 30s to start a family and then realise women in their early 20s don't want them 😂
Exactly. Be the good man in your 20s.
Most men are not that good looking and don't have a stable income to compensate, so when they become stable then they think about dating, how do you don't get that?
I don’t see why 30 year olds would seek out someone in their early 20s anyway. I’m 21 and if a 30 year old wanted me I’d see it as a decently sized red flag
@@narutouzumaki2157exactly, men peak in their 30s anyway. Thats usually when they get stable
@@TraitorTot24you're the red flag in that statement.
The tim video is a like four years old he’s 38 now … think he’s currently in a relationship too idk about this video lol
1:31 that is a VERY dangerous mindset to have
Tim Pool literally has a long-term girlfriend
Soo no marriage or kids yet.. I heard he was trying to get his gf pregnant but no announcement right?
Right. He said it not too long ago. He's 38 now. He's in his late 30s now.
Yeah she's pregnant and guess what? That baby will be born with a beenie 😂
@@Tasha.Bae1He said they're working on having a kid. He said they'll announce it when it happens.
@@devotheambivert9875 see the problem is he should be talking about marriage first then kids it hints toxicity still
I personally enjoy watching red pill guys complain about women to remind myself how happy I am in my married life
Bro same. always go up to mine and give her a big ol kiss for being patient, loving, passionate, caring and communicative. I’m extremely grateful that I’m not in the trenches of dating anymore.
😂😂. So happy not to be out there in the dating world.
Red pill? When did he become red pill.
@@EricaL2024 right.
Congratulations on your future divorce. 😂 save this post for about 8 years,
This is the petty channel. Pettiest brothers on the Internet.
Why so triggered? Are you his redpill buddy?
Aba either contradicted or called out himself. He said that anyone who watches the Red pill crap is NOT happy. Then how does Aba break down those same videos without watching them ?
Obviously he is watching them for content not cos he wants to…
Is it me because Tim Pools content is mostly political I don’t see much regarding red pill like the way they are characterizing this
He watching bc it's his job. Search the internet for interesting content to give your opinion about that's all😂 some people are good at some steal and we just watch
@@YML256 Tim not Red Pill, he talked very little about things that align with Red Pill, but he is not Fresh and Fit, he hate hookup culture, he dislikes men like Fresh and Fit, he dislikes those type of podcast
Aba and Preach painted Tim as another Red Pill players sleeping around with women and telling men to get rich when he not, and if I could I would down vote this video for it
lol that’s your argument against criticism? 🤣
Dating apps junk these days and I’m 37 with no kids. But also, I’m gay and most gay most in 2024 seem like the modern woman, according to media. Glad I’m not married. Been working on me and my finances. Couldn’t be happier. Buying my first house soon. 👏🏽👏🏽
You mean even the gays are sick of men's shit? lol
This clip is from a podcast episode from over 3 years ago. What are you guys even doing?
what is the problem with that? does the fact that he said it 3 years ago somehow mean he didn't say it? or are we saying its unethical to look back at events from the past?
@@ravenflare8076 Nah just it feels weak to criticize the guy as if he still believes this or hasn't changed at all despite it being a 4-5+ year old clip and shortly after said clip he entered and is still in said long-term relationship.
it be like me saying I don't like dogs/ cats, then shortly after I get one, and then years later you try and bring up to me a old clip of me saying I didn't like them, Yah....well it's been 4 years and my opinion has obviously changed so....I don't see why you're flaming me exactly on an old opinion?
@@ravenflare8076 It's irrelevant and maybe he did run through women on tinder, you don't know.
Your just assuming this based off his looks and the way he talks, especially with that goofy pic of his in the thumbnail.
They cannot produce any content with some actual substance so they have to attack other online personalities. Grow the hell up.
If you want to talk about modern dating trends between men and women then do it. You don't need to drag other people into your drama..
@@ravenflare8076Unless it’s a comedy video or some type of meme, it’s very unusual for A&P to react to old videos. This video is from 2019 or 2020 and Tim has a girlfriend now and they may or may not be going through fertility issues. It’s just weird that they would out of nowhere focus on this video in particular when there’s a thousand other things that are recent they could’ve made a video about.
Tim Pool should have removed the video. He is/was ultimately his own walking contradiction.
Or, if this clip is from 4 years ago, and Tim has had a steady relationship since then, then who’s grifting for views now?
They are. It's pathetic.
They've been on a grifting arc for a while now. If you asked Timmy if he was red pill, he would say no.
Then they tried to conflate pick up artists with tim. Tim has never tried to sell scam stuff like that, afaik
Aba I normaly agree woth yoy, but this is entirely out of context. Yes he did say this, but almost 4 years ago. The man is I think married now and he might have changed his mind since. I find this pretty dishonest
I never understood the red pill stuff. I've always been pretty broke but never had trouble dating. These guys are just straight up telling you that they have no idea how to talk to women.
@Femtoisbackandbetter I'm like average in looks. Not ugly but not super attractive either. I'm like 5'10" or so. So not tall but not particularly short. I just never had a problem talking to women. I think a lot of these dudes just start yammering on about whatever obsession they currently have like a little kid. If you walk up to a girl and start talking at her about Star wars you probably don't have much of a chance.
This is Tim 5 years ago. He has been with the same woman since just after this interview. Alison Neubauer
@@vortex_1336 Not what he said tho.
He has been dating, he literally has a girlfriend for years now.
He is talking abt the men that don't get woman.
IDK how you ppl have never met that nice guy who has a good job, good looks, but is really bad with woman, that's the men he is talking abt. They are introverts, women don't usually date them, and now saying that, is somehow seen as evil or automatically makes you a red pill or some sexist insecure person.
@@vortex_1336 some girls out there would even be into star wars lol. I met my wife because I was reading a fishing magazine at a barnes and noble and she thought it was funny how obsessed I was with the different color of lures. Our first date was a fishing trip and now we go kayak fishing together every week. Point is, even if you have a weird hobby or obsession I bet you there is still someone out there for you.
It’s just a grift to extract money from insecure men, make them even more insecure and take even more of their money. It’s basic sales: define a “problem” and sell a “solution.”