Yes with getting older I was pleasantly surprised that younger men were checking me out! And it kinda unfortunately made me a little confused and uncomfortable but I'm starting to feel better about it 🤗 knowing that I still got it
@@lorireed8046 Excuse Me!!Who in the hell do you think you're insulting? Yes unfortunately there are some men in the world that do use women for all kinds of reasons that has nothing to do with younger men finding an older woman attractive, you sound like it's impossible! There are very attractive older women period!who are attractive sexy and well dressed and who take care of themselves and who are physically fit!You act like your opinions are facts!News Flash they are not!!I have an opinion! You're a narcissist and a miserable hateful person to say that a younger man couldn't possibly find an older woman attractive without an ulterior motive is ridiculously ignorant and insulting!You obviously have some serious problems! Get some professional help!
Younger men will sleep with you but the vast majority will not commit themselves long term. Have fun with them if you want but don’t get emotionally attached and DON’T give them money. Don’t let him move in, don’t give him a key, don’t pay his bills, and don’t give him money. Be careful ladies.
I have been married, had children, worked hard, was mistreated, and I have loved being single without dating for a very long time with no intentions of ever marrying again. Nothing against men, it is just I am happy and content single.
WOW!!!! THIS IS WHY I AM ALWAYS GETTING HIT ON !!!! EVERYONE TELLS ME THAT WHENEVER I WALK INTO ANY ROOM, I GET TOLD THAT IM THE LIGHT THAT HAS EVERYONE WANTING TO KNOW ME !!!! I am in my mid fifties!!!! I DID TAKE ALMOST TOOK 4 YEARS HEALING AND WORKING ON MYSELF!!!! I KNOW MY WORTH AND WHAT IM LOOKING FOR 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
Interesting that there seems to be a rise in films depicting younger men and older women, ie. the Age Gap film. For so long, as soon as a woman hit 40, she seemed to disappear as a romantic interest in film. I'm amazed and pleased to see this kind of ageist-sexist stereotype overturned. I don't know, as it's not been my experience, but I'm more interested if a man's keeping pace intellectually as well as emotionally. Sadly, I didn't know this, but my ex complained to others that he always thought I was "too much" (intellectually) for him. Frankly, only now I see that I might have been wiser to connect with someone who felt better about himself and was a better match for me.
When I was young, elementary through college, I found myself wondering what it was that others had, that I didn't have. It wasn't until I was in my 30s that "it" was confidence. Unfortunately, I had been gaslighted my entire childhood. I had no idea how to have confidence in myself and had no council on how to achieve that confidence. I'm 74, and still, women are still treated as unimportant, except for housecleaning, sex, and told not to speak up. I speak up now, but I have not mastered how to get my point across well, so I have withdrawn to work on that skill. I'm looking for help with that.
That's where confidence comes in. To bring your point across. I learnt that in my early thirties. Was always walked over by people and taken advantage of. Soon after I had my son I had more confidence and became more assertive. I learnt how to say no. My age is actually the reverse of yours 😊 You just have to speak up and not shy away from what it is you want to say. When with a group, let the others finish what they have to say, then you voice your opinion, loud and clear. You also need to be at the stage where you don't care what people think about what you have to say. Just say it. You will feel the freedom that comes with that when you do. Good luck and I wish you all the best! xx
I love this even though I’m happily single. I still think some women that are older feel quite invisible because they worry too much not all men are the same as much as women think they are they’re not there’s good and bad in everybody.❤
I’m 54 and get a lot of men between 40-65 trying to get my attention on my dating profile and I have no body parts exposed. I do keep myself young at heart by working out, having hobbies, taking care of my appearance, having a sense of humor and a good attitude. I leave old relationships and their issues in the past and give each new guy I talk to a brand new slate and don’t punish them for my exes actions
@@DebR1210 I’m 54 also and I take care of myself too. But I get ignored by men all the time now. At work it’s even worse, ageism has struck me real bad.
I have found a younger man believe me I was not looking I was married for 37 years but here I am I have always been a person that know my own mind I had a job that I loved I am since have retired. So all the things the video said is true so if you are a little hesitant don't be and go for it ❤
They've all got mummy issues. I've got daddy issues. I prefer my own age. I've got sons. Not slightly attracted to younger men. Ikky. older men...... Nooooooo! As I said daddy issues.😂 Really each to their own. Consenting adults. Whatever!
Interesting. This makes sense to me. I used to think Jordan Peterson was the be all and end all but he's become so sickening since he's been spouting all this religious crap. I know more gentle, worthwhile people who behave like true christians than anyone I know who goes to church on Sunday just to be seen.
I recently found that my husband of 25 years spent $40k over 16 months at our local massage parlour for happy endings. All because I put on menopausal weight and he couldn’t be a man and tell me honestly that he was attracted to me. I’m now on ozempic and have lost 15kg in 2 months. Another 30kg to lose and I’m on a mission to look and feel good. And get my revenge body
I don't play games!!! Don't date. Would be nice have finally a real Man if he is 9 yrs younger. I'm not dried up . Younger than I look. I talk to everyone . Be sociable people . Age hasn't anything to do with dating or live with or married. We are more loyal and mature!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Love and light.
Yes with getting older I was pleasantly surprised that younger men were checking me out! And it kinda unfortunately made me a little confused and uncomfortable but I'm starting to feel better about it 🤗 knowing that I still got it
You don't "still got it" he is looking to be taken care of . Just like some 23 year old goes for a 50+ year old man ..
@@lorireed8046 Excuse Me!!Who in the hell do you think you're insulting? Yes unfortunately there are some men in the world that do use women for all kinds of reasons that has nothing to do with younger men finding an older woman attractive, you sound like it's impossible! There are very attractive older women period!who are attractive sexy and well dressed and who take care of themselves and who are physically fit!You act like your opinions are facts!News Flash they are not!!I have an opinion! You're a narcissist and a miserable hateful person to say that a younger man couldn't possibly find an older woman attractive without an ulterior motive is ridiculously ignorant and insulting!You obviously have some serious problems! Get some professional help!
@@2023Sweetcherry LoL you living on fake kindness is sad . Truly sad .
@@lorireed8046 the only thing that is sad is you my dear 😒
@@lorireed8046 You know what else is sad Jealousy!🤭
Younger men will sleep with you but the vast majority will not commit themselves long term.
Have fun with them if you want but don’t get emotionally attached and DON’T give them money.
Don’t let him move in, don’t give him a key, don’t pay his bills, and don’t give him money.
Be careful ladies.
13 yrs with a man who is 35 yrs younger than me.
Excellent advice
You can’t say this about all younger men everyone’s different… that’s what people need to realise everyone is different. They’re not all the same.
Married 28 years to a man 20 years younger than me, and very happy and stable.
I agree!
I don't care what men like. I will always be me. Take it or leave it.
😂 yes ma am!!
Be you but be wise too.
Absolutely this. I don't need men, I need my own self worth, and sometimes the two aren't compatible.
That's the way it should be
Who cares what men like? Let them worry about what I like!
Older women don’t play games.
I never go out so I never meet new people, but I enjoy my own good traits. I'm easy to live with, so I'm good!
I Luv your comment!
I have been married, had children, worked hard, was mistreated, and I have loved being single without dating for a very long time with no intentions of ever marrying again. Nothing against men, it is just I am happy and content single.
WOW!!!!
THIS IS WHY I AM ALWAYS GETTING HIT ON !!!!
EVERYONE TELLS ME THAT WHENEVER I WALK INTO ANY ROOM,
I GET TOLD THAT IM THE LIGHT THAT HAS EVERYONE WANTING TO KNOW ME !!!!
I am in my mid fifties!!!!
I DID TAKE ALMOST TOOK 4 YEARS HEALING AND WORKING ON MYSELF!!!!
I KNOW MY WORTH AND WHAT IM LOOKING FOR 💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽💪🏽
You made me laugh out loud I love it😂❤
GIRL you are acting like a damned foolish man looking at younger men . They want what you offer and have NOT YOU .
❤❤ Older women through experience know their value and worth and will never go backwards to please a man ❤❤
We age like fine wine
Don't doubt it
❤💯💃💃💃💃
More like milk
Interesting that there seems to be a rise in films depicting younger men and older women, ie. the Age Gap film. For so long, as soon as a woman hit 40, she seemed to disappear as a romantic interest in film. I'm amazed and pleased to see this kind of ageist-sexist stereotype overturned.
I don't know, as it's not been my experience, but I'm more interested if a man's keeping pace intellectually as well as emotionally. Sadly, I didn't know this, but my ex complained to others that he always thought I was "too much" (intellectually) for him. Frankly, only now I see that I might have been wiser to connect with someone who felt better about himself and was a better match for me.
Great list for us ladies. Thank you.
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When I was young, elementary through college, I found myself wondering what it was that others had, that I didn't have. It wasn't until I was in my 30s that "it" was confidence. Unfortunately, I had been gaslighted my entire childhood. I had no idea how to have confidence in myself and had no council on how to achieve that confidence. I'm 74, and still, women are still treated as unimportant, except for housecleaning, sex, and told not to speak up. I speak up now, but I have not mastered how to get my point across well, so I have withdrawn to work on that skill. I'm looking for help with that.
That's where confidence comes in. To bring your point across. I learnt that in my early thirties. Was always walked over by people and taken advantage of. Soon after I had my son I had more confidence and became more assertive. I learnt how to say no. My age is actually the reverse of yours 😊 You just have to speak up and not shy away from what it is you want to say. When with a group, let the others finish what they have to say, then you voice your opinion, loud and clear. You also need to be at the stage where you don't care what people think about what you have to say. Just say it. You will feel the freedom that comes with that when you do. Good luck and I wish you all the best! xx
I love this even though I’m happily single. I still think some women that are older feel quite invisible because they worry too much not all men are the same as much as women think they are they’re not there’s good and bad in everybody.❤
If we look like the illustration in this video; men sure won't want us for our looks. Thanks for that characature of us.
Once women hit 50 men don’t like you! Even the ones your own age think you’re too old. You become invisible, so take care and love yourself.
So wrong. I’m 54 and get approached all the time.
@@maticiasudah7097older women have more sex appeal, wrinkles and gray hair and all
I'm 60 and men run after me all the time!
I’m 54 and get a lot of men between 40-65 trying to get my attention on my dating profile and I have no body parts exposed. I do keep myself young at heart by working out, having hobbies, taking care of my appearance, having a sense of humor and a good attitude. I leave old relationships and their issues in the past and give each new guy I talk to a brand new slate and don’t punish them for my exes actions
@@DebR1210 I’m 54 also and I take care of myself too. But I get ignored by men all the time now. At work it’s even worse, ageism has struck me real bad.
I have found a younger man believe me I was not looking I was married for 37 years but here I am I have always been a person that know my own mind I had a job that I loved I am since have retired. So all the things the video said is true so if you are a little hesitant don't be and go for it ❤
So women are now having arm candy and find this okay? Nah... I'll stay single .
I keep getting hit on by young men and I don't know why!?
Watching this I now do😂
I hope you won't meet one of those immature little boys who still need a lady to be like their mama instead of a partner.
EXACTLY the same reason women went for older men!
Maybe They should ask What elder women like. ..
They've all got mummy issues. I've got daddy issues. I prefer my own age. I've got sons. Not slightly attracted to younger men. Ikky. older men...... Nooooooo! As I said daddy issues.😂 Really each to their own. Consenting adults. Whatever!
Me neither, I'll enjoy looking but packaging is only packaging. It's the vibe that grabs me, and it's a rare one in any case.
Never date a man you could have given birth to, that's just weird and a bit sick IMO.
I agree, I won't date anyone in the same age range as my son, who is 31. It just wouldn't feel right. Yuck
I want to balance our relationship make us happy comunicate our feelings and respect love you.❤
Very true
Traits accdg to this video = DEPTH, CONFIDENCE, AND AUTHENTICITY.
The End!
Defined as being nonconfrontational, undemanding, paying attention to appearance, and making men feel respected. No thanks.
Potovanje,iskanje novih izzivov,
Men want another mommy.
Interesting. This makes sense to me. I used to think Jordan Peterson was the be all and end all but he's become so sickening since he's been spouting all this religious crap. I know more gentle, worthwhile people who behave like true christians than anyone I know who goes to church on Sunday just to be seen.
It's not about religion it's about a relationship ❤
It must be true. Younger men do hit on me.
Sorry..but I don't believe any of this. Fine for some but not for me.
Not believing Any of what exactly?
This video is such BS 🙄
I recently found that my husband of 25 years spent $40k over 16 months at our local massage parlour for happy endings. All because I put on menopausal weight and he couldn’t be a man and tell me honestly that he was attracted to me.
I’m now on ozempic and have lost 15kg in 2 months. Another 30kg to lose and I’m on a mission to look and feel good. And get my revenge body
What the hell.are you thinking? Seriously ...what ?
Research HRT for Estrogen Deficiency and Progesterone Deficiency in women, Peri-Menapause, Menapause and Post- Menapause. Glad your still married 💕
@@annierichards7367 glad she's married to a spineless cheater?
I don't play games!!! Don't date. Would be nice have finally a real Man if he is 9 yrs younger. I'm not dried up . Younger than I look. I talk to everyone . Be sociable people . Age hasn't anything to do with dating or live with or married. We are more loyal and mature!!! 🎉🎉🎉🎉 Love and light.
Naaaah coz they want mama
❤❤❤
Ne vsak dan,ampak ko si napet,jej veliko sladkarij,to pomirja,ne pa tablete za pomirjanje.Potem veliko fizičnega gibanja,dobri prijatelji,karaoke.
For me, nothing beats my daily energy work. It makes me look younger too.
Look at Emmanuel and Bridget Macone, there is a 25 year gap.
Too drawn out
All lies
Who cares
Total BS. Men will dump a partner of the same age to run off with some floozie 20 years younger.
jej,pij,moli!
Dont even care.