Kota - The City Of Shattered Dreams | Anuj Pachhel

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  • @DrAnujPachhel
    @DrAnujPachhel  Рік тому +83

    Hey, I hope this video helped you. Exams are not the end of your life, there is so much you have to achieve, never give up.
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    • @Daisy12712
      @Daisy12712 Рік тому +2

      I was waiting for your video❤

    • @MeenaAhire-m2e
      @MeenaAhire-m2e Рік тому

      We all are so thankful for your videos and support...

    • @Telling_me112
      @Telling_me112 Рік тому

      Bhaiya any online test series, please reply me, I m 2024 aspirant,

    • @studytouchup
      @studytouchup Рік тому

      bhaiya ab tk kuch nhi kiya social media trap distracted tha bohot depressed hu please can you hellp kyaa 5 months mai ho payega

  • @abdulrahaman0157
    @abdulrahaman0157 Рік тому +590

    Lifes more than an exam comrades. It gets tougher even in MBBS. Just hold on, do your best and if you dint make it, theres a whole other world waiting for you.

    • @Mohamed_Rishan
      @Mohamed_Rishan Рік тому +3

    • @sujyotsharma
      @sujyotsharma Рік тому +11

      So true, I'd write NEET all day instead of studying pharmacology and embryology 💀.
      But then again, things do get hard for you and that's how you become stronger. Even if you don't make it, you become better than you were before.

    • @adarshkumar34556
      @adarshkumar34556 Рік тому +10

      it was i who was "jiddi" about going 2000 kms to kota....Parents trusted and then here i am wasting my time every day ..... i know this still i am wasting time ,money and the precious trust of my parents.... I am not depressed or something like that rather i am very disspointed with myself....

    • @AnushkaSrivastava-y2f
      @AnushkaSrivastava-y2f Рік тому +1

      ​@@adarshkumar34556 koi ni you'll find your way. Just take it easy. Btw konsa drop hai?

    • @abdulrahaman0157
      @abdulrahaman0157 Рік тому +1

      @@sujyotsharma Pharmacology can he made pretty easy. Embryology tho. Eww

  • @vijayanandsharma1695
    @vijayanandsharma1695 Рік тому +169

    Dr is more mature in thinking than his age
    Such genius should be included in framing education policies for future generations
    Hats off to this intern
    He is thinking for others happiness
    God bless you Sir

  • @Daisy12712
    @Daisy12712 Рік тому +178

    The struggles faced by students in Kota are heart breaking. They need to realize that their well being is just as important as their academic success:(

  • @monicamishra.4559
    @monicamishra.4559 Рік тому +128

    Kota either becomes a trauma or a good memory;depends on how you take the competition.I find my medical college more toxic than kota sometimes.

    • @Suziii4747
      @Suziii4747 Рік тому

      💯💯💯💯

    • @Suziii4747
      @Suziii4747 Рік тому

      Exactly it's like i can't survive within such toxic environment and my studies are seriously affected

    • @monicamishra.4559
      @monicamishra.4559 Рік тому +1

      @@Suziii4747 it's because, in kota , teachers keep us motivated, daily tests and classrooms discussions, friendships keep us oriented towards our goal; medical college is all about toxicity, competition, jealousy, betrayal and don't talk about teachers! They themselves don't know what they are coming to class for!!

    • @Suziii4747
      @Suziii4747 Рік тому

      @@monicamishra.4559 Exactly i was so good in studies man before I came to kota and now I don't even have time to think or regret.......i have to be here until I get my college degree ........Trust me at night i literally feel so scared and anxious ........I mean my college is in forest area so ......😔😑

    • @Suziii4747
      @Suziii4747 Рік тому

      And about betrayal o god I got betrayed by literally by those girls with whom i eat and all like back stabbing situation I was so hurt and cried a lot but yeah at the end I learned a lot since i came to kota........

  • @nayani8270
    @nayani8270 Рік тому +26

    Whenever I am going to tell about my depression I get sympathy.People say that I am sensitive person, even my parents too.That's why I am maintaining distance from each and everyone.I want a constant peace till the exam.But I am exhausting here😮‍💨

  • @ruvisapookie
    @ruvisapookie Рік тому +183

    As someone who has taken their first drop and is on antidepressants this vedio made me cry. I am thankful to creators like you anuj bhaiya. The stigma related to mental health still truely prevails here. I have not talked about my therapy with anyone except parents for the same reason.

    • @iamthegreatest2189
      @iamthegreatest2189 Рік тому +13

      I am also on antidepressants, even after cracking this shit.
      Medicine sucks!!

    • @Akashroy-hh6ei
      @Akashroy-hh6ei Рік тому +5

      You are not alone I am on pills too.Neet took so much from my life.

    • @icebar111
      @icebar111 Рік тому +2

      You've got this, Nandita ❤ Try your level best but do not consider NEET/JEE to be the only gateway to a privileged life. Always have a backup and focus on your mental health. Much love, I hope you succeed 💗

    • @ankitajena9143
      @ankitajena9143 Рік тому +1

      I hope you are doing good now.

    • @achiver565
      @achiver565 Рік тому

      ​@@iamthegreatest2189why you are still depresse

  • @pranitapatil7548
    @pranitapatil7548 Рік тому +15

    I am a neet-ug aspirant. I tried to k*ll myself three times last year (12th std). 2nd time my friends saw me with the knife. After talking to them i was fine for about a week but it all came back. 3rd time i literally cut the rope in our hostel that we use to dry clothes on. The only reason i am alive today is because i couldn't knot it tightly. I couldn't take it anymore but was also a coward and couldn't harm myself at all. So, i told my parents. They thought only telling them is what made me feel better and that i was alright now. But i wasnt. They took me home and i still had to study, but i wasnt able to give my best. I couldn't focus at all. From scoring above 600 in all mock tests in 11th std, i came down to 381 in neet, all because of depression. I took a drop this year because i eventually got better, and i wanted to give my best at least once so i dont regret anything in the future. In my house, i am always taunted about that phase. They definitely didnt understand my situation at all. I am better now. But those memories will haunt me forever.

  • @Hampi_Jyothi
    @Hampi_Jyothi Рік тому +96

    Hi Anuj sir...
    Hope we will soon become 1 million strong family...
    I'm glad that I had grown up with u since u were in 2nd year ...

  • @kovid07
    @kovid07 Рік тому +86

    This year was my first attempt in NEET
    I scored 665 in NEET & 175 in physics (AND 165 in rest three; Botany chemistry zoology)
    I just love to study physics and math and I'll always love it. Like i could have easily became a govt. Phy or math professor and loved teaching it to different kinds of student. ❤
    But still I opted for NEET and not JEE or teaching because i always wanted myself to become a *DOCTOR* not an engineer.
    So just think if you actually want to become a doctor or not and then prepare
    Don't waste years on repeating the same old thing (cause really it's just an entrance to MBBS so offcourse now i can tell you syllabus of NEET is nothing when compared to what we have to study in MBBS).
    Also people who are just kind of scared from phy i can tell you that scoring good in phy can just assure you 25% marks so please focus more on chemistry and biology (cause I've seen people who initially are good in chem and bio scoring less in the the final exam because during preparation they were so much stressed to make their phy strong which was not even required because questions of physics in NEET are of moderate level)
    Study every subject, make your weak points strong but dont spend unnecessary time in anything which is not asked in NEET.
    And please do have some life outside NEET prep it will boost your mood and allow you to study well. ❤

    • @metturakesh9452
      @metturakesh9452 Рік тому

      hi can u share your insta id i will tal to u im aneet aspirant tho

    • @kovid07
      @kovid07 Рік тому +1

      @saanvisharma18 || NCERT || The Queen of NEET
      You need just NCERT for every subject to understand the concepts (some times a good teacher too) and to clear NEET you need to practice mcqs based on NCERT you may find them in your coaching material and if you don't have a coaching you can find them online (some mcq book are also available to buy but I'd recommend to study NCERT well first and then to solve the mcqs cause I've seen people buying MTG fingertips and not even using it like I never purchased any MCQ book my coaching provided me the questions in their modules and I solved them and found them sufficient.
      The reason to solve MCQ is simple, see if you understand a topic well you will be able to solve questions from it but for the first time it would be time consuming to figure out how to solve a particular question and if have already solved that type of questions it would take less time to solve them in NEET
      So it is necessary to solve every "type" of question but not to solve the "hardest" question to clear NEET 🤝
      @kovid_sahu is my Instagram you can contact me there

    • @Telling_me112
      @Telling_me112 Рік тому +2

      Bhaiya I m 2024 aspirant, nd I want your suggestions regarding studies

    • @aarushidwivedi9716
      @aarushidwivedi9716 Рік тому +1

      Nice advice 😊

    • @ravisahu8577
      @ravisahu8577 Рік тому +2

      I liked yhr comment so much❤ Salute to yhr way of thinking😊

  • @Hehe-1334
    @Hehe-1334 Рік тому +42

    It’s not the mistake of the student or his parents or coaching
    It’s the atmosphere
    The atmosphere of A RAT RACE
    Were students compete with each other,some develop the strength but some don’t
    Few quit
    And others are just crushed down in this race,our society had made the situation in the students mind
    If he/she is capable of cracking such exam then only he can survive in this world or is the best
    But what about the students himself?
    Who cares?
    No one,at a certain point even parents just don’t care
    They want selection/good marks
    To showcase in front of fellow relatives/people
    But as a teenager there’s many more things than just this Competitive exam,A teenager’s mind is still growing and is capable of doing a wide variety of things but we just shrink our mind’s towards a single thing,and think it’s the only thing in world,
    The young energetic teenager sometimes is not able to persue his hobbies!

  • @ananyasingh509
    @ananyasingh509 Рік тому +85

    Only the pain of students they can understand who has already suffered with this problem

    • @preksha731
      @preksha731 Рік тому +1

      No dear it can be understood by your parents

  • @zedal46
    @zedal46 Рік тому +12

    6 months into the preparation, scoring 360-400marks right now. I was feeling really hopeless. Thank you, Dr Anuj. Really needed to hear this.

  • @randomeditsbyraghava
    @randomeditsbyraghava Рік тому +12

    nobody on internet talking about this hits hard there are many students suci*des not only in kota which are due to family pressure and study pressure ends with a suicide note was very very sad to hear as a student u addressed this topic thank u

  • @Anita-hd8de
    @Anita-hd8de Рік тому +30

    Thanks a lot bhaiya for addressing Kota.. i myself born and bought up in Kota and recently preparing for neet and I m gonna appear for neet 2024 .. students are just ending their lives this is really heartbreaking... I can't express my gratitude to you for addressing this ❤❤

  • @bushra_24
    @bushra_24 Рік тому +2

    Thanks

    • @bushra_24
      @bushra_24 Рік тому +1

      U r not just a good intelligent person or doctor but a very very good psychologist and u said all what I know and feel to share with people which can help them in some ways.I am glad that somebody already did that work so well.Very nice understanding and work.👏👏Thank you for ur good work Dr Anuj😀👏👏Stay happy stay good.🌺

  • @Xyzabcd392
    @Xyzabcd392 Рік тому +69

    I Am currently in grade 11th studying at Narayana . I am not in the top batch where extra care is given for neet aspirants but starting days i used to really feel bad for not being in that batch ,for not scoring well in mock tests i was really depressed now after listening to my seniors and friends advices I have made my decision to not worry about my marks and to just work hard . and one more thing i would like to tell here is that people just don't waste your money on these coaching institutions like narayana and chaitanya you can prepare yourself a lot more better than these institutions prepare you.

    • @VIJAYBHASKAR-i7u
      @VIJAYBHASKAR-i7u Рік тому

      YES WHICH BRANCH ?

    • @wetoocandoit
      @wetoocandoit Рік тому +3

      Same story dude even i am from Narayana and the management are just really greedy people. Even the teachers think that you are not worth it if u arent in tht top batch . Its best to not think about it and just do better by urself

    • @amiiii.13
      @amiiii.13 Рік тому +2

      Mee too same situation same coaching...i honestly dont care about their opinions anymore(they keep saying prep for boards u cant do neet anyways)...actually thanks to their words i started preparing double harder...just prepare in silence and let success make noise🎉 we can do it guyss!!
      Ps- i was in top batch till last month where only 5-6 toppers get attention and we rest(15ppl) were treated as statues.. now they separated us again where its a bigger batch but atleast we get more personal attention becos normally in previous class those toppers would always answer even before we could try ourselves...tbh there isnt any difference ..at the end its just ur preparation and dedication..u got thiss!

    • @wetoocandoit
      @wetoocandoit Рік тому +2

      @@amiiii.13 the toppers answering part is so true its cause they have all done foundation already before and everyone in our model A batch had done foundation . And even they were telling us too to focus on boards .one of the Main drawback of narayana is there 9 hours of class which is too much.

    • @amiiii.13
      @amiiii.13 Рік тому +2

      @@wetoocandoit exactly! They dont give imp to self study and when we take holidays for self study they scold us saying low attendence students wont be allowed to attempt boards.. i already have over 85% attendence where board needs 75%😶
      Lets not waste our time arguing about ppl who never cared..rather give that time to read ncert or solve 4/5 sums🙃

  • @dbsdeb
    @dbsdeb Рік тому +10

    Currently a 3rd Part 1 MBBS Student at GMC Purulia, WB...
    I have been to this place... For 3 years... I have tasted failure... Have given tests which were too bad , have been down , depressed and even questioned my abilities....
    But life gives you chances , at the same time it's important to get good people around you , whom you can be friends with even knowing that you won't be able to meet you ever in life....
    Have been an average student all my life , still I am... But I feel if you believe in yourself, you can make your life a little better and get hope to succeed in life in every aspect or the other....

  • @rishanSOS
    @rishanSOS Рік тому +43

    watching this was the most relatable thing ever, being a student in AL**N kota, the topics covered in this video are very very precise and accurate, the emotions we have to go through as aspirants are very difficult to cope up with. Falling marks, better performing peers, career stress and what not, I am an srg student with whom people have very high hopes and the stress this "hope factor" is giving me and many others are immeasurable. thank you for making this video, anuj you are the best

    • @abhinavjha2117
      @abhinavjha2117 Рік тому +1

      I'm also in srg, you're in nurture or enthuse? And landmark city?

    • @rishanSOS
      @rishanSOS Рік тому

      ​@@abhinavjha2117nurture, sammunnat building jawahar nagar

    • @vaishnav1403
      @vaishnav1403 Рік тому +1

      I was also in SRG batch and somehow I was able to cope my pressure ,so
      I got a Government Medical college

  • @Shinx0000
    @Shinx0000 Рік тому +7

    Thank you so much brother , this helped a lot to distract me from suicidal thoughts , when I score 580 or 570+ .........there is always many people competing and scoring lot better than me ,teasing on making silly mistakes etc ......

  • @FakeidId-iu1jk
    @FakeidId-iu1jk Рік тому +13

    Thank you Anuj sir for providing this comment section to open our heart .
    I am a neet failure my friends are taking drop and I am very very very confused in life regarding what to do in life their is extreme peer pressure, I stop meeting people coz I don't have courage to handle them to face them to answer their question , and also people create this thing like 'itne marks ho tohi repeat krna chahiye ' I am really really confused and frustrated too but can't say anything at home coz if I say something that I am not feeling well I am quite feeling like depressed then though my parents are extremely supportive but I know they gonna ab toh Aisa lagega hi pehele padha nhi ...aree but everyone around me use to compare me with my sibling , my sibling do academically very well and that build a peer pressure on me and still remember during my preparation days my mom after seeing my mock test result and that was around 400, 450 or 350 something and my mom asked me a question 'itne marks mai konsa clg milta hai??? I hung my down and say nothing and she started asking agr neet nhi nikla toh kya? I was quite at that time but she constantly asking what then and I said in my mind 'sucide' I know it's not the way to take it but I literally not getting any idea what to do if not clear but thankfully they support me. Whenever I told my plans to anyone they all make a fun of it , it's not our cup of tea see for a well settle career but how one can figure out their whole life at the 18-19 year of age . I know doctor have great respect but ye kya baat hai joh log neet clear nhi kr pate woh kuch Kam k nhi hai see their efforts yaar see their other talent kyu unko izzat nhi di jati joh log fail hote hai log unko aisi najar se kyu dekhte hai bhai . Age life hai woh bhi krlenge kuch na kuch . Why u judge them from the marks they scored. What I write till now I don't know but I pour all the clutter which I had hold in my mind ...I feel more relax yes I know I can do the same on my notebook also but here I feel like I am talking to Anuj sir . Thank u sir

    • @KavyaMani-oq2hg
      @KavyaMani-oq2hg Рік тому +1

      Hey who evr u are u will be just fine trust me
      I am literally in the exact same situation as urs don't worry

    • @letsstaretogether4791
      @letsstaretogether4791 Рік тому +3

      Hello, I hope you are feeling well now. I am neet partial dropper, I am doing bsc course while preparing for neet. My parents are also very supportive of me and they were the ones who suggested me the idea of doing bsc.
      Please don't undermine this degree as you can only become a teacher from this. This is all bull crap, you can go ahead in these studies and pursue a research career which is also respectable, booming and innovative!
      If you don't feel like doing neet, do talk to your parents about your fading passion for mbbs and discuss this bsc course (if you do take then go for programme one and not the hons as after programme degree you can easily go to foreign countries for further studies)
      And if you still want to give neet then prepare befikar as this is not your final destiny
      Please take care of yourself and discuss more with your parents, even if they make fun of you, you should. Say, "I am serious about this, please consider my opinion" discussing things makes you less depressed.
      Another my personal experience from this partial drop is I am getting in better rhythm of studies and meeting new people so it is kind of refreshing.

  • @theartisticsoul309
    @theartisticsoul309 Рік тому +96

    Thank You Anuj Sir For addressing this topic !
    We should realize that this isn't the end but a lot more to come in liFe
    Its better the students realize this as earliest

    • @DrAnujPachhel
      @DrAnujPachhel  Рік тому +15

      Exactly!

    • @jellystars6575
      @jellystars6575 Рік тому +2

      ​@@DrAnujPachhelsir wanna know about if it happens to u sometimes u feel like too much and giving up ...like there is so much to do .....during ur neet or mbbs journey...
      How it was for u coz for me ur the only one I see as kinda ideal boy. . enjoying whatever comes in his way ...like always receiving the output as expected......please do reply ❤❤✨✨

  • @shivanshtiwari9633
    @shivanshtiwari9633 Рік тому +3

    date - 6/11/2023
    yep from the very first day from class 11th has been very tough
    i didnt attened any offiline couching and i am a dummy student
    my health didnt support me to go to kota or offline couching in my city
    so i decided to start my prep from my home only
    as the year began i lost contact from my school friends as they were too busy in studying
    days went on but i never scored 00+ in my any test ... i was so isolated and felt deprerssed cuz at the same time i am fighting with a dieases which has not cure but surgery
    i cant go for surgery or my one year of prep will be wasted
    anyways i didnt left my prerp , somehow i managed to study
    i endukged myself to some habbits like excercise and playing flute , piano etc
    i spend most of my day in doing this stuff studying or with my parents .. :)

  • @LeviHunter.
    @LeviHunter. 9 місяців тому +2

    I was a neet dropper aspirant of 2018 ( age -20 ) And my score was around 280 after 2nd drop. Everyone told me a that I failed and I said yes I failed in Neet but not in life. It almost 6 years . Now I am a real estate business man. I have 7 Rental penthouse in Dubai and I have a mining business as well and also I run a International Transporting business of a raw material in INDIA . My monthly Income is around 5-6 crore. So don't be Heart Broken there is a world exist outside from studies😇😇now you will wonder that why I am here...bcoz while scrolling youtube This video pop up in my feed. And all my memories got a recall

    • @Yashhhayy
      @Yashhhayy 9 місяців тому

      How you did this??????????????

  • @prateeksejwar9756
    @prateeksejwar9756 Рік тому +16

    From seeing your video in 11th class to seeing your video in first year MBBS, I followed you and now also going to follow you for next 5 years 🌠

  • @tanujanegi8300
    @tanujanegi8300 Рік тому +8

    I'm struggling with ADHD and anxiety and it's my third drop year .
    No matter how much my parents support me no matter how positive I am but societal judgement shatter everything

    • @ChackoMash007
      @ChackoMash007 Рік тому +1

      Are you medicated

    • @tanujanegi8300
      @tanujanegi8300 Рік тому +1

      @@ChackoMash007 yep I'm on medication from last 3 months
      Thanks for asking

    • @ChackoMash007
      @ChackoMash007 Рік тому

      @@tanujanegi8300 it will take few tries to get the ideal dose, I have ADHD too, it's extremely difficult but with proper help and mindset every thing is possible. There are good discussion pages on reddit, very helpful. Good luck 🤞

  • @ganesanpremkumar6410
    @ganesanpremkumar6410 Рік тому +7

    The only word that stops a student to speak about how they feel is "Hope",that people have around you.But in reality the fear of dissapointing ur parents hope is more than the fear of failures😢.I think students are not afraid to fail and face the world but just a hope from someone u love the most brings u down than anything.but guys stay storng 🙏u are creating ur own reality and im sure u are gonna win one or the other way,just give time some time to heal☺️

  • @Yahoo-v4m
    @Yahoo-v4m Рік тому +3

    Yeah i failed my neet 2023, and started preparing again and joined the famous online coaching, from 6 months i barely able to complete 15 chapters cause idk because coaching maybe isn't my cup of tea , because seeing that much detailed lectures made me bored so i started self study another 6months will be in my hand !
    So in these 6months i went through so much like self doubts, family pressure , depression, eventually i got out of it which is a good thing !
    Last mai ye bolna chahtha hun ki tum UA-cam se bhi padh sakte koi batch ki zarurat nhi hai ye sab bawaal bana ke rakha hai self study is more important. That is what im doing now.
    Last attempt hai neet ka iss bar hoya toh acchi baat hai
    Agar nhi hua toh bhi acchi baat hai kyunki mujhe iss drop year mai kaafi kuch sikne ko mil rha hai! ❤

  • @Dhanyatha-vm5eo
    @Dhanyatha-vm5eo Рік тому +3

    Even I am in depression but my parents, boyfriend didn't took very seriously. No one understand me... Indians people actually should change.. They should listen to their loved ones

  • @Achiver2815
    @Achiver2815 Рік тому +8

    When i was at kota i was builled because i belong to reservation category they just went their frustration on me i just dont react but i am also affected i dont want to depend on reservation for my selection thats my i went to kota but still i have to go through all this at last inspite of having reservation i didn't get into any medical colleges 🙂that dayd still haunt me there were many instances where i decided ......to quit but i didn't give up i didn't get into any colleges but still my parents didn't lose me even my own family members and relatives laugh at me mock me make fun of my parents that they just wasted money on me still I handled everything very positively still I am not alone there my school frnds are always there because I am a topper of my school but i didn't get into college inspite of having reservation this facts are enough for me to do something but i didn't..

  • @adishakti7293
    @adishakti7293 Рік тому +4

    The way he addressed each and every problem were so real like he really connect to my feelings....thanks for talking about this. A humble junior

  • @jmly9194
    @jmly9194 9 місяців тому +1

    I really appreciate you bringing this up bhaiya. Outside of kota it's all about the internet memes & humour about kota but it's actually more that than in here. There's so many changes being employed here, still everyday's a new start for someone & for someone it's an end. I hope we all come out of this tough phase & just live well, I hope the lives lost rest in peace & I hope the parents who lost their child get peace someday in their lives.

  • @ronoroazoro8713
    @ronoroazoro8713 Рік тому +39

    I am a 12th student, Like I am an above average student(atleast till now). I scored above 95 in my whole school life and tbh its nothing that special. I am preparing for neet but didn't have proper guidance. Recently gave AIATS and scored 344. Never felt like dying because muje apni kaamchoriya pata h (ofcourse I dont have any friends, I dont go to school, I dont even go out, my family is toxic - but i dont care because isolation is precious. there is no one to care about other than yourself).
    joining a library from tomorrow, going to work my a** off and get atleast above 580 marks. Even If I don't, I would blame it ofcourse on myself and keep trying. Because """" trying and failing is better than not even trying:""". I just don't over pressurize myself. If my mind says it needs sleep I say ok. Just don't be too strict on yourself. Treat yourself like you would do to your lil sibling. advice yourself like you need to advice your small sibling or junior. (ofc u wont say curse yourself get depressed and stop studying by taking more than normal pressure)
    I do get sad and feel low time to time more than usual but that excites me. It reminds me how great the goal is which i am running for. How great is the competition iam competing for.
    This life is such an adventure. These hard years are just an example of thrill we are going to experience.
    enjoy the thrill of this amazing ride call life heheh.
    peace. Keep working hard.

    • @deepanshisubba4619
      @deepanshisubba4619 Рік тому +5

      Late bloomers still bloom's
      It's never to Late to start

    • @AdhyaGupta-i8f
      @AdhyaGupta-i8f Рік тому +4

      Thank you so much for inspiring me, recently
      I have been too hard on myself for scoring low on mock tests and was constantly comparing myself with others.
      PS All the best to you.

    • @priiiyayadav
      @priiiyayadav Рік тому +1

      👏🏻👏🏻 can feel u friend

    • @hermionegranger7041
      @hermionegranger7041 Рік тому

      Proud of you buddy

  • @salroomawiya
    @salroomawiya Рік тому +2

    Currently in kota and its so relatable scoring low to descrimination from teachers to be sensitive to manage everything thankyou

  • @aneeza1438
    @aneeza1438 Рік тому +2

    Thank you so much Anuj sir ❤❤❤...so I'm going to explain my condition... I'm a neet dropper...it is common for all the students to think whether we will succeed or not...same is with me...but I overthink so much that sometimes I think it is better to end my life... I have tried it several times..but while tying the Hangman's knot I suddenly remember my loved ones...so I stop every time....my condition is miserable... I'm unable to tell my parents about my condition neither I have anyone whom I can talk to and explain... sometimes I overthink so much that I began thinking about my death... I'm not a dull student but this condition has made me so weak that I'm unable to focus on my studies... whenever I open my book to study I'm able to focus only for 5 minutes but after that I lost somewhere thinking about random things... I'm trying very hard to come out of it but everytime I fail...but thankyou so much Anuj sir after watching this video I'm feeling better now....

  • @paruldwivedi281
    @paruldwivedi281 Рік тому +2

    The real video everyone needs to watch. Sahi kaha aapne mental health is most important, I was overthinking about something since last 2 months and its really tough no matter how much u ignore it, u will be stuck, and that's when u need someone to talk about it and just let it out, record kro likho but just let it out💙

  • @faz3ff908
    @faz3ff908 Рік тому +4

    Studying too much, you will be bullied Studying less, you will be bullied.
    It hits
    im in medicle college and in here its at peak

  • @hana7404
    @hana7404 Рік тому +2

    As someone who has bio science in 12 and now a 2nd year bsc zoo student..i often get to hear that ohh tumse nahi hua hoga na neet kitne attempts diye the ?? But noo i never opt for neet i fought with my parents that i dont want to give neet don't want to go kota i want to be a teacher even if i become a teacher of nursery classes i would be happy cause that would be my dream that i have achieved and what if i chose neet and couldn't able to pass after 5 attempts also at that point i know everyone around will blame me for my failure and they still blame me for not choosing a dream to become a doctor or they even say" kar he nhi pati isliye to nhi diya itni himmat kaha " so it's fine either way they gona call me a failure atleast I'll be able to become something that i want to be ..i still cry by there world am still afraid that in future would I'll become something and I'm still working hard but some where in my heart i pretty happy also

  • @Tanishkapatel30
    @Tanishkapatel30 Рік тому +1

    Great bhaiya..... Thanks for this video and motivation..... Its my 2nd drop for neet... Studying very hard this year really jitna ho sakta hai utna karne ka try kr rhi hu aur next year probably ho jaega... Ab pata chal rha hai ki agar phone ko side rakh ke kitna time milta hai padhne me... Really there is so much time to study... When I was in 12th class maine neet ka padha hi nahi tha and I scored very less. In my 1st drop I went to kota aur aapne jo bhi kuch kaha vo sab truth hai kota ka... I was doing so good in my inial days in kota but at the end i started to waste my time aur time kab chala gaya aur exam aa gaya kuch pata hi nahi chala... And I decided that this year I will prepare from home and I will crack exam. I just wanted to say that agar kota ja rahe ho to dost banao hi mat aur starting se padhte raho, consistent raho, aur apne aap ko kisise compare mat karo. Ye video bohot jaruri tha un students ke liye jo kota mai akela feel kr rahe hai. Same chiz I also felt when I was in kota. And suicide is not at all the solution. Life is very short, love yourself, give your 100% ❤❤❤❤

  • @nikitha5001
    @nikitha5001 Рік тому +22

    Yes dear juniors. Life is more than just an exam. Take care of your mental health. I studied in a competitive environment for my ug preparation. I overexerted myself actually in my first year that I just kind of went into such a state like not depression not laziness. Depression can also show up as laziness. I used to sleep to clear off my mind, never had a clear routine then. Dear friends, at the end of the day, it you who has to study. Please take a break whenever you feel it is needed. Please get your vitamin D levels checked. Try meditation. Hope it helps!!

    • @Preeti-ff5yg
      @Preeti-ff5yg Рік тому +1

      Thank for this!
      I'm literally messing up these days...now realized that its actually not being lazy but depressed coz shyad i am trying too hard on myself

    • @dhivyadharshini2004
      @dhivyadharshini2004 Рік тому +1

      thank u

  • @navyamullapalem2828
    @navyamullapalem2828 Рік тому +4

    Happy that you spoke about this. It is very heart breaking to hear such news frequently. Even i have been in such situation and also had negative thoughts in my mind. I made through it and I am successfully into a med school because of my parents and friends with whom I was able to share all my problems and they have been my support systems❤. What anuj bro said is 100 percent true, I request u all to open your hearts and speak to someone who can listen to u instead of overthinking and taking bad decisions. Everything is gonna be alright. Be confident and believe in yourself. All the best juniors❤

  • @suhailsharieff155
    @suhailsharieff155 Рік тому +1

    If You r getting depressed for not getting a govt seat.. Listen this...
    I got a govt seat in my first attempt... At the same time i saw the compition been there just for ug exam and compared with engg course and found it more student friendly. I had a mediocre rank in my engg entrance too and i took admisssion in one of top and oldest tier 1 college of my state.. And I'm extremely happy now....
    Lesson is: DON'T LIMIT YOURSELF TO ONE THING, THERE MAY BE SOMETHING MORE BETTER FOR U IN OTHER STREAMS...

  • @abhigyan_tiwari5
    @abhigyan_tiwari5 Рік тому +1

    One of my very old friend went to kota for NEET preparation but never came back (you know what happened) i am also preparing for NEET but from my home. When i Heard the news about her i was shocked like a person whom i met , talked , and had fun almost everyday for more than 4 years just vanished...like a snap. I hope if someone with a condition like her is reading please don't do that.
    Thank you Anuj Sir for making the video about this topic which is still a taboo to talk about in 21st century. We Shall Prevail because we are pluripotent...

  • @natashasultana5407
    @natashasultana5407 Рік тому +8

    Listening 'Beta' from Anuj bhaiya give me goosebumps, bhaiya you are the best ❤

  • @pragatimyogenic
    @pragatimyogenic Рік тому +11

    Hye Dr.bhaiyq
    I was exactly in the situation of losing hope as well gaining hope.this vid was like beta come here here I am your big brother to help you out🥹bhaiya I really wanted to see you in real person once after I clear NEET.loads of love
    From your choti behan from a distant land❤

  • @AdityaRaj-bk3yw
    @AdityaRaj-bk3yw Рік тому +8

    We had no test for 1 month in kota and suddenly announced 3 tests in another month , i took the test but it was not up to the mark ‼️

  • @Dream_chasser
    @Dream_chasser Рік тому +1

    Thank you bhaiya for addressing about thia topic i am preparing from kota and i have seen live body hanging on fan very depression part of my life 😔

    • @laal_syanhee
      @laal_syanhee 10 місяців тому

      Bro..... You may be having nightmares right?!

  • @ShravaniWanjari
    @ShravaniWanjari Рік тому +12

    Hello Dr anuj ❤

  • @AnushkaSrivastava-y2f
    @AnushkaSrivastava-y2f Рік тому +1

    Well I'm currently in break for some days and before i was studying for neet. I took test series of pw and batch too. Actually I'm also a bds student and why I'm again studying for neet bcz i just scored less in bio (298) anc i was just 40 marks less to get mbbs. So as in my test i score lie 576, 622, and like these scores. And i score 140, 151 in physics. And when i was so stressed today, i was even scared of these marks too. I was like " NAHI, NAHI KARNA MUJHE NEET, JAANE DO, SABSE NHI HOTA" and i realised thathow much life is important. I've seen people who are feeling sleepy and they go to sleep without any worry but when i want to sleep, I've to wake up some hours to complete daily targets. But today I've decided that I'll keep my life above anything. And this video helped me realise that.

  • @raginirudra9217
    @raginirudra9217 Рік тому +1

    A unpleasant situation happened just few hours before, i am a first year mbbs student at gmc kamareddy, Telangana. A boy suffering from fever since few days had passed away today because of Neglection that he had severe internal bleeding in brain. All of our bathmates were so worried. I just shared it with my family and they were so worried. To deviate from that i opened anuj sir video and i found this thank you so much sir u made our heart feel light and our life much bright thank you for ur efforts god bless you 🙏

  • @sukhpreetk3396
    @sukhpreetk3396 Рік тому +2

    My teacher at my coaching give us big motivational lectures about how our life is supposed to revolve around neet, they say that if we qualify our life will be way easier. And sometimes they say not everyone is made for this field but in such a derogatory/sarcastic way that we end up feeling that we will be a failure. They are like if we drop "tum dhakke hi khaoge aur kuch nhi hoga tumhara" and still take dropper batches for neet. But for a matter of fact ik that its not what defines me but its still hard not to evaluate my existence on the basis of how well i do, how much is my rank. Even my parents don't force me but still in the back of mind there is a thought of not disappointing them.
    The thing is I am strongly inclined to artistic expression of things. I wanted to be an artist. But now I've almost stopped drawing and it hurts seeing my abilities drop even if i love love LOVE doing it.

  • @ShravaniSalunke-vw3sy
    @ShravaniSalunke-vw3sy Рік тому +3

    I am getting marks in range of 340-350 every time i am trying my best to increase it but it cannot mean i am just thinking what will happen in neet and when exam finishes and i come to hostel i check paper all my mistakes are just 50/50

  • @adyasha_priyadarshini_pani
    @adyasha_priyadarshini_pani Рік тому +28

    Hats off to the Hard work of you sir... you are a role model

  • @k.charitachowdary1130
    @k.charitachowdary1130 Рік тому +1

    Wah... What a video sir... Finally someone talked about the scam we've been through

  • @shreya8054
    @shreya8054 Рік тому +1

    The best part of the video which I liked.....is that kota is for someone who is mentally tough. Thank u for this video. It was amazing

  • @shakirsayar
    @shakirsayar Рік тому +2

    I may be late to comment but this is what shows the actual picture of the present scenario that is going on. Hats off to you man, this is the one channel I've never regretted following!
    Much love! ❤️

  • @anushkadas2572
    @anushkadas2572 Рік тому +7

    I am a first year neet dropper. I enrolled to Aakash offline classses in end of may to prepare for neet. The first 3 tests that i took there, i scored nearly 600 or 600+ scores. But in my 4th test my marks went down horribly. Then we had our first AIATS, for which i had worked hard a lot. But again I scored just 530. I lost almost 70 marks in simple addition, subtraction, multiplication and division. I am very depressed. The test was on 5th November and thus Wednesday, 15th November I have another ft for which i am hella unprepared. I don't even know if I will be able score 400 marks. I am feeling very depressed right now and watching this video bawling my eyes out. I have understanding parents but the fact they are working so hard for me and I am just disappointing them makes me feel guilty. I don't know what to do. I seriously feel lost.

    • @thangasanthosh7711
      @thangasanthosh7711 Рік тому +1

      Bro don't worry
      Even at beginning of my journey I never didn't even do 1 physics question for first 4 months
      I feared and at beginning I started only by doing sums by seeing solutions but slowly and steadily I improved and got 637 marks in first attempt and 150 in physics
      Just don't worry and don't giveup

    • @keshavnatani2118
      @keshavnatani2118 Рік тому +1

      Simply talk to your parents about this... You will definitely find a good answer to this question than anyone can give.. I did the same.. And today it's one of the best thing I had done in my neet journey

  • @Promethus_269
    @Promethus_269 Рік тому +1

    I ve reached the point where having dinner and sleeping feels like a waste of time, even if I hangout with friends I think I could have revised,I avoid every family function knowing I will surely regret

  • @dr.rajshreemandhare8289
    @dr.rajshreemandhare8289 Рік тому +2

    Hii Anuj, i have seen u writing ur final year mbbs exam at igmc nagpur as ur invigilator..couldn't talk at that time..but i like the topics u take for ur videos..Glad u talked on this topic..

  • @tanvix6552
    @tanvix6552 Рік тому +33

    💫🎉
    Do you think the age (maturity) and the exam teparament needed to crack neet is little mismatched? Because I'm a dropper and the way I think today , I never used to think in my 1st attempt , may be your coaching teachers help you to build that temperament , but still lots of people remain unknown about this😐

    • @cherry9475
      @cherry9475 Рік тому

      don’t know about the mismatched pattern but this maturity thing is right

    • @Yahoo-v4m
      @Yahoo-v4m Рік тому

      So true I too felt that !!

    • @niravlogzz9622
      @niravlogzz9622 Рік тому

      Trueeeeeee💯

  • @shivanikhandelwal675
    @shivanikhandelwal675 Рік тому +1

    Salute to anuj bhaiya for making this video...jo chiz har student apni tyari ke time face krta hai unko samjha or solution btaya... attitude matters than knowledge....
    Thankyou bhaiya

  • @bobideka9438
    @bobideka9438 Рік тому +2

    Although I'm using my mother's account but I think I need to tell this to the world and you. It's nothing like I've no one to talk to but i simply feel like there's just no one who might be able to understand me so I keep things to myself and it just feels wrong to bother my parents with the nuisance because they already have a bunch of things to worry about right. Well about peer pressure, we had this teacher who focused on my friend mostly because he/she was his favourite only because they've been scoring. Now i had been working equally hard but as if i didn't deserve his attention and it was always them. Now Although I tell myself that it's okay but i realised this had influenced me somewhere, severely. I was hurt actually. My teachers aren't that supportive and most of the time I'd be feeling like I have been wasting my time. It's just sad how recklessly you work yet you don't get the tiny bit you deserve, and what am I talking about here? My teacher, that particular teacher as well. I might have scored less sometimes but i know that I had worked so damn hard as well. Why didn't I deserve that? This caused me to be depressed although I have always ignored my mental health. I just wanted to talk about this, ofcourse there're tons of other things. And sometimes it's not about the competition, sometimes it's just about the fear of not being able to learn the things I desire to learn. My hunger for the knowledge is what keeps me going. Although I'm not doing great but I'm definitely doing fine and I know it. I know there's probably no point in typing all of this but why not if that helps right. So people out there, and you too Anuj, although you talk to us about these and I'm so sure that you're 99.99 percent better at handling all of these stuffs but at the end of the day we're all humans and yeah seeking help, wanting to talk to someone who you think might understand you, please do it. Or just open your notesapp and tell things to yourself. It's definitely hard but not even near to impossible. Have a good one everyone and a big thanks to you, Anuj, you've been the greatest of inspiration. Goodluck mate.

  • @parshviagrawal8363
    @parshviagrawal8363 Рік тому +2

    Thanku bhaiya ....this is one of the most sensitive topic which no.one wants to pick for us for students who are currently studying in kota ..
    Thanku bhaiya .😊

  • @PriyaKumari-xe1rm
    @PriyaKumari-xe1rm Рік тому

    yesterday i talked with my brother about my mental and belive me there is always someone whom you can say all your pain and he/she will definetly listen you

  • @topytvids
    @topytvids Рік тому +4

    Dr anuj! Watching you from Pakistan 🇵🇰since you were in 1st year of mbbs i was in class 11 u had less than 150k subscribers.. Ur good in medical field and have brilliant mind so..........

  • @Diya_K
    @Diya_K Рік тому +6

    Am watching this after grinding hard since 2Am of the day continuously i'm exhausted and currently relating to all the words he spoke. Its been 5 months of me being a Aspirant and tbh there comes a day in every week it feels like sab kuch chor ke ghar chali jau. We have Physics test every weekend almost and not lying since i am here not even a single sunday paased in which I didn't cried , its like all my frustration due to continous test vents out.I tell my parents about all of the stuff and am lucky enough to have the parents who says "Nhi hora toh so jao, hume neet crack karne se jyada tum thik hona important hai, dusre course bhi exist karte hai, ek try mei nhi hua toh kya drop lelenge nhi toh baaki course mei try kar lenge bas tum apna khyal rakho" but this words hurts me the most it feels like they deserve the better child due to which these days i feel ashamed to even have a talk with them. Not gonna lie i feel like i am not working as i should, i get distracted easily. It hurts when my friends even after working less scores much better than me who grinded my a** off. I am enrolled in wma nagpur and really wanted to go to kota earlier but now understood the self study is what matters no matter how good the faculty is
    Anyways done with my brk though exhausted but stilll will carry on my grind
    Gl all🙌🏻

    • @user-billa007
      @user-billa007 Рік тому

      Daily how many hours you slept bro

    • @Diya_K
      @Diya_K Рік тому

      @@user-billa007 On an Avg 4-7 hrs..it varies

  • @TheAmateurAspirant
    @TheAmateurAspirant Рік тому +2

    Everytime he saying beta...i'm getting a sense of relief ❤

  • @Shriii_10
    @Shriii_10 Рік тому +14

    Thankyou so much bhaiya, as a neet aspirant, you're me mentor & inspiration! Seeing you doing a lot of hardwork, motivates me to give my best & work hard , thanks a lot bhaiya for everything! ❤

  • @spencer-rb4jo11
    @spencer-rb4jo11 Рік тому +4

    This is why i like anuj Bhai ❤he is truly a big brother for all😊 love from kerala🏞️

  • @laal_syanhee
    @laal_syanhee 11 місяців тому

    11:15 Oh my God I've not watched the complete video before..... Maine to yu hi i felt like someone was stalking me on the previous videos isliye i jump into this one..... But aap yha bhi same baat bole ho na..... Maine socha ki aaj Sunday hai na so dekh daalte hai ye wala video..... And this moment came.....

  • @lavanyadeotale1614
    @lavanyadeotale1614 Рік тому +4

    Thankyou Bhaiya for letting us express our feelings here.. being a 12th grader and living far away from home is just so difficult for me not for me but it's relatable for many .. Sometimes it's so confusing and it just make me so depressed thinking about how my life will be further belonging from a lower middle class family with high expectations of all its literally full of pressure that's just making me self doubts and making me weak it makes me really think that do I study in a proper way can I get a good college what would be my life without it ..? It really is so confusing for me I really wanna get out of this get rid of this but I don't know how to .

    • @hermionegranger7041
      @hermionegranger7041 Рік тому +1

      I can totally understand your emotions. Even I went through those. But trust the process. Your future self will be so proud of you that you didn't gave up even when the situation became so tough for you.
      Whenever you want to share something you always have us. Just don't go through the pain alone.

  • @soumyapandey5566
    @soumyapandey5566 Рік тому +1

    Bhaiya the things you said is so true ..in coaching classes the syllabus moves with its own pace and if an student first time experienceing everything is not able to analyse on time ki how they are teaching, how i have to cover the syllabus and everything, his/hers syllabus starts to get behind and then there's are backlogs and everthing. Next level pressure i mean.

  • @maysha186
    @maysha186 Рік тому +2

    Wonderful sunday..🎉

  • @Crystal_9799
    @Crystal_9799 Рік тому +2

    I cried so much listening to him.if you are an average student you can understand why🙃

  • @sai9209
    @sai9209 Рік тому +2

    It's been a month, I've left a course which I was never interested in but chose(still don't know the reason why I've done it). Now at this present date I've wasted 2 years preparing for that exam in my early 20's which I feel has a lot of potential, I've made a CV and always thought that finding a job wouldn't be that difficult, but guess what I was wrong, being a university topper in April 2022, receiving my dream gold medal rejecting 2 jobs in campus placement and now getting rejected for even an internship. I feel it is my greatest downfall ever. My family has been way more supportive (my parents and my maternal side) it's a bit difficult to the side of my paternal side but it's manageable I feel..
    All of this happening I have finally started off again keeping one word in my mind "HOPE", after all these things I'm pretty sure I'll rise back soon, my name is Teja, I'll be rising soon and brighter than ever.
    Thanks Anuj for talking such an important topic 😊 and all those strong people who've read this comment.

  • @Mr_ST_720
    @Mr_ST_720 Рік тому +7

    I was very good in maths n science . In school 6 to 10th i was tall so teacher use to make me sit with back benchers who were not studious . Our school was average n all kinds of different economic class comes. The back benchers surroundings were criminal like environment. I was only one who scored out of out in maths n science n due to this i was bullied all throught 6,7,8,9,10th . atleast at 10 it was minimum. It hurt 🤕 a lot being bullied criminally , the other good student started seeing me similarly criminal mind though i was honest humble n studious n scored excellent in maths n science. Good studious peers did not allowed me to get along with them and criminal minded did not leave me till i left my school. School till 10th was night mare. But after 10th in college since i took science i got good friend circle. They were not bright but studious n hence i liked all my College years. I still have fear phobia of school n started hating schools n its common life. Anyways its past but still haunts me sometimes.

    • @teeksha1081
      @teeksha1081 Рік тому

      Ohh .. it's so sad that you had to bear this pain ...we as a society have lost in front of good people like you...i really hope you get out of your scary past and achieve big things in life...
      All the best 👍😊

  • @pranitirathod8333
    @pranitirathod8333 Рік тому +7

    Plzz upload video on how u r too fluent in English speaking..
    And also plzz upload ur study with me..😊

  • @Ashu_017.
    @Ashu_017. Рік тому +1

    I don't know how to thank you.
    Just yesterday I cried alot just for not having anyone to talk.
    And literally don't have anyone to talk with and to share my feelings. Everyone is just selfish around my world no one want to listen me and whenever I tried to tell them about my condition everyone started ingnoring me or just started talking about other things. It felt so bad .

    • @cozymelody4509
      @cozymelody4509 Рік тому +2

      Im so sorry :(
      Even if you dont have people to talk to about these feelings, dont pile it all inside. Try journaling, write down whatever you're feeling and why you're feeling the way you are feeling - it'll also help you understand your emotions better.
      If you want to, you can make some friends online (reddit has a lot of student based subreddits and some people there are actually very helpful and understanding, while some are not). However please DONT get addicted to it, dont let it become a distraction!
      Take care of yourself (take out an hour or so daily to do something you like), dont pile up your emotions.
      Best of luck to you.

    • @Ashu_017.
      @Ashu_017. Рік тому

      @@cozymelody4509 thankyou dear 🤍

  • @pallerlasudheer5219
    @pallerlasudheer5219 Рік тому +2

    Waiting for ur video🎉🎉

  • @jahanvi7140
    @jahanvi7140 Рік тому +2

    10:20 what if i don't have anybody who understands me ? will you listen to me ?

    • @Sam_78.
      @Sam_78. Рік тому

      Idk about him but i'll surely listen to u

  • @ayushpatkur26
    @ayushpatkur26 Рік тому +2

    Love u Anuj bhaiya ❤

  • @mounikamona4035
    @mounikamona4035 Рік тому +4

    922k currently!!
    Been following you since 600k, can't wait to see you hit 1million!!

  • @Newnew63829
    @Newnew63829 Рік тому +2

    Whoever think ki Suicide is the ultimate solution just think about your parents or think whatever is dependent only upon you..wo sab kaise rahega after tum khud relief pane ke liye ja rahe ho..
    Be strong 🙂 wisely sabkuch handle karna sikho champ

  • @fatimashaikh4318
    @fatimashaikh4318 Рік тому +5

    Thank you so much sir
    I m 1st year B.A.M.S student
    Sir you inspired me alot your videos keeps me motivating ✨️ and makes my day 😊
    I feel so gratefull that i m part this family ❤

  • @tgpriksha
    @tgpriksha Рік тому +1

    Started to watch❤❤❤
    Luv u anuj 😊

  • @Stacy_xox
    @Stacy_xox Рік тому +5

    Regular visitor to his channel💖💗 love you Dr. Anuj pachhel🩺....
    Love from arunachal pradesh 🙇🍓💞💞💞💞

  • @preksha731
    @preksha731 Рік тому +1

    Ya I have failed a lot in my decisions but its ok move on don't listen to wrong guidance follow your self passion and parents will support u but I know sometimes mom listens and dad don't its ok follow your brain

  • @Hisoka-m1i
    @Hisoka-m1i Рік тому +1

    There must be a special feature on this channel so that we could like the video not only once but many times as we wished. Best motivating channel ever seen😊

  • @jyotiyadav2433
    @jyotiyadav2433 Рік тому +2

    Hlo bhaiya... I'm a dropper student pursuing my prep from home only... cuz' my parents didn't allowed me to go somewhere. It has been 6 month now but still I'm not able to study well cuz of my parents. Idk why but they always put me down... always taunting me that I'll achieve nothing in life. I had a lot to ignore them and focus on my studies but I can't...their words are affecting me so hard that I used to cry like hell every single night...I just don't know how to make them understand that their trust is how much imp to me😩

  • @lavanya_tembhe4340
    @lavanya_tembhe4340 Рік тому +18

    @10 am club❤ you are good example of perfection bhaiya 🎉

  • @30zaibaattarxe43
    @30zaibaattarxe43 Рік тому +2

    Thank you bhaiya.. These months of November, December are going to be hard..i needed this video during this time of my preparation...Your videos surely helps...!

  • @Lakshya-bhavesh
    @Lakshya-bhavesh Рік тому +3

    I feel blank… i don’t know what to do and how to do.
    I am preparing for NEET and i choose to do it myself not in pressure of someone, not even my parents but the reason i choose it is because I don’t know what to do after 12th.
    I choose bio in 11th and 12th because i was interested in science so i thought this is the path to choose but now as i see competition is soo much, i am scared that I can’t do it….
    I don’t feel like studying at all at first i was doing decent in my studies but now i have completely stopped.. don’t know what to do and how to stand on my parents expectations. I can’t even blame my parents as i choose this path myself.
    Talking to my friends doesn’t help much so it feels good to share my thoughts here 😊

    • @sanjayabhal9258
      @sanjayabhal9258 Рік тому

      Study NCERT Bio,Chem,learn phy concept,last 10 Years Pyq,mock test must it will help you.

    • @swadeshswadesh2904
      @swadeshswadesh2904 Рік тому

      Phy - u can do the qns asked in last 10 yrs and practice such type of ..
      Also read some ncert of such chapters jahan se theoriticals qns aa sake..also folloe MR sir
      I cracked in the same way
      Bio - ncert mu zubaani ...and learn new added topics from yt or modules
      Chem - physical ncert important chaps theoretical padh Lena
      Inorganic-ncert
      Organic-ncert +ncert exercise qns too

    • @siyasat5secshort477
      @siyasat5secshort477 Рік тому

      Same with me I took science in class 11 and 12 there was no pressure from parents but I m intrest ed in science after 12 what we r gonna do so preparing for neet but the competition 😂

    • @cozymelody4509
      @cozymelody4509 Рік тому +1

      You can also use journaling for venting out, it works wonders. And if you study and revise regularly, you most def can do it! Abhi NEET and boards ki acche se prep krlo, baad m if you think this path is not suitable for you, you can go for something else. Make a smart strategy, revise and practice (esp pyqs)

    • @dishashejul9099
      @dishashejul9099 7 місяців тому

      Have you cleared it now...?

  • @Neet2024-bq2xp
    @Neet2024-bq2xp Рік тому +1

    I am on antidepressants and I got super anxious watching this....I was getting flashbacks....I am scoring fine
    But the constant fear and my stupid brain who overthinks every freaking thing its getting tougher
    I am trying my best tho.....🥺

  • @prawgss
    @prawgss Рік тому +2

    This video is so important. Thank you anuj bhaiya for this video. hoping it gets the reach it needs:))

  • @AnshuKumari-nq9ex
    @AnshuKumari-nq9ex Рік тому +1

    Thank you so much dr.anuj bhaiya ❤️❤️

  • @daggerop6822
    @daggerop6822 Рік тому +2

    This is my second drop year attempting neet and i have come to a point where i know I'm not making it through the exam , but my parents have a little too much expectations from me as they want me to get a govt seat this year . I got a private college via counselling but had to drop out due to personal reasons. I just don't know what to do anymore. It's just too stressful and frustrating for me i don't know what to do.

  • @detonator7163
    @detonator7163 Рік тому +3

    Thankyou sir

  • @madhurisgarden3150
    @madhurisgarden3150 Рік тому +1

    The video came at the very required time...thankyou soo much bhaiya
    congrats you saved a smile from fading away

  • @reality_vision1
    @reality_vision1 Рік тому +2

    The day today,,,,,
    I quite Kota City today and going tomorrow in my own city 🙂
    Kota jgh nhi h Jail h agar app serious ho study ke liye 😢

  • @stydy_varunchawla
    @stydy_varunchawla Рік тому +3

    Sundays routine❤