Check out the behaviour of a person in public once they are under pressure. Is he aggressive whilst driving, speaking to a waitress rudely requesting his order? Has he been stringing you along with empty promises year in year out? Don't let people use you or waste your life. Move on.
Yes indeed .. I watch body language in public Slouching in a restaurant booth red flag 🚩 Bad manners red flag 🚩 Unable to handle pressure red flag 🚩 Treating elders poorly not even a red flag it’s just a done deal . In the past I’d over look all of this & wondered why things went south . Discernment is KEY .
It sounds like he was looking for a caregiver. It would be so convenient to pay for bed n board. Laundry, meals, housekeeping. God forbid he falls down!
I really liked a co-worker. We were both in our 50s, widowed, and always laughed and helped each other with work. When he had a stroke I visited him in the hospital and encouraged him when he returned to work. A male co-worker told him to ask me out for coffee. He said he was very conservative and would not date a black woman. I felt sad, as him being white was not an issue to me. So, I truly believe the statement about rejection being God's protection.
He's not for you. He's a taker. You're a beautiful woman. Stay away from him. He's a scarecrow to the other men. And they know what he is like too. God has someone better.😊
I also want to observe them when they are extremely angry, hurt by another person, dealing with hardships, when they have an illness like the flu. I am single, and not looking… Celibate I have been for five years my rule of thumb if I am dating is that between three and six months a man’s true character starts to come out Someone with a weak character generally changes at the three month mark 😕😏🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️😑
Just this morning, i was remembering the scripture, "he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord". This is telling us ladies, Leave these men let them seek! The women should never pursue. We are to be pursued.
A man at work acted very interested in me. We had a common interest to discuss but he also was very obvious about being interested and everyone could see it. When I was transferred, he went to my office looking for me when he worked in that building occasionally, but he did not leave his name or card. He would come find me, acting very interested, but never ask me out. My co-worker told me he needed to either ask me out or knock it off, because his behavior was going to stop other men from approaching. Well, turns out he has had a girlfriend for many years. I didn’t find out until 2-3 years after I met him. I had wasted more time hoping and wondering. I told him his behavior confused me, and he needs to mention his GF in conversation. He made the excuse that he has social problems and doesn’t know what’s appropriate. If a man doesn’t ask you out, there’s a reason. Don’t waste time thinking, hoping, and daydreaming. You’ll waste your life in limerance.
I hope the young ladies are really listening to Miss Faye. She is dropping knowledge that I wish I had when I was younger. I learned most of my lessons the hard way. Never again. Glad I internalized my lessons as a younger woman so as not to repeat them. Internalize what Miss Faye is saying to save yourselves from trouble. ☮️
1. Take your time getting to know him while dating 2. Stay celibate 3. Don't look for happiness in a man, otherwise you will end up chasing him 4. Nothing to offer 5. Unstable 6. Doesn't pursue nor initiate contact 7. He is fresh out of a long term relationship 8. He wants to keep the relationship publicly invisible
Learned the hard way. Bought him a gift for Christmas. Received nothing but sex and empty promises. We were supposed to go on vacation next week. Haven’t heard from him since last month. Blocked him and not looking back.
I suddenly feel sad for the women who want good relationships and a traditional family. It would be exhausting to have to wade through all the suitors with damage that are trying to hide it from the world.
I’m in my early 40s and boy I wish I knew this when I was younger. I recently met this guy and I am seeing all the red flags 🚩 and it hasn’t been a full month! I have already moved on!
Don't let him move in. He wants to maintain his hidden lifestyle and stack his money. She will feel like a roommate, instead of a mate. He wants to live off of her. Men use women at All ages. He should have his priority straight at that old age. He had it good with his daughter. She will save a lot of money 💰 taking herself to Vegas. We aren't working hard to take care of a man at any age. Thank you Miss Faye you are helping us women to stay strong. He is keeping the door 🚪 open with the other woman. God don't bless no mess!!! The sister is a mess too, that's why she don't judge. She is the side chick!!!😂😂😂 snake 🐍
I am almost 60 now and decided to sew good seeds in me...I use to feel bad about not wanting a man because of the pain and trauma I've faced with them but now I don't care and try so much not to make eye contact with them..I'm the happiest I've ever been
Letter #2:. If you approach a man and if he does respond most likely it is a grown boy. Who wants to be taken care of. He will just use a woman for s#x, and her resources. If a man is really interested he will approach you. I appreciate you Miss Faye and this video.
We have to put our feelings/heart in check and pay attention to how you are being treated. Don't get emotionally attached so quickly. I had to learn this the hard way.
“You can’t eat on his face!” 😂😂😂. That’s the best line I’ve heard in quite a while Miss Faye! I love your channel and all the wisdom you share….thank you so much!❤
Absolutely on point about the 72 year old. I would have never thought like how you explained him. OMG you're awesome. We have to learn to wait to see what he will do before we jump in. "The apartment not being ready situation." Dodged a bllt.
He's 72, has serious health problems (spinal), no place to stay, anger problems, etc. Vegas? (May have a gambling habit and BROKE!!) Too many RED FLAGS flying here. He's looking for a "nurse & a purse". He wants to move in with her so she can cook, clean, s3x, drive him around, etc. She needs to run a background check on him. He's hiding something. Let him go live with his family. He will be a "burden" instead an asset to this woman. RUN!!!!!
Miss Faye is SO right! I chased my husband initially. He was still hurting from a long-term relationship breakup. As Faye says, yes, he had the power. We weren’t having sex yet and a month or two went by. I got tired of the situation and the ex would contact him for various reasons, etc., so one day I ended it. I said, I understand you are still getting over this relationship; however, I can find somebody who wants me without having their “back door open.” Take some time to work through that, figure it out, and if you’re ever ready, give me a call. - The change was instantaneous. I had the power. He called me the next day and I set some parameters. That was 32 years ago. The secret I keep is that I had a first date scheduled for the next weekend that I cancelled because I felt that my future husband seemed special and I wanted to devote some time to him once he came around to my way of thinking. 😊
I completely agree with you Miss Faye about the 72 year old man who wants to rent a room from the lady. It is a no go. I would like to add that if a person eats 3 meals a day in a restaurant, the person probably has health issues that are exacerbated. Most restaurant food is not as healthy as home cooking.
I met a man on-line in 2019. He was in his 50s. Retired from teaching high school, and was in real estate and had a property management business. He managed three HOAs. He was at the tail end of a divorce. Estranged wife who didn’t work and THREE DAUGHTERS were still in their big house in a suburban neighborhood. He had an apartment in the city. We went out several times. His lease ended and moved to a different apartment back across the city closer to the family and broke our dating off. He drove his daughters to and from school, so he never should have been in my area in the first place. I think he wanted to enjoy the city and eat at hip restaurants. Several months ago we went to dinner. He told me he recently found out he has non-alcoholic fatty liver disease. He’s been eating at restaurants three times a day since he separated. Can you imagine, he can’t even buy groceries and make his own breakfast and lunch? He didn’t even know fruit contains sugar. He’s not overweight, but he’s ruined his health.
He already told her he has health issues and she already said no he can't rent a room from her and still wants to hang out, there's nothing wrong with that. Everything isn't negative all the time.
I'm 47 and should be kicking myself with whom I've shared with. A parolee and having mommy and anger issues. Got myself into a DV situation I just buried my mother in law suffering from. Gets mad at me when I told him the truth. Weight loss and low self esteem. I'm pushing 50 and stability is the name of the game. Celibacy a must. Trust God.❤
Thank you very much! Your wisdom is schooling us younger folks. Im in my mid 30’s I thought my 5 yr relationship would be the one but it was actually my worst relationship because of Domestic Violence and his narcissistic ways. I thank God for intervening in what I thought my plans were. That’s exactly what happened to me. I knew this man for a long time and he comes off as relationship material but once we moved in and I had his son wow did I get to know him and all his bad intentions. I’m grateful to God I got out in time. Thank you Miss Faye!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 time to celebrate my life the way God always has intended for me and my children.
Ladies I keep saying to 🛑 living with these men n moving them into your house or apartment. Take the time to get to know him, keep sxx off the table. Once you do that it changes the whole dynamics of the relationship. It’s very difficult to get to know a person if you’re sleeping with them. Ladies you must set boundaries n keep it real. Have respect, pride n dignity in yourself. Take your time to get know the man. Don’t rush anything. Pls get the ring first have that covenant relationship b4 any type of intimacy. Ladies do your own investigation, check their families, friends etc. Take at least a year to get to know him. It takes a process to really get to know someone. Miss Faye she is on my track of relationship advice.
Miss Faye, you are the G.O.A.T. when it comes to advice and wisdom about relationships and women's personal growth! Keep doing your spiritual good work. May God bless you always. 🙂
Thank you, Miss. Faye, for the eye-opener!! I can handle rejection!! I never thought about, that God was protecting me from hurt!! I guess that's why sent me back home, from up north and never let me went back!! The man, I met there, was married!! He told me that he wasn't!!
I have a different spin on that first letter and the man wanting to downsize.I agree with her not allowing him to rent a room in her house but when people reach a certain age they don't want all of the trimmings that come with keeping and maintaining a house, insurances, landscaping, shoveling snow etc. Plus he is not a healthy man, an apartment maybe more manageable for him. What does he need a big house to do with? He probably never learnt to cook,probably had someone doing that for him all his life so doesn't see the sense in buying groceries to just have them there,when he can eat out. HE has to have money to be able to do that,pay rent,go to Vegas etc.I don't agree that this man is broke. I am 47 female in a 2 storey house,my dream house is a one storey much more manageable space when I am older. I see you Miss Faye outside raking leaves, everyone doesn't want to be doing that kind of thing.
Right when miss Faye said “ rent a room “ my wheels started Turning! It would be a NO from me . Speaking of the corvette . .. my ex of five years who refused to marry me ended up marrying a woman he hardly knew , was flexing all over FB his red corvette , motorcycles & cars etc 😂 I knew deep down it was all hers , low & behold he ended up leaving her & was looking for me again . I knew it would end that way & so thankful I ended the relationship in 2016 knowing it was just a dead end .he was doing well on his own he should have grew from that rebuild Insted he kept going backward . I’m staying SINGLE I’ve finally found my peace & have no desire to play with what I’ve worked so hard to unravel being my own worst enemy . Life is so much more fulfilling having genuine friendships / relationships rather than these fake shallow toxic relationships with shady men . The more I heal myself the better I’ll attract ❤
As a widow, I haven't been on a date in 4 years..I'm 61 /looks 40's.. Doesn't look like I am missing anything at all our there.. It's scary out there. I am celibate and emotionally intelligent. I have done a lot of work over the years and the right man will find a jewel when he finds me. I never seek men, just am very busy enjoying and living my life. Thanks Miss. Faye.
You are right Ms. Faye. It is something fishy with the man in the 1st letter. Now he wants someone to be his nurse. There's an ulterior motive with him.
@@genxx2724 right..lol..I looked up the definition for nursemaid and its taking care of small children. Its still always best to use the correct word(s).
You open my eyes everyday. I share your videos with my daughters. I pray they develop the interest to watch them. Your videos will definitely save them from unscrupulous men who prey on women shamelessly.
I just say NO and leave as soon as they start that sex stuff. 🤮. Men are one minded. Sex sex sex..it's so awful. I can't wanna hear that stuff. I'm HAPPY alone!
Men tell you all you need to know. Often times we ignore what there saying to us. Five years is a long time to know him. Violence is not something that takes 5 years to come out.
I just met a man 3 weeks ago and we had two dates already and we have good conversations but i am observing his habits. He mention that he likes taking his time in new relationships as i am as well. So will see how it goes. Im honestly not in a rush for a relationship! Im definitely taking my time.
Miss Faye you have blessed my life tremendously. I’m so happy I found your channel. I am an avid listener everyday and I have appreciated your wisdom on celibacy and my spiritual journey🤍🌻💫
I ❤ all of Miss Faye’s advices. The longer I am single the more I enjoy it. But it’s good to know what red flags to look for and how to go about dating just in case of in the future I decide I want a man not need one😮
Miss Faye, you crack me up🤣🤣 talking about pastors. You didn’t bite your tongue when you said many are weasels, wolves, and whores. I totally agree. This lady knows something is amiss and thinks if he moves his furniture everything will be perfect. NOT, the furniture seems like just the tip of the iceberg. Although I’m not in a relationship and don’t plan to be, because men like to play games, I love your advice. What I have taken away from your advice is understanding of things in my former marriage that eluded me at the time. If there had been a Miss Faye when I was dating and married I think I would have done a lot of things very differently IF I was willing to listen.
Some do not want to be alone , lived in a big home no family there to help ? So a smaller home now is better , sound like he has his own income , a lonely older man , good to cook at home and along with each other or for one another. Just try ! Give him a chance find out be come friends
Trappings😮is a perfect word, for when a man says what he has. Trappings for a Trap! Thank u, Ms. Faye for your Words of Wisdom! I won't be Trapped by trappings, that is not a true measure of a Man. 🕊️
Aunt Faye you are a genius every thing you said is true you have to wacth these men and the ones in the church are the worst. I had 2 men from the church and a preacher and it was a nightmare never again. And they will rebound in a minute and most of the time based on study it won't last because a lot of times they are not over the x.ive done it all men will lie lie lie I'm just now getting over a man preacher who at first it was beautiful but when that mask fell off I was devastated I pray for all of us be careful the game is more intense now they will fool you been there 3 times.
He wants someone to take care of him. I get it because I am in that situation myself. You worry if you become ill, who will take care of you. What this woman has to be wary of if she allows him to move in with her, that he may be difficult to get rid of. He could conceivably refuse to leave. Once he is in her house, he has squatter's rights.
Ohh Ms. Faye luv your Pastor story him jumping from your bed to the pulpit preachin' away! I've written you and this broadcast confirms that I'm a secret too. Please pray for my discernment. And strength to move on. I gotta stay true to me ❣️
You can say that again my sister and I wish I had a dad to tell me what my worth was me and my sister but we had to learn the hard way but I thank Almighty God for you today shalom❤
Hi Miss Faye, 🎉 what a joy you are! This wisdom is very important for today. Thank you so much for being willing and available to share your wealth of wisdom with us what a help you are to many.thanks again! from Bakersfield, California love you, Miss Darlene
I saw a video of a prostitute who spoke of a client she once had. This man was very rich and didn't take her to a hotel, but his home. That should of been a red flag that he was into some freaky stuff, that he couldn't do to her in a hotel. When they got to his house, he told her to get in a cage. She thought nothing of it and did it. After gave her some drugs to get her high. Than he put his dog in the cage with her, and told her to have sex with the dog. She felt vulnerable and trapped, saw she could be in a life or death situation and did it. He kept her in the cage for three days. Only paid her $1000, and he let her go. This video is on UA-cam, on a page called soft white underbelly. Don't look at someone's money and think right away you won the jackpot. Many celebrities in Hollywood do freaky stuff like this. Just becareful out there.🙏❤️🙏
You're not lying! A reformed "crackhead" years ago at my church told a lot of these types of stories to us. She said you cannot trust a "Doctor, lawyer, indian chief, minister, etc." They ALL got high with her and did all kinds of "freaky" stuff! (She has HIV) She said the married ones were worst than a single man. Ladies, be careful out here!!!
I love Miss Faye. My Mom passed last month, but she showed up in my suggestions and reminds me so much of my Mom in her youth. Thank you! It's helping me grieve and helping me move on! Keep them coming!
Wow Miss Faye you helped me greatly when you said "rejection is divine protection". I have never heard that before, it is such a relief to know during this current experience that I am facing. Thank you.
Enjoyed your "He's not the one!" episode. Great title! lol I would believe your wisdom and sharing stories is helping many individuals. What a great gift to women! Your teachings reaffirm what I already know and teaches me important things I didn't know. This gives me the confidence to make better choices. Someday if I date again I'm going to be ready because of you!
Why is the pastor sleeping around in the first place!!! That's a red flag right there. I would never sit up under a pastor like that. Also, who else is he sleeping with? The woman whom he claims he's no longer with, I bet she could tell you some things about this joker. Girl, run and run fast. He is NOT the one.
Queen Faye, 🙌🏾❤️. I’m sorry I had to “Rewind”; when you said “Pastor”. Laawdy be, Laawdy be, Here it Come, I can see now, Pastor and living with a female for. 6Yrs, No marriage? Oh Laawdy be,
29:52 They are what🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 I'm laughing cos you hit a nail on this especially that "they hide behind their religion". And on top of that carry the bible wherever they go🤣🤣🤣
Check out the behaviour of a person in public once they are under pressure. Is he aggressive whilst driving, speaking to a waitress rudely requesting his order? Has he been stringing you along with empty promises year in year out? Don't let people use you or waste your life. Move on.
U r so right the truth 💯
Yes indeed .. I watch body language in public
Slouching in a restaurant booth red flag 🚩
Bad manners red flag 🚩
Unable to handle pressure red flag 🚩
Treating elders poorly not even a red flag it’s just a done deal .
In the past I’d over look all of this & wondered why things went south . Discernment is KEY .
@@Christinesobsevations wow! You are a real people observer. Good for being so aware as it spares you a lot of drama of mixing with the wrong person.
@@Christinesobsevations Where are you finding these losers, and why do you even accept a date with them?
It sounds like he was looking for a caregiver. It would be so convenient to pay for bed n board. Laundry, meals, housekeeping. God forbid he falls down!
That 72 year old man is not a prize he's a problem
Yep!
You know that's right! He's looking for a nurse. 🤣
@@feferosette. With A Purse 👛😂😄🤣. # In The Words Of { Ms. Faye 👵🏽 }.
Yeah 😂@@capricornshanniediva23
I really liked a co-worker. We were both in our 50s, widowed, and always laughed and helped each other with work. When he had a stroke I visited him in the hospital and encouraged him when he returned to work. A male co-worker told him to ask me out for coffee. He said he was very conservative and would not date a black woman. I felt sad, as him being white was not an issue to me. So, I truly believe the statement about rejection being God's protection.
Yes. I think you dodged a bullett with that particular man. Plenty of nice white men out there who adore black ladies.✨
I'd take my encouragement elsewhere. You are too good for that. He missed out.
He's not for you. He's a taker. You're a beautiful woman. Stay away from him. He's a scarecrow to the other men. And they know what he is like too. God has someone better.😊
Yes, it was God’s protection
@@missta1820 Yes but a White dudes family & friends will never accept interracial dating. It’s truth not pc
God threw every monkey wrench in mine and my ex's relationship because he wanted more for me than to settle for a demon with a dark heart 👿
I also want to observe them when they are extremely angry, hurt by another person, dealing with hardships, when they have an illness like the flu. I am single, and not looking… Celibate I have been for five years my rule of thumb if I am dating is that between three and six months a man’s true character starts to come out Someone with a weak character generally changes at the three month mark 😕😏🤷🏻♀️🤦🏻♀️😑
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Hello!!! The truth!
Just this morning, i was remembering the scripture, "he who finds a wife, finds a good thing and obtains favour from the Lord". This is telling us ladies, Leave these men let them seek! The women should never pursue. We are to be pursued.
A man at work acted very interested in me. We had a common interest to discuss but he also was very obvious about being interested and everyone could see it. When I was transferred, he went to my office looking for me when he worked in that building occasionally, but he did not leave his name or card. He would come find me, acting very interested, but never ask me out. My co-worker told me he needed to either ask me out or knock it off, because his behavior was going to stop other men from approaching. Well, turns out he has had a girlfriend for many years. I didn’t find out until 2-3 years after I met him. I had wasted more time hoping and wondering.
I told him his behavior confused me, and he needs to mention his GF in conversation. He made the excuse that he has social problems and doesn’t know what’s appropriate.
If a man doesn’t ask you out, there’s a reason. Don’t waste time thinking, hoping, and daydreaming. You’ll waste your life in limerance.
I used to attend church. A man would stare at me all the time, say something here & there, but never asked me out. I wondered if he was attached.🤔
I hope the young ladies are really listening to Miss Faye. She is dropping knowledge that I wish I had when I was younger. I learned most of my lessons the hard way. Never again. Glad I internalized my lessons as a younger woman so as not to repeat them. Internalize what Miss Faye is saying to save yourselves from trouble. ☮️
This should be common sense by a certain age.
@@ginacampbell8766 some don't have common sense
@@sarahsimpkins1311 thats a scary thing in life. Especially if you don't have at least that much intelligence
I really appreciate you're knowledge able word's
These are things I just knew & felt, someone would gas light me saying that's not how it works. Everything is coming back full circle.
This man is looking for a caregiver… RUN!!!!!
It’s totally obvious. He want to move in, and as he becomes more and more infirm, it will be her problem.
Don’t let anyone use you!
1. Take your time getting to know him while dating
2. Stay celibate
3. Don't look for happiness in a man, otherwise you will end up chasing him
4. Nothing to offer
5. Unstable
6. Doesn't pursue nor initiate contact
7. He is fresh out of a long term relationship
8. He wants to keep the relationship publicly invisible
Wow. I think I scored maybe 1 of these items 🫠
Don't bring a man in your home. If you need him to go you have a new set of issues.
NOTHING FROM NOTHING,LEAVES NOTHING....YOU GOTTA HAVE SOMETHING,IF YOU WANT TO BE WITH ....ME.....
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First letter, he is looking for a nurse. That's why he wanted to move in.
A nurse with a purse @ the end
Learned the hard way. Bought him a gift for Christmas. Received nothing but sex and empty promises. We were supposed to go on vacation next week. Haven’t heard from him since last month. Blocked him and not looking back.
Queen move ❤
I suddenly feel sad for the women who want good relationships and a traditional family. It would be exhausting to have to wade through all the suitors with damage that are trying to hide it from the world.
Same
I’m in my early 40s and boy I wish I knew this when I was younger. I recently met this guy and I am seeing all the red flags 🚩 and it hasn’t been a full month! I have already moved on!
Don't let him move in. He wants to maintain his hidden lifestyle and stack his money. She will feel like a roommate, instead of a mate. He wants to live off of her. Men use women at All ages. He should have his priority straight at that old age. He had it good with his daughter. She will save a lot of money 💰 taking herself to Vegas. We aren't working hard to take care of a man at any age. Thank you Miss Faye you are helping us women to stay strong. He is keeping the door 🚪 open with the other woman. God don't bless no mess!!! The sister is a mess too, that's why she don't judge. She is the side chick!!!😂😂😂 snake 🐍
Don’t date people from your job. Also, it that man has nothing to provide then it’s going to be a bad ending for you.
Yes.
The 72 year old is a bum. Sister better run…..run!
I am almost 60 now and decided to sew good seeds in me...I use to feel bad about not wanting a man because of the pain and trauma I've faced with them but now I don't care and try so much not to make eye contact with them..I'm the happiest I've ever been
That's the key no eye contact or interest at all 🫠
Me too! Once I stopped talkin to men I felt happier in life
Same! Been abused by men most of my life so now I’m celibate, I avoid them and just do my own thing with my friends and it’s so peaceful
Letter #2:. If you approach a man and if he does respond most likely it is a grown boy. Who wants to be taken care of. He will just use a woman for s#x, and her resources. If a man is really interested he will approach you. I appreciate you Miss Faye and this video.
We have to put our feelings/heart in check and pay attention to how you are being treated. Don't get emotionally attached so quickly. I had to learn this the hard way.
Never have I approached a man. Your right be friends first.
“You can’t eat on his face!” 😂😂😂. That’s the best line I’ve heard in quite a while Miss Faye! I love your channel and all the wisdom you share….thank you so much!❤
What does that mean?
Oh, just bc he’s good looking doesn’t mean he can provide for you? sorry if I sound stupid lol
@ Ruby Rose, Yes; She told the truth there. Looks don't pay the bills. A person has to bring more than that in a relationship.
@@courtneypalmer53 thank you!
That part!!!!..., I was hollering 😂😂😂
Absolutely on point about the 72 year old. I would have never thought like how you explained him. OMG you're awesome.
We have to learn to wait to see what he will do before we jump in. "The apartment not being ready situation." Dodged a bllt.
You don't need to be super wise to realize there is something wrong if man wants to rent a room from YOU. WTF is that? The audacity and poverty!
He's 72, has serious health problems (spinal), no place to stay, anger problems, etc. Vegas? (May have a gambling habit and BROKE!!) Too many RED FLAGS flying here. He's looking for a "nurse & a purse". He wants to move in with her so she can cook, clean, s3x, drive him around, etc. She needs to run a background check on him. He's hiding something. Let him go live with his family. He will be a "burden" instead an asset to this woman. RUN!!!!!
Miss Faye is SO right! I chased my husband initially. He was still hurting from a long-term relationship breakup. As Faye says, yes, he had the power. We weren’t having sex yet and a month or two went by. I got tired of the situation and the ex would contact him for various reasons, etc., so one day I ended it. I said, I understand you are still getting over this relationship; however, I can find somebody who wants me without having their “back door open.” Take some time to work through that, figure it out, and if you’re ever ready, give me a call. - The change was instantaneous. I had the power. He called me the next day and I set some parameters. That was 32 years ago. The secret I keep is that I had a first date scheduled for the next weekend that I cancelled because I felt that my future husband seemed special and I wanted to devote some time to him once he came around to my way of thinking. 😊
I completely agree with you Miss Faye about the 72 year old man who wants to rent a room from the lady. It is a no go. I would like to add that if a person eats 3 meals a day in a restaurant, the person probably has health issues that are exacerbated. Most restaurant food is not as healthy as home cooking.
And he's looking for her to cook for him... absolutely
I met a man on-line in 2019. He was in his 50s. Retired from teaching high school, and was in real estate and had a property management business. He managed three HOAs. He was at the tail end of a divorce. Estranged wife who didn’t work and THREE DAUGHTERS were still in their big house in a suburban neighborhood. He had an apartment in the city. We went out several times. His lease ended and moved to a different apartment back across the city closer to the family and broke our dating off. He drove his daughters to and from school, so he never should have been in my area in the first place. I think he wanted to enjoy the city and eat at hip restaurants.
Several months ago we went to dinner. He told me he recently found out he has non-alcoholic fatty liver disease. He’s been eating at restaurants three times a day since he separated. Can you imagine, he can’t even buy groceries and make his own breakfast and lunch? He didn’t even know fruit contains sugar. He’s not overweight, but he’s ruined his health.
@@genxx2724 & poor health can be turned around, but his health journey is not your responsibility.
He already told her he has health issues and she already said no he can't rent a room from her and still wants to hang out, there's nothing wrong with that. Everything isn't negative all the time.
Spirituality equals less headaches
I'm 47 and should be kicking myself with whom I've shared with. A parolee and having mommy and anger issues. Got myself into a DV situation I just buried my mother in law suffering from. Gets mad at me when I told him the truth. Weight loss and low self esteem. I'm pushing 50 and stability is the name of the game. Celibacy a must. Trust God.❤
Yes your happiness is inside of you. So true Ms. Faye❤
Ms.faye need her own TV show!!!!! Wow
These men need to pass our screenings and provide us their references for evidences
Right?!😂
I agree!
Thank you very much! Your wisdom is schooling us younger folks. Im in my mid 30’s I thought my 5 yr relationship would be the one but it was actually my worst relationship because of Domestic Violence and his narcissistic ways. I thank God for intervening in what I thought my plans were. That’s exactly what happened to me. I knew this man for a long time and he comes off as relationship material but once we moved in and I had his son wow did I get to know him and all his bad intentions. I’m grateful to God I got out in time. Thank you Miss Faye!🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 time to celebrate my life the way God always has intended for me and my children.
Ladies I keep saying to 🛑 living with these men n moving them into your house or apartment. Take the time to get to know him, keep sxx off the table. Once you do that it changes the whole dynamics of the relationship. It’s very difficult to get to know a person if you’re sleeping with them. Ladies you must set boundaries n keep it real. Have respect, pride n dignity in yourself. Take your time to get know the man. Don’t rush anything. Pls get the ring first have that covenant relationship b4 any type of intimacy. Ladies do your own investigation, check their families, friends etc. Take at least a year to get to know him. It takes a process to really get to know someone. Miss Faye she is on my track of relationship advice.
Miss Faye, you are the G.O.A.T. when it comes to advice and wisdom about relationships and women's personal growth! Keep doing your spiritual good work. May God bless you always. 🙂
I’m hooked on your videos each day Miss Faye. ❤❤
Thank you, Miss. Faye, for the eye-opener!! I can handle rejection!! I never thought about, that God was protecting me from hurt!! I guess that's why sent me back home, from up north and never let me went back!! The man, I met there, was married!! He told me that he wasn't!!
I have a different spin on that first letter and the man wanting to downsize.I agree with her not allowing him to rent a room in her house but when people reach a certain age they don't want all of the trimmings that come with keeping and maintaining a house, insurances, landscaping, shoveling snow etc. Plus he is not a healthy man, an apartment maybe more manageable for him. What does he need a big house to do with? He probably never learnt to cook,probably had someone doing that for him all his life so doesn't see the sense in buying groceries to just have them there,when he can eat out. HE has to have money to be able to do that,pay rent,go to Vegas etc.I don't agree that this man is broke. I am 47 female in a 2 storey house,my dream house is a one storey much more manageable space when I am older. I see you Miss Faye outside raking leaves, everyone doesn't want to be doing that kind of thing.
😂not the “nurse with a purse”! 😂
I wish we're around when I needed this kind of advice. Such words of wisdom.
Right when miss Faye said “ rent a room “ my wheels started Turning! It would be a NO from me .
Speaking of the corvette . .. my ex of five years who refused to marry me ended up marrying a woman he hardly knew , was flexing all over FB his red corvette , motorcycles & cars etc 😂
I knew deep down it was all hers , low & behold he ended up leaving her & was looking for me again .
I knew it would end that way & so thankful I ended the relationship in 2016 knowing it was just a dead end .he was doing well on his own he should have grew from that rebuild Insted he kept going backward .
I’m staying SINGLE I’ve finally found my peace & have no desire to play with what I’ve worked so hard to unravel being my own worst enemy .
Life is so much more fulfilling having genuine friendships / relationships rather than these fake shallow toxic relationships with shady men .
The more I heal myself the better I’ll attract ❤
Run, Go with the wind Run away from this person
As a widow, I haven't been on a date in 4 years..I'm 61 /looks 40's.. Doesn't look like I am missing anything at all our there.. It's scary out there. I am celibate and emotionally intelligent. I have done a lot of work over the years and the right man will find a jewel when he finds me. I never seek men, just am very busy enjoying and living my life. Thanks Miss. Faye.
You are right Ms. Faye. It is something fishy with the man in the 1st letter. Now he wants someone to be his nurse. There's an ulterior motive with him.
Nurse. Nursemaid is something else.
@@genxx2724 corrected
@@mary403-c60 I thought it was the same as wet nurse! Lol It was right to correct it, but it wasn’t as bad as I thought.
@@genxx2724 right..lol..I looked up the definition for nursemaid and its taking care of small children. Its still always best to use the correct word(s).
You open my eyes everyday. I share your videos with my daughters. I pray they develop the interest to watch them. Your videos will definitely save them from unscrupulous men who prey on women shamelessly.
I just say NO and leave as soon as they start that sex stuff. 🤮. Men are one minded. Sex sex sex..it's so awful. I can't wanna hear that stuff. I'm HAPPY alone!
I was just talking about this the other day.
They are exhausting with that sex shi*t all the time!🤢
Yup❤
YOU HAVE SPOKEN TRUTH 🙌🙌🙌
Oh my God!! This Lady here is telling the truth, she is awesome.
I love your background ambience!
Mama Faye, you read the first letter down the ground. So accurate.
" Nurse wit a Purse"🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
Men tell you all you need to know. Often times we ignore what there saying to us. Five years is a long time to know him. Violence is not something that takes 5 years to come out.
Peace, joy and happiness, look great Ms. Faye, wisdom from you, is the best.
I just met a man 3 weeks ago and we had two dates already and we have good conversations but i am observing his habits. He mention that he likes taking his time in new relationships as i am as well. So will see how it goes. Im honestly not in a rush for a relationship! Im definitely taking my time.
You give the best advice! You give much wisdom! I appreciate you!
Way to tell the ladies the truth!
Number 18 to like 😅😅😅😅😅. Miss Faye I enjoy your videos. I am loving myself more and becoming more spiritual 😅
You remind me of my Mother, very wise. She passed down a lot of knowledge> I always enjoyed talking to her and absorbing her wisdom.
Miss Faye you have blessed my life tremendously. I’m so happy I found your channel. I am an avid listener everyday and I have appreciated your wisdom on celibacy and my spiritual journey🤍🌻💫
Leeeech thank God she wrote to you and got good advice x
I love Ms. Faye. Tell it like it is. God bless you ❤.
I ❤ all of Miss Faye’s advices. The longer I am single the more I enjoy it. But it’s good to know what red flags to look for and how to go about dating just in case of in the future I decide I want a man not need one😮
You broke down each scenario so good. Especially the first one.
Miss Faye, you crack me up🤣🤣 talking about pastors. You didn’t bite your tongue when you said many are weasels, wolves, and whores. I totally agree. This lady knows something is amiss and thinks if he moves his furniture everything will be perfect. NOT, the furniture seems like just the tip of the iceberg. Although I’m not in a relationship and don’t plan to be, because men like to play games, I love your advice. What I have taken away from your advice is understanding of things in my former marriage that eluded me at the time. If there had been a Miss Faye when I was dating and married I think I would have done a lot of things very differently IF I was willing to listen.
Sound like good advice for men as well...semen retention is a must
Ms. Faye thank you for sharing you truly have helped me understand relationships better.
Some do not want to be alone , lived in a big home no family there to help ? So a smaller home now is better , sound like he has his own income , a lonely older man , good to cook at home and along with each other or for one another. Just try ! Give him a chance find out be come friends
Good he has his own
Trappings😮is a perfect word, for when a man says what he has. Trappings for a Trap! Thank u, Ms. Faye for your Words of Wisdom! I won't be Trapped by trappings, that is not a true measure of a Man. 🕊️
Aunt Faye you are a genius every thing you said is true you have to wacth these men and the ones in the church are the worst. I had 2 men from the church and a preacher and it was a nightmare never again. And they will rebound in a minute and most of the time based on study it won't last because a lot of times they are not over the x.ive done it all men will lie lie lie I'm just now getting over a man preacher who at first it was beautiful but when that mask fell off I was devastated I pray for all of us be careful the game is more intense now they will fool you been there 3 times.
He wants someone to take care of him. I get it because I am in that situation myself. You worry if you become ill, who will take care of you.
What this woman has to be wary of if she allows him to move in with her, that he may be difficult to get rid of. He could conceivably refuse to leave. Once he is in her house, he has squatter's rights.
Lol you can't eat on his face😂😂😂
Ohh Ms. Faye luv your Pastor story him jumping from your bed to the pulpit preachin' away!
I've written you and this broadcast confirms that I'm a secret too.
Please pray for my discernment.
And strength to move on.
I gotta stay true to me ❣️
Miss Faye is funny and doesn’t even know it!😂
Love you Miss Faye!❤ You tell it like it is!! I receive a message that applies to me in some way each time I listen to you.
Ms. Faye 😂 you broke this down perfectly.
Good morning Miss Faye!! Love your videos always good advice 👍🏽❤️
You can say that again my sister and I wish I had a dad to tell me what my worth was me and my sister but we had to learn the hard way but I thank Almighty God for you today shalom❤
Letter three, RUN!
Hi Miss Faye, 🎉 what a joy you are! This wisdom is very important for today. Thank you so much for being willing and available to share your wealth of wisdom with us what a help you are to many.thanks again! from Bakersfield, California love you, Miss Darlene
I saw a video of a prostitute who spoke of a client she once had. This man was very rich and didn't take her to a hotel, but his home. That should of been a red flag that he was into some freaky stuff, that he couldn't do to her in a hotel. When they got to his house, he told her to get in a cage. She thought nothing of it and did it. After gave her some drugs to get her high. Than he put his dog in the cage with her, and told her to have sex with the dog. She felt vulnerable and trapped, saw she could be in a life or death situation and did it. He kept her in the cage for three days. Only paid her $1000, and he let her go. This video is on UA-cam, on a page called soft white underbelly. Don't look at someone's money and think right away you won the jackpot. Many celebrities in Hollywood do freaky stuff like this. Just becareful out there.🙏❤️🙏
OMG 😱😱😱😱😱😱
You're not lying! A reformed "crackhead" years ago at my church told a lot of these types of stories to us. She said you cannot trust a "Doctor, lawyer, indian chief, minister, etc." They ALL got high with her and did all kinds of "freaky" stuff! (She has HIV) She said the married ones were worst than a single man. Ladies, be careful out here!!!
I love Miss Faye. My Mom passed last month, but she showed up in my suggestions and reminds me so much of my Mom in her youth. Thank you! It's helping me grieve and helping me move on! Keep them coming!
pray and fast....ask God to show you ppl and he will, just be ready for what he shows you !!
Wow Miss Faye you helped me greatly when you said "rejection is divine protection". I have never heard that before, it is such a relief to know during this current experience that I am facing. Thank you.
You rock sweet lady! I appreciate your sharing your wisdom. Kind regards from Utah, namaste.🙏💫💜
Enjoyed your "He's not the one!" episode. Great title! lol I would believe your wisdom and sharing stories is helping many individuals. What a great gift to women! Your teachings reaffirm what I already know and teaches me important things I didn't know. This gives me the confidence to make better choices. Someday if I date again I'm going to be ready because of you!
Right back at you ...
Love it keep it coming!!!
Bless You My Lady
Huggs xoxo 😘
Why is the pastor sleeping around in the first place!!! That's a red flag right there. I would never sit up under a pastor like that. Also, who else is he sleeping with? The woman whom he claims he's no longer with, I bet she could tell you some things about this joker. Girl, run and run fast. He is NOT the one.
He probably tried other women and she was the one that finally allowed him into her life. SMH
This is some of the best advice ever!
Thank you for this
He looking for a nurse with a purse,run lady,run😮😮
Hi Miss Faye. Thanks for all you do.
Queen Faye, 🙌🏾❤️. I’m sorry I had to “Rewind”; when you said “Pastor”. Laawdy be, Laawdy be, Here it Come, I can see now, Pastor and living with a female for. 6Yrs, No marriage? Oh Laawdy be,
Ms. Faye, 👋🏾hello! I love how you give straightforward advice, raw but…. with a beautiful smile!🥰✌🏽🙏🏾
Good morning Beautiful & very blessed Miss Faye 🌞❤️🌹🙏🌈🙂
I love your letters.
Never pursue a man. Exactly true. I dodged that bllt cause he was a.drunk who beat up women.
🤣🤣🤣80 year old is knocking on the door 🤣🤣Miss Faye🤣🤣 You be catching me off guard
Peace and blessings
29:52 They are what🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I'm laughing cos you hit a nail on this especially that "they hide behind their religion". And on top of that carry the bible wherever they go🤣🤣🤣
God bless you 🙏 ❤️ great videos excellent points may you have a long life and blessed love d ❤️
Good morning Miss Faye's 💓 this topic on point no he's not right person 😪
I am so happy to have found you Miss Faye you remind me of my Gramma Sue, your wise and so beautiful. Thank you
Have a blessed day, Souljurney
Ms Faye, u know alot about men. U spot the red flags quickly Good advice to ladies. Very good work, Ms Faye
Literally pearls of wisdom