This Confused Girl Says “Like” 1 Million Times...but She’s Not Wrong
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- Опубліковано 21 сер 2024
- There is a clip from the @whatever that went viral. Besides the fact that the girl in this video can't say anything other than like, she has a point about modern dating.
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Oh snap! Thanks for reacting to my videos Ben! Would love to have you on the show! :)
It would be, like, brilliant
Having Ben on your show would most certainly be interesting
Knowles was awesome last night. Very fun vibe when everyone was getting along on a topic.
whatever
Nice, I been watching the shorts and love the content!
I did some math! She spoke 157 words throughout the clip, of which there were 38 uses of the word "like." This means that the word "like" is 24.2% of her entire vocabulary, showing up every 4 words! That is a lot of likes
Take my like
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and she wonders why shes single, no one wants to be around someone that brainless
@@riskmc3116LMAOO
Like, totally gonna like this comment. 🎉
The irony is that these women would be PISSED if they found out their designer bag was fake, yet they have no problem defending counterfeits women as real 🤦♀️
Awesome point!!
oh that was good
that's the same as saying he found out she wasnt chaste
I agree with you 100%. As a millionaire in Connecticut it's sickening me how much women care more about my bank account than they do my achievements. I graduated high school at sixteen couch at 19 I wanted to the Airforce then I was in the first three X Games. And I still have four world records that haven't been broken. And yet every time a woman meets me she's more concerned how big is my bank account not my success. It's so sad this is why I rather die rich and alone. Then pour in Brokenhearted
That’s hysterical and true. Wow.
I worked for a few years in a Starbucks store as a mgr, and we had allot of college kids come through as employees (it was really a great job for college kids). I remember one young gal talked about her friend that just went back into a mental hospital. I was horrified, but what scared me more was it was apparently normal and common for this to happen to a bunch of girls, even the one I was talking to. All the stress and pressure and forced change for girls in college, and that doesn't even touch on what they're required to do to become part of a sorority now. It's disgusting and horrible.
I wasn't surprised after hearing her stories. These kids have had reality literally stripped away from them, their identities destroyed, and any belief system they could have had mocked. Then they are forced into being whores for entertainment and told that this is what being a "woman" is. It makes my stomach churn just thinking about it. I have one child, a boy, and thankfully he's been educated to resist all these lies, but I weep for parents who have kids that are being subjected to this slaughterhouse called "modern life".
Our kids need hope people. They need Christ.
Not a religious person myself but I don't think you are wrong, when I was a kid we went to church on Sundays and most families did. I never became a strong believer but I think by osmosis it helped us learn right from wrong and how to be at least decent humans. These kids today are so lost it's astounding
@@williamsherman1089 I just wonder who raised those kids it must be other kods yeah PARENTS when the kids turn bad its not my fault when they turn out good yes we did that pathetic
Its not the kids to blame it's their parents period
@@flux9433 I wouldn't say totally period but yeah parents are a kids first conduit to the world so yes we parents are a big part of it
@@williamsherman1089 I am not religious either and I grew up with hindu ideals. Honestly I think parents need to instill values in their kids as well as self value. I'm a teenager and most often I notice teen girls throwing their V-cards away for no reason. Usually it starts by getting a bf who only wants to screw and after the first breakup its all downhill from there. Girls feel insecure very often and their personalities kinda just wash away when they r with dudes. They end up becoming a "yes sir" personality. Instead we need to make sure teens talk more often instead of having sex all the time.
We have reached a point where people don’t think you have a right to choose who you have sex with. 🤪
You don't have the right to choose who you are attracted to, and have every right to kill an unborn child- that's where we are at yes.
Brave New World
only they do, but you can't if you don't support The Current Thing™
Those people are in for a rude awakening.
A natural progression from you not having the right to choose who you open your wallet for.
We should be able to sue the people who had the responsibility to educate these people for damages.
It’s not the teacher’s fault that the student refuses to learn. You can’t make someone do something they don’t want to do.
After high school I got a job working entry level at a computer manufacturer. One day the CEO who had recently retired as a Sargeant in the army asked me something. I answered repeatedly using "like" in my response. He looked at me and said "you destroyed your communication and sounded unintelligent by repeatedly saying like"... I immediately corrected the habit and never spoke like a fool again. When thinking of your response just be silent instead of filling the silence with nonsense.
You mean the parents? 😂
Well, you only get out of it what you put in too. I had some great teachers in public school with students who gave zero fecks and got nothing out of that class and that was on them. It's not always the teachers.
I don't know if the number of parents responsible for raising their children and teaching them basic speech can afford to be sued.
Ben nailed it. This generation is absolutely confused
The "talking stages" should be the entire relationship. It's called communication.
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She’s the last generation of people who understand in some way what they’ve been robbed of. The language to express how she feels has been stolen from her, but she knows in some sense what she’s missing. The young women after her won’t even know that.
they can and they could, if we who know the truth also do out part and do not give up on them, and if we do not allow the wokists to win. We do not have to let them win, as some of them think they have. We do not have to let it be like that.
147 words and 37 were Like. This is the great dumbing down. This is the result of lowering standards, cutting out cursive, reading/ writing skills. People don't read books anymore.
I don't feel bad in the slightest, it's called a dictionary, learn you some XD
@@stoveboltlvr3798 they really cut out learning cursive? How they gonna know how to sign their name on paperwork?
We will make sure they do.
She spoke more eloquently here than Kamala has in any speech has ever made.
Have you ever seen the video clips that Fox News does for the Jesse Waters show where he sends his assistant (obviously gay johnny) out to ask people on the street in NYC questions ...good God how dumb we are as a species. Then the video shorts all over where some body asks college students on campuses all across AMERICA various simple questions we learned in grade school ! Oh my gawd how dumb these COLLEGE KIDS ARE TODAY ! Honestly based on the shear numbers of those type videos and the average numbers of random students they talk to per video ...the future of our country is in SERIOUS FREAKIN TROUBLE AND THATS NO LIE !
Best comment ever. 😂
Oh shiiiit, shots fired!😂 very accurate assessment
I love how google hides the massive amount of dislikes for this paid actor post.
Sis....so true
Though she could not articulate it, I understood exactly what she meant and I feel the same way. Dating as a young adult is so frustrating because even when I try to be clear on my intentions, the other person is always vague or they mislead/lie. My ex was toxic and abusive, so I am still learning sincerity vs. manipulation. It's exhausting, and I am tired of wasting my time, but I am hopeful. I wish that more people my age would not just dismiss what Ben or Jordan or anybody else in the right-wing/right-leaning sphere has to say.
That's your fault chasing the bad boy and thinking you can change them
@@awkander That wasn't at all what happened 😂
My ex was seemingly very sweet and kind. It wasn't until we dated for about a year that he changed and almost completely isolated me from my friends and family
I feel like we’ve dated the same man and we also share THE SAME EXACT dating experience to a T! Wow! I literally feel like I typed this with a different account, that’s how accurate this is. I’m really sorry you’ve endured that, when I tell you I understand, it’s genuine. I really hope you can meet someone that shares your traditional values someday. 🤍 trust me there are ppl out there. If we exist, they do too. 😊
@@frogpwg Too many men (and people in general I'd say) are like this- narcissistic and have a double personality. Thank you for your comment
@@boop99 they gave up on the idea of being a decent person. And you can thank social media for that too bcus a lot of ppl think bcus of their likes/following/praise from ppl online that they’re better than sliced bread and stuff is owed to them. They feel entitled therefore treating ppl like nothing. It’s truly sad. You’re super welcome 😊
Super traditional wife here . The talking stage was “ the friend stage” it’s when I decided if he was courting material . He had to ask my dad to court me . All the courting was done at home in my parents house . We married very young . ❤ I think the talking stage means different things in different social circles . 👍 most young women don’t realize they hold a lot of power . Don’t sleep with them , then you’ll know very quickly if he wants you for the real you or for your body . It’s like a metal detector, finding gold coins among the grains of sand. It’s the secret to A HAPPY LIFE FINDING THOSE GOLD COINS . Then spend the rest of your life cherishing the gold coin .
you’re completely right… I was having an affair with a married woman but didn’t sleep with her for 5 years and she didn’t force it either, so I knew we were compatible with each other and the feelings were real and mutual. I really cherish our relationship!
Ignoring everything she said prior (or like tried to say), that last statement was spot on. "Traditional dating does not exist in this generation." - Like Girl 2023
Not unless you stand firm by your values. Plenty of men exist. Just try to avoid the boys unless you're being paid to babysit them 😉
I like couldn’t like understand like what she was like saying like
It does exist but not in us that's wht passport bros exists
Yes, woman destroyed it. Now they blame men for listening to them.
Suppose it needs to become trendy. Like that stay at home wife tiktok trend
Unfortunately Ben, 'talking stage' for Gen Z includes sex. And it's usually before conversations about compatibility. It's safe to say she hates this phase, because she keeps giving up the cookies and it doesn't go anywhere, with men who lose interest after she's given it up. And what makes it even crazier is the male's in Gen Z say shit like 'If she doesn't give it up I'm out', while simultaneously concluding that women who give it up are too promiscuous for marriage. It's a total lack of responsibility on all sides, and they both point the finger at each other.
It's the women who control the sexual dynamic, not the men. Men can say "If she doesn't give it up, I'm out" only as long as there are plenty of other women out there 'giving it up".
Men propose, women dispose. That's the way it's always worked and the way it still works. The modern dysfunction takes place in the "women dispose" side of the equation.
@@SeanFication I agree. Unfortunately I slept with 3 other men before the last man i dated. Gave it up to them and went nowhere. Reserved myself when dating this last man. Been married 7 years and 2 kids. Feminism made young girls think it's empowering to sleep around. It's not. It makes you feel like shit and like it or not men will look at you differently. We used to call men "dogs" for sleeping around now women are acting like them. Sad.
@@SeanFication well said...the women believe that they need to act desperate to get a man
@@SeanFication utter nonsense men have complete control over who they sleep with. Crazy that men cant take any accountability of being promiscuous
It's so crazy how "real" feminists geniunely concerned for female happiness lost track of this basic male instinct. A guy's entire lens of the situation changes if a women gives it up so easily. It's not a rational or emotional thing of thinking she's cheap, although some do think that, it's just an instinctual cooling that can affect his interest during the courtship. And a young guy? Hahaha don't make me laugh, that just HAPPENS and they have no clue why.
This is exactly it. I won’t even go on a date with someone unless it’s been communicated that I only date for marriage and kids, I simply won’t waste my time entertaining anything romantically to “see what happens”
Why would you waste energy on that when it could be put towards more constructive things? Not to mention save yourself the emotional roller coaster it puts you through.
Exactly same here
I think only the most beautiful women can afford to do that nowadays, at least until the rest of modern womanhood decides to follow suit
@@alexavasquez1992 It's not quite like that. Would be easier if we all worked together, of course. But there are more men than we think appreciating clarity and wanting to have a family.
Congrats Ben for your new kid! I wish everyone would see the world like Ben does; what things should be and not just to be different
The world would be horrible
@@tylerd8609 No it wouldn't
@@OlivierSchurg he’s a hateful, whiny bigot who believes he is right about everything therefore he refuses to actually learn and educate himself just to fit inside his bigoted ideology. If the entire world were like him or saw the world like him, minorities would be more marginalized, religion would be more publicized, school shootings would happen more than they already do, low income communities would continue to be low income, health benefits and other social programs would cease to exist, the environment would deteriorate, and life would be shitty.
This podcast is wild to me. Common sense isn’t so common these days 😂
It’s similar to being at a bowling alley. They might not all get knocked down every time, but there’s always 10 more pins waiting to be set up.
It's like kind of like they like almost speak a different language like
It's toxic af
It isn't even called common sense any more. A young man informed me it is now 'logical thinking'. ?!?!? There isn't any of that either I had to tell him. WTH.
@@karenrhodes9973 wait till you tell you something that you believe is "objectively false" haha that's the latest one. I had to inform him that opinions are subjective not objective
Our country is in soooooo much trouble... sheesh!
I think you fail to recognize the gravity of the situation. This problem isnt limited to one country, it's rampant across untold many countries and spreading. We're facing a complete moral collapse planetwide. We are saddled with the moral responsibility to fight that corruption.
This isn’t unique to the US
Perfect example of Facts doesn’t care about your feelings.
The first woman walked out because he said the reason he'd pick the older woman over a trans woman is because it would make him gay. In an antagonistic way. She allowed him his original reason for not wanting to have sex with a non-biological woman.
I'm glad you stood up for the second lady too. And excellent explanation at the end.
My grandmother was in her 80s and said the same thing. She said to me when I was 20 and I QUOTE “Your generation is messed up. We use to date, get married then have sexual. You guys have sex first then decide the dating part!!”
She clearly lied to you.
@Ja'mie she clearly didnt. My grandmother married my grandfather early for the sole reason of being able to act on their sexual urges. Back then it was much more common to wait and find the correct partner you want to spend your life with before you have sex because you didnt want to bring a child into the world without a mother and a father. Birth control has changed things in a big way. But even with it, I still believe it's better to act the way we did before it.
@@jamie7664 😑
In my opinion, (official)marriage is a trap. Yes, dating before sex is a good thing, and I despise how sex driven a very good portion of my generation is, but at the same time, you shouldn’t have to wait until an arbitrary day to do so.
Not me
She hates the talking stages of the relationship because she literally can’t talk.
😂😂
spot on
I can't describe how frustrating that is
Imagine she actually needs to use the word "like" and people already filter it out.
Couldn't hold a real conversation on any topic if her life depended on it
Thank you Ben for speaking truth as always. I’m a young woman who’s looking for a good man to settle down with. Not interested in this whole modern dating thing, don’t understand hookup culture at all. I can’t stand the idea of being with multiple men. It’s about finding THE man to forge a life and family with. We shouldn’t be sleeping with multiple people, it’s not natural or healthy at all. I know that’s a very controversial opinion these days but it’s true. Sex is sacred and should be reserved for those who are truly committed to each other.
Yep! I’m so happy I waited for my husband ❤️
I was called all sorts of stuff by EVERYONE around me for wanting this and we met at 25, I’m 29 now and happily married and we share the same values (I’m Arab/European and he’s Eastern European) he knows what it means to be a man and doesn’t believe in any of this nonsense, he doesn’t even like porn! Talk about a unicorn
These modern girls are in for some nasty times ahead of they keep acting this way🦋
Eastern European men are indeed good catches :D
Those "like" persons are like a house like with light but nobody's like home...
I remember my grade school teachers having us repeat sentences if we started developing habit of saying like for no reason. They actively worked to get students out of bad speach habits. Guess they accept it now.
I’m about to be 24 and they did this when I was in school , I just didn’t care ☠️😭🤣 I do deeply regret that now as an adult because I say it a lot especially when upset and arguing
@@batmama739 26 year old here, it's a filler word for me. If I'm thinking how to express what I want to say then I'll start throwing in "like" to buy time XD
I liked this like so like much!
Did you see their wages?
I'm in the older range of millenials, and they did this when I was in school as well. Even for writing assignments, I had teachers who would circle words that we used too often, or words that were too broad and encompassing in order to get us to really hone in on what we're trying to say. I just went to a basic public school too. You'd probably have to pay a lot of money to get that kind of education these days. The good teachers have been leaving the public school system in droves.
Imagine getting mad cos a dude doesn’t want to screw another dude 💀 chick would go into shock if she asked a group of guys this question and found most of them had the same answer
She is basically forcing upon him that he has to have sex with someone..in a sense of the word that is r*pe
Righttt
Ong
Shits crazy bruh
Also flip the roles. If I asked a (supposedly straight) woman if she would be ok with having sex with a biological female who had surgically been made to resemble a male, and she said yeah, A-ok, straight up fine with that, Id be really quite put off and possibly even sad and disappointed, specifically if I was attracted to her, because then I have more competition.
What sort of moron is INSULTED when they find out they have less competition?!
Thank you Ben for putting into words why dating in my generation sucks. With the people I have met, there are few who go in with the intention of marriage on their mind because of how glorified hookup culture is. Not many state what their intentions are and most are just dating to date rather than dating for marriage.
Women asked for this and those who did not, didn't fight hard enough against it. Good luck to us all.
To be fair to the girl, she was probably super nervous to express her opinion and that’s why she had so many filler works pop up
Absolutely! These comments are so cruel. I bet if half these people tried to speak in front of people into a microphone they would sound just as bad.
Congrats on the 15 years and your fourth child! Many blessings
I liked this
People need to stand up for there rights against transgenders especially the girls that are having there sports invaded by transgenders 🚬🤨
Thank you!
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Same
Ha!!
Born a man is a man born a woman always a woman! Period ! Black and white no grey area !
The purpose of dating is to see if you can spend the rest of your life with that other person. That's the propose of talking to them. It takes a while to get to really know them.
My ex-wife used to say "like" so much, it started to drive me insane. Eventually, I'd just zone out when she was talking and count the number of times she would use "like."
No wonder she’s your *ex*-wife
I had a girlfriend that use to say you know what I mean after everything she said it was killing me 🚬😬
@@goodnightmunchie nah mean? Yeeeuh boi!
@@goodnightmunchie I had a buddy that did that and then he would expect you to answer after every time he said it...
@@stillvenom My sister says "you know" constantly. Oftentimes, she ends up just saying you know, you know over and over again without really making a complete statement. I always answer her "no, I don't know because you haven't said anything"
The "like" useage definitely is revealing her fear of expressing her thoughts.
I agree. She is up against so many liberal women who are angry and aggressive. It's intimidating
Like I like get like what she's like saying
I counted 27, might have missed a couple.
Like she might get caught not believing what the others girls believe and they will like blow up on her. LOL
I like the whatever podcast, but honestly, I think the host could cut the amount of girls on each panel in half and still have good content.
Damn!! I've never agreed more with Ben on anything! Dating, sex, relationships should go together. It makes me so mad the way gen z thinks about sex today. They treat sex like ordering a coffee... It's awful.
Congrats on the 15 years and 4 kids Ben! That is awesome! You are inspiring to many young men! Thank you!
Ben has had sex only 4 times in his life damn
I wonder how dry his wife’s 🐱 must be
I want to take a moment to thank you, Ben. You are a positive influence and source of information on everyone who has the will to listen.
Good for him standing up and fighting the power 🚬🙂
Abortion is like killing a deformed human outside of a woman’s wound. A fetus is a human that is deformed and not developed all the way. A fetus is not developed all the way but it is still human but deformed.
Like YEA!
@@taylorfusher2997
deformed?
you mean… growing?
when a plant is growing, do you call it deformed until its fully grown lol?
How can anyone ever be accused of being WRONG when they’re never actually RIGHT, LIKE, YOU KNOW WHAT I MEAN?
The like girl is actually cute
Our talking stage with my partner consisted of the following text messages :
“Hi we met last night. I am not so good at texting. Can we meet for a coffee instead?”
After the coffee he kissed me and invited me on a second date. I was not confused about his intentions.
We are expecting our first child.
Edit: we are millennials born in the 80s.
You're not a millennial. You're Gen-X, just like me. We're part of the "missing generation," observers on the sidelines of the war between the Baby Boomers and _actual_ Millennials (2000's and on) and Gen Z. We're part of the problem, but we also lack the gravity to do much about it today because we've been browbeaten into exhaustion by everyone before _and_ after us. It's surreal. We're not powerless - we're probably the most powerful pieces on the board because we actually have an understanding of when times were _legitimately good,_ - but it's an uphill fight.
Baby Boomer- born 1946-1964.
Generation X - born 1965-1979.
Millennials - born 1980-1994.
Generation Z - born 1995-2012.
Gen Alpha - born 2013 - 2025.
@_Jay_Maker_ I was born in 83'. I vividly remember learning about the Baby Boomers in middle school and being taught that we were Generation X. My kids (21, 19, 18) were in high school when they came home and told me I was a millennial. I told them like heck I was...that's when I learned the world had changed it on us. I still consider myself Gen X as that's what it should be. We're not millennial's, not by a long shot. I don't care what the internet says. It's wrong about a lot of things anyway.
@@shillsdontspookme9208 Same here, at one point a while back my BD of '60 was in the X category. Especially when you read the characteristics. I had little in common with the Boomers. Then they changed it. Still feel like an X-r.Boomers are supposed to be the kids of returning servicemen of WWII. My BD was 16 years after the end of WWII.
@@_Jay_Maker_ No , Gen X is1965 -80
I got blocked on Tinder after a half-hour conversation with a woman because I was having a regular conversation with her mostly about food and hobbies. Then she disappeared from my inbox
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saved yourself a lot of time on the front end then lol, good shit
That happens a lot. Lol. One tiny little thing you say can set the girl off and then she ghosts. It's sooooo annoying. I deal with that a lot as do all of my single guy friends. It's normal. Either you said something that she didn't like, OR she moved onto the next best thing which women get 100's of matches daily. They can pick and choose. They just move onto a guy that's hotter than you and is more interesting. You have to realize every single dating app is over a 5:1 ratio of Male to Female.
@@wombat5252 well said bro
rare male lmao
The talking stage has ALWAYS annoyed me and I never knew why 🙄 It’s because it’s a WASTE OF TIME.
“And that boys," yelled Mr. Weasley over the tumult of the crowd below," is why you should never go for looks alone!”
Yep! If you don't agree with their fantasy island lies and ignorance, they pout!!😆😂😂
Abortion is like killing a deformed human outside of a woman’s wound. A fetus is a human that is deformed and not developed all the way. A fetus is not developed all the way but it is still human but deformed.
@@taylorfusher2997 bro what 😭
They pout regardless, they’re women after all. Let them make some other chump miserable
@@tamzise122 right this has to be a bot, because they are talking on a topic that's not discussed but is brought up from time to time on this channel. Leads me to believe they just spam the threads of comments
“ like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like like “
The reason she struggles with talking is this "talking" stage she is talking about is actually TEXTING. This "talking" stage is electronic interaction. If her and a guy do go out, they see movies, or clubs, or just sexy time. Rarely do young hot people sit and just talk. Face to face and chat. Go up a mountain and speak about life. Just text text.
😂😂
@@candiceerorita9505not really funny. It’s true
Yes and no. I feel like a lot of people now start texting then talk in person
This is for sure a boomer making assertions lol. The majority of young people text to make contact, an most people don’t club. You watched l17 again and came to a stupid conclusion.
No, "talking" is just a euphemism for hooking up. She is talking about how she is stuck as a friend with benefits and being unable to secure a commitment from the men she is interested in. This is mainly because these girls exclusively chase men out of their league, and allow themselves to be used up by men who have no long term interest in them.
She got up and walked out because she realized she was going to lose the argument and look dumb.
Unfortunately social media and pornography has ruined the minds and actions of individuals in this generation, which is also my generation. Never mind the significance and importance of dating with marriage and children as the end goal, but there is now so much extra stuff added on to the entire ordeal, that the “talking stages” are completely warped. At this point, simply going up and asking someone you’re interested in to do something together has become rare and is subject to much attention from others, whether online or in person, where you could be scrutinized for doing so.
Honestly, I do still feel as though most young people like myself internally understand and want proper relationships to form. But amongst all the chaos as I mentioned, from social media and otherwise, the entire dating sphere is surrounded by todays unfortunate reality.
facts, plus add in isolation from not knowing people in your community, or not even interacting with other young people outside of work
Youve gotta appreciate the irony of facing suspicion for wanting to spend innocent time together when so many people recklessly mash their bits together and invest no meaning or attachment into the act.
That's a fact, and women having to enter the workforce was the first major shift. It blurred traditional gender roles, so combined with technology and social media, we have what we have today. Unfortunately it will continue deteriorating at an accelerated pace, and depopulation will have a serious impact. Reason being, A.I. and "sexbots" will become more and more realistic, and eventually a higher percentage of men will determine it's a better alternative. The government will be forced to step in and offer financial incentives via tax credits for having children.
Major problems, and hopefully evolution will take care of it cause it ain't getting any better in our lifetime!
I'm scared of being filmed on Tik Tok and being labeled as a creep or sexual deviant because some girl is making false accusations and now the entire world can see it. It's frightening.
@Beastbombshell Ive read that actually an alarming portion of women are at least a little bisexual, and just dont show it. Id say that's understandable, I think we can all agree that women are objectively more attractive than men.
I like the “talking stages” within christian values. It gives you the chance to figure out if you connect with someone and for you to decide if you want to try and work towards marriage with someone. Sometimes people are crazy, especially today and the talking stages are great to figure that out before pursuing marriage with someone.
@Randall V You didnt ask a question.
Also, what's wrong with challenging someone? What kind of world do you live in where you have to state that you arent challenging someone? Challenge away! It serves as a great way to tell if youre dealing with a snowflake. A level-headed person will calmly offer their evidence.
So please, go ahead and ask your question.
It sounds like youre describing "courting"
No need to be rude about the girl. Kindness goes a long way, Mr Shapiro.
That girl is so so lost it’s aggravating to see. How can your values and beliefs be so messed up. When your moral compass can’t find north anymore you’ve got issues. Part of me also believes she’s like that because of social media and being “woke” is a trending issue. 🤷♂️
This is, like, totally, like, crazy.
Like, literally.
I hope this comment gets as many “likes” as she said in her answer to the host’s question!
That's like seriously like some serious thought like
So like 3
She would like need like a lot of likes...
I think you're going to make it! You need just 4 more
I agree. She is confused and confusing.
We learned how to speak in front of a class of our peers in 3rd grade!
Our english teacher would slap us with a yard-stick when we said "like" when doing presentations xD
This podcast is what Fresh & Fit is when you don't get your guests drunk on Whiteclaw 😅
Or force them to sleep with you to get on the show
@@jennycarolina7883 they do that? I thought they pride on never paying women?
@@brownzoomer There was a whole controversy about that. Some of Myron's text's to a girl were put on blast. I think Aba & Preach covered it a while ago.
@@brownzoomer Yeah they admitted it, when some of their texts got leaked by a girl they asked to go on their show that didn't want to sleep with them
@@jennycarolina7883 this is true? do you have a credible link regarding this?
I actually needed Ben to explain this to me because I didn't understand what she meant by "the talking stage." I just thought it was the early stages of dating, when you're getting to know each other better. It's hard to understand how the current young generation dates, having a "talking stage" that is actually just texting and sexing. I feel so old and out-of-touch but I'm only 35!
From my understanding as a younger adult, it depends. Usually the talking stage is just that- hanging out and chatting, texting, etc. Sometimes it's a mixture between everything I mentioned but adds some sexual activity or sexual conversation at the very least (talking about their preferences) But hey, I'm also wayyy out of touch myself!
Mostly, it means being able to cross boundaries and to do and expect things with and from each other that couples usually would, only with leaving the door open so that at any time one partner can leave with no notice because “we weren’t actually _dating_ “ That’s how I’ve seen it used -first hand.
I’m 23 and I don’t even know what that means. Everything confuses me with all that’s happening
I’m 25 and have no idea wth they mean. I’m married with 3 kids, my husband and I never did the complicated “what are we” bs that seems normal now. We were straight up and got to know each other while also being respectful to each other, like NORMAL people 😂😂
It’s not just you lol, I don’t even understand my own generation.
It's okay I'm 18 and I literally don't even understand my generation either. We don't even understand ourselves.
Decades ago we used to joke about homosexuality being made compulsory. It's not a joke any more.
I got laughed at by my friends when I declared I won't move in with a guy unless we are married. When I told this to my now fiance he said they are all insane and I am the normal one.
The oldest woman in the world is María Branyas Morera and is American. She was born in 1907 in San Francisco.
Just so he knows who to contract. Her husband been dead since 1976, so she's been in the single market for a while.
I used to say “like” all the time also. My mom got after me all the time for it. It was a hard habit to break because, like, all the other girls at school, like, talked the same way. Maybe she’ll , like, grow out of it. Like idk….
Thank you.
It’s truly one of the worst things about our culture right now.
Young women are especially bad. But I hear 60 year old men abuse that word too.
That's a nervous tick, she'll grow out of it .
@@sandygeorge9741 - That's a bit of a simplistic analysis. The person I've heard, that was by far the worst in their overuse of the word "like" is Bill Burr. Particularly his bit on white & black athletes (and Hitler), but he heavily overused it in general for a period of multiple years. It was bad in his bit on black friends, clothes and Harlem as well.
all those "likes" and then the word "normalize" at the end because she saw it on social media
Getting to know someone and there values and ideas is always a good way to know them first . and not just jumping in the sack .
Thank you so much Ben for using your voice to bring light to this. I am 29 years old and I am watching this generation willfully participate in this emotional trauma. Yes this is emotional trauma and there will be no good to come of this. Not only is it emotionally frustrating to constantly be "talking" with people and nothing ever coming from it, but I also think there are a lot of people who are mentally (and physically, sometimes financially as well...) being damaged from having sex with strangers. I think it has become a social pressure that what you want must be just all about sex. Young men have been told this longer, but now young women have been told they must want that too because they can do whatever a man does. Women are being told they want to be porn stars in bed regardless of what actually makes them comfortable they must be okay with this kind of sexual nature in order for them to be sexually free. Men were already conditioned to want porn stars in bed so that is all they know which is mainly degrading and aggressive abuse towards women let's not lie on that one (Not to mention how many of them have been subjected to that kind of aggressive content at very young ages) Now we have young humans who lack emotional relationships who crave attention and connection. They are incredibly insecure and have no understanding on how to channel their frustrations in healthy ways so they resort to self destructive instant gratification. So they "hook up" and I can only imagine the things that go on in those moments realistically that they do not want to talk about as it is traumatic, confusing, embarrassing, and even though they won't admit this they probably feel shameful too. Yeah maybe not all but I would imagine just having sex with a bunch of random strangers is going to lead you into uncomfortable, risky, pressured compliance, and even dangerous situations. Just stating the obvious reality 🤷♀️
I always say I am so happy that I am not single because I know for a fact I would not participate in the current "dating" world if I was. I have the role of trying to comfort my single friends who are struggling to find anything real because too many people in this generation are not interested in putting in the work to be emotionally vulnerable and put themselves out there to find someone to commit to. They are so afraid to just be direct with someone and express what they are looking for. Men are afraid to say the wrong thing to a woman who might take it wrong, and women are afraid to allow a man lead them in any way.... I think more people than they let on actually want traditional relationships they are just too afraid and are completely lost on how to get there. Sad world we live in....
Good post!
I hear ya buddy
One hundred percent agree. Truly a mess.
Well said
You should write a book on this...oh you already did 🤷
I realized I was using "like" SOOOOOO much (and still do sometimes) because I felt pressured to come across as not being intelligent around the boys I liked. If I was articulate, I would get called a "know it all" and people acted like I was intentionally trying to make them look stupid and get offended. So I learned to use my words in a way that made others feel as though they were smarter than me. This got so bad in one particular relationship I was in to the point where I literally just stopped speaking and if I did speak I always phrased it as a question for the other person to approve or disapprove. There's definitely a chance this girl is actually very intelligent but learned to speak this way to shield herself from abuse. Or there's a chance this is just the degradation of society and language as a whole...... Who knows.
That's weird. As a man, that wouldn't make a difference to me if you spoke like you were highly intelligent. I guess it could be a little emasculating I suppose because I would feel a little stupid assuming your vocabulary was really THAT articulate and if your ideas turned out to be better than mine 95% of the time. Then I'd feel weird Lol. I've dated a girl before that knew more vocabulary than me. Didn't really bother me.
Communication is key to long-term relationships. If I dated someone with extremely poor communication I would wonder just how long that relationship would last.
@@wombat5252 I think it stemmed from severe insecurities... On both sides. I was definitely insecure about how I was being perceived and they were insecure about being with a girl who might be smarter than them. These were not healthy relationships by any means. And I say "girl" and "boy" because that's what we were. Definitely not grown mature adults. Fortunately I escaped the cycle of codependency and abusive relationships.
@@wombat5252 I also look back on my younger self and realize that I'm sure I did come across as a know-it-all. I don't think it's that I was smarter, I just had broad vocabulary because I've always enjoyed reading and was always ahead of the curve in that area. Couple that with an extremely sarcastic sense of humor and I can see how someone might have felt talked down to.
From personal experience I can tell you that a conversation with an eloquent, intelligent woman is always preferable than the opposite be when we were teens or as adults.
It is a shame you were pushed into backing away from that or having a sense of humor, but glad to hear you came back to who you were.
How come no one cared about the ageism in rejecting the oldest woman in the world??
It's amazing we are still talking about this. It's so stupid, theses people are crazy.
I love how Ben is so respectful, he says “I believe it was god but you can believe whatever you want if it makes you feel any better” I personally think it’s god too, I really appreciate you ben
When I was younger I refused to say God or God's will or God's rights because it seemed wrong to me. Now I accept it but for a long time I would still use the word "nature" in place of God because it seemed more acceptable too many people
@Skye I'm pretty sure it's not God's plan or his will for a man to mutilate his body to become a "female." If it was, he would've made that man female.
Yes but funny how quick atheists are to 💩💩 on a believer. Sorry but 9 times out of 10 it just makes SOME atheists come off as jealous, bitter, or just plain assholes.
@@skye.325 well god came to be to explain all the unexplainable so saying natures way makes sense.
Umm who is Beb lol
She's using the word 'like' as a pause filler and discourse marker. Many people will verbalize the spaces where they're deciding as they speak what the next word or phrase will be. A lot of people use 'um' or 'er', ah, etc as a filler. Once a person becomes aware that they're doing this, they can stop.
So, -- see wot I did there? -- I don't find this young woman -- which she is, she is not a "girl" -- "Confused", she's just -- see wot I did there again? -- not practiced at public speaking.
Not the girl randomly saying “you look like you have a loose butt hole” 😂😂😂😂 2:09
That girl was a linguistics professor before this interaction of insanity
This is a FANTASTIC analysis of male/female relationships, Mister Shapiro! My first wife, may she rest in peace, and I had eight children, and we "knew", from the time we were in high school, that that was what God intended for us.
I take some solace in knowing that we improved the gene pool, no matter how slightly.
Congratulations on your fourth; and, God willing, may you have many more!
Ben: They cover everything from sex to dating.
Me: Wow, they cover a whole range of issues.
That was my underwhelmed reaction. However, from sex to dating really SHOULD be a decently broad range, it's just a sad commentary on today's moral bankrupty that it isnt.
She's very likeable.
You can tell that poor girl is super nervous.
Bad parenting…..teach your kids the truth - along with some discipline - and none of this BS in society would be happening. Simple solution.
It would be awesome to see you on their podcast and I’m sure those girls wouldn’t even last long by listening your perspective and viewpoints and they will already rage quit 😂
No, that podcast is awful and the hosts are almost equally as dumb as the guests he has on
It is totally disrespectful for one person to tell another what they HAVE to like and who they have to sleep with.
Also an absolutly hypocrisy because I bet these straight women would always prefer date biological males than a trans men with vagina.
Trans woman prefer date with biological males than trans man... So yeah not even the trans themselves wanna date trans people
When people use the word like a lot really gets under my skin. I wonder if I’m the only one.
Before the dude even answered the question I can hear multiple women in the background saying "the oldest".
If you ask a modern women on a date quickly she will think your trying too hard. They have done this to themselves.
Fax. Women don't seem to understand cause and effect.
That's one reason that there are so many single guys these days. If a guy can get sex on a regular basis through one night stands he's far more unlikely to bother with the whole commitment thing. You're right, females have devalued themselves sadly.
Or drag you down because she thinks there is better or just feels like you are not good enough lmao.. they are the ones who promote talking stages we as men would rather talk in person.
My read: she adopted valley girl vibes but is actually smart, and then nervousness got the COMPLETE better of her.
@beastbombshell3589 agreed.
I think it’s a nervous tick from being on air and on the spot. When I was in med school we practiced talking with patients (paid actors) with breaking bad news (terminal diseases, loss of a loved one etc). These were recorded so we could rewatch them together with the class and go over what we did right or wrong. In 10min I said “like” roughly 110 times. I counted. I don’t even say like that much. I was just nervous.
It's so wonderful to see men acknowledging biology when women seem confused.
That *like * girl is hurting my brain
Saw that clip. The “like” girl was delusional thinking she was “dating” some college athlete in another state exclusively when it was painfully obvious she was a side chick.
It should be noted, she said she was leaving before the question was given. It wasn't due to the question and answer. But her reaction is still crazy.
Oldest women in a second bro! wth?
“These are people in a state of constant confusion” I couldn’t help but 😂
My instinct was always to reserve my body, mostly because why would I risk the consequences with someone I didn’t know that well who may or may not leave me hanging because he could? Why tie yourself to someone you might not even like? It helped that I was literally related to most of the guys my age in my town growing up and that I had plans for my future. The end goal, as Ben says, should always be in the back of your mind, whatever that is.
For her, and others that speak like her, saying "like" or some other word or phrase is something that is just done automatically, and if someone brought it up and challenged her to not say it, she coud probably not even speak. Just like if someone always moves their hands when they speak, you can pretty much silence them by holding their hands still. It is not necessarily from a lack of intelligence, just a habit that she has formed from using it so much. Most likely to give her time to think as she is speaking.
It's the brains way of loading the next thought. Same as 'uhhh' and 'umm'. Some do it without thinking they are doing it.
@@robertc49 Exactly! Everyone does it, some do it verbally, some do it silently, some do it with gestures. Some people can do it much faster than others so it is not even noticeable, but we all do it one way or another.
Its hard to tell like if she like just likes being like that, or like really 'LIKE' likes being like that, like literally. Right?
It’s so rapey to have a tantrum over a person not wanting to sleep with a particular person or group
I’d hate to be in a talking stage with her. Omg.
I barely made it through the talking stage in this video.
You mean the grey-shirt girl? She may sound dumb, but she has a nice face/body/voice. I could be in a "talk stage" for all-day long.
Like why would like not like the like taking stage like come on 🤣🤣
Your head would explode, as in "Scanners".
Me too! But that's why she has her boobs out.
Thank you for this. I'm 27 and having the hardest time dating. It's been impossible for me to find a guy to commit to me. Exactly like the girl in the video says, as soon as I develop feelings for a guy, he says he doesn't have time for a relationship and he leaves. This has happened so many times, I'm starting to lose hope...at least after watching this video, I know I'm not the only one
27M here. At least you can get guys interested in you in the first place. I’m like a 5/10 so girls don’t even bother looking my way
Girl I feel you. I’m 26 and have a lot of guys interested, but none are Christians like I am. ☹️
@@huggleskuishyworking out, staying groomed and eating right go a long way, if you aren’t already doing it. Guys look primarily at how a girl looks and everything else comes second, but girls aren’t like this. We assess more holistically. If you’re average looking but also confident, emotionally mature, funny, masculine, and ambitious, you’ll get girls attention. ☺️
I'll be 34 this yr, a woman & have never even kissed a man 😭
Speaking from the other sex, I've noticed a lot of similar complaints from guys on this topic too (I've mostly been out of the dating zone while I've taken care of my schooling).
Don't lose hope.
A lot of this nonsense was experimented in nations like the soviet union decades ago, and I think the disaster it wrought is at least part of the reason they've gone so hard and fast back to Orthodox Christianity.
It's likely to be the same here: we're suffering for messing with the natural way over the past few decades, but on the bright side, so long as by God's grace we don't utterly destroy ourselves, we'll come out the wiser for it, and with a new appreciation for those boundaries that help to make things clear.
This is excellent. Articulated so perfectly.
The thing that really bugs me about these convos, is that it’s always women that seem to be defending something that is extremely harmful to the value of a woman in itself. I do not get it
That “like” girl is so adorable and precious. I hope she’s okay.
I feel so sorry for those girls.
She got really upset… is she trans?
The moment she opened her mouth she gave herself away.
“Like” Generation Z is in trouble, they are alliterate, can’t have a decent conversation about a social topic without their emotions getting involved. Examples in this video are very precise.