hey girl, let’s stop comparing ourselves 🤍

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  • thank you for watching!! keep loving & taking care of yourselves x
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КОМЕНТАРІ • 169

  • @chituwachengo4997
    @chituwachengo4997 Рік тому +12

    That one lash chile😭❤️

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому +5

      🤣🤣😭😭 I was editing and I was like yhu I know I’m going to stress my coffee beans with this lash

  • @rosetheking
    @rosetheking Рік тому +85

    This was also the reason why I stopped posting on youtube, I felt inadequate compared to my peers and that my videos felt like they weren't good enough. But yeah, staying rooted in God definitely helped me overcome.

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому +24

      you’re 1 of 1 bestie.. don’t forget 🤍

    • @palesaneo3817
      @palesaneo3817 Рік тому +3

      Me too sis. I would compare with the UA-camrs who have 'made it'.

    • @Carol0110
      @Carol0110 Рік тому +3

      Talk about it sis that's what am going thru right now,feel demotivated been comparing myself to some other UA-camrs them getting more views and me not ,making me feel like quiting thank you for sharing this

    • @rosembali3415
      @rosembali3415 11 місяців тому

      @rosetheKing Your content is nice...you got yourself a subbie❤

    • @Lesego_Ngwane
      @Lesego_Ngwane 10 місяців тому

      Felt this I can relate I stopped comparing myself to other people and create videos I like and it’s been much better

  • @kamogelomaile
    @kamogelomaile Рік тому +17

    One thing God was yelling at me about this week, was this. Like “how are you comparing yourself to other people who weren’t even made in My image?? You’re so perfect - I dress you better than I dress lillies and yet you still think you’re inadequate…”
    Had to straighten myself real quick lol😭

  • @lolahphoi7005
    @lolahphoi7005 Рік тому +33

    Followed you for hair care, stayed because of your growth, you are so authentic and relatable ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому +2

      I appreciate you!! thank you sm ❤️

  • @Christineidaki
    @Christineidaki Рік тому +10

    You are doing amazingly good. When you felt you aren’t doing as your peers, there’s someone else who is inspired by you❤

  • @gloria770
    @gloria770 6 місяців тому +2

    Hey Clarissa, I am from Uganda and been watching your videos since 2021. I started watching you for personal hygiene videos. At the time I was just starting to learn how to look after myself and you gave me so much motivation to get myself together too. Your videos are so positive and such a peaceful space for me.

  • @Miss_natal
    @Miss_natal Рік тому

    Girl I just love you 😭❤️ I love how much you’ve grown from our Mophato Clarissa to content creator Coffeenomilk🥹❤️ you’re such an inspiration man, love your authenticity! It’s how you laugh at yourself and things you did when you would drink😂😭 same fr😭

  • @Khanyisa_leeuw
    @Khanyisa_leeuw 11 місяців тому

    Thank so so much for this video bestie I needed to hear this🥺❤️God bless your beautiful heart

  • @myvickire
    @myvickire 10 місяців тому

    I love your content but more specifically I love your authenticity, it's inspiring. ❤❤❤

  • @nomasontomthethwa8526
    @nomasontomthethwa8526 11 місяців тому

    I’m a newbie and I love this channel. Thank you for being authentic ✨

  • @rachelkayz
    @rachelkayz Рік тому +21

    I am also an oversharer and i feel like i exposed myself to literal bad energy because of that but listening to you makes me feel like i am not alone and as someone who is in media/Yt haha this is very hard to control sometimes but God has our backs. Thanks girl for the word

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      thank you for sharing your takeaway!! I’m glad you got this revelation as you watched ❤️✨

  • @Kelesitse.m
    @Kelesitse.m Рік тому +7

    Just yesterday i was thinking about how i stopped uploading videos because i felt like i am just inadequate to be a fulltime youtuber. Your upload came at the right time & i highly appreciate it so much. I shall get back in the groove & STOP comparing myself with others.

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому +1

      exactly bestie!! I absolutely love that for you bby❤️❤️

  • @Mbalenhle_Zulu
    @Mbalenhle_Zulu Рік тому

    I personally needed this🥺❤️thank you sm❤️

  • @kefilwemashishi1607
    @kefilwemashishi1607 11 місяців тому +6

    This channel is quiet the safe Space for us girlies 🥹 keep it up baby girl 😍❤️🔥

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  11 місяців тому

      thank you bestie 🥺❤️

  • @chechesue
    @chechesue 11 місяців тому +1

    Thats the reason I stopped being consistent on UA-cam 🥺I feel like my life has to look a specific way🥺and not giving myself grace on how far I have come..not feeling enough cause people online,my age are doing so much.. forgetting life is different for everyone..
    I needed to hear this especially from someone I look up to🥺This video is so validating 💞Thank you so much 💞

  • @user-px3xw8fl8b
    @user-px3xw8fl8b Рік тому +2

    you such a breath of fresh air 😍😍 i mean i can watch you videas whole day every day gal ,you are flames

  • @AngieMornah-gk9no
    @AngieMornah-gk9no 10 місяців тому

    Sis I've always loved you for what you do. Don't give up cos you inspire me

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  10 місяців тому

      never that!! thank you bby❤️

  • @paristotheworld
    @paristotheworld Рік тому +3

    Omg I had to hear this .Just yesterday when I started deleting videos on my channel thinking am not good enough.
    Thank you bestie for this message ❤

  • @kamogelomagole1880
    @kamogelomagole1880 11 місяців тому +1

    What’s crazy about this video is that I’m a new UA-camr and lately I’ve been really hard on myself. Very much comparing based on no grounds. I stumbled across this video and I’m thankful ❤. Thanks Mama

  • @themzie
    @themzie Рік тому +1

    What a graceful video 😢 God bless you Clarissa ❤ and thank you for sharing we appreciate that so much😊

  • @Nokuthaba_M
    @Nokuthaba_M Рік тому

    This was so wholesome and calming 🧖‍♀️,something bout the whole skin care and chat session.I’m learning a lot about skin through and sis you got me wanting to jump on that CeraVe wagon😭

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      thank you sm bestie, I’m glad you enjoyed 🥰! and yess to the cerave cleanser

  • @kiingmomo_
    @kiingmomo_ Рік тому

    really needed to hear this🤍God bless you

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      God bless you too bestie, appreciate you❤️

  • @GorataK
    @GorataK Рік тому +1

    The timing of this video is just great! Important conversation!

  • @boitumelodibetso8719
    @boitumelodibetso8719 Рік тому

    This was so wholesome. Thanks for sharing bestie❤❤

  • @nokubongagama
    @nokubongagama Рік тому +9

    Don't forget, we do not skip the ads anymore.❤

  • @silindokuhlekhubonesmoments
    @silindokuhlekhubonesmoments Рік тому +1

    What an amazing video ❤❤..I love you so much ..I needed to hear this today so I have been comparing my UA-cam channel views with other creators views thinking I am not good enough because people don’t watch my channel like they do with other creators like they will subscribe and not watch ..I started feeling discouraged but something within me was telling me to keep pushing and keeping doing me and stop comparing myself and I don’t want to lie after stopping I feel good even if I don’t have a lot of views I am okay with that because I know I am doing Me and I am happy ❤

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      I love this for you bestie ❤️❤️✨

  • @nokukhanyamakhosazana8418
    @nokukhanyamakhosazana8418 Рік тому

    This is so relatable and all that you said is something l needed to hear. It is something that you also needed to remind yourself. You can never be someone else but all you can be is yourself and you do that perfectly. God did not promise that life would be easy but He promised to be with us all the way.
    You are doing your best and that is all that matters...we do not expect perfection from you.
    We love youuuuuuuuuuu🥺🥺🤍

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      amen bestie! thank you for sharing your takeaway, I appreciate you ❤️❤️

  • @Keo_raatile
    @Keo_raatile 11 місяців тому +3

    Ohhh Coffeeeeeee ❤😭you are taking the words out of my mouth. I wanted to take a short clip and repost but everything you say means something and relates with me . I'd like if you ever come across this comment to check Galatians 6:4 I made it my wallpaper for laptop to refer back to when I'm overwhelmed by school work after closing all those tabs. We are subscribed to this channel because we fell in love with who you are. We are here for Coffeenomilk doing what she does best and that's being yourself . One thing your consistent with is being real and that's what keeps us here. Thank you so much❤

  • @XolelwaNgwane
    @XolelwaNgwane Рік тому +9

    It's really beautiful to witness your growth. I remember the first time I saw you was 2021 if I'm not mistaken and you were celebrating your 50k subbies. Still having a bit of a challenge with my channel but the truth is you just need to be yourself and not copy someone else. Thank you so much for sharing ❤️

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому +3

      thank you sm for watching.. appreciate you❤️❤️

  • @fungaimushambi4717
    @fungaimushambi4717 11 місяців тому

    Great video Clarissa. Please share with us the maintenance vlog we miss those too! Cerave is my plug too!

  • @nah_oh_mee
    @nah_oh_mee Рік тому +1

    I love listening to you, You are so authentic love that! also stinking cute! love how you cover your face when you blush

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      omggg🤭🤭!! thank you bestie 🤣❤️❤️🫶🏾

  • @kealebogawanitah4244
    @kealebogawanitah4244 Рік тому +2

    "The lashes are throwing gang signs" That was so hilarous😭😭

  • @KabeloMokhine
    @KabeloMokhine 11 місяців тому

    New Bean added😊❤, I love your content and i love the authenticity 👌

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  11 місяців тому

      thank you bestie 🥰 and welcome!!

  • @rosarosalina668
    @rosarosalina668 Рік тому +4

    You’re such a super good vibe to me bestie ❤❤❤a notification from your channel feels exciting ❤❤ I am a loyal coffeebean

  • @sibahlem2829
    @sibahlem2829 Рік тому +1

    You're doing amazing! 🥰

  • @kenanaokennymathaithai3812
    @kenanaokennymathaithai3812 Рік тому +1

    Thank you for sharing this with us.... God bless you Bestie 🙏💖

  • @naangokainge
    @naangokainge Рік тому +4

    Class ended early and I got a notification 🔔. Today's a good day 🥺❤️

  • @veronicaperkins963
    @veronicaperkins963 Рік тому

    Congratulations for being sober from alcohol I'm so proud of you hun

  • @onankiesdiary1154
    @onankiesdiary1154 Рік тому +4

    Loved this video!!❤
    omg,heavy on the "not gonna have fun because you're not drinking".. it's a weird concept tbh..
    Or sometimes people assume you're a preacher's kid for not drinking😂

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      I’m glad you enjoyed bestie!!❤️✨

  • @OlgarVMotaung
    @OlgarVMotaung Рік тому +3

    Half way through the video and I just wanna say i am an over sharing person I’m only realising lately and thank you for over sharing this part because I thought I’m the only one. For me my thing has been God allows situations in my life so I can see his greatness n that my experiences are not to be hidden but shared so others can relate learn and appreciate God more but with that pure intentions I still find myself in trouble with people that use such against me and now I wanna lean more to God about anything and everything and let him guide me on who I can and can not share with and maybe sometimes I seek validations with things unnecessarily from others instead of God and truly our journeys are different❤❤ authenticity all the way bestie
    I swear I wait for your videos to come out then feel good it’s hard for me to look up other UA-camrs because I look for you in their content and child…it’s not fair I know but I do and then just wait for your post 😂😂😂

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому +1

      yeah we definitely need discernment for what we should or shouldn’t be sharing ❤️. thank you for sharing your takeaway and your kind words as well.. I appreciate you!!

  • @FOREVER_MATHIYANE
    @FOREVER_MATHIYANE Рік тому

    Preach girl ❤

  • @nosiphomzobe
    @nosiphomzobe Рік тому +4

    You doing great sis. No reason to compare at all

  • @amogelangkhubai4198
    @amogelangkhubai4198 Рік тому

    Love you so much😍😍😍❤️You are amazing 😍

  • @indi.sp3
    @indi.sp3 Рік тому +3

    "For without me you can do nothing" - this line is giving Mattews 19vs26. *with man this is impossible but with God all things are possible*

  • @user-tj5yy9ek5x
    @user-tj5yy9ek5x 11 місяців тому

    Thankyou for answering back

  • @mphompho9030
    @mphompho9030 Рік тому

    Notifications gurlies😋♥️♥️

  • @Keziah_Mumba.1
    @Keziah_Mumba.1 Рік тому

    First video I saw when opened the app and I'm like "yes!" ❤

  • @jenniferchiveya9068
    @jenniferchiveya9068 Рік тому +2

    Omg not this video reaching me at the perfect moment 😢

  • @NatashaEze
    @NatashaEze Рік тому +1

    Look who uploaded a new video!!!!🎉🤎

  • @phumzilemazibuko9194
    @phumzilemazibuko9194 Рік тому +2

    I took that verse so quick and prayed on it because this is the verse I have been looking for. Seeing your growth in the Lord is so amazing. Shadow work in the Lord hurts but it is worth it.
    .❤
    If you're looking to repair your skin barrier try the SBR night repair it is better than Laroche 😢it's sad to even say but hey it's good.

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      I’m glad you did bestie ❤️❤️
      isn’t sbr cream comedogenic 🤔?

    • @phumzilemazibuko9194
      @phumzilemazibuko9194 Рік тому

      @@coffeenomilk I don't think it is bestie. Or you can try the fundamentals skin barrier cream

  • @Stacey.Kapula
    @Stacey.Kapula Рік тому

    we love you bestie!🩷

  • @cerenasejour
    @cerenasejour 11 місяців тому +1

    I’ve definitely been comparing myself to others that’s why I really don’t like being on social media but I’ve been reminding myself of who God says I am🦋

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  11 місяців тому +1

      I love this for you bestie 🥺❤️

  • @Khanyisa_leeuw
    @Khanyisa_leeuw 11 місяців тому

    We love you too❤️

  • @simply_fatima_amiri
    @simply_fatima_amiri Рік тому +2

    Love your channel girl, love from tanzania❤

  • @waronagoitsemang2720
    @waronagoitsemang2720 11 місяців тому

    Appreciate you so much Coffee🥹

  • @tinotendamakova5563
    @tinotendamakova5563 11 місяців тому +1

    New subscriber here, love this familu

  • @thabisaaddea8320
    @thabisaaddea8320 Рік тому +1

    Love your skin babes🔥🔥🔥💯❤️

  • @Omolemokeziah_
    @Omolemokeziah_ Рік тому

    Love you back loads ke sana❤

  • @palesaneo3817
    @palesaneo3817 Рік тому +1

    My affirmation is....your tribe will find you. That has been working for me as a new youtuber also in business. People who need your products will buy. That way you wont waste time trying to convince someone to buy.

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому +1

      100% I always mention “your audience will find you” 💞

  • @sangekazi8025
    @sangekazi8025 11 місяців тому

    This was not just a skin care video, this was a sermon!

  • @naomimbewe9374
    @naomimbewe9374 Рік тому +2

    Bestie, you should make a video with your sister next time....about growing up together and your relationship with each other...yeah such...it would be nice 😢😊

  • @elizabethletsoso2558
    @elizabethletsoso2558 Рік тому +3

    Your skin is skinning coffeenomilk(Black Coffee) ,❤️

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      not black coffee please 😭 thanks bestieee ❤️!!

    • @elizabethletsoso2558
      @elizabethletsoso2558 Рік тому

      @@coffeenomilk I'm sorry about black coffee girl

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      @@elizabethletsoso2558 lol don’t apologise bestie 😅❤️

  • @LindisiphoApolis
    @LindisiphoApolis Рік тому

    Love you❤❤

  • @ittts_es
    @ittts_es 11 місяців тому

    You are far from lacking girl FAAAR

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  11 місяців тому

      thank you sm bestie ❤️❤️

  • @user-dh3fo9xi7e
    @user-dh3fo9xi7e Рік тому

    Love your skin love

  • @ntokozomagwaza601
    @ntokozomagwaza601 Рік тому

    That lash is stressing me😹😹😹😭

  • @aphiwetshiki4934
    @aphiwetshiki4934 11 місяців тому

    ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @sinegugungema5203
    @sinegugungema5203 Рік тому

    ❤️❤️❤️

  • @lebogang-sit
    @lebogang-sit Рік тому

    U are beautiful....u are my role model period💐i always wish like i want to become a UA-camr one day ....but lack knowledge 💔

  • @XolelwaNgwane
    @XolelwaNgwane Рік тому +2

    How did you know? 😢. Needed to hear this ❤️

  • @livingwithruth
    @livingwithruth Рік тому +1

    Your hair isn’t looking bad dear❤.Which camera do you use?

  • @busisiweab9123
    @busisiweab9123 Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤

  • @Hlengiwe0717
    @Hlengiwe0717 Рік тому

    ❤️

  • @dikeledidhlamini6890
    @dikeledidhlamini6890 Рік тому

    ❤❤

  • @twinmom9728
    @twinmom9728 Рік тому +4

    Why didn't you share this video yesterday 🥺 Me and Oversharing my things I need to call God first. Definitely am taking that ONE😊

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      ❤️❤️❤️ glad you enjoyed bestie!!

  • @iamstacyswift
    @iamstacyswift Рік тому

    Just want to say god lead me hear honestly thanks 🙏 this my sign 🪧

  • @jessicafianko
    @jessicafianko Рік тому +1

    Hiii Clarissa, Happy Friday 😊😊😊
    Wow wow wow the skin is looking great and glowing ✨✨✨
    Loved today's video 😄😄😄
    ❤❤❤

  • @bakangmahalelo5107
    @bakangmahalelo5107 Рік тому +3

    Hey coffeebean😊hey talking about over sharing yhoo😢that's me right here and it's something I am really trying to work on,may God help us

  • @Khanyisa_leeuw
    @Khanyisa_leeuw 11 місяців тому

    31:45 It will grow and Amen😊

  • @Miss_natal
    @Miss_natal Рік тому +1

    The ordinary in South Africa 😭 where?????

    • @KeabetswePPhadi
      @KeabetswePPhadi Рік тому

      Superbalist. And will be at Arc Store too from 24th of Jul (I hope that’s the correct date🫣 )

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому

      @@KeabetswePPhadi yep and more stores will be announced soon too and launch on the 1st

  • @user-tj5yy9ek5x
    @user-tj5yy9ek5x 11 місяців тому

    Can people with sensitive skin use these products

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  11 місяців тому

      my skin is sensitive bestie

  • @katlegokevinkalaeamotho5394

    I relate😢

  • @MbaliKM
    @MbaliKM Рік тому

    I wish i can remove that one lashes😄😄😄❤❤❤❤❤

  • @keengmokomane7881
    @keengmokomane7881 Рік тому +1

    ❤❤ 💃💃🇧🇼

  • @jedidiahgodsbeloved6605
    @jedidiahgodsbeloved6605 Рік тому +2

    If it were possible to buy your skin , I really mean it , yes I mean your skin in shops, it would always be out of stock because your skin would be flying out of the shelves .🎉🎉🎉
    Thanx for the response .

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому +1

      omggg🤣 dealing with hyperpigmentation rn but thank you bestie ❤️❤️

    • @jedidiahgodsbeloved6605
      @jedidiahgodsbeloved6605 Рік тому +1

      @@coffeenomilk Don't worry about hyperpigmentation , your spiritual person is all I love more ( I am 56 ).
      You are just me I never got to be .
      Keep being you .

    • @bibbydarealest1888
      @bibbydarealest1888 Рік тому

      I love you girl, 😘

  • @MbaliKM
    @MbaliKM Рік тому

    I use to struggle with acne and acne spots,but ever since i started double cleansing ma'am my skin is skinning,im nolonger getting acne that much and my spots a getting lighter and im getting my skin tone back and im glowing

  • @Kelesitse.m
    @Kelesitse.m Рік тому +1

    I aslo cant quote verses but i will tell you whats written in the word. Definitely not verbatim.

    • @coffeenomilk
      @coffeenomilk  Рік тому +1

      praying for the grace to be able to 🤍

  • @juliarabotapi527
    @juliarabotapi527 Рік тому

    Ag 🥹❤️❤️❤️

  • @AvuzwaKeei
    @AvuzwaKeei Рік тому +1

    Don't change just be yourself that's why we love you ❤ there's only one coffeenomilk🫶🏽😘

  • @ScissorN
    @ScissorN Рік тому +1

    Babe i love you so much … please assist i just recently had chickinpox at my big age and my body look like this🐞 🐆
    please assist with anything to remove scars 😂

    • @hazellazuli
      @hazellazuli Рік тому

      I had chicken pox when I was in highschool n I use the dove soap,the original one for my whole body, it removed them Shem.....maybe you can try that♥️

    • @ScissorN
      @ScissorN Рік тому +1

      @@hazellazuli 🥹😘😘 thank you so much babes i will try it 😃

  • @user-dh3fo9xi7e
    @user-dh3fo9xi7e Рік тому

    Love your skin love

  • @LungaConstable
    @LungaConstable Рік тому

    ❤❤❤❤